GET A VASECTOMY

[@NinaBariquit]

After listening to the whole thing the very end clip is spine chilling… Thank you for everything you guys do from bringing awarness to being raw and genuine. The vulnerability is so powerful

[@dumpstercat710]

Listening to this pod after seeing all the flesh mechanic drama on Twitter today 🤣

[@sophieyodels]

Same lmfao

[@btthpod]

@@sophieyodels i missed that

[@LanaSmalls-p7w]

so hard to watch this but so glad you discussed this. so many similarities to what happened to us and im so incredibly sorry

[@KatjaMiyatovich]

Thank you for standing up, thank you for speaking candidly and thank you for using your platform ❤

[@capricorn0103]

😢 so sorry this happened to you. On the other hand you're extremely brave to be speaking about it publicly. Take care of yourselves ❤❤

[@midknightxstudio]

Talk about a real eye opener. Sorry to y’all and everyone else who had to experience all the bs from any guy you film content with. Hopefully there is a big change for the better coming to the industry, sooner rather than later. Great episode!

[@empresselfiie]

I have worked with Dredd and I 100% do vouch for him. He’s an amazing, my sugar went low and I got sick during and had to take a break and he was the sweetest and most patient person.

[@danielg9408]

DEFINITELY talking about Heaven POV

[@btthpod]

jesus fkng christ - i'm so sorry to hear about this - i did not know - ty for talking about it ❤

[@btthpod]

the vulnerability but also humor, insight, and tbh just 🤌phrasing of some things - this was such a great listen and i am so glad you found the spoons to do it...

[@KimballTaylor-h9w]

❤❤ love your pod castyou guys rock your so real and bounce off each other so well Thanks🎉

[@hugh9115]

Just tuned into the chanel love it. How often u putting new content out

[@dudaroots]

Congrats for the courage, Sussie. You girls are amazing.

[@KimballTaylor-h9w]

❤ I love all your content on here, not into or understand every thing you talk about but I love listening to you all 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤ 1:04:48 1:04:50 1:04:52 1:04:55 love the pod cast 1:05:17

[@pimpking5000]

Is there a website of male pornstars who to avoid or with those track records. I often see many don't say who and i can respect that as i can't find who not to watch. Even trying to research which guys i only see old post.

[@Stretchy_sid_]

There are obviously a lot of issues with this, there are many blacklists floating around but the industry is completely decentralized & there are very different standards people have for working or not working with talent

[@fredferris7003]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@TheGraylyCrayon]

am so sorry you had to deal with this

[@pimpking5000]

The part about content creator vs mainstream. I viewed it similar to the music industry where it was more for the talent to control and better gain and i think that started around with clips4sale in 2009. But seems something in between is needed

[@KnottsoRude]

Good work

[@GwenAdora]

Thank you for talking about this on such a public and raw forum. 👏 proud of you both.

[@optimusrimjob]

The last couple minutes were super nice and sweet, then that last part glitches in and like what the funk!

[@pimpking5000]

Watching this reminds me of another series about the issues but for child stars. Many similar issues

[@Qwack79]

This episode broke my heart. I can’t stop thinking about what you two have gone through. Damn…

[@hannahcaitjayne6152]

Who are they talking about

[@moonbases]

Apologies if I somehow missed it as I'm listening while working but who is the James guy you two speak about in the episode? Is that flesh mechanic and I somehow just got confused ? lol I'd just like to avoid following/interacting with any of the men perpetuating the unsafe work environments for women and performers in general in the industry

[@btthpod]

yeah i'll have to look into that bc i don't want to buy content w/them in it or follow them or whatever - i think it's mechanic bc they said "skin plumber" - jaymes just sounds like a little beef

[@adlerofrowe9224]

Used to be a fan of the little skin plumber, but after watching this he's immediately blocked

[@lilbit6257]

What’s the timestamp

[@lilbit6257]

16:50 nvm found it also fuckin tea

[@Rich4098]

Just seeing this. I'm sorry that Suzie had this happen to her. I know it's possible to be grounded and in the porn industry, but I think you guys should experiment by making some normal friends so that you can better grasp the abrasiveness and dysfunction of your environment. What's good in life is simple, and it has noting to do with any of this.

[@KnottsoRude]

Live well and prosper

[@pimpking5000]

1:00:35 It's a few things: 1)Societal primarily(What you should vs what you want) Shaming some consensual things leads to lies for some(fuckboy or slut shaming leads to denial or sneaking around) 2) For protection many aren't fully honest and by the time ppl get to truly know you like that, emotions are too involved

[@pimpking5000]

40:08 Go at your pace. Part of it requires true regulation in the industry to secure the no means no aspect as well as a societal aspect to address the gender views and biases that complement and compound the issues

[@Lindsayyy890]

Thank you for sharing xoxo

[@oracledantex]

May I ask advice from the two of you?

[@pimpking5000]

Dredd and Havana Ginger said similar things on the content issue

[@sophieyodels]

The last clips are worse than I could’ve guessed by your descriptions of them

[@benjaminlehman3221]

Alex wheeler? Alex feeler?

[@btthpod]

i like a wiiiiiide range of content and i just assumed the rougher stuff was all kosher and consensual if it gets released - damn, how was i so naive? like what a blind spot about patriarchy and rape culture in that space... jesus...

[@jimball816]

take karate or self defense class. anything inappropriate......grown kick etc

[@KimballTaylor-h9w]

Blue eyes should not be a red flag Or at least grey eyes 34:35

[@KatjaMiyatovich]

I literally say the bar is low af and they try to limbo under it!!!

[@benjaminlehman3221]

Who is it!?

[@raulmeza3149]

Weres the lena paul interview??????

[@susiestellar]

coming :)

[@sadetedd3138]

who is the guy so I know no to support him. Alex filo?

[@Stretchy_sid_]

Yes Alex filho aka heaven pov, he is apparently still trying to make a comeback

[@happyhappyjoyjoy9542]

Thank you i’ll add him to my list of losers to avoid. The problem is these guys never go away (except Max Hardcore RIH, he won’t hurt anyone anymore). Look at James Dean and Rocko Sefredi. People idolize Sefredi but it’s easy to find scenes where he’s violating peoples consent. I remember one where the performer had said no anal, he whined and pouted and after about the seventh no he started putting it in anyway. She had to get up and leave. He then jokes with the crew.

[@KimballTaylor-h9w]

6:48

[@KimballTaylor-h9w]

Dosent sound charming to me f that and where were your people Your friendscus that shit doesn't fly 15:21

[@whatever_it_takes6691]

What are your thoughts on the Oofy Doofy Theory? Video response please.

[@pimpking5000]

50:55 For lack of a better word i refer to those 2nd cases as collatoral damage because there's how does addressing my emotion about it benefit or affect the person originally harmed. Balancing that without creating an endless back and forth of revenge.

[@SpenceIsAChef]

What I can’t wrap my head around is how you not only had such an intimate knowledge of how shitty this dude was, but then experienced the awful clips at the end first hand, and you still decided that you should attempt to film with him that same day. It’s truly baffling.

[@susiestellar]

thank you for blaming me!!!!! so original and helpful ❤️❤️❤️

[@MrColemanjoe]

Who??

[@rizzleroc]

I wanna dream in opal 🥹😮

[@sophierose7699]

Could someone kindly recap the skin plumber stuff for me?? I literally just don’t have the attention span to watch this pod 🥲🥲🥲🥲

[@NinaBariquit]

After listening to the whole thing the very end clip is spine chilling… Thank you for everything you guys do from bringing awarness to being raw and genuine. The vulnerability is so powerful