Fridays with Tab &Chance (lets have a heart to heart)

[@Msltfoster]

My Mom use say, “Folks get iffy when your Spirit irritates their demons.”

[@LoveCompassionateLee]

Ooo that’s good!

[@sharita7270]

❤❤

[@thelovelymissmonica1938]

issa Werd📖

[@fdoctor79]

That's a WHOLE word!

[@NicoleSmith-nv4uy]

That part!!!!!!!!🙋🏾‍♀️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@TooneyLean_]

Who in the hay diddle diddle is Hating on Tab & Chance, This will not be tolerated 😤😤‼️

[@angelafaison]

#Facts

[@newjerseylove1373]

FACTS

[@lavellprice3929]

No ma’am this will not be tolerated

[@suzonlobe2201]

Right!!

[@ursalawooley971]

Right!! People need to get in own lane and stay there...try minding their business. They would be so much better off. Or better yet... if they don't have anything positive to say, don't comment or say anything

[@beelove4111]

I no longer give negative people any attention. I see their actions as a reflection of them, not me.

[@sharita7270]

👏👏👏👏👏.... SAY THAT ❗❗❗

[@stephsinger5163]

Bravo! That is a hard lesson to learn kind of comes with age I wish I didn’t waste so much time on what other people thought and thought better of myself every day’s a new day to learn I love your comment so insightful

[@keepitsimpleydb6151]

Exactly right!!!!! Perfectly said -----

[@ninalovesyoupodcast9883]

So True

[@teresa28ist]

Right that's their problem.

[@sharita7270]

When I go to a business and they don't greet me, I leave immediately. I'm coming in to spend money and if that green isn't the green for your business.... GOOD BYE ✌🏽✌🏽

[@Dimples4dayz]

Amen!!! I’m out with a quickness! 💙💙💯💯💯

[@sweetvictory89]

Exactly

[@tprice8195]

Exactly. You don't deserve my business if I do not feel welcomed.

[@LadyDeeCee]

#exactly

[@shaunyb22]

You can really tell how much Chance loves and respects Tab in this video. He’s protective of her in the very best way and I love it! Their respect for one another is so admirable.

[@KhaoticKim]

We can say it for yall. People don't leave their racism at home when they come to work.

[@mzteelew]

💯

[@Teeyah2]

Well.....

[@LG-kx8xl]

My saying is : People take with them who they are". Folks have all sorts of hangups/baggage & stuff even from their childhood they never got over causing them to act out. When I hear another person try to vouch for them with "they would never do that...", I say you don't live w/that person or know their issues. People will surprise you with the mess they carry.

[@startinganu]

Very well said...

[@cinnamoncat2731]

That’s the truth

[@luvmifro1003lovesfamily]

I absolutely agree...I am NOT spending my money anywhere I'm not welcomed

[@sharita7270]

DEFINITELY NOT AND WON'T!!!

[@firstbornlove8116]

Ditto!

[@sue-elle7886]

That's my motto.

[@legra75]

Exactly!

[@newbeginningswithtonja8517]

It happens all the time. For example, me and my husband was down, poor, living with family. We had all the support of friends that had “it all” and they were always saying your day is coming to come out. Well, when God blessed us with our brand new home, they have not stepped foot in it, even after we have invited them several times! It makes us feel like why won’t they come? Did we do something wrong for getting the house? I don’t know, but this is needed. People you think is for you while you are beneath them, hates the fact that you surpassed them and they can’t handle it!!! My truth!!! Y’all keep soaring Tab and Chance! Greater is coming!!!! Love you both and the kids!!!🙌🏾💗🙌🏾💗🙌🏾💗

[@jselmer9100]

That's the way people are. They like seeing you down. When your blessings come you see that red eyes devil. Jealousy. Even relatives. Enjoy your blessings and don't let the devil ride. God bless

[@LadyKEntertainment]

And then they try to insist that you've changed when the only thing that's changed is you're situation. I guess to justify they're hate.

[@mzteelew]

That’s sad but now u know who people really are and how to deal with them. Congratulations on ur new home!!!

