Get Better in the Bedroom (pt. 3) LESBIAN 101

[@joannathekiiid6963]

The robe and all, class is in SESSION 😂

[@slayyy_naya9302]

1.make sure your making your partner feel comfortable 2.get to know them first don't make it all about sex 3. (Saposexual) making someone feel mentally attracted to you 4.provide mental stimulation before and after 5.figure out what they like set the mood (do small getters){make them a cup of tea} 6.cook for her 7.even if you the guest still try to do whatever you can to please them 8.(DON’TS) {don’t force anything, make things uncomfortable or awkward} 9.Don’t put your intentions first(make them feel like you care about them. 10.(play with hair, touch and kiss,kiss their hand)that's signaling that you want to - 11.Example:( i really like your tat , do have anymore , any hidden 1’s){then touch their tat}

[@Jkiillem]

we love a summary!

[@slayyy_naya9302]

@@Jkiillem had to take notes to much good info 🙌🏾

[@ajs6488]

I took notes too. 👍👍

[@slayyy_naya9302]

@@ajs6488 some good ass info right there , I took more just didn’t put them all n the comments

[@haley210]

​@@Jkiillemnot me here that may never use any of this but appreciating the soft BDSM intro

[@WiltonRomulus]

I'm 36, in a big queer city, and i want to stretch my legs into dating. It's been more than 4 years since i've done anything with anyone since, so this advice is desperately needed. Thank you for this.

[@WiltonRomulus]

@@exsibonum ✊🏿💅🏿🌈

[@Insilcaru]

Where’s the big queer city? I need to find my people.

[@daeyyi]

GIRLIE ARE YOU IN PORTLAND??

[@WiltonRomulus]

@@daeyyi no but I kinda wish I was now!?! I need to be folded EXPEDITIOUSLY! LMAO

[@WiltonRomulus]

@@Insilcaru I was in San Francisco but I'm in Manhattan now. 😞😞😞

[@teashe]

The thumbnail had me shaking

[@elspethfougere9683]

Your such a good educator jess! I love how frank you are, and respectful 💞 your doing a great service to our community 😁🥰🙏

[@jfcjic3935]

I've learned so much from this series 😭 thank youuuuu 🥺🥺🥺

[@squarepegfb]

Phew, the first minute! I'm thinking of getting back in the game in the new year and your videos are so helpful. Thank you for your service to women 💖

[@willow1698]

Good luck to you!

[@jordanabrams6315]

That intro… my jaw was on the floor

[@jessilovely]

This is amazing advice! Only thing I would say is also be aware if you have a neurodivergent lady who is uncomfortable (and sometimes painful) with prolonged direct eye contact. Never force this, especially if you haven’t known each other for long. Communication is key and making t sure everyone feels safe ❤

[@willow1698]

Nothing to do with ND

[@jessilovely]

You’re right; I wanted to add this because there’s lots of people like this and it’s good to be aware so as not to learn the hard way like I did unfortunately ❤ @@willow1698

[@kunpunko]

@@willow1698huh???

[@audreydoyle5268]

​@@willow1698 actually, everything to so with ND. I have yet to come across a neurotypical who doesn't like eye contact. For me, I don't like giving people eye contact unless I'm feeling them. The deeper I look, the more intense my feelings. Eye contact is a very intimate thing for me, and something I don't just share with anyone. Even some KZbinrs, I can't look them directly in the eye when they look down the camera (unless I have a parasocial crush). However, there are neurodivergent people who cannot stand eye contact at all, regardless of emotional intimacy. When I look into the eyes of someone I'm not thinking of bedding, it feels revealing, like I'm naked. On the extreme end, it feels like pins in my eyes. Really not pleasant. There are some ND people who experience that no matter who.

[@willow1698]

@@audreydoyle5268 Nothing to do with ND. You can be ND and fine w eye contact & NT and uncomfortable w eye contact.

[@PhotogrrlFilms]

Notepad out straight up taking notes 😂😂

[@GreenMyrtle]

Awesome vid! Just love your energy and YES… it’s the whole thing, motions, eyes, sounds, textures, full body sensations… beautiful!

