The Calm after the Chaos | Joy and Austin's ♥️ to ♥️

[@juicie25bt]

Austin, I love that u said, "I married Joy, not my kids". That is very powerful & meaningful bcuz I think that's what determines a good/great marriage after the children r gone. Parents who don't think like that don't even like/want to interact with their spouse after the children r gone. Thank u for sharing that with us & hopefully parents out there will listen & learn something...

[@lizregan1949]

I wish I would have thought that way when I was married I gave everything up for the kids, then one day they grow up and leave and your left without knowing each other. When your in the moment you don't see it.

[@PrincessKarissa21]

❤❤❤

[@akferren1]

You’re suppose to give everything for your kids..if a grown up needs that much attention that’s a mental issue

[@shannonwadsworth3480]

People say a lot of negative things but the fact that y’all are actually thinking about when the kids are gone at your age and season of life is very refreshing. Date night takes on many forms and y’all have figured that out too. Props you guys! Also thank god Austin will save us all from every bug etc 😂

[@KatieLennox]

i love the way tgey communicate w each other and think about not just the present moments busy w 3 kids, still manage to make time for each other & also tgat they think about their future and their commitment to remain best friends no matter what and tgat tgey married each other not their kids wish someone would have said that to me maybe i'd still be married & our kids better adjusted. 😢 joy & austin are both such active parents & ppl who live life to the fullest. they're a great couple and devoted to each other as well as their kids. ❤when they first started courting i wasn't sure but they've both matured so much & bring out the best in each other!! ty for sharing your lives w us!

[@PaulaRowe-tz4rk]

My husband and I have been married for 47 years! We have 3 grown children that are married and now we have 6 grandchildren! Now it’s just my husband and I and we are more in love now than ever. Yes it was diffused at times but we worked on our marriage, life and children ups and down. Wouldn’t change anything in my life. You all are a great family!❤

[@chessyharris6200]

My favorite part of this video is when Gideon hugged you joy. He was so excited when you gave him praise for doing a good job. You and Austin are wonderful parents.❤❤❤❤❤ Austin loved the expression at the end.😂😂

[@barbvillarreal7440]

True love like youres is a precious gift from God💞🙏. My husband and I got married at age 19. We are now 70 and celebrated our 51st. wedding anniversary on June 24th 2023. We have four generations in pur family now. Our God is an awesome God and worthy of all of our praise 🙌 💞🙏

[@janetklumper6048]

Congratulations to both of you🎉

[@carolbullard7956]

I'm so grateful that my parents stayed married til "death do they part" Congrats on your Anniversary 🎉

[@barbvillarreal7440]

@@carolbullard7956 Thank you Carol 😍

[@barbvillarreal7440]

@@janetklumper6048 Thank you Janet 😀

[@monicamiller4049]

Congratulations! Like you, my husband and I got married young. We married at age 17 and are still happily married. We have been married for 45 years. Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story! ❤

[@lybrooks]

“When your kids are little they step on your toes, when they are grown they step on your heart ❤” ~ enjoy this precious season with your babies.

[@topazzsky]

You are so right. I raised my kids with plenty of love and attention qnd in adulthood my daughter turned when she met her guy

[@dianaholt9566]

Glad to see y’all making your family time a priority ! Kids grow up so fast !

[@carolbullard7956]

Hi Joy & Austin. My parents always said that days are long, but years fly by. How right they were!

[@debmarie55]

Austin's genes are strong! All 3 children are little clones of him. Keep being "intentional" and you'll never lose that spark.

[@Kiymee]

Austin is 100% great dad and husband and human being!

[@lisalundin3972]

When you're raising children, the days are long and the years are short.

[@angelmission]

Oh, Austin, don't dream for the future. Enjoy every present moment. Trust me, it goes by so fast and you will long for those days.

[@kaydublin5164]

Absolutely

[@bmarshall9118]

I agree with this. I was saying to a friend the other day that I look forward to the day my son is out on his own so we can enjoy each other again as just ourselves. As parents your job is to raise your kids with the tools to move forward with their lives and you get to watch them grow in adulthood as well.

