GIRL CHAT: Guest Co-Host Shekinah Spills Tea!

[@BobbiHustles]

This show needs more disagreements like this! This made me want to stay tuned in

[@MajesticMyronn]

Its Jezze no they don’t... because fans make it into something it’s not everytime a disagreement happens.... it’s sooooo irritating

[@thephilosopher5799]

@@MajesticMyronn okay so it makes the show interesting. There used to be alot when Tamar was on and now they all agree and it's so boring. Where is the shade and argument.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Aaliyah White shade and drama shouldn’t make a show interesting... the chemistry and positivity that they spread should make it interesting ! This is a talk show not reality tv !

[@bashiratabdulraheem1788]

they really dooo

[@alishawalker405]

I do want to find the rest of the episodes from this week

[@Neke_wash]

Shekinah brings great energy and a different perspective, this was good to me! I’m not saying that I agree with either but I love this shake up! I think they are talking about two different things. Tam was speaking from a woman empowerment perspective and Shekinah was talking about a man’s inner will to provide (which is innate).

[@amethystwolf24572]

If by innate, you mean socialized from birth, I agree.

[@C_0414]

i love how jeannie touches tam's shoulder at the end like, "girl, i know she's intense. it's okay." lmao

[@MelaninJay]

Tam was not feeling any of this 😂😂😂

[@SlasHERart-hv7lx]

Im suprised she kept her coll..i thought she was going to jump out of her seat

[@SlasHERart-hv7lx]

@Bee thanks i was curious

[@SoMindless111]

Bee really omgggggg

[@prettytinaplease9813]

Cuz she knows she’s taking care of her man

[@melaniesouthworth3955]

Lol I wouldn’t be either tbh

[@IWasBlindButNowISeeJesus]

I feel like Tamera was lowkey talking about Tia and Corey with the man who's his wife's #1 fan

[@Soph-ts9yb]

Hmmmmm

[@ohchicgirl3683]

This got heated QUICKLYYYYY.

[@ohchicgirl3683]

Okay but why is she soooooo uhhh closed minded is that the word someone help me here please. It’s okay for women to make more than their partners. It’s empowering most women make way below their male peers and no matter what whoever your dating should be supportive.

[@naturallynnodi4512]

@@ohchicgirl3683 I understand what you're saying. It is empowering for women to make the most in the household. The glass ceiling is finally cracking, But what I think Tam was trying to do was validate that husbands are okay with their wives making the most money because I think this was around this time when Adam had left Fox news and now he's a stay-at-home dad running their winery. And then again I hear what Shekinah was saying that men may feel some kind of way if they aren't the breadwinners. Like it, lowkey takes their power of voice away like they don't have a say-so anymore because they aren't contributing to anything financially.

[@charlotte6717]

As intense as this was, I absolutely loved it. This show is called 'The Real' but sometimes it seems as if they're afraid to say what they really feel because they dont want to upset each others opinions. For example, sometimes Adrienne will give her really naive, self absorbed views on martial topics and the others faces will be like "wtf no boo" but they'll never actually say it out loud that they disagree with her or that her views are absurd. They'll rather beat around the bush with it. If Shekinah was a host on this show it would be a whole nother level of realness. This is probably the reason why Tamar got fired, she always kept it 100% real and their people couldnt handle it.

[@darlenechisley4916]

Het tamar kept it real but her attitude was whack how are you going to openly attack people and she didn't just do it on the real she did it with her sista too was it me but it seemed like every argument they had was with tamar wow Can Jesus take the wheel

[@ameliamariah4757]

Just because Corey (we know who you’re talking about) supports his wife and holds his family down he’s not a BUM! He’s not sitting around waiting on Tia’s refund check. He’s an actor himself even if he’s not as famous. Most men would not be comfortable sitting at home and allowing their wife to take care of them. Yes, some men are fine with it. But a select few are confident and happy to do so.

[@Soph-ts9yb]

Well….

[@tarynsheals]

I love that everyone didn’t agree and there’s no need to get in your feelings if someone has a different opinion than you. It’s a healthy discussion.

