Gastric Bypass Q&A

[@sansanfan83]

I was 518lbs when I had gastric bypass in 2019. I have lost 320 lbs so far. Having the surgery 100% saved my life.

[@briansweebe8853]

That's awesome! I was 609 before surgery and am currently 2 days post op. My goal is to get below 300.

[@leanns295]

@@briansweebe8853 can I ask where you guys had surgery? Im struggling to find a doctor who will help me the two in my area won’t see me or operate on me as I’m over 400lbs

[@briansweebe8853]

@LeAnn S I had mine with dr. rizqallah in the Detroit area. I had the same issue trying to find someone to do it. That's when I found Dr. Rizqallah but I had to drive 2 hours to him

[@briansweebe8853]

@LeAnn S Even if you have to travel to find a surgeon I highly recommend it. I'm almost 2 weeks post op and have lost 29 pounds.

[@leanns295]

@@briansweebe8853 I’ve been looking but unfortunately have not found a place here in Iowa that will do it and I have insurance through the state right now so I don’t believe they will cover if I go out of state. And let’s be honest I don’t have 20-40 grand to pay out of pocket 🥺

[@elleirenex3]

I had gastric bypass 5 years ago and it was the best decision I have made. I have experience some regain but have also now learned the tools to shed that. And I love my loose skin! The biggest thing I recommend is just loving it from the start. I didn't choose the surgery to be skinny and look good, I chose it to be healthy. I jiggle my loose skin all the time and have really worked to see it as a badge of honor, because in a way, it is!

[@sipfromthehourglass]

This is so cool to see :) I'm starting to get loose skin and trying to just take a deep breath and appreciate my body for feeling healthier and being strong

[@silkesto580]

I'm not from the States, so to be honest, I find it concerning that so many people are getting weightloss surgeries over there. Let me just say, I don't think it's necessarily the easy way out, and I don't judge anybody. However, if it's becoming such a normal thing that everyone knows several people who had it done... it's worrisome to me. To me, it sounds like a societal change has to happen with food. Everyone getting pieces of their stomach cut off can't be the solution here. Speedy recovery, though, Alex

[@merio7154]

👏🙌🏽 most people are overweight it seems on America and it is very concerning. Especially for children since it seems to be getting worse and worse every year. This is why the whole health at every size attitude is so wrong because it is trying to normalize something that is sooo horrible for your physical and mental health

[@krystinac5024]

@@merio7154 Yes, how awful for human beings to want to be treated with respect and kindness. Instead, we should shame them and tell them that they're unhealthy slobs who are horrible to their bodies, right?

[@katerina9159]

@@krystinac5024 no one said they shouldn’t be treated with kindness, but for them to try normalising being obese and overweight as something “healthy” is dangerous

[@merio7154]

@@krystinac5024 so by saying something is unhealthy u automatically go to horrible slobs lmao. Question: do you think being obese is healthy mentally and physically?

[@merio7154]

@@katerina9159 thank you! That’s exactly what I said but she went to slobs. Her words not mine. Everyone should be treated with kindness but normalizing something that is outright horrible for your health is wrong. Think about future generations and where this world is headed

[@balexandrio7227]

I had it done 10 years ago, best decision I ever made in my life. It will be life changing for you. It’s not just about the way you look, it’s better for your mental and physical health as well. Proud of you for doing what’s best for you!!!

[@sipfromthehourglass]

I'm genuinely curious in a body positive/non judgemental way what your results are 10 years out? No worries if you're not comfortable sharing.

[@MichelleAntonia]

You clearly made the right decision for YOURSELF! You seem so much happier and more positive. You are WINNING, girl!

[@ellegaitor2887]

My friend is in the US she had this surgery last year. She is so fit and healthy now and in such a better place it’s truly amazing and was a blessing x people underestimate the hard work you have already put in for this surgery and the work you continue to do xx

[@natt_32]

My mother had gastric bypass almost 20 years ago. It was the best decision she ever made!

