Gayle King Once Dumped a Man Who Borrowed $4,000 | Joe Budden Reacts

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[@greatestever3540]

Y’all forget she gave him the money tho….and paid her back in timely fashion. All the hypotheticals is ridiculous

[@ytrbro1041]

someone u just started to date asking to borrow money already is a 🚩

[@KoreForever]

Still, why are u owing child support? Child support is like food and electricity. If you owe CS, it means your life is in shambles.

[@JusSick24]

Nobody should be asking anyone they are dating for money. Man or woman. Being in a relationship is the minimal requirement for that type of ask.

[@xxreyoxx]

Word. Never liked to see ppl so comfy giving money cuz then u end up seeing th3 situation turn sour.

[@philb707]

Closed mouths dont get fed

[@sanelen_]

Even worse just a few months

[@rebelrocksmm]

ain’t gun lie parks that “A queen” & “A king” shit was smooth. Dawg be clutch with the timing nfs 😂

[@mikeadams-dh2ol]

Especially the King one

[@darriolamont]

She said Oprah said “I would have felt better about it if he asked for $40,000… but $4,000?🥴😂😂😂

[@jockcree7126]

Shout out to Gail for even helping him out

[@Decorlos]

True and he did pay back so I doubt it's money mismanagement and that he looked at her as a link they was reaching with that

[@backseatbully]

2 months ?? The desperation is unattractive Mel actually right for once

[@Bossblacka-ie8ur]

But its ok for women to ask/demand money from a man who they just started talking too 🤔

[@JusSick24]

No, but apparently, according to the streets, YES 😂.

[@lovinglifelikemaryjane4240]

Women logic is something else isnt it😅.... and completely negate he paid it back

[@StillAwesome21]

Don't expect women to call out double standards they benefit from. Accountability is their kryptonite. 😅

[@kaligh]

But what if he treated her well?

[@ronnie6696]

You must be bored. You find videos just to point out the hypocrisy of women is the most boring life anyone could have and you are generalizing at that. I am a woman and I have never asked a man for money unless I considered him a close friend and was not trying to date him. I think anyone man or woman shouldn't ask for money, especially so quickly into getting to know one another. There you have it, you met a woman that doesn't agree with women asking for money either. Hope I made you miserable day

[@rillywitdashitz6]

after she gave up the 4k her drawls dried up.

[@GDSprodify]

It’s a Cold World.

[@dobia4486]

Im a 26 year old guy and it signifies drama to me too

[@labro8964]

I have to agree with Mylessa, red flag. Two months in you asking for 4000.00. You should not be dating if you cash flow issues.

[@ThaRealM3]

Melyssa never keep a man with relationship advice😂😂😂

[@BabyBee31338]

Child support definitely signifies drama. If there was no drama, men and women are able to have agreements without getting the system involved.

[@zxcccccc1]

People ignore that part we can make our own agreements.

[@blackout8777]

half the folks on CS not even supposed to be on it. speak on what you know lonely bih

[@blackout8777]

women go throw men on Cs all the time no matter the reason bcuz hall love being taken care of by the government. Got shit to do with agreements like shut up

[@RahRighteous]

Way too many hypotheticals were thrown into this when she provided all of the details.. 2 months in he asked to borrow $4K to subsidize his child support payments. Said he’d pay it back in 4 days. Paid it back in 4 days. Let’s just deal with the facts. Dude was in a jam and was completely transparent with the person he was likely spending the most time with at that point. In a moment of desperation, he tucked his pride and asked, likely knowing he would be shamed for it, whether she said yes or no. He handled it in a noble manner and he was still publicly shamed for it. Granted we don’t know who he is. I hope dude is doing well.

[@zxcccccc1]

They would have to remain boyfriend and girlfriend because courts look at marital income.

[@nixxybabez5774]

2 months is crazy I'm not going to lie.

[@jaakjc9223]

He Was Straight Testing Her... Period!!!

[@freetheworld2671]

Faaacts

[@zxcccccc1]

He paid it back to ask for more and where are your old friends and family.

