"Get Out of My Party": Woman Celebrating 70th Birthday Chases Guests Who Didn't Buy Asoebi

A video of a Nigerian woman has caused a stir online as she sternly ordered guests to vacate her 70th birthday celebration for failing to adhere to the dress code, known as “Asoebi,” that she had set for the event.
The celebrant had meticulously organized the milestone birthday party, and as part of her requirements for attendees, she had mandated that they purchase and wear the designated Asoebi fabric to the gathering.
This past weekend, as guests gathered at the venue, enjoying their meals and the jovial atmosphere, the birthday celebrant seized the moment to address the non-compliance with her dress code directive.
The viral video captured the assertive hostess firmly instructing those who had not acquired the Asoebi attire to leave her celebration immediately.
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[@paulneugbiyobo4156]

We should free people from this bondage . Give them colour code instead and they do not have to dress in that colour only if they have it.

[@antoniaalakija769]

In London nowadays, invitations are sent into your emails and respond. Your names on the board. Someone checks your name and takes you to your table.

[@joycechikelue4274]

I don't do Asobe PERIODT and if I want people to wear it for me, I buy and give them. I did it during my Mum's 75th birthday.

[@ngozinwankwo5051]

I have stopped buying, it's a waste of my money. What nonsense survenir!

[@titilayorachael262]

​@@ngozinwankwo5051lol @ with nonsense souvenir

[@ifemanimmazuubs]

I am utterly shocked at Morayo's statement of asking the derogatory question typical to the warped mentality of some Nigerians ''who are you to ask Joke Silva to leave''. You gave the instruction to the security/bouncer not to allow any guest without an access card. I am sure that was the clear instruction. He was just doing his job, simply fallowing very clear instructions, being professional. What is the point having all these conversations when people still have the same attitude we are trying to change as a society. I love and respect JS but in situations like that the right thing to do is to respectfully walk away.

[@joycechikelue4274]

I thought am the only one that heard that, see how she quickly wave it off! Hypocrisy at its peak.

[@ngozinwankwo5051]

I tell you

[@felixolopade1781]

There in lies the dicotomy of our so-called culture and tradition. People showing up to events uninvited. Celebrant making demands of guests under the guise of celebrating an event. Very crass,no-class and unbecoming.We collectively don’t follow rules.Indiscipline runs rampant amongst us. So you get what you get!!

[@samuelrebecca9915]

@@felixolopade1781 na so ooo loruko 😂👌

[@agapeprayerandoutreachmini7119]

Well said. I don't know why she asked that question, quite odd! I guess she's thinking about this in principle! 😅😂

[@omoarefunmilayo5413]

Must she have a party if she,s not financially up to it ?

[@samuelrebecca9915]

Abi oooo

[@waliualonge8379]

Abio

[@yinkmarc2]

If you want to give gifts at your party, do so. It's absurd that you put extra costs. Don't give gifts. No one will force you to do so. Leave aso ebi for your family and close friends.

[@samuelrebecca9915]

Aso ebi should not be imposed on anyone,even families...because it's a choice 😂

[@ajokeemmanuel4649]

If you invite me to your party don't make that mistake of dictating to me what the f$uck to wear, what bs. Anyway, I don't attend classless type of parties. Regardless she shouldn't have insulted the people. Even if I did not invite you and you came as far as I am concerned you are welcome. A woman of 70, what a disgrace! It is not that deep. Morayo's mindset is less to be desired.

[@meldawilliams1636]

Exactly where I come from when we do party we always cater for the uninvited guests

[@JoyFay]

When I was growing up asoebi was for family and close friends not everyone and we didn’t make profit from it, it was actually a way to buy clothes in bulk for cheap and we wear the clothes anytime else we want. Now people have ruined what asoebi is, these includes non Yorubas.

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

And the family members still contribute from their pockets to support the person throwing the party.

[@OLEEBUD]

The non yorubas are worse. I was shocked at one, the extent of greed is appalling.

[@byfavour852]

Why should I pay for souvenirs you want to give me?

[@ADHDPLAYERYT]

Of course she can send them away but not to curse them. That was too extreme!!!!

[@ajokeemmanuel4649]

Really, send them away!!

[@waliualonge8379]

Bcos of aso ebi?

