Steve, We're Afraid of Him | The Steve Wilkos Show Full Episode

[@jeremymckiel6583]

This was Steve's calmest interview with a guy like this and I feel like it was probably the most effective I've witnessed

[@hdunaway110]

He came out owning everything. That makes the conversation a easier.

[@myaominky]

I loved that Steve asked questions to Cameron so he could tell his whole story about getting shot at 10. Well no fucking wonder he joined a gang. At age 10, he gets shot and in that moment realizes that he needs to take extreme measures to stay alive. His whole life was decided for him at age 10. Heartbreaking. The sisters & girlfriends got an open safe forum to speak about their feelings to their brother and he heard them. Steve is doing here what every good father should: listening without judgment & providing guidance without bullshit.

[@crystaldowd2912]

I teared up when he said he wanted help. 👏 Hopefully he pushes through and becomes a better man.

[@renelacomb8737]

Abusers don't change

[@thecaseclosedpikachufiles2446]

FACTS. And once an Abuser IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE AN ABUSER @@renelacomb8737

[@anonymous-ix6sc]

​@renelacomb8737 he's 19 and yes they can. Really hate when ppl say that, clearly u have no idea what u are talking bout. Ppl change all the time.

[@changuk_biased2010]

The 14 yr is so brave, considerate, and mature. I bet she’s doing great things now!

[@deborawilliams1720]

I agree with a lot of the comments. This guy is obviously in pain. Under all that tough guy attitude is, more than likely is a good guy. I hope he’s willing & able to get some professional help.

[@ciiroz8325]

well too sad. God has not finished wth his miracles so we pray things turn around

[@pauline9108]

Cameron DUNCE.... pregnant again ....they don't have birth control????? Steupsssssssss ehh🇹🇹 she pathetic so burden a teenager omg

[@vx4535]

What beautiful sisters. I think this guy is in a lot of pain. Needs a strong mentor and some guidance. Glad he went on the show. Hope they’ve all healed and things have improved. ❤️

[@Lethalweapon123]

Yeah when I heard his story when he was shot. I felt his pain.

[@nadiawelham7737]

I agree

[@meganmose]

Just because he was around this and got shot to act that way? Nobody has a perfect life with this fallen world and I dont go around shooting and al that.

[@nemesis9891]

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[@kadeelacayo4806]

@@meganmose you didn’t get shot at 10. And you’re not a young black man in the hood

[@reeganevans6707]

That man is living proof that people who did bad things can have a good change. I’m happy for him that he chose to go that way 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@phadeethephoenix]

I love how Steve “got him up” at the end. You can tell that kid has given up fighting his demons and wants the help. I hope he got the help he so desperately needed. Healing and Light to All 💛

[@pauline9108]

Actor's VERYYYYYYYYYY dangerous ino ..... he INFRONT a camera ....👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️🇹🇹

[@amvil888]

@@pauline9108I watched this episode late and I prayed you’re wrong about this. I prayed Cameron really got help that he needs and is now doing great living the best life with his wife and 2 kids

[@pauline9108]

@@phadeethephoenix learn to read out actors .... especially the ones that could end up homeless if ya Kno wat I mean😳😳⚖️⚖️🤪😁🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑

[@yasmeenmoore8782]

I honestly believe that the fact that this young man just incriminated himself without hesitating shows that he is crying out for help, this young man needs some sort of relief.

[@rachelforte2256]

Agreed ❤️

[@numberone5680]

I see his potential. He speaks well, looks good, knows business.

[@sorayanasser8153]

I agree. Shot at 10.😑 This kid has learned that the only way to be safe out there is to have friends from the street.

[@feleciagoldson2834]

"Relief"👉⚰👈🕊

[@berlina3662]

His admission means he needs to be in jail! Let him try his attitude inside. Why stay with someone like that? I just don’t understand.

[@tonyaeichman4751]

This is the best talk show episode I've ever seen. He's only 19.... I was once a really screwed up teenager and it resulted in to a bad heroin addiction. I didn't stop until prison stopped me. I have an amazing life now and it's been 10 years now that I've been clean and a productive member of society. At 19 he's got a much better chance of learning a new way of life that will save himself, his family and every person he makes contact with a lifetime of trauma and pain. I'd love to see an update on this case. I'll be sending positive vibes to him and his entire family. I love your show Steve and I appreciate the good work you do. Thank you, Tonya

[@savannahwilson9955]

Congratulations on your sobriety & healing!! I’m SO proud of you!! I hope like hell that you are extremely proud of yourself as well!! Never give up!!! Big, big hugs!!!! 🫶

[@VegasLady81]

There's no such thing as addiction, you could've stopped if you wanted to. You're sober now, right? You know damn well all types of drugs can get smuggled into prison, so knowing this, you decided not to partake if they were around, right? Well, you had that same choice before prison, and you chose to use that drug, so you aren't an addict. There is no such thing. YOU CHOSE the drug. YOU. Nobody put a gun to your head and made you want it. YOU DID THAT TO YOURSELF and I'm not gonna congratulate you nor pat you on the back because YOU CHOSE to finally pull your head out of your ass and become a productive member of society. I don't feel one ounce of sympathy for you.

[@JulieHarvey-oq7lt]

Congratulations ❤❤❤

[@suzeelewis718]

Even though I want to hate Cameron I actually can’t and don’t. Theres a look in his eyes that gets to me. Praying he turned his life around. It would be so good to see him smiling and happy 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@truthseeker8615]

I never cried at this show as much as just now 😢 That guy never had a man looking out for his best interest!

[@bethlanious4092]

I wish they did updates! I truly pray he was able to get the help he needed, stick with it, and turn his life around!🙏🏻❤️😔

[@gsmith1061]

Cammaron is in a relationship with a woman named Norma. He doesn’t have a relationship with his children. His sisters are parents to their own children. Sharah is moved on.

