Ghosted My Cheating Wife, Years Later, She's Still Trying to Track Me Down for a Reconciliation

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@GereldJohnson 8 ай бұрын

She'll always love him and will do anything to get him back except stay faithful.

@thecursed01 7 ай бұрын

it wasn't even "just" the cheating, it's how she treated him in that time.

@Popcu1tYt 6 ай бұрын

If she can’t stay faithful, then she doesn’t deserve love of a romantic type. Many people believe in second chances, but personally when it comes to cheating in relationships, I do not believe in a second chance.

@manishkumar-oq7dj 5 ай бұрын

@@Popcu1tYtabsolutely true man, Even if you give her a second chance, she will definitely beg for a third chance

@MrWirelesscaller 4 ай бұрын

@@Popcu1tYt I only do if I can insure her, take her to a foreign country, and she "disappears". Damn those wild predators we encountered on the African safari, oh well her screams didn't last that long when they were eating her... luckily all that insurance money will allow me to get over her with a younger, prettier, and temporary replacements all over the world.

@Gingerbreadwastaken 4 ай бұрын

Its bulshit she spitting now The only reason she even wants him back because her life is now a dumpster fire

@RandomGuy-ej9gr 5 ай бұрын

The only reason she tried to ‘win you back’ is because the other guy told her to F off.

@marquistf1996 4 ай бұрын

I agree. She would be married to him instead if he was interested.

@kankit230 3 ай бұрын

Not always many times they come back because they realize no one would actually love them without their body

@marcoamelio4299 2 ай бұрын

can you say that because you know her?, she would have had no problem finding someone else. could it ever happen that repentance is real?

@curbnug3487 2 ай бұрын

@@marcoamelio4299you can fix mistakes. What she did was not a mistake. It was betrayal that's something that only truly evil people can do. There is no forgiveness there is no repentance. Because they have no remorse for their actions. And They only feel pain for themselves if they face consequences for their actions. If they truly wanted repentance they would accept all responsibility, and do whatever their partner decided. If they want everything including their children and never want to see you again. They would agree without hesitation. But that never happens. Because they only care about themselves.

@IamMortui 2 ай бұрын

@@kankit230 You really need to teach us to be as smart as you.

@Olimar92 8 ай бұрын

Mistake, you always know the cheater will say that. Mistakes only happen when you don't mean to do something. Like getting the wrong color paint. Cheating is a choice.

@duewhat9815 8 ай бұрын

That's an accident, not that it being a mistake is a good enough excuse for anything...especially not cheating.

@dakotamartin523 8 ай бұрын

What you never tripped fell and landed on a dick. Pfft it happens ok….

@cafelatte1124 8 ай бұрын

It's written in hoe bag handbook chapter 3

@samolofsson2401 8 ай бұрын

A misstake is miss remember what type of coffe someone likes and buying the wrong brand, cheating as you said is a active choice.

@KegWarrior 8 ай бұрын

@@samolofsson2401 A mistake is an active choice, it's a choice that you admit was wrong or misguided...saying something is a mistake is more akin to saying you regret it than it is to saying it wasn't intentional. Saying something was a mistake is like saying "damn I wasn't thinking right when I made my decision." The reason saying it was a mistake when trying to earn forgiveness is stupid for the same reason doing anything other than apologizing and admitting you were wrong is stupid, they only serve two purposes, to garner sympathy in hopes to receive some amount of forgiveness without earning it or it's a coping mechanism that you use on yourself to not feel as bad about your actions as you know you should.

@Regnart_Seht 8 ай бұрын

If a cheater says they'd do anything to win you back, all you need to ask is, "Would you remain faithful to me?" Of course, they will promise yes. Then you respond, "That's what you promised the first time." Maybe they never said those words out loud, but when you get married or enter a monogamous relationship, it is implied.

@ashsteele7361 8 ай бұрын

In this particular story, op and his ex did promise. They were married. It's safe to assume infidelity was mentioned in some way in vows. Op could have used that I suppose.