[@seemaraniga4113]

Hardest lesson in my life has been that you can't make people feel happy for your wins. Even though you are happy to share in their joy, they are not you and have a hard time being happy if it is not for themselves. I stopped trying to please those people , it hurt in the beginning but I feel I have grown up since then and instead of becoming bitter I have forgiven and blessed them to help them heal their own pain. Wasn't easy but it set me free 🙂😊🙏💕 just wanted to say bless you and may God always send you love and happiness, congrats on your new home! 🙌

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

New Beginnings With Tonja...girrrl, my husband & I experienced the same exact situation!!! We had to go stay with my mother-in-law about 5 years ago. She was happy we were down because she wanted us to permanently move in her basement😝. She liked asking us did we have money for food. And giving us $10-20 every other day. She liked seeing us in need cause she & her husband are very controlling people. She wanted us to get jobs in Chicago (we moved from ATL), so we could help her with her bills so she could spend her money on designer clothes! Not to mention it was so much tension in that house cause his dad didn’t want us there👿. But we rose up! The mom was pissed 😤 & tried to convince us to stay. We moved back to the A & we’ve been doing good ever since, praise GOD! Now that was fam. “Friends”, were fine when we needed $20-50 here & there or needed various things. But once we rose up outta our rut it was like they did a 360 on us! Barely calling or coming by, etc. They hard times will reveal your enemies!!! So happy that you all were able to rise up & move into a new home 🏡. What a blessing! New, positive people will enter your world. May your blessings & happiness continue!

[@tonyat4627]

Oh so we having church tonight, I wasn’t ready but go head and preach. I’m here for all of it.

[@thelovelymissmonica1938]

Who👏🏾did👏🏾it👏🏾Miss Tab? Where👏🏾 dey 👏🏾at? Who👏🏾dey👏🏾be? #TheyDontWantNone

[@Silver.Forest]

😅😅😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤭🤭🤭🤭

[@Mjcatsnco]

Right... I’m ready to start this yelp review asap

[@preciouslifeoffical]

Yes I'm ready to post reviews

[@lisaharrison6217]

Yess! I don't want anybody going to that dealership.I hate that happened .

[@justmy2cents208]

Sorry that happened. I went to a Mazda dealership here in LA, I'm a black woman in my 30's, i got told i couldn't even look inside of the car until he ran my credit to see what i SHOULD be looking at. He literally refused to show me cars and my friend and I just walked out. Less than six months later i ended up buying my dream car. (or should i say my "this stage in life" dream car) At the end of the day that mans "issue" was a blessing for me.

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

JustNerissa...girrrrl, u summed it up in yo last sentence! Congrats on your new car! Hey, I’m so glad that dealer didn’t benefit financially from your purchase!!! Wont He do it!!!! Have a great day!!!

[@newjerseylove1373]

SIS, YOU NEED TO FILE A COMPLAINT IMMEDIATELY WITH THE BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU!!!

[@IslandgrlE504]

@@newjerseylove1373 And corporate.

[@yctakahashi6693]

Years ago, a man in overalls went to a dealership near my house. They said he probably couldn't afford their trucks. He went across the street and bought a truck with cash. He owned a septic tank company. The dealer who sold the truck called the other dealership across the street and laughed at them.

[@chimmychoinga7696]

People want to see you do good, just not better than them. Like Chance said, you don’t even realize it until it happens. If, once you notice it on yourself, you keep pushing out the jealousy , your just a plain ole hater.

[@LG-kx8xl]

This is so true even for folks in your own family because what they perceive as less than them is their comfort zone.

[@ladybenin.2762]

I believe this 100%!! My uncle, who’s a truck driver, pulled up in his 18 wheeler in his truck driving clothes to a BMW dealership and he literally had the same experience as you guys... but he took his business elsewhere! Their lost cause he end up buying a 750

[@jonniehickson5599]

That dealership was stupid. Most truck drivers if they have their own trucks make good money.

[@kcrich08]

This happened to an older woman I worked with…she made good money and had been working out there over 30 years… had been saving money and had a lot in her 401k… she took cash out to go get a car… she went to the car lot and walked around and nobody greeted her… when she went to leave someone walked up finally to see what she wanted and she told them I had cash to pay for a car right now but since you don’t want to give me your time you won’t be getting my money and turned around and started walking off… he tried his best to get her to stay but she wouldn’t give him the time

[@ladybenin.2762]

Jonnie Hickson He does! He drives coast to coast.. he makes 6 figures a year easily

[@ladybenin.2762]

keyonia richardson And that’s what they get for doubting folk! You never know who a person is based on how they look/what they’re wearing!

