As a teen in the 90's I thought breakups were bad now I'm watching my daughter go through it and it's tearing my heart out.
@jesse95525 жыл бұрын
I dread for this day to come with my daughter... I hope things are good now for you both!
@NickGuy03204 жыл бұрын
Jesse m Jn Jnj
@xrideforthebrandx4 жыл бұрын
As a father of boys, I can't comprehend how you do it. Props to all the fathers with daughters.
@muzikmind774 жыл бұрын
Whos she fuckin now days 😆
@MichaelZorn22 жыл бұрын
Man I watched my oldest son go through it hurt so bad but it was too much. And nothing I could say would help and to him I just didnt understand and I understood o too well. It was hard to watch
@clol15911 жыл бұрын
"I hope you're as happy as you're pretending." so simple, but so heartbreakingly powerful...
@HamNediaj10 жыл бұрын
That statement doesn't make sense though. If she's pretending to be that happy she therefore isn't happy.
@otakuotakukumachannessa764510 жыл бұрын
HamNediaj Its saying that ultimately he hopes the she is happy now, because she was pretending then. I guess it makes sense if its this way, that's how I see it. "I hope you are as happy as you were pretending." kind of thing.... and clol159 I totally agree... TT^TT
@jenniferhamels11769 жыл бұрын
+HamNediaj The lyric never says or implies she is happy. It's more like, I know you're pretending to be happy, but I still want to hope you are actually as happy as you look.
@jenniferhamels11769 жыл бұрын
***** The whole point of the lyric, He sees her being "happy" yet he knows she's not really happy. Yet he hopes she is actually happy because he wants her to be happy.
@dr.dawnasper71976 жыл бұрын
I think he is just speaking as an insecure person that likes to believe someone is truly happy but deep down they arent, but he wishes they were that happy person as they may pretend to be.. He is more saying... Like i hope you are truly happy as u might be pretend to be, to try and make me think i am making you happy so you dont get sad??? That''s my opinion.
@jonstall19876 жыл бұрын
Everyone has that song that takes them back to a time in their life. It doesn't necessarily have to be a particular significant moment, or even a moment at that. It could just be a feeling, a specific feeling that you had in the past. And in that moment, we begin to relive all the moments and all the feelings we had at that period of our lives. For me, this is one of those songs. It wasn't like an anthem or anything and I didn't listen to it because of a break up or what. I just really liked the song and the band and felt the emotions that they were trying to convey in this song. Now, whenever I listen to it, I feel those emotions again, but I feel them as if I was my younger self again. And in turn, I am transformed back into my past self. All the hopes and dreams I had, I feel again. What's sad, however, is I know it's all in my mind and that my my hopes and dreams are but a distant memory.
@gamecop21915 жыл бұрын
Jon Stall Jesus Christ man, I came here to be sad but u just fucked me up
@paratext Жыл бұрын
Not sure if you'll ever read this, but you captured the feelings this song evokes perfectly.
@bpo1133 ай бұрын
Well said...I feel that 100%
@LotteYanson7 жыл бұрын
This was my first Dashboard Confessional song. I heard it over the loudspeaker in a Walgreens of all places. Who knew a pharmacy could help me find one of my favorite bands?
@kellymartinez40747 жыл бұрын
who?
@kellymartinez40747 жыл бұрын
cares
@Anthonybchannel6 жыл бұрын
I care =)
@stevenwolford37546 жыл бұрын
I also heard it in a damn walgreens lmao
@doomslayerdude8 жыл бұрын
i hate it because i want to go back to the times i used to listen to this, everyones grown up now everyones an adult and i just feel stuck in the past. the memories i have will always be with me, though
@elizabethbloodsworth908 жыл бұрын
xEll me too im 26 now
@RadioAndy68 жыл бұрын
xEll I hear ya man, I feel the same way you do.
@msheehandub8 жыл бұрын
I just turned 28. This is when you start to say 'remember when' alot and that's when you feel like you're officially growing up. It's never too late to change your situation and keep making awesome memories.
@dionysus1221127 жыл бұрын
DailyMusicPlug same here bro. And im 30.
@mattjohnson54997 жыл бұрын
=/
@aphroditestan2 жыл бұрын
I was watching a video & the creator randomly said "screaming infidelities" & just moved. It threw me & sent me here. I was OBSESSED w y'all back in the day & this song just chases me throughout my life. I literally did an English project incorporating your lyrics to this song, while going through one of the many breakups I had w my high school sweetheart. Idk what it is but this song is simply a part of me. Thank u for putting your music out into the ethers. It's all still incredible & relatable to this day
@stevencleere49124 жыл бұрын
"I hope you're as happy as you're pretending." still hurts.
