Full Episode: Sample vs. Johnston-Collier

[@2theOmega]

When men say, "I'm innocent until proven guilty" it secretly means, "I'm guilty, but you gon' have to wait until I slip up and get caught for me to admit it."

[@mzfeisty1554]

They full of shit, girl.They know that all black women aren't like that. Just like they know that all black men aren't thugs, criminals, and gangbangers. A lot of them are worse than KKK leaders towards us. They scapegoat and demonize us in order to justify their own black plantation buckery.

[@MikeBilliardsFun78]

another one is if a women a friend about cheating , and you have to say it none of my business that also mean cheating , if all women ask there friend that watch how bad it get

[@ForeverLumoz]

2theOmega exactly! And when he slips up, like the pictures and staying out and whatever else he does, he's still not caught enough to come clean. He's okay with having her at home and chasing other girls. She'd have to catch him with his thing up a girl for him to admit to cheating. And probably even then he'd say "it's not what it looks like". Good thing they broke up. Especially when his horrible behavior makes a white girl crazy. Or a Hispanic. Then where will he go? Because he can make any color crazy, I'm absolutely sure of that.

[@uncleelroy6353]

No,that's what it means.

[@Ghostface2point0]

Yet he's annoyed that she's always looking for evidence...You told her to dummy!

[@xxmystakalxx]

It is so irritating hearing my brothers complain about black women being upset and crazy and THEY'RE THE ONES MAKING THEM SO. He's unhappy why? Because she's upset about him cheating?? GTFOH.

[@christophersample3101]

Deon D Ok... so i assume everyone is perfect and no one has ever cheated.... the cheating part was in the very...(clears throat) THE VERY BEGINING of the relationship... comining from a 5 yr relationship from his first what he thought was true love and 1st real heart felt relationship .... and wasnt 100% ready to just move on, slipped back and made the mistake that can never be replaced, aka cheating , but.... had the strenght and courage to admit his wrongs to his future to become wife because he wanted a relationship based on honesty and trust .... yet he's wrong..... its not about any other race its not about putting a certain race down its about whats in the heart that was learned from a child ... so who can really judge a persons feelings or say the feelings are wrong??? Dating black women wasnt a goal it was more of a choice and free decision just like anyone elses... especially when rasied in foster care and told not to date any other race so the expirementing began to find out WHY??? Yet ended up marrying a black woman. Its not about how she acts or putting his race down its about going against racism and beliefs

[@valenachristopher3596]

Deon D right.....them other races dropped his ass that’s what he’s leaving out

[@hearme4581]

It’s not just the man, I’m a black woman who had to learn to tame it down some. There are a lot of our women who are over the top and doing too much. Even if the man is wrong leave him instead of creating a mess and acting out.

[@PrettyLikeZ]

@@christophersample3101 Umm I don’t cheat tf

[@kirtytheGOAT]

fax real cringe

[@srumi9481]

“This the first black woman I’ve dated” Make it the last. You don’t deserve one.

[@uncleelroy6353]

Stick to what makes ur life easy my friend.

[@evonjohnson4078]

I was thinking the same thing. WOW!!!

[@Noco235]

Historically other women allow black men to do whatever it is that they want to do and they're perfectly all right with it that's why he likes to deal with white women and other women that are not black

[@sugabay]

Haha ikr he think hes a prize

[@sugabay]

@@Noco235 right

[@proudblacksister1225]

If things were so great with the non-black women, why did he double back to not only dating, but ultimately marrying a black woman??? Its not the black woman that is the problem, he is the one that has the problem and he made his wife sick from his problems.

[@malekabayoumdi2918]

Thank you!

[@TheNaphisa03]

Yes maam!!!

[@Chazcott]

Thaaaaaaaaank yoooooouuuuuu

[@lauryjerry1566]

facts!!!

[@troy028]

Na his wife just insecure. How can you talk about shit when one always yelling? 🤔 maybe he married a black woman because at one point she made him happy. Ever think of that? Or you to slow? Maybe he married a black girl because he changed to what he into? Maybe he not racist. Because I see a women as a woman and not race. They both have pussy.

[@JaNequaDesiree]

“There’s no evidence”= “I’m cheating, but until she catches me, I’m good”

[@nickj4281]

Ja'Nequa Wise with u , i only cheated if u can catch me with proof

[@ChiChiGlamShop]

Ja'Nequa Wise right

[@Ghostface2point0]

It's hilarious to me that he thinks that but hates that she's constantly looking for evidence

[@christophersample3101]

Ja'Nequa Wise ...they both clearly stated he cheated once

[@vanhoot2234]

LOL he is pleading the 5th

[@valm487]

Let's generalize all black women. That's like saying that "all black men are criminals and they cheat". We know that's not true. It's sad when our brothers don't even have our back. We are your mothers, sisters, daughters, nieces and friends. We've carried you in our wombs, stood beside you and had your back...where did the respect go? SMH!!