[@lachicana8]

I had the surgery 4 years ago. Like you, I was tired of dieting. I would lose, then regain. I lost 160 pounds in my first year of surgery. You will lose a lot too!!! Beware of the hair loss around months 4 and 5. It will grow back in time. Good luck to you. 🥰

[@afl8182]

It is pretty insane how this surgery is banalized. To me this is a symptom of our society that is so pleasure-oriented, (so much so that people find it easier to risk their life on a surgery table rather than eating less!), and impatient (long term goals are so hard to acheive because we need instant gratification). It's kind of scary... Imagine trying to explain this surgery to someone living a hundred years ago... By the way I obviously include myself in this depiction of society. It might not be food for me, but I have other demons that I fight every day. I'm sorry if this comment offends anyone, it was NOT my goal at all. I just wanted to share my reflexion on the subject. This is in no way shape or form trying to shame people going through the surgery. If it makes them happy then I'm sincerely happy for them!

[@TonyaRobertson]

I think you are doing it for all the right reasons. Having a baby is so exhausting that you need your body as strong as possible. Good for you!!!

[@sipfromthehourglass]

I'm 6 months post op and down 110lbs. Starting to get extra skin, but my body feels GOOD from a health stand point. I still have about 90lbs to go. It's daunting and slowing wayyyy down, but I try to focus on the lifestyle change

[@brandytucher8823]

I’m so happy for you, alex. You already seem to feel better. Worrying about your health is no joke. Good for you for doing what was best for you. ❤️

[@brittanycat2887]

I'm 3 weeks away from the sleeve and this video eased my anxiety. Been following for years! Good luck!

[@AlexandraIreneRodriguez]

Thanks lovey! Best of luck to you!! ❤️❤️

[@itsarielj7491]

Me too what’s your surgery date? Mine is 12/14

[@brittanycat2887]

@@itsarielj7491 12/17!

[@georgiamcbean3721]

@@itsarielj7491 mine is the 14th of December too!

[@sipfromthehourglass]

Good luck ladies!! I'm 6 months post op gastric bypass and feeling better and better every day :)

[@ladyaugust]

I haven’t had any surgery but I try to maintain a certain protein goal. Collagen has 10g of protein in a scoop- add it to your coffee or oatmeal etc. It’s also good for your skin and joints :)

[@kararothe7019]

I take collagen for protein too!

[@Sarahjane2604]

Omg girl! I haven't been on in so long but I'm now seeing this and so happy for you! I had RNY a year ago and down 180 lbs. Best decision ever. I am so so happy for you and sending you all of the love and support in the world!

[@Samsammiesamantha]

Alex, if you aren’t already, I highly recommend taking a collagen supplement to help with your skins elasticity as well!!

[@mrkennedy4394]

Regarding the extra food you need when pregnant. That's not really a thing. The first trimester you need about 100 calories extra a day and the 2nd and 3rd about 300. But that's on a 'normal' size person. The whole eat for two thing is super outdated. I'm obese and when I got pregnant I only put on 20lbs extra. And had a 9lb baby.

[@originalcoffeelover2725]

Surgery or no surgery… YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL❤️💜💖

[@vivianlove16]

I went to get mine on November 2nd, got to the operation room, got open, but when they went in my lower incision they saw a big tumor, almost 7 pounds, and they decided with my family permission to get it removed instead, since they had to do a biopsy first couldn’t get me the bypass, had to wait, now I have to save money again since I don’t have Insurance 😓, good thing got that tumor from my ovary removed, one of the reasons was that We want to have children as well so it was a good decision…

[@camillehaggard725]

I'm glad you're okay and they found it. Best of luck to you. I hope you get everything you need

[@nisamarievega]

I have been watching you for years. You inspire me all the time. I actually had gastric bypass last year and I’m down 100 pounds. It was the best decision of my life. I am healthier and present for my family now it makes me so happy.

[@wanderlustfemme]

You made the right decision, Alex. So happy for you! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. All positive vibes for you, love!