[@itsmeessence7789]

​@gsmith1061 how do you know this?

[@itsmeessence7789]

​@gsmith1061 how did you find this information?

[@gsmith1061]

@@itsmeessence7789 internet.

[@jabbarmuhammad8804]

He seriously needs anger management if he continues to treat his girlfriend like that because no woman deserves to be in that situation

[@eh-i1841]

He seriously needs herto leave him.

[@joetrolo7076]

Agreed, but these women makes such poor choices going with these thugs and letting them blow their seed in them! The female is the one that has to have the baby she should be extra cautious. But no they let them do it, because they love them🙄 get good at oral and stop making all these babies!!!

[@dallas24s69]

she should just leave

[@countrybabe1111]

I was in this situation but way worse than this story on this video... My man is a "malignant narcississt," a narcississt does NOT LOVE anyone bcuz they do not love theirselfs, they do not love children either!! Look up the 4 kinds of narcississt's & you will learn alot.. I did, the video's on youtube helped me free myself from his control & abuse.. I "thought I loved my man" HE had my brain controlled!! I cannot literally "gag him" now!! I never would imagine me saying this...listen carefully when these boys abuse, there is men not boys out there that would never ever dream of abusing us, we just have not met the right ones... I am telling YOU the truth my EX makes me sick to my stomach!! Read on please: My man abused me horribly, HE tried killing me 4 times, HE poisened my soda, HE tried stabbing me 2 separate times, then the last time HE strangled me almost to death, HE beat my head in badly & HE ripped almost all my hair out of my head, the State Attorney lady said HE is "highly dangerous" & has a lengthy criminal record since HE was a teenager, HE is a psychopath, bipolar, paranoid, controlling, a manipulator, HE drinks alcohol AND HE does drugs.. HE is addicted to alcohol, HE is addicted to drugs & HE is addicted to porn, HE is addicted to females, YES HE is a cheater, they party drugs & alcohol & have alot of SEX while they are out in the streets!! HE is a thief, HE stoled numerous things of mine, HE poisened my 5 animals, 2 of my animals SUFFERED & DIED!!!! 3 of my animals were deadly sick & lost all their hair but made it somehow...all my animals bloated up huge!! I dont know how 3 of them even made it... HE stalks me, HE accuses me of cheating all the time.. HE had gps tracking on me/on my 4 of MY vehicles, HE is violent, HE rages at me daily, HE beats me whenever HE chooses...HE is a mental mess, HE is a "MONSTER!!" HE finially got arrested on the warrant & this is HOW I got rid of HIM for good!!!! The Police would NOT help me until he strangled me & I had severe bruises all over & finger nail cuts all over AND welts all over me... While HE was locked up I changed my deadbolts to MY house that I own... I am taking nomore!! HE only did 10 months & was let out bcuz of Covid!! HE is STILL STALKING ME & coming to my house.. I have the house still but I dont stay there, I come & go in no vehicle...he can pick the days I am inside, I have a conceal & carry & HE will get shot if HE breaks in my house with me there!!!! Drugs make a person sick in their head, off in their head & they can KILL YOU!! The State Attorney told me he is also a "MURDERER!!" OMG I almost fainted!! My EX is a "BOY" HE is not going to change EVER & most likely your "boy" is not going to either, they get help bcuz "someone pushes them to get help," then after treatment when the stress keeps happening in HIS life they go back to their same life, watch & see.... "YES" I said "BOY" bcuz a "MAN" would never put a finger on a female EVER!!!! IF HE beats YOU, HE will eventually abuse your chidren.. Your children deserve better! It's all about the children now not the parents...

[@mimitaylorswiftfan4084]

@@countrybabe1111 Ridiculous he got out because of covid- if they had to let anyone out, it should only have been non violent offenders. My ex got a minimum 30 years without parole. I'd freak if he was let out early because of covid. I can't imagine. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this.

[@secemoiraharrell1035]

I hope he gets the help that Steve offered him. He’s got sisters that loves him, a beautiful girlfriend, a beautiful baby daughter and a whole life ahead of him.

[@SARAH_1LEE]

That man was drowning under water for so long until hope came along to save him , that hope was Steve , his family needed help, prayer was answered for this family , I do hope they are a happy family now, this is beautiful, I love when u bring someone back on their feet and help them live normal again

[@jesseferal929]

He a toxic mess. Trying to live with one foot in each world. Never works. Gamble your soul to a stacked Deck

[@SARAH_1LEE]

@@jesseferal929 yeah unfortunately I’m assuming he has so much problems from his childhood, he shouldn’t be hitting women or anything I hate him for that , but if ppl around him still believe in him and want him to change instead of leaving him then he was lucky , not everyone gets an opportunity like that to change their life For the better

[@countrybabe1111]

@@SARAH_1LEE you said the exact words "if people around him want him to change" (This does not work) HE has to hit bottom, "HE has to want help for hisself" HE only said HE wanted help bcuz his girl & Steve AND all the audience wanted HIM to get help.. This always fails... When he gets stressed on the littlest thing HE WILL go right back to drugs & alcohol & say F* it.. She will see... IF theres another show, we will all see... Her children come 1st now not a "boy" & not herself... To me HE is a narcississt most definately...

[@Lethalweapon123]

@@countrybabe1111 well he is getting help though that is a good thing

[@countrybabe1111]

@@Lethalweapon123 Not really bcuz he has to want the help hisself after hitting rock bottom & he knows if he doesnt get clean his gf will still take him back.. Steve, his girl & the audience are the ones pushing him to get help... I hope there's another show to tell everyone if he changed... He is 19 yrs old & way to young to be a Dad also...