[@YourExcellency]

While I obviously disagree with shekinah , we are all a product of our environment and that’s where she’s speaking from. Let’s be real, especially in the African American community it is hyper-masculine. And what she is saying is very prevalent in the African American community.

[@jackieluv2090]

Same with Hispanic men, not every single one of them. Most of them though want to feel in control of the women, or else they feel intimidated.

[@jackieluv2090]

Same with Hispanic men, not every single one of them. Most of them though want to feel in control of the women, or else they feel intimidated.

[@anjabowe7045]

Jasleen oooooo you better preach today!

[@evelynstarman7272]

Tamera looks frustrated

[@ninoskawilson1003]

I would be too ,Shekinah was generalizing that all men are like that

[@user-tp3yj2iw6h]

@@ninoskawilson1003 right.. like she knows every mfing black male in America

[@jamiejameskingofgames4648]

Jasleen she’s been on Tv since forever...the average man doesn’t make as much as her, so none of them are men.

[@SlasHERart-hv7lx]

Loni aint lying when she was talking about the hood stores..my store is called supermarket

[@j.graham8201]

Lmao

[@cassyadunknow]

Side note , Tamera looks cute af with that hair and that lip!

[@kenziechenelle4268]

The ladies need to realize some people will have a different opinion than you do ! SOME of them are better than the others than seeing that .

[@donnaturnberg9303]

Loni's facial expressions keep me so entertained! ♥

[@Kimmiieeee1]

I hate when a female try’s to label EVERY MEN the same just because that’s the kind of men they CHOOSE to be with! NOT all men are the same ! Honestly us women should give more props to the good men out there

[@jamierameka1347]

100% !!

[@SuperSouthchick]

Why? Being good is expected I’m not giving props to normal behaviour 🤦‍♀️

[@Sadji594]

I agree. It depends on the man. I make more then my hubby and the money is shared with no issue. My sister's boyfriend makes more and he don't share crap and is still threatened by her but he makes more

[@SuperSouthchick]

Kiki I don’t do that but people who has had an experience of “trauma” tend to group all people together which is understandable through there pain.

[@Thesilentvoice...]

You shouldn't be praised for being a decent human being. Men being good men shouldn't be such a huge thing to praise it should be normal behavior, women who are good don't get praised so why men?

[@hoperagan194]

LONI!!!! AT 10:47 face was just priceless to me😭🤣🙌🏾🤣😭🙏🏽😱

[@user-om8lu4nq4v]

That, “I’m not tryna be funny friend,” took me out 🤣

[@disneylady9116]

I agree so much with tamera here! You can’t decide how anyone thinks or feels based on anything! Any and every relationship, person and mind is so unique. My hubby makes more then me most of the time some days I bring extra money in from my job too growth and flourishing in our own life and journey together is all that matters! And a husband and wife are a reflection of each other! If a man is jealous or intimidated by his wife success career wise, he does need to see where he could help nurture care for provide for his wife by other means other than money like Adrienne was saying!!

[@samanthaclyne2011]

I loved the way Loni kept everything funny & lite!

[@DoniTalks]

Sorry Tamera, but u don't know how that man truly feels. He could tell u he is ok with his wife paying for it all. But behind closed doors being depressed because he can't provide for his family.

[@jasminelopez8358]

Yes I agree! Men don’t express feelings like women do. It’s a sign of weakness to men. Men love being the provider & when a man doesn’t feel needed, it silently hurts

[@Helloslimkitty_]

Steamy!!! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😳😳😳😯🐸🐸☕️☕️☕️

[@shirleysimankomonde2743]

i agree with Shekinah, Tam dont fool yourself boo......

[@jamiejameskingofgames4648]

Shirley Sima Nkomonde I’m a man and I don’t mind and I’ve dated women who had more than me. I’m educated and confident in who I am. I teach at a University and don’t make much but I love what I do...and my women needs me in other ways besides money. Shekinah was generalizing!