[@jaakjc9223]

@@zxcccccc1 🤣🤣🤣Typical. No He did Not. Stop with Cap... But, It's Okay for A Woman To Ask Or Have The Expectation That I man Should Help Her If She Ever Needed Him... Real Talk. Why Even Be In a Relationship anymore, Men damn Sure can't expect anything from a woman.. TF

[@blackout8777]

@@jaakjc9223FACTS

[@thatraspyshxt]

​@@jaakjc9223yeah ok.

[@Demsky83]

This a lesson to be learned here, take note Gayle and Mel are living single ♾️

[@bershunduck9076]

Facts!!!

[@raydennis16]

Exactly

[@leeroyuckface6893]

Did they put an ad put saying they were looking for a man? Not every woman wants to be married to some depressing dusty dude borrowing their car and money

[@thatraspyshxt]

You must be the type to ask for money.. Being with a bum isn't the best thing since sliced bread. Get out your feelings.

[@Tz3zz]

If you get with a partner and look for them to fix your financial situation, then that will always make things rocky at some point.

[@nyanya-ray7235]

There has to be a long list of people who you ask for money before you get to a stranger you are trying to date...

[@MyDogSteppedOnaBeee]

Pookies come in all shapes, sizes and ages 😂😂

[@dojo4437]

Because of who she is, he asked. He aint askin everybody to borrow 4k

[@ronnie6696]

He was trying to use her

[@hignaf]

@@ronnie6696keep in mind he paid her back in full in a timely fashion . Secondly nobody is asking anybody for any amount of money unless they think they have it.

[@VoteForBukele]

It’s tacky.

[@jackruby1566]

​@@hignaf Our sistas will never get it ... Becky would handed to 4k An has her dad offer him a better job See that the difference in mentality

[@blackout8777]

@@ronnie6696women are stupid

[@adambenz360]

Dude never should have borrowed money from Gayle to pay child support after only two months of dating. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@dparks2856]

Why she give it up?

[@freetheworld2671]

He tested Gayle, and maybe he even expected her to dump him. Thus, he did it on purpose, meaning he wanted out without hurting her feelings.

[@thatraspyshxt]

​@@freetheworld2671lololol oh that's what it was? 😂😂😂 he borrowed the money cause his finances weren't up to par. Anything else you come up with is irrelevant 😂

[@TB-mj7gt]

Lesson here is dont ask woman for anything. They are just gonna look at you different

[@chanelagaintv]

No the lesson is have your business affairs in order so you can take care of the child you are the parent of.

[@GDSprodify]

Correct, it’s Sad but it’s True.

[@TB-mj7gt]

@chanelagaintv listen lady things happen. I went into court to establish child support and came out the door 10k in the hole. They added on her medical bills from the pregnancy as arrears so off the jump I started child support in the hole.....bottom line is you ask the bros not the....

[@TB-mj7gt]

@GDSprodify the messed up part is they will act like it's totally fine and might even OFFER.....Don't ever take it

[@chanelagaintv]

@@TB-mj7gt you asked whoever you gotta ask but never someone you dating for thousands of dollars for your family affairs. That doesn’t equate to “can’t ask a woman for anything”. Cause I won’t even ask that of a man I’m getting to know, that’s embarrassing.

[@MrJ1S]

Women got their cash app in their bio and arent paying u back

[@theonlykingA]

People are saying 2 months is far too soon of a time frame to ask for that type of money and that's reasonable. But Gayle did feel comfortable enough to loan him the money to begin with and he also paid her back like Ice said in a timely manner. Sometimes life happens and you gotta do what you need to do.

[@ANTIStraussian]

If the woman making 100k and her boyfriend makes 50k, that 4k divided by gayles income compared to the 100k woman is like 40 dollars

[@kaliefhampton2483]

@@ANTIStraussian 4k is 4k.

[@thatraspyshxt]

​@@ANTIStraussian4k is 4000 dollars. Wtf.

[@ANTIStraussian]

@@kaliefhampton2483 no it's not. 50k to elon musk is 25 cents to you

[@ANTIStraussian]

@@thatraspyshxt no it's not.

