FLEA MARKET CONFRONTATION!

[@armanl827]

You were wrong for paying him without knowing exactly what you paid for. You were also wrong to expect him to give you a refund. He is not a retail store. You were wrong by saying “so that’s how you wanna do business” and fueling a confrontation. You should have been the better man, and asked if you may please have your money back. The right thing is for him to give you a refund. He did that. Remember, you could’ve handled the situation better.

[@americanarbitrage]

I disagree with pretty much all of this. He should give me a refund. That isn’t how he should do business…I simply told him, wasn’t rude, I didn’t raise my voice. The “confrontation “ was fueled by him not wanting to do the right thing

[@cyofoo]

@@americanarbitrage A deal is a deal. The responsibility is on the buyer to know 100% the terms of the deal BEFORE paying. The seller does not have to refund u for your mistake (albeit an honest one). And choosing not to refund u for your mistake is their prerogative and how they choose to run their business. U did not take responsibility for your mistake and verbally twisted their arm into getting a refund. Could the seller have provided better all-around customer service? Yes…but fundamentally they were not in the wrong, whereas u were.

[@WellnessWizdom]

Imagine thinking you have to be a retail store to do the right thing lol.

[@JoeBuck207]

That's total BS, I have sold at Flea markets and it can be loud and confusing at times and someone can come back after looking around and I'll give them a refund.

[@felixq1578]

​@@JoeBuck207no you didn't

[@Ampyang957]

You were in the wrong. He pointed out which coins were for $20. In fact he pointed them out twice with that trump cut out. Yet you try to sneak those classic coin in with the pile. That negotiation style of giving them money first to loosen them up,talking fast and keeping the poor guy talking while sneaking things your pile until the end while you scoop up everything only work for new sellers that guy wasn’t gonna let you take advantage of him. Sorry buddy just my opinion

[@t0manderson571]

Well said.

[@JoeBuck207]

That's not what I seen, the vendor was rude from the start.

[@dathunderman4]

I saw him do something similar in the yugioh video. He kept trying to sneak things into his pile and hope that the seller didn’t catch on.

[@nintendojunkie8185]

Maybe pay attention

[@americanarbitrage]

Maybe

[@JoeBuck207]

Really ? The vendor was mumbling and using a wand.

[@pauls-finds]

Watch it again. His wand never went over the ones Cary wanted. Cary is at fault for not watching his wand.

[@nfranks7747]

100% agree. Also, Cary asked the vendor 4 or 5 times the same question. He got the same answer. Anybody that says Cary is in the right just thinks the customer is right no matter what. They are also the crappy sellers on eBay.

[@williambrown2098]

Exactly why didn't the buyer the guy who made this video say oh I'm not interested in any of these points I'm just interested in this midset here by itself what will you take for that no no he tried to steal he really did completely ignore the mint set to the left AND FHEN TRIED TO PICK IT UP AND WHEN THE SELLER SAID NO NOT THAT ONE WHO SAID OH WILL THEY GIVE ME MY MONEY BACK BECAUSE I DON'T WANT ANY OF THESE COINS THAT WE WERE TALKING ABOUT THE ONES THAT I WAS HANDLING I WANTED THIS WHAT A LOSER

[@elroyborchert6944]

I get resellers trying to flip stuff online, but when they expect garage sale people and flea market vendors to sell their items at such a low price below value just so they have room to profit, and then act like they're getting crapped on if the seller doesn't meet them at their price then boo hoo to you!

[@writnnopinion3645]

Buyer is a slob and used to the McDonalds “ have it your way” motto .

[@JoeBuck207]

He was talking to his friend and the wand guy was mumbling.

[@rickdrumm6055]

Buyer was at fault.... period. He pointed to the right stuff and if you are dealing even as a customer ...... pay attention. It is just that simple. 🤣

[@JoeBuck207]

No he wasn't the Vendor was for not being specific.

[@TitsMcgee17]

​@@JoeBuck207wrong...you need to go back and watch again

[@jonnydcash9765]

Like how everyone saying “ good for you , way to stand up for yourself “ when it was your own fault for not paying attention .

[@americanarbitrage]

It’s almost like…your opinion is yours, and people may have differing opinions.