[@shirleysimankomonde2743]

@@jamiejameskingofgames4648 you are a rare blend Sir

[@devoneciaswartz2026]

It's disappointing that Shekinah made it out to be a black man problem. It's a pride that has been instilled in men for generations- to be the provider, to be the breadwinner. And I love that we've reached a point where this concept can be challenged and discussed. What should be challenged (if she wants to make it a "black" problem) is what we are teaching young boys- they should be learning to not be threatened by their wives' salary and that her earning more does not make him less than, that provision comes in different forms. I agree with Tam, both men exist and there are definitely men who support the financial strength of their wives.

[@RealSega.G]

7:40 'Not all men'...not my adam lol

[@arianacollymore7091]

She was actually referring to her brother in law.

[@RealSega.G]

@@arianacollymore7091 that's what came to my mind lol I didn't quote her saying Adam

[@alishawalker405]

LMBO

[@LarissaZavala123]

Finally things are getting interesting! it was getting a little boring. Glad they picked this topic. I agree with both of them haha

[@ms.wilson6439]

It's older. The older ones were way better.

[@derice7375]

Ladies, i just wanted to be careful, i knew a friend of my wife did a surgery to please her husband and than after her huband divorced don't just have a surgery to please someone, learn to please yourself otherwise you would be so disappointed and might affect you mentally,learn to exercise and eat well.ladies you touch a great point of our society, stop judging people because of their belly ,teach them to eat right and exercise. Well you know even my wife became with some belly after she got cesarian to give birth to my daughter, i never suggested her to have a surgery, i always told her to eat right and offer her to pay the gym to exercise, because i want her to stay healthy and active.

[@lavidaloca2344]

I thought this was new until Jeannie mentioned Freddy 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@ms.wilson6439]

If it's long, it's old

[@alishawalker405]

What's annoying is that these old videos comimg ad notifications and recommendations. I should of stumbled on this from binge watching

[@ms.wilson6439]

Shekinah is HELLA HONEST. Truth

[@tyrahwilliams1]

I have a feeling that Tamera was talking about Tia and her husband 🤔

[@DoniTalks]

They call it "the real" but when someone is bringing the real they try to shut them up.

[@ZolaXmkhiz]

Tamera was talking about Corey, Tia's husband.

[@Prinnncesz]

I think Tamera is talking about Tia’s husband Cory

[@laydeeleshay5897]

Shekinah is right. The Bible does say men should be the head of a household and it also says a man that doesn’t provide for his own household is worst than an unbeliever. (Ephesians 5:23, 1 Tim 5:8) it also says a woman main role should be to upkeep her home and take care of her children (Titus 2:4-5) you may not like it but IF you believe the Bible is the final word on how to live your life then you can’t really argue it... and yes I understand not everyone believes in the Bible. I’m only addressing people who call themselves Christian

[@ms.wilson6439]

I agree with Jeannie on that. Don't give your money to him.

[@rahimalmawri4024]

So ..she likes the high?? Lmaoo😄😂😂

[@ms.wilson6439]

Yup lol

[@dionconyer]

Jeannie at 11:33 lmao😂😂😂😂😂

[@hinyikiwilemithi4855]

She killed me🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sadieann1036]

The tax thing is legit. The first time my ex husband and I filed taxes jointly, he took all of it. He had borrowed money from his grandparents to buy a truck he wanted for the full amount of the tax refund. I waited for the tax return to hit the account took half, and left. There were other issues to, but it's a real deal

[@ms.wilson6439]

I LOVE SHEKANAHS HAIR

[@SepangGuy]

Shekinah is gorgeous and real

[@se6266]

Na she’s mad rude

[@SophisticatedTeacher]

I hate when you disagree with people and they get argumentative. Btw. Shekinah is right but she is being argumentative.

[@empath3133]

I hate that she made it about color because ita more about mindset. That black man in the audience looked like a good man and he looked disappointed smh.

[@destinyramsey6768]

She said she’s speaking on what she knows. She lives in Atlanta which is predominantly black! She said I can’t speak for other races so she’s just speaking on what she’s seen happen.

[@phillipswatson3452]

😎SHE'S GHETTO SO THAT'S WHAT SHE ATTRACTS!!

[@1normallyimpulsive]

Phillips Watson she never said she dated that type. She said she has “seen”, and she’s not ghetto.

[@phillipswatson3452]

@@1normallyimpulsive 😎 COUNTRY GHETTