Gay Open Relationships - The Honest Truth You Need To Know

In this eye-opening video, we delve into the world of gay open relationships, exploring the honest truths that everyone needs to know. Open relationships can be a fulfilling and liberating choice for many within the LGBTQ+ community, but they also come with their own unique set of challenges and misconceptions.
Join us as we discuss the dynamics of open relationships, the importance of communication, and how to navigate jealousy and boundaries. We’ll share real-life experiences, expert insights, and practical tips to help you understand whether an open relationship might be right for you.
Whether you're curious about exploring open relationships or are currently in one, this video provides valuable perspectives and advice to foster healthy and respectful partnerships. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content on love, relationships, and the LGBTQ+ experience!
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[@ajames283]

No such thing. It's just FWB who live together for convenience

[@robigalia]

I’ve been with my husband for 31 years. I don’t care who he f***s. There’s so many more important things in a relationship. Honesty and integrity are key. And hygiene!

[@garybregel1572]

I hope he doesn't bring a disease home to you.

[@MarkovianMan]

With rare exceptions, it's indicative of an unhealthy relationship for any number of reasons, such as denial of fundamental incompatibility, sexual addiction of one or both partners, callous disregard for the feelings and well-being of one's partner, detachment from intimacy, selfishness, and fear (of being alone, financial loss if financially entwined, etc.). Not to mention the health risks, many of which may be cured (crabs, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, trichomoniasis, most cases of monkeypox, etc.), but others which cannot (herpes, HIV, HPV, Hepatitis B, etc.). Of course, the risk of infecting one's partner is lower if no longer being sexually intimate. Someone in an open relationship once told me that sex doesn't mean anything and it's just like any other human need, like taking a sh*t. What a wonderfully endearing analogy. If one wants to sleep around, just stay single. All that said, everyone has the right to live as they choose, provided it's not hurting others or violating their rights. Live and let live.

[@AuthenNick]

❤️❤️❤️ very good points here thank you 😊 Live and Let Live

[@thisisemanuelm]

Yessss omg exactly!!!!!!!!

[@ElguirideCalafell-sb1yz]

This one phrase "If one wants to sleep around, just stay single." resonates so much with me. I've gone through stages, but in periods that I just feel like sleeping around, I make sure not to be in a relationship.

[@polish-american8107]

Rules for me are key. Open within reason. It's a big topic in the community for sure.

[@MarkovianMan]

I have yet to know a couple with an open relationship where they both strictly observe the rules.

[@MCJSA]

Been there. Done that. That's hard. Relationships are hard enough without this. If you're stress monkey - good for you. Otherwise, just be real.

[@richardstormjr.7564]

Nope I couldn't do that I would get to jealous

[@ontheaaron]

You never know if you don't try the 3 way

[@garybregel1572]

If you do it together that's one thing. But if one does it behind the other one's back that is clearly something different.

[@ontheaaron]

@@garybregel1572 I get and understand that

[@willistaylor4077]

Mono-gammish sounds like a pasta dish 😊😂❤

[@AuthenNick]

😂😂😂 hahaha right I was like what is this

[@timothyj1966]

and often the Monogamist types are going to all you can eat Buffets in Secret

[@giovannilee2602]

Isn’t pasta delicious ? …. Of course u need to know how to cook it

[@allanbrewer3898]

I don’t believe in open relationships as far as I’m concerned the person you are with doesn’t love you like they say they do if they can sleep with other men and as far as I’m concerned they are cheating on you I myself would not have this and I would get out of that relationship as fast as I could because they will end up cheating on you. An open relationship never works and never will plus you don’t know if they are having safe sex and they could bring home a disease and pass it onto you and then they leave you anyway so why put yourself through it. It would also make you feel inadequate to the point that you are not good enough for that person and you lack in something that you can’t give to that person so from my personal point of view I say NO to an open relationship and would tell the person who wants one go find someone else it may hurt you at the time but it better to be safe than sorry and put up with a cheater that doesn’t love you enough to be faithful to you.

[@Dallas-214]

❤❤

[@constantinoferrer7420]

Hey Nick! I’m a new fan. Love most of your videos but sometimes (considering your gay life “longevity”) you come across a tad judgmental and borderline self-righteous, specially today with this topic. You don’t sound like you’re really interested in other opinions but to make the point that you’re 💯 against it. 😅 Xoxo 😘

[@alemarcondess]

And that's ok! He doesn't need to be willing to have an open relationship!!! I personally would never have an open relationship. An open relationship is more about sex than love!