[@KatieLennox]

awesome parents and kids! love this family! sometimes seems too good to be true but of course they aren't going to show the worst times. austin has evolved into an amazing hands on dad and he & joy complement each other & you can see the love between them. i love that tgey do simple family things & are down to earth. most of the duggars seem to be except jinger & i think that's jeremy's influence. i do love jinger though-she's a beautuful and sweet girl &im glad the girls all seem happy in their marriages and parenting. austin is so patient as a dad he teaches his kids a lot! i like how austin helps joy find her words and finish her thoughts..❤❤❤

[@TeresaEckert]

Hes adorable with the harmonica

[@ellyne3863]

Joy, I've been watching you on tv for a long, long time. I've always liked you - you seem like such a genuine person. I'm so happy and proud of you to see that you're real and honest with your feelings - and Austin seems like he does the same. Saying out loud and discussing the hardships and challenges of raising children, feeling pain/crying openly (not in this episode, but I've seen you both do that before and it made me like you both even more), etc. It is such a healthy step forward to accept all that we feel, and even further, sharing it with each other and your audience too. You're making a world of difference for your children by showing them all the ways that it's ok to feel ❤ I really dislike the 'enjoy every minute' commentary people make - with the best of intentions - but it makes real moms - and aren't we all real moms?? feel badly, feel like we're doing something wrong - you can't and shouldn't enjoy every minute because we need to feel it all to be healthy, whole people. Feel the frustration, the sadness but relish the good stuff, and there's so much good stuff. I wish instead of saying enjoy every minute, people said enjoy what you can. When my kids were babies, they are 4 and 7 now, but it was the hardest season of my life. The older they get the more I'm able to enjoy more and more of my days with them. And I'm so glad I didn't try to enjoy every minute - it would have made me feel guilty and all sorts of feelings that would be even worse than just accepting that this is hard. I am probably 15 or so years older than you (I'm 39...eeek!), but I continue to admire the wife and mother you are, and the person you've always been but the grown up woman you're coming to be. You're just such a sweet soul. I hope that you continue to grow, learn from others different than yourself, expand your horizons and keep an open mind when it comes to growing/learning. Keep on keepin on! ❤

[@karennicholson8562]

When my kids were this age, I used "Red light!" or "Green light!" when we reached intersections or driveways when out on walks. This made it more of a game and they stopped more quickly. Love your family and appreciate your videos!

[@donnafisher6212]

I like that grateful people are happy people.

[@adriennetochter6873]

What a fun day at camp! The walk looked beautiful. Gideon’s huge smile and hugging his mom after playing the song by himself was precious. 😊 Seeing you in your home, it’s clear you all enjoy each other. You are both such patient teachers, making those moments fun. Thank you for sharing your beautiful family. May the Lord continue Blessing you all. 🙏🏻

[@Kiymee]

I absolutely LOVE this family! Kindness, love, adventure, perfection!

[@nicolegordon129]

The kiddos are so sweet and precious. I love Gideon’s sheer delight at being able to play those few bars on the piano. I also love Gunner’s smile. It is the best. And Evee is so cute. She’s so curious about everything nature related. And she seems to really love her grandfather. Looks like you guys had a fun time relaxing and just being together. Sometimes simple can be so meaningful.

[@DoctorJoanieTool]

Those strider bikes are so great for young kids and their balance skills for riding a two wheeler when they are bigger. Such a great thing !! And starting those family walks/rides etc is such a wonderful tradition for their whole lives. Also, appreciated the talk about keeping your spouse a priority so that when the kids are off and launched - you two can enjoy each other forever.

[@gkskforever6909]

I miss the days of my children being young. I use to think this is hard. And I longed for them to become independent and grown. Now. I long for the days when they were so young. And wish I could go back Enjoy every moment!!! Time is passing us all by, So quickly. Don't blink.. blessings Austin Joy & Family ❤️ ( atleast I have my beautiful grandchildren.. being with them takes me back.. especially seeing my children in them!).

[@trumpwon8972]

I remained best friends with my husband. We don’t hold grudges and we are both quick to apologize and to forgive. I’m grateful to God for my husband 💛🙏🏻☺️

[@paulaeverist1230]

Don't be to anxious for the kids to grow up and leave, it's one of the hardest things I ever had to go through with mine. I long to do the baby toddler days over again.