[@redwingdog22]

@@americanarbitragevideo pointed out the exact coins for sale

[@williambrown2098]

It's not that it wasn't paying attention he tried to steal from that guy because he acted interested in all of the coins that the seller was pointing out and then afterwards he tried to add in coins back he himself didn't even pick up like he was doing with all the other ones not to mention the seller ran his hand over all of the coins that he was selling as a lot the dude in this video is kind of pathetic in a pathetic way

[@teamacio9043]

@@williambrown2098 The buyer pointed to ALL the coins and said "all these" and the seller confirmed it by saying "all these". Then the seller confirmed 3 more times it was for ALL coins by saying "20 bucks for the whole lot... all these ,the presets,EVERYTHING... the whole lot". At no point did he say no those which the buyer pointed. He didn't say some coins were excluded, he said the opposite, "everything". So he tried to finesse the buyer. His reluctance to give refunds is the evidence. When he decided a few bucks of profit were not worth the risk for escalation he gave him a refund.

[@gargantuangoose24]

@@americanarbitragenah you’re seriously in the wrong for this my guy. Your behaviour was disgusting, all over $20.

[@tomsawyer1906]

You were in the wrong. if you watched the video back he says just the one row of coins while you all were talking about the coins. so technically he sold what he said you wasnt watching when he showed what was for $20. So he got mad because you all made a deal on something and you backed out after you payed for them.

[@MotKcelles]

It’s the typical reseller mindset where they think they can get everything for a $1. This dude could make more actually working and getting a real job than crying over $20.

[@robertdonahue588]

I agree this guy is such a hypocrite, he was way too confrontational, this guy is a jerk

[@robertdonahue588]

Typical reseller mentality

[@beastmode334]

Regardless, he established he didn't want it and hadn't even taken them from the table. Just acknowledge the buyers misunderstanding and give him his money back no big deal

[@JoeBuck207]

Wrong , the Vendor was not specific about his coins.

[@williambrown2098]

You knew exactly what coins that he was talking about he pointed them out more than one and then you tried to grab coins that were to the side you were trying to run a little crap back friendship and then after it fell through you're like oh my little plant failed I'm just going to take my money back you're schmuck lol you already gave over the money he didn't have to give it back I mean you have it recorded you said yeah all these ones right here 20 bucks all right man here's your money thanks and then you're like oh these ones too and he's like no then I wouldn't have bought it then once did you mention the other meant set you tried to add it in after the sale and seeing how nobody's pointing this out I guess they're not very smart I'm talking about your viewers

[@lisawhitworth3216]

YOU misunderstood him. You were in the wrong.

[@JoeBuck207]

The vendor mumbled and had a sloppy table and refused a refund he was wrong

[@TitsMcgee17]

​@@JoeBuck207wrong lol

[@mackataz1605]

Refunds are iffy. He literally told you which ones are included originally, and then you paid him saying “I’ll take them”

[@lukesimpson3080]

The seller wasn’t in the wrong with those coins. It’d be hard to concentrate though with Dave in your ear 😂

[@mctmusik]

Okay so he said “except for these” when you were holding the ones u thought were included. Which he probably pointed with his head (I do this sometimes, point with my face) but u probably weren’t looking. Then he drew which ones he meant with his stick when u asked “all of these” but u drew with ur waving hand, the ones u wanted. So yeah this was hella confusing for both yall. But it’s always good to just keep it professional. He didn’t have to tell u u can’t afford it, as his last word. I’m just glad he gave u your money back. People real grumpy out there, and if u didn’t leave yet, i don’t understand why he can’t just honor the fact that there was miscommunication in the sale, at his place of business

[@purcuhset]

Yep. The seller was correct. When he asked which ones he specifically pointed to the ones in the row that didn’t include the coins in the case. Cary was wrong. Look like an honest misunderstanding though.

[@elroyborchert6944]

If you rewind and rewatch, the seller was very clear on what he was selling for the price stated. I don't believe he was in the wrong at all. He could have been more polite and returned the money without hesitation, OR he could not have returned the money at all. You suggested he shouldn't do business like that and he should of just been cool and gave the money back. I think you should of just been cool and followed thru with the purchase. After all, he's selling to profit and you're buying to profit.

[@JoeBuck207]

Wrong.

[@emoneykid2023]

More paying attention & less lollygagging with your buddy! This is a very serious business with people's livelihood on the line. That $20 was most likely going towards his son or daughters next meal. This is not a game. A deals a deal & you pay for what you agree to...that's that!