[@sammmk341]

It takes alot of strength for Steve to keep his emotions in check!! For him not to flip out at people!! RESPECT!! ✌

[@stormysamuel4666]

The maturity of those two young women is truly amazing!!!!!

[@angelahughes3486]

You can SEE the sweetness inside of him! … I think he has never had a father/mother figure to guide him!! He IS worth it! She IS worth it! …and the two sisters ARE worth it!! And those little babies ARE MORE THAN WORTH!!

[@nwaiwe949]

Bro what

[@queenkatherineofaragon513]

I too saw his tenderness.

[@deebenson135]

We need an update on this show. I hope he turned his life around and is becoming a better person to his girlfriend and sisters. I seen potential in him i just hope he's strong enough to change

[@Locopueblo]

women love seeing "potential". You can't marry potential. You can't teach kids to see the potential. I DO hope he turned it around but I hope this lady left him.

[@dollhead2039]

Living life on the hopes of fulfilled “potential” and what-ifs is a surefire way to self-sabotage.

[@natalielyons5951]

I know I wish we had an update on them!

[@amberallen2994]

I agree! We need an update on this show. I sure hope he got better, but I have a feeling that it won't happen. He definitely looked like he wasn't committed to it. For his children's sake, I hope I'm wrong. ❤

[@deevillarreal9475]

Yes we do. When was the taping? How far out are we. He has to do better. He had to be doing better, remind of the scriptures, of a dog puking and returning to eat his own vomit. Everytime I here young ones say I saw other ones doing it, and it looked cool to me so I did it. Shot at 10. 🙄 Wake up

[@goinghome6816]

Once someone hits you; Woman or man , LEAVE!!!!!! I thought at 17 yrs old "love" would be enough to conquer what was wrong with my partner. Today , I'm in my mid 40"s and am still haunted by what I put up with....

[@countrybabe1111]

You said the sole truth here in your post... I went thru the same & I feel the same as you 😉 I am trying to heal but I feel we will never ever heal fully or forget...

[@amandawallace105]

When ppl are young they think they can help change ppl. As ppl get older you realize they have to want to change themselves. 🏃‍♀️ Run

[@Animalfarm6cats]

I thought at 37, I finally, met the perfect man. Everything was about loving me. That's until I told him I loved, him. For 15, years with all this back and forth, I finally said NO!!!! NOT ANY LONGER. I am 53, I'm haunted by how stupid I was. Maybe one day I'll meet someone. If not I'm ok too.

[@juliejason8849]

I believe in 2nd chances for alot of things.. but not hitting. Once u get hit and stay it's almost like giving them permission to do it again. I feel that if your partner hits you then they don't love u enough for you to stick around. Some lines should never be crossed.

[@psmith932529]

Please give us an update! This is breaking my heart! I really needed that cry tho!

[@joshsmindset]

i heard he in jail for triple homicide..

[@Asuhdude23]

Steve: who shot you? Cameron: I ain’t no snitch 😂😂

[@marthaframe5673]

Best show ever. I have never cried so as watching this show. The sisters loves them both and the young man he acted like a great guy just needed someone to support him. Thanks Steve for being there for this family. I pray they continue on getting along and praying he gets a better job. 🙏🙏🙏

[@ElliottTaylor-qm2rx]

He’s a liar bro. I went to school with him in Oologah. He thinks he’s cool. He tries to sound tough. He chose his life. He could’ve stayed at home in the country living a good life. He’s dumb

[@vintagevirgo]

when the little sister said I just want you to stop I don't want anyone to get hurt, the look the brother gave her... so sad, and her fiddling her hands behind her cause she's scared and nervous omg... :(im literally in tears

[@roseannheckel4800]

I WANT AN UPDATE IF THIS GUY REALLY CHANGED N TOOK THE HELP & made a DIFFERENCE FOR HIMSELF & his FAMILY! Please give us an update

[@rollinstoned8447]

Na, he still gang banging. Currenty in jail for triple homicide...😢

[@blazaybla22]

@@rollinstoned8447You just made that up or you know em?

[@ElliottTaylor-qm2rx]

He went to prison for killing someone I think it was a triple homicide. He’s still there. He’s a story teller. “Pistol play” was what he wanted at that time it was more than obvious and it was all he talked about. And it WAS NOT forced on him. He had a choice. He could’ve grew up in the country. He ran away to go be in gangs. He admitted to anyone who would listen that he did this. He had a choice. His little brother took the better choice after watching him. He’s a bad dude. He’s a fake story teller. He is a manipulator. His brother is terry brown. I went to school with them both in Oologah. Just outside Tulsa. He ain’t ever gonna change

[@ElliottTaylor-qm2rx]

@@blazaybla22he didn’t make it up. I went to school with dude. He’s a low life story teller. Literally was captured by police and sent back home to Oologah in the county to live a good life with his gma. He would run away and choose a shitty life cause it was “cool” to him. He never grew up. He’s in prison facts. I was with his brothers baby momma last year this is all facts

[@marigalindo5366]

I’m in tears. This was once myself and my husband. We started off as a young couple. We both needed a lot of growing up to do. We both have fight hard to make it work. It’s never easy stop the vicious cycle of abuse, drugs, and everything else. We started attending church and asking for help from the pastors and years later, we now pastor a small church. I’m praying this young man makes it and proves that change is possible.

[@shenniganz5050]

Sure would love an update on these two

[@Hcxo227]

Samee 😭

[@joshsmindset]

i heard he in jail for triple homicide..

[@monsoonBloom]

He doesn't want to stop his alcohol and drugs and doing it for "someone else" doesn't work. The behavior is not condoned because he is "on drugs and alcohol". His addictions are his best friends and the most important in his life.

[@ChrisAndCats]

Having lived with an alcoholic, I completely agree. They have to want to do it. When they don't, it's pointless to try, it never works.

[@roserollins9800]

Totally agree

[@jesseferal929]

Yes and he will throw everything under the bus without hesitation for those drugs and alcohol

[@liyahgisele]

@@ChrisAndCats right my dad is an alcoholic. Drinks everyday so sad

[@ChrisAndCats]

@@liyahgisele it's hard work living with them too. You never know what's coming next.

[@juliad1985]

That dude is genuinely scary and dangerous and this is coming from someone who grew up in Baltimore city! This is one of the most real and serious episodes that I have seen because this dude ain’t trying to play tough, he is hard-core and doesn’t know any other way. He’s the type of dude that you will see on the 10 o’clock news. I see no soul in his eyes like he’s drugged out and his girlfriend seems completely defeated. I mean, for a man to strangle his little sister and beat the crap out of his pregnant Gf and seems to have no remorse… He may say that he wants help but his actions and body language say different. I think this woman needs to run before something happens to her or before social services takes her kids away from her for allowing them to be in a home with domestic violence.

[@countrybabe1111]

HE displays all behaviors of being a "narcissist!" She better "BEWARE!"

[@blazaybla22]

Well you’d know better than me but what I saw for a lot of the episode is a young man who really just wanted to cry for most of the show but is good at the stoic affect and doesn’t know how to have a healthy outlet for his emotions because he has no positive masculine role models in his life. I’ve seen people on the show and in real life who are just dead inside and something about the way he answered Steve’s questions just seemed totally the opposite of that. To me he was really thinking about the most honest answer. Which imo just isn’t something that the really irredeemable people try to do, or even can do.

[@rizumu-8937]

my boyfriend grew up surrounded by gangs, his brother and friends were involved in a gang. he knew better from a young age, seeing how people fucked up their lives doing dumb hood shit. never involved himself even when people asked him to join the crew. being in a gang doesn’t excuse you to beat your wife, to choke your younger sister, it doesn’t excuse any bad behaviour because he had CHOSEN to be involved in a gang, he chose to be a shit father, boyfriend and brother- he is ultimately responsible for his shitty choices and actions.

[@traciemartin3785]

@rizumu Thank you! 👏🏾👏🏾 All the excuses for bad behavior & choices are becoming worn out by overuse. I'm so happy for your boyfriend for CHOOSING to do the opposite of the negativity he grew up around. He chose not to use that as an excuse to go out & repeat the cycle of things that can/may hurt himself and/or others. Kudos to him; and may God continue to bless him, you and yours, always. ☺️🙏🏾

[@rizumu-8937]

@@traciemartin3785 just saw this comment, and I appreciate all the love and support ❤️ we are going through a rough patch in our lives right now, so hearing the blessings coming from a stranger reminds me that there is some amazingly good people out there in this crazy world. thank you so much for giving me that beautiful reminder, in a time where I really needed it 🙏 I wish for nothing but positivity, love, and good health to you and your family ❤️

[@kadeelacayo4806]

Good for him

[@kadeelacayo4806]

Not everyone’s the same

[@spellz8677]

This middle sister talking to her brother makes me 😢 she said a lot and I hope he takes heed

[@rollinstoned8447]

Heed?

[@senseimontenegro9703]

Looked like no one ever talked to him like a son until Mr. Wilkos did! He seemed to appreciate it & took it to heart when he accepted the help. I hope he turned his life around. All those beautiful women surrounding him with love & support ... I hope he didn't throw it away!

[@bushidogangwar8479]

And main important is they need to get out of the hood and start a new life and go on a new home

[@Armelleee]

SMH Reminds me soo much of what I've experienced with my sperm donor deadbeat baby daddy and that's why I'm free and happy away from him now. Life is peaceful. Leave ladies!

[@MistyLaneLoveConquersALL]

I left my alcoholic bf and it was the best decision I have ever made! I love being single.

[@jasminegonzales7349]

Good for you girl 💕 wish all is well

[@LEGENDPantherJennings]

@@MistyLaneLoveConquersALL im glad you ok

[@countrybabe1111]

I'm not free of my man the monster!! I finially got rid of HIM!! Read my post under someones post.. "FREE & SINGLE & LOVING EVERY SECOND!!" My EX is a malignant narcissist, he is getting worse & no help or hope for him!! Karma is his worse enemy now 😁 I cannot literally GAG him now & thats a fact!!! "I WON, HE LOST!!"

[@madisontheprice7622]

I’m so happy for you !!!

[@Silver_Bullet1999]

A lot of times we look at men like him as the worst people regardless of age. This story shows that most of these people have experienced extreme trauma in their lives. Unfortunately, most don’t see the error of their ways until it’s too late. This man has realized it before that point, and I’m glad he accepted the help. Does anyone know if the story had an update?

[@louisehayward1168]

Probably the best Steve Wilkos show I have ever seen!!! I would love an update!!!

[@joshsmindset]

i heard he in jail for triple homicide..

[@PinkyAndTheBrain9]

I wish the show would’ve done updates on all these old episodes last year during the pandemic when everything was closed and they couldn’t have an audience. There are sooo many episodes I wish had an update after they went on the show and either got helped or were found guilty for a crime.

[@joshsmindset]

i heard he in jail for triple homicide..

[@PinkyAndTheBrain9]

@@joshsmindset Gdamn! The show should def update us on this POS

[@mightymoose8757]

The way that man looked at her around the 36 minute mark gave me chills. He is dangerous and I'm terrified for that woman and their baby.

[@nadiawelham7737]

yes I saw and felt this too, But I see hope and I hope he uses This.

[@69yearsago93]

It's just his expression. I'd bet its fucking embarrassing to be on here, airing dirty laundry.

[@everso2151]

Thanku! I have very bad vibes coming from him. Very bad.

[@youngcjay8228]

@@everso2151 I agrees, but to be honest i feel like he gave her that look as if he tells her that u know i want that but gang thing I don’t think it’s easy to leave without damages or taxes especially if he stayed in the same neighbourhood 😕 i mean when i got bullied back when i was at school it took many time for changing schools to finally had good one cause sometimes people around never change there attitude u just need to run and find another, imagine more than 6years of fiscal abuse from home and school im 27 now and im still paying back to ma self for that bunch of traumas 💔

[@gabe8776]

This is why I love your show. So intense and powerful. Thank you Steve, Rochelle and crew for so much positive energy. 🌹🌻🌹🌻🌼

[@paigeburleson6932]

Infamous last words “but I love him/them” 🥺 My own tiny opinion is I believe the moment u choose to bring a life into the world, u lose that right to b selfish, if it’s ur life and u wanna put up with that, well that’s ur right, because U love him, but once the baby is here, it should b about what that child NEEDS not what u want, but what do I know 😊

[@wandachristian1884]

Damn! I would love to hear an update and hopefully he got the help and is a great father, husband, and brother.🙏🤞

[@numberone5680]

AND, still alive and all of them have progressed.

[@trudycooper2168]

Awwwh, when he said yes to help, she seemed to perk up a little, i wish that young family the very best, i think that young man will be fine, i saw the look in his eyes when the audience stood up and applauded him, he just needed some support, and he got plenty, he needed to be believed in.

[@raindrops4284]

People like him don't change. Sis, please get strong. Get a good job and leave him. He will always beat u.

[@hahahayess]

The bully has hoop earrings that are almost as big as his girlfriend's. 🤣

[@nicolenash5633]

lmao 😂😂😂

[@countrybabe1111]

Those earrings look totally stupid, I think he borrowed her hoops...lol 😂🤣😂🤣😂😁

[@SunieEssie]

I actually really want an update on this episode.

[@joshsmindset]

i heard he in jail for triple homicide..

[@nicholascresci4412]

I don't understand how people drink/get high and then get violent. Shouldn't that be a time to kick back and enjoy things?

[@fortheloveofkitties702]

I like ya 💥, I get high smoke a joint here and there, then Hungry Happy Sleepy.

[@ResidentOne]

I can't even finish this. This tool talks about how he had it rough growing up, yet he's not doing anything to change the broken cycle for his kids. This sickens me too much.

[@MrBlackspidergaming]

Unfortunately, it’s what usually happens to those who endure things that cause a psychological shift on how they view the world. Hurt people will end up hurting people..

[@GodBlessedThisBod]

This is such a privileged POV, it’s disturbing. Have some understanding that a boy (whose parents probably didn’t set him up for success) was SHOT at 10 years old, clearly traumatized, & has hardly scrapped the surface of life at 19 IS getting help early on… is that not breaking the cycle after having it rough?? He’s doing exactly what you are criticizing him for… NOT TO MENTION GETTING HELP FOR ALCOHOLISM AT 19 IS A HELL OF A BIG STEP TO TAKE! Lots of alcoholics/addicts well into their grays haven’t even taken that step.

[@countrybabe1111]

@@MrBlackspidergaming This is not true I was so badly tortured & abused by my birth dad. I got taken away by social services, the state did not have a placement in foster care so they stuck me in a Girls Detention home with MURDERER'S & attempted murderer's!! Then numerous foster homes... I am the most loving, caring, kind, generous, compassionate ect female alive.. HIS actions & behaviors are his choice & HE needs to STOP using excuses for the horrible way HE is period!! Own up & STOP being a BOY!!! 18 years old HE is a grown man, HE needs to be a man!! When she knew darn good & well of his past, the abusive way he is why would she ever get pregnant! She wants him to change, I do not have faith he will change ever, he only agreed to help bcuz his girl, Steve & the audience pushed him to get help! 90%+ get the treatment & then get released & go straight back to alcohol & drugs... She better "BEWARE" bcuz he is dangerous! HE displays ALL narcississt's behaviors...

[@countrybabe1111]

@Invisible I AM, GOD THINKS SO TOO & ALL THE PEOPLE I HELP EVERYWHERE ALSO THINKS SO 😉😊

[@everso2151]

@@MrBlackspidergaming you are right. You can tell he can’t understand a word Steve is talking about. Steve tried so hard to explain what he was doing wrong. I just saw a blank expression. He can’t comprehend compassion. That may be because he was never shown it himself but his sisters are lovely kind young women. What’s his excuse? Piece of 💩

[@Faithled]

Steve, your the first person I ever seen who defends women like me. I saw you be tough with the perpetrators and healing happened inside me.

[@lillianlopez5217]

We need an updateee🥺🥺 I hope he really got the help & turned his life around 🤞🏼🤞🏼

[@burnerbaby26]

He is the literal definition of “a product of their environment”. Sad.

[@kimberlywest3097]

Only an excuse for the weak. Bringing one’s self up and out of that environment takes strength, the want, need, and passion to rise up and succeed. Many people do push hard to overcome that lifestyle.

[@8213apice]

He needs to grow up

[@8213apice]

@@kimberlywest3097 yup

[@Lovinlife1234]

Yes .so does everyone in prison...

[@happyheartsrealtygroupllcb1770]

I had tears in my eyes when he gave in and agreed to help. I hope there's a follow-up to this show. I'm curious as to how he'll pull out and get rid of his supplies while finding legit work til things turn around? He'll have a ot of support and I'm cheering for them to have happy successful lives❣️

[@fdgd9998]

Steve still have that police mentality. Once a cop, always a cop. This young man didn't have a clue. He stood their incriminating himself over and over again. He should have had a father in his life to teach him the right way. Boys generally do not listen to women, they steer more towards men. It's a shame to see life pass him by.