[@laamsmartin4668]

It's called Jealousy, Insecurity and pure Hatred. They are so uncomfortable with people elevated and they can't stand it.

[@MrCJ-qz9dl]

I am going thru that painful experience now. I feel jealous racism here in Asia...not necessarily from Asians, but from Americans and Canadians here.

[@fitnesswithyou]

Honey, it's your winning season ....and they have yet to recognize that ....everything attached to you wins (Jekalyn Carr)....if they stay connected they will win...your enthusiasm, sprite, wisdom, and laugh are infections....Be encouraged!

[@mottie77ful]

That quote....👏💯

[@texgemlaw84]

Cadillac is going to be reaching out to y'all. Watch 😂😂

[@IamYim]

I love them but I highly doubt it.

[@thelifeuchoose]

@@IamYim If they reach the top with this video/complaint they will!!

[@thickveganafro4279]

Since they didnt expose the actual cadillac dealership, Cadillac couldnt careless but hopefully they will anyway.

[@texgemlaw84]

@@thickveganafro4279 they don't have to name the local dealership. Cadillac is a corporation and when you have complaints it can go all the way up to the top

[@fromlissawithlove]

The Queen and King handled this so maturely.... The Aries in me on the other hand... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@motherellenscookbook3260]

This is my conversation now about people around me... It's a SPIRIT... And all that spirit gon do is hinder people growth and slow down your blessings from God.... Period.. When one succeed, WE ALL SUCCEED PEOPLE!!.. Getcha mind right Cadillac!!!! 🗣

[@shenoraguthridge9608]

Love this conversation. Was talking to my daughter and friends about this today

[@InfoJunkie22]

The world’s soul needed this “heart to heart”.

[@kelleyjones2899]

I know that's right, just rude. The dealership

[@fdoctor79]

I've learned that everything that glitters isn't gold. Run your race, Stay in your lane, and Focus on crossing the finish line. People who mind don't matter and people who matter don't mind. Ya'll stay blessed and be encouraged!

[@sherrybrown8608]

Maya Angelou said when people show you who they are the first time believe them. Jealousy is thy name. Racism comes in many forms and is bold and blunt. I agree with Tab and Chance I am not going to spend my money in an establishment that does not welcome me.

[@DestinationDiscoveryIII]

THIS was EVERYTHING!!!!! I meaaaaannnn...!!! Encountered this just THIS week. Here in my local area i write local radio spots and tv promos. Writing is what i do in my sleep so it was nothing. As soon as I was offered a contract to write for one of the major companies in the area "the crew" went left. I MEAN started saying stuff like, "it ain't like its FOX/CBS/NBC",ETC.... It got me down because these SAME people I would do work for them NO CHARGE. But I remembered what i was told in college, "Use your words wisely, your pen is a weapon, and because YOU have it,it will demand change".... Thank you for this!!! #Encouraged

[@mercedespullum7663]

Congratulations on your contract! I pray this opens many doors for you!❤

[@DestinationDiscoveryIII]

@@mercedespullum7663 Thank you so much! That means alot especially the week i've had.

[@kd-xp6eg]

I see you and I’m proud of you sis!! Keep on moving 💛

[@eve9929]

Congrats friend! This is a huge step and the start of a whole new chapter. Change can be difficult and upset relationships around you, but it can also be so rewarding and help to recharge your purpose. All the best 🌿

[@seemaraniga4113]

Proud of you! Write your truth girl!!!! 😊🙏🙌

[@burncaloriegang2231]

He will make your enemies your footstool keep pushing guys...

[@aantonelli7141]

I’m a new subscriber -& I’m being 100% honest- even if there wasn't a pandemic- i'd stay home every Friday night just to watch your videos. waaaayyy better than any other option. you guys rock!!!- much love from ohio

[@yesitsthattime]

One of the reasons why I love the internets is the ability for everyday people to write reviews of establishments FOR everyday people. I hope that you guys made a post on yelp or something. I always look at other reviews because I want to enjoy myself as much as possible

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

Yaaaaas! I agree with u 💯!!!