@SkyEcho751 8 ай бұрын

Personally, I wouldn't do that. I'd ask them: "You've already lied to me and proven untrustworthy, why should I believe you when you say you'll do anything to be redeemed?"

@lilfairycupcake 8 ай бұрын

words have absolutely no value anyways. cheap, meaningless, worthless. all that matters is actions.

@Alex_FRD 7 ай бұрын

Monogamy is not implied in marriage, it *is*.

@Itsfinnagetmessi 7 ай бұрын

ccfd5%

@FunnyStripes 8 ай бұрын

As we say here, the wolf may lose its fur, but never its vice. Cheater once, cheater forever. If it happened once, it's only a matter of time before it happens again.

@primigenius623 8 ай бұрын

Wisdom. 💯

@MineQley 7 ай бұрын

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@infectiousfungi3188 6 ай бұрын

I disagree. While I do believe that most cheaters would cheat again, its only because they haven't attempted to change, which makes sense, cahnge is difficult. I believe anyone is able to change, we are biologically made to do so. I encourage you to have an open mind, maybe not about cheating but atleast other things.

@smoban 5 ай бұрын

@@infectiousfungi3188i agree

@komakechjames 4 ай бұрын

😂

@paulofaquin 6 ай бұрын

Cheating is never a mistake or a accident, it's a premeditated crime. As long as the person isn't caught, they will never let the cheated partner know and won't ever feel guilty about it, they will even treat the victim badly and feel somewhat superior, a little smug for doing that and getting away with it.

@Vismotrix-m 5 ай бұрын

I can say the same for any kind of wrong doing, you'll never feel guilt for when you never get caught, the time you're caught by then you'll feel denial

@paulofaquin 5 ай бұрын

@@Vismotrix-m Right, people who has a conscience and regrets their crimes or mistakes confess and seek to make amends and gain forgiveness, if you only regret it after getting caught, you aren't regretting the crime, you are just regretting getting caught.

@SilentHotdog28 3 ай бұрын

@@paulofaquin The witch in this video is not regretful (only regrets getting caught) But there are very occasional examples of people regretting their cheating and confess. Although it is rare. Because when a woman cheats, she doesn't respect the man that she is with anymore, so she doesn't think he is worthy of guilt. When a man cheats, he doesn't want to ruin a good thing (2 or more women at once? why would I confess?) Some people do it once and immediately confess and regret it. My former sister in law cheated once (my brother was being an absolute prick) she regretted it and told him the day after. He didn't want to be with her anymore. Turns out my brother's future wife set the whole thing up hoping that she cheats and they break up. She was then with him for years and cheated on him countless times, abused him (physically and emotionally) and had her brothers beat him up to keep him from leaving. When he finally left just last year, he admitted that he should have stayed with the first one and has since forgiven her and said that he treated her like crap and drove her to do it. He's now with a 3rd person and they have a child on the way. My first nephew is about to be born.

@Hoki4 8 ай бұрын

If it was me in this man's shoes and the ex found me, I would have just told her "No, I do not want to talk with you at all, or see you at all since a pile of shit is worth to me more than you ever will be". When I leave anyone behind me and move on, it literally means moving on. I give absolutely no attention to them and say only the things I need to, nothing else. Some people I will never give any sort of attention again, not even as little as hey.

@primigenius623 8 ай бұрын

This is the way.

@kevinhunter871 6 ай бұрын

The story being narrated is actually from "Literoctica" in Cheating wives stories! I actually read the story in early 2023 and the guy did move on with a younger, more beautiful Lady and cut his ex-wife permanently from his life. It was a great story with a perfect ending for the guy and his new wife! Kevin. Australia

@ChimObiajulu 8 ай бұрын

Whenever as a betrayed man you think of forgiving the Jezebel, remember that she would beg him to put it back in when it slipped out. Remember she would moan when he did. Remember she availed her body in every intimate way.

@SnowKierkegaard 8 ай бұрын

Damn, I printed this man.

@CriticalPopulistAnarchist 8 ай бұрын

That’s some poetry right there brother!

@Forit26 8 ай бұрын

bro is spittin’

@StarboyXL9 6 ай бұрын

Based. Leave Jezebel for the dogs.

@lemonhead9628 5 ай бұрын

@@StarboyXL9Biblically Accurate 💯👌

@noonecares269 8 ай бұрын

Why do cheaters always say "it was a mistake", thats like the stupidest answer to give to SO. They should just say that it was their decision to chose not a mistake. A mistake is something that can be corrected and never do again because now you know what not to do and prevent a problem from happening in the future. A decision to cheat is something you can't come back from, it will always be their no matter how much you try to forget about it. Cheaters need to start learning themselves in choice of words. I'm happy OP is finally happy and he should have just told ex to stay the hell away the very moment he saw her. That should have been the end to that train wreck. Let's just say what we all think men have more options than women. OP has the company of women left and right while the ex is experiencing depressing, angry emotions and that's her fault, not OPS. Good luck OP and live a happy successful life without the toxic drama.

@PocketFullOfBacon 8 ай бұрын

The first thing cheaters what to do is shift blame if it was a mistake then it's no one's fault not theirs. And ya I like OP's will he didn't back down from her manipulation about starting a new

@janteun3 6 ай бұрын

Or they always say it didn't mean, anything bud they stil do it 🤣

@furretman3741 6 ай бұрын

"IT WAS AN ACCIDENT!" Cheating is a choice, you chose to cheat.

@francoistombe 6 ай бұрын

You cannot undo an infidelity. You cannot uncrack a mirror.

@namenome3680 7 ай бұрын

these fake stories are hilarious

@MineQley 7 ай бұрын

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@Deathadder90 5 ай бұрын

The "I'm the one that got away" made it too obvious, that or the "cute as hell a few years younger girl on the trail".

@YimYum911 5 ай бұрын

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

@espadavalhalain3533 5 ай бұрын

Entertaining nevertheless

@rougepheonix2185 4 ай бұрын

Had a feeling when dude said "we tied the knot after dating for 8 months" 8 MONTHS???

@scar445 8 ай бұрын

only 1 minute and 10 seconds in, and I knew it would go wrong. Getting married after only 8 months?? thats insanity.

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@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022 5 ай бұрын

Wrong. Married my wife after 9 months, proposed in three. Fifteen happy years and counting. Her Brother in law married her sister in 3 months,...30 year anniversary this year. Key to both marriages, let God come first and let Him pick by His standards and stop picking after your own. We both did that for over forty years before we realized that we are not good at seeing the future but there is someone above us who can. Be blessed.

@3rdGamer 5 ай бұрын

@@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022Amen. I married my wife this past Feb. 29th, 2024. We met February 26th, 2023. It’s a blessing to be led by The Lord in this life. Especially when you’re with the woman whom you love.

@lolocaust4967 5 ай бұрын

@@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022 the plural of anecdote isn't evidence. You got lucky. The vast majority of marriages that take place this quickly fail.

@RadialNoah 4 ай бұрын

@@lolocaust4967the majority of marriages in general fail, especially in the US, regardless of how long dating and engagement took place. I know plenty of Christian couples that only dated briefly and have happy marriages. Absolutely depends on if both husband and wife were brought up with good, traditional morals.

@SteveMichael 8 ай бұрын

The real question he should have asked was "If the OP had turned out to be a great guy, and someone who was single and had a lot going for him, would we be here discussing you wanting me back today?"

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@philipturner9087 8 ай бұрын

She’s gaslighting she knew she was hurting him and in fact relished hurting him. Denying bedroom time while getting it off with Chad who fiancée in a cheap hotel.

