From Life-Changing Sex to a Sex-Free Pregnancy, Shan & Jared are Prioritizing a New Kind of Intimacy

[@elvisjoelle]

“me being home and connected to Shan in this moment, is more important than my sexual desires” ❤️😭

[@veroniquepaquette7121]

But shouldn't that always be the case? To prioritize being there for each other, not because they need you but because you enjoy each others energy, over sexual desires? This is just a question, out of respect!

[@snippets981]

@@veroniquepaquette7121 Yes, absolutely. But it's becoming more & more rare these days...

[@valentinacastilla3869]

Im absolutely in love with the relationship Shan and Jared have. I inspire to as open and as true as they are. Much love

[@1love847]

Real emotional intelligence and evolution here. Proud of them.

[@flipflapflupp9560]

I started watching Shan's youtube videos when I was a teenager and found so much guidance, education and empowerment. Its been so many years now and it's such a lovely coincidence to find her on this channel as well, that I adore so much. She's still inspiring me to this day and I send her lots of love and good energy, no matter what life's gonna throw at her and her partner I know they're gonna find the healthiest solution for both of them

[@ethyopiasmith3350]

Literally same!!! I was omg a collab w two of my fav channels???

[@katrabbit]

Thank you for letting me know she's a content creator!! I'm going to go visit her channel after this video 😊

[@CocoaCookies_]

Wow! This was so wholesome and loving. I love what she said about liking him enough to duplicate him. That’s such a beautiful and refreshing perspective! I imagine maybe there would be a little less heartbreak in the world if more children were brought into the world under those circumstances.

[@monica-cq4ie]

Jared is so emotionallly intelligent and a very good communicator. And Shan is... Shan

[@lovoniaparks]

Liking another person so much, that you decide to duplicate them is THE REALEST and most POWERFUL response about choosing to have a child. So much power in that decision. I love it.

[@Happygabby12345]

I love that you can tell they truly care for eachother and one another’s needs. He isn’t one of those narcissistic men that pushes their gf into that lifestyle for his own selfish needs of wanting to be in an open relationship. you can tell he really loves and values her 💗

[@diesdas6809]

wow what a power couple. really appreciate their honesty and vulnerability and think they are life long partners because you can see how much they reflect and communicate openly with each other!

[@1love847]

These two are so emotionally mature and vulnerable and honest. Inspiring coupling.

[@Daydreamerr13]

They really are!

[@linalovesvids]

I never wanna be in a relationship until I watch these videos. They give me hope.

[@prettyhamburger6462]

I think it's very sweet and interesting how they are putting their clothes together in one pile, sometimes the couples on here each have their own pile so that caught my attention for some reason:)

[@camaro8402]

Omg I love that you noticed that 😍

[@prettyhamburger6462]

@@camaro8402 Thanks😊

[@MissOpal]

Same! I noticed that 😜🐥

[@kJ922-h3j]

Wait yeah I was confused by this generally, what’s the point behind them taking items of clothes off? 😂

[@prettyhamburger6462]

@@kJ922-h3j it symbolizes the person shedding layers of themselves as they tell their story and perhaps go deeper into that story. They are vulnerable in sharing their story and taking off the clothes is further showing that. Sometimes you as the viewer will maybe start to feel, as you start to get to know this person more through the story they are telling, that you may have misjudged them based on the clothes they were wearing. And in the end everyone is a human, everyone was born naked, and that's the feeling I get at the end of these videos, like in the end we are all the same, I can relate to you through your story of your human experience, we're all human, it's like a very beautiful symbol for that oneness to me

[@mands4129]

I love this channel so much. When emotions and personalities are so complex and isolating making you question “why me?” , this channel introduces me to people that share my feelings and help me understand myself more . Honestly keep up the great great work ❤️.

[@AriesAsh85]

I just them and their ability to be so so open with each other and have these conversations in public. The fact that they encourage the conversations is just beautiful to me.

[@MsCole-qp5pc]

They are raw they are open and they are beautiful. They’re doing what’s right for them and that’s dynamic.

[@spirit.sister]

I don’t understand open relationships but I love your love for one another.

[@azariazulu]

I love Shan and Jared!!! I love this channel! The fact that two entities that I love so much are coming together is so cool!

[@StyleLikeU1]

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[@Trblues22]

i love it when they do interviews together.

[@HotelSoapBand]

If this makes sense: they feel like two plates of the earth. They're just so well intertwined and dynamic, but still solid, and holding deep love. Wishing them the best they have a new sub!!

[@briannalue7438]

beautiful analogy

[@jennyoung586]

Loved this. Normalizing these kinds of topics and conversations is so important and so appreciated. Thank you.

[@msanamaria007]

Shan has definitely been monumental in my growth of understanding and validating my feelings, my identity and loving my body/myself/my experiences...flaws and all. ❤

[@whoswhowho4872]

Humbling experience for Shan and Jared. Their transparency and natural beauty is appreciated.