[@jimjones308]

First, last, and always: Caveat Emptor. Write it down on your hand or inside your wallet if you have to. Flea market etiquette is once the seller has your money, that's the end of the deal. Unfortunately the swarms of lame flippers and lisping content creators have taken what was once a very, very, fun kind of pirate capitalism and made it into what we just saw. Lame. He had your money. You got coins. That's the end of the deal. If you were not happy, felt like you overpaid, don't shop his table next time. Tell your boys not to shop his table. That's a reasonable response. But remember: There's no crying in baseball and no refunds at a flea market.

[@americanarbitrage]

Or….here me out. I ask for a refund, and get it. Forget outdated decorum that only serves the seller.

[@papabearpicker3821]

He tells the Seller, "You really want me to overpay for something i dont want?" And yet buyers overpay for items he sells. 😆 🤣 😂

[@dreamcrazy37]

Buyers want the items though

[@Marlah4]

You were completely wrong. He made it clear waving his sword thing over everything he was selling for the $20 numerous times. Pay more attention. I would’ve be pissed too after clearly telling you and Showing you what you we r getting for $20 dollars. Reneging the deal was a bad move. Should took what you bought and chalked it up to lesson learned on paying attention before handing over money.

[@jbrooks9567]

So it's not just me, the guy pointed out what he was getting beforehand. Shady buyer.

[@americanarbitrage]

@@jbrooks9567 you missed how I was confused the whole time

[@09113388]

I would have told you to kick rocks and all sales are final!!!! Clearly your fault!!!

[@817Godism]

bruh this was cringe af to watch, you legit didnt pay attention smh

[@juggalotusbdjohn]

Heckin' Steve. Exposing you resellers.

[@americanarbitrage]

I like Steve :) he’s a good dude.

[@thedudebryan98]

​@americanarbitrage hell yeah he's a good dude. He can sniff out a prick reseller 😂.

[@JoeBuck207]

And prick keyboard warriors.

[@S.A.D.i.S.T.I.C]

always do due diligence as a buyer. Just because us ebay sellers are used to returns doesnt mean its as common for others, especially in a flea market setting. know what you are buying before you hand over the cash. Not saying either party did anything wrong, but the onus is on the buyer.

[@bobcatsbargainschann2050]

I wouldn't have given you your money back that was wrong on your part not his he clearly said all of these coins

[@beastmode334]

Really? You'd be a turd vendor over $20 bucks of items that never left your table? Sucks to be you I guess.

[@WellnessWizdom]

You would have given me my money back or I would have taken all the coins. It would have been one or the other.

[@JoeBuck207]

Yeah, I would been triggered by that vendor also.

[@TitsMcgee17]

I mean he did tell him twice what was for 40

[@kellyredinger5974]

He said "there's 50 to 60 coins." AND "All the coins." Go back and watch it. The seller was a jerk.

[@masunshine5501]

That’s what it sounded like to me

[@purcuhset]

That’s not what happened. After he asks again which ones he specifically uses that thing in his hands to put to the single row of coins. Cary was wrong but looks like simple misunderstanding.

[@jasonfranks1096]

Pay attention, that’s what it boils down too, you knew what he said , you just went through them after the fact and because you’re cheap and found you wouldn’t make hand over fist on the coins you wanted to cry about it. Your fault in my eyes , not the seller, you would have been the same way. Just like when you say it’s to much etc , move on period simple as that.

[@jonnydcash9765]

The seller went up and down the coins that were for sale twice with wtvr he was pointing with. Didn’t point to ones you thought were included . Your own fault for not paying attention.

[@MotKcelles]

Seller was right it was the reseller who was a complete and utter moron and a jerk.

[@sherlar439]

I thought he was pretty clear, but if you weren't certain what was included, you should've asked before agreeing to the purchase. YOU were in the wrong, not the seller.

[@kylekarpovich1557]

You just overpaid and didn't like it.

[@FIREKING001]

Man you were 100% in the wrong 💀 even tried so hard not to cry. Man you tried to finesse him but got called out. Be a good person don't try to "confront" someone making a scene when you were clearly in the wrong. Just found this channel and damn its not worth watching. 😂 What a horrible person Man that's crazy.