@tommybronze3451 5 ай бұрын

of course she’s moving to different state - that sociopath just want a clean title to lure another sucker in to cheat on…

@brownguyyash5295 5 ай бұрын

She was a snake. Nothing of worth was lost.

@christianbenn316 5 ай бұрын

A total snake

@ruydm 7 ай бұрын

I wish all the best for this man. I'm genuinely sad and happy for him.

@Deathadder90 5 ай бұрын

It's a fake story from reddit. 🤨

@peteh.5142 5 ай бұрын

Red flag when they start to argue over stupid shit.

@tunasandwich8049 5 ай бұрын

This smells like your typical revenge manga Even the intro sounds like a manga title lmao

@brandanpalmer 3 ай бұрын

Remember: cheating isn’t a mistake. It’s a thousand consecutive “mistakes”

@asufib6619 6 ай бұрын

I love it. Just walk away from 304s they are not worth the effort.

@rangingaway92 6 ай бұрын

Women will always play victim. It's never her fault. That's why I never talk to any ex that comes back just tell them to get lost. A simp is a simp tho.

@scarlet16moons5 4 ай бұрын

I'm sorry, I feel like you misspelled narcissists

@rangingaway92 3 ай бұрын

There's no narcissist in my reply. I just said the guy was a simp for doing it all then talking to her like nothing happened

@magnawaves 4 ай бұрын

He never should have agreed to speak to her when she tracked him down. Why was he at the airport when she was? Redditors are so weird

@Kaleeto-k1v Ай бұрын

She thought the grass was greener until she her destination was a dry land and now she wants him back what a joke😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@WildArmACF 5 ай бұрын

If she loved you, why would she cheat? No forgiveness

@DennisTheMenace420 3 ай бұрын

reason she hit you up isn’t because she give a f about you, its because nobody gives a f about her

@kittycait1485 5 ай бұрын

I wanna say that this is exactly what I would do if I get cheated on, but the number of my friends who told me that I'm that woman in Gone Girl if I get cheated on tells me that I'm wrong.

@slimmsg7 4 ай бұрын

damn bro, im so sorry !!! weve all been there, thanks for sharing ❤

@grt8guy03 3 ай бұрын

Amen for my brother, Not SIMPING for a cheater

@GTTheSignifier 4 ай бұрын

Stacy would be excomunicado after snitching on location to my ex wife.

@pedrolero 5 ай бұрын

As a lesson, make good friends and keep good company.

@FIoridaMilkMan 3 ай бұрын

“Tied the knot after dating for 8 months” and that’s where you fucked up. Not even a year and you get married? Cmon bro

@pvtcantrell74d 4 ай бұрын

When you’re thinking about taking back your cheating ex, just remember. At one point it slipped out and she helped him put it back in. That’ll bring you back to a clear state of mind. Keep your head up.

@jorgevespucci9878 5 ай бұрын

High-powered executive wife... blatant affair, but yet op doesn't document it and take half her money. Bs.

@danielaguirre9992 7 ай бұрын

The memories of that deception will alway be with you. Move on.

@stacktus9158 2 ай бұрын

People don’t change. Once a cheater always a cheater.

@swgraphics9059 7 ай бұрын

She could not bag her boss.

@brianten-in2zw Ай бұрын

Never give a cheating 304 closure. Never.

@EvilTeabags 3 ай бұрын

"We FINALLY tied the knot after dating for 8 months" Yeah, thats why she cheated on you. Waaaaay to soon to get married, that gave her certainty that you were way more into her than she was into you. When a low quality woman has certainty, they get bored and bullshit ensues.

@sirtriston8882 4 ай бұрын

Keep running she only wants to be granted an opportunity to get revenge.

@manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145 4 ай бұрын

A few years ago, me and my high school budies met at a bar. And my ex crush, she's already married, made a joke about how innocent I was because every sign she sent me during those years pass unnoticed, but basically it was now too late for that. After the revelation I almost threw myself at the highway. 😂😢

@RickyRudeboy1 5 ай бұрын

How many times are they going to repost this story??? It's was posted in 2019....