[@0Lu.Lu0]

NOT THE TONY MONTANA BED😅😅 Yeah, you did a LOT, but it is definitely needed: iss a lot of people out here just coming into themselves. I am into my 40’s just really trying to approach socializing with other WLWs without any weird competition (I look half my age and “Dapper”, more masc/androgynous, and have figured out so far I like feeling submissive in bed, but dominant with domestic duties-home economics if you will). I have a nice mat from Gaia, one of those shaking whammy fitness bars, TRX Rip Trainer, Bands, Jump ropes (practice and pro), Fight Camp. I love fly watches, colognes, boxers, PS5 fighting and Driving games, Imma get the new XBox soon for my shooting games. So, yeah, I said all that to say that if you or even you and Amber get a couple mannequins and create a course, I’ll pay a couple hundred for it. I’m from LA and live close by so, yeah I’ll be outside next month about for 3 or 4 days-see what’s good, maybe make a new friend.

[@sofiacarina8929]

the way u were so bashful when showing us how to do stuff... trustttt we fr need the 1on1 showcase of what to do. Ik I appreciate these vids sm

[@Jadeddoxy]

First the background lights were a pretty blue, amd now its a pretty red, love it!

[@Jadeddoxy]

Also, jkillem out here just saving all the lesbians that have no experience or is looking for new ideas, thank you

[@mandachris7146]

I’m a chef .. specifically a classic French trained pastry chef. I have found even saying that to a woman has opened a lot of doors for both women to be comfortable. The “are you a vanilla, chocolate, caramel, citrus, or a berry woman” to be a huge winner. Is it innuendo, or is it pastry talk? It’s whatever you feel comfy with sweetness.

[@Jkiillem]

I like this 😏

[@mandachris7146]

@@Jkiillem why thank you

[@StephanieMarrero-cy5oz]

I could listen to your voice all day 😮‍💨

[@wiggie666]

I believe this from my experiences lesbian sex is the best sex, it like every part is touched on all senses

[@elokittty653]

Wow great video thanks, it's really cool to see how you explain things without embarrassment and go into so much details, well done👏 Ps: there were really hot moments I wasn't ready haha 😂😅🔥 🌈

[@Marie-wo9cc]

I would lovee to hear you talk about manifestation or manifestation during sex like, it seems like an interesting subject

[@Jkiillem]

Might have to be part 4!

[@jiliciar.1423]

SAME! 📣😊

[@truth-om7iz]

I needed this. My girl said I don’t use enough hips! I hip thrust 350lbs! I know how to hinge but I realized I’m not being intentional with it.

[@Jkiillem]

It’s more about flexibility while being strong w the strokes! That’s the hardest part

[@truth-om7iz]

@@JkiillemSorry for the late reply I don’t have notifications on. But thank you for this 🙏🏾 Imma start working on hip mobility.

[@elodyluna]

oh my god these vids are giving me life. I can’t handle how funny good and hot the parts around 27:00 are lolllll❤❤ thanks for being so open, and your confidence is majorly inspiring

[@phoebeats]

ty for this much needed advice (here for future reference cuz i ain't got no experience..only up from here tho haha)

[@m4ck3r3l]

I need that red & black robe soooo badly

[@docter_memory]

Thank you... I might have to watch this again tomorrow, thanks.

[@bride_of_jc]

Yeah, idk why why but eye contact freaks me out... I'm open to it but it scares me

[@silverstar2052]

This was was so good! A lot of great info!

[@tikagyrl984]

Great video💖💖💖 The touch & eye contact👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 yes takes it to another level.

[@Frogypickle]

I said this in Part 3 but i will say it again.... IS THERE GONNA BE A PART 4!!!!!!! I say this in the nicest tone possible its not in a demandig way!! I know u don't know me so I thought I would tell you the tone my voice is in😊❤❤😊

[@kf6262]

This was great we deffo need another ❤

[@PaintMePretty79]

Sapiosexuals unite! lol We’ve found our safe space !

[@ajs6488]

How you say "baby" is very mentally stimulating 😳 My turn ons are randomness and intelligence.

[@jiliciar.1423]

I appreciate this video so much! Thank you for making this video! ❤😊

[@drt6918]

This is like seriously the most helpful Q sex talk❤thank you!

