friendless college student.

[@nicolloyoi]

I agree that being friendless is totally fine and it’s very relevant nowadays especially if you’re in college na. You guys can relate and agree if you experience it na and remember to love yourself more than anything else.❤

[@Yaowix]

Speaking of friendless in college, it's normal naman, the fact that you're a freshman, new environnement, new things to adapt. But overtime, you'll make one as time goes by. So, enjoy lang muna, that's what college is about, having fun while learning, advice from a 3rd year collège student here.

[@sykkuno8038]

this is so real bro, you only need yourself, people often think they need someone to be with like friends and a partner but the truth is you really need to learn to have company in your own solitude, once you do, you'll be able to be independent of everything and be a completely different person

[@MADAMSOFIA-g4z]

Peace of mind 🤍

[@larsmackenziefabresy6905]

lagi kona tong inaabangan thank you so much jacob sinalba moko sa stress this month dahil sa vlog mo

[@jhun_13]

I feel you bro.. sometimes being friendless makes me lonely but it's peaceful.

[@RichardArnesto]

Ohh.. I don't know why my eyes suddenly tearing out of knower, I'm not friendless but why I'm crying while watching this video, I think because I'm always the option friend haha I have lots of friends but they treat me like a garbage, just a waste of time, but it's okay now I know what is my worth, this video comfort me, tells me that I'm worthy person. Thank you Jacob, this is my first time watching your vlog and it gives me positive spirit!, I'll keep supporting you!☺️

[@mistermystery2143]

friendless and lookin hot is okay friendless and ugly isnt

[@KibaInuzuka-nk8ln]

Ummm, hmmmm magnenegate sana ako kaso true naman sya🥹

[@chinodelacruz2060]

this😢

[@thisshansivakumar]

This totally makes sense😭

[@PéhésaraFernando]

Why tho ?

[@Study___642]

😂😂

[@renzvachirawit2798]

When youtube recommended this to me I subscribed right away. Grabe, need ko talaga ng ganito. Kase I always feel like kailangan ko ng makakasama, ng friends, especially sa school, kasi sila talaga yung nagpapaboost ng self-esteem mo. Pero noong araw na I felt like lumalayo na sila sa'kin, bumabalik ulit yung dating mahiyaing ako. Ang hirap ng walang walang kaibigan, ang hirap mawalan ng kaibigan, at maiwan ng walang pasabi. Pero sinusubukan kong i-cherish yung sarili ko, kung ano yung meron pa ako ngayon. And doon ko lang din narealize na andami ko pa palang di nagagawa para sa sarili ko. Puro nalang friends, palagi nalang sila, yung mga ginagawa ko para mapasaya at makasama sila. Pero nakalimutan kong hindi ko pa pala napapasaya yung sarili ko. Kaya this time talaga, pinapangako sa sarili ko na babawi ako kay self. Ako naman muna.💗 Thank you for thiss!❤️‍🩹

[@ChengyewThong]

same, i am not a freshman in my university but i am still friendless, thank you @Jacob Alcaraz for making this video to tell me that being friendless is okay and learning to find comfort in one self is very critical and important ❤

[@jims5198]

I enjoyed this view and your complete honesty about your life. Entering college you feel things will be different and new challenges in life. Your openness is admired and I look forward to more views of your life experiences.

[@edwinpascua]

That’s okay, being alone sometimes helps us to grow and allow us to know more about ourselves. New subscriber here.

[@Gabriel_-kq1sj]

This is so true, mahigpit na yakap para sa mga nahihirapang magkaroon ng kaibigan, it might take time, but it is definitely okay! We'll meet the best people very soon!

[@kenrice.]

highschool friends is different from college 🤧 i think people tend to feel intimidated making the first move, or some just like being by themselves doing their own thing. it rlly takes time, and courage to make friends HAHA. all u said was spot on fr

[@jasonberkowitz4754]

Great video! Will look forward to the next one.

[@sebysami2877]

Jacob ang sarap sa tenga ng boses mo huhu gawa ka ng podcast ganyang topic sa Spotify please🥹🫶🏼

[@CarlBajande]

Sending hugs 🥰

[@joremjuntilla1614]

Thank you! for making me realize to focus on what I have, especially now. Before kasi I have a lot of friends then ngayong 2nd year lang ako nawalan, siguro dahil nag transfer din ako ng bagong school then napapatanong ako if tama ba tong ginagawa ko, then suddenly na enlightened mo ko na there's nothing wrong about it, I just need to focus on myself.