[@kingtutakhamon]

V Mo the respect left when y'all choose the dog's over the men and sacrificed y'all womanhood for rachetness

[@Crystal_Nicole]

kingtutakhamon I hear you barking! You must have missed the part where she said "let's generalize ALL black women" are ALL black women like how you think? NO, so stfu...thanks.

[@bigshawn1972]

V Mo he doesn't respect women as a whole, don't let that dumb shit he said fool you. If he gets along so well with other ethnicities of women why wasn't he already married to one of them? His issue isn't he doesn't respect Black women, his issue is that he's an asshole and doesn't respect women, period.

[@bigshawn1972]

kingtutakhamon, you sound bitter.

[@semarjafreeman3141]

V Mona

[@karinec.2131]

No children at all!! They can easily start over with their lives if they must.

[@shirleyrussell7089]

He cheats and expects her to except it and say nothing about it he is just plain stupid for thinking that. Girl walk away let those women of other ethnicitys have him.

[@wordplay1415]

They both act like children

[@lolabrown7264]

Must? They need to leave each other.

[@Jazz5s]

He's gaslighting. He's literally doing stuff to provoke her and blaming for her reaction

[@chaunceydumbuya3050]

And then after the judge helped her see through his mind games, he gets mad and punish her further by discarding her. He compliments the judge to make her feel a type of way. He cheats on a black woman and treats her poorly, and then blame her for her pain.

[@donelledaniel6054]

Men do this ish all the time

[@donelledaniel6054]

I lived through it till l took control of my emotions cause he used to provoke me and then when l reacted people be thinking I crazy and not seeing what he did.

[@troy028]

It her fault that she acted the way she did. That man can't control what she does or say. But it is a women thing to not take responsibility in thier own actions. Provoke or not she chose how to respond. Her husband can't think for her.

[@troy028]

@@donelledaniel6054 no you blaming whoever your him is for your actions. He could provoke it. But you choose how to respond. It's your fault for not being able to control your feelings at those times you get mad or whatever emotion you got. You let it bother you. Your problem is you run off emotions instead of your brain 🧠

[@2theOmega]

And if a black man says you're the first black woman he's ever dated, "Run!" If a man has to point out that you're the first anything to him.... be very skeptical especially when it's merely a physical attribute.

[@kristine7689]

I agree!! Had one of those, thought I was special but later realized it was actually somewhat of a negative attribute to the relationship. He will later use it to belittle me. smh

[@2theOmega]

They're both problematic. I made other comments on this video referring to her... this one just happened to be about one of his statements which never results positively from my experiences.

[@MrBlackPositiveandInteresting]

The race does not determine WHO a person is. The Rachet gene has no color.

[@Mimi-cg2cw]

Too late for me..he just asked me why do I the my hair up?

[@asabifatosin1150]

me jr Yes!

[@goodgirlvicki]

Judge Lynn is drop dead gorgeous!

[@gina9985]

the wonders of war paint

[@doreenwatson-read]

Isn't she though. I never wear makeup , but when I see here's it makes me want to try it. Her eyes are beautiful.

[@tgadegagarrencha8304]

And danmmmmmmm Vicki you beautiful as well!!!!!!!!!!

[@jamesarciaga434]

@@doreenwatson-read EVERY woman looks better with makeup. I'm a guy...trust me on this. Go see a professional and get lesson.

[@angelabaldwin9889]

I miss her the best judge court ever and dropped down beautiful in spirit, soul & skin deep.

[@PrettyGirlCrochetBraidz]

Why date a fool that don’t see the beauty and value of his own black women? She’s silly for being with a man that desire ‘alternates’ 🙄🙄🙄 black men like him makes me sick

[@christophersample3101]

The both said hes only cheated 1 time ...he said he has thought several times of cheating because her actions are clearly pushing him away to want to see alternates

[@patp2690]

Interracial Coupling, Dr. Amos Wilson kzbin.info/www/bejne/rHmsXqWtaM-er6c

[@pjaszmyne1090]

+ImFaMoUs ClOuD yes they did clearly say that but he should have tried to help change the wrong instead of wanting to do more wrong...:/

[@12pope]

Because she's a fool who gets even and never takes the higher ground. I wonder how many cars she messed up in her lifetime. nobody else would wife a hurricane.

[@pjaszmyne1090]

+12pope maybe he's the one who causes the hurricane and its her first time doing anything like that to somebody she's been with

[@mrsrunmemymoney497]

The sweetest woman in the world can be the meanest woman in the world. ...IF YOU MAKE HER THAT WAY. ...From Song. ...Its A Thin Line Between Love and Hate.