[@DalladaFilms]

0:43 Pause. I think I see what you did there Jess omg 😂

[@marissaslater8184]

this got me a lil hott but good tips ty ❤

[@MadArtLang]

I am REALLY enjoying this channel 👀🥰🏳️‍🌈😱😜 .40 sec GAHDAYUM!!! U TEASE!!!!

[@Ladyxxk]

Ok no this is my favourite video on earth

[@ChrisT-yw2vi]

I was not ready for this video🥵😳 woo

[@kaede7613]

Thank you for making this videooo!!!!

[@jayl1712]

I just had a fem ask for strap time. And now I’m gonna hit the gym to get these stretches right 😂

[@AnvilGois]

I am afraid she'll get some hate, but I am here to advance some tips. Learn any topic with someone who KNOW the subject. I mean... She is a WOMAN, she have a body like one, she touch herself I hope everyday. So... She KNOWS EVERY FUCKING THING about women. She is more than expert, she is PhD when the subject is women... About desires, feelings, fetishes etc. And Jk thanks for your help, me and my girlfriend gonna make it, for sure and it's all your ''fault'' xD

[@alexlesbean8739]

Why would she get hate

[@jiliciar.1423]

​@@alexlesbean8739 I wanna know too.

[@AnvilGois]

@@alexlesbean8739 oh honey have u never heard about fragile masculinity? Have u never meet one of these types of toxic guys???

[@alexlesbean8739]

@@AnvilGois oh I have but why would they click on this video if it’s for wlw? They’re weird for doing that

[@AnvilGois]

@@alexlesbean8739 having masc fragile is weird, everything after that it doesn't really impress me at all

[@metalk7]

The good thing about being a good lover in bed is that they always want to repeat with you and tell you how good you are. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@chloehunt4372]

I learned so much from this

[@jojothepoet]

How do I initiate it when its our first time with each other. She is more inexperienced and reserved. Am wrecking my mind cause I want her to enjoy while I enjoy her. First date coming up in 3 weeks. Its a long distance thing. So a lot of firsts coming up

[@Mx.kat3]

love love love ❤️

[@ylana4444]

Those eyes of yours…. 🔥

[@audreydoyle5268]

Deep like wild fig tree roots

[@iyannaparhams598]

Lmaoo idk how I should feel watching this ifykyk😭😂🌚

[@YTuser854]

lol all i can think is all i wanna do is get high with my best friend

[@rachel183321]

Take me to bed Jess 😍🥰

[@shykat9188]

🌈

[@Zamztrench]

Lifesaver

[@djsmoothjackson630]

I enjoyed watching u n I learned a lot , thank u

[@Leoferran97]

Can you please repeat the tools you mention and where to get them ? Plz

[@s.c.5627]

Harness & strap recommendations please!! ❤

[@corrina8125]

damnnnn thanks for the lesson! Whew girl, that was pretty hot

[@juliazwainz1099]

Could you do a zoom conference where people can ask questions?❤

[@Jkiillem]

Im on tiktok live doing that all the time! The link in my bio also has a way for you to ask specific questions

[@bride_of_jc]

Nobody better ever spit on me, that is gross to me, absolutely not, EVER

[@_luvchey]

Ouuu girl 😂

[@J2LO]

Gym work out pls

[@shampow1571]

Ayo! where that robe from?

[@briannarickner5541]

Mommy

[@Trizzyy0302]

Next video can you show us how to preform these acts on our partner

[@ashleyG92892]

I can't help it....I have to say you're so very attractive😍🏳️‍🌈🫶🏻

[@virgilmcclendon5072]

😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹

[@franciscaignacia8914]

🤍🦋✨✨⚖️

[@SatinGlobe]

I have a girlfriend and she really wants to kiss me and I do her but I’m a little scared

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

I,m Looking To Date A Pan Sexual Lesbian I,m Single In Ohio I Dated Twin Sisters 23 Years Ago Or A Bisexual Woman

[@ajs6488]

The button😏....wait....OHHHHH🫣 theee button😉.....I see. Keeping it PG. Past midnight and I'm watching. I had to pause and go do some thing's. Long day.

[@eveevie1423]

How can I like this video a trillion times? 😍😍😍🤣🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶❤️

[@smommyoffive5]

Lord. I just lost it with that mic grab and, "look at me". Mmmmm. 🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