@taracarina84702 жыл бұрын
I am
@jessenunez72055 жыл бұрын
I fell in love with this girl and she was perfect. She didn’t feel the same and is now with another guy. I tell everybody I’m over it but truth is it’s been nearly a year and it hurts everyday. I’ve been depressed for God knows how long and this has only made it a million times stronger. I go to church and listen to metal and emo music and it’s helped a bit.
@blakestormcrow62752 жыл бұрын
I hope you're feeling better mate, a broken heart can be one of the slowest wounds to heal
@DNCT Жыл бұрын
Update us who just entered this hell. Give us hope it gets better 😢
@stevenmay5329 Жыл бұрын
Time does heal everything and we eventually you'll find someone who is looking for you. Try and put them out your mind and make yourself better. My best gym gains were directly after breakups. Good luck and you can make it
@frederickbalderas79362 ай бұрын
November 2024❤
@TeamStevers5 жыл бұрын
The worst part about this song is it was mine and my girl’s song during senior year of high school. That was more than ten years ago and now she isn’t with us anymore it just leaves me gutted.
@gamecop21915 жыл бұрын
Damn man. Much love.
@JK-gm6kk4 жыл бұрын
The guy who plays drums in DC is a beast
@gIiterpopzz5 жыл бұрын
This song was in a Denny's Twitter post and i just had to come back and listen to it again. It's been a long time.
@auau.2 жыл бұрын
Always gotta love dennys they clearly don't fuck about. Props to them for having good taste and tasty food.
@6jonathan17 жыл бұрын
Funnily enough my ex introduced me to this song through the mash-up with Brand New. Ironic how I've been listening to this song since we broke up.
@kellymartinez40747 жыл бұрын
I bet you are better without that guy. Don't be butt hurt
@demetriosolis42073 жыл бұрын
This song for me feels symbolic because the girl i loved was toxic and she knew it and didnt know how to fix it. Sorta wish you could help her but she did unforgiving things when we were together and then we decided to make unforgettable choices in the end or as we continued and this song just hits home with almsot everything i feel. "Im missing your laugh how did it break? And when did your eyes begin to look fake?" That line just brings memories from When we began and it was innocent and a great relationship. If only we made better decisions together it wouldnt have ended up like this. I miss her and i just wish i knew if she misses me too.
@justinvanny81118 жыл бұрын
Makes me so sad, I remember when I was in high school, break ups sucked. Im going on 23 now, and they aren't getting any better. Relationship are full of pain & heartbreak. Heartbreak isn't something that happens once, sometimes its daily, sometimes she breaks my heart every day just a little more :(.
@walteralvarado79727 жыл бұрын
Justin Soeum ....lol so true and they get worse and worse. You made my day with that comment... lol😂😂
@kellymartinez40747 жыл бұрын
bwaahahahha
@chearleader3618 жыл бұрын
My favorite dash song along with remember to breathe
@RedAndTheCompany5675 жыл бұрын
Crowder OMG I freaking hate you for this💀 Dude, Steven's testosterone pumped that parody all the way up❤❤❤❤❤
@andrewizquierdo59448 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to see them play this song in Holmdel NJ tonight!!!!
@edgeorge58893 жыл бұрын
I heard a song the other day that took me right back to my early 20s and lots of good times! But those memories eventually led me to bad ones of getting separated with my now ex-wife so I had to look up the song because the lyrics are very precise to how I was feelings about her then
@crazyjenius7413 жыл бұрын
Wicked Lovely gave me the incintitive to try out this band years ago and I still love them
@alexandriamcnally98718 жыл бұрын
Song makes me sad . My first love played this to me when we were going threw a hard time . After we got back together he was killed . he wrote this whole song on a sheet of paper and gave it to me i still have it . rip Miss you
@ninab76688 жыл бұрын
Alexandria McNally I'm so sorry to hear that :( just try to be grateful about the good times you had together. that's how I get through those feelings
@luxcxy88387 жыл бұрын
that is the saddest thing ive ever read in my life
@transmittinginfo7 жыл бұрын
omg hi nina
@Bailsandbandit7 жыл бұрын
This made my heart hurt so badly. I'm so sorry :(
@alexandriamcnally98717 жыл бұрын
+C. Campbell thank u everyone its took time but im doing better
@abigailsanmiguel095 жыл бұрын
Only the biggest soppiest tears will do for this song.