[@daisyxfaith]

I'm very glad you are doing ok, and I'm rooting for you! ❤ I've had a close friend and a family member die of complications from this surgery, and another friend is very ill and has had to have several revisions. If you're considering the surgery, please don't take this as fear mongering. I know it's a great tool for some people, and many have success. But I truly do not think people understand how serious and life-altering this surgery can be. Ultimately it is a choice between doctor/patient, but as anyone who has had it knows, it is definitely not a quick fix.

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

Fear mongering? I wouldn't call it that. . . I happen care that other people don't take these surgeries so lightly. . and sounds like she was misinformed to me? Sorry that you think that people are trying to make her fearful. And by the way, she said she already HAD the surgery so you might want to pay closer attention to her video?💗peace & love

[@daisyxfaith]

@@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411 I really think you should re-read my comment. I don't think anyone is fear-mongering... I'm saying others might perceive it that way, but I certainly don't. It's important to have all of the facts when making big decisions like this. I watched the video and I know she already had the surgery, which is why I said I was glad she was doing ok... I was addressing people in the comments who may be reading, not her directly.

[@jthielen71]

I am an RN and i get bariatric patients every week i personally think the surgery is too risky ive seen so many have bowel obstrutions and stomach issues

[@miaace5070]

@@jthielen71 Are the bowel obstructions from scar tissue?

[@mysteriousmemt]

@@jthielen71 is that from the sleeve or bypass

[@quinno2509]

I’m having gastric bypass on June 30th. This has been really helpful. My program required that I lose 25 pounds before. I’m super excited!

[@marleymiller9894]

I’m so happy you’re sharing this process with us!!

[@craftymarab.8450]

I had it done 2 years ago n i lost 135lbs no more knee, ankle pain or swelling...i love quest vanilla ice cream i put it on my coffee as creamer n i love it

[@dalia48]

Im so happy you're sharing your journey with us!! You are absolutely glowing! I can feel the positive vibes and not to mention you look absolutely stunning!!!

[@andweknow6969]

You look stunning! I can’t believe you felt up to getting ready so soon after surgery. I’m glad things are going so well! 🖤

[@ginakraushaar7858]

Alex, thank you so much for your candor. You’re beautiful thin, heavy, or in between. Much Love!! 💝

[@tracie3]

I’m happy for you! I’m glad that you did something for YOU and to make YOU feel better physically and mentally.. You didn’t go by what others are saying or the negative.. I would be interested but it does make me nervous.. So I’m happy to see and hear updates..

[@amandawilson4716]

My mom had it done when it was a newer surgery. She almost died, so I always thought it was never for me. Thanks for this video Alex ❤️

[@amandawilson4716]

@@rudyvel so sorry about your friend. I've always been extremely nervous to even entertain the idea of the surgery. I am interested just scared. Glad for Alex though that hers went so well.

[@Keep__moving__forward]

@@rudyvel I’m so sorry about your friend. this is the main reason why I won’t get it. I just don’t feel like I can take that chance. I have two small boys and not being here is not a option.

[@jenr4573]

@@rudyvel if you don’t mind me asking but how did your friend die from the surgery? May they Rest In Peace

[@debbiedeb9094]

I had an ob that was very familiar with bariatric patients and they were amazing. I am now 3 years post op with my fourth baby on the way! (Two of them post bariatric surgery) You've got this, baby girl.

[@gloriaorozco9541]

Is there any food you permanently won’t be able to eat after surgery?

[@sipfromthehourglass]

Everyone is different. I am 6 months post op gastric bypass, and dumping syndrome is a concern. Eating anything with over 3g of sugar makes you 💩 like crazy. You're still supposed to avoid carbs as much as possible. I can't drink skim milk (too sugar-y), and bread HURTS my stomach. I can eat a tiny bit of rice. I'm also supposed to never smoke, drink alcohol, drink caffeine, or carbonation. You have to chase protein to get enough every day, and take your vitamins. Just figured I'd answer your question from my perspective :) every surgeon is different.

[@corazonmismo412]

Your hair looks absolutely stunning 🥰🙏 This length suits you so well!