[@daniellemayo4962]

Yep one day your wishing they would learn to crawl. Next time your wishing they would go to school, next wishing they could do everything themselves and once they do tour wishing they needed you for ever little thing again. A lot of people wish there childs life away so quickly, they forget to stop and enjoy each and every phase. Mostly due to being in the overwhelmed chaotic stages without much support. I wish it was easier to enjoy all the stages for many people unfortunately for some they don't have the support they need to better deal with the chaotic times. ❤

[@awesometaylor5881]

Love Grampas house the Horses. Zip lining. Looks like a Beautiful place. ✝️💖

[@tammyblankenship6786]

From a piano teacher 's viewpoint, Gideon and Evie are starting out great!

[@karinanderson2463]

What books are you using?

[@creedakesling5952]

Those babies are beautiful and so full of happiness ❤❤

[@sallysmith155]

I must say you are fantastic parents to your children.And it's lovely that you spend time together.i love watching your videos so looking forward to the next one.Have a lovely week all of you.😊

[@rubyhyams]

Joy, I can't express just how much I've come to look forwards to your videos. You're real and honest, and your vlogs are so heartwarming. You have such a beautiful family and I pray one day for God to guide me to the right man, just like He did you. I'm so glad to see you happy, living life and living for the moments.

[@marthabowers9045]

My kids are grown. Am alone but enjoy retirement. Life is good. Love your videos and seeing the outdoors. Thanks for sharing. Bless y’all from Texas.

[@debj4life478]

Thanks for sharing. Y’all are having the best time of your lives right now while your precious children are young. They grow up so fast. Blessings

[@shirleyschutt3959]

Me and my husband have been married for 44 years and we are still best friends. I love your family. I look forward in seeing your post's. ❤❤❤

[@susansheets6]

Tell Gideon I like his harmonica playing, and I love to see his sweet little face, all three kids are just so cute❤❤❤

[@lydm3398]

Evy so funny she loves the bugs. I foresee many jars being brought back to the home. Your analogy of friendship, love, marrige, children is spot on!🙌❤️

[@rainasuke]

Evy's little voice is so precious!

[@julietteford8391]

It's a Trill thing to see this humble family each week. Awesome family, never boring. Blessings to you always Forsyth Family ❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@karenmasek8422]

Enjoy those adorable kids,, stay best friends ,, know the days are long but the years are short😊

[@jenaemarieAZ]

That is such a truly romantic statement, Austin. Looking forward to the future and your married relationship.

[@brandic3612]

I love your little family Joy, your kids are precious. I know being on KZbin and having a public family can't be easy. I see the things these gossip pages and just people in general say, and THEY ARE JUST MEAN, EVEN EVIL! Being a mother isnt easy without people watching, and you and Austin seem to be handling it with such grace. The only people looking for every little thing to criticize, are the people who are avoiding looking at their own lives. Stay true to yourselves and let God guide you, not the critics, not the opinions of people on social media. You'll are so sweet, I love the new intro, and keep on being YOU! GOD BLESS 😊

[@beckyriege5572]

So true! 👍👍😊

[@deborahhopper2682]

This was a great video loved the time you spend with family but also your talk on your family walk was so great! Austin is so right he married Joy not the kids they will be grown and married with their own families and it will be you and him! My husband and I I have been in that season for a long time now, we have 6 grandchildren and we love it! Love Y’all! Love and Prayers Always

[@mermaidFl]

Thank you for taking us on your journey you are all down to earth and very relatable

[@martyfuller7837]

It is so awesome watching your family doing lots of things together! How fast the kids change! They are as adorable as ever!! God bless you and your family!🙏

[@debbiealtman5373]

Beautiful family. Yes, those years when the kids are small that fly by so fast. Glad you are making time for yourselves in the evening so you can spend time together. That’s very important to spend time together.

[@sarahwagner3909]

I love what Austin said he married Joy not his kids and he can't wait for the day for it to be just the two of them later in life, so sweet

[@Quaker-tc8ue]

It’s not sweet, and it will backfire on him.

[@sarahwagner3909]

@Quaker-tc8ue why is that? Your spouse should be your best friend that is who you are spending your life with, the kids grow up move away start there own life, so why shouldn't he look forward to the day that he gets to see his children grow up start there life and then get that one on one time with his wife again?