@RunescapeElijah657814 жыл бұрын
The Quiet Screaming- The Legion of Doom Gives this song so much more edge!! :)
@drewclevenger36486 жыл бұрын
"I am alone, In my defeat I wish l knew you were safely at home" is about the point where I broke...
@dominiquepopinski46755 жыл бұрын
Louder with crowder brought me here... "you leninist creep"
@icyuranus4045 жыл бұрын
i see...
@dominiquepopinski46755 жыл бұрын
@@icyuranus404 a u golden?
@HashtagTSwagg5 жыл бұрын
He has a surprisingly good singing voice, lol. The lyrics were a bit weird, but I guess that's what you get when you make a parody.
@sasquatchinhd61815 жыл бұрын
THE CROWD IS HERE! :D
@icyuranus4045 жыл бұрын
@@dominiquepopinski4675 it seems that you put a question mark at the end of your comment but the letters that you published are not arranged in such a way that they would make a statement or initiate an inquiry. there seems to be some miscommunication coming from your end
@MeyNaw6 жыл бұрын
2019😊 i super love this song
@calcejajrc7 жыл бұрын
I just got so lucky and heard this in Central Park NYC it was so magical and sad
@melaniecontreras6648 жыл бұрын
Everyone so sad about break-ups. Now, I'm 19 and I never had one. I've never been in a relationship. That's sad shit.
@patrickt56856 жыл бұрын
holly shanks don't do it unless you know you don't wanna be with anyone else. If you have any got feeling about it being wrong don't do it
@rhythm94742 жыл бұрын
Dam. I forgot how amazing this song was.
@itchypen1511 жыл бұрын
This song can turn anyone emo
@JayHarmon-c1gАй бұрын
It's sad, but most people can relate to a horrible breakup. This song is great at putting depressing music and expressing what we all feel in that situation. I hate the "feel good" people who just say it will get better. For most it does, but each person is unique. To all that hurt, I hope you can say "Fuck It" and make a better life for yourself.
@derekolsen80758 жыл бұрын
I hope you're as happy as you're pretending.
@mikedegracias86166 жыл бұрын
you can really feel the emotion of being left behind.
@michaelangel65384 жыл бұрын
The typos and incorrect lyrics in this are painful :(
@TheCarrot114 жыл бұрын
It is, but it is time period accurate, as texting was all like that back in the 2000s.
@rexymegmegrexy58572 жыл бұрын
So messed up sad when dashboard is singing all about you still a great song will always love it
@unitedsknight74767 жыл бұрын
Did you bump up the drum track? Because man that's some bad assery
@dankburrito42197 жыл бұрын
Wow, never realized how many DBC songs I actually like.
@blgprincess13 жыл бұрын
omg! the song was awesome!!!! >.< love love love it! :)
@noahboland45879 жыл бұрын
I'm missing your bed I never sleep Avoiding the spots where we'd have to speak, And this bottle of beast is taking me home I'm cuddling close to blankets and sheets But you're not alone, and you're not discreet Make sure I know who's taking you home. I'm reading your note over again, There's not a word that I comprehend, Except when you signed it "I will love you always and forever." As for now I'm gonna hear the saddest songs And sit alone and wonder How you're making out But as for me, I wish that I was anywhere with anyone Making out. I'm missing your laugh How did it break? And when did your eyes begin to look fake? I hope you're as happy as you're pretending. I'm cuddling close to blankets and sheets I am alone In my defeat I wish I knew you were safely at home I'm missing your bed I never sleep Avoiding the spots where we'd have speak, And this bottle of beast is taking me home. Well, as for now I'm gonna hear the saddest songs And sit alone and wonder How you're making out. But as for me, I wish that I was anywhere with anyone Making out. [X4] Your hair, it's everywhere. Screaming infidelities And taking its wear. YOU'RE WELCOME!
@The1SceneQueen5 жыл бұрын
Your hair is everywhere, screaming infidelities and taking it's "WEAR". Not WAIR btw
@CG-lk6pk4 жыл бұрын
Thank God you could clear up how to spell wair!
@MarwanAbdElghany7 жыл бұрын
The first English song I heard in my life after Linkin Park in the end :)
@maggieconcannon99533 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen my crush today and here I am 😂😂😂 Kidding aside, this never gets old. :-) March 27, 2021
@andrewdyke55617 жыл бұрын
I'm 28 and this song still hits me so hard especially with my.divorce
@TheSuperblade76 жыл бұрын
andrew dyke so I’m about 10 months late here but chin up, dude. Love may become lost but it will always be found again, if you are ready to have it again. Look to the past, feel the now, but hope for the future. Stay strong.