[@americanarbitrage]

I’m not horrible at all and you should watch good stuff, you dig :)

[@willpratt5386]

Man up and admit you’re wrong. The dude was specific and if anything you were rude to him.

[@americanarbitrage]

@@willpratt5386 I wasn’t wrong, I was confused. I stood up for myself

[@americanarbitrage]

@@willpratt5386 im not changing my opinion, so be an adult and accept it

[@donnitacoble3952]

You was rude first. You asked and he said no

[@americanarbitrage]

I stood up for myself…but I respect your opinion on this :)

[@donnitacoble3952]

I know you did. He was rude its all good you got the money back not everyone is rude

[@tonyvelazquez7498]

Your wrong deal done your fault

[@williambrown2098]

And then he was trying to pressure the seller to include those coins that's what he was doing he's like oh I'll make an agreement for the coins and then I'll let him hold the money and until he includes this over here then I want my money back I'm going to act confused I'm going to act like I'm not being just a pathetic scummy person dude you got problems man you need to come give that dude $50 but you won't because all you are trying to do is take advantage of him the majority of people here don't understand your little game that you tried to play but there's a couple out there trying to rip people off

[@JoeBuck207]

Dude are you related to the vendor ?

[@The_Real_RG3]

100% what happened here

[@yourstruly4641]

That was totally your fault lol

[@BanditsBest686]

entitlement is a b%#$% with these youtubers aint it? they got the camera on and think people are so damn stupid watching their videos that they cant tell whats what

[@americanarbitrage]

Huh?

[@yourstruly4641]

@@americanarbitrage goofy

[@thedudebryan98]

You can still delete this 💀 bro saw the video and still thought he was in the right 😂😂

[@americanarbitrage]

😂 no way. I didn’t post the video because I thought I was right…I posted it because it’s good content. BIG DIFFERENCE

[@thedudebryan98]

@@americanarbitrage good content 💀you are a comedian too 😂

[@Swedishchef99]

You just described pretty much every video he's posted.

[@gettinggains1364]

@@americanarbitragehow is it good content

[@zippymufo9765]

Your fault.

[@gamblingguru2235]

U kinda were rude to bro lol prolly more it was 20

[@joshuawick5382]

$20 dollars was a great deal for all those coins. I don’t get why it was a big deal that he didn’t include that extra set. You should have just taken it.

[@Pattiepaul]

Hey Cary, I can’t believe people are giving you shit for this. I’ve been in retail it seems like forever and you are 1000% right. You didn’t walk away from the table. He’s a flea market seller and he might’ve been disappointed but he didn’t deposit your money in the bank or run a credit card through. Customer service means that you make right on the customer.

[@Manbearpig240]

Second video I watched of yours and seems by the comments on each video you're not a good dude to sell to.

[@iLoveVintageNYC]

These comments are mindblowing! I watched this twice, and I still thought he was talking about “all” of the coins. Cary literally asked “all of them? Or JUST these?” And his response was “all of them.” Seller was a real d-k saying “well, I’m not giving your money back.” Cary literally didn’t even take them away, he clearly misunderstood seller’s mumbling and waving around that thing. Unreal. Cary didn’t change his mind, he misunderstood the deal. Seller was the unethical one.

[@PaulWolf111]

I've now watched 2 of your vids, in the first one you slapped a guys prized collection of Pokémon and Yugioh cards around like a $10 hooker and then wondered why he didn't want to sell to you. In this one you heard what you wanted to hear and didn't listen, sliding stuff into your pile he'd already said weren't part of the deal. Not sure if a bit simple or a Comic Genius but ill keep watching for the killer laughs 😂

[@MissPam1978]

Cary I’m on your side you were quite clear with your hand motion which ones you thought were included and he agreed good job standing up respectfully

[@RobinGKT]

He said “all the coins”. You weren’t wrong about anything. He was just. A jerk. Yeah, he did give you a refund, which he should have, no question. But I think he threw in an insult too. He’s in the wrong line of business.

[@notsoslimpickin]

I think you handled the situation well. I can see where the seller was frustrated, he thought he made it clear. But people see things in a different light, refunding was the right move. I think you handled it just fine.