[@leijames512]

I heard someone say that: Your success reminds others of their failure.

[@charityskidd]

I genuinely thought people were making up “having haters” but that crap is real 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@vibezee5346]

I agree with you!

[@joydanleigh7711]

Amen

[@kneeapolytan]

That's because most folks hollering about "haters" haven't done anything productive in the past 10 years. A lot of dream chasers keep what they go through bottled up and it causes resentment or survivor's guilt.

[@thelifeuchoose]

Some do but folks like Tab and Chance dont make up stuff!

[@teresa28ist]

Right. I dont like hearing the word haters its so cliché but it is real. Nothing will bring out the haters more until you start moving and shaking

[@leticawiley8356]

Y'all better keep smiling and praising God for all He has done and going to do! Love you all be blessed and will keep you covered in prayer ❤🙏

[@spalmer1773]

It's called having a jealous heart!!

[@vanessacloud205]

Chance is right many of us aren’t aware we are even like that. It’s plain jealousy. Self reflection can help us direct that negative energy and do something positive with it.

[@vibezee5346]

❤️

[@clove8220]

Facts👏👏👏👏👏

[@SheLove2]

Exactly! 💖

[@ellarose1974]

Right and he acknowledged its in all of us and we have to work on it when it shows it's head. This was a good conversation.

[@dickerson25]

Matthew 10:22 You will be hated because of my name sake, but the one who endures to the end will be saved.

[@courtneyreed9288]

It’s a shame we are still dealing with this . As much as I try not to care it hurts my feelings , especially when my small children notices it. Praying for y’all strength 🖤 Edit: yes ma’am you better praise him !! Don’t lose that joy. You helped me through your joy. I saw how happy you were and prayed to God that it was my desire to come out of depression and have joy too 🖤

[@togetherwecan3560]

I was once that person that used to say ..I wish I had or if only I could be like..God would tap me on my shoulder and say " You don't know what that person had to go through or that's not your journey." Keep winning Tab! People have no idea how you arrived at that destination.

[@mick5330]

I’m a meat eater and I doubt that ever changes unless I have a health issue. But watching your videos has definitely convinced me to add in some vegan options to my diet. They are awesome!

[@04weewee]

Same

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

🙋🏾‍♀️ Me too!!! Had some Just Egg this morning with some green/red bell peppers, onion & spinach! It was great 👍🏽 ! Thanks Tab!

[@fromlissawithlove]

Some folk just don't deserve the title hueman... And to Tab and Chance and all my beautifully made folk on this planet, some people don't like to see the light that you all radiate because they are so stuck in their four walls of self-loathing. They hate to see in others what they fail to see in themselves. Yall continue to be MAGNIFICENT!!!! 🥰🙌🏾💕

[@rebeccarainier4770]

I’m happy when folks are winning. Keep winning family!

[@mariacharmaine6296]

I remember the beginning, I was there!!!❤️ I’m so happy for you.... I celebrate you!!!!! Keep winning auntie (that’s what I had my boys thinking) 🤣

[@aliciawarecager8808]

I admire the level of peace that you have and how you don't let anyone take your joy. Blessings and favor 🙏🏾

[@HealthierByGrace]

Chance thanks for loving Tab and protecting her the way that you do!! 🥰

[@MikkiDreams]

When you win, it brings light to the insecurities of others as well as their unwillingness to chase their own dreams. They are uncomfortable with your ascend because they feel left behind.

[@tyrarenae3486]

Amen!! I completely agree!!🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@constancereynolds3110]

Your success will show who your real friends are. They will be the ones that will continue to support and celebrate you. The ones that don't LET THEM GO.

[@KayLovexo]

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate,” Williamson writes in A Return to Love. “Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?” -M.W. When an individual does not recognize or can not comprehend this understanding they will run away from their potential their entire lives wreaking havoc onto those who are walking in their own. Jealousy is a disease of the mind and spirit. Cleanse yourselves. 💛

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

krystal s...well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!!! Amen!

[@SymonetteHibbert]

Sending you love from Jamaica. Thank you for the positivity.

[@napfreedom2153]

I always say when I encounter situations like this in any business, "I'm not gonna pay you to treat me bad" Blessings Beautiful People!