@markush42069 жыл бұрын
Their lyrics are so poetic.. :)
@sebbys_mama15 жыл бұрын
Good video, good luck on making more =)
@autumnwind1216 Жыл бұрын
For the algorithm
@kkozolanka038 жыл бұрын
"Wair"
@gIiterpopzz5 жыл бұрын
Wair... Wair never changes...
@erikskelton65975 жыл бұрын
rhymes better that way
@roy125254 жыл бұрын
"your"
@gamecop21915 жыл бұрын
Back when you couldn’t just look at social media to see your ex.... it was really over back then lol. I miss that
@renzaserit13 жыл бұрын
best song ever.
@bryannaflan76055 жыл бұрын
My fave childhood memory
@kylelewis4499 жыл бұрын
My girl loves this song.
@MrKingofthewater8 жыл бұрын
Love this
@noboespadilla1366 жыл бұрын
And now I'm listening to this. Next I will look at my old class picture.
@coheedchannel14 жыл бұрын
@hundoakdov its a figure of speech as in its taking its place, its propper english
@flicker03113 жыл бұрын
where is the original video of this song? i cant find it anywhere :(
@supersonicsteve6 жыл бұрын
i was like 16 when i heard this but now im 20, i wonder what it was like hearing this when it first came out
@gamecop21915 жыл бұрын
I’m 28, and heard it when I was 16 lol. It hurts
@Deepbluhuntr13 жыл бұрын
@luvmygabie68 , You should check out J.Mascis from Dinosaur Jr acoustic, it's a disc called "Martin and Me", it's GREAT !
@CALI-ll7iv5 жыл бұрын
When did this come out??
@driftspecs136 жыл бұрын
W A I R
@austingiles565314 күн бұрын
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!! I dated a girl when i was like 15-16 and she used to always pnay this song but it was an actual rock verison. When they sing " your hair is everywhere " they are screaming it. Dashboards version sounds more soft compared to the cover im talking about. Please help
@bryannaflan76056 жыл бұрын
Cuddling close to blankets and sheets🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃😭😭
@danielchrisronan22815 жыл бұрын
Uhm.. The word "wair" is a noun that means a plank 6 ft long and 1 ft across... Sorry to be a stickler...
@donaldlo55059 жыл бұрын
what does wair mean
@thisguy81069 жыл бұрын
+GTFOH wearing Me down is the true intent of the lyric.
@worldofwisdom6177 жыл бұрын
Donald Lo,, idiot that made this should have written "wear" ( like its wearing him out)
@SexyAssDanny44 жыл бұрын
Screaming Infidelities > Hands Down & Vindicated
@elyo36615 жыл бұрын
Reading all these comments from the older generation makes me want to live in that generation. Damn, I'm 16 and what the fvck happened to music. I wish I could attend those concerts like from before. I WAS BORN IN THE WRONG TIMELINE.
@dominiquepopinski46755 жыл бұрын
Build it an they will come? That's what I'm working on
@gamecop21915 жыл бұрын
I’m 28, and believe me I feel the same way. My teenage years , this kind of music, was the last genre of real stuff, and back then I didn’t know it.
@timeforadanceparty13 жыл бұрын
@XDpeaceout That's freakin' hilarious.. I haven't listened to this since my girlfriend in highschool like 8 years ago, and Cyanide and Happiness brought me here too hahaha
@geleenann11275 жыл бұрын
I miss you kuya glenn 😭😭😭
@eilisissocoollike14 жыл бұрын
Wair? wait one second while i look for my dictionary! :)
@audreydwyer97439 жыл бұрын
why does his voice sound so familiar? was the vocalist in any other bands?
@kevinsamson60599 жыл бұрын
typecast band bro,
@jonathanp18867 жыл бұрын
He's also the singer of Suicide Silence FYI.
@Alexmustdie-zy6kz6 жыл бұрын
Jonathan P he isnt the lead singer of Suicide Silence that's Mitch Lucker
@androgynylunacy2 жыл бұрын
I thought it would be goodbye forever.. but here i am.
@propagandacritic55115 жыл бұрын
What is a wair?
@Brigamen4 жыл бұрын
2020!!
@Jihiro13 жыл бұрын
Wair (N.) - A plank 6 feet long and 1 foot across. So THAT'S what her hair is taking.
