I'm actually seriously thinking about visiting the Miami area to see if I wanna move there so this video is quite helpful lol I love that you talked to the hairy guy! ! A lot of my ppl I know would just check if he's on one of the apps and message him that way instead of just shooting their shot then and there. A+ for trying
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Yes, A for effort 😂
@nightowl54753 ай бұрын
Keven, hi, I love your videos. I’m in Wilton Manors. I agree with all your videos. I don’t care for Grindr or hook up apps and definitely stay away from married men, yuck! I prefer to meet the person and know that they are single and 100% gay. But I love your videos. Thanks for your perspective. You’re very intuitive and dead-on accurate with your analysis. Keep up the great work! ❤
@KevenTalks3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@lenwelch2195Ай бұрын
Gay capital of the United States. Magical.
@hollywoodinlexington79275 ай бұрын
You’re still stunning. I say that because I’ve watched this video before, glad it came back to my feed. Luvz❤
@KevenTalks5 ай бұрын
Haha so sweet! 🥹
@theo.barcelona2 жыл бұрын
Like your way to engage with a stranger…. Good demo. I agree with you that the cute guy that you mentioned is mostly gay or bi. If it’s straight, he will reply it directly. He is curious too but he is just not that much into you. I really like your approach and share your thought process !!
@TheRalphie20203 жыл бұрын
When you said Bootleg Miami. 😂😂😂 I’ve never been but I’ve always envisioned Ft. Lauderdale as a fun middle-age gay retirement destination. I just moved to Miami from up North, so I’m still learning. 😀 Maybe the guy is partnered in a monogamous relationship? Or just not gay, lol. Definite kudos for striking-up a conversation. Hope to see more gay dating videos in FL!!!
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't he just say that then though? 🤷🏻♂️
@TheRalphie20203 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks Maybe part 2 of this video will involve an answer, LOL.
@Ed-dh5dl3 жыл бұрын
love the story...good for you for taking that chance with him...he wont forget that interaction!
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
😉
@bostoncrab87963 жыл бұрын
I really, really do love your videos.
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Really? 🥰🙈 Shucks, thank you!
@BC_26fhj3 жыл бұрын
This story was brave some people are more naturally guarded. He could have been gay but seeing someone.
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Perhaps. 🤷🏻♂️
@BC_26fhj3 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks The risk is some people may misinterpret a well meaning approach in the street as harassment in light of the metoo movement.
@kevinb.jacksonsr.60663 жыл бұрын
Hi Keven, so happy that your getting to know different areas in Florida. I live in Fort Lauderdale so I know Wilton Manor quite well very nice area for drinks and socializing. I enjoy your content please keep the videos. Hopefully by 2022 you'll be able to experience the Halloween Fest in the city of Wilton Manor. The Pub is my spot for drinks the atmosphere out there has always been awesome. I've also had an experience like your story they always end up odd or they're not interested. Thanks again
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Ohh what's Halloween Fest like there?
@kevinb.jacksonsr.60663 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks Halloween Fest at Wilton Manors that's a very awesome event they have costumes drinks in the atmosphere is awesome. No problems no drama occasionally someone might get a little wasted what is a wonderful events
@drawnhere3 жыл бұрын
Wilton Manors (locals just call it "Wilton") ia definitely a gay town. If you've been to Boston, there is an area known as the South End, where all the gay-owned shops and bars were in the 1990's and early 2,000's. The strip in Wilton, along Wilton Drive, and at the little plaza in that area, has lots of gay-ownerd and operated shops and bars. I think of Wilton as the "South End" of Florida, way moreso than Miami. Miami was a gay circuit destination back in the 90's and early '00's, but its a touristy, spring-break nightmare in Souh Beach nowadays. Many gay guys have moved north to the Lauderdale area ! THAT BEING SAID.... SUNNY ISLES, JUST SOUTH OF LAUDERDALE, AND ABOUT 25 MINUTES NORTH OF S. BEACH, HAS THE AWESOME HAULOVER GAY CLOTHING OPTIONAL BEACH. IT'S SPECTACULAR. A BIT CRUISY AT TIMES, ALSO. THERE'S NUDE GAY MEN THERE OF ALL AGES AND SHAPES, AS FAR AS THE EYE CAN SEE. NOT JUST OLDER OR YOUNGER. EVERY AGE GROUP IS THERE. So, there's definitely a reason to venture south of Fort Lauderdale ! LOL
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Yes since living here, I've been hearing more and more about this LGBT migration from Miami to Fort Lauderdale. Really interesting how these things happen over time! Same with NYC - the migration from West Village to Chelsea, and now to Hell's Kitchen.