[@seemaraniga4113]

Sad to hear that people's hearts haven't changed enough to elevate their minds and their thinking or actions. Shameful in today's age. But your spirit shines thru you Tab and I think Chance hit the nail on the head with his assessment. You are lucky to have each other and I have been praying and will continue to pray to change the vibrations on this earth. I truly believe that what we watch, hear and feel around us makes us react positively or negatively. If we continue to respond with love 💕 then the world truly can turn itself around!!!! Will take time but each person has their part to play! God bless you and may you continue to have strength with your daily journey. 😊🙏💕🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@locdinwithChrist]

Tabitha I'm a subscriber from Canada and I just want to say that you and your family are an amazing inspiration. I used to live between Califonia and New York for 6 years but I'm back home to Canada now. I am a Christian and a College Professor and I can relate to what you're saying as a woman with floor length locs. Cover yourself with God before you enter any virtual or physical space and he will guide and protect you. The more you walk with God and are in God's will for your life you will experience the devil's tactics and that's why we need God more and more. Keep doing what you're doing and stay blessed.

[@jennieferwilliams1750]

"I have every right to be in praise mode" That part. Preach Tab!

[@shelleygivan8677]

This year has pulled back the curtain on humanity. I pray for the healing. Much love to you guys.

[@starrthompson4927]

Some people get comfort in the fact that you are struggling because they do not feel alone but once you succeed and their life is the same it makes them feel bad about themselves and they are alone again

[@michellepegues4011]

I feel like Tab about common courtesy. It ruffles my spirit. It's a sad season. #EndTimes I love you guys. God is still God!🙌

[@hottgirl1204]

This video was so on time for me! “Different does not mean wrong” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@merrittiapolk3734]

You guys represent positivity in a world full of discontent. I love watching Friday's withTab & Chance Brown. I always leave with a smile. Some people just don't like what they are not. You guys were profiled because y'all didn't fit the Type.

[@heathersmith1580]

Ain't nothing like being who GOD MADE YOU TO BE. Be yourself regardless to who likes it or not.

[@She17pj]

I do not spend my money where I am not respected period ✊🏾, yes Racism is alive & well unfortunately, it is awful and sad SMH

[@elizabethferguson1094]

NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER.

[@jesusencounteredtv]

A conversation that needed to be had!

[@PLuna-gf6sh]

I just found out about your channel recently and I’m in love with your videos! Such a beautiful & funny family💕😊

[@2oot]

👏🏾👏🏾 word up my people. Everything you said is spot on. Appreciate your candour in using your platform to shine a light on this.

[@537Fin]

I think it’s the insecurities of the person. They don’t want anybody to do or have better. I tell myself that’s there problem not yours, do the best for yourself. It’s really sad. Love y’all keep pushing!❤️❤️

[@jennastewart7473]

Preach it, Tab! "Some people want to to win...until you win." Yes!!!

[@plantsforlife1120]

It is Not people being a “different human”, it’s that people have different mindsets that causes them to act “ugly.” Thank you guys for sharing the experience at the Cadillac dealership. Call it for what it is. Ugly Racism! You guys keep keepin on!!! Tab and Chance are BEAUTIFUL people in your mindset so keep sharing it!

[@GARVEYLion]

Exactly this people are what they have always been. Folks looking like y'all family did not get brought over here with that good Book on those boats because of love. Amerikkka is what it was... is....and will be. NOT MEANT FOR MELANIN!

[@humblewarrior7593]

Such a necessary conversation even for those of us afraid to step out because of others opinions. Thank you both and never change.

[@angelafaison]

I'm here for this message. If not now then when? "It's time, time to make change we are the people we can do it." Love you guys to pieces😊. God Bless.

[@tracynewton918]

This Friday’s with Tab and Chance was great! You said that Tab, you didn’t give me joy, and you can’t take away from me! Y’all keep doing what y’all doing. Love y’all!

[@Millah323]

Tab, you just make life look easy... 🥰I love you and your family and I will always cheer all of you guys on...