[@constantinoferrer7420]

@@alemarcondess That’s fine. Both of you made up your minds. Awesome. Then no need to act like we want to have an open discussion about a topic we feel so strongly about. 😉

[@maxbear215]

I'm a 70 yr old gay man and I've seen it all. The answer is no, they don't work.

[@John-bi1lv]

You clearly have not seen it all. Open isn't my thing either but I''ve seen seen several work quite well for them. All depends on the couple

[@maxbear215]

@@John-bi1lv We can agree to disagree. I'm a retired psychiatrist and I've counseled hundreds if not thousands of gay men and I've never seen an open relationship the lasted or ended well. .

[@damienmcneal5534]

Perhaps the open relationships that worked didn’t need to see you.

[@fuzzykyrra]

@damienmcneal5534 Excellent rebuttal! I agree 💯

[@philiplanzino8761]

@@damienmcneal5534 was thinking same, been 31 years for mine but never needed to tell a psychiatrist i'm happy and how we are.

[@kernow9324]

No judgement. This is just my experience. I've gone along with an open relationship when it was either accept it or we're done, and I hated it. I've also tried an open relationship after discussing it with my long-term partner (different relationship) at the time, and still hated it. It seems to work for some couples, but not for us. Watching someone I love balls deep inside a stranger was devastating and it nearly broke us. We'll never ever try it again.

[@AuthenNick]

@@kernow9324 ya I totally feel the same thank you for sharing your experience ❤️

[@DavidSiniawski]

I really don't understand the point of an open relationship if you care about somebody. And love them. How could you share that person with somebody else..?. Or how could that person just wanna go out and hook up with somebody for sex? It's not worth it.. Better just end Or find somebody that you're really compatible with. Because most people are just never satisfied

[@dk5802]

Most people are in some form of open relationship, they just don’t know it. It’s called cheating, which most of you or your spouses do anyway🤷‍♂️

[@ElguirideCalafell-sb1yz]

You might want to explore your prejudices towards the gay community and inquiere where they come from. My experience is that this kind of statement comes from a place of internalized homophobia, and you'll feel a lot better and more confident when you manage to get rid of this belief.

[@dk5802]

MOST is the operative word here. Poll your family and friends. If they were to give you an HONEST answer, you wouldn’t be asking me to get rid of this belief, as far as cheating is concerned.

[@ElguirideCalafell-sb1yz]

@@dk5802 Thank you for confirming your belief.

[@batmore1]

Another gay youtuber studied open relationships. He said that of all the open relationship couples he met, 80 per cent of those couples who were open, we not having sex with each other.

[@DavidMorgan-m3r]

I spent 22 years in a open relationship , and in the end i ended up on my own , i will never have one again

[@AuthenNick]

@@DavidMorgan-m3r wow 22 years yikes 😬 I’m sorry 😢 ❤️ thank you for sharing it with me

[@John-bi1lv]

22 years in a relationship I would consider a success.

[@KoalaBeer.]

😮

[@hooc-cooh]

Personally, I think being monogamous sextually is the result of pure love, maybe it sounds a liitle childish, but for me, I would feel really bad to share my companion with another one, it feels like there're thousands of pins piercing my heart.

[@AuthenNick]

Yess I feel this

[@thomasmead6898]

They can work, but you shouldn’t do it at the beginning, but relationships change and you are not together because of sex, that dies, especially after 20 years.

[@richarddeason1845]

I try open And it failed I would not do it again

[@CarlosLopez-qk7ni]

Well Monogamous is the best for us. I have seen enough from other couple that were open and now they are separated and they hate each other. I respect others' lives but it is not my cup of tea either. Cheers from Canada Carlos 🇲🇽🇨🇦

[@AuthenNick]

Thanks Carlos ❤️

[@evaninthisorn2066]

I think it’s never going to work out. That’s just me and my opinion. My close friend had opened relationships and they end up separating and they were together quite sometimes. I just don’t see pure and honest love in an open relationship. I just think, if you’re going to have an open relationship, might as well stay single and have a F*** buddy with no commitment.

[@Stephenrsm7600]

Excellent topic, Nick!!! I like yourself am NOT for an open relationship at least at this point and time.

[@josephang9927]

I see open relationships as just soft break ups. They undermine the point of exclusivity and commitment. Observe that even among heterosexual people the ugliest people are the ones that participate in poly shit, because they cannot really allocate quality people. But there are exception, indeed.