[@addyfam1454]

Lol, you people don't remember this party was done in UK not Nigeria. No one has the time to go for parties when they should be working overtime to make money. I'm sure she was upset because she didn't make money from the asoebi. Don't do parties if you can't afford it.

[@jacquelyneyawa5800]

Wow

[@OlabisiTemitope-qm8yv]

Exactly. You're on point

[@waliualonge8379]

Exactly

[@rachelyusuf9246]

Aso ebi should not be by fire by force. You don't know what people are going through, this should be about love.

[@williewonka8]

Even if you’re angry it’s in very poor taste to curse people. It’s highly inappropriate under any circumstance especially for a senior citizen. They didn’t even touch on that and basically defending ratchet behavior.

[@olaomole9520]

The problem is now the people that turn the aso ebi to business.

[@queenmother1236]

So sorry/ sad to tell you that everyone abroad is not educated. A lot of people still act like they’re still in Nigeria 🇳🇬 , they will not RSVP then start calling you 2 days to the wedding or whatever to come with extra person 😂

[@Tellij]

So true and annoying

[@ObA287]

Madam Morayo, you can choose that your uniform and dictate to people but be respectful of your guest choices or decisions. Also remember that your guests are giving you their valuable time. So please try to treat your guest with respect not face value depending on who is wearing your asp-ebi. And again this is why people have shallow friendships. People see through how we treat them. May God help us all.

[@jewelofnashville1726]

What time? They wouldve gone to the bar n still pay far more

[@adetutugbadamosi6150]

Many people a using aso Ebi to make money for their parties. If u want to do party, do it and let everyone enjoy and celebrate with you period.

[@valchykes1166]

She really has a good reason for her action but she should have made it more organised by inviting only the people that paid for the Asoebi.

[@TrueTalkeTV]

Good point, unfortunately Nigerians love the concept of 'invite 1, get 10 free' They bring their friends along without consideration for the celebrant's wishes or budget.

[@ngozinwankwo5051]

Bouncers should have been at the gate simple!

[@adejuwonolubunmi6660]

I don't agree with morayo that it's culture someone started it and everybody accept it,aslo she talks about souvenir why must you use your guest money to buy souvenir for them na by force to buy gift.pls

[@elizabethlasaki9839]

Also ebi has become over time the main means of celebrating parties and has resulted in breaking alot of relationships. In those days aso ebi use to be for family members, for uniformity,and when people throw parties then,you will get food and souvenirs satisfactorily because for the celebrant,their glad you came,your presence is important to them and they want to satisfy you with all. But this days, people look forward to selling aso ebi to all and making money from it,even the souvenirs you get is bought indirectly. So my take if you can't throw a party don't start it,aso ebi shouldn't take more Importance than the presence of people,in yoruba they say(eyan ni aso eyan)meaning the essence of a party is the people that come around, imagine throwing a party and nobody came because of aso ebi issues...so if must be an aso ebi party then ensure proper plans are put in place for entry, if not the old style is better,you will be surprised you'll even gain more by that.

[@gomakinde2566]

Morayo, using my money to give me souvenir is wrong. You are using me to do business. Secondly aso ebi as the name goes is for the ebi i.e family. It is to unify and identify the family

[@adetounafolabi6436]

The Aso ebi that I know as a kid was never to raise money. They use to cut and give out clothes samples to be able to identify and buy your cloth from the market. If you are doing party in Yoruba culture that I know growing up, you cook and buy drinks for people. Party is not by force. This Aso ebi madness is on another level. I don’t buy Aso ebi and I don’t go for party that requires that. I don’t like common clothes and the idea of extorting people. Party is to celebrate and rejoice with people. A friend once told me I can only come for her wedding if I buy Aso-ebi. I sent her a gift of money and congratulations 😂😂😂

[@maybellsaliu690]

Call colour for aso ebi, nowww. Whose paying £150 plus of material & then £100 plus to sew clothing. For me recently fabolous wedding we only called colour and bought gele and fila.