[@laquittalittle]

Spicy Creole Lady 💪🏿👌🏾👍🏾

[@neat6237]

It's thin line between love and hate 😀😀😀😀

[@reddunk3744]

Nah some woman are naturally crazy

[@uncleelroy6353]

I dont believe that for a moment. I REFUSE TO ALLOW ANY WOMEN THAT KIND OF MENTAL POWER OVER ME. TURN ME INTO SOMETHING IM NOT. YOU CANT TURN A SWEET WOMAN INTO THE MEANEST IF IT ISNT ALREADY THERE IN HER HEART.

[@Marc98338]

@@reddunk3744 The majority are.

[@Ghostface2point0]

"she thinks I'm cheating but I'm innocent until proven guilty" Yet he wonders why she's always looking for evidence...

[@prettybrowngirl71]

It’s not about race. I’ve seen attitude and angry from various races. However if the guy is cheating you can’t make him stop by acting a fool. My mom always said either you leave him or let him cheat in peace. She is wasting her time. You can’t stop him from being who he is.

[@sharonsimmons7824]

Very toxic relationship not healthy. Run she incure he a dog . Just saying.

[@montreyharris8676]

He obviously doesn’t watch any crime shows.

[@secemoiraharrell1035]

This

[@judneyp]

I don't like to discuss other people's family but just cause your family is hood doesnt make all black women hood. I believe he is attracted to what he grew up in so he married it. Finally, his ideals of manhood are elementary. Sweats and the gym have nothing to do with masculinity.

Thank you for the support Brother ❤

[@juiceezetc3]

Thank you sir...that's the short psychology of it. He hates who/where he comes from.

[@geneo4]

I wear sweats at times and go the gym. I'm all woman. And not because of how I dress or look. That's only a shell. Well said sir...

[@zuri957]

Btw, I don't think I could ever date a man who only dates outside of his race. That's an indication of self hatred and other internal issues that I wouldn't even want to tackle.

You talkin right ❤

[@troy028]

So your a racist in some type of way? I used to think that way but changed because a close minded person can't learn new things. Race shouldn't have any thing to do with it. It should be is this person loving and caring. I dated different races of females and black women did me more wrong then any other race becauseI wasn'thood enough to the ones I dated. But that's my story because everyone is different and goes through different things in life.

[@cadillacdeville5828]

@@troy028 You're CLEAR internal issues are showing

[@troy028]

@@cadillacdeville5828 you clearly have no idea and is just protecting. Like I can project that your a racist. What's the difference between a white girl and black girl decide skin color? They both got women parts.

[@troy028]

@@cadillacdeville5828 you know nothing about my life but what I typed. So clearly you just don't like me which is cool.

[@venturesomeactivist]

I can't believe that he called her a monster.. That made my blood boil. And he kept berating her about being loud, ratchet, etc. I feel like her behaviors were just a self fulfilling prohecy. He just broke her down, disrespected her and abandoned her, leaving her to pick up the pieces further perpetuating her behaviors in other relationships. She isn't an angry black woman, she is a broken one.

[@jayguapo7127]

marqui laney stop it

[@cocobenji6123]

marqui laney well if he started off insulting his own sisters...smh.

[@TescoBoy568]

+benji 80 how did he insult his sisters man gtfo here and grow up

[@nwate7]

marqui laney funny how you black women love playing the victim all the time blaming the man for your BEHAVIORAL problems. Yet call yourselves strong and independant queens for acting out on those behavioral issues. Black women like you have lost touch of reality. Take some accountability for yourselves because you are far from innoncent victims.

[@venturesomeactivist]

Young Sage Firstly, you know nothing about me. Why are you making this personal? I commented on THIS video. Did I say ALL black men?🤔 And how am I delusional for having empathy? I did not say that people shouldn't take accountability for their actions but if you are in a relationship with someone that you care about you should at least TRY to understand the motivation behind those behaviors. Constantly hurling insults at someone is not constructive and doesn't fix anything.I barely heard anything about her actions, those are things that you can change. He talked about her being black, which is something that you can never change.

[@biggwillnyc3775]

Not only is Judge Toler gorgeous, but she's very intelligent and compassionate.

[@candystayinaturalalexander5869]

If someone's recording OF COURSE they will be calmer intentionally to make their partner come across more crazy.

[@SoulSista6579]

I don’t care what this fool says I loveeeee my black brothers and sisters u are kings and queens!!!! U r royalty

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

This is not about race. He is cheating. Stop loving men who cheat.

[@SoulSista6579]

Michelle shut up fool I said what the fuck I said

[@itswhatever1737]

SoulSista6579 hope Black men have the same love for y’all.

[@jamesgibson3716]

Listen to his words ladies. He said that Porsche was the FIRST black woman he's been with. After this, this dude will GO BACK to dating NON black women. Mark my words...And he doesn't see that HE'S the reason he's having problems. Porsche's NO angel, but he made her that way....

[@cocobenji6123]

James Gibson when you're the common theme in your relationships YOU are the problem

[@patp2690]

Vee Darko He is not an asset. Good riddance.

[@shaheedahevans2871]

James Gibson She was already that way.