[@kpm7727]

Open relationships may work for some but not for me. I don't share. You're asking for trouble, in my opinion.

[@garybregel1572]

Yeah, no shit.

[@KoalaBeer.]

I couldn’t do it ..why be in one then?..I’m with you can’t imagine it. I might cop flack for this but you’re being selfish, cake and eat it.

[@michaelballlenger7614]

For me monogamy is the only way to go. I can't imagine being with anyone other than the man I love. Our intimacy is for us alone.

[@AuthenNick]

I feel the same way ❤️🌈😍 thank you

[@matthewfreeman4185]

Hi Nick, I was involved in two different throuples and it just was too much. I'll stick to being with one person, I'm like you, I can't take having my man be intimate with someone else and then come home to me. I've hooked up with guys that were in open relationships and I felt so alone cause they had to go home to their boyfriends after we played around. My heart can't take that anymore.

[@franklinshouse8719]

My husband and I have been together since 1998. And our relationship has always been open. We don't make it a habit of staying over night at someone else's place, but that is about our only rule. And we are still happily together. We can't really make each other jealous. It's not for everyone, but, for us, it works.

[@AuthenNick]

That’s awesome I’m glad it works for you guys 🌈❤️

[@wongles]

I am happy for you two.. would you mind answering a question or two? Are you guys still sexually active together, without the others? Is it as frequent as you both would like? Is it easy and enjoyable for both of you? And would things be OK if one person or the other wanted to close the relationship? Thank you for indulging me..

[@ElguirideCalafell-sb1yz]

@@wongles A pity you're not getting any answers...

[@teams3345]

No way. They are SAD people.

[@whaley2365]

Monogamous relationship involves love and commitment. Making love is more enjoyable because it's meaningful. Not to mention it's safer. Open relationship is more about sex. It sears out the meaning of faithfulness and it's risky 🏳️‍🌈

[@AuthenNick]

💯💯💯

[@upsupeter]

Personally it’s a no from me. But when you think about the amount of cheating that goes on you in an open relationship without your consent anyway. If people want that freedom why be in a relationship it’s just selfish stay single. All they want is someone to play there fool and rely on there more commit partner to bolster the life while the piss all over the people they profess to love. Right. I think that a lot of people put up with it later in life as fear of being alone starts to become more of a reality.

[@TheVisualfilmlibrary]

8 billion plus people on the planet, 8 billion plus definitions... people have to make commitment rules for their pairing. The homosexual lifestyle when it was illegal and/or undercover, was a driving force for promiscuity. Being a romantic, the highly sexualized crowd seems a bit extreme

[@AuthenNick]

Thank you for the comment and showing support ❤️😊

[@ElguirideCalafell-sb1yz]

For a long time I was very much against open relationships. I came to realize that if other people want one, it's not up to me to judge them, but it's not for me. It requieres a level of detachment I am not capable of. I do not see s*x and love within a relationship as two seperate things, I think they're two sides of the same coin. I still believe very much that people who are in an open relationship have issues, either personal issues and/or between them, that are unadressed, and their relationship status is an illusionary solution to problems that have got nothing to do with being monogamous or not. But again: that doesn't allow me to judge people who do make that choice. And last but not least: I've never seen a succesful open relationship (as opposed to closed relationships between 3 people, I know several sustainable and durable throuples that perfectly fulfill all persons in them). Usually people decide to have an open relationship when they've passed some kind of point of no return, and people outside of the relationship can already see that it's just a matter of time before it ends anyhow. It's like straight people having a baby to repair their relationship, and ending up divorcing 2 years later.

[@JuanCano-kk7kx]

Open is just sex, fantasies it shouldn’t affect your relationship IF is really strong

[@sureillbethere]

Open relationships only work when you keep the 'possibility' of sleeping with someone else open. You both are 'open' to it. It can happen, but your main partner (or partners) are still your main partner and your main focus. People always forget the second word, "relationship". When you're both just sleeping around that eventually becomes unsatisfying emotionally. And it may take years, but eventually two things happen, a) you become less emotionally attached if they're sleeping with lots of other people and b) one persons body count always, always, way exceeds the other persons and it then will become an issue. I'm not advocating for or against it. Its a constant tightrope walk but some people do need it, just keep the numbers low and be respectful. I mean, if you've given your partner a Valentine rose and they know for a fact you've already had 'another' Valentine session today, it's not special is it.

