[FULL STORY] My Daughter's Unthinkable Wedding Day Catastrophe That Shattered Our Family Forever

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[@TheSingingFoxy]

Daughter definitely takes after her father. Selfish and willing to hurt others for what they want. Should have given her up for adoption.

[@Su-wo4id]

May the Lord forgive me but when I was watching this video I was thinking "that girl is a monster, just like her father."

[@monishaaraj6614]

​@@Su-wo4id the lord would understand dont worry.

[@adwaituthale9428]

I'm not sure and I'm not justifying daughters action. But I wonder was it because she looked different from the rest of the family she felt she didn't belong there. And felt more inclined towards her biological father. But what she did was horrible no doubt there. I feel bad for op and what she had gone through.

[@pyingtheinkha343]

​@Su-wo4id bro she is not acting like a monster SHE IS THE MONSTER

[@Vinzona]

​@@adwaituthale9428 she's a monster. End of story, she betrayed the people who helped her grow up.

[@GoldyOs]

As soon as she said 'my daughter invited me out to a restaurant....' I had a sinking feeling. Istg, those kinds of 'surprises' are ambushes.

[@alexandram3122]

Same

[@discord1607]

The daughter needs therapy. At least someone to tell her to understand how trauma works. She clearly thinks that everything will just work out in her favor buts not how it works. The fact that she said her mother ruined her surprise after her mom had a panic attack is disgusting. If karma gets back at her one day and she experiences what her mom went through, poor her but she will know what stupid she was.

[@ilyaalister8193]

Her mother never told her what happened or how she came into the world. You can’t have empathy for a situation you were never told about. Honestly, they both need to go into therapy. The mother had been honest in the first place none of it would’ve happened.

[@discord1607]

@@ilyaalister8193 Do you not remember that she told her that BEFORE her daughter planned the meet up? Cause it says right there.

[@gwolfstahl]

Tbh. Sounds like the rapist/ former friend is a narcissist and...sadly; like father, like daughter...

[@monishaaraj6614]

​@@ilyaalister8193 its called empathy, and you don't have to know about it for years to understand that a monster who took advantage of my mother would be anywhere near anyone i love. She was vile for what she did to her mom. And that ass calling the mother to root of all this instead of the daughter shows he has not changed a bit. I would be scared to have anyone near him unsupervised.

[@SharonRepici]

@@ilyaalister8193I agree. As soon as her daughter took that DNA test, before finding her bio father OP should have sat her down and explained the possibility of what she would find, and why. The father most likely spun his side of her conception, and after the daughter was told of the rape he may have feigned remorse for the deed. All the while assuring her of his love and regret she had been kept from knowing him. Thinking, knowing her mother had lied to her for 24 years it’s easy to see how easily she could be swayed to the rapist’s viewpoint.

[@user-jh9oe5qk4j]

Don't feel bad over your actions, even if it was not your fault like your therapist said that was put upon herself to be wrong against her own mother.

[@dulshadowxxx2591]

Honey, no it’s obvious that your daughter didn’t care about you and was being selfish only caring about what she wanted even after you told her about what her father did to you

[@dulshadowxxx2591]

So don’t feel bad she should’ve seen this coming

[@Levithos]

Actions have consequences. ALL actions. Some end up being good, some end up not. This is all just what the youngest daughter set in action.

[@panda-monium69]

Although I agree with this statement, you have to consider that some is this is the mother's fault. Despite the traumatic nature of her experience, she shouldn't expect her daughter not to try to connect with her biological father if she is completely ignorant to the things he has done. The OP did not tell a single one of her children, let alone the one that is a result of that rape. After it gets to the point where the OP is clearly feeling distressed about the situation, it's obviously the daughter's fault, but initially, she had no knowledge of the situation. She may have had a good relationship with her biological father and think that he should work things out with her mother. Honestly, the daughter ignored the pain the OP was feeling due to the situation and that's why she's wrong. Still, her own mother could at least tell her why she looks different from her siblings and why she doesn't talk to her father anymore.