[@DarleneWhite]

Alex I have been watching you for a long time now and I can see the old happy, cheerful, loving person again! Not that you had lost all of it but I seen that you was in pain with some of the try on’s that you was doing before the surgery! You are 100% right that it works different with different people! My husband had it 11 years ago and was like you had a hard time dealing with food! This was a journey for him and me both and a good support team is a must! I know it’s not about how you look “but you are looking great” it the way you feel! Congratulations and keep up the great work also like probably most of your true followers we would like to be keep in on how you are doing! Hugs and prayers as always!

[@itsrosie6828]

Alex im so proud of you and wish you nothing but success , the weightloss will help w mental state , with energy and im so ready to see you glow even more than you already had . I will support you through your journeys

[@kristiesellers379]

Alex I have been following you for what… the last 10 or so years? You were one of the very first you tubers I ever followed and I am just proud of you and honored that you have shared your journey with us, not just this latest journey ❤️ I truly don’t care what ya post, I’m here for itttttt. CANT WAIT FOR VLOGMAS!!!

[@thefoodwench4848]

I’m happy for you. I have had regain from sleeve but I do have the tools to lose that. You look great and I can’t wait to see how you change 😀💕

[@jayjay61913]

How many behavioral health appointment did you have? Mine is scheduled for January but I wasn’t sure if it’s more than one!

[@emmageezable]

You seem like you are in such a good place 😊 so happy for you!

[@leafletanon]

your makeup looks INCREDIBLE!!

[@nani6745]

Blessings on this journey ❤️ I’m excited for you ❤️

[@TheVictorialikesit]

I am in my six month pre op now and I am so excited!! :)

[@flbluibabe79]

I'm 11 years out and still can't really eat. I'm such a foodie so not being able to enjoy food sucks. My eyes are still to this day so much bigger than my stomach. I never had hair loss but a lot of people I know did. I highly suggest taking Biotin. Also make sure you get a medical alert bracelet.

[@AlexandraIreneRodriguez]

Definitely will be taking Biotin when I can ❤️ thanks for sharing your experience!

[@flbluibabe79]

@@AlexandraIreneRodriguez ❤

[@flbluibabe79]

Also when you start introducing food it can get stuck. I would suggest always having someone nearby in case you need them to hit you on the back. I know it sounds crazy but it happens.

[@JaimeVandelinde]

“Your eyes are still to this day bigger than my stomach?” Did you mean eyes or something else

[@Loganm0213]

@@JaimeVandelinde she’s saying she thinks she can eat more than she can. It’s a figure of speech

[@baconbritts]

That red lip is stunning! What is it? It's making your teeth look extra pearly white! And what firming lotion are you using?

[@colleenmcnally9418]

The black top ,red lips,and gold hoops is such a stunning look!

[@chrismetafora6565]

You sre the kind of person who could make watching grass or paint drying interesting.

[@ARose8290]

Hi, I've have followed you on and off for years. I know its not easy. Thank you for this video. I am preparing for a sleeve soon.

[@BecM7]

The reason you don’t feel as much hunger is because your stomach produces the hunger hormone - and you have a much smaller stomach now, so, less hunger hormone.

[@jthielen71]

I believe they actually remove the hunger receptors

[@xxxaixo]

Although I'm not having the surgery I'm very interested in hearing about it. Glad you're doing well. Girl, wait until you go into labour. That pain is next level. Lol

[@jackiephillips1273]

Thank you for this. I’ve struggled also but my husbands insurance doesn’t cover it at all not even if it’s medically necessary it’s so hard hearing that news. But I hope some day insurance companies change their ways.

[@gidbry]

So i see youre drinking out a straw. Wow, I was told it will give us gas etc...How does the straws affect you? especially right after surgery?

[@GabbiiNicole]

Please please don’t take this message as rude. I was just wondering what you meant by getting a tummy tuck 2years ago.. I thought you recently went through the process like a few months ago..

[@christinem.alwaysbelieve]

I believe she had a panniculectomy a few years ago. That gets rid of the lower belly hanging skin more for hygiene reasons than cosmetic. It is different than a tummy tuck.