[@thisisemanuelm]

Overall imo i could never ever be in an open relationship!! Over my dead body lmao. It’s beyond me how some people have a lack of self worth and are totally comfortable with the thought of someone’s fifth wheel when things are mostly only about sex. On the other hand I could care less about this bs. That shallow excuse of a „rElAtIoNsHiP“ without any proper commitment to yourself or your significant is what I stay faaaarr away from smh. I would rather stay single and mind my own business then be with someone that is so on and off and is seeking physical/emotional affection from a gazillion other bi***es. Even if these relationships would work. It’s kinda shitty towards the third person (if it affects him/her) only to be someone’s bootycall on dial ..

[@marksule0]

Not for me!

[@bradstromberg5146]

I have never seen one, gay or straight, that worked. I suppose it depends on what you consider a successful relationship. I could never and would never want to do it.

[@AuthenNick]

Exactly 😊 thank you for the comment as well ❤️

[@Masteryoda1982]

If your partners your best friend you don’t have anything to worry about. The emotional bond of friendship is stronger than a hookup. For me personally there’s a factor of jealousy. Though I discovered very early on that monogamy among gay men is about as rare as hens teeth. Experience taught me they were gonna do it anyway. So as loyal as I tend to be, I accept that most guys aren’t. I also always felt it was wrong to ask someone I love to miss out on an experience they want. Life’s too short for that.

[@AuthenNick]

Thank you for that ❤️😊 very good points

[@georgehunt2787]

No wouldn’t work for us

[@HarrisonAJ1944]

I’m I’m a 15 year relationship. Never would have an open relationship. If a partner suggested that, to me that says “ I’m bored with you, I need other people” . If my partner wanted that, I’d show him the front door!!

[@Ray03595]

It doesn’t make sense to me. I can’t imagine having to worry about who my own partner is sleeping with. If he used protection, picked up an STI, if he’s sleeping with more people than he’s saying… this just sounds stressful, and not worth it and not a healthy relationship. Nope. Life is stressful enough and the point of dating is your partner brings you peace.

[@theanhoe72]

It can be frustrating to be in a relationship with vastly different sex drives between the 2 partners. Opening up could be a means to relieve that but it's not the only solution, just a possible one.

[@chrisgonzales4420]

There is a big difference between an open relationship and a poly relationship. I personally cant hamdle an open relationship but maybe after a long conversation may be open to a poly relationship.

[@MichaelTherrien-o5f]

I agreed to an open relationship, despite not wanting it open. Huge mistake ! I am monogamous oriented. It broke my heart for 16 years to be with someone who demanded this to be open.

[@UrbanRican74]

open relationships are bad at some point one of them will develop felling for someone else , or they will not be totally honest about it, me personally I try it once and never again was killing me each time he asked and that was probably every other day in between, open relationship is not love at all,

[@AuthenNick]

Ya I would feel exactly the same ugh 😩 I can’t even imagine

[@danielrebolledo8949]

For my husband and I have worked so far and, we've been together for 11 years.

[@phillipsmith7759]

It may be the other than sex part that attracts..like personality, lifestyles, histories, etc.

[@williamclark1244]

I can't control the actions of another person. I tell men I date if he wants to be with another person thats fine but he can't be with me also.

[@percentbuys]

Concept of OR is subjective. Too many variables for someone to say that if it works for them then it'll work for you

[@robertpate7161]

This relationship type, I personally couldn't do. If my partner wanted more than my love and devotion, he really isn't in love with me.

[@PeterShieldsukcatstripey]

Non emasculation works.

[@ahmengng4396]

The Lust of sexual desires

[@maximetauran3415]

From my own experience with open relationship and the stories that I have heard, I think it can work, if it is your thing, when you establish it from the start or to ease yourself into a serious monogamous relationship. But the moment you become monogamous with your partner, it is over. Trying to start an open relationship when you are in a monogamous relation is almost guaranteed to destroy it and usually a big red flag that your partner is cheating or want to cheat on you with someone specific.

[@davidkim3477]

Isn’t an open relationship somewhat like having a roommate?

[@timothyj1966]

you could say the SAME of Monogamous

[@davidkim3477]

@@timothyj1966 true for some couples.

