Foreign men are easy in Japan!

[@RealRuralJapan]

Early next year i plan to expand my rural Japan cafe to include rescuing stray cats in my area to turn it into a unique Cat Cafe. Any help is very much appreciated. www.buymeacoffee.com/realruraljapan

[@Mr.Randy210]

@@RealRuralJapan buy them cats some food so they do their jobs and fight off the monkeys

[@asthmatyk]

Brother I love you and your videos but as channel is growing maybe you can invest in a portable Rode microphone or something like that because sometimes it's hard to understand what you're saying when there's background noises like car etc and it can be quite tiring on the ear. I honestly love your channel and just hope it grows! ❤🤍

[@Mr.Randy210]

As my ears get old, not me just my ears 😂, I too have difficulties hearing. I like the ride'n'share too.

[@guanabacoaguajiraguanabaco3280]

Oh man, a microphone would be so appreciated 😩🙏

[@ドリフト180X]

A lot of dudes thinking they’re driving a Ferrari but are actually riding the community bicycle lol, thinking they are the players but are in fact the game for birds with sketchy history.

[@RealRuralJapan]

Yep, the emperors with no clothes.

[@Avantime]

Well at least they're doing better than many Japanese. There are plenty of Japanese men who are virgins well into their 30s.

[@grzesiek1x]

8:04 this exists not only in Japan but it is quite popular in Eastern Europe as well!! There are some women who date only foreigners , especially Americans for example so they can leave Poland or another Eastern Euroepean country without even having money because those guys pay for everything and also in Poland it is much cheaper so an average American in the USA can become quite rich in Poland :D

[@edca8114]

Krakown chicks

[@RSidd]

I am a 5'7" Indian dude and barely have any luck with women in my own country. I was in Roppongi solo hopping some bars on my Japan trip last year and saw a few women lovingly looking at me and smiling as I walked around the party places. I was thinking to myself, "either the standards of beauty in this country are skewed or I am about to be robbed by the Yakuza any moment now."

[@masterterrorman]

roppongi lol

[@valknut9648]

>indian dude yeah, you're on nightmare mode

[@Avantime]

Of course it had to be bar hopping in Roppongi. Now go walk around Todai (Tokyo University) and see how many 'loving looks' you get.

[@Brattoes]

Yes, please keep it real! I love your perspective of looking at the Japanese society/gaijins. Even if I don't fully agree sometimes, you make me think about my own assumptions.

[@I_am_Godlike-ul2gd]

I mean this is a matter of perspective and it applies to all countries, men being easy is always the case as most don’t have access to a lot of females and females has to males. With that being said , the same stigma doesn’t apply to men sleeping around as females sleeping around. I can understand if someone is looking for a serious relationship then yes but if you are just going there and dating and having fun , easy is a win for men.

[@RealRuralJapan]

There is a reason for this stigma and you if you can't work it out that's on you.

[@mediocreman2]

Always assume the basics with women. They are instinctual resource gatherers. Also, no shame for working out, but do it for yourself, not for women. Part of being a good man is taking care of the body you were gifted.

[@daveshongkongchinachannel]

This is probably true in many other countries and certainly there are similarities in Hong Kong. The bar district is the skank magnet and like Japan, many women would never dream of marrying a foreigner. Generally you can spot the ones who are on the hunt because they dress and look and behave a certain way and their English is usually better than average. However, if you learn the language and spend time and effort to understand the culture I truly believe you can tap into that elusive 95% and at least some of them who would never normally consider marrying a foreigner would make an exception in some cases. Even then you’re not home and dry until the family also accept you.

[@RealRuralJapan]

I spent a couple of nights in Chungking Mansions on a layover before there were direct flights to China in the 90s. The bar district there was a hot mess.

[@daveshongkongchinachannel]

@@RealRuralJapan That’s the first place foreigners end up (at least those on a budget) and it’s still there to this day although they have cleaned it up a bit. The main bar district back then would have been in Wanchai on the other side of the harbour although as you rightly comment, there were a few dodgy bars nearby on that side. Wanchai still exists but the other area is Lan Kwai Fong. Most of the bars and nightclubs on Kowloon side have since long gone and been replaced by mega malls.