[@cyconn1]

Preach yall!! Be you and do you, Tab! Thank you to you and your family for bringing joy, encouragement, and entertainment to the people, and keeping it real. I'm proud of you👏🏾

[@staciewilkins9180]

I’m so glad you shared this. It was very necessary. You bring honor to His name. Praying for y’all, and so thankful to have found a sweet source of laughter and joy to look forward to. ❤️

[@debbiepegus366]

Tab listen I go back just to see you dance, the joy and energy you give it’s amazing!!! You have a beautiful family, stay positive and don’t allow anyone to filtrate your mind with their negativities👊🏾

[@anitaeast9201]

THIS JOY THAT I HAVE.... THE WORLD DIDN’T GIVE IT TO ME......THE WORLD CAN’T TAKE IT AWAY!!!!! PRAISE GOD!!!!! THANK YOU JESUS!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DrNicolePertillar]

I love y'all so much!!! Binge watching all your old videos...good for my whole soul!! ❤❤❤

[@TheMrsEl]

I wish I was there I would have been like 🗣 THATS TABITHA AND CHANCE 🤬🤬 BROWN YALL BETTER GET RIGHT 🤣 ugh I hate it! I have been done like that so much

[@trishalachell]

Tab you and Chance said a whole mouthful chile. Can't nobody take away what they didn't give you...tell em Tab!!! And we keep things unlocked over here so you can go right on back out if you need to...yeah THAT PART!!!👍🏾👏🏾 All that matters are the "Real Ones" of us who love you and your family for being yourselves, happy for ALL your success, and anxiously anticipating every video.😘

[@_letea_]

I just graduated in May and it was very difficult to see my close friends still secure in their jobs/internships. Like I'm a broke college kid too! Lol However, I never wished for their downfall. I ALLOWED myself to truly be sad that ALL my plans ( A through D lol) were crushed. I think many others don't know how to deal with their emotions in a healthy way. "Misery loves company", is the saying that comes to mind. Many people don't sit with their emotions to find healing, but only want others in the same predicament to not feel " left out" or " less than" . Sometimes you just have to cry after you tell a friend 'im so proud of you' or after you cheer them on, lol and that's okay. *NOT gone touch on that car dealership convo! 😂*

[@agbeck4316]

you absolutely deserve every win that comes your way. I’m not sure I can think of anyone else that has so much heart and soul and so freely gives love to the world and everyone in it. I’m so happy to see you succeeding and taking joy in your success

[@clove8220]

Several Words in this video but the: They can love you when you broke but can they love you when you rolling in dough. Happy n Living Comfortable.

[@d67892]

We gon pass the collection plate around..... We can't pay you for the word but here is a small token of our appreciation. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LadyKEntertainment]

"Money don't discriminate". I caught myself making assumptions when I worked at the bank. This hippy looking white guy in sandals and ripped jeans walked in to cash a large check. I was looking at him sideways. Then he told me he had an account with enough to cover the check. When I pulled it up he indeed was a millionaire. I felt so small when I realized I had judged him on his appearance. Smh

[@MonkMonk74]

I work in the medical field and a patient came into the clinic where I work. To look at him, you would think he was just your average person, but turns out he too was a millionaire. He makes hundred thousand to millions in donations to various charities and Hospitals. You never know...🤷🏾‍♀️

[@jonniehickson5599]

At least you realized your mistake and learned from it. That's growth🙌🏾

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

Jonnie Hickson...exactly!!! 👍🏽👍🏽

[@lindapirtle4282]

Amennn!!! Keep smiling!! Keep being happy!! Keep being Tab and Chance!!

[@robinbutler9285]

Re change, we are mirror reflections of one another. No worries, CONTINUE TO WIN in the Brown household.

[@valjohns5823]

You betta come on and preach this morning!! Tab and Chance bringing the Word today! Thank you for the self correction with L. O. V. E. We’re all under construction and all need a little bit of help every now and then and it’s really ok. 🥰🥰🥰

[@1browngirl29]

The crab in the barrel mentality is when you’re moving ahead and then there’s always the ones trying to pull you back when you’re getting ahead cause they get insecure and jealous and feel left behind. Insecurity and jealousy are the culprits

[@aboriginalstraightshooter7967]

Please understand that a barrel is not a crab's natural habitat... Ijs😊

[@1browngirl29]

WandieLee FraBelzier 😂 I know you got my analogy though

[@Linvg]

Stay in the light. There will ALWAYS be people who want you to stay down. They are jealous of not only your success, but of anyone's success. You have every reason to celebrate every good thing that's been manifesting in your life. Remember He prepares your table in the presence of your enemies and YOUR cup runneth over. Don't let them hurt your spirit and enjoy every blessing.

