We in the modern times forget how dangerous to the mom and baby that the birthing process can be.
@sqseq12375 ай бұрын
It can, but this today is extremely rare.
@linanicolia13635 ай бұрын
It is not the modern time for nothing. Many of these situations can be avoided by a C-section. You don't leave someone in labor for 30 hours !!!!!!! What was that OB/Gyn doing ? performing scheduled procedures ? What was going on ? Did she forget about that poor woman, exhausted by likely a non productive labor ? what the Hell ?
@sqseq12375 ай бұрын
@@linanicolia1363 Exactly, she shouldn't have been in labor for 30 hours! You make a point! The doctors didn't handle this right. I never said it was the modern time for nothing!
@elladoz19665 ай бұрын
@@linanicolia1363 comment makes total sense 🤔
@Christophertracy095 ай бұрын
My labor was so fast, I was so fortunate. By the time I realized I was actually having my baby (a week before his due date) I got to the hospital and was 6cm dilated. 2 hours later I was pushing. I can’t fathom 30 hours.
@ItCanChangeYouToo5 ай бұрын
Lord, please comfort this man and give him Your peace. Please surround him and his son with Your love.
@beanbeanster72195 ай бұрын
In Jesus' name, Amen.
@kaycampbell85325 ай бұрын
Amen
@Beastmd5 ай бұрын
Amen.
@Blessedwriter8515 ай бұрын
Amen
@MsDana-mo9fp5 ай бұрын
Amen
@jjjgamer97505 ай бұрын
My mom died when I was two days old, my prayers go out to this amazing dad.
@user-jd9ns6sq4t5 ай бұрын
Belated condolences. A good friend of my here in the UK lost her mum at ten days. Very sad.
@kimt10545 ай бұрын
I am so very sorry. 💔
@kimdeems12405 ай бұрын
I couldn't imagine growing up without my mom- I lost my mom 3 years ago when I was 49 and it killed me- I am so sorry
@a.k.salazr5 ай бұрын
In my culture, it is thought that women who die in child birth are automatically entered in heaven for giving their life for their baby. I think your mom is watching you from there.
@Amay1015 ай бұрын
@@a.k.salazr if it’s Islam that’s not culture that’s a religion
@jerrethausner55045 ай бұрын
My wife almost died with our daughter. They couldn’t stop the bleeding but the doctor saved her. I’m crying for this guy right now.
@SweetGee3215 ай бұрын
Omg thank God your wife is okay !! This is scary 🙏🏼😢❤️
@theforcesofnature31285 ай бұрын
He’s only crying cause he gotta take care of that baby
@sameerkerketta95875 ай бұрын
Your doctors were great 👍
@toyamaria30305 ай бұрын
This happened with my son in 2022. Lost 2 litters of blood within mins after giving birth. . I was so scared that I didn’t hold my baby for a good 20 minutes. The moment when you realize somethings wrong, and everyone in the room is panicking, I saw my life before my eyes. Good thing the doctors quickly gave me Pitocin to slow my bleeding and removing the rest of the placenta . Sadly, it was extremely traumatizing. I won’t be having any more kids after that experience. This is heartbreaking.😢
@RockJack-cs6vu5 ай бұрын
@@theforcesofnature3128 you are horrible person
@JesseK-cf9fs5 ай бұрын
My wife had the same thing .. worst day of my life watching her turn green and keep passing out then needing a blood transfusion. Blessed to say she pulled thru after being in icu and the doctors telling me to say my goodbyes . My heart is truly broken for this man, and i wish him the best . Keep your head up .. 😢
@FatiFleur-jn7ky5 ай бұрын
Must have been so difficult for you to witness. I hope you had support to overcome this trauma. So many men who have gone through this type of trauma don't get any help.
@mirelam96015 ай бұрын
Your wife survived?
@alexf94475 ай бұрын
@@mirelam9601 Read.
@ItstheCarolinashow5 ай бұрын
How long was she in labor. Is this due to a prolonged labor?
@JesseK-cf9fs5 ай бұрын
She did survive. She had Amniotic Fluid Embolism and DIC Disseminated intervascular coagulation We were in the hospital for over a week .. after the c section she came back to the room green and passing out/ throwing up ,they ran a ultrasound and see she has 4 liters of blood in her stomach that she lost had to go back in for surgery and got a blood transfusion . Went to icu didn't think she was going to make it.. but she pulled thru just hit the 3 year mark of that happening . I'm still affected by it today.. she does not remember a thing but I sure do.
@haleymoon6575 ай бұрын
You can just see the pain he’s in after going through her loss. I feel so terrible for him.
@linanicolia13635 ай бұрын
She was beautiful !!!!!! what a tragedy !
@Goodwillwinoverevil19845 ай бұрын
Horribly sad story but she was also lucky to have found a man to love her and have a family with her.
@AngelsonEarth695 ай бұрын
But we keep pushing this breeder rhetoric.
@LizLh-ot4ug5 ай бұрын
Right pain mixed with joy.Because now you have a beautiful brand new son brought into the world but the pain fluid the beautiful person that helped to create
@dr.emilschaffhausen46835 ай бұрын
Angel, you've created your own hell. Leave the rest of us alone.
@windybassham31305 ай бұрын
Prayer for this precious baby and his father.
@linanicolia13635 ай бұрын
Sue !!!!!!! never mind a fund to pay her hospital bill. Don't pay it !!!!!
@kaycampbell85325 ай бұрын
@lina.....I dislike people that think they should automatically sue for everything that goes wrong. You don't know any details of this tragedy. The doctors may have done everything within their power. God is the one who ultimately decides when it's our time. Pregnancy can be a dangerous time for both mother and child. There are hundreds of complications that can arise. Even with the best technology, deaths can and do occur.
@aprilgosa57795 ай бұрын
@@kaycampbell8532 30 hours of labor dude come on
@eternallife88985 ай бұрын
Don't pray, pay
@1azulcielo15 ай бұрын
@@eternallife8898 how about both. They are not mutually exclusive.
@reginachenevey87665 ай бұрын
30 hours of labor is beyond crazy. At 12 hours I demanded a C-section. That is exactly what the dr. should have done for this woman.
@ejwis15 ай бұрын
The same thing would’ve happened even with a c section. The amniotic fluid got into her bloodstream and her body reacted to it in a bad way. It’s a rare thing.
@peacelovejoyandhappiness5 ай бұрын
@@ejwis1 I do not know the first thing about a C-sction but, it seems to me that would have been my first idea. Have a C-section after so many hours of labor. I feel like her outcome may have been much different. Maybe we have an expert reading our thoughts here that can elaborate. May the beautiful woman rest in peace in heaven with our God and prayers for her family and friends.
@73cidalia5 ай бұрын
My first was 42 hours. And my water had already broken at the 4-hour mark. Would've been longer, but at the 36-hour mark, I demanded pitocin to move things along and an epidural (no pain relief up to that point). I was very lucky that nothing worse happened.
@psychlover425 ай бұрын
Maternal RN here. 30hrs isn't an absurd amount of time for a first delivery. Labor can progress as long as her water is still intact or mom and baby are otherwise doing well. After a long time with her water broken then they might recommend a c/s to prevent her from getting chorioamnionitis (or they might start her on antibiotics and try for a vaginal delivery), but a long labor isn't an automatic indication for a c/s unless the patient requests it or is too tired to proceed with the remaining labor. An AFE is RARE and SUDDEN. There is no preventing it. A bubble of baby's amniotic fluid enters mom's blood stream via the capillaries between the uterus and placenta, then her body treats it like a foreign object, having a reaction to it.
@peacelovejoyandhappiness5 ай бұрын
@@psychlover42 thank you for explaining more. You are such a wonderful help to learn more about the tragic passing of this beautiful young lady. God bless.
@user-mb4sr6kp2s5 ай бұрын
Watching this while 36 weeks pregnant. Wishing for a safe and healthy delivery. I usually try to only watch the positive stuff but i couldnt help but click on this one. RIP mama ❤
@ijeomaodoko29045 ай бұрын
Pray you have a safe delivery.
@savagesweetheart905 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with getting other perspectives and you'll know exactly what to look for and ask. Praying for a safe delivery and healthy baby. You got this mama ❤
@hannahhelton37895 ай бұрын
I"m 36 weeks too. Wishing you a safe and healthy delivery.
@user-mb4sr6kp2s5 ай бұрын
@savagesweetheart90 Exactly, honestly most of what I've learned about birth is through others experiences on YT since the OB doesn't tell me too much about the actual birth process itself (compared to the pregnancy). I think these videos are very important. Thank you 💕 that means a lot
@user-mb4sr6kp2s5 ай бұрын
@hannahhelton3789 omg how exciting! Thank you, same to you mamas 🥰
@reppi87425 ай бұрын
Childbirth deaths have risen since 2021. It's something we really don't think about very much. How devastating for this family!❤️
@bbb_8885 ай бұрын
What is the cause? The vaccine jab? Something else?
@aynsleyonearth5 ай бұрын
We're in the midst of a depopulation
@user-mi8xf8tq1z5 ай бұрын
@@bbb_888 lack of enough OB-GYN providers. All these bills controlling abortions made the doctors job really tough. So we have fewer and fewer med students who are opting for OB-GYN residency. This problem is just going to get worse in future years
@PinkSparklerToontown5 ай бұрын
@@bbb_888bad quality healthcare and misogyny
@tarafox66185 ай бұрын
🧐. What happened in the past 3 years?
@JRGirl225 ай бұрын
My beautiful daughter in law had an aneurysm at 9 months. Our Henry didn’t make it. We mourn him so much but grateful that mom survived emergency surgery.
@ItsJuliaaa3195 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry, my condolences to you and your family 🙏🏼
@bakerwannabe44355 ай бұрын
So sorry. Condolences to you and your family.
@trumpisgod25355 ай бұрын
Doctors force emergency surgery because C sections save the nurses and doctors time and allow them to go sit back down at nurses station and in the Doctors lounge.
@gloriaramirez11095 ай бұрын
@@trumpisgod2535I’m not sure why they allowed the mother in the video to labor for 30 hours. A C-section could have saved her life.
@annien.17275 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that.😢 My condolences to you and your family.🙏🏻
@ankra125 ай бұрын
Pregnancy can be the most dangerous thing a woman can do unfortunatly. So sorry for your loss ❤
@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen90445 ай бұрын
She was 30 hours in labor that’s too long
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
Incorrect. Especially for a first pregnancy.
@AS-yz2iz5 ай бұрын
It's more dangerous to drive than to be pregnant.
@AS-yz2iz5 ай бұрын
@@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen904430 hours is not too long, especially for a first baby.
@ar81725 ай бұрын
@@AS-yz2iz No, pregnancy is more dangerous. It's also more dangerous than sports thought to be dangerous. Pregnancy isn't just able to kill you it can also cause permanent health damage. And all of the health issues that are reversible are more than horrible, too.
@vpej85085 ай бұрын
I hope this father will love his son with all his heart, even though he lost his wife. My grandfather's mother died during his birth, but instead of love him, his father hated him, and was abusive towards him cause he blamed him for his mother's death. Despite that he grew up to be a good man. Never let your son feel like it's his fault, always love him for 2 people, you and his mom. A real good mom would die to protect her child, and she died giving him his life. ❤
@rebeccagittens64445 ай бұрын
he was a very silly man because he got her pregnant. He was just a fetus growing to term to be born . ooh well. l am happy he live and turn out to be a good man.
@bjdlvr5 ай бұрын
This father has the right idea, and said it himself: his son is a living, breathing little part of his wife, and always will be. Instead of being angry at the boy, he loves him all the more for it.
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
Did you not pay attention?
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
You are really very ignorant.
@kaylavarela72155 ай бұрын
I’m sure he will hold resentment at some points in his life because that is inevitable but I doubt he’ll ever show it. He made it clear he sees his son as a piece of his wife, a blessing she left behind for him.
@laurenw24465 ай бұрын
What a sweet father. You can see how much he loved his beautiful wife. I pray he finds peace and healing moving forward. His son is blessed to have such an empathetic father.
@BJARRGH125 ай бұрын
The lack of prenatal and childbirth education in this country is horrifying. The medical system is so messed up. 30 hours in labor? Did her water break? Usually 12 hours after water has broken, interventions are made. Was she on her back her whole time? Epidural? There are so many factors that play into an outcome. My heart breaks for this man. I'm glad he has his little boy.
@devilmaycry99695 ай бұрын
Is not that simple. Her water breaking was the cause of the embolism. Her body had an allergic reaction to the fluid. People forget that pregnancy is a huge risk.
@ayyotube52245 ай бұрын
I wonder the same thing maybe she wasn't moving and on her back...s😢
@BJARRGH125 ай бұрын
@devilmaycry9969 I know it's not that simple, hence why I mentioned there are so many factors that play into an outcome. If the amniotic fluid got into her bloodstream for her to react to it, then there was tearing or hemorrhaging happening at some point for it to access her body outside of the uterus. It's so very sad.
@leptir71105 ай бұрын
BRAVO
@TGuard000145 ай бұрын
This was definitely malpractice.
@skyoce12475 ай бұрын
Just imagine child celebrating his birthday every year reminding of mommy's death
@xxrandomgamerxx8105 ай бұрын
U gon make da kid feel worse
@motherofthreeb63375 ай бұрын
I have a cousin whose mom died during childbirth. She doing fine. Probably all in how you explain it to the child as he/she ages and asks questions.
@riro71705 ай бұрын
they'll pull through
@st1nkyr4t5 ай бұрын
think of it as mom’s sacrifice. he will remember it as a sign of his mom’s love for him. she took care of him for 9 months and now she’ll look after him from heaven.
@nineangels75725 ай бұрын
@@st1nkyr4t Beautifully stated. Amen & God bless the daddy & baby boy.
@user-jd9ns6sq4t5 ай бұрын
Very sad when a new dad has his precious baby but not his spouse. Endless condolences. R.IP. 🌹 🕯🥀 💐💔 .
@indytherottweiler90025 ай бұрын
Poor family. I had my empirical cord torn during labor. Im thankful i have my life and my daughter is doing well after she almost bleed to death and was drowning in my blood and her own. She was lifeflighted to a bigger hospital in Pittsburgh and i owe them for saving her. Giving birth is seriously traumatic to a womens body and mind. Please take care of the mommas to be. Show them love and patience. Everyday we are here is a great day. Love them while you have them
@sharonsolana5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I was glad to hear you and your baby are well now. Is "empirical" cord the same as the "umbilical" cord? Thank you
@laurasalo61605 ай бұрын
@sharonsolana Certainly "autocorrect" got her on that one 😀
@sharonsolana5 ай бұрын
@@laurasalo6160 Okay, thank you.
@angelladelaney95585 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story
@leptir71105 ай бұрын
POROD I TRUDNOČA SU ITEKAKO OPASNI ,PORADI TOGA TREBA DOBRO RAZMISLITI O TOME
@Europa17495 ай бұрын
A while back I overheard the cashier cheerily ask the man ahead of me if his child had arrived. He said they had both died during birth. He was so sad.
@Victoria-vj3wv5 ай бұрын
How terrible! 😭
@Victoria-vj3wv5 ай бұрын
How terrible 😭
@Acovado02225 ай бұрын
That’s so heartbreaking 😢
@josephineramos31995 ай бұрын
Omg..that is so heartbreaking 💔 😢
@SonicGamerGirl20064 ай бұрын
This is beyond heartbreaking. I hope that man's okay. My heart breaks for him... 😢😢😢💔
@kandikoch5 ай бұрын
I had an amniotic fluid embolism giving birth to my 4th son. I had liver failure, lung failure, kidney failure, & 20+ blood transfusions. I was in a coma & on life support for a week & spent 6 weeks in the hospital. My son thankfully was fine. Eighteen years later I have achy hips & shoulders (avascular necrosis) but I am otherwise healthy & happy to be alive. I’m sorry your wife didn’t have the same outcome 😢
@jaime48905 ай бұрын
Wow! It is a miracle you are alive! God is good ❤️
@paigecarlson17425 ай бұрын
@@jaime4890 I wonder if you'd say the same about the woman that died in this video?
@sailingwiththegods5385 ай бұрын
A lot of wasted money it seems. Probably went on welfar afterwards too.
That poor husband and father. You can see the pain in his eyes. God bless you and your baby son, your whole world.
@TheOnlyGuitarFather5 ай бұрын
My wife had pre eclampsia and we had to do an emergency csec. I remember being terrified that I was gonna lose her as her bp was 190/115. . I feel so bad for these 2. I hope she sends them someone who be just as good a mother and wife as she would’ve been. . . Good luck boys
@TheresaB-wg4ku5 ай бұрын
That's what happened to my friend a year ago,she did not make it. Pre-eclampsia, before birth everything looked healthy. The baby almost died,thankfully her baby survived,but,has a long journey ahead of her.
@MillennialMountainMama5 ай бұрын
The same thing happened to me. My baby and I are lucky to be alive. I still have seizures. I am traumatized.
@MillennialMountainMama5 ай бұрын
@@TheresaB-wg4kuI’m sorry for your loss. My condolences.
@user-cz9wf3rq7j5 ай бұрын
Maybe , God needs her in heaven , for some reason, ❤ you bee ,good boys , and you'll see her again, and you will be happy ,forever ,❤❤❤
@TheresaB-wg4ku5 ай бұрын
@@MillennialMountainMama Thank you 🙏
@MiracleFound5 ай бұрын
A co-worker who was also pregnant with twins at the same time as me died of an amniotic embolism when she delivered 2 weeks after me. Pregnancy and delivery aren't without risk and the US has one of the highest maternal-child death rates of developed countries in the world. Mexico and Cuba do better than we do.
@yourfuturewaifu90615 ай бұрын
It's partially because we are accurate in our stats and our qualifications/definitions of certain things affect how certain statistics are recorded. If you do a cursory database search you can see some more detailed info on how we record our info vs other countries.
@tanyarobinson11465 ай бұрын
@@yourfuturewaifu9061exactly! The US counts infant mortality no matter the gestational age, other countries only count it past 24 weeks. Other countries also have mandatory abortion if there is anything wrong with the baby. This also skews infant mortality rates.
@amariluna5 ай бұрын
@@yourfuturewaifu9061 But also let's face it, countries like Cuba have a much better health system than the USA and everyone can access it for free.
@Brancaalice5 ай бұрын
My mother gave birth 9 children in home, no hospital or dr, all health, no complication. Country woman has some kind straight, they are in their own giving birth. Indian in Amazon, give birth in wild alone, sometimes with help of tribe woman, their babies are bath in river. Rarely see mortality of infants. What wrong with modern woman? Probably it health issues.
@SensationalSeafairy5 ай бұрын
@@Brancaalice what the hell is wrong with you? Just because those women HAD TO give birth in that situation doesn't mean they enjoyed it. They had no other choice. What's this fascination to take back "modern" women to a time when they all suffered in silence with smiles on their faces? Shouldn't you be thankful for modern medicine where things like this DOESN'T happen very often? Sadism is really strong with some people.
@ashleycnossen31575 ай бұрын
One of the hardest things I can imagine is being a grieving man left alone with a newborn baby. I pray for strength for this man and for many helpers to surround him.
@sailingwiththegods5385 ай бұрын
Let me know how those ridiculous prayers work out.
@ashleycnossen31575 ай бұрын
@@sailingwiththegods538 And what are you offering? Thoughts?
@Molly-uk2uf4 ай бұрын
@@sailingwiththegods538 Let us know why it's so important. To denounce GOD.
@ericbattista93414 ай бұрын
@@ashleycnossen3157those thoughts are just as effective 😂
@ericbattista93414 ай бұрын
@@Molly-uk2ufsome people just don’t wanna be in cults and don’t like spreading bs
@redgrant48975 ай бұрын
That is horrible man. Tears in my eyes. Your tragedy has given me a new perspective on life. We all need to be thankful for and cherrish what we have. Peace.
@dewilderdbetter5 ай бұрын
This man needs to consult a lawyer to determine EXACTLY at what point in the labor process the AFE (Amniotic Fluid Embolus) occurred. I’m wondering if his wife was receiving some medicine to stimulate labor and was possibly getting too much. If anyone knows him, tell him to investigate.
@rubiferrer24195 ай бұрын
Right. Also 30 hours of labor seems a lot to me. Why not opt for a C section instead. But I’m not a doctor so I don’t know.
@nathannorton30465 ай бұрын
I agree. After a certain point, the next step after a long labour would be to opt for C-Section. It could’ve been a safer alternative for both Mom & Baby. I know every situation is different & we’re not doctors, but this seems like it could’ve been prevented. The family should possibly get a lawyer to investigate this as safer measures could’ve been taken. This could also lead to more needed research about this unfortunate AFE occurrence.
@texasbella5765 ай бұрын
@@rubiferrer2419 that was my first thought!! labor way too long!! not good for the baby OR the mother... as in this case. My heart goes out to this young man and his baby. May God Bless them always!
@misslady5825 ай бұрын
@rubiferrer2419 I think you have to remember that a doctor can not force someone to have a c-section. She may have opted not to have one. My labor was around 29 hours. We talked about a C-section but I said no. I did not want to have a major surgery. I ended up having my daughter a few minutes later. Child birth is so scary. My thoughts are with the family.
@donijeffery-harris30565 ай бұрын
Amniotic fluid crosses onto mothers' bodies all the time. At any given moment, about 50% of pregnant women will have traces of it and fetal cells in their bloodstream. Medication almost certainly wasn't the problem. The issue isn't the presence of the fluid...it's the unknown and extremely rare trigger that suddenly provokes respiratory and blood clotting responses. I am an AFE survivor. We need research, understanding, and treatment options. AFE is so rare that most OB's go their entire career without seeing it. Blaming the hospital will do nothing to advance the cause of research and education that we need.
@weecee77705 ай бұрын
The mother died, and the facility still wants money?
@mar259475 ай бұрын
I know! Unbelievable !
@92spice185 ай бұрын
Yep, even when the baby dies they still send a bill to remind you of the pain.
@jennyrebecca72435 ай бұрын
It’s sad but medical services were rendered. For her and the child. That comes with a bill. Welcome to America
@mgaraujo12205 ай бұрын
So funerals shouldn’t charge because you die lmfao got it
@lr90105 ай бұрын
@@mgaraujo1220a funeral is death. Make some sense please.
@yakeishaallen53435 ай бұрын
This is truly heartbreaking. May God bless you this father and son to heal through this tragic loss.
@donijeffery-harris30565 ай бұрын
My heart aches for you, and I passionately support your goal to get more research for AFE. I am an amniotic fluid embolism survivor. In 2005, against all odds, I became one of the 5% of sufferers who walked away with comparatively minor consequences. 80% of my fellow sufferers that year died. AFE strikes in an instant. For me, one breath I was fine; the next, I had no lungs. Completely respiratory collapse as quickly as you can blink. I survived because I had a profoundly gifted doctor close by who diagnosed me and started treatment in less than a minute. And we were exceptionally lucky. This condition destroys lives. We desperately need more research and better education for all medical practitioners to protect future families. All my love.
@laurajercha95875 ай бұрын
My daughter is a survivor - she was a surrogate for someone and it happened 30 sec after the baby was delivered. She said I don’t feel good and her eyes rolled back. Doctor immediately went into action and code was called. It’s horrid to go into ICU and see my daughter on a ventilator. She is a miracle.
@tryphenarose3845 ай бұрын
Did this happen you after having more than one child? Or was this with your first? So very glad you survived something so terrible.
@donijeffery-harris30565 ай бұрын
It was my third pregnancy. My son delivered 6 weeks early, and the embolism hit 2 hours later.
@isabelle_19265 ай бұрын
When I was pregnant my mom told me last minute that child birth is very serious and sometimes cause death, I thank God for watching over me and my child❤️🙏🏻
@rhonda15055 ай бұрын
So sorry that your wife passed away. You have a precious son and her memory will live on thru him.
@sapphiremoonstone9395 ай бұрын
At least we got the save file for the game
@sarahfaith65315 ай бұрын
I can’t imagine the pain and anger and grief
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
What anger.
@Lucy_5955 ай бұрын
If you want to be angry, show it to the gods and religion not doctors. It's a 1 in 40,000 case.
@sapphiremoonstone9395 ай бұрын
Satan is smiling in victory ✌️ Instead of fatherless women, we now have motherless men. 😢
@mrsTraveller645 ай бұрын
Poor mum who never got to know her son😢And I feel so sad for the dad and for the baby😥but the dad will be an amazing dad for sure, and hopefully the grandiarents from both sides will be there too❤️
@user-li9cr1ff7f5 ай бұрын
My mother died during my childbirth, 66 yrs ago. I’m shocked that it still happens in this advanced century. I’m happy he is taking care of the baby himself. I was given to another family member; dysfunctional family Life from day one. Good luck to you and the baby.