[@Lenape_Lady]

Nah. My husband had it rough. He’s Salvadorian and grew up in the streets of Elizabeth, NJ. It ain’t a joke there. Ask around. He was MS13. Real gang gang shit. And yet he’s never put a finger on me. Barely even raises his voice when we’re in an argument. He’s quiet. And yet playful and affectionate. It’s inside every male to be a good man. It’s innately KNOWN what the definition of a good man is. Provide and protect. And protection over the woman you love is a NATURAL and PRIMAL reaction. That isn’t something you should have to learn. So if you aren’t doing that…there is something wrong with your brain. Not in a joking way, I mean real brain abnormalities. Brain abnormalities account for much much much more mental illness than ppl realize. The scientific evidence is only now being made public and studied. Having a father show you is great. But there are probably millions of guys who grew up with no father who don’t beat their women. It’s their OWN fault.

[@fdgd9998]

I wasn't addressing the woman beaten, I was addressing manipulation of Steven behavior as a fellow policeman. He kept asking him questions as though he were interrogating him. I don't expect you to understand that part of life because you probably haven't ever being employed in law enforcement. If the young man had a father, he would have taught him the entanglements pertaining to cops. I was. One evokes the 5th on every question. Get it?

[@joshuaweston7787]

@@Lenape_Lady people in general aren't inherently good or bad. We as humans are variable of both. Often but always, domestic abuse is a learned behavior. I agree that brain "abnormalities" are a cause for what we diagnose as mental illnesses. Children do better and are more well adjusted when a father is in the home. Single parenthood homes have a very drastic effect on a child's development, the evidence is clear in that topic. Kids without fathers are far more likely to adopt a criminal lifestyle. Plus they also have a higher chance of not being disciplined in their endeavors.

[@Lenape_Lady]

@@joshuaweston7787 I do understand and agree. But ppl blaming DV on being fatherless is just BS. Yes I completely understand that coming from a broken home or a single mother with no positive male role model is going to affect a child. I can’t even argue that. But not beating your woman isn’t something that only grown, married men in a stable relationship can teach. It should be an innate response to protect the female. We are primates after all. I believe that woman are equal. We shouldn’t and don’t NEED a man to protect us. But isn’t there something in a guys brain telling them to protect the woman they love? I’m not a guy so I can’t say it as a fact. But isn’t there something primal there? If you saw sone strange dude hitting her you would probably go BALLISTIC. I don’t even know you and yet I know that. You’d probably protect her to your dying breathe, your kids too.

[@joshuaweston7787]

@@Lenape_Lady not everyone has the same instincts to do that.

[@raymondbatchelor1372]

1st like you never disappoint. So much better than the Steve Wilkos show with them stupid 30 second clips with no follow up. It’s crazy. Lots of respect to this channel

[@JoshBonesJones]

The ones running this channel also run the show. Same people unless im mistaken

[@emmarose4234]

@@JoshBonesJones, you are right.

[@chilldudie242]

Same people 😂

[@charmainemontanari7673]

Too drawn out

[@raymondbatchelor1372]

@@JoshBonesJones that’s crazy they must of had a million complaints about it

[@corvinvasquez6695]

Steve: what are you doing to provide for your family? Him: selling drugs. Everyone: this guy isn’t that smart if he’s admitting that on National television where police can see it.

[@candicedates6958]

Exactly what I’m saying then he go into straight detail about what he sell talking about pcp, crack etc. Like if you selling all that you def ain’t selling much to eat from if you so bold to speak on it on national Tv

[@joshsmindset]

they would have to open a case and look into him and bring sum evidence. It aint like they just gon handcuff him soon as the show end lol.

[@nicolemoore3912]

I think this young man feels trapped in the lifestyle he chose and so he drinks to try to feel better, and when he gets drunk he takes out his anger and frustrations on his girlfriend and his sisters, I saw the the lost look in his eyes, and the understanding of the impact of his actions when Steve pointed it out, I hope it works out in a positive way for him and his family, Beautiful young people.

[@ladymiss4711]

He definitely need an update ASAP

[@joshsmindset]

i heard he in jail for triple homicide..

[@kathleenkarsten5739]

If there’s ever been a guy to believe in, it’s this young man! I even want to help him! His children will grow and be proud of him, but most importantly, he can hold his head high and be proud of himself! With all my heart, I wish him the best, and the most amazing life! 🥰

[@sarasmith181]

First time being 3rd but now the important things. Got to love Steve and his team. Think of all the life's they change for the better

[@chilldudie242]

First reply

[@georgerodriguez8553]

It's "lives". This is why America is shit. Stupidity abounds.

[@eh-i1841]

@@georgerodriguez8553 but her sentiment is so much better than yours.So,you know how to spell,big deal.Now,see if you can learn to understand.

[@georgerodriguez8553]

@@eh-i1841 Lmao Understand what? They change lives? Most times the woman stays with the low-life moron. Yeah, some change.