[@nabi5864]

The point WAS that regardless who was at fault , it was definitely a misunderstanding and the seller was trying to just basically trying to BAMBOOZLE the buyer by saying "Oh well tough luck" .... If he immediately walked away with it and came back then thats a different story .... But he was right there stating immediately that he misunderstood .... $20 is too much to resell for that lot ... It was probably only worth under $30

[@MotKcelles]

Typical self entitled reseller crying over nothing. Get a real job do your crying over losing out on making $6 on selling something on eBay. Stop trying to scam people over $20.

[@americanarbitrage]

“Real Job” it’s 2024….get with the times my friend

[@714milky]

Its a sly buyers tactic to want to include everything in the deal without seeming too interested in one specific item thus triggering the seller to perceive a higher value. If it wasnt true, you would have clearly stated so $20 for all the coins and lumped them in the pile. The seller should have also clearly stated with everything EXCEPT those.

[@DragonMastersFinds]

You handled that well. I get way more flustered when thing like that happen. But it’s also why flea markets are one of my least favorite ways of sourcing. Great meeting you that weekend. Can’t wait to come to another event ❤

[@americanarbitrage]

Good meeting you to brother! I’ve gotten better at those Situations, thankfully

[@ashinigamirises]

Get a actual job really need 20$ that bad😂

[@americanarbitrage]

I’m gonna stick with this, but i appreciate the concern

[@Pureblood547]

Coin back out guy

[@americanarbitrage]

🫡

[@reetsoz2592]

Cary you were correct. When you asked if the $20 was for all the coins you actually waved over all including the one he reneged on. Only after you paid did he then say no not that one. Good on you for sticking up for yourself. You handled it like a boss!

[@jonnydcash9765]

You need glasses

[@CamdencountyBatman89]

You were wrong he told you the front in what he pointed to you and now you’re playing the pillow crybaby victim. He clearly said and pointed to what you were buying when you were talking and said that he wasn’t including it and once money changes hands you flippers have a tendency on entitlement when you rethink the sale so you were wrong and your videos are cringe

[@jasonorozco729]

Is this in FL? Hope you do well with the event tix 🔥

[@undergroundgaming7053]

it looked like a honest mistake, to me it looked like he pointed to that row only, the seller never touch that case coins with that sign he was using for pointing.. very confusing.

[@Birddog4]

Good times & finds 🔥 Deals seem to happen fast & refunds are fine when confusion on either side. I got to meet a few of the guys Monday, sorry i missed ya AA

[@americanarbitrage]

I’ll see ya out there another day, I’m sure :)

[@Kristina-mm9ih]

I think he was rude, and it shouldn't have been a big deal. The only reason he did that was because he knew he was overcharging and would not be able to get that price again. I am glad you stood your ground; I have never heard either you or Rod be anything but sweet to people.

[@williambrown2098]

Maybe stick to being on your knees....

[@dallascotterill7370]

You said you were confused with the deal I reckon you realised you weren't going to make money then you backed out

[@freebird1ification]

i always make my pile and make sure of the price before i hand my loot over

[@americanarbitrage]

Agreed…next time

[@andreahenderson8719]

Resellers suck sometimes. They fell they are the only ones entitled to make a profit. I say this because I sell at flea markets too and you an idea of what you want to make and they always try to hurt your profit margin. Well that’s just my opinion but I rather not do business with them.

[@eileenalsobrook1281]

You were right and he was wrong! You asked about ALL the coins ! I’m in your side all the way!!!

[@davidnuzzi1608]

I’m surprised no one said this but even with the coins you thought was included, $20 wasn’t a great buy. It was better for you that you didn’t buy them

[@Legna1826]

Dude!! I can't believe you walked away! ! There was like 50 to 60 coins in that deal! The proof sets alone were worth the $20 bucks! The rest would have bagged you a profit on Ebay!😲😲

[@SportsRAPP]

We talked about tickets a bit in Phoenix last June. I would have grabbed those in a heartbeat for the $75 you paid. All you need is 1 big one hiding in there to hit the jackpot.

[@CranstonSandwich]

10:55 Interesting? Thats an interesting way to put it. Not sure why he was so rude, super simple to go “oh, ok, here is your money back.”… right?

[@TheThriftMomma]

It was a misunderstanding & the seller should have been more clear because he says ALL THE COINS. I hear that im taking all the coins! But you handled it very well, the seller on the other hand wasnt so nice.