[@xsctar.k]

i agree, let's normalize being friendless... ♡

[@wreckitRalph-nr7ym]

The happiest part of my life was in college, I hope you find a friend two soon.

[@Neo_SeanZein]

Ahhh this one ❤ thanks for this

[@jonespinomagpayo106]

I tried this when I was in college and when I am already working in corporate world because I felt peace when I was alone. It's a choice. But there were times in your life that you'll find true barkadas and friends. Yung tipong tutuo talaga at masaya siya.

[@HeichJaeh2600]

This is so true, it also made me much more independent so yeah

[@kentdvn]

Trust me, the first and second semesters of college are going to be hard because you have no one to be friends with. But gradually, when you start the third semester and so on, you will find someone who is worth being your friend. I've said this based on my real-life experience.

[@princelucky494]

Agree being friendless in college doesn't matter it's okay to have a friends and its okay being friendless

[@Ahmed-u7s6x]

thank you for some advice. im uni student too. from Malaysia. i like ur video

[@justinestrem1090]

I wanna know more about life in Mapua po. I can't wait for more videos.

[@AljabarDawam]

More content dude nag eenjoy ako manuod ng vlog mo .❤ Siguro dahil alone din ako lagi

[@WayneAlli]

This video helped me a lot to feel better. On highschool kasi i used to have more friends but nung nag college nako dito ko naexperience maging friendless. Ang hirap pramiss! :((

[@nathanielteofilo8646]

more content daliiiii!!!

[@erukarein]

being friendless is okay, being alone is what makes you depend on yourself, and help you grow without the need of others. Don't worry Jacob you'll find people who'll stay with you for the long run, mostly friendships are formed with similar goals and once that goal is achieved that friendship also drifts apart, but if your bond if formed by different aspects it'll last longer, if you're friendless then I'll be your friend(kung ayaw edi don't) but anyway that's all! remember me when you're famous^^

[@dwightfonte]

being friendless is totally fine, one of my closest friend decided to cut me off. she suddenly unfriended me i was so confused and i wanted to ask why? i wanted an explanation i wanted to be mad. but u know what? i didn't . bcos tbh, im proud of her for being brave for doing that. there are a lot of people who i want to cut off too but couldn't . as we get older our priorities change. sometimes we outgrow people and that's okay. so if anyone wants to cut me out of picture, go ahead. u dont owe me any explanation. we always have the right to decide whoever stays in our lives

[@diethermoret3572]

Back in college, im the kind of person that always offers. Siguro theres just not enough people that offer companionship. Like welcome people to their group! But its okay. I believe that there’d still be similar people that would find you. Chin up! :)

[@meba629]

the reality check 😭 just 1 year away to get into college, im scared 😭

[@kimyeontan1422]

You're still starting since freshman ka pa. You'll eventually find someone soon, just choose your friends wisely ❤

[@jhazscx]

i remember in college, this was really my fear: to be friendless. so what I did was I saw this girl who i used to be schoolmates with. we weren't close during high school but then i guess out of desperation (i know), i was like "heyy can i join lunch with you". she already had someone but she still didn't hesitate to join me at lunch. then three of us got close. and then in the afternoon, we met 2 girls again and they were like interacting with us, and then we found ourselves hanging out. and then the last member of our group was a guy and he was really funny and he also liked hanging out with us. and then we became like a friend group and from 1st year to 4th year, we've been tight like ever. we've had major fights but in hindsight, they were all really immature. up until now, we're still connecting and we graduated 5 years ago. being friendless is totally okay, but if you're someone who really wants a friend in college, sometimes you just have to MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. pero if hindi mo pa kaya, okay lang naman. sabi nga ni Jacob, it's not requisite to have college friends. take your time, until you can make a move.