[@monaj433]

Never stay in an abusive relationship, no matter what, leave and do not look back, just leave, period

[@jacobseibel8324]

Idk why but I really appreciate how Steve approached this guy he didn't get in his face like he does alot of the guests and it's like there is and understanding having grown up a similar life and Steve really understands that he could have went down that path

[@tenmiltenmil1770]

Monday March 28th 2022 I kinda feel sorry for him ! When he looked at her sideways his eyes showed that he had a thousand years of suffering that became hatred , yet he is only 19 yo ! Where was his father and what kind of mother does he have that he became this way ? Parents having children they cannot afford , letting them survive on their own , like him at age 9 ! I don’t care if I had to sleep on a sofa in my living room and rent out my bedroom but I would do so if it would provide me the funds to move to a better neighborhood with an apartment with extra bedrooms to rent , then I would go to the nearest prescient and ask them what I could do to keep my children off the streets ! My cousin is a retired police officer and she would go around on her days off and introduce these children to bowling , fishing , roller skating , swimming , camping , archery, etc and she would teach them the vital need to stay in school get jobs and invest ! And many parents up in the Bronx in New York City were so UNGRATEFUL ! That was 40 years ago ! Out of the 32 children , 7 stayed with only High School Diplomas but the rest became nurses and teachers and policemen , entrepreneurs, one is an attorney and a few brought and renovated buildings and to her today , those are HER CHILDREN ! She never married nor had kids of their own and on holidays her house is full with over 100 people, HER KIDS, their wives and HER GRANDCHILDREN ! She’s in her 70s now and she still tries to teach parents the important on how to raise their children ! But parents will be parents and in reality no parent wants to be told what to do ! Peace ☮️ ☮️ ☮️

[@debbietrammell6201]

Thank you Steve for all the help you do for others.. God bless you.and iam so happy for that man taking the help that you offer him..

[@killerhit00]

There's so many ways to deal with this guy, Get him while he's asleep, crush some glass and put it in his food, the list goes on and on

[@nicolenash5633]

Lmao damn

[@shaylatanner4713]

Yeah or you leave and you just hope he will get that help but protect your children

[@DriedVix]

Poison in the food. Or heck (his drugs) would be an easy one. Also....this is why everyone needs a good dog. So if your bro starts getting crazy, it's you pulling the dog off him.

[@nannymcnanny5523]

Exactly. Him being abusive is a choice

[@amandastuart3612]

I definitely want an update episode on this family in the future.

[@ruthybrown6726]

I pray this man and his family are doing better.

[@adriedrake8605]

If he truly loves her he would get help and stay sober!!! Love is worth the change...You can do it 🙏🏻 praying for their family ✝️

[@countrybabe1111]

A narcississt does not love anyone & they dont love theirselfs so they are incapable of loving.. He has all traits of a narc!!

[@kadeelacayo4806]

@@countrybabe1111 girl you’re obsessed . Stop putting your experience in line with every single comment

[@bigjunssportstalk]

Never been part of a gang but I was young lost in and out of prison, I thank god for waking me up for showing me another way . You can do it young man

[@yvonnegrassi9219]

Absolutely

[@DidntDonuffin-n2h]

Those sisters are angels 👼 god look over them… god bless them

[@jenn1207]

I hope and pray everything works out for him he’s so lucky he not only had a girl who loved him so much and only wanted him to get help but he also had 2 amazing sisters.. I just hope and pray for those babies he is doing way better.

[@jessicarink7793]

I hope those sisters and his girlfriend had protection when they got home because I have a bad feeling about this. He could have took his anger out on them because they bought him on this show. He needs help though.

[@wahidras5520]

Steve????? May God bless you, your family and your entire staff members. We need heros like u. This world is not perfect but people like you can make it so.

[@vanessajenkins5703]

I think this was the best show I have watched. Had me in tears at the end. I see something in him and he dont really want to be out there. He needs some good guidance and real friends. Thank you Steve Wilco for helping this young man. I will keep him and his girlfriend in my prayers. Hope to see a follow up

[@cherylgarcia3589]

have Some nightmareS Week earth Heaven forever Llama one ikon USA kiS Think What Here

[@MamaOf22892]

My boyfriend is the same way, but he doesn’t lay a hand on me. He’s mentally abusive towards our children and I. He has MS because of the pain he’s in all the time. He can’t take pain medication because they mess him up. I’ve been with my boyfriend since the 90’s, he has changed over the years. I can keep going. I will not be put on a show for my boyfriend to change. He’s going to do what he wants and when he wants . I’m 8 months & 11 days older than him. I’m so so proud of Cameron for taking the help. I pray his life changes for the better for their children

[@MissKae_85]

Steve handled this so well… I hope there’s an update somewhere

[@xwannabeetinkerbellx]

“You havent grown up how I have” Love how they act like they know that

[@rico-tu2ib]

Wym by they🤔😭

[@xwannabeetinkerbellx]

@@rico-tu2ib other guests have said this. Luckily Steve didn’t have to Rough of a childhood but big guys like dr Phil and opera have, and even their guests act like they were just handed a show

[@SRSumma]

I hope he follows through and gets and receives the help Steve is offering. I would love to hear and or see an update in a few months.

[@dizzyroach]

This was one of the most moving episodes of this show I've ever seen. It's like there was no crowd, they weren't taping a TV show, it was just two men: one who needed help, and one who wanted to give him help

[@lindae5023]

What a beautiful family it's sad but true life is hard especially when your born and raised in an environment where there's turmoil but it's up to you to change that cycle of life and become a better person to live a better safe and productive life especially when u bring baby's into this world.i hope them the best and God bless them with a bright and better future.❤️❤️

[@Kara-kx1lb]

I hope that Cameron gets help. And that Steve does a follow-up on these people.

[@joshsmindset]

i heard he in jail for triple homicide

[@ciiroz8325]

This show touched my soul. I always am so disgusted with gang members and their attitude! But i watched this guy's face and when he walked his shoulders and whole demeanor was that of a BROKEN SOUL. Brought up with no protection, gangland and no chance of leaving-peer pressure probably and also you need to look tough! I felt pain watching his eyes and broken shoulder walk! He broke me into pieces honestly! Something about him broke me up! Of course I do not condone beating, strangling etc he is doing. The drugs, drink are part of his 'system' of survival in his world. Gosh he needs soooo much help like to be sent to a sort of place to recover years of pain, anguish, confusion, and even not much positivity around him. I wish I could help him but dont know how as I myself am not really perfect. Steve, can I write to him - I am old enough to be his mum - sooo it would be words of encouragement and might help. Anything helps in this day and age! I am feeling like God sent me something as have been judging people and this guy broke that hard spirit of who cares about a gangbanger going round selling drugs etc! But not his fault as he may not know there is another world out there! Hope all family is well and he too. Please these young people stop having children. There is all types of family planning and they are not ready! Also, was upset girlfriend having a second baby at this time. What does it take to educate young people that bringing children into the world is a huge responsibility and they are not set up for it at all? Anyway, hope all well. Would like to write to Cameron words of encouragement to help himself and family. Let me know.

