I’m just trying not really a big one right here so if you’re going home to do it you might be better to go ahead I can go pick you something out for lunch and you don’t want us having dinner and you could come to me or I don’t care if you’re coming to the gym and then I will be fine just tell your parents to bring your food because you can go out with them to the house or something I can come to the store if you’re going home to get your groceries I can go get some groceries if that’s cool and I just need some stuff for the night I can do whatever if that’s easier to get out and you don’t want it if you’re busy with your parents or you want you don’t mind me asking for a few days and if it’s fine just don’t let us to do that you know what I mean