[@xaym3095]

​@panda-monium69 she suggested that they work it out... on her healing journey... after knowing what bio father did. She deliberately trickerd her mother into meeting her rapist immediately after finding out. So yes initially reaching out to him is excusable because she didn't know... everything after finding out is inexcusable and disgusting. She was more concerned about having her picture perfect wedding than facing the truth

[@lilogonzales6625]

A rapist who wants to make the moral to his victim??!!!!! WTF!?😮

[@dawn_on1447]

@@panda-monium69 The ex-fiance, the ex-fiance's mother, and a host of the daughter's former friends would disagree the mother was at fault in any capacity or by any metric.

[@panda-monium69]

@@xaym3095 Yeah you're right, I wasn't thinking this through

[@kaki_maki403]

The daughter was super out of line. It's NOT her place or job to make her mother go through healing. ESPECIALLY NOT BY MAKING HER MEET HER ATTACKER AGAIN?! She's really dumb.

[@Imnotpistachio]

To be completely honest I think she doesn't have a brain

[@kazoosc]

you didn't ruin your daughter's life - she did that. cutting out the man that raised her ,, disregarding your feelings and clear expression of intent

[@DuskShadow235]

[*Trigger Warning on this Comment*] As someone who has been SA’d and knows how traumatic that alone can be, I can’t even begin to imagine how horrible OP’s trauma is, and her daughter is just disrespecting that over and over again. If my mom had been roped by my bio father who I was in contact with, I would immediately cut all contact and if he showed his face at my wedding I would have dragged him out by the ear myself. Idk what’s wrong with OP’s daughter, and the fact that she’s doing this because the man who raised her is in a wheelchair and it’s “It’ll look bad” is just stupid there’s something seriously wrong with that girl, and I think her bio dad might be poisoning her against the people who raised her. The daughter had no right to invite her mom’s ropeist back into her mom’s life, that’s OP’s choice, and the daughter should respect that.

[@maryskjrvik7212]

Thank you for saying this ❤ i could not had said it better my self. Love from an another who has been true it...

[@No-qb1qb]

That would not be my daughter anymore

[@kristelneedtoknow3207]

She never told her daughter she was raped. That would have been the first thing out of my mouth. Never lie to your children about shit like this. There are ways to tell your child the truth without blaming them or making them fell guilty. But not telling them leaves them open to connecting with them.

[@kristelneedtoknow3207]

Never mind after watching the rest of the video that child would be dead to me after she forced me to be in the same room as him. After I told her the truth and was willing to show her proof.

[@Serene80]

My thought was ditch the daughter, keep the fiance...

[@huinismith]

Or my sister.

[@sarahschmidt7231]

Anymore what do you mean anymore

[@kimberlydyle269]

It shouldn't matter if pushing her dad down. The aisle in a wheelchair is not a vibe. So what she's the only one that really cares. No one else is. It is very disrespectful for what she did to the man that raised her and to her mother.

[@Tensa_Zangetsu1222]

BRO IMAGINE HAVING THE MAN WHO GRAPED YOUR MON WALK YOU DOWN THE AISLE

[@Samich_g00dz]

At the end I would have been like “no, she’s depressed because of YOUR actions.”

[@phoebegradert9790]

With how the father was comforting the daughter and calling the mother a jerk not gonna lie kinda sounds like hes grooming the daughter

[@lunatiffy7825]

She's acting like her bio dad pretty much. Like it's nothing her mom can't get over and her bio dad is probably just using the daughter to stay in the moms life to remind her that he's still there and got away with it

[@slhades3457]

as I would say in my language... BUT THE YOUNGER DAUGHTER IS STUPID OR WHAT!?? How in ANY universe would you like to have a relationship of any kind with someone who did THAT to your own MOTHER!? And what universe makes effing sense to bring together both the attacker and THE VICTIM!? That guy should be in prison and the daughter is just unbelivable...

[@Duke00x]

I don't get one thing. OP's mother believes her now (and seems to have just found out about it) but sided with the rapist when it happened (at least according to earlier in the post).

[@alexandradumenigo6375]

The mother who came to apologize was the youngest daughter’s fiancé’s mother. Not OP’s. That part was worded a little weird

[@karenshort3880]

Then he can pay for the wedding and go no contact with her.

[@TheSingingFoxy]

Wedding was called off, fiancé wanted nothing to do with that she-devil

[@themossyslime]

I feel so bad for the op they dont deserve anything that happened to them the daughter deserves how they feel they only felt a small fraction of what op did

[@blackghostart308]

It's rich that in the end the sperm donor had the audacity to tell op that the consequences of his and OP's daughter's actions were OP's fault. The unmitigated gall to blame their own actions on op is disgusting.