[@ninanano]

James Gibson when he said that... it's creepy it's like he's making a collection, trying to date every "race". I don't understand how people can't see how creepy and fetishizing (in a bad way) that is. Also he's very ignorant and believes in sterotypes, just a whole dumbass

[@kimberlylozano2881]

Shaheeda Abdullah agree, the women I know that are that way bring it into every relationship. They start off not trusting the dude and accusing them of shit or snooping. Your relationship will fail every time if its started that way. You can't make every guy pay for what the guy before him did. And I've seen this with men too so it goes both ways. She is ratchet and no dude wants to the 21 questio2nd just going to Wal-Mart. Guilty of something or not.

[@bstar1816]

This woman lets her emotions control her actions.

[@bigg6267]

Neetra213 most do

Should that be, this sistas only issue an adjustment can be made. She can work on that ❤

[@hearme4581]

I was once her, I had to look at myself and stop saying people made me do this and that. Yea they where wrong but I choice to deal with it.

[@donnaleehinds2514]

Totally! Staying with him definitely ruin her totally. She’s loves him to the point she’s lowering her standards.

[@Januarycap]

@@donnaleehinds2514 honestly you made more sense than the person who left the initial message/ statement.

[@mykaraokechannel347]

He doesn't even like and value his own sisters! Why would he like a random black woman? He wants a woman he can cheat on and get away with it with the minimum of fuss! The nerve of him! He's too much of a coward to deal with the conflicts he creates with his own bad behavior and she is too much of a coward to be without the likes of him!

[@leah8112]

Blk women do better PLEASE. Dont let a man make u crazy so you can be thrown onto the angry blk woman pile. If he treats u bad then leave! Date a man who wants you. He might not be black but whatever you do, leave the rachet behaviour alone. Be good to yourself mentally and emotionally and you will find a good man who loves n respects u.

[@lesliejohnson-nelson4003]

Black women needs to calm down, too loud and ghetto it's so embarrassing

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Don't have to worry about kicking him out, he showed himself to the door

[@shirleyrussell7089]

I say good writtens!!! Let him keep those STD'S that he might get to himself. CHEATER

[@newnimprovesT3]

He's not even attractive or cute.

[@MarvAuthor]

newnimprovesT3 Why is his hair long and real, and her hair is fake? It's weird to me how women judge men appearances when most women look completely different without their weave, heavy makeup, fake eye lashes, fake nails, body shapers, pushup or padded bras, and fake breasts and asses. Fake beauty....Delusional about what they really look like

[@Ebd1990]

He's handsome. I dont like the dreads but his face is handsome. Not my type of a man though.

[@gina9985]

when the judge called him cute i was naucious

[@summerdays3919]

Nor is she

[@jackieadele11]

newnimprovesT3 am cracking up 😂 you speak truth 😝

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

The judge got a headache, I got a headache, damn everyone got a headache. N if u av to b a detective for a man leave especially if it wont change anything. Damn

[@vvelasco54]

Sasha-kay fuller I truly did get a headache

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

vvelasco54 me too.

[@pjaszmyne1090]

well Sasha-kay fuller if you got a headache from watching this couple on a entertainment TV show you need to go get that checked it might be something wrong with your trait of thinking

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

P J dwl well thank u for ur so needed advice.

[@pjaszmyne1090]

+Sasha-kay fuller it wasn't any advice...

[@clarenceedwards2866]

He is partly to blame for the very things he accuse her of; and speaking in a degrading manner about our women is completely defeatist. You hate your own self and don't even know it.

[@donaldstanley4261]

Spot on The brother needs to respect our black queens period

[@MissFoxification]

From the very first moment you could tell they were done, all that was left was anger and bitterness. People, if your relationship is done, if you are really that unhappy, do yourself justice and leave. You're better off being single than wishing you were.

[@allanathomas6977]

MissFoxification Exactly...

[@annanicole7642]

I'm not even past the intro and I'm like GIRL RRRUUUNNN🙄 !!!!!!! 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

[@dinoman4451]

Runeth Honey Runeth! lol

[@dspenderella9671]

Ikr lol

[@je.suis.prisci]

LaTrese LuvsEarl Exactly!!!

[@Ghostface2point0]

Faaaaaaaaaaacts as soon as he said "she thinks I'm cheating but I'm absolutely innocent...until proven guilty" I gave up on him

[@rikitawimberly775]

Same! I could tell he was a clown from the time he opened his mouth

[@shugo2355]

I don't understand this woman at all. She's so caught up in trying to catch him cheating that she just won't leave him

[@patp2690]

Shugo Fair He ain t no good.

[@shugo2355]

Pat P He's not but she's also dumb for sitting there playing the proove him cheating game. Like honey, if you dont trust him THAT much just get out. Stop wasting your time trying to find all the ways and reasons he's doing what he's doing. Just leave!