[@Quaker-tc8ue]

You are rather clueless. A parent should always try to have a good relationship with their children, because what happens when that parent becomes incapacitated to the point they can no longer live independently? Having his attitude towards his children means that instead of caring for/about him, they will say, ‘you ignored me when i was growing up, so I’m going to ignore you.’ At this point in society, MANY grown children are having to consider either moving in with older parents or having the older parent live with them. His attitude, he could die alone/lonely, and he’ll have only himself to blame.@@sarahwagner3909

[@beckyriege5572]

​@@Quaker-tc8ue He is not ignoring them in any way. What, do you watch these videos with your eyes shut?? He is always holding them, hugging, kissing rocking them. He wakes them, plays with them, and tucks them into bed at night. He could not be a more hands on father! He said that jokingly about their lives after the kids are grown, because he and Joy will have more personal time together. Geez, go back to Quaking, and shake some common sense and perspective into your head!

[@Quaker-tc8ue]

Another one who is clueless. I’m reacting to the COMMENT, NOT THE VIDEO. Does bullying me about my channel name help you feel better about yourself? If you knew anything about Quakers, you’d know that they *seek truth*, something that you apparently can’t deal with. But please, continue to make yourself look a fool to strangers on the internet, you do it so well. @@beckyriege5572

[@nancymcdowell7482]

Your babies have the sweetest smiles.

[@rosebojorquez1237]

Its very important to always make time for each other, marriage always takes work. Never take each other for granted because you never know what tomorrow will bring. You two are doing a good job!

[@HT-sh1yj]

Evie is no longer a toddler and is now a little girl! She is so adorable!

[@danasaley2025]

Such a beautiful family, makes me miss having my 4 sons as little kids and all the noise and chaos

[@susansmith6680]

Love how you and Austin communicate so well.

[@Kiymee]

Gorgeous and perfect children as well! Amazing mommy n daddy!

[@bobbijeffries1748]

You are doing a fabulous job. Love covers so much and it’s quite evident that your family loves being together. Good job❤️

[@sandystark1614]

“Grateful people are happy people”… amen!

[@reetayoung]

Your kids are so cute ❤. This is the best time of your life, when your kids are little

[@fishinrodd]

Evy makes me smile. She’s such a joy to watch. Thank you for sharing. From Mrs Fishinrodd.

[@pixieanna2058]

You guys are so precious, I love your little family.

[@VJ-ei3rb]

I love your family, you guys are so close as a family. You're a great example of a family to all those young families trying to make it work ❤❤❤😊🙏🏽

[@kyliestark7356]

That baby is magnificent and your in laws place is like a dream for kids. So beautiful xxx

[@lovlovlov05]

Grateful people are always happy people 😍

[@shannonpolk9366]

I always admired your moms patience with 19 kids. I know as she had more and you kids got older she had help. But she was an amazing mother and you having 3 you probably have so much more admiration to her for how she did it. ❤ Also does Gunner ever stop smiling. He is just a happy boy. 😊

[@awesometaylor5881]

Blessings and I love you all and your precious family. Raising kids does go back to quick and Id do it again if I could. Gideon and Evey are doing great learning music. My son and daughter have 🎶 music. It helps them focus.

[@ruthfoss8463]

Joy that is so true! I have enjoyed every stage of raising my children and enjoyed each one! The empty nest is my least fav! I miss my babies! All the smiles and words they say and things they do! Enjoy!!

[@margomackay5215]

Wow Joy, I love your family and I'm so surprised that Austin is such a family man.....he was quite stunning when you got married....but he's awesome to you and his children!!! CANADA LOVES YOUR FAMILY❤❤🇨🇦❤️❤️

[@lyndacrossman4101]

always be thankful to wake up every day...life is but a heart beat away,,,

[@jenniferfitzgerald8970]

Love your vlogs!!! Thanks for being willing to share your lives with all of us!!!

[@Annette1965]

I miss my girls being that age, even my granddaughter! 😂 My girls are 33 and 35 this past August and my oldest granddaughter is 16 1/2. While in the moment it seems like it will be forever till you’re empty nesters. Once you become one it’s hard. You don’t think it will be but you miss them so much when they move out. We camped a lot with our girls. We always went with a bunch of friends so we had our own little village when we went. Usually had to rent 4-5 camping lots but it was so much fun. Enjoy your camping, can’t wait to watch it. ❤

[@samanthahoos9827]

God bless your beautiful family! ❤

[@kaydublin5164]

Omg, your children are positively adorable 😊

[@laurenavery1111]

Such a sweet family life you have created.