[@tobeytransport2802]

It’s so hard… imagine knowing your bio dad for a few years and being excited you can finally meet him but then you find out that he’s your mothers rapis. We can’t judge because we don’t know how that would make any of us feel unless we went through it. It’s such a hard story for everyone involved, yes the daughter wasn’t respecting her mothers wishes and taking her to that restaurant was traumatising but perhaps she thought it was genuinely the right thing to do, and it must be hard for the daughter to have to pick which people she considers family to go to her wedding. What a sad story… always makes me grateful to have a ‘normal’ (whatever that means) family.

[@gadebs]

I’m so glad daughter didn’t get married. What a horrible person. As a woman she should’ve understand what despicable, disgusting act her bio dad committed. Her mom went through so much and she just acted like if was a minor problem.

[@lynnemerrin2997]

0:55 for those that came from the short.

[@nollaigburke7982]

Thank you sooooo much

[@januaryhero8024]

I love you

[@lidijakljucevic84]

Don’t feel bad. She did it to herself. She ruined her relationship with anyone but her bio dad

[@ajb0yd]

Honestly, W to the husband. Bro was there from the start

[@Asian_bee-yg7lv]

I would never see her as my daughter or even call her my daughter if i was the OP

[@user-jn1hi1fg8z]

"2uhhhh" "My youngest husband"

[@sette3784]

I think it should be “My youngest’s husband”

[@user-jn1hi1fg8z]

@@sette3784 yeah iu nderstood that but if you just listen to it without thinking it's sound funny

[@Panwere36]

The therapist is right.. the youngest picked her mother's r&p!st over the man who was a father to her. That is beyond the pale.

[@luxgh]

I'm about to say that people blaiming the mom are either r4pist themselves or r4pist excusers, she should have told her daughter soon? Yeah, but as soon as she did, did that change something? No, daughter still sided with the father even after knowing the truth and being shown the proof and even pushed the guy on her mom. Oh she might have cheated on her husband and blamed being tipsy, are you a dumdum? Why is someone going to have panick attacks over consensual sex? The daughter is f old enough to know what r4pe is and what her father did is really bad so "she's being groomed" doesn't work here, she knows fully well what she's doing.

[@MyBlackPumpkinSoup]

OPs mistake was not telling Luna the truth before. Lunas mistake was siding with a ropist after knowing the truth and downplaying her mother's most horrible moments as something that could basically be put aside for her wedding. Luna is a victim of her own selfishness and maybe she wanted to get back at OP, since OP herself admits that she was distant from her because of the trauma.

[@monishaaraj6614]

She is no victim after what she pulled.

[@MyBlackPumpkinSoup]

@@monishaaraj6614 'She is a victim of HER OWN selfishness' which means she is a victim of her own choices, so she had no one to blame.

[@KendallShaw-eg5pn]

You deserve so much more bless your soul 😭😭🥺

[@guisadongmunggo]

she said that you ruined her life? the audacity of that girl. nope you didn't ruin hers... I'm just gonna say that she's the result of someone who literally ruined your life which left you traumatized for years.

[@sarahhathaway9701]

I feel bad for both parties. I di agree that Op and here daughter need to talk abt everything. I feel like Op's kids posting online abt it was a bit much. But Op probably should have talked to her daughter abt how she was convinced a while ago, i get op was scared and traumatized, but she should have told her earlier so she could understand and this whole mess could have been avoided. All in all, both parties lack communication.

[@Weirdo_Kid]

What you're youngest did was unexeptable, you did the right thing, if i was in your situation I'd probably do something Id regret later, i can't say that i know what you're going through but I can say that you are doing wonderful in healing from your past trauma

[@beck3149]

I’m not usually pushing for a kid to get disowned… but once we got to “surprise dinner “ and BLAMING mom for reacting Yeah dad should have set her down and said “Get in line. Or you’re getting disowned. You traumatized your mother!”

[@pyingtheinkha343]

You are not wrong in fact she should be the one to say sorry to you and by the way she is not your child not any more do you know why because she act like a dog that bit her own mother you should cut of the will of your life stay strong sis we got you

[@michellel564]

Your daughter is a grown woman now. So let her act like it and take the responsibility of her actions. That's what adults do.