@phatbruno3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for visiting our wonderful gay City. Wilton Manors is its own city surrounded by Fort Lauderdale. I too lived in Miami Dade 😩 😫 😭 😪. You should really consider this area 🤔 we are definitely more gay! Lol 😆. As for the bars the Eagle in Wilton is not what I remember the one in NYC however you should have visited Ramrod in Fort Lauderdale, you could walk 🚶♂️ from Wilton its really close. Also please be careful when 🤔 at the beach ⛱ we have a lot af wackos out here. Stay safe.
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
I will have to return :)
@lenwelch2195Ай бұрын
Ft Lauderdale- beer drinkers. Miami - cocaine. Never see guys in the gay bars holding a drink. Around 2 am everyone standing listening to music all of the sudden whatever they took kicks in and all hell breaks loose. It starts with guys tapping their dot then they spontaneously start dancing in place. In Miami you have no idea and don’t want to actually know the kind of people standing next to you. Much safer in ft Lauderdale.
@dm3889 Жыл бұрын
Omg my heart was pounding hearing your entire interaction with him lol. Damn, I wanted you to get him so bad I was so invested lol.
@KevenTalks Жыл бұрын
lol! 😭
@danieldumas7361 Жыл бұрын
If you get a message from a 20-something in Palm Beach who invites you over, it' because his 60 yo. boyfriend is hiding in the closet, taped to a skateboard!!!
@KevenTalks Жыл бұрын
LOL!
@danieldumas7361 Жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks Thank's! We try. Foot Note:Whalen Flower described Florida as a place where...... "There's nothing there but Old People..........and their Parents!!!
@brijmsn Жыл бұрын
He was gay. Even though it ended on an awkward note, you found out what you needed to know. It's more than I would've done. Maybe you just weren't his type or for some masculine guys (like I'm assuming he is) they find it a turn off when you pursue them. If they are interested they want to make the moves on the passive partner. At least thats been my experience.
@KevenTalks Жыл бұрын
Interesting! That could be it.
@emiliourioste82633 жыл бұрын
Hey Keven, I wish you had told me that you were going to F.L. Btw, Wilton Manors is it's own separate city. I would have recommended a terrific Greek restaurant in the heart of W.M. Did you go to Hunters or to The 🐒 Monkey Bar?
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
I went to Drynk, The Eagle, and I think one more but I don't remember the name!
@emiliourioste82633 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks Remember, F.L. is very different on the weekends. I highly recommend you stay at The Worthington Resort. It is a gay resort and the owners are delightful. I hope you give it a try?
@kevinweber51293 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks it was Georgia’s Alibia that put WM on the map.
@abidsalim6183 Жыл бұрын
you are mentioning a very important point here : Miami is certainly a gay friendly city, but gay men are diluted in the massive straight people who are very expressive..... a gay man will prefer a small town or a small area with proportion of 90% gay men presence, than a gay friendly city with 40% of gay men......... With this reasoning, Fort Lauderdale is more interesting than Miami
@KevenTalks Жыл бұрын
That's an interesting point!
@romasgudisauskas36963 жыл бұрын
Very good information thank you
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@clarkkent38643 жыл бұрын
What would motivate a New Yorker to move to Miami and how much do you think someone who truly loves NYC will long to go back?
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Well, speaking as someone who used to live in NYC - eventually I was drained by the city. Expensive, dirty, cold in the winter...the people can be grumpy / mean too....I don't miss it at all honestly. The people were more stimulating for sure in NYC - more interesting - but that wasn't enough to keep me there!
@clarkkent38643 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks thanks for the quick reply! I love your videos. One more thing if I may: I know you touched upon this point in your other videos but I always hear that big cities ruin relationships. You said in a previous video, comparing NYC to Miami to LA that Miami is more relaxed and people are more reliable. What I am trying to ask is, from your experience, is a gay man who lived his entire life in NYC more likely to "settle" and find more stability in relationships in Miami? I know that a city is not the only factor and that I am asking you to generalize, but do you have any thoughts on this?
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
@@clarkkent3864 That's a great question. From visiting here throughout my 20s and spending the whole summer here in 2018, I did get the sense that it's easier to seriously date in Miami, because people here have a healthier work / life balance - they care more about their personal life, and being social etc, than in a place like NYC where everyone's always hustling professionally. However, being here the past year - I don't feel that same way. It's been tough here too, I discovered. Of course COVID exacerbated that, and I also happen to live in South Beach which is tourist central (not an ideal place to seriously meet people and build long-term connections) - so even 5 miles out from here could be a totally different experience in terms of dating. So my point is - I'm not so sure anymore. I will definitely have to share with you guys as I keep building connections here :)
@clarkkent38643 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks I wish you happiness, peace and prosperity! You sure deserve it!
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
@@clarkkent3864 Aww thank you, you too! 🥰
@davidwoodford73043 жыл бұрын
Hey! I resemble that remark!!!😂
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Which remark?
@davidwoodford73043 жыл бұрын
I’m reading The Velvet Rage btw
@hollywoodinlexington79272 жыл бұрын
Your cute, subscribed. Btw, were both hairy and i'm bald....hehehe. good video
@KevenTalks2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for subscribing!
@k3grappler3 жыл бұрын
I agree he was most likely gay. I think the elbow bump should have been the tipoff he was not interested. A lot of gay guys are not comfortable in getting intimate during the pandemic unless they know the other guy pretty well. And, remember, FL is the nation's COVID hotspot right now. In earlier times, I would bet the two of your would have developed something together. COVID unfortunately has taken a lot of the simple pleasures from life.
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Good point!
@vincentbarnes78393 жыл бұрын
You are such a nice guy love your videos.wished u lived in the us
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Lol what? I do live in the US...
@spacegreycoralred3 жыл бұрын
I think they hand out steroids next to the condoms in FLL….
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
lol
@jmk53253 жыл бұрын
*********Tweakier Ville*********More PNP then anywhere in South Florida….Sad😂😂 Ice, Ice Baby….🤪🤪🥷🥷🥷
@KevenTalks2 жыл бұрын
LOL I totally agree. I think it's trashier than Miami
@kevinweber51293 жыл бұрын
Fort Lauderdale / Wilton is definitely more gay. Miami Beach was gay in the 90s. Then things moved to Broward.
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
I had no idea. So interesting!
@phatbruno3 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯!
@martinwaver32923 жыл бұрын
You are in my neck of the woods!!
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
lol I recorded this weeks ago :)
@khaachion6952 жыл бұрын
Anyone here live in fort lauderdale? Could you hmu please.. i would really appreciate it.
@SaudiTravelsWithAndrew3 жыл бұрын
😏 “My libido was quite high that day.” 😂 I’m like 50-50 that he was gay. I also love bald hairy Russian men in Lauderdale 😊
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Same I'm pretty sure he was gay, just not interested in me I guess
@vincentbarnes78393 жыл бұрын
Sorry i meant the United Kingdom lol
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
oh lol
@earthafanrick3 жыл бұрын
Lol.. you may be too young but it kind of reminded of those it’s Pat skits from SNL
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Haha you mean me investigating that guy at the beach?
@earthafanrick3 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks yes.. trying to figure out if he was gay or not
@lenwelch2195Ай бұрын
Bald hairy man ? Exiting the beach. Straight men do move about alone at times.