[@Ghostmaxi1337]

​@@daveshongkongchinachannel oh, now i understand why "the save option" is to invest more in the flight and do a direct flight to japan and not over choina airlines with a stop there.

[@mobpsy1526]

All over south east asia the same. So funny how almost all foreigners have the dark skinned, long hair, often tight clothes girlfriend.

[@grzesiek1x]

I am a little bit confused by this video. Maybe I didn't understand everything from what you said but for example me. I don't want to marry anybody, I am quite happy being single so if I am dating a Japanese girl for some time it is always good for me but I don't have to marry her or be in longer relationship etc but in your opinion you can be only happy in Japan if you marry a japanese girl so you can't just see someone from time to time? Or maybe I didn't understand the topic you were presenting in this video..I am not sure...

[@Mike-ry4ti]

Hey mate, awesome video, I think many Japanese women would consider marrying a foreigner, however the foreigner must understand the local culture and in most cases speak the language, i think this is the biggest barrier. I was targeted by gaijin hunters all the time, they can be fun but are always catch and release, especially the scooters, they are easily identifyable- pink or other colour hair, high pitched, overt and loud waving their arms around in scantily clad outfits usially vaping and drinking highballs, they are the worst and anyone who simps for them will find out the hard way.

[@marchiggins6100]

Another great perspective. Skank! Such an Aussie description..... Made me smile.

[@GeoffSeeley]

I've heard that term used here in Canada as well, meaning the same thing. at least in the context I heard in the 80/90s.

[@MrJm323]

It's an American term as well.

[@valdius85]

I’ve heard from one very handsome, smart and wealthy gaijin that after some time he got bored of the type of woman you mentioned. He said it’s very hard to meet a valuable Japanese woman who would like to marry him.

[@isunamitch]

in 13 years of going on and off to Japan for different reasons, I've never encountered any "interested" woman... Maybe my personality is "too" Japanese... Just to give an idea, some of my Japanese friends says I know more about Japan than them... I've watched so many TV dramas and listened to so much old school music and TV shows from Japan... Anyway, I'd love to meet a Japanese lady someday, but I'm not counting on it and not chasing actively/recklessly...

[@albertpeter6629]

Thank you for your insights. I like to hear different opinions. In my opinion a lot of foreigners want just fun. I think there are only a handful of mans who really thought about it seriously and what it means. Thank you for your videos 👍

[@valdius85]

depends on age and the reason they’re in Japan

[@SMGJohn]

Not every women are like this, but its pretty much a problem big enough to worth mention for sure. We have these opportunistic people in Europe too, both men and women predating each other, sickening to be honest but my experience is that, when you refuse to jump into bed in the first or even the fourth date, instead talk and try to establish you know basic human relationship first, you will pretty much wade through 99% of the garbage because these people, they are not interested in talking much, they either want you in bed, your wallet or something else, talking is rarely one of them. So people should always talk with the person first, try to establish a friendship, despite popular beliefs, if you cannot be friends with that person, you wont last long in a romantic relationship, thats just a fact.

[@edca8114]

Talk about the " special restaiurants" Whe you get a drink Then You " Fall in ❤️" Go home Happy

[@grzesiek1x]

9:53 Don't worry I wouldn't... but you are 100% right. A thick wallet is like a magnet everywhere in the world and anytime.

[@Mr.Randy210]

I live right next to Fort Hood and truly understand "skank magnet" 😂

[@RealRuralJapan]

It's a thing and Japan is no different!

[@GL-GildedLining]

It might be worth trying Adobe's free web-based noise reduction tool, to see whether that can clear up the car interior noise issues. There's a video titled "A free noise removal tool by Adobe for studio-quality voice recordings | Shasta Enhance" which should tell you the basics.

[@Ghostmaxi1337]

While interesting and maybe allready talked about, what is the view on long distance relationships? I do know some japanese people and i am in a Japanese Warthunder Clan and Discord, but asking one of them would feel awkward. (Not that im especially interested, im not specifically looking for such, but generally interested.)

[@alexb.1320]

Your advise is universal no matter the country. As for audio, I had no trouble hearing you. I think some people need to spend some time adjusting their audio settings so speach is properly heard and not mumbled up by excess processing by the audio effects that might be turned on that create fake surround sound etc.

[@RealRuralJapan]

Thats what i think as well. No problem this end. But i will improve it more as it's the first time i used this new microphone.

[@yarghhargh9345]

1:40 that sounds really similar to Eskimo brothers lol

[@mark-fd8ol]

great video but I had a hard time hearing you. On a few times. Most Japanese women don't want a big muscle guy,

[@RealRuralJapan]

Stable job with risk free salary. The guys talking about muscles etc here have no clue what they are talking about you are correct.

[@cccc87659]

congrats on being part of the 5%!

[@DavidPerez-iv8qi]

I moved to Japan and may be close to your cafe. I am in iwakuni

[@RealRuralJapan]

I'm in Nagano its nowhere near Iwakuni.

[@DavidPerez-iv8qi]

@@RealRuralJapan dang, I was going to pay a visit. Keep up the good work.

[@10p7]

Okay so I was interested in the 穴兄弟 and found it even in my dictionary lmao. So you are right, it is pretty known slang indeed.

[@Mr.Randy210]

Jokes on you, I'm easy anywhere I am at! 😂

[@RealRuralJapan]

My Aussie mate used to say. Couple of beers and a Chinese meal and I'm anyone's!

[@paodebatata6606]

''Men are easy, just be nice to them (and don't be fat)'' women nowadays will see this and call you a misogynist point blank

[@RealRuralJapan]

@paodebatata6606 They can say what they want it i left high school 30 years ago.

[@seancatacombs]

Oof I feel called out, lol. It feels like being a foreigner from a different part of Asia gives you a small leg up, but you do have to keep in mind 9 times out of 10 you're just an interesting distraction. "Hm, never tried one of those before" etc.

[@valdius85]

Most of my male friends in Jp exercise. We are basically depressed how rare it is for Jp women to exercise.

[@Mr.Randy210]

We could all pitch in and get him a microphone

[@RealRuralJapan]

I think the video after this one i improved it a lot. But anyway, anyone who wants to support the cat cafe project is more than welcome on Buy me a coffee!

[@Duhble07]

Well, I had no idea, that was quite an education. “Ana kyodai”. Even with my rudimentary Japanese, I got that right away. 🤣 Brutally honest term. I suspect that was even more the case 50 years ago. I know many now respectable older Japanese women who found their western Guy long ago, and were able to leave their difficult circumstances behind. We forget how difficult the postwar period was in Japan. Many families, without fathers, brothers, fractured families, etc.

[@abemanzur6985]

In defense of foreign man, we are tired of dealing with western feminist masculine controlling women, when we go to another country like Japan or the Philippines where women tend to be more feminine & traditional yes, we become easy…. 😂

[@sage4293]

Thank you for saying that. I was born and raised in the United States and couldn't agree more. Even if every female on earth is hardwired the same or is the same at the most basic level, there is no way I would ever give a female in any western country anything whatsoever. And I for sure am not about to risk life and limb for not a single one of them, including all the ones in my family.

[@itsnick37]

For marriage as a white foreign man you are probably best in Philippines would be my guess, most attractive women and Korean and Japanese imo, best for Americans actually is Thailand because they love America to help them start business in the country but I’m sure Philippines is similar. I still think Japan is the best country even with all the flaws culturally I have a lot of respect for them.