[@lesliejohnson-nelson4003]

She ghetto asf, so embarrassing

[@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare]

@@shugo2355why do y’all call ppl dumb just bc they aren’t as strong as you are? We all make mistakes hopefully she will learn from hers

[@rancisgamer]

The "angry black woman" is a stereotype that has been put on to black women unfortunately but the real problem is learned behavior... it falls in to the stupid category of "acting black" or " black enuf" and the lie that blackness is synonymous with ignorant behavior... there is an expectation among black women to behave a certain way in certain situations and that is the real problem... one can't generalize anything or anyone. I don't have a solution but I do know that group think expectations are part of the problem

[@lolag.4819]

Ji Mi 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@lolag.4819]

RancisGamer thank you.

[@brittanyr1456]

I agree with you. A black man I was talking to recently kept telling me that I was a “white girl” because of the way I talk and the things I say and because I didn’t grow up like he did in the hood. This has been the case most of my life and it’s sad because when I was younger and even now, black men (black women either as friends) don’t check for me AT ALL and it made me think that I wasn’t “black enuf” and ratchet was the thing to be and I just didn’t fit into that mold to be considered black.

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

@@johnjohnzeeland7589 You really dont understand culture whatsoever. A very racist person indeed. People mirror behavior that they have been raised around. If you dont believe or understand that, then I hope to God you don't have & never do have children. Smh

[@lorebay2593]

Well, I believe that there is too much generalizing, I am not an angry woman at all, we are not all the same. If I thought you were cheating, or had evidence of same, I’ll just tell you to be sure your girlfriend wants you, because I lose interest real fast and once you leave, you not coming back.

[@TheLockhartPerspective]

I marvel at how people cheat and then get angry at the persons response and THEN say "I can't live this way I just want to enjoy my life I'm out"

[@tinalawson5110]

Cheating is universal,all races. NO woman wants abuse and disrespect.

[@christopherpate9560]

Great advice in the end judge. Let em go. Don't be the fool no more, Let somebody else do it.

[@feliciaevans7899]

HE IS CHEATING ON HER!

[@bigshawn1972]

Duh!

[@jacpppp]

With white womensss 😂

[@pjaszmyne1090]

and you a side Chic y'all females are something

[@pjaszmyne1090]

+Mr. Lion looks like you would be able to vouch if he is if you even getting any

[@pjaszmyne1090]

BYE FELICIA... you think he's cheating cause you somebody side chic

[@neri3376]

They love to record and act calm after they push a person to the extreme.

[@zaujmumin1]

You are in control of you.

[@Missleeleebaby23]

I'm done listening to ANYTHING he has to say the moment he as a black man decided to group all black women together and label us as ratchet and volatile. If he wants someone of a different ethnicity I support it because we need no uncle tom, self hating, indignant bums!!! His mother failed not only his sisters but him!!!

[@hannahlambert2807]

“She thinks I’m cheating but I’m innocent until proven guilty and there’s no evidence “ boy, you cheating. 🙄 and starting off by telling the judge she’s very beautiful? 😒

[@mrsrunmemymoney497]

The childish immature pettiness of this all...I just can't

[@Ladyjojo83]

Spicy Creole Lady you are so right! I was so annoyed! 😐😐

[@xluvsan4117]

"Fear is jealousy's bitchey sister" Omg Judge xD

[@RiddyOnline]

Think it was "jealousy is fear's bitchy little sister..." but pretty cool quote though

[@lucianoabbott5149]

It was 'Anger is nothing, but fear's bitchey little sister'.

[@myrasmama]

The relationship is making her miserable, Ssick, sad, unhappy, the list goes on... I hope she can move on. Time for her to focus on herself so she can heal and learn from it and be open to someone who will appreciate her and love her the way she deserves.

[@leahmartin676]

Perpetuating the angry black woman narrative even though he cheats on her and call her crazy all the time. He's crying boo hoo over the environment he created. The judge was trying to tell him how he made his wife feel that caused the way she reacted. He did not want to hear none of it. It was all about what he wanted and how he feel. That's no way to be in a marriage

[@shelterlovely]

This man just came on the show just to advertise that he is in need of a white woman,

[@nwate7]

Doris Ohagudo why do you think that?

[@ladysankofa1018]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@thechannelofself]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pandorasbox4238]

I feel for her. She isn't handling it the best way she could, but I know from experience how a cheating husband will make you crazy. I suspect she may have some issues with depression. I just get that vibe. I hope she'll be ok.

[@lynntoler4923]

Why you can't be mad that the soda can is flat ...

[@Ladyjojo83]

Lynn Toler so true!!

[@lavidaloca2344]

That analogy was way to deep for him.

[@tyresedagoat1237]

I don't agree with that

[@musicgal9830]

Tyrese Dagoat who cares lol

[@lattybrown7056]

Their level of of immaturity is dispicable

[@tinalawson5110]

Wow so he confessed that he cheats and she can't prove it. Then gallantly went on the show to let people know how crazy she acts. Wow.

[@charlesanderson1963]

Tina Lawson Sometimes, we men are our own worst enemy.

[@aliyacxopp4036]

What the Judge said at the end really hit hard❤️ So true and she said it in the most beautiful way

[@michaeladewale532]

21 days till 2018 my black brodas we gotta do better.

[@jacpppp]

Michael Adewale 😂😂😂

[@jocage1719]

If they knew better then they would do better. knowledge is power and its unfortunate many of them lack that trait 😔😔😔

[@nwate7]

Jo Cage what about black women?

[@EshaBby444]

Reminds me of Baby Boy when he late picking her up from work in HER car and then she finds condoms in the car lmao smfh why bother with this man?!

[@cocobenji6123]

He started off generalizing..

[@damienkirksey7026]

He's telling the truth

[@chickenwings6745]

@@damienkirksey7026 how? Not every black woman is crazy so please 😟

[@mizstinkie]

@@damienkirksey7026 no he’s not

[@damienkirksey7026]

@@chickenwings6745 You're right, it's 80% of y'all

[@chickenwings6745]

@@damienkirksey7026 huh? Don’t be rude....thank you

[@tiffanymonique2143]

While she's in tears saying she loves him and willing to forgive all his infidelity he wants to throw in the towel and it's because he's already moved on he has numerous women that he has come to let take his wife's place and no he doesn't know what marriage is he feels like it's supposed to be easy all the time or he feels like because he cheats and he does what he wants to do she supposed to suck that up and just be happily ever after know you create the monster that you have if you wanted her to treat you a certain way you would have treated her a certain way you don't get to stab someone in the heart and wonder why they bleed

[@uncleelroy6353]

Her job is peace if she isn't bringing it then I'm out too. Work all day to come home to that no thank you.

[@themasterspiece5669]

@@uncleelroy6353 you sound ridiculous 😅

[@asabifatosin1150]

I’m sick of him already. 🙁

[@jaylane8853]

White women don't have to be rachet with his black behind, they got 4 magic words that ALWAYS work nicely for them. I'm calling the cops!, they'll have them cops come get rachet for them. hahahaha.

[@jocage1719]

Love Lane lol 😂😂😂😂 you ain't lying either

[@nwate7]

Love Lane 4 words black women tend to have for almost any nigga they just met " i'm having your baby".

[@valenachristopher3596]

His wardrobe alone woulda told me to run 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Tayamyre]

So does he tell his sisters and mother this to their face???

[@nwate7]

Tayamyre why should he?

[@patp2690]

He got on national tv and screwed them over.

[@nwate7]

Pat P maybe they dessrrved it

[@pjaszmyne1090]

Tayamyre why should that matter if he does or not if they already know the truth

[@brandimiller2842]

p jaszmyne maybe they don't know how he has felt all his life. Just because they behaved a certain way doesn't mean they were aware of how he perceived them and how it affected him. So the "truth" is sometimes one's opinion. I think he should sit down and talk with his family so he can heal. I believe there's some hurt with him and black women that is from his childhood. Yet he does or is attracted to black women but ran from a hurt by dating other race. Which there is nothing wrong with that (dating outside your race) but to me only if you find love based on love and not running from a past hurt. Love has no color race, etc. its when you purposely not date a certain race that makes it racist to me. I do believe in types of what we are just attracted to. But I'm speaking on this situation specifically.

[@ddavis8988]

What it seems like is he grew up with a bunch of hood chicks. His whole family. Then the first black woman he dates he goes for the exact same thing he says he doesn't like. Then he wants to label all black women like that. Hascoob written all over him

[@patp2690]

Damon T. Davis And he is an ignorant hood dude.

[@Yeshuadaughter727]

But he lies he said he dated others and explained how they were and then says she's the first.

[@refi6438]

mistake and red flag ladies never date a man that has never dated his own race there is some self hate going on and why would you even want to deal with a man with issues like that.. he would have been a no go from the jump!!

[@jenowens9990]

Girl ruuuunnnn!! 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

[@dspenderella9671]

16:39 Aww Judge Toler was so kind to tell that lie that the plaintiff was "good looking"...Judge where? Locks don't make everybody look good - I'm sorry. 😂

[@lollascreations6142]

She’s beautiful. She needs to find her self worth, come to peace with life & move on.💗💗

[@charlesanderson1422]

Onna Ellis 😂😂 Someone In the comments always say someone is beautiful. Like that means something, like that entitles them to a perfect life.She was your version of beautiful when she chose this clown, while she staying in a sham relationship, instead of doing something constructive with her life, she would rather be ratchet. How does “ beauty “ help that?

[@lesliejohnson-nelson4003]

Oh please, she's so freaking ghetto it's so disgusting

[@piiweepiggy9775]

omg the fact that he said innocent until proven guilty 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@debrasteele1588]

He’s a jerk! Move on girl, you look to good to be dealing with his cheating.