[@nightshade8538]

I see the apple did not fall far from the tree

[@Hammerheadworm]

5:33 update 2 EGHGERF

[@WorldlyJack]

It sounds like a burp

[@abbigailbaum6948]

I heard it twice

[@kiyajohnson4436]

I am so sorry. You should have told her sooner. Your daughter is grown your daughter chose. To be a clueless jackass. Your true family is those who believe you and who are around you. Love family

[@No-qb1qb]

The thing is the is pure drama it is no one’s to tell but her and if she chooses not to that’s also upto her

[@ilyaalister8193]

@@No-qb1qb wow that is true. It is her decision whether to tell her daughter or not it does also mean that she is responsible for how things play out. You can’t expect someone to have empathy for a situation they were never told about. How was she supposed to know not to her biological father to her? How is she supposed to know that her mother was assaulted by her father the mother has no right to get upset when she’s the one who chose to keep it hidden.

[@arib371]

@@ilyaalister8193 In the beginning sure… but once she knew… if she cared about her mother at all… she would’ve told her bio dad the moment he admitted to it, that he was uninvited & to not show up. Hire security at the wedding if needed. If the daughter chooses to still have a relationship with her bio dad, that’s up to her. She would just need to be respectful to her mother’s boundaries & not have them around each other at all. Instead, she made the choice to disregard her mother’s boundaries once she knew… because she is selfish & can only think about herself & how SHE feels. Her mother was SA & she basically told her mother in her actions, “Your trauma response to being in the same room as your R**ist again, ruined MY idea of how this “amazing” surprise would go. And you telling my siblings the truth as well - which caused them to call her out & got her fiancé to call off the relationship due to HIM being disgusted by her actions as well - ruined my life. This is all YOUR fault.” As if it’s not simply the consequences to HER OWN ACTIONS because she is too self centered to get a clue. She clearly needs to work on her self awareness.

[@ritaerror7829]

@@ilyaalister8193 but also OP was clear that she doesn't want anything to do with this person. You don't need to know whole history to respect someone's wishes. And judging by how daughter disregarded them AFTER hearing the truth...

[@GereldJohnson]

​@@ilyaalister8193 plus as a married woman she shouldn't have been alone drinking and getting drunk with a man who wasn't her husband or male relative.

[@MoudrostOfficial]

“Update two AÆUEUEU”

[@AnimeFreakX4]

Was hoping there would be a new update to this story. I haven't heard it in a while. The daughter just sucks. She doesn't believe her mom. Because she was already in touch with the attacker. The daughter cuts off her family to be with the bio dad. The daughter felt like an outsider. Since she looks so different from her family. She believes that op had an affair. That the mom cruelly kept her away from her dad. It was cut out, but the daughter never believed the mom and thought she was a liar that ruined her life.

[@acegarro158]

Yo, why she burp like that on edit two?

[@stevensola3361]

Mom should most definitely should tell her what happened.

[@cassies5501]

Wow how could anyone force their own mother to hear an “apology” from her rapist; this kid needs some therapy

[@JadeLwoj]

Betrayed by her friend then betrayed by her daughter. The Apple didn’t fall far from the tree.

[@Je.143]

I don’t get what the mum even did wrong, it’s not like she lied or exaggerated the events on Facebook she just said what happened, if the daughter receives backlash for her own actions that’s entirely her fault

[@user-ll6qw3it6g]

The mother decided to try to cover all the trauma and mess up. I’m sorry she went through that. Because she didn’t tell the daughter what exactly happened to an extent, the daughter doesn’t have empathy bone nor feel sympathy. The mother and the daughter need to go to therapy. The daughter is young and selfish and the mother…is right for finally standing her ground. This is all the consequences and results. Therapy is the most needed thing. Find the Right therapist though. There is soo much bottled up in this. There’s no easy solution.💔🙏🏽💯💯💯💔. My heart goes out to this family.💯💯💯💯

[@Justthislazy21]

I don't generally believe in nature over nurture but dang sometimes there's compelling arguments that a bad tree creates a bad seed.