[@roksoulo]

Fellas, this is why you 50/50 everything

[@thatraspyshxt]

And see how far that gets you.

[@GDSprodify]

She gone vanish on you, I’m afraid.

[@roksoulo]

I been married for 20yrs....i think I'll be fine! 😁@@thatraspyshxt

[@nikoenciso01]

A brother named Herbert out here acting 😂🤣

[@jaakjc9223]

I See Why Mel Has No Children Or Man... FOH!!!

[@kekeedordu8422]

What a dumb take.

[@gmf357]

STTTOOOPPPPPPPP! Gayle is 68 years old! If a dude is asking for child support money from her he’s obviously much younger…must mean she’s a Sugar Mama! Let’s be real, she was probably getting at a young 30something yr old guy and she had to break bread with him and things just fizzled out. She didn’t look at him differently afterwards, that was just the end of the relationship.

[@GDSprodify]

You know he was crushing her shit too, 4K like it was nothing.

[@elilove1729]

Mel is right. A man paying child support is a red flag. Its drama that will come once the bm finds out he has a new girl. It always happens

[@thatraspyshxt]

Facts! And unfortunately it reigns truth more times than not.

[@JuanLopez-nv1sf]

Lol early rap was all about what can you get from a woman. I still hear songs saying the same thing.

[@ScoutsHonor.]

When women ask me for money. I give it to em. Then block em.

[@sixtysecondsorless602]

Correct me if I’m wrong but the census on the Internet is “a man should” want to foot the bill for X amount of dates or let’s say 90 days. Fellas, if you can’t ask for money after gambling your money on a very unlikely, but possible relationship, “that’s fool me” number two.

[@madboyreadynow28]

Women ask men to borrow or give money all the time. Why is it when a black woman is the one with the money and a man presents as less they start to look at that black man side ways or treat him like he’s nothing? The man paid Gayle back. The thing I don’t get is why is it ok for a woman to ask a man for things and it’s fine. The moment a man needs a little help the black woman runs.

[@skreematmetvskreematmetv1749]

Exactly it’s too many double standards

[@downbad2874]

This has nothing to do with race this type of woman comes in all races why is that yall try to make this a black woman thing

[@downbad2874]

@@skreematmetvskreematmetv1749this is a lie and you know it black women have always helped black men yes some don't but plenty who do are and the fact that all try to push they aren't is the reason more are becoming willing to do so also yall love double standards that benefit you

[@carbon.the.christ5626]

Exactly,plenty of black women taking care of deadbeat black men who have nothing going for themselves. As a matter of fact alot of us as black men complain about them doing that. But now we want to pretend black women dont take care of or help black men? Id say they do it too a fault,and often for the wrong type of men. And the only men who dont have a problem with women asking are probably tricks. Im sure anybody normal would have an issue with ANYBODY asking for 4K who they just met. It shows you are too comfortable,have zero assets,or didnt even try to figure it out before coming to me. You cant have a garage sale,payday loan,title loan,personal loan,credit card loan😆? He gave the money back so thats cool,but that couldve been part of the scam. Ask for a little the first time,show hes good for it. Ask for more the second time and run off lol

[@VoteForBukele]

“Double standards” 😂

[@704jizzle2]

Lite skin buddy got to comfortable talking about the wood 😂

[@Bigfitz2]

Yea ish was wildin

[@Mr_Kartier]

😂😂😂 crazy shit man

[@704jizzle2]

@@Mr_Kartier 🤣🤣🤣

[@qckeen41]

14 inch monkey is nasty work😭😭😂

[@blueruinray]

Flip said what we wanted to say 😭

[@darkgable4130]

I'm more shocked that Gayle was dating a man.

[@kaliefhampton2483]

"Friendship recession"... I never thought of it that way. I always thought because Im always working and Im not married or have children that I just dont "fit" all the time.. I got 1 homie that I see every 4-5 months or so and talk to regularly, so I guess I'm in a friend recession, but I dont be tryna be around men all the time. I'd rather have respect when I happen to pop up than having 10 ppl telling me their problems and asking to borrow money

[@LADYDIVAful]

There are so many missing factors in Gail’s version. I’ve worked in a male-dominated environment and learned that sometimes men need a hand-up, not a hand-out. He paid it back, which is boss-mannishness, but STOCKING! Dudes, don’t pay back!!! I would’ve stayed around longer to see his endgame. After a divorce, sometimes men fall and need a HAND UP! IDK what anyone says; Oprah gave Stedman a HAND UP, end of story! Just my expert opinion.