[@countrybabe1111]

He has all the traits of a narcissist...

[@rollinstoned8447]

Hi ciiro. No, unfortunatly, you can't help. Sorry. Hope that helps.👍 - Steve Wilkos.

[@wahidras1766]

Little sister is so sweet and cute, also smart. The guy doesn't seem to be a bad person. He never had someone older to guide him the right path. All of them are young and can be very strong and happy family. I am glad they reached out to Steve. Now I am sure they will be alright. Steve? May God bless you, your family and your staff for helping people.

[@countrybabe1111]

HE has to hit bottom from drugs & alcohol... He has to want for help hisself & ask for help hisself which he did not! Help works sometimes after the addicted person seeks & receives the help on their own..

[@evityhalas4745]

I hope this young man is doing better now.Thank God he had a loving partner and family to help.Im so proud of him being able to admit he needed help.I hope they're all doing better.

[@sapiophile545]

I notice that, we all are rooting for this young man. 🕊️✨🕯️🕯️✨🕊️

[@terri3583]

This is one episode I want an update on.

[@Blizzy3225]

" Well see if he gets help"! Steve Wikos do an update on this dude

[@duality9936]

What I feel like he needs to be telling these people is because you're going to treat your baby's mother badly and abusively that will affect the child in the long run creating possible mental health issues for your own child and even dependencies drugs because of pain in their life from watching abuse happening to their mother by a father who drinks and uses too much drugs it affects the child while in the womb when abuse is happening regardless if you hit the stomach or not it's still affects the child

[@leo1899]

I don’t get all the sympathy for this guy. I’ve worked with a lot of domestic abuse couples and I could tell he was abusive just by his face. He has that dark aura about him. He may be acting out as a result of pain, but that doesn’t excuse his behavior. Many others go through hard times and don’t abuse their spouse. He needs to seek help for his issues. In the meantime, any potential partners should stay far away from him. “Potential” and hoping he magically changes overnight isn’t worth the risk.

[@valeried4561]

Beautiful story. Rooting for this man!!! One day at a time...💚🙏 He can do it.

[@ivorgoodlife8114]

This guys eyes show anger,resentment,and pain the combination for a long stint inside some prison if she stays with him she’s dicing with death

[@yvonnegrassi9219]

His eyes show a darkness about him. I sure hope he can change his ways for his baby and family.

[@Raraking4796]

Did they ever do a update? I sure hope this whole family is healing and doing good! I truly hope all of their lives have made a huge turn for the better.

[@joshsmindset]

i heard he in jail for triple homicide..

[@anastasiajones9953]

We NEED AN UPDATE 🔜 ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ here’s to hoping he made a change!

[@underscore55]

This was a sad story that’s all I got to say

[@karenstafford724]

Why oh why do these women stop with these evil bastards that call themselves MEN ???. There is always help out there for everyone if they did it. All they have to do ,ois ask for it.

[@sharonsimmons7824]

I love Steve Wilkos amazing man inspiration for all people.Thanks for all you do.Blessings to you Much❤love always.

[@patrickmiller1834]

He’s a zero he really doesn’t want help. At some point in his life he might but not now

[@ellekay4758]

Steve’s right - he does have the most amazing women (including his daughter) in his life and they’re SO worth fighting for.

[@debbiestrain2477]

Please show an update on this show!!

[@UmairKhan29638]

Daaamn,i thought this would go wrong but he is damn calm,and the way he looks around actually does look like he is dangeros,thats how you look like and act like when you are to deep in that gang shit,but know that he accepted the help i really hope he is doing much better today.

[@vlucidity]

I want an update on this situation

[@briannabeckwith1388]

It’s so sad because I’ve been there my ex did all of this when I was pregnant with our daughter and my son seen his own dad yell and shove me down the hallway. I got out! I got help he doesn’t get to see his kids because he is a low life doesn’t have a job and still on drugs. I was there scared thinking I can change him but he almost killed me when I was pregnant. I still struggle to trust men because of him. Poor women that go through this without the help hurts me.

[@briannabeckwith1388]

I was close to even seeing if I can get on this show. I didn’t know what to do. Sadly I was there wanting to put him on blast for what he done to me and he took my son away from me taking him to drug houses and I didn’t know if my son got a hold of the coke his dad was doing since I seen photos and proof of it all. Broke my heart I freaked out went to court finally got my babies full custody!!! If he isn’t going to change please get that help!!!

[@chilldudie242]

Addiction is a sign of narcissistic tendencies Any addiction

[@sararosales2943]

I was a severe alcoholic for years but when I had my son 9 years ago I quit everything. I drank to numb pain from getting beat..everyone has a different reason. He's just a jerk..😞

[@chilldudie242]

@@sararosales2943 I used to smoke bud and drink to numb the pain of being raised by abusive parents but I was really just angry and frustrated, once I forgave my abusers and set boundaries so nobody could ever abuse me again, I didn't feel the need to serve myself with bud and alcohol I was such a selfish angry person back then

[@sararosales2943]

So sorry to hear that, but also happy you got better!

[@annamartin2569]

It’s actually most common in people with mental issues

[@vickiebarnette1524]

I see so much good in this guy behind the tough man act. I hope he turned around because wow what he could do living a normal life.