[@8z20]

wtf was that sound 😭😭 5:33

[@wtfamiwatching3650]

The daughter is a grown adult, she should know about her bio father- ESPECIALLY if she gets in contact w/ him. What if she’s his next victim? It wasn’t OPs fault for the attack but it is her fault 100% for not telling her daughter sooner trauma or not. She could have even told her hsuband to explain it if she was not ready, yet no she decided to stay silent because she was “ashamed”. R@pists tend to go for multiple ppl, and if he will do it to a close friend. He will do it to his own flesh and blood point blank period. 🤦‍♀️

[@matchtuff]

Daughter chose crayz so let her live with it.

[@larissa-je8dc]

No ones gonna talk about the weird noises between updates that sound like the ai is demon possessed really 😂 side note your daughter just learned her actions have consequences and that ain’t your fault I understand how you feel though I’ve been hurt a lot by people who I cared about and you feel bad when you tell others and they react angry and the back lash of the things your perpetrator did come back on them it ain’t your fault always talk about it cause it only gets worse if you don’t

[@Miss.BubbleCream]

she needs to understand what uv been thro and that u HAVE trauma! hw may be her bio dad but hes a bad man. he hurt the OP and COULDV hurt her. r@pist dont really stop. tho i was never harrased i was ALMOST SA. its not a plesent experience. and given in the story it IS r@p3 its even worse. may it doesnt look like it on the outside to her. it looks like just a bad memory and an unpleasent feeling. its far worse then that. I and noone can feel it but the ones that ARE actually ab_s3d and that has been thro it. the years may passed but that kind of trauma, being taken on force against ur will, sticks for life. shes an adult and shouldv understand and reconsider that and her acctions. that doesnt just go away as years pass. just cuz it didnt "feel ok" and its still an unpleasent memory. it is sure but an unpleasent and memorys are 1 thing and trauma is another. i get it. its her day and she want it special and perfect and all. i get her but it aint worth it. its disrespectfull to the man that loved and respected both the OP abd the daughter and that raised her also shel maybe in contact with her bio dad. given that he r@p3d before. he can do it again. only shel be the victim. and its disrespectfull to the OP as well. her daughter knew she has trauma and what happened. she knows how bad does the OP feels bout it and RIGHTFULLY for a reason so! she isnt open minded. she does have the right to think of herself on her day and all. make it her way but this is selfish and cruel! i do get her and where shes coming from. she has a "perfect wedding" picture but is it really worth it? a day to ruin the bonds with the people that raised u and were harmed and traumatized by the person ur bringing all of the sudden just for sake of the wedding? and when ul need help ul turn to the OP a? not that ur bio dad will help ya. probably hes here just for fame and hed be under the good lighting. but cuz it probably benefits him not cuz hes decided to be a dad and to care. u still think that a day, however special it is, is worth having the family uv allways known and that cared and protected u. been by ur side. is it worth to, after all the did and WANTED to do for u, to hurt and traumatize them more? she should think and put herself in the OPs shoes. shes gonna change her mind for sure. and also, what she did HAS consequinces she OLD ENOUGH to feel their impact. old enough to understand what she did was not just wrong but couldv k!lled the OP. there are a lot of panic attack that result in a heart attack. some of them result in dearh. as for her ey fiancee, now she got nothing and she deserved it. after all she was told, after all the OP, her mom went thro what did she expected to happen? she knew and was told it was ok to have her wedding her way but it was not ok to retraumatize her mom. what did she expected to happen? for all to be on her side? that would be insane and stupid. she haa to grow up and take her ressponsabilitys seriously. when will she learn that her bio dads simple "i know i was wrong" and "sorry" aint gonna help. it aint gonna undo all the trauma. thta may is in the past but the daughter could also be roped by her bio dad cuz maybe he wasnt sencire when he apologised. ropist ( most of them) dont change and dont change over night an dover a year. she couldv been the victim as well. and a "sorry" aint gonna undo alll the suffering and pain. all the memories and close to be people not beliving u. it aint going away in a night/day nor ever. a healing proccess is different for everyone and being face to face against ur r'p!st and against ur will as well aint the way to go bout it. she wasbt reasneable. she just wanted them to " make up" so she can have her wedding and her way. knowing but not caring how the OP would feel. she just wanted them both there. and her fiancee has a right to know. i wouldnt marry such a person as well. and if they would marry? and have a kid? the daughter would want the bio dad to be there again, hence, retraumatize OP again just for the sake of her "perfect family" picture. regardless of all her bio dad did. shed made them be in contact after all the op went thro. and she knew bout it. he did good of cutting her off. and blaming it on the op is even more entiteld and insane!