[@thatraspyshxt]

Then ask your friends not some woman you haven't known long.

[@clrconscience]

Because of their mindsets, women like Gayle and Melissa are destined to either be alone forever or will have to “settle” (as they would put it) for men way below what they think their league is. Lol

[@williamthomas4676]

I'm just confused on why she ever loaned him the money if it was such a red flag.

[@damatricrayton8942]

The funny thing is I have had women ask me for money of the word Hi! When I first met them even women I'm not even dating.

[@balance4123]

That ocho ad is crazy👌

[@jayloso89]

So wen women ask for money act the same way fellas

[@Pastorson08]

Eh, it could have been a simple set back but she didn’t stick around to see if it was a continuous problem

[@AntajuanGrady]

Why give him the $ if you gonna regret it even AFTER he pays it back?! Makes no sense to me!!

[@omarepps77]

Mellisa Ford is the true definition pf red flag

[@trechasin]

Mel looks at Ish 90% of the time she talks just go fuck and not tell anybody already

[@GDSprodify]

She hates him, but that’s what turns her on. Guys treating her like shit lmao. That’s why Emali gone lose her to Ish cause he keep brownnosing.

[@jakematthewpenfield]

I don't want no money Gayle I'm trying to make a oreo with you and Oprah hahahahahaha

[@urasssmine]

How many females talk about pay my bills but man supposed to be ok with paying your light or gas bills but still treat you like a respectable lady. Make it make sense. And don’t tell me because it’s not it’s not ok. Because again in new relationships women ask men all the time for the rent money . Stop the bull

[@Kickinthescience]

Oprah and Gayle looked like blood sisters at the Grammys

[@shawntaylor5557]

Lesbians 👅

[@henrytroy26]

Mal and joe would have had me dead on this topic lol

[@704jizzle2]

SO ALL MEN SHOULD FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE WHN A WOMAN ASK FOR MONEY

[@NIAtoolkit]

She didn’t wanna be suga momma

[@marylawal7386]

That’s a massive red flag.

[@hplosop6340]

How he lookin at her like a lick?! He paid it back lol

[@Haddonfield63]

thats part of the game

[@lmag8107]

I heard the story. She never said 2 months

[@MD-zb9ev]

Ice: She said she loaned it to him. Parks: A Queen Ice: He paid it back in a timely manner. Parks: A King LMAO 😂

[@allemoney]

In a shaky situation where dude has PLENTY of way to fumble it, he came through. Child support is paid and Gale was paid back. Everyone is square. Maybe she felt she could get past it and ultimately couldn’t. Thats fine but that’s on her, not on dude. The only possible red flag is how he ended up having to ask someone he’d only been dating for a few months for 4K to pay child support. And we don’t have that part of the story.

[@darrenjohnson5001]

Mel always got the most to say when its women. in the right. I wonder why she was so quiet when discussing area

[@larryjordan23]

Keep that same energy for women. Period

[@rickyfontain20]

CS does pop up happened to my Potna he was only 2k in the whole and paid it current.

[@mscstapleton]

Mel is right - about the child support factoring in. Your kid should be your biggest priority. So that means not only are you not taking care of your finances not managed well but your priorities are out of whack too. Also, like Ish said why you gotta ask someone you've only known for 2 months for this loan. There are so many red flags here so I get it. Lol

[@theonlykingA]

I would be inclined to agree, but she did say that he was able to pay her back in a timely manner. It's possible that life happened, and unexpected expenses started to pile up. Also Gayle felt comfortable enough to actually loan him the money, so even though they had only known each other for 2 months it seemed to be a reasonable amount of time.

[@trentenwashington1194]

Fair, but why didn’t she just decline the request and move on?