@Kermit_E_Frog 4 ай бұрын

"Don't call me a chump" This dude is absolutely a chump. I don't feel bad for people like him that don't stick with their convictions. Even giving her that bit of hope is pathetic.

@erickaennis2738 4 ай бұрын

It's amazing how cheaters always want some kind of closure. He owed her no time. I'd love an update on how Op is doing now.

@Jantangan 4 ай бұрын

Ray is the ray of sunshine in the gutwrecking world. We all should be Ray.

@adjwindu70 6 ай бұрын

They got married after only 8 months of dating? They didnt even take the time to live together to get to know each other.

@kyledabearsfan 4 ай бұрын

I want to live in the mountains away from psychos

@jrrizz0563 4 ай бұрын

I stopped listening after 8 months before getting married... doesn't matter how good she makes you feel. Live with her for two years before proposing.

@ariesblack861 3 ай бұрын

Amends, makes the guilty feel better..

@jagrajtakhi8265 2 ай бұрын

She belongs to the streets stay safe kings

@mikey_vengenz 4 ай бұрын

How can you ghost your WIFE? You're bound legally.

@gajemouje 4 ай бұрын

I received apologies,several even,but I have a hard time recovering,am really from the truthfull ones

@aatish4697 4 ай бұрын

Everything went fine till he fell for her momentarily guilt act and started consoling her.

@atibamaule 5 ай бұрын

I recommend the books "Understanding the Purpose and Power of Men" and "Understanding the Purpose and Power of Women".

@balerion77 3 ай бұрын

1:06 8 months only ?? SSMAACKK! 🙆🏻‍♂️

@mikef2811 3 ай бұрын

When your wife is never home, you know she is cheating. It does not take a genius to figure that out.

@tkb5726 3 ай бұрын

Shoutout Ray. True GOAT

@thatsbrujaafrikana 3 ай бұрын

I'm so proud of Paul!!!!!

@rolyrod69 4 ай бұрын

Well done brother. Always remember- she belongs to the streets.

@creestee08 5 ай бұрын

When i feel sad cuz i dont have kids or a wife, I stumble on these videos and remind myself why i am one. I got too many issues. 😢😂

@allanmathewborja1198 5 ай бұрын

We need a friend like "Rey" in our lives.

@skyblazeXIII 6 ай бұрын

"Track me down for reconciliation"? The fuck? Stalker much?🤦🏾‍♂️ That is creepy as fuck. Women be saying men are creepy stalkers, but when women be doing shady stalker shit and men call it out they get trolled out. Stalking is stalking. That creepy shit....hell no!

@remerson4 5 ай бұрын

Doesn't sound as bad as the woman in the grocery store that followed a cute guy around, peaked his name from his card at the checkout counter then stalked his mom on Facebook, saw she was into knitting or some activity then joined her group, befriended her and eventually became friends with the guy

@Deathadder90 5 ай бұрын

Shit's fake.

@knerf999 4 ай бұрын

Big difference between talking and communicating

@willmcknight1764 4 ай бұрын

Lol I almost expect him and the guy to hook up.

@kacchanvotlenick6499 6 ай бұрын

Damn. This is why I will always hate and will always stay single. I can't be bothered to have the energy and empathy enough to deal with this.😂😂😂

@backbanchers756 3 ай бұрын

A wise man once said never go back to your ex it will ruin you from inside out these stories are just fiction don't fall for them the person who cheated you once that person can cheat you again and this time you will be finished(I am talking about not only girls but also men)

@shinalust287 2 ай бұрын

"It was a mistake" No it isnt there are so many steps to cheating. There are so many times to say no and stop before it actually happens. It isn't a mistake they only say that when they get caught, it is always a choice to cheat.

@humanXperiencesRetold 4 ай бұрын

Why do people say cheating is a mistake???? HOW IS IT A MISTAKE when there are soooo many chances to back out? Let's lay it out. Initial contact - harmless Curiosity - let's be generous and say harmless Little flirting - Harmlessish but also aware that things could escalate Full blown flirting - dangerous territory but still a chance to back out Physical touch (just pats here and there) dangerous but still opportunity to back out Thigh strokes and other physical touch but no kissing yet - DANGEROUS but still opportunity to get out. Kissing - DANGEROUS ND enough to wake you the fuck up and realize that you are fucking up Tearing clothes with lust - DANGEROUS but still can regain composure and walk out. Exchange of genital fluids - DANGEROUS AND IN MY OPINION complete disregard for your primary relationship and outright selfish but one can still snap out of it and realize the shit they are pulling and get it together. A full blown sexual affair.... Yeah, that's NOT A MISTAKE. HAVE it and the same way you easily give out your body to another with reckless abandon, that energy should be maintained when the chicken comes home to roost.

@vincea1830 5 ай бұрын

A cheater is someone who is too immature to have an adult conversation and break up with their partner. I've seen people go so far as to stage a ln affair so that my friend came home and saw her boyfriend in bed with another woman. That one blew my mind 😅

@xanderjackson8518 6 ай бұрын

I swear I've heard a slight variation of this story.

@butcher24yrold 6 ай бұрын

Yup.

@lilfairycupcake 8 ай бұрын

expect nothing, andyour best bet is just expect them to do it, then your never let down. they are all 304s.

@veryfrozen3271 4 ай бұрын

If you cheat he isnt the one that got away hes the one you got away from to cheat 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@slydogger 4 ай бұрын

Should’ve changed the locks on the way out.

@KoujiIsAmazing 4 ай бұрын

This was done by chatgpt.

@yuunoaboi21 3 ай бұрын

This is why God hates divorce

@Leispada Ай бұрын

who tf ties the knot after a measly eight months FFS bro.. ffs

@sandukan1001 3 ай бұрын

I actually can't understand the guy at the end, why take someone back after they cheated? Stabbing someone in the back is not something you can undo or take back, not to mention it's fucking embarrassing, friends and family knows she cheated and yet he still takes her back? Willing to bet they all call him a cuck behind his back.

@MrWebster Ай бұрын

She was moving to another state with new job because her work Chad rejected her. And she wanted him to be her doormat simp to keep her company until the next affair.

@Rmaema99 4 ай бұрын

Calling it D day is crazy 😂

@kampfsocke25 4 ай бұрын

What is dDay? I saw it multiple times and don't know what it means

@worldcomicsreview354 8 ай бұрын

Finally,,somebody on one of these missed a jump!

@CrimsonRayne 5 ай бұрын

Yeah if you cant keep things to yourself, dont expect anyone else too. Finally learned that eh

@dominonine 8 ай бұрын

OP meeting Ray in the bar just reminds me of Big Lez in season 4 with the mysterious mukka in the bar.

@evil_cupcake2386 4 ай бұрын

Somehow I imagine Ray as Sam Elliot

@bleachedni99a27 2 ай бұрын

bro messed up when he talked with her again

@1xXNimrodXx1 4 ай бұрын

Nice story chatGPT.

@themaskedwarrior2242 3 ай бұрын

I would have moved states at that point

@wocathoden 5 ай бұрын

A story as old as time; Woman cheats on husband, husband goes rogue on the plains like some kind of adhoc outdoorsman.

@therockingb 6 ай бұрын

Okay can some one please explain me the ending. I didn't get it.

@sebastiansebastian9553 4 ай бұрын

Its your fault. You didnt satisfy her needs.😂😂😂😂

@macrons593 7 ай бұрын

Ray gives me Stranger vibes (from Big Lebowski)

@MineQley 7 ай бұрын

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@GREGHIGGS1 6 ай бұрын

She's a CLASSIC NARCISSIST! What she's trying to do is reacquire him. It's called 'Hoovering' If he took her back; she would have had even less respect for him.