[@Whatsamatauz]

Their loss. Like that french clerk who told Oprah she "couldn't afford" some fancy handbag.

[@carlashelton7682]

Amen... This was necessary!!! Glad you guys are so loving with one another. Live, Laugh & Love💕

[@DeAnn1111]

Thats CAlifornia for you, secret Jim Crow land with palm trees on the low smh

[@miyaomar1211]

@@beauty-bizness2845 Yes California is seriously racist. I'd NEVER move there.

[@lashondaking9269]

@@beauty-bizness2845 Really, I would've never thought.

[@PlantlifeShaye]

I LOVED HEARING THIS!! What a blessing I’ve found you all!! 💜💜💜 inspirations at their best!!

[@Millah323]

😏I already know what it was at that car dealership, Chance... 😤I pictured your whole story in my head, and just know....

[@stephaniemcneill5732]

Preach Tab!! Y’all talking good! So inspiring and uplifting. Truth!!!

[@aadyae]

Tab mentioned one time you all live in the valley. Honestly, we want to get our kids away from unpleasant environments in the "inner city,", but sometimes we move to places where we are NOT welcome no matter how much money we have or what we wear and the color of our skin. California is a beautiful state but it still harbors quite a few RACIST businesses and people. By no means is it like the South, but still RACISM is here non the less!!!!!! Me, I wouldn't dare let this go without sending a very vocal letter to GMC headquarters. Don't let this go without sending a formal complaint to the CEO. Also, I would have brought to their attention there what they did. Not conformational but awareness. If you are ignorant enough to show me your racist behavior, well I'm strong and powerful enough to tell you about you racist behavior. We don't ever have to curse anyone, get loud or anything like that. But speak up. You have a voice. Speak up and speak out.

[@legra75]

This is exactly why when Oprah spoke about her experience in the Louis Vuitton store in Europe, I didn't understand why she still spent money in that store. It wasn't me, and I swore up and down that I would NEVER spend my hard-earned money in that store. Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated.

[@cquitha123]

You two need a podcast

[@MarishaJ30]

Some people are not happy with themselves - and therefore can’t bring themselves to be happy for you either. Nothing at all to do with you - it’s their own spiritual work to do. I’ve watched since the beginning and I’m still rooting for your success - which raises us all up too. You guys are a breath of fresh air on every level. Insightful, positive, principled -all with a spirit of FUN. Appreciate y’all!

[@carolynjohnson9313]

But like a brother say at our church..." When u no better u do better".....we must continue to pray🙏🏾 for foolish ppl n this world.Amen

[@moca1992]

What a Word! Amen! They will be alright..Alright! Thank you for taking the time to share this word Tab & Chance. 😂

[@mzteelew]

Don’t hold back put that Car Dealership on blast...enough is enough!!!!

[@earlinescott6260]

Tab and Chance!!! I look forward to watching you all on Fridays. But this word today is what we all needed to hear. I love y’all.. Tab keep being you!! Beautiful inside and out!!!

[@HealthierByGrace]

Pay attention when folks show you who they are the first time!!

[@tyrarenae3486]

You talkin right !!🙌🏼 I had to learn that the hard way!! Thank God for the spirit of wisdom!!🙋🏽‍♀️

[@HealthierByGrace]

@@tyrarenae3486 amen!!!

[@sassyx2048]

Haterarion is a powerful thing. Some people appear to be rooting for you however when you actually win they show their true colours. It can be really subtle like not calling as they used to, not asking about your new venture or just being really distanced. I have experienced this over the course of my life and often wandered why? Is it me? Listening ro this blessed couple I realised its them and their issues which they are projecting onto me. So my moto now is to let them go exit the negatives vibes it sadly means they were meter your friends to start with so you just let them go. No need to announce or even have the conversation you just move forward with your beautiful life.

[@bexfrmlubtx]

#DifferentIsNotWrong Thank y’all!!! Love y’all!!!

[@natashawashington1433]

We love you so much Tab & Chance!! My face hurt after watching y’all!!!