[@ItsAllAnillusion]

Apparently people are using aso ebi to pay for their party. Calling color will not work if that is their intent. SMH

[@faridamusa9661]

Follow peoples requirement. There are some people that dont mind that you buy the asoebi from elsewhere but if buying from the celebrant is the requirement, then its dubious to not do that and still insist on coming. The truth is that people in Nigeria like parties, we get upset when we are not invited, we even get angry when we attend and somehow food doesnt get to us yet we dont care if the celebrant budgeted for us or can even afford the extra uninvited guests that we show up with. No boundaries

[@chimandymandy1089]

Aso ebi is just to put colour to the party. Its not to raise money. Some people buy the aso ebi uniform for people to wear for their ceremony. My husband bought all my friends their uniform for aso ebi. They only had to sow it by themselves.

[@ayodamolaoludemi4094]

All this emptiness of life that we are carrying on our head. All this aso ebi self i dont get it. Must you buy cloth for every party.

[@ummubaadahtv6068]

Abio

[@Dedegrace100]

The culture that requires invited guest to buy your asoebi in order to enjoy your party is foul. Please, we should not have parties if we can not truly afford to host guests fully.

[@ebotyvonne5903]

I like this topic

[@titioyinbiaolorunleke7185]

It's unfortunate , because if it were to be in Nigeria setting,one who have concluded it is as a result of poverty. Though I never in any way supported the woman's attitude. But for crying out, I think it's even shameful to attend people's party without been invited. Not even a place like London.

[@stephenoshilaja365]

Owo Abu ni Morayo fin se Abu l'alejo. You mark up what I am buying from you to buy gifts for me😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bridgetboateng4396]

Asoebi should not be a must at parties, and for people who buy, inflate the price and re-sell to gain money to pay for the party and or souvenirs is ridiculous.

[@baronesslizzy8428]

Asô Ębi is not by force, and if you cannot buy it, DO NOT attend the party. It is very rude to do so otherwise. However non compliant guests should not be allowed to enter the party in the first instance. These days celebrants chose colour codes rather than asô ebi. Less stress, less resentment and definitely less costly to the guests

[@titiakerele6164]

Aso ebi is contribution . Period.

[@nigerianmomvlogs5673]

What has Asoebi got to do with gift. I am from delta state we don.t do things like that, if you come for a party we give gift to everybody

[@ebeiyambaokon8526]

What is more important, my presence at your event or the Aso Ebi? It is not as if one will wear rags to the event. If I buy the Aso Ebi and don't attend your event, would you prefer that? I should be okay wearing my choice of clothes and support you in terms of gifts etc. This is one of the ways our value systems are being eroded. Those who intended gracing the event should have adhered to the instructions.

[@TrueTalkeTV]

I agree that presence is weightier however its necessary to verify how the celebrant wants us to show presence. The woman spelt out her wishes very clearly on the invite; while her brashness is admirable we agree its unusual and harsh; I hope it's a wakeup call for party crashers...we must do better as a people

[@ngozinwankwo5051]

Who sent you to be doing big parties that you can't give people free

[@temitopeelizabeth9149]

This woman clearly state the rules to attending her party on the invitation card. I think her annoyance was dat some guest didn't buy the aso ebi from her rather they bought them from the market directly.

[@jollyjoneshoko]

Best thing , state how you want your party to be by specifying on your the invitation. Simples.

[@iamwoleojo]

Why not say upfront that the access and invitation is strictly by ASO EBI…

[@paulneugbiyobo4156]

It is high time we restrict ourselves to parties we are invited to she must have stated it on the IV. Remember the party was in London not Nigeria.

[@jacquelyneyawa5800]

Beautiful colours, identification are the culture.

[@jacquelyneyawa5800]

It should never be compulsory.

[@jacquelyneyawa5800]

Contribution does not mean monetary it means identification. Aso ebi should not be layered with extra cost.

[@laraakin7362]

I agree with Morayo, I hate Aso Ebi but when I give out Aso Ebi I dont put a dime on it , the purpose of Aso Ebi is the beauty , it;'s the Yopruba culture, You're not supporting me I hate it when people add money. I dont care for Souvenir. We should please stop the contribution, its bad, we should stop adding money no one cares about souvenirs. Anyway my thing is that I will never add a dime to Aso Ebi. Anyway I hardly ever give out aso ebi as much as I do not like buying aso ebi I like teh culture I just ahte the issue of adding money its unnecessary.