[@shinomarius]

FRIENDLESS IS OKAY , OKAY PARA SA MAY MGA KAYA AT MAY PERA .. PERO KUNG HND KA MAYAMAN AT NAGHHIRAP KA NEED MO MKIPAG KAPWA TAO AT MAKISALAMUHA SA IBA PARA MAY MAKA TULONG SAYO PANO UMANGAT AT MAGING MASAYA ..❤

[@jaydee_27]

Ayan na siya 😊🩵

[@Razelmetrillo.shp2223]

i'm always waiting sa vlogs mo... at sa video na to andami ko na realized. aabangan ko na palagi vlogs mo❤❤❤ And You'll count me in, to be one of your friend😊😊

[@xxianmoon]

I'm starting to think that KZbin knows to much about me, recommending this video like I KNOW I'M 28 & YES I HAVE NO FRIENDS but come on?! Here's my take on being friendless, It's both comfortable and lonely at the same time. When i was starting my College life, i have so many cliques but not a single one of them became THAT person who i could call my Best Friend or Closest friend, reason of was because people find my personality a bit too much to handle, many have stated and it really made me a bit to over conscious with how i approached people for quite sometime, if was too suffocating, to the point where i somehow created this different versions of myself whenever i try to get along with other people just so that they wouldn't see this character that many people have pointed out about me, basically it was like a cloth that i wore in order for me to fit in the group but then i realized that despite adjusting myself to their comfort, i still couldn't see that closeness that i had thought i would get from this imposter character that i someone unknowingly built. So that lead me to just be myself, i spent my entire college life not belonging to a single or many group of friends. I did not stop socializing, don't get me wrong, i love talking with peope but it's more like small talks and networking for something with purpose. I reflected on why that is..... and i found that I'm just born that way i guess, my mind thinks differently, I don't like the drama that goes along with interacting with people, i fond social gathering exhausting, although I'm not anti social and i somehow i find solace in my own little world.

[@Aushawott]

aww, you should have yt channel pala, been watching your videos on tiktok recently hehehe, you're so cute talaga :>>, more vids to come!

[@markvinsonpenaojas5799]

same here, meron kase ako social anxiety,and idw to reveal my true identity,im so shy,,,be happy on your own,,wag hanapin ang happiness sa ibanh tao,😊😊my realization.

[@Powers-Unleashed]

I dont care abt being friendless in college, not there for the social life, I just need to get my degree and get out of there and start my dream career.

[@androi999]

I only have 2 close friends and no best friends.

[@teenshero8860]

Where do you study? Just curious

[@CarlBajande]

Sending Hugs 🥰

[@cicero464]

Relate ako sa sinabi mong super active sa class na kunware engaged na engaged Pero pagdating ng lunch dun ka na mag shutdown. I really relate to that. Nag excel ka sa academics mo but actually sino ka kung hindi ka matalino right?

[@cutieko3701]

hindi ka pogi actually, ang ganda mo pumorma and makinis pa. Keep it up ilyyyy 🫶😚

[@markkavenfedelino8878]

Who is this diva?

[@lovesickboy8572]

larooo ahshaha. pogi sha tih, cutie nya kaya sa ig pics nya

[@arvinpedrosa3491]

Me too friendless…..

[@jcvideos2339]

It’s ok to be friendless cuz sometimes ung akala mong kaibigan mo d pla 😢

[@suhoowei612]

it's not. it's never okay lalo na kapag aware ka naman na hindi mo kayang maging independent. it's very self-destructive. trust me you'll never want that. 🙂

[@suhoowei612]

Loneliness can feel tolerable at first, but it slowly eats at your confidence, motivation, and even self-worth. Romanticizing it as some kind of lifestyle choice only traps people in cycles of isolation that are super hard to break out of. it’s self-destructive in ways that you don’t realize until it’s too late.

[@justinestrem1090]

I'm sure being friendless is temporary.

[@kalali7448]

My personal view, I think because of your fame sa tiktok it made you use your metacognition when it comes to people if they either really want to be your friends or not. And it's fine kasi you just don't want any disappointment like all of us do kaya we take extra measures.

[@just-a-tech]

Sup?? New to ur channel. I just happened to watch ur videos randomly. And i find ur content so relatable to me. i guess because we both are introvert and as such i always find it difficult to make friends with people just like u. I am trying din naman katulad mo HAHAH Btw I am prolly same age as you. Currently taking up ICT computer programming. HAHA And lastly do you always go to paseo outlets? I might see you there.

[@karepaSQUAD]

Yah true ba na sa collage life is started to independent ?