[@myhumbleopinion3067]

He has his issues, but Omgoodness, she's so immature.

[@fayluv6693]

Wow!!! The way he talked about his sister's that was raised by his mother smdh

[@alexarenee29]

I'm just glad they didn't have kids... She can start a whole new life

[@asho345]

Girl should've got her a treat on the side to make her happy. How you let a self hating black man play you like that?

[@nwate7]

Ash O talk about self hate...many black women HIDE their natural hair by spending big money on hair that grew out soneone else scalp just to look and feel pressentable lol

[@bossqueen4944]

Why am I addicted to watching other’s toxicity? Lol

[@loveliejoseph6239]

The nerve of this so called man to talk down on black woman when clearly a black woman gave birth to his sorry ass.Im sick of these so called men downgrading black women as a whole as if other races of women are perfect.Why stay together if y’all gonna do all that and she must be desperate to stay with someone who put down other sisters.

[@christophersample3101]

Lovelie Joesph Ok... so i assume everyone is perfect and no one has ever cheated.... the cheating part was in the very...(clears throat) THE VERY BEGINING of the relationship... comining from a 5 yr relationship from his first what he thought was true love and 1st real heart felt relationship .... and wasnt 100% ready to just move on, slipped back and made the mistake that can never be replaced, aka cheating , but.... had the strenght and courage to admit his wrongs to his future to become wife because he wanted a relationship based on honesty and trust .... yet he's wrong..... its not about any other race its not about putting a certain race down its about whats in the heart that was learned from a child ... so who can really judge a persons feelings or say the feelings are wrong??? Dating black women wasnt a goal it was more of a choice and free decision just like anyone elses... especially when rasied in foster care and told not to date any other race so the expirementing began to find out WHY??? Yet ended up marrying a black woman. Its not about how she acts or putting his race down its about going against racism and beliefs

[@loveliejoseph6239]

ImFaMoUs ClOuD I feel like he’s belittling black woman tho

[@jocage1719]

the self hate is real 🤦‍♀️. They always tend to forget where and WHO they came from

[@loveliejoseph6239]

Young Sage It’s my opinion wether you like it or not keep it moving you obviously one of those sell outs that think just like him 🙄

[@zinniairis]

Young Sage My boyfriend is hispanic yet I dont insult black men. Thats what not having self hate looks like.

[@kimberlyrussell3111]

That guy thinks he is something special, and he is not.

[@22HW4Life]

Instead of fixing his issues which in turn would fix her issues and altogether the relationship as a whole....I'll just leave...Smh typical.

[@patp2690]

Chanita Jones He doesn't have the guts and courage to fix himself. So he is just going to leave because it is easier for him. He is the problem. If he fixed himself, she would be a happy woman.

[@christophersample3101]

Chanita Jones dont bekieve everything" TV" shows you

[@22HW4Life]

ImFaMoUs ClOuD I don't believe damn near anything I see on TV. But thanks

[@patp2690]

Chanita Jones I don't believe nothing I see on TV. That is why it is called programming.

[@nwate7]

Chanita Jones so you are saying that her value and morals as a human being is dependant on those of that man??

[@Jmeadows5g]

Not gnna lie, it made me chuckle when he said ‘what we gnna eat tonight’ ‘a Remy sandwich?’

[@sya286]

Y'all don't realize she's not crazy. Immature, yes. But not crazy. She comes from a community where tit-for-tat was acceptable, so she needed to be taught by the judge to rise above. He's a tacky man, and has some NERVE blaming all black women because they didn't put up with his trifling butt. That's an insult to non-black women too, claiming they're easier to dupe.

[@Bear4196]

*That man is so low he needs a ladder to reach the sidewalk.*

[@allendixon1044]

Maury needs this guy here Amore public needs a studio man

[@ellesouthernbelle5655]

When a person compares their experiences with other partners based upon race I check out completely! He is no prize..and the generalizations are juvenile.

[@barbaralove4040]

They both are childish, he’s a cheater and she has low self esteem. She needs to go find herself and stop paying the stupid tax like the judge said.

[@keishawilliams7546]

They deserve each other #childish

[@pjaszmyne1090]

they do deserve each other bc I see them working this bs out after they leave that court room they are a perfect match# mature adults

[@bw2481]

It's funny how SOME White women, and women of other races, sit back and hear this with a sense of pride when he's essentially saying, "Non-Black women are easier to disrespect. They shut up, and let me do what I want. Black women have too much respect for themselves for me to tolerate." Obviously, that's not entirely true. But that's what he, and other Black men who make these statements, are implying. They want someone who will turn the other way while they lie, cheat, gaslight, etc.

[@sandrarice2069]

It's a shame this man child doesn't treat his beautiful wife with respect and admiration. My heart goes out to her. She deserves so much better! I pray she will value her fabulous self. May God bring her a man that will love, honor, and cherish her.🙏

[@sandrarice2069]

@max young I don't see anything funny!!!