[@oluwaisinvolved1566]

The problem is she's bitter that she couldn't make money from those people that didn't buy her aso-ebi..no one forced you to celebrate a flamboyant birthday oo mama 70th 😂😂

[@oseyomonjoy1204]

This is crazy, Kilo fa epe? I will never attend such person's party not for any reason.

[@gomakinde2566]

Why should you use my money to buy souvenir for me? If you're not buoyant enough don't invite crowd

[@ItsAllAnillusion]

I’m truly shocked by this entire segment. I’m really out of touch when it comes to aso ebi, and party planning. I’m just grateful that at my big age I don’t go where I’m not personally called.

[@kemistrykemidada9256]

I'm shocked too. Utterly surprised by these ladies agreeing with this level of pride, and uncultured behavior.

[@iamwoleojo]

That’s not even what it is… why throw a party, why invite them…

[@adejuwonolubunmi6660]

Miriam thank you somepeople if they never go party dey no go rest abeg next time dey will not go to someone else without invitation,some people have gone to a party they are not invited to and eat from there death

[@patonnme5442]

I dont care for asoebi, but I understand that people have a certain picture (in their minds) of what their party should look like. If asoebi is important to you, I will honour you on your day by buying the asoebi but I'm not liekly to give you anything else. If not, I would give something much more valuable and come enjoy your event in something I like, am comfortable in, and will be able to wear again...

[@west_2190]

When did asoebi become contribution to the party and reason to be fed in a party. If you don't have money why throw a party. If you don't want people to gate crash your party then organised your party properly so that uninvted guess do not attend.

[@ogommy4real684]

Am not even going, am too grown for that, nonsense. Someone allowed them in abi. If you curse me, I will return the curse back osogbo. I won't even go

[@OluwaseyiTV]

People are really really hungry these days oo

[@penny2093]

What foolishness. Why didn’t she let people know that the asoebi was a requirement for entry. Why embarrass people that are already seated. Nigerian are ridiculous in this aspect. That’s why I don’t buy and I don’t attend. End asoebi immediately jare.

[@celestinaejimeekeh7665]

Aso ebi is contributing to your party

[@oluyinkafakunle1092]

Aso ebi will be the death of Yoruba people smh. I really do not understand, after listening to these ladies, how aso ebi can be a form of identity. This is part of the reason we have so much problems in Nigeria. Everyone knows that invitees also invite other people go with them to these parties

[@eniolaobasa1972]

This is a serious matter, thst woman is not serious

[@nigerianmomvlogs5673]

yorubo people and Asoebi na wa ohooooooo

[@asd_911]

It is because corruption entered Aso Ebi. A cloth of 5k will be sold for 50k. They will tell you to buy only from them. Are you Da Viva? If you want donation, state it. Some of your guests have other things in their life, when you have 6 parties in December, you will spend your life savings on Aso Ebi

[@Ms_Elisa]

You can have access cards and print out of names. Anyone can get the access card but once your name is on the print on the print out, no going back. My mum did a party, we didnt call any aso whatever. But my mom made good money. Why? She gives to people, supports people, people love her. So we made the money spent on party plus extra. I just thank God. This was the month before the lockdown.

[@ogommy4real684]

Nobody should be forced to buy aseobi biko. I know is for uniformity but nobody asked you to host me. Do as you can without expecting anything back

[@fun-gr4fx]

I don't think this is a topic atol...her friends,her money,her food,her life,her party and her decision... from someone to boldly talk this way..e get why...

[@iamwoleojo]

Only in London

[@celestinaejimeekeh7665]

Do you have to contribute before you go to a party?

[@ObA287]

People with their nonsense expectations of others. Do the party that you can afford. If people did not come to the party, the same celebrant will be upset. I am not a party person and I am okay not attending parties especially birthdays. If people grace your occasion treat them with respect. They are giving you their valuable time. If you cannot afford a party, please don’t throw one. There are so many ways to celebrate and have fun with your loved ones or yourself alone.

[@EdHumpherys]

It is a boundary issue. We tend to lack respect for people personal space. I don’t wear Asoebi for anyone. I support my friends everytime.

[@OluwaseyiTV]

Assuming, I happened to be at that party and I bought the aso ebi, I would have left too at the mention of those curses, I don't like that approach at all...

[@TrueTalkeTV]

I stand with the celebrant; she spelt out the rules. We Nigerians are an unruly lot. I enjoyed the ladies's views.