[@typhfanuwu7526]

The seller with the coins definitely sounded like he was on something trump stick was literally weird how he kept pointing with it 😂

[@nfranks7747]

He showed you five times that it did not include the item you wanted with them. He told you at least five times that the item you wanted was not included. A ten year old should have been doing the deal for you. Also, why did you keep asking the same question, and the vendor would answer it. Then, you would ask the same question again. WATCH YOUR OWN VIDEO!!!!!!!

[@thriftingtiger]

People already trying to unload all of their Commonwealth Fleet EneMans. Practically giving them away at $1 a piece. Lol.

[@nemoh21]

While I agree the seller should have just returned the money instead of arguing with you. I will admit I would be annoyed if someone bought something from me and then said oh ya know I’m actually not gonna do it.

[@sandyburnette9364]

You did the right thing! He knew it was junk and couldn’t sell it is why he didn’t want to refund you. He was rude!!!

[@christopherleusner4385]

How was he rude lol.

[@americanarbitrage]

Appreciate the supportc

[@WellnessWizdom]

Dude literally said $20 for all of it lol.

[@sunilmohammed9995]

He was very clear, bro. It was your mistake . I've been watching your show. You do that alot and try and get over in sellers.

[@americanarbitrage]

Nonsense

[@donnaleigh2356]

I saw Aerosmith in 1976 in Birmingham, Alabama when I was 14 years old! How awesome a ‘76 Aerosmith stub was in that lot😊

[@hilarythain9709]

Good for you standing up to the coin guy. You were right about the refund

[@americanarbitrage]

Thank you 🙏

[@travisheidebrink3106]

Who's merch? Paul's merch

[@blkmaleinct]

Hope eventually you found this man and apologize for you misunderstanding.

[@ICYPROFITS]

He said except for these and pointed to them. You were talking to the guy next to you

[@joellen4878]

Good job Cary for sticking up for yourself!!!

[@kritsadventures]

Who knew used tickets could go for so much

[@fibersflowersandfinds]

I think you were in the right. The coins in the red case were part of what you looked at prior to him saying 'all the coins for $20', he clearly witnessed you examining that case. He only excluded that after you paid. Good for you for standing up for yourself.

[@dawnterry3107]

You are correct. He said for all of the proof sets and the others. Then he said no that is not included after you paid.

[@flipmanthefantastic]

Mad props for standing up for yourself. You handled it well, whereas I may have made the evening news.

[@jonnydcash9765]

Why it was his fault. He didn’t pay attention .

[@flipmanthefantastic]

@@jonnydcash9765 seller should have been explicit in what the deal was for, which he wasn't. Also, if you as a seller purposely confuse a buyer, which he did, just give the money back. Lemon squeezy.

[@forrest-resells]

😂😂😂 are you me?

[@flipmanthefantastic]

@@blastingoff I'm surprised you're intelligent enough to even read my comment.

[@LindaMosena]

Yaaa You, for standing up for yourself, and that is standing up for us.

[@robbrocki2724]

There is no doubt that you are in the right to ask for your money back while still standing at the table! That guy was a total jerk!!

[@Bella_Maree]

that guy was pretty rude to you not giving your money back straight away as well, thought he said $20 for all the coins, love your videos Cary 😊

[@americanarbitrage]

So glad you dig em! Thanks for the kind words

[@My-Life-Adventures]

I could see your confusion, first he mumbles and second was not clear on the lot by waving the Trump cutout lazily over the table. Seemed like he was trying to trick you by making the lot look bigger.

[@ThriftedSpirit]

na, I think you were in a right. Just a sorry thought it included this one, not interested.

[@PaulaJDW]

I would have done exactly the same thing! He stated "for all coins"...he was a rude ass!!!

[@Collectionof_dm]

I see the misunderstanding you waved over the ones in the case and in the row of loose coins. He waved over only the loose ones. When he waved over the row you were looking at the coins in your hand. As a reseller we’ve all had a time when we’ve had a misunderstanding during a deal. Making deals is exciting and it’s easy to get caught in the moment. Don’t sweat it bro it happens keep grinding 🤙🏽🤙🏽

[@americanarbitrage]

Will do :) appreciate the support

[@Jaysin5506]

11:50 he WAS really clear, on his end

[@mikeredd525]

Cary I dont see where you did anything wrong and yes he was rude.