@PalmBeachFlorida245 ай бұрын
30 hour labor? Hope the lawyers are in place. This sounds like medical malpractice.
@karennaumann14635 ай бұрын
Very sorry for their loss.
@Here4TheHeckOfIt5 ай бұрын
😢 She's beautiful, and so is your baby. So sorry for your loss ❤
@lovereigns40175 ай бұрын
Am so sorry for your tragic loss. Unspeakable. 😢😢😢
@edithdlp80455 ай бұрын
I had a complicated delivery that was 36 hours. Luckily we both made it. Now my son is 23 years old and healthy.
@Christophertracy095 ай бұрын
Childbirth is terrifying. I have one son. I don’t know how people can have multiple. I’m just very fortunate this didn’t happen to me
@victoria.galvin5 ай бұрын
This is so devastating. I had a complicated delivery and cannot imagine not being here. This poor man.
@barbietheemuslimah5 ай бұрын
Us women are on our death beds when we have children I heard…… my daughter birth was a scary event as well not like this but we women are truly amazing
@MsLulu-jr4on5 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness I can’t imagine the pain he’s going through. Praying for comfort and healing for him and his son.
@pabloescobarschanclas5 ай бұрын
i’m sure your prayers will fix it…
@caitlankelly43675 ай бұрын
I’m lucky enough to be holding my baby that was also born in January. We often take for granted how blessed we are to be mothers, my heart goes out to this father and son.
@TheLaras5 ай бұрын
So heartbreaking. People forget how scary labor really is.
@melissareid6405 ай бұрын
Praying for you and your family. I am so very sorry for your wife's passing and that Carter will not have his mother's arms. Carter is the best of both of you
@youdontKnowshhs5 ай бұрын
My wife had to have a induce emergency C-section.. it was painful to watch. She has high blood pressure... I refuse to go through it again.. she wants more kids and I'm not gonna take the chance of losing her ..😢
@linanicolia13635 ай бұрын
Did she get her tubes tied, afterwards ? Wise decision.
@gypsygem93955 ай бұрын
@@linanicolia1363they don't tend to do that at childbirth nowadays. Plus, if it's not something SHE wants, they can't anyway. Why should she, if he's the one who doesn't want any more children he should get the snip.
@youdontKnowshhs5 ай бұрын
@@linanicolia1363nope.. she wants more kids . But I see it as a safety issue... She had complications with her first child , whose my stepson..then another issue with my daughter.. So if you have high blood pressure please take care of it and take your meds daily..
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
If she wishes more children then she has no reason to habe a tubal.
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
So you are a whimp.
@thegatesofdawn...13865 ай бұрын
What a sweet man. So sad about her passing. God bless the baby boy. She was very beautiful. ❤
@patriciaroberts3085 ай бұрын
30 hrs of labor, that's outrageous!!!! 😲 My condolences.... ✝️🙏🕊️❤️🇺🇸
@RT-qz5ci5 ай бұрын
Wow. Young and fit and this still happened… brutal. God rest her soul.
@TitaniumTurbine5 ай бұрын
To be fair, anyone can end up having a brain aneurysm regardless of their age and fitness level. There’s no running from death… salads, jogs, or not. 🙁
@marthamartin235 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss . 😔
@carolinemarch26265 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and family. Your baby boy is gorgeous. Sending hugs 🫂 to you and baby. Love ❤️ from Canada
@aleesharenea13345 ай бұрын
So sorry 😢😢😢😢 Praying for him and his son. So Heartbreaking.
@rachelh27315 ай бұрын
This man's pain is heartbreaking💔
@changeme80355 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss.
@landonleathers59365 ай бұрын
Couldn't even imagine bro but stay strong and praying for you and your little boy
@mts46115 ай бұрын
Oh WOW!! I've never heard of such. I feel horrible for this father. OMG.
@marthabonelli30935 ай бұрын
So sorry.
@WJM19195 ай бұрын
I feel you, my prayers go to all of you. I've been there & having such similar issues, few hours after the labor I started coughing a lot & couldn't breathe, I was bleeding like my whole blood flowing out. Thankfully I was survived, could have been worst seeing how scary the situation at that time.
@Livsalittlefarm5 ай бұрын
Pitocin use increases risk of AFE by almost 3 times... what a tragedy for this poor mother. My heart breaks for this new dad.
@luxgreen12775 ай бұрын
❤so sorry to hear this.
@Christina-kn1lq5 ай бұрын
Prayers from NC❤.
@DoobieDeb5 ай бұрын
So so sorry Deepest Condolences
@ClaireGreen-wd2gm5 ай бұрын
And men cheat on pregnant wives and complain when she doesnt feel well during pregnancy or say shes too emotional. Poor beautiful mama. RIP
@wahine75565 ай бұрын
Wtf is wrong with you to leave a comment like that under a tragedy? You can't just focus on whats happening in the video and have to bring up your person problems????