[@ajokeemmanuel4649]

You are delusional! so it is important to dictate who wears what. I never will and I repeat never will!!! BS. Anyway, low mentality equals low class.

[@adeade4095]

maybe the Asoebi has been dedicated to the demonic realms (possibly for longer life) and her quota hasn't been met so she got hot headed and started issuing curses.

[@amabrown952]

This hostess I'd not serious, did anyone begging u for a party

[@adejuwonolubunmi6660]

She expects only those that bought her aso ebi,so why are those that didn't buy from her shouldn't have come in Africans are fond of that,have been to a party before I bought aso ebi to my surprise people that didn't buy wear something different filled up the hall before we came from church and people were even bragging that they won't get up for anyone because of aso abi saying it out loudly .

[@nigerianmomvlogs5673]

it is our culture. they invite everyone and come late.

[@iamwoleojo]

Why MANDATING ASO EBI

[@iamstephredd]

I'm quite enthused at this episode because I recently got sidelined by an assumed close friend who said I couldn't attend her wedding without buying asoebi. True to it, I wasn't given details. This is a childhood friend, who I was willing to travel abroad with her to attend her white wedding, on my own account. Yet, I was sidelined because of just 30k. 😂😂😂😂

[@whiteliberty4492]

Please count yourself fortunate as you most likely had a lucky escape

[@samuelrebecca9915]

@@whiteliberty4492 correct 👌😂

[@roxyify7589]

Beecee more wisdom to you o 👍👍👍 I have always called you low budget Jumoke James 👍👍👍 Very blunt and inscere Dont mind Miriam and Morayo this morning

[@ronkeabeniadegbite6203]

But politely . She apologised though but too late . Rubbish .Educated illiterate.

[@thekingsdaughternunu1837]

BeeCee is My Girl. Always and Forever. She too get wisdom.

[@ajayitimothyoludare1095]

Mama don beg ooooo make na come back come eat ooo . You will not die 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀 I have the video when mama was begging the crowd and reversing the courses.

[@iryn1903]

She has a right to insist that her guests buy her asoebi. If you are a guest and feel that you will not be coerced into buying the asoebi, simply decline the invitation. The guests, too, shouldn't feel entitled to be in attendance. If no one buys the asoebi, she would lower her condition for attendance 😂.

[@shubyranky1]

Living in London doesn't mean you should have sense, I was there live and direct, I was the one that left the party when she started cursing people, I wore the Aso Ebi with over 25 of friends, who wore the Aso Ebi, we all left the party immediately. It's absolutely nonsense cursing people, what type of support is that? if you don't have money to throw party don't do it, why do I have to contribute to your birthday party? I was the one that triggered the whole thing to the public, over %99.99 of the people at that party wore the Aso Ebi

[@roxyify7589]

Miriam you always look innocent but i knew your types are very mean inside Anyways wetin concern bicycle with filling station

[@flaimzypolymath4246]

I stand with the celebrant but I am against the insults, if you are not invited to a party and you contributed nothing to the event please respectfully sit down in your house. Don't come and disgrace yourself just because you want to eat free food.

[@godsproperty625]

Why will people pay for souvenirs you decided to give out.

[@ativiejonathan3705]

As a guest you should adhere to the dress code ,

[@balogunolabimpe2220]

It's remind me of Ajidars film. Agba woli. 😂He already put jazz in the clothes,when they had Accident, he went inside Mog,to cut pieces of their clothes. At 70. Cursing people at your party? Even some,on Aso ebi left.

[@ceceberry6051]

Oh please! Not everyone wants to wear asobi or even have money to sew it. Or find better tailor.

[@antoniaalakija769]

Morayo is correct. It’s Yoruba culture we like to identify with one another.

[@ItsAllAnillusion]

This is what I grew up believing aso ebi was. I’m now learning that it has turned to something else. It is well.

[@kemistrykemidada9256]

It's Yoruba culture, agreed! But it's been commercialized.

[@sadealade2493]

She is wrong it only for immediate family please.people have taken it so far by making business. Aso ebi is only for family, if are not a member of the family please don't sell Aso ebi thanks.