[@christinem.alwaysbelieve]

@@lexa4805probably easier to say that as not many understand what a panniculectomy is. Some call it a lower tummy tuck too. It really doesn't matter as it wasn't done for cosmetic reasons. :)

[@christinem.alwaysbelieve]

@@melijelly4143 Alex stated always procedure was around 2 years ago. She didn't do video on it till year or less ago. She didn't tell people when she had it done. I don't blame her for not sharing immediately. People are too critical.

[@melijelly4143]

@@christinem.alwaysbelieve yes you’re right!

[@GabbiiNicole]

@@christinem.alwaysbelieve hmm okay, I swore it was this year, when she did an interview with another channel about it.. i was just curious hmmm

[@LisaMarie-gx5ku]

Alex you are so beautiful!! Your makeup is always perfect 👌🏻 So glad you are doin well with your recovery.

[@tiff2361]

Thank you so much for these videos! I feel like I haven’t found a good video answering all my questions. Thanks you!

[@lauraswihart4816]

I think that this was a very honest review! I wish Alex lots of love! 🧡

[@salmob09]

Sounds like you have a great system. My program didn't have so much support but Im glad I did it.

[@PeaceLoveSlim1988]

Do you regret your tummy tuck now that you had this surgery? I love you and hope you are healing fast!

[@AlexandraIreneRodriguez]

I talked about that in this video 😊

[@ajnunez11]

So excited for this video. I’m glad you posted it. Happy for you.

[@SonicBlueBigGirl]

My insurance pays but I have to go through 6 months of doctor visits so I am scheduled for April for the sleeve. That was what they said was the best route for me to go. So excited to watch your journey and thanks for being so honest. 💗 much love and respect

[@carriehagstrom9777]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this!

[@athenarodicio-durham4329]

I've gotten pre-authorization for weightloss surgery and my insurance will only cover gastric bypass, duodenal switch, or sleeve. Wanting to know why you chose gastric bypass vs one of the other two options?

[@maci1107]

I’m so stinkin proud of you! You’re so courageous. ❤️

[@ajeffries1206]

Lipstick color, please? You look amazing and are exuding confidence!

[@jaimeces4090]

I would love to know the eating schedule for the year post op. If there’s any way to shorten that onto one video.

[@joannlovespapillons]

That’s the top you showed us recently, beautiful! Were you given the choice of all options discussed (sleeve, bypass, etc) or is it decided by the doctor? I’m just tired of struggling & tired of being judged. Thanks, Alex 💜

[@AlexandraIreneRodriguez]

I was given the choices by my doctor and was able to choose for myself :) of course they recommended what they thought would be best for me, but ultimately the choice is up to you!

[@bethy4212]

Can you please share what kind of firming lotion you said you've been using? And have you noticed if it's working? :D

[@blumerlredpilledgirl8958]

I’ve always felt you were courageous props to you.

[@AlexandraIreneRodriguez]

Thank you ❤️

[@juliahenderson6495]

So happy for you doll. God bless you.

[@Sarah-ty5ev]

Glad you had a successful surgery :) hope you continue to recover well!

[@qq1651]

would you feel ok with telling us what Doctor/Clinic you went to and what state you live in? Thank you so much!

[@theresaehrichs8843]

I’m so happy and excited for u, I’ve been with u for a long time. I feel like this is the last piece of the puzzle. Ur always a beautiful girl! Excited for u and ur journey ❤️

[@Liv98728]

Thank you so much for sharing this vulnerable part of you with us 💗 I have been in the process of getting the surgery for about 2 years. It is SO different for everyone. You are an incredible and confident woman. I am so happy for you!

[@Liv98728]

Also I TOTALLY understand wanting to vibe with your surgeon. If someones gonna be slicing up my guts I want to vibe w you 😩

[@kristinavalencia6871]

Does this mean no more diet coke?😢

[@thrivewithjesus5216]

Alexandra, I looked through your old videos to see if you ever talked about your depression journey, finding the right provider to help with medication, daily habits to help with depression and anxiety, etc. Also, your experience with meds. I was not able to find it. Did you ever do a video on this topic? Thank you!

[@savannah4951]

She doesn't use those titles but she has talked about those topics in the past

[@wenstrends4852]

Loving the red lipstick on you.