[@z0eie]

They are so beautiful and open, with each other and themselves, it's really great to see.

[@msz9523]

The way they talk about each other makes me fall in love with the other person, there is truly something special there 💗

[@xoliswakali15]

Shan is great in her work. And I love how their relationship has grown into what they have now. And more that they are open to other possibilities too ♥️

[@briannjoroge2344]

I love everything about this channel. Please never stop putting this positive energy into the world.

[@LesterPGrant]

Oh wow! What an absolutely beautiful couple. They have such great energy together. And I love their honesty. Great video!

[@quetsyphoto]

He’s a true man. I pray I can find someone w his views

[@ubuntuber1619]

me me, im here, me!

[@quetsyphoto]

Oh lol 😅

[@loripaige887]

They have always been such beautiful souls to me. They help me understand who I am and what I like. Im glad you guys interviewed them! ♥️

[@SeahorseShimmer]

Thank you for acknowledging different body types Jared

[@Richard-lh3te]

Been following Shan since her time with those girls are wild, she’s definitely come a long way.

[@PortraitofAsha]

Same

[@rses916]

Same but I didn't know back then she was such a mess. 😂🎉

[@ethereal9101]

I've never seen shan so honest like this, i admire her so much

[@ethereal9101]

and they are unbelievably beautiful omg i dream of a relationship so deep like theirs

[@sofresh37]

I just love their perfectly imperfect relationship!❤️ What a great love story.

[@ludi82]

there is so much love here. I have no clue from family and surroundings what a healthy love is. I am in my 30s. They help me to get what a healthy relationship is

[@ALEXIS-df7kl]

found y'all from tiktok and I absolutely love your channel💗

[@mimi.alejandraa]

wow, i really did cry tears of joy with them sharing their story.

[@dakotac180]

Okay this is the mature way of nonmonogamy he is supporting her through the life they created and that's so important and nobody thinks or talks about that part. They are very knowing, also super attractive.

[@dominiqueeden]

I love these two followed them for years they seem like good people.

[@gelyuk]

I how intimate and sincere you guys are. I wish you well together and individually

[@ednafernandes7572]

Interesting....eye opening. I can feel such a good energy around you two. Congrats to your new family member on the way 👏 🙌

[@aventis93]

The couple makes me consider open relationship :) not controlling, not owning, not being somebody's property. Jealousy part is the hard part. But İ think the real reason we get jealous is because of the unknown and lies and being untrustful. Not because our partner is having sex with another person. İf your partner respects you enough he/she wont do something which threatens your relationship. I dont know if I make it happen but i will definitely wont try to own anybody again.

[@danielaarias8086]

They've said before they have a free relationship :), not an open one.. which is also great, I've learned a lot from her and their relationship actually, specially how to not be jealous, but an open relationship is a whole different story

[@jordynclark444]

That guy looks like a hotter bi-racial Justin Bieber and I’m here for it.

[@curseofcontext]

the cuddlebuddy breakup pain is so underrated! 😂 the my body is not ready mentality!

[@AmanGillNow]

I am so happy about this!!! yes! Toronto woman!! So proud of Shan and Jared! ❤

[@chloehammond2836]

I feel so much love between them it’s really moving and inspiring

[@earthling9891]

listened to this while painting a little, always reflecting on what I would answer to the young man I love most I thank you soo deeply for this!!

[@sthephaniec]

I loveeeeeeeeee this channel I can’t explain the impact of seeing this beautiful people experiencing live and love 💘💘💘💘 thank youuu for this valuable and amazing content 🤍🤍🤍

[@virgosmile]

So much light sent to these beautiful humans.... may your life and family be blessed~☆☆☆

[@deanie3]

I love their story & watching the journey👏🏽🥺 this episode was so enlightening✨

[@user-pk9sn4bj2j]

What they have is not something I would ever want, and it’s definitely not the norm, so kudos to them for being how they want to be! Congrats on the baby (even though this is 11 months ago hahaha) and you guys are really sweet!

[@moriahhamilton2974]

It’s rare that you get to experience a couple that is so highly intimate love Shared

[@sarahogvall]

Jared being embarrassed is the most precious thing I've seen

[@Yooperskepticz]

Wow, two beautiful people, inside and out. It makes me happy that children are being raised by couples like you 🙂

[@hanastrakacova959]

No idea who this couple is but what a powerful interview and beautiful ppl they are!

[@LLawrah]

Check out Shan Boody, she’s amazing.

[@polinaeroujenets2836]

I love how they put all their clothes in the same pile not sure if I've noticed that in other videos before.

[@melb.6024]

The moment when Shan is taking off her boots… it’s something about that moment. You can tell she kinda leads the relationship a bit. Relationships aren’t about leader/follower. I don’t know how else to express this thought tho.