[@Doublejoytv]

Please what's the meaning of RSVP

[@ngozinwankwo5051]

Morayo, what's your problem. Is it by force to join in your color. I'm paying for my gift too,so you're not giving me anything

[@celestinaejimeekeh7665]

Oboajulu which one is this wig now A beg Abeg no way😂❤

[@Shadedgray]

Local champion

[@Ezii4835]

Morayo, why should i pay for my gift? If you talk about being colourful or identity is ok but not for you to get extra from the Asoebi money to buy me gift . Do you think everybody likes gifts?

[@jacquelyneyawa5800]

Are you serious create debt to throw a party. Na wa o

[@abbyabiloye7299]

Ma'am you are wrong, even your mother telling the other family member not to choose another aso ebb is so she could get all the gains. I've chosen also ebb before but it's by choice. You don't have to buy it in order to come to my party. Also I made sure I give out the aso ebi same time I collect the money. Some people will collect the money before even giving you the aso ebi. That is very wrong.

[@ashabivictoria-sd9wz]

Asoebi is in most cases for merchandising and ritual. My people, avoid it or u buy yours straight away. The concept of Asoebi has been bastsrdized. Many people do it to rob people of tbeir glory. Some 'celebrants' mixed concortion with the food they offer people.

[@shubyranky1]

Aso Ebi has become money making business

[@elohoonovo3366]

Please who invited those without asoebi biko. Did she make it explicit on her invitation. Was it all she invited that bought the asoebi. But for me asoebi is not by force o! I believe she also must have in one way or the other attended some parties without buying there asoebi. Na wa o. This life no balance o😢😮😂😂

[@lorettaedozie7752]

Morayo is very correct

[@ijeonu2405]

Morayo is delusional. If my contributing to aso-ebi is to buy me souvenirs, I contributed to it. You should have gotten the gift yourself or don't do souvenirs.

[@celestinaejimeekeh7665]

Morayo. People can not pay you for gift. Because they spent their time to come to your party ok I did not espect it from you at all morayo in USA people go to party and you give people gift

[@chiomalewis7667]

It isn't compulsory that i should by a celebrant asoebi. If you decide to celebrate your milestone, you shouldn't hold anyone to ransome. No matter how you view it, those buying asoebi are investing into your celebration. Everybody attending your party mustn't wear asoebi. To me asoebi is strictly for my closest friends or committee of friends. Some people after buying the asoebi don't spray you money when you're dancing. In a foreign land, some indigenes of the land may be invited to the party without being involved in the asoebi. Asoebi isn't compulsory. Spiritually it is enslavement. RSVP is the sution to admitting people into a party. There are more to say about her behavior. Don't forget that the word of God says whosoever curses you is accursed. What assures her that after the party that she wakes up alive the next day. Let him that comes to equity come with clean hands. Nobody is forcing you to throw a party.

[@adakumgbokwere2351]

Tthe Celebrant shuld be grateful to hv attained such age nd more by d grace of God is a thing of joy which is a beauty forever if u are not ready for celebration do not engage in an elaborate one u can mark it with ur family followed by thanks giving at d church where u worship D fact is dat most of our pple enjoy UN HEALTHY COMPETITION CUT UR CLOTH ACCORDING BY UR SIZE Celebrating birthday's shuld be a sort of sacrifice nd showing gratitude to God for sparing ur live as no one can celebrate birthday in d grave is not suppose to be a money making venture spare food nd drinks even with d less privileged nd they will pray for u to be ageing in good health nd of a sound mind Why embarassing pple dat came to rejoice with u on ur D Day more so laying a curse on them infact it is uncalled for However u can always tell ur invitees strickly if they will honour ur invite to attend ur party only if u can afford d asoebi nd then again not to come with their friends to d party PERIOD

[@OlabisiTemitope-qm8yv]

Aso ebi or no aso ebi. There are people who buy aso ebi in fact that can even pay for the all aso ebi and still not wear it to the party because there's the name called anko in Yoruba language. While some people Taylor will destroy there clothe and decide to wear something similar. So what if there are people like that in that party . 3rdly , if president is in that party , everyone knows 90% prominent people don't wear aso ebi.. in fact from experience my step father mom burial the aso ebi and style given to my taylor was destroyed that i had to change to something similar to party hall. I felt so embarrassed but what can i do .

[@monisolakehinde4873]

Seriously... Don't reap what you didn't sow please thanks