[@ememem41203]

SAME TALAGA🥺

[@Chromium6plus]

Alone but not lonely

[@Franklin-u8e]

Definitely 😌

[@mharkiepegon2811]

I'm friendless also, and I see it okay hehehehe

[@jackhemvallespin3191]

💛💛💛

[@_deuXXmachina]

Next year magiging first year na din pero medyo kinakabahan ako hahahaha sana makapasa din sa entrance exam🤞🏻

[@HaaNaaYuu]

I hope you will Meet a nice Friend that Have a same Frequency at what You Interested, its Okay to Become Maybe...Introvert ?¿ But anyway MLFY ( My Love For You ) from Indonesia ~ 🎉

[@jivanvasant]

Everyone has natural needs and desires. Everyone pleasures themselves. Self-pleasuring is insufficient. A college student is surrounded with many potential intimate partners. You could find another student to confide in and trust, and your mental, emotional, physical and sexual intimacy would escalate by manual, oral, vaginal and/or anal sex activities to give each other pleasure in a stable, committed, romantic relationship throughout your years in college. Begin by flirting and responding to others who flirt with you. Good luck. :-)

[@ryusoongi7416]

huh

[@Jackson-g4u]

💙

[@Juliane_montefalco]

❤❤

[@maxhausz]

❤

[@VENEZIO-u8d]

Please get a Cute Boyfriend and make Couple Vlogs ♥️🗣️♥️

[@Naturalist-y8q]

huh is he gay?

[@ligaaaaayaaa07]

Pinagsasabi mo?

[@adieindo2052]

😍😘😘

[@RRlagasca]

Ako na mamatay na sa engineering buti nakaka vlog ka pa sa schedule mo

[@Janybuuy]

❤

[@Lloyd_vlog]

Can we be friends kuyaa

[@fallenpoultryy]

💙

[@jay-rgajilan4121]

❤️❤️❤️

[@AljabarDawam]

tey parang na kita ko sarili ko 😢

[@namjoobin]

❤

[@tawwwpiii]

🙌

[@AsmawiAcob]

walang friend nung highschool?

[@Mati-d3p]

i'd like to disagree with ur assertion that many college students here are friendless. i'd say they have at least one friend. besides, here in the philippines 'pakikisama' is part of our culture

[@RaheemViernes]

you are also right, but I think hindi mopa nararanasan siguro kung paano maging isang friendless, Yes I also have friends pero friends lng kami because of what we called "pakikisama" and at the end of the day mag isa kaparin, for me kasi ang salitang FRIEND ay kasama sa kahit anumang kalokohan,tawanan,sakitan,dramahan halos lahat nandun na pero bakit ganon kasama kolang sila dahil sa salitang "pakikisama" it hurs its really hurts...

[@Mati-d3p]

@@RaheemViernes maybe. but i've been battling my social anxiety ever since and realized i've always had a friend or two whom i know genuinely cares for me. nonetheless one will eventually find their circle so long as they are being themselves and don't try to fit in

[@ryusoongi7416]

real

[@Weh_Dinga]

Friendless pero panay grindr.

[@andrea-oq5ix]

True hanap ng tite

[@Weh_Dinga]

​​@@andrea-oq5ixHAHAHA alam mo yan. Tite is lyf 😂😂😂

[@angelodeleontv14]

😢

[@akuto17]

Nasaan po ba family mo at bakit mag isa ka sa bahay?

[@ligaaaaayaaa07]

Bat interesado ka sa pamilya nya?

[@emandevero]

aww my heart bruh ||_||

[@markanthonyanonuevo6485]

Pa cute nakaka bwisit maging natural ka lng

[@dodzoyyy]

tama na, nakakasakit ka na HA HA HA

[@whtksy]

I wanna know what his heartbeat sound like.

[@ejsab8485]

🫧🫧🫧

[@Itzmeteyangg]

吃欸一 內場哦昂昂 採煤礦 ㄝㄍ 卡死嗎？：（

[@kristangrande8338]

trying hard mo kase

[@ryusoongi7416]

hala ano ginawa niya

[@gelosauruss]

it's just a matter of strength and enjoying yourself company! friendless doesn't mean being lonely but more on appreciating and exploring what you can do on your own.🫶🏻✨

[@MilvenMandaze]

❤

[@itsreedw]

🫂