[@tammynielsen4212]

I had 8 kids all really close in age it's definitely a season and it goes so quickly. My response is lots of photos and memories and love. I would not change a thing. I definitely recommend having kids close in age and enjoy the roller coaster ride before you know it they will be starting their own lives.

[@pamwineinger2374]

Having my kids on a schedule saved my sanity. And it was good for them to.

[@lindablair-rk9vr]

You have such a beautiful family. I can't believe how big Gunner is getting, he is so cute. Evie is getting so grown up. Gideon playing the piano is adorable! You are such a mindful married couple, to make time for each other. I love how Evie likes bugs, better than being afraid of them. God Bless you and your wonderful family!🐢🇺🇸

[@marlasturgill8306]

Austin made a powerful statement, he married Joy not his kids... Sometimes we get so involved with our kids that we forget about one another. But you can slow down regroup then is when you start to put your wife or husband first. Because one day will be grown and married...

[@sandyhayre188]

It does go so fast, when they are little. I miss those days so bad.

[@lolaottinger3038]

Looks like the perfect place to soothe one’s soul. Looks so peaceful.

[@vickirobinette1452]

You guys are so awesome!! Gunner looks just like his daddy.💙 Lovely family!!🌸💖

[@Jean-ko4xv]

I enjoy watching you and your Family. God Bless. Jean ❤

[@debbiewhitman1305]

Joy, you are such a natural filming these Vlogs..Plus they are so entertaining. What an amazing young woman you have grown into: I wish you and Austin and the kiddos all the best, always :-)

[@dianenaylor2104]

You guys are great! Enjoy this season and stay true to each other❤. Time does go by fast.

[@ullisalindsey899]

Evie is the Cutest child. She's Angelic inside & out !

[@pamtraylor2964]

This was an massively awesome vlog....you both are amazing parents. Keep making us smile.....love this.

[@sheilacaine]

Kids are so fun. Glad you get time together. ❤

[@amybunner1158]

Oh, it DOES go fast!!! Our ‘baby’… the last of our 5 kids just got married in September.😮It’s crazy! But like you say… we are thoroughly enjoying this season now… retirement, new business ventures (beekeeping & antiques),traveling & the grand babies😍

[@ashleighburroughs3581]

I love Austins personality!! It cracks me up how he can say funny things with such a straight face.

[@Teresa-Q]

You guys are awesome…enjoy watching your beautiful family…and for taking us on your adventures…see ya next week. Happy Camping 🏕️ 💙💙💙

[@carlavision6143]

Really enjoyed your video! Joy Anna, Gunner is just too cute as is Gideon and Evie! Looks like they had fun. Love y'all and God Bless You!❤️

[@colleengiles9251]

Gunner has rolls on his rolls. So cute

[@carolwhisenhunt7504]

Love you guys. You're a great family.

[@angelagreathouse7274]

Your children are so blessed to have the camp to go visit their grandparents. It's a beautiful place to enjoy the outdoors. They'll have so many happy memories of times spent there. The children are beautiful and so sweet. You and Austin are great parents. Thanks for sharing your lives with us.

[@leighhunt8853]

And Thank you for taking us along.......😊yes always take time for each other

[@rondastothers472]

Fall is my absolute favorite season. 🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁

[@mommabecky83]

Gideon is doing soooo good on the piano! That’s awesome

[@theresadavis4885]

Family is everything!!!!

[@veronicagomes7010]

Beautiful family,God bless you all

[@laurielansue4131]

I love watching your channel. You guys are authentic and real. I like each one of you. Even Evie smashing her head on the piano was great! 😂

[@Lisa-ne5pd]

Austin wants Joy all to himself. That is super sweet 🙏❣

[@linedancer23]

No, it's disgusting! He really don't want those poor kids. She does everything...he does nothing.

[@JackieKing-k7e]

Very cute kids, great parents,

[@loriblanken9]

Gunner looks so much like you Joy, such a little cutie 🥰

[@aprilkearby6963]

Great job Gideon on playing the piano 🎹🎶

[@cristinweekley2547]

I think a good marriage is finding time for each other and God!🙏🏼🥰

[@SweetPea6348]

It is so pretty at the camp !! I Love the Horses and the Mountains in the background!! Its just Beautiful!! Wished that I could visit but,, Unfortunately Im a Paraplegic and don't have the money to travel. I live in South East Texas so its Pretty far.