@narcassiticcannibal13 жыл бұрын
I brought myself here. Chyeah how about that one?!? Lol.
@mikedegracias86166 жыл бұрын
"I hope you're as happy as you're pretending" ♪ ♫ :(
@nfmm3314 жыл бұрын
taking its wear
@ish47414 жыл бұрын
I haven't had a bottle of beast for a loooong time. here's to drinking shitty beer in high school because your girlfriend broke up with you
@amberdru68052 жыл бұрын
222 is Cari 🦋🦋
@awsomeo0914 жыл бұрын
@robottuxedo yeah i think she spelled "wear" wrong
@yasmine19743 жыл бұрын
The worst part is i left the whole city he was in just because i wanted to be the first to leave and i didnt want him to leave me IT HURTS SO BAD
@yasmine19743 жыл бұрын
And he called after i left like dang we coulda been together right now and I WANTED THAT I DID AND STILL DO EVERY DAY AND HES PROBABLY MOVED ON
@yasmine19743 жыл бұрын
I thought it would hurt less if i left first but IT HURTS MORE. it hurts MORE. i caused my own self this
@yasmine19743 жыл бұрын
Hes probably the only guy who wouldve ever given me a chance too and i BLEW IT
@yasmine19743 жыл бұрын
Hes probably the only guy who wouldve ever given me a chance too and i BLEW IT
@yasmine19743 жыл бұрын
Now i work this stupid job that i spend every day all day NOT CALLING HIM BECAUSE IM TOO SCARED TO BOTHER HIM AND JUST PRAYING HE CALLS and i tell him i miss him so much and at first he would tell me he missed me too but i told him i missed him a few weeks ago and he aint said NOTHING at all
@scott2472 жыл бұрын
I always thought he said “bottle of paste” like he was huffing glue to get high and feel not so sad
@Digident1ty12 жыл бұрын
'Where we'd have to speak', I thought it said?
@brettwallis13 ай бұрын
I remember my friend listening to the song, as he thought of his ex..( I thought he was so cliche”, and hated this band..lol, But I hear it now…. What he felt at 20.. I ended up Marrying that girl he thought about..😮..I know crazy , we are divorced now, and I regret loosing a great friend, not knowing what it does to a man, because at that time I really didn’t know jack about relationships.. When you young and fall”, you are blind and deaf to everything but Her”, or him, whatever.. ( I was married to her hair for 10 years, tho I really only felt that insane love for about 3-4 if I’m honest, but she will always be a huge part of me…even if she was unfaithful in marriage, she is still my wife, I will always love her. And hate her at the same time.. like that u2 song, with or without you … that is us. She could give me a reason for divorce, but being unfaithful is like, stabbing someone…, I know how much it hurt. It makes me want to hug my old friend Jake, and tell him I wish I would have understood. Life is never predictable, if it is you probably aren’t “living”…. ❤
@thekosmickat5 жыл бұрын
how many people from Crowder's latest? XD
@Guitarguy23412 жыл бұрын
There's a version of this song with no drums.
@stephanieroman5478 Жыл бұрын
Does this song sound different to anyone ? Idk but I feel like this song sounded different.
@rosieb53874 ай бұрын
❤
@ErinPatricia12 жыл бұрын
*you're *you're goddammit.
@mattascular12 жыл бұрын
Seriously?? Which comic?
@SportsLuvr12 жыл бұрын
word
@bobsaidok43257 жыл бұрын
Soooo tru
@suzmarie36196 жыл бұрын
Donia 💔
@Guitarguy23412 жыл бұрын
I just realized that didn't make sense...You're taking AWAY a layer if you take out the drums. To prevent myself from being trolled, I'm correcting myself. I meant to say that there's a certain DEPTH that is attained with just guitars, no drums.
@turbotime41048 жыл бұрын
why am I crying for such a whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawehaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
@hetalism14 жыл бұрын
emm i think its ment to be where...
@emmabathandbeyond38458 жыл бұрын
omg the grammar is killing me the video maker uses "were" instead of "where" ughhh
@outPut337 жыл бұрын
Emma Bath At least he didn't use a made up word like 'wair'. ... Oh.
@savannah1music12 жыл бұрын
Taylor swift's photo brought me here :D
@kimberlyhayes43147 жыл бұрын
i wish that i was anywhere with anyone making out....
@cabdriver2713 жыл бұрын
@xMikeDelayx Feel better?
@girlsatimebombxx12 жыл бұрын
lol i hear drums in this song. so now i'm confused.