[@gulfcoastsunset5879]

Carey I can totally see how and understand you being preoccupied w/ Dave standing right there talking w/ you and you might have misunderstood, and like you said, You never walked away from the table - you were right there and didn't even remove them from the table. That said, I do understand his frustration but he should have just said " Ok man yeah I cant include those- but here's your money back" and been done. He really didn't need to throw in that insult at the end like an A hole!! And like you said, defiantly make a pile next time, so its clear exactly what you want! But YES, you were reasonable in asking for a refund - due to miscommunication on both of your parts. On a positive note.... those tickets were awesome and that enaman plush HAHHAHHAAAA😂 Nice SCORE!!!👏✨

[@digimonrocks123]

I actually think you both were wrong. You weren't that wrong though, and the seller shouldn't have acted like that and just given your money back. very bizarre interaction tbh lol You were nice about it tho!

[@antonyrivers]

You could have totally took the set then and said, that was my understanding with the deal. So I think it's totally understandable if you back out, as he said the original deal, even if it was you thought it was, was not correct. Good on you for posting it too. I think it's great to show that side of deals. That vintage ticket lot is fire. I got jealous of your score.

[@americanarbitrage]

The vintage tickets are awesome…I really enjoy flipping them, very fun stuff

[@spawndembil]

This is how you lose viewers. You were clearly wrong. He pointed at the coins that are 20 bucks, if you didn't see him do it, you should've just taken the loss and not be rude about it. Now you're gonna loose viewers.

[@americanarbitrage]

I mean.. this has been out a month, and I’m up 1.8k subs :) I did nothing wrong…I was confused, when it wasn’t the deal I thought it was…I asked for a refund. He gave me a hard time. That simple

[@SamuelJ888]

I dont think anyone was necessarily wrong here. I think like what a lot of ppl have said was the communication was off. Even as a viewer, I couldnt understand what was apart of the lot. Idk coins but just seemed like it should been a lot more clear esp with how many items are on the table. So I wouldnt throw blame at Cary or the seller here. However when it came to the refund, I do think as a seller, you should be willing to offer a refund. Cary clearly was not trying to pull a fast one or anything and just didn't understand the deal. Its not like Cary took the coins home and opened them and etc. So a refund should be really easy. To kinda be stingy over $20 and make a customer unsatisfied is a poor business. Im happy he ultimately gave the refund.

[@americanarbitrage]

Exactly…the confusion was a part of this, but the real issue was the resolution, and how hard it was to get a refund :)

[@SamuelJ888]

@@americanarbitrage yep everyone in the comments just talking about the deal. I feel the refund part is more important

[@bethelin]

Really what the heck dude ,🎉You had the plastic ones in your hand 1st ,,,I sell at the flea market and people bring back stuff all the time -Fix ect

[@bobbybigfoot1163]

I’m sorry. Love your videos. But you was not paying any attention. And he was clearly showing you what you were buying. Next time. Make a pile and then ask for the price. Then go over everything

[@TalbotCountyPicker]

I agree with you!!! I hate confrontation but you were in the right. He should have gave your money back with no issue since you had not left the table yet.

[@scottmattern482]

That's not how contracts work. You agree to the term and it's final. If you don't understand the terms and still make the contract finalized by paying, you can't just decide to undo a contract that has been done. If the seller misrepresented something, then they would be liable. The buyer started a confrontation after he realized his mistake and started blaming the seller "if this is how you want to do business", as if the seller was the one in the wrong. The buyer should've explained what he didn't understand and politely ask for a refund, not start throwing a tantrum and personally attacking the seller for being unethical, when the buyer is the one being unethical.

[@Mitchybabysc]

No wonder you got made fun of on KZbin

[@americanarbitrage]

I can’t control what others do :) let them make fun, I’m a good sport

[@carolmacdonald4893]

You asked if it was all the coins and after you paid he said no to the ones you were interested in. Well done for challenging the guy and waiting for your money back, I’m not sure I would have been so calm and polite with his attitude

[@tuthmes]

Liberty nickels are garbage anyway and none of the coins were 90% silver (that I could see) I wouldn't have given him 5 dollars. 20 dollars? lol No

[@americanarbitrage]

I was planning on trying these on whatnot, see how they’d do :)