[@Shinypotatochip]

She’s not depressed over your actions, she’s depressed because she’s a selfish brat that can’t respect other people’s boundaries and is finding out people don’t tolerate that.

[@DragonicGamer32]

OP needs to focus on her own healing. Daughter is selfish and willing to cause her mom pain because in her mind she seems to have it that she can bring everyone back together and have a happily ever after moment. I'm sincerely hoping she never goes through what OP did, because frankly...The way she completely downplays it and keeps trying to get her mom in touch with her R***st, is not only insensitive and selfish, it is also very dangerous and opens up old wounds and reignites the trauma her mother is going through. Daughter needs to talk to a therapist and find someone to help her understand why what she is doing is absolutely NOT okay. She won't stop until it clicks, and her depression is unfortunate, but something she self inflicted upon herself by not respecting her mothers wishes. Even her Fiancé was more agreeable and broke off the engagement once he realized what his almost wife was doing to her own mother.

[@glaciersmash4118]

The mom wasn't wrong feeling how she did. What a traumatizing and horrible thing to deal with. The daughter is a horrid person, I couldn't imagine doing that to my mother.

[@tonyl7443]

I am so sorry OP. Your youngest is an adult. There is no excuse for her f'ed up actions and reactions to any of this. Her bio dad is an epic piece of crap. Gosh this story is triggering. Please focus on the love and support of your husband, other children and your awesome friends

[@mspaint93]

"She ruined her life" Actually, no her father and her did, because shes just like him.

[@Bettercallsaul2008]

“Update two:” *burps*

[@elizabethgoree3891]

Don't feel bad about this. Your daughter did the unthinkable and was clearly in the wrong.

[@therediodeerman5811]

Is there a part 2?

[@paolagutierrez2568]

NTA!

[@thepro6794]

Tell her the truth

[@mrsw2923]

You should have told her years ago. You are a survivor, not a victim.

[@EmilyHiltibidal]

Honestly I think their all in the wrong after all 2 wrongs don't make a right

[@balladofroses5282]

Her poor daughter is just so naive. Good god.

[@wednesdayschildfullofwoe]

Poor daughter?? Effing ungrateful brat is what she is. The mother should have canceled her from the start. Her trauma is now forever.

[@olivern.karlsson3927]

Try selfish and entitled. A naive person would feel remorse a lot sooner.

[@TheTrueKarin]

No that is not naiv. When she is old enough to marry - she is old enough to fully understand the meaning of „Rape“. But she choose to ignore it because her feelings are more important. Also if that thing worked it would happend again. Like but he is my dad and he was at my wedding! So why not invite him to other things?! Like my birthday or so… Her wants and needs are at first place

[@Meldela13]

Omfg what was that grudge noise that was made 😮

[@sharkt9877]

I get why you’re depressed but you shouldn’t be. She picked an ropest over her own mother. How crappy is that?

[@RiqueDaSxnsxi]

5:33 WHAT THE FUCK WAZZAT ?!?!

[@AdmiralDevil]

in my opinion she should have told her straight out at 15 or 16

[@orchid4356]

If you think it's that easy to just bring up something like that then you're so wrong. It's not easy at all. Especially to someone who has been roped. I'm speaking as someone who is the daughter of a child molester. I absolutely hate myself for it. And I hate my dad with all of my heart he can rot in hell. And judging by what the daughter did once she found out it wouldn't have changed anything no matter what age op told her.

[@chilibloom]

I feel like it makes sense for OP not to want to tell this child who had no part in what happened about OP’s trauma? If the daughter was normal, then it would probably feel terrible to know that she was a product of r4pe. And no parent should want to put that burden on a child who again is innocent in all of this,,,, and even then why would OP want to relive her trauma? Her reaction to just seeing the guy irl was that strong so I feel like having to bring it up in relation to a wedding would both put a damper on things I feel?

[@Thefrenchfry21]

If that one person needs to know when she said betrayed she mean she got r@ped

[@HayleyandSimba]

The daughter is messed up.

[@sayyougotwhat1661]

Update 1 erreerr Update 2errrrrrrerre

[@pocketbread7535]

Poor mom....