[@bigsamkay]

See why men SHOULD always lie? A man tells the truth and keeps his word but is still looked at negatively

[@mscstapleton]

@@trentenwashington1194 I can't speak for her - sometimes you wanna give ppl a chance. To me it sounded like she thought she would be cool as long as he paid her back but she couldn't move past it. I'm sure the next time (if) that comes up she will decline.

[@mscstapleton]

@@theonlykingA we as ppl never really know how we will feel after the fact. I don't think she loaned him the money thinking "oh yeah this is over". Some things effect us differently the longer with sit with them

[@jsn2482]

Son paid it back in 3 days

[@vanessaamesty6739]

If he ask that two months into the relationship what was he going to ask later? That goes for men and women. Your partner shouldn't have to bail you out.

[@KoreForever]

Gayle is me. If a man borrows money from me, goodbye.

[@trfrierson]

I had that twice where a man asked me for money. The one time i was younger and he did the i forgot my wallet thing and i with no thought paid for our date. I NEVER paid for anything again, he paid for everything simply a test i guess. The second time i was dating someone and he was shaky about committment and had all type of excuses as to why we couldnt spend time together outside of hunching. I told him no, i dont lend money to people i dont have a foundation with. So context matters. If his actions were bummy all along he could be taking it to the next step by taking money from you. I have been blessed where 98% of the guys i dated are very generous and spoiled me so it wouldnt be nothing i wouldn't do for them but a good part of them would get offended by the thought of taking from me.

[@01kaluks24]

Ayo Ish? WTF😂😂

[@nicolegeorge3704]

Also it opens the door to ask her again to borrow money. All it takes is one time. Next time he’ll say it’s for something else, and then next time it’ll be for I need to buy my kids some birthday clothes. And then it’ll be for something else next time and then it’ll be for, I got to get a new car and then I got to make a house payment, and then guess what, I need some more money for child support. And then he’ll say, Hey, do you think you could buy a Knigga some groceries? They be getting reallll comfortable after that 🙋🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🚫💵💰

[@Lewis-nc7ry]

I knew joe was gone understand her 🤣🤣🤣

[@coreywilliams602]

Please take that lady off the show please, she is as smart as a box of rocks and that’s might be an insult to the rocks

[@ShawnShons-ky8rn]

It's called life shit happens. You might have to borrow some money.

[@Uptownv]

Oprah said she would have liked if he asked for at least 50k. 4k is a low amount for women of such a high caliber. But it’s a red flag to someone in that league. You marry her and then get her money lol.

[@Trophy27]

“ What I wanna do is see him! “ was crazy 😂

[@mrpostman730]

Especially after saying what he just said!!!!

[@Trophy27]

@@mrpostman730 😂 for reals!

[@treydeuce8479]

Shes almost 70 , safe to assume that shes probably dating men around her age.. No woman wants to date someone who is in his 60s-70s who still doesnt have control over his finances.. And you did it 2 months after yall met? come on fam.. Edit: Wait how old is this guy if he still has children young enough that hes paying child support? Lol

[@queeniwearth]

Lol at Parks

[@timothybell8656]

This man smashed Got child support off his ass PAID HER BACK And get to tell b-“&$es gayle king is on his roster. And y’all say he got bad money management skills? This man is a genius I could only imagine what he would’ve got done in 3 months (Assuming it was only 4 racks and for his child support keep in mind this her side of the story)

[@nenajay3174]

I’d think he’d want to stay in her life for a bigger gain/upgraded lifestyle.

[@GDSprodify]

You know he was busting her open.

[@Unshakable50]

The real convo is….Gayle is unable to attract a “HV Man” on or above her level (financially). It’s no diss, It is what it is.

[@Fatuma-sp3mg]

What are talking about, if you watched the whole interview she actually said he was a successful man making six figures. And he repaid the money on time.

[@Unshakable50]

@@Fatuma-sp3mg your missing the point. I didn’t say the brotha wasn’t successful, it’s the net worth I speaking about. He’s not Gayle King successful. It’s no one fault, it’s just harder for her to date a man on her level. She states it’s a non issue for her but she’s being disingenuous…my opinion.