[@nitafinall83]

Love you Alex, it takes alot of courage to share your health journey with us. Much love ❤

[@brandiflores7428]

Been following you since your videos were upstairs in your bedroom. I love how you are always transparent with your viewers. You are one of my go to, you tubers to watch because of your authenticity. Always follow your heart. Listen to your body. You know what’s best for you. Cannot wait for that baby journey…..♥️

[@itsamberrenae5221]

OMG! I've been considering this. I'm looking forward to seeing your journey and your results

[@idobelieveinfaries]

Love you for opening up about this 💜

[@collettewhosthatgirl1330]

Hi Alex, could you please share the firming/tightening lotion you use atm?

[@bonniedonohew4651]

I hope all goes well with this procedure.I am just curious,why No gum chewing & can you still have your Diet Coke?

[@kristinrobinson7561]

How soon can u exercise after surgery?

[@hannahelvete]

FIVE purée meals a day less that 2 weeks after surgery?! That’s insane! You should barely be able to manage one meal at this stage

[@Momof2lows]

So happy to see this! I was just thinking i wish Alex would post today. ✨wish granted✨ ☺️🙌🏽

[@AlexandraIreneRodriguez]

Heheee❤️❤️❤️

[@casst2890]

Alex, you really are learning to be fearless 💜

[@highonmac]

Your makeup looks GORGEOUS!

[@confessionsofamakeupaddict2557]

I have the sleeve since 💪🏻 10-25-21 💪🏻 it’s a journey lol I just found out today I can run…ME RUN 🏃‍♂️ I MUST HAVE LOOKED LIKE A CRAZY WOMAN RUNNING ON THE TREADMILL AND CRYING LOL -26 in a month 🤩

[@BLACKGIRLBROKEN]

That’s awesome I have gastric bypass on the 21st I’m so nervous

[@mysteriousmemt]

@@BLACKGIRLBROKEN how has it been for you?

[@xobridget17xo]

Thank you for making this video!❤️

[@marthalrodriguez.2209]

Like always say your beautiful them and your beautiful now. I’m happy your doing better and thank you for this video. I have a friend who is thinking of having this surgery so I’ll show her your video. Thanks again. Love you my Fearless Queen

[@rosiethompson8243]

Such a beautiful soul, love you so much Alex. Glad you’re doing well.❤️

[@luzplanas7141]

I am so proud of you Alex ,Keep up the good work, good things are coming your way ,god bless you 🙏🙏🙏😘

[@LaurenBolich]

Literally love your channel :) Can’t wait to see your journey!

[@AlexandraIreneRodriguez]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@LaurenBolich]

@@AlexandraIreneRodriguez I have an appointment Friday to talk to a doctor! Like you it’s been In my head for years!

[@laurensnook9334]

You look very pretty in this video ❤️ thanks for sharing. Excited for you

[@c.catherinewatkins5839]

I've been watching you for years and I am just so in awe of you. You are strong, intelligent, self-aware, and so articulate! I can tell you've put a lot of thought and consideration into your decision to have this surgery. As a mom of 8 kids, the love I have for each child and during each pregnancy was all I needed to eat well and maintain good health for them, as well as myself! I look forward to seeing your journey and I have no doubt you and Yarmyn will be excellent parents. 💜

[@claramaxwell9108]

hello dear how are you doing

[@heyyyerica182]

Really happy to see you glow with the knowledge that healthier days are ahead 💕

[@tinachamblee5410]

Regardless you are still beautiful and do what's good for you and your health. I love watching you n what you stand for. Have great day n holidays.

[@bethrocks]

Thank you for sharing this with us. Love that lip color on you!!

[@tamiaedrington5762]

Off topic but Had to say your makeup is fire here

[@debrajones6078]

Alex you don't have to explain to anyone, what you did I think was wonderful, your taking care of yourself and health, because that's what the bottom line is, if we don't have our health we have nothing... Health is wealth!!!...I wish you all the Best!!!

[@tiffanyb5808]

So excited for you!! Sending lots of love and positive vibes your way.