[@lorisutherland7728]

What is this guy like now? The guy who took advantage of you.

[@Luci-morningstar--]

Yes he is

[@ethanperry9460]

I feel bad for the youngest daughter as life was destroyed by her family and her mother who keep the secret

[@Luci-morningstar--]

Thw youngest gremlin was made aware and still chose to do the worst thing. Thats on her

[@starkillerproductions4645]

You should’ve told her about the past

[@Rydersmama0421]

Being a mom myself I wouldn’t. Especially if was a r*pe conception.

[@stutikhanna987]

She would still be licking the r@pist boats. Some people are very twisted. She is that kind of women who will accuse a child for seducing a adult person 😢

[@daniellemitchell3118]

Yes, but when she did, what did her daughter do? She ignored the man who raised her. Then, not only didn't believe her mother, but actually lied and brought her r@pist to her. He touched her, which is obviously triggering. She had no remorse for doing so.

[@klodianacela1598]

Are the other three children your husband's children or some others husbands

[@monishaaraj6614]

All other are with the husband but the other gremiln was a result of SA. The husband was with her the whole life.

[@TiredDolpn]

Not to be mean but ur daughter Does not understand emotions and is not very good at seeing why what things r bad and I think it was a very rude and stupid thing to start "the healing process"

[@stevendeen4391]

I wonder what the verison the daughter and the biological father. I wonder what really happen. Maybe OP telling the truth. Maybe she cheated, and using alcohol excuse. In the end, always file a police report and never let a predator off the hook. For the guys, never sleep with a girl who has a bf/ husband or had one sip of alcohol. The whole she said vs he said never leads anyone good

[@Luci-morningstar--]

Can people please just believe when women are graped? Op is a victim and didnt consent.

[@ilyaalister8193]

Both are the AH because you can’t expect someone to know something you never told them at the same time who doesn’t walk on the eye with the father who raised them. However, the bigger AH is the one who raised their child in a distant manner, leaving the responsibility up to the father and letting her child live an absolute lie, never knowing how she came into the world. The mother lied for the child’s entire life. And that’s on the mother.

[@purplesgamesrepairs6577]

The problem is that even after the truth came out The daughter continued to ignore her mother's pleas leading to a panic attack in public

[@middlemistblack3498]

So you want her to tell her daughter that she was a product of rape? She wanted to forget that incident cause when it happened no one acknowledged it. She was traumatized to have a child of her rapist. How tf do you expect someone to go upto their child and say "hey you're a product of rape". I do agree with the part that she may not recieve the total love and care of the mother but she was loved cause if you aren't loved you wouldn't make such ridiculous demands on your wedding and expect people to just roll around with it. The person who created the whole mess was the rapist. He was definitely manipulation op's daughter about everything she did. In short everyone needs therapy

[@manhwa_life8102]

I disagree. Finding out you are a child of rape is a horrible thing to live with, especially if you are very young. Secondly, the daughter crossed the line by trying to force a reconciliation between op and her rapist. The rapist is a self centered, cold, untrustworthy, disgusting excuse of a person and the daughter is ungrateful and takes after her biological father clearly. You don't have to agree with this but still, I don't think op is the AH at all

[@orchid4356]

​@@manhwa_life8102exactly! And I can say that... It's not exactly the same my mom wasn't roped by him but he has done it to minors and just in general a terrible guy... And I absolutely hate myself for being related to the guy. I swore I'd never be like him. And thank God I'm nothing like him.

[@manhwa_life8102]

@@orchid4356 Minors? That's terrible. I'm glad you are nothing like him!

[@YuniS772]

The daughter is here the victim. “ my husband took on raising children cause the way she looked like her father was to traumatizing” that child was ALWAYS “different” and didn’t belong she was never loved by her mum and only accepted by her stepfather. She found someone who actually might accept her looks and love her unconditionally “the real dad” she finely wanted to be spacial but NO way her mum lets her have it. I hope she meets someone who actually sees her for who she is and not what her mummy tells everyone 😢

[@jennasawders7186]

Are you serious?

[@orchid4356]

Wow way to fucking victim blame. I feel bad for any females in your family or any females around you if that's your mindset.

[@mileyguerrero1412]

@@jennasawders7186yeah i’m pretty sure they are