[@matthewpegram7834]

DON'T KNOCK IT, IT'S ACTUALLY STIMULATING

[@aprilrochellebryant8451]

I don't share, and I feel that intimate relationships are tough enough just dealing with 2 personalities. I know 2 couples that identify as swingers and it seems to work for them. To each their own, as long as it's consensual, and everything ain't for everybody.

[@AuthenNick]

💯💯💯 thank you for the comment ❤️

[@andrewmcmanus9023]

It should be pretty clear just how complicated and unsettled this topic is, and how much it depends on the specific people involved, but let’s get into the negative ways that we judge each other about it! 1. I’ve seen monogamous gays get *extremely* mean and righteous about this, for all the same old reasons. (Just look at a few comments here, in fact!) 2. I’ve seen gays in open relationships who love to perform what a great time they’re having, when the reality of their relationship(s) definitely doesn’t match up to how they’re representing everything. It should be obvious that both sides of this are bad, and yet we find reasons to shut down dating, end relationships or just generally be terrible to one another over it. Maybe if we got rid of the binary thinking, we could figure out what’s right for each of us…

[@AuthenNick]

Love this ❤️🌈 thank you for this 👆

[@damienmcneal5534]

I was in an open relationship with my partner of 39 years, who has since passed. At first I was reluctant and it was, at times, a challenge. I am grateful for my partner’s love and support and our decision to have an honest, loving and caring relationship. We mostly shared our relationship with others who were interested in us as a couple. This is not for everyone. We always put our relationship first and made it clear to others. We never used the word should but rather shall we…I miss him so and I’m grateful for our journey together.

[@AuthenNick]

Aweee I’m sorry 😢 🌈❤️

[@timothyj1966]

I have seen soooo many Monogamous Relationships only to find out first hand --- Not as monogamous or Happy as they say there are. It's an outlet for Sex thats all... Working here

[@AuthenNick]

That’s great man and I totally agree 👍 I guess it really just depends on the person and situations

[@nanthakumarniros1626]

Very brave talk. I agreed with you. I've seen many couples have many issues in open relationships. Thanks this video gives a good brief description about open relationships to young new lgbtq+ freshers. . Keep it up. ❤

[@AuthenNick]

Thank you for the comment I really appreciate it ❤️

[@williammcghee863]

The best recipe for an open relationship? A situation of a low sex drive guy, older or younger, and a higher sex drive guy, usually younger, with widely different tastes in men, in a "relationship" that becomes a loving best-friends situation that makes the other guys around us a bit jealous. These situations are the ones that work long term.

[@AuthenNick]

That makes sense ❤️😊 thank you for the comment

[@Poliform78]

Hi! In my opinion, I would never be in an open relationship. I had never been in one, but my ex-boyfriend cheated on me with a couple of friends who were in open relationships doing it with each other , and they wanted to include my ex-boyfriend and me in their "repertoire". In the end, many "couples" ended up separated and angry with each other.

[@AuthenNick]

Ughhh I’m so sorry 😢 that sucks

[@jamesmiller889]

I have never been in an open relationship and never would. I could not handle knowing my partner was sleeping with another man, and I could never sleep with another man when in a relationship. i do not understand why men go into open relationships. Why not just say you are dating. Why say it is a relationship. I would be interested to hear how many (%) open relationships break apart versus how many (%) monogamous relationships break apart.

[@AuthenNick]

Yessss 💯

[@TheBamazon]

Playing together isn't what I'd categorize as open, those are just 3ways. I know couples who are in open relationships but they never seem to last. They can last a long time. It eventually gets too one-sided. There's usually one who initially agrees to it because they are comfortable in life and don't want change. They also begin having less sex together. I've only known one or two couples that have lasted more than 20 years and they've never been open. In my opinion, family ties and friendship, children strengthen monogamous relationships because more is at stake. My last observation is that if you see a couple that agrees to go open and play seperately, and one has a lot of outside sex while the other can't or won't, it won't last. The relationship deteriorates.

[@AuthenNick]

Wow I can totally see that happening very good points ❤️

[@willistaylor4077]

I dont think an Open relationship would work for me, if i was in an actual relationship with someone.

[@AuthenNick]

Ya I just can’t see it for me but thanks for the comment and support ❤️

[@johnthornton3356]

It requires lots of communications, but probably doesn't work in the long term.

[@AuthenNick]

Ya what would you say defines long term tho?

[@johnthornton3356]

@@AuthenNick , by that, I would say 10 years or more.