@ClaireGreen-wd2gm5 ай бұрын
@@wahine7556 The leading cause of death for pregnant women in the US is murder. Usually by babies father. Yes I'm bringing up how little men tend to value women who walk the line between life and death bringing his seed into the world.
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
What are you babbling
@teresawilson38935 ай бұрын
Childbirth is the most dangerous thing a woman can go through it can also drastically reduce the quality of her health!
@buzzardclementine44515 ай бұрын
They need to stop manually breaking the water in the hospital. There is ZERO reason to break a water (amniotomy). Babies can be born in the sac. Waters can break on their own. There is no reason to manually do it.
@user-fl8oy7dx8k5 ай бұрын
My Prayers for this Young Father, for his Baby, and for his Wife(R.I.P.)💫🙏🏻💫🙏🏻💫🙏🏻☮🌿
@resetpassword5 ай бұрын
I'm watching this on her birthday March 29, RIP, life is such an unpredictable thing.
@deniseeugene18525 ай бұрын
During my second sons labor. This particular hospital didn’t let me husband come into the labor room until I was ready to give birth. I remember being in labor with no epidural . And I said God I am not going to make it. I felt myself giving up. Then out of nowhere I found strength to keep going. My husband came in as they said that I was ready .
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
So you refused it or you progressed rapidly.
@deniseeugene18525 ай бұрын
@@eileenmcdonald1599 I was five centimeters when I arrived. My labor was only two hours. I thought that it was going to be easy like the first pregnancy birth. That two hour labor was really hard.
@AAO-gf7os5 ай бұрын
prayer to the father and baby..
@wendyhack86445 ай бұрын
This poor Dad all alone. Hopefully family will help him.
@azureavocado51955 ай бұрын
Technically, he also had a part to play in her death. She did not impregnate her self .
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
You are a piece of garbage.
@marilyn.harlow4 ай бұрын
@@azureavocado5195 wow nice job pointing that out genius, i thought woman could impregnate themselves 😃 heartless b
@JackieSkellington5 ай бұрын
So sorry. I lost a good friend to this
@internetgirlygirl5 ай бұрын
i noticed that today is her birthday. happy heavenly birthday to a beautiful mother! 😔
@PandaBeafr5 ай бұрын
Prayers for this family
@jennimontalvan5 ай бұрын
This is truly heartbreaking 😢 Please make sure to donate guys. This is such a tragedy. This poor dude needs all the help he can get!
@DicyaninGlass5 ай бұрын
Ok. U first :)
@angelmission5 ай бұрын
How tragic! Such a beautiful wife. You will be a great dad for your little boy. I can tell you are trying to love him for your wife, too. Bless you both.
@Imjustacatlady5 ай бұрын
Poor guy! 😭 No one should have to go through this. I wish all mothers were guaranteed safe deliveries. 😢
@blue_moon64905 ай бұрын
At 18 hours of labor, my dr said one more hour and it’s a C section for you! Why did her dr’s allow her to go so long?
@linanicolia13635 ай бұрын
Absolutely. NO one goes 30 hours, in labor, in a hospital setting. He needs to sue, forget that fund.......The hospital has nurses who check these patients...There are warning signs, when a woman needs a C-section. You notify that MD......and he better have his ass checking the woman. Plenty negligence to go around in that place. They want their money ? That is just, disgusting.
@tanyarobinson11465 ай бұрын
@@linanicolia1363actually people do. If the baby is tolerating labor they will continue.
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
You have no clue what was discussed or what her wishes were. Plus you gave consent. No one can be forced
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
Your lack of education and ignorance is very deep. Take a seat
@amandah18755 ай бұрын
No one can be forced but if the doctor is seriously suggesting it, better listen.
@Chisthebest05 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry😔
@justforgetaboutit59875 ай бұрын
You could tell he loved her a lot 💔 May she rest in peace and may God give her husband strength and watch over her son
@gwen30105 ай бұрын
GOD bless this dad and his small baby. 🙏❤❤❤❤
@kx30375 ай бұрын
We pray for this Dad and his son😢 this is too hard😮. God bless❤
@RSKLove5 ай бұрын
Stay strong, brother!
@britneyshaw75055 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for ur loss
@bodhiswayze18925 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry. I’m sobbing as I watch this- I hope he knows that his story is heard over here in England ❤
@BBB-to4cc5 ай бұрын
Thank you to this father, I had never heard of this before ❤
@dorothyhilsinger82825 ай бұрын
This is so sad. An emergency c-section should have been preformed at 1st sign of trouble. 30 hours is a long time to be in labor. In 1981, I was in labor with my daughter from 12am to 5:30pm. My OBGYN saw that my daughter's heart rate was being effected during contractions (wouldn't go back to normal rhythm after contractions) and my blood pressure was getting higher due to my having toxcemia so he preformed emergency c-section on me and he saved both mine and my daughter's lives. My Heart thoughts and Prayers are with him and their infant son.
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
As the husband said there were no signs prior. In this type of case there are no warnings. And no one can be forced to have surgery. Plus even with a section this type of complication still could have killed her.