[@rses916]

She is an aries he is a libra. Shes def the leader and libra men love aries women because they have that mars energy. Libra men are usually feminine.

[@rses916]

Also he says what he finds so beautiful about her is her power. Lol I knew.

[@mayag598]

Yayay I’m so glad you guys are on style like you 💗💗💗💗💗 yes 👏🏾

[@ijustlove2sing]

Such a beautiful couple! 🥰 Thanks for sharing!

[@RAEchelRunning]

beautiful couple and love hearing them share their stories of creating family and championing one another! thanks for the inspirational how to be humane series created with such love and integrity to ALL who stand before your cameras and inspire us; ) Beautiful! Blessings to ALL to be our most lovely selves ; )

[@chantalreneehayles7976]

i wish i could be like them. idk if i could ever be as emotionally mature and confident.

[@TashaAlexandrea]

Now that’s an emotionally available man 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@GratitudeGriot]

awww we got little frame of Raiyu🥰 she's adorbs!! great looking family😍

[@jazzialavergne1661]

Where are her boots from!!?? Omg 🔥

[@earthgoddess2468]

Listen and validate is so important.

[@pamk1967]

Jared Sweetie just let her say IT ALL, LOL 😆 😂 🤣 He seems to be a sweet soul. Shan is Shan, Power is her ✌🏾 So gald yall have a Beautiful family, Congratulations on baby #2 ❤❤💕

[@sylviagray4206]

What a beautiful and honest couple. Another excellent interview

[@vickiebrown9829]

I love Shan and Jared. I first saw her on the Jubilee video of monogamous and open relationships and thought she was amazing.

[@xenuworriorprincess]

Theres something about her that doesnt sit right. Dont know why she had to point out his topless decision. Some of her comments are narc like.

[@belfanmnoir5503]

Shan is so cerebral and Jared is so deeply loving. Great balance.

[@tracyt6374]

Wow! This is so eye opening! Fresh. Honest! Beautiful!

[@marizamentzou3293]

The confidence of saying 'go get a fuck body' to your partner, is admirable. Love this narrative or what love can look like.

[@missrandom9379]

Woooow!!! So beautiful, love it! All the blessings!! 🌺♥️✨

[@river-jay5536]

So beautiful! Thanks for this raw honesty!

[@mickiellah]

THIS is the interview that made me fall in love with these you

[@cindy8205]

it’s the honesty for me

[@naturallylauryn168]

I love them, blessings to them and their family 🤎🙏🏾

[@justleaveit9085]

Every guy ever: "I was just happy to be there."

[@Golden90960]

She puts so much pressure on sex. And now she’s starting to learn that sex is not the most important thing in life, let alone a life partnership. Not to say it’s not important. It’s just not the only thing a relationship should be built on.

[@rses916]

Fr 😅

[@ha5den]

I strive to achieve this level of communication and emotional intelligence

[@pieterwolt1245]

great episode

[@MsBerengaria]

those two fill me with hope...

[@Myselfandme3]

That was so beautiful I love them 😭

[@cinnamonrollss]

I love Shan and Jared 😭

[@kJ922-h3j]

Shan talking about not feeling sexy and then 12:08…damn 😂😍🔥

[@aubreyjames8795]

This channel is next level intelligence and emotional intelligence!

[@Daheeat]

Fabulously authentic. ❤️

[@xoxoxok]

That last question and answer🥰

[@samira14knox]

To be the cuddle buddy and see how the fuck buddy played out tho🥴

[@larsstougaard7097]

Cuddle buddy bought a big 🧸🪅

[@synesthesia.aesthetic]

Wishing them the best

[@mindtheprivacy]

She should let him speak more... she would find herself getting more compliments.

[@andinab8060]

These guys are so lovely! He looks so much like my partner (younger version) it's uncanny tho 🤣

[@CelineAdobea]

aaah my favourite couple 😍🙌🏾

[@tiana6586]

Ugh love them!

[@allinaflutter6117]

That was beautiful to watch :)

[@irikupenska]

What a beautiful couple ❤

[@esmeclair7895]

theyre both gorgeous. lush. you dont hear any men talk like that, i know theyre out there. please support other men. they need role models x love to all x

[@vel5430]

Love it!!

[@clintonastro8663]

After she said " hit my mom with a crowbar" all I could think about is half life.

[@juliej5917]

Definition of beauty.

[@michelebergman4336]

Hi girls! I’m writing from LA! I’m also a stylist & 60 fabulous!!! I was Asst to Carlene Cerf & Babette Djian & Carine Rotfield in Paris…when I was just starting out at in 1981 21 years old! I have 2 beautiful kids 32 & 18! Would love to meet u when I come to NY 🍏

[@JungleYT]

Two of my favorite people... So damned honest. Most relationships are deceptive or full of "Fairy Tale" Bullsh*t... These two need to really open up an institute to cultivate or train others in their philosophy... *Damn, gurl... Looking good here! LOL - **12:09*