[@Sey-KonePopIce]

I am a black woman. I grew up in the hood. I've never spoke ghetto or been the typical mentality the scenario type says.

[@charlesanderson1422]

Seychelle Celine Good for you. Most people are a product of their environment. That’s why blacks speak the way they do, in spite of learning the correct way to speak in school. You don’t have to be a product of your environment, especially if you want to succeed in life. More people need to follow your example.

[@hazeleyes611]

I love the Judges knowledge and advice. This girl looks very nice and she can do better than him. If he wants something else, then please cut him loose because being with him can hurt more than actually saying goodbye. She can find someone else. He will only keep chipping away at her self esteem.

[@jackpea7102]

Hazel Eyes Yeah she is a sweet young woman. He has made ger crazy with his foolishness. She can do better and find a brotha who will love and cherish. He hates himself. Self hate is hard to over come.

[@hazeleyes611]

Jack Pea I absolutely agree with you.

[@jackieadele11]

I love the judge awesome! Hits the nail on the head every Time!

[@letshaveaconvo-24s]

I know when men like this come in her court she shut them down. Judge Toler is a great example of an intelligent woman.

[@vanessalynch5996]

Anytime you have a woman that have to play inspector gadget, run. Anytime you find a man that say he don't date black women, run.

[@FlyRoni]

I felt so sorry for her watching this, she was never a real option he was just going to try it out and then give excuse as to why he can't continue he is repulsive,and an infantile male ..Sista judge read him right,tho!!!🤗🤗

[@nwate7]

flyroni68 he put a ring on it though so your comment is invallid. He didnt just "try" her. He must have felt something real for her enough for him to go all the way with her. She just turned into this self entitled crazy jealous bitch.

[@damienkirksey7026]

Are you serious? That woman is crazy and if she acted like this towards me,she will be gone in a Japanese minute

[@sunshine843boys]

Talking about she's the only black women he's dated. Well the others didn't want you either because here you are on Divorce court!

[@abi_n]

This dude gaslights on a thousand. Does dirty and makes her feel crazy for suspecting and reacting to his dirt. And THEN blames her reaction, her "crazy" on her blackness.. Whoo chile.

[@lesliejohnson-nelson4003]

Shut up

[@ValerieBernard1]

Something is wrong with him. He just has a preference. To blame a race of women to excuse the fact that he just has a preference.

[@SharpieDarlingLLC]

Something is wrong with both of them. Smh.

[@aamnahere6250]

A man whose disgusting enough to disrespect his own sisters on national television and call his woman names is not worth listening to. She's angry because she's frustrated and she's frustrated because she cares. If he cared about her even half as much as she does, he'd not be playing these childish and toxic games to mess with her mind. He is entirely in the wrong and I hope that any woman even thinking about being with this douchebag watches this and walks away thanking her lucky stars.

[@shellyhard6044]

Thank You!

[@lesliejohnson-nelson4003]

Maybe they were rachet who cares

[@valeedadavidson678]

SHE'S VERY IMMATURE

[@StygianStilettosGamer]

I was done with him when he said he don't date black women. He too old to be playing into that nonsense. He got a ratchet woman because he chose one, not because she's black. But Judge Lynn broke it down too as to how she might have been a perfectly nice girl that went ratchet, getting her heart broken every other day by this clown. He is not worth it, honey, MOVE ON.

[@panadominicana4917]

all I got from his comment on black women is that he wants a docile woman who will let him do whatever whenever who can literally run all over ..... cause tf that gotta so with race

[@Kage_Nichole1]

Can’t blame that man she’s the clown in the situation. I don’t feel sorry for her because she stays and neither should anyone else🤡

[@PlushpoundTorrey]

“Innocent until proven guilty” yeah you right but when you caught you gotta take ur lick 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@sharonjackson268]

3 min. in I'm tired 😫 of him! Hmm...listing a race of women he's accustomed to dating. Smh...

[@m.f.o.v9204]

Don't let this distract you from the slavery that's happening in Libya.

[@ncoburn7]

"What we gon eat tonight, a Remi sandwich? A Brazilian sandwich"- I'm done

[@03lisajade]

3:38 "I'm talking about black women in general" Me: Yea, lets talk about it🤷🏿‍♀️

[@ritarhodes3852]

I swear he's lying 😂😂 😂🤣💀💀💀💀

[@EastSideRudeBoy]

As bad as the dude is, she really isn't a victim tbh. Her conduct isn't top notch either. If it was really an issue she would have left the moment she found out he was cheating. They been together for seven long years with no children. That ain't fooling me, she was fond of all of the craziness that came with him. That and she knew for a fact that he liked women outside of his race before they got married so all of the water in the tank and the extra mess she did while they were together is on her for not controlling her emotions.