[@freetheworld2671]

Faaacts

[@thatraspyshxt]

HV doesn't exist. 😂😂😂

[@relltv8231]

Everybody know you don’t pay the lick back😂

[@KLee8000]

I feel bad. I got turned off when a home boy I knew since freshman year of high school asked me for cell phone money lol

[@thronesofgaming5240]

People don't know shit about child support, and it will pop up out of nowhere. So my oldest son was staying with me since he was 5 year old 10 year down the line i get a paper saying i owe over 10,000 i called the baby mother and said what the fuck is this because the paper said i didn't see my child she didn't know where i was i mean all type of lies so i curse her the fuck out and she tried to apologize and say she didn't mean to do it. So yes, shit can pop up.

[@loveizdaonlyway9406]

Ish speaking on this is interesting....lol

[@stepheneu33]

Why TF is Mel still on the show 🤦🏾

[@terrythompson1873]

In the word of Saint Trigger Mike… “It’s okay when you do it. But it’s a problem when I do it??!!” Let it would have been on the other foot. She asked for dough for child support. And paid it back in an orderly fashion. Then he felt some kind of way and broke up with her. HE would have been called ALL kinds of WRONG and a sorry @$$ for making her feel low for her audacity to even ask. Double standard and hypocritical BS!! ✌🏾Joe Buddzz!!

[@kjo2130]

Melyssa was spitting for once

[@BayBunny415]

They really missed the point on this one. The other issue is that he’s super grown and doesn’t have $4,000??? You should save such a crazy ask for way more money than that. It would be more understandable to need more. It’s like someone asking to borrow $20. You are broke broke.

[@1800fedup]

He probably tested her to see where she was at with it

[@nikoenciso01]

Yup next time ask for 10 or 15 and never come back 😂😂

[@ndumisobuthelezi6972]

Also if you going 50/50 with your woman, she gonna talk to you crazy. If you pay the whole thang she comes correct

[@GhostMikey0]

Ish said "I wanna see him" 😂

[@El_TigreNegro]

Why is the assumption that Gayle King was his first option or that his issue was only $4000? Based on how Gayle told the story, he needed a last $4000 out of asking other people and getting some money from others that he knew

[@user-wr9on9ff4d]

That's not she told it. Shut up.

[@phyllisbelieves8148]

Sounds like Gayle paid for a jump off 🤣

[@derrickhagens2451]

Bro y’all not telling the whole story she said he ask for 4 grand for child support and furniture and he make 6 figures a year he was just trying to see where she was at and she failed as a women bc he paid her back 4 days Later

[@patriciahercules6852]

Why asked a woman you are dating to borrow money?

[@kenbush5066]

Parks 😂😂😂

[@DottyGreenee]

What he thought was, she wasn't gonna ask for the money back. She got the money back and Oprah went in on him so bad Gayle didn't want him no more.

[@ikehunter4501]

These dudes on here be fools more times than not. How could you say he looked at her as a lick if he paid her back amicably. Then try to compare that situation to women that demand money from wealthy men & don’t pay nothing back.🤦🏽‍♂️

[@NalaMahal]

It could signify that he doesn’t have his priorities in order. I wonder if he did that to test her.

[@TharsanJeyachandran]

what a L imagine being over 30 and NOT having at least 10k USD in your account and he lives in a 1st world country

[@larsanapeters5560]

Women ask for thousands on snap chat before eve meeting the man he could have been a great guy

[@iguessillsayit7510]

What about women asking in the first week for money

[@darnelldarden9429]

Am I the only one who thinks Oprah and Gayle are "more than friends"

[@1noromeo]

Child support is a F'd up situation they start you off already in the rears from 6 months to a year. And rent is beyond evil now days and some times life is a struggle but we all need some help and if you got it to be able to help why not help uf it wont hurt you

[@zxcccccc1]

People should start sleeping in separate beds because maintaining two households is crazy just because you want someone to make you happy.

[@skiphefner7882]

They pandering to her cause she shouldn’t have been dating him anyways if u don’t have kids