[@JohnWilliams-km5eh]

No, not my teacup of Brandy 😉

[@AuthenNick]

😂 same here I love that phrase

[@calvind2054]

Every open relationship I’ve known has ended with them breaking up. One friend of mine fell in love with that person he saw continuously. Broke up and started a closed relationship with the other person. WTH. Open relationships to me seems like a selfish way of life. What do you need a relationship for in that case. I don’t want a roommate. They never seemed to work from where I sit. And just because they last for five years doesn’t mean it’s working. You are only fooling yourself.

[@AuthenNick]

💯💯💯💯

[@Dallas-214]

❤❤

[@asbosable]

I’ve had ‘open’ relationships. Needless to say they didn’t last. For some it works on some kind of disfunctional level but I think it takes a certain type of person. I cannot believe that if you don’t really care or mind your partner going around bedding other people then do you really honestly care or love that person anyway? And do you love yourself enough for that matter? To think that it is some kind ‘alternative’ lifestyle and is healthy for you or your partner. Really? Or is it that you’re too much of a coward to go it alone with all the financial ramifications, friendships, lifestyle and family that could be affected and see your relationship as some kind of weird business deal. I know people that have or are ‘open’ but it never is as honest and clear cut as is implied. In fact most of the time it’s all smoke and mirrors and frankly must be exhausting. Someone is always getting the better deal as it were. I think most of the people are self absorbed narcissists. Always declaring their undying love and respect for each other while at the same time showing the complete opposite. It’s total bs. If you are reducing the intimacy and sexual act down to some kind of body function there’s something obviously wrong with you. I’d say you are clearly damaged and should be avoided at all costs. It’s one of the many facets of gay culture I find totally vacuous and kind of revolting. It takes courage, hard work, trust and commitment to make a long lasting, meaningful partnership to mature. Qualities these people clearly lack.

[@Persuasion94]

I could not have said it better myself, well put.

[@mattp994]

For me, sex is not the most important or sacred part of the relationship. Honesty and loyalty are far more important. Me and my partner (8 years together now) floated the open relationship a few years ago, entirely mutually, and tried it, and it's worked. We're not massively promiscuous, in about 2 years we've had 2 threesomes, and a couple of other encounters each, so I guess this "monogamish?" Label fits. We still mostly have sex together. We're completely honest and openly communicate with each other. We both know that it's just about experimentation and spicing things up every now and then, never getting into romantic territory with other guys. It's all about being on the same page. I don't think it's going to work for everyone, particularly if it's suggested by only one side, but it can work. Straight couples have been swinging for decades too.

[@AuthenNick]

Ya that is true ❤️ have you ever hear of monogamish?!? I was like what the heck is this 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@delcodave]

i never had a boyfriend. at 56, if i ever find a boyfriend before I die, I'm going to say no. But I can imagine the 3some thing based on the fact that I have fetishes and fantasies and would expect my husnad would too. But.... that would be far down the line. I dont judge. what works for others as long as they are happey and noone gets hurt, I'm supportive.

[@AuthenNick]

Same here 💯 thanks for the support ❤️

[@you319tube]

I hope that you find a wonderful, loving, funny, compassionate, sincere and respectful boyfriend to share this journey through life. I’m rooting for you.❤

[@ontheaaron]

As someone who hasn't dated, I would be willing to try it

[@stereo8893]

Open relationships are for people who can't commit, have no empathy for their partners' feelings, are pretty selfish, and are not willing to make ANY sacrifices for the sake of the relationship. Don't let this happen to you. Don't start anything you can't finish. Finally, someone is going to get hurt.

[@gregorioeduardo]

Too much judgement in this comment.

[@meatmoneymilkmonogamyequal5583]

The assumption being made here is that monogamy is somehow the default postion, some kind of scientific fact that human are monogamous my nature which isn't true. Secondly, are neolithic socities are so sexually repressed. If I were an alien watching human TV and movies I would see allt he sex, once I get to planet, I wouldn't see any sex anywhere unless i went into the homes of the human who hide sex beind close doors. Monogamy isn't normal or natural, just loook a gayhook ap wtih hundres of profiles with no pictures all the tons of staright guys, married men or have girlfriend that are on there. Open realtiosnhips polyamourous one aren't even addressed in pop culture. They exist.

[@williammcghee863]

Gay guys tend to forget that we're not women, sometimes. We don't have to live hetronormally, unless we really choose to. A size seven foot doesn't fit a size 14 shoe.

[@xlkarma8446]

They don’t