[@Xinalong]

I wore earphones and could listen all his words. Great vid man. Keep it real! Hola from China :)

[@paodebatata6606]

Dude literally broke the commie firewall to watch this video. Strong

[@Xinalong]

@@paodebatata6606 Very easy, by using VPN hihihi

[@joshuatealeaves]

I’ve been in Japan a while now. There’s a narrative going around that Japanese men don’t treat their women right so women in the hordes are throwing themselves at foreigners. I was going at it with someone who obviously watched too many street “interviews”. I’m like bruh it’s slim pickings out here. They think it’s Thailand 😅

[@RealRuralJapan]

The street interviewers know they are being disingenuous at best. Garbage in garbage out that why you see foreigners with such opinions.

[@deanchur]

You see this on the manosphere channels when they talk about foreign women, a lot of guys there talk about Japanese women like it's Thailand or the Philippines, absolutely no idea.

[@whittakerwinstanleyiii4051]

I don’t understand this Japanese obsession some have. Seems a closed society to me. Prefer Southeast Asia more fun. If a Japanese girl wants to prove me wrong though……😂

[@itsnick37]

Japan has an amazing culture and there is nothing wrong with that, come to the USA where it’s a free for all, we don’t even have a count how many illegals immigrants there are here and then to make it worse our government uses our tax dollars to support these people who do nothing for us. Parasites literally. Would love to be in Japan or a strong European country(not west)

[@guanabacoaguajiraguanabaco3280]

You said the skankies 😩🤣

[@bloodyangel1]

I live in Tokyo and want to know where these women are lol 😅

[@RealRuralJapan]

Be careful out there man! LOL

[@dannybitz5015]

All the good women are 60+ in the countryside? But I’m only in my 30’s!!! 😂

[@RealRuralJapan]

There are some awesome younger women in the countryside man.

[@dannybitz5015]

@@RealRuralJapan I know, just teasing!

[@itsnick37]

@@RealRuralJapanthe “real ones” probably stay instead of moving to a big city but I have a hard time imagining the country girls wanting a foreign man, I could be wrong just an ignorant American 30 y/o guy..

[@RealRuralJapan]

@@itsnick37 Some do some don't.

[@Ghostmaxi1337]

Here me, im also easy to get. Please. If you see me on the street, feel free to talk to me. Jokes aside (well more or less, i am single and shy (and asexual)). Im also planning to go to Tokyo in 11.2025.

[@AndrewTSq]

When I grow up I always thought Japanese woman were like always the best wife you could have. THen the more I heard.. I think its probably the worst place to find a woman? :D It feels like many are unfaithful, many do adult movies for some reason and so on.

[@RealRuralJapan]

I dont think the unfaithful stats would be that much higher than anywhere else.

[@valdius85]

The attitude towards sex is different, but I’d not say they are unfaithful. I’d say it’s common for couples to sleep in separate beds after the desired amour of children are born. For anyone interested in marrying a Japanese and living in Japan, I’d suggest learning some of the environment etc. People are individuals up to a point and environment has an impact.

[@AndrewTSq]

@@RealRuralJapan ah well, everything there feels different. Saw some video of wifes going to some sex hotell and it was like normal :) not normal here I can tell you :)

[@RealRuralJapan]

@AndrewTSq Some people use these hotels for quick rest stops and to have a shower etc while travelling also. Doesn't make sense for a married couple to use them when they have their family house. Don't know what video you watched but there is a lot of clickbait masquerading as something it isn't.

[@valdius85]

@@RealRuralJapan Married couples absolutely use these hotels, commonly on wife’s request :)

[@tsi4service]

“Scank magnets” 😜 Rooty Hill RSL came to mind. That place was nicknamed the Rusty Crutch, if you couldn’t get laid there then you couldn’t! 🫣

[@RealRuralJapan]

When the Mt Druitt dragons league club folded back in the day i played a few years for them when i was a whipper snapper. There were a couple of rugby league fields at the back and some tennis courts. The roughest pub wasn't far from there near the station and i think it was called the imperial from memory. We used to drink out in the back room away from the street because we were all under 18. The RSL would require ID so wasn't an option in our early drinking careers. Rough as guts but an education in how to handle yourself.