@wejcynp89433 жыл бұрын
fort lauderdale sounds like an amazing place to date. ;-p
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
lol does it?
@Greenterror3 жыл бұрын
📝 👀
@aimabd19473 жыл бұрын
It doesn't seem like he's gay 😅 I also think many straight men go to the beach alone haha
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
Do they though? lol
@vincentbarnes78393 жыл бұрын
Have you been to the United Kingdom
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
I have been! Very quick trip though to London - I was there for 3 days as part of a Europe trip!
@anthonydavis71512 жыл бұрын
You have the most interesting channels. Here's my question. Miami Nyc Fort Lauderdale Or Vegas For a single gay person
@anthonydavis71512 жыл бұрын
And why
@KevenTalks2 жыл бұрын
I have videos on each place! :)
@anthonydavis71512 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks What do you think is the best choice or would you choose somewhere else. I think I misspoke.
@KevenTalks2 жыл бұрын
@@anthonydavis7151 NYC if you can keep up, otherwise Fort Lauderdale because it's the only other place from your list with an actual gay community :)
@anthonydavis71512 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks Thks
@nightowl54753 жыл бұрын
Damn, you did everything but rub up against him! The answer to your question is clearly, the guy wasn’t gay. He would of told you to go to Wilton Manors drive, there’s a lot of restaurants, coffee house, bars, businesses gay owned and condos down that way. The men tend to be 50 plus around around that way. Miami may be a bit younger but you better be able to speak Spanish. Miami is a very Latino-tight community. You date a Latino, everybody knows your business.
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
I'm still not convinced he was straight lol. I feel like a straight man would just say he's not gay or not familiar with gay bars. What straight man moves from Miami to Fort Lauderdale? lolll
@nightowl54753 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks Well, you might have a point. But then, it could be something else. You may not have been his type. Think about it. There are lots of gay guys that will be going out this weekend. Not all of them will be hooking up. Just like in the Str8 world, there is such a thing as chemistry, a connection! But, don't feel too bad. Your looks are fine, its just... You came off way too strong. You said, he was older. Well, older guys are from a different generation. Younger guys have no trouble hooking up with a trick just for the hell of it. Not so, with all people. Sex is still considered with some people, as being intimate. To be intimate with a person, some people require a bit of time to get to know you. You're young. Your hormones are probably going crazy at your age. Relax, and be cool. It is far better to saver getting to know a person. The hunt is far more rewarding than the actual catch. Enjoy!
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
@@nightowl5475 Someone not being into me?...kidding ;)
@nightowl54753 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks he he he he
@emiliourioste82633 жыл бұрын
He wasn't gay Keven.
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
🤷🏻♂️
@jciv91493 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks I think he was,kinda!you know the deal 😉
@alexrenta75084 ай бұрын
hello ❤
@bmedhi15923 жыл бұрын
Too pushy
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
lol
@bmedhi15923 жыл бұрын
@@KevenTalks Remember the guy offering you cigarettes? It's the same with attention
@rosshowarth32663 жыл бұрын
Wow. So you were living in Miami and still didn't know Wilton Manners was a gay "hub".Maybe Google a bit more, most gays know Palm Beach is older monied gay guys. What do you do just stick a pin in a map.
@KevenTalks3 жыл бұрын
I just moved here...relax
@rosshowarth32663 жыл бұрын
But hon my English mother knew it was gay and she's never even been to the States
@davidbanas76093 жыл бұрын
Sorry, here I must intervene lol- Just hours ago I was on an international social media app flirting with a very handsome man from Pakistan: His women he knew were present too and they knew exactly what was going on. (Now that is a totally separate subject I will not go into here) Reality check just as the 1 in1000 or so French people residing in France will literally look, speak, and act as if what possible horrible insidious karma could I ever possibly have done to have to be standing here with YOU at this moment, Some people are simply not there yet. Not possible 100 % of the time. IMO; please listen to this tape again. My perception is that you interrogated, projected; yes lied, and I’m surprised you didn’t pop. Out the Wedding Ring. And it was all about YOU. What was in it for him please?