@devilmaycry99695 ай бұрын
A c section would have not saved her. There is a possibility she would have had a hemorrhage. People forget c sections are major surgeries and if she didn’t want it then I can understand the 30 hour labor. By the way an embolism takes seconds to get to the blood stream. The patient can be fine one minute and then completely collapse the next.
@justelleslife5075 ай бұрын
Interesting how something that keeps a baby healthy and alive, but if it gets into the mother's bloodstream it's deadly, so very sorry for the loss of Courtney, too young, too soon, comfort and love sent to you and your sweet baby Carter💙
@dianavaldez33715 ай бұрын
A 30 hour labor? That’s insane. Not sure why C-section was not performed. I’m not a doctor, but I’ve had two kids and I would not endure 30 hours.
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
Correct. You are not her doctor. If there we're no signs of distress then there was no reason for surgical intervention. No one can be forced to have a surgery.
@blueseptember21745 ай бұрын
You were lucky. The rest of us mama's had 40 plus hour labors.
@deedee93555 ай бұрын
What a beautiful woman Courtney was...you can just tell she would have been such a loving Mother, my heart goes out to her husband and their precious baby. There are no words of comfort that can help heal such a tremendous loss, only with time healing will come.
@GasparFerreira-sr9nj5 ай бұрын
Completely heartbroken for them. Prayers to the family.
@RjFox095 ай бұрын
If you're having a bad day,just remember there's always someone out there who's having it so much worst..
@krissy06285 ай бұрын
This is devastating but I hope he looks everyday in his beautiful babies face and see his wife and feel her love ❤❤❤
@amandahirschfeld73825 ай бұрын
So sad. I think they will be ok,Im sure she is watching from Heaven❤️🙏
@444Billie5 ай бұрын
I hope that this dad and his son get all the love and support they need. I hope someone is there helping him. ❤
@Crismodin5 ай бұрын
Wake up, America. "The U.S. rate for 2021 was 32.9 maternal deaths per 100,000 live births, which is more than ten times the estimated rates of some other high income countries, including Australia, Austria, Israel, Japan and Spain which all hovered between 2 and 3 deaths per 100,000 in 2020" - WHO
@kingknights51075 ай бұрын
Forget high income, some parts of India does even better.. American health care system is atrocious..
@TitaniumTurbine5 ай бұрын
Okay… and? Wake up and what? You have no call to action. We’re the most gluttonous country out of all of them you listed. Corporations own our food supply and what is being put into our foods, with little to no government intervention until something goes wrong. More than half the country is obese. Between that and the average stress levels of a typical American, this doesn’t surprise me.
@Crismodin5 ай бұрын
@@TitaniumTurbine Okay... and? Complain to me about what? You are just complaining about capitalism. The statistic speaks for itself, if you can't figure it out, you're apart of the problem.
@Keewaf5 ай бұрын
my mom lost both her parents when she was an infant in the philippines back in 1969 (her dad died in an accident at work and her mom died a few months after that in childbirth to twins who also didn’t make it). i’m terrified of ever being pregnant knowing it happened to my grandmother i never got to meet. i feel so sad for them both.
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
If you have decided you do not want children for whatever reason then tale care of it permanently. And be honest with anyone you wish to share a life with. Only you can decide what is right for you.
@Keewaf5 ай бұрын
@@eileenmcdonald1599 i’m married and neither of us want kids, but thanks anyway!
@ME-cd3bs5 ай бұрын
Damn this is so sad. This is why my husband and I don't want kids.
@selinb88455 ай бұрын
@ ME-cd3bs Same here
@WinnieRoe5 ай бұрын
I didn't expect to cry this early in the morning. I am so sorry for the loss of a beautiful wife and mom. What a strong person this man is.
@TheresaMedjugorje4 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss! I pray you will have friends and family to uplift and support you through this diffcult time. There are no words. Your pain and sorrow are palpable. May your beautiful son bring you happiness in the midst of this tragic storm.
@DeeVination5 ай бұрын
They said after 30 hrs of labor??? This is very sad and feels like the hospital has some responsibility in her death. A c-section could've possibly saved them both. She may have refused but that's when Dr's need to be brutally honest with the patient and family making sure they understand how severe the situation is or if labor goes on for too long LIKE 30 HRS!!! I hope he consults an attorney. I'm sure it's too painful right now but hopefully his family members will step up and help him find representation and work through this.
@nv33895 ай бұрын
Why are people like this? This is a complication of child birth. You mean to say they should have stopped that?
@Rikka_V15 ай бұрын
You think you can prevent a rare condition as AFE with your advice when the most experienced minds of medicine still haven't figured it out exactly?
@eileenmcdonald15995 ай бұрын
Your lack of education means you need a seat
@TitaniumTurbine5 ай бұрын
Another “must blame SOMEONE” comment. Sorry you feel the need to point a finger and blame someone, that you can’t just accept the reality of life. There are true accidents. There are true complications. There are bad things that happen where there was no malicious or negligent people that caused it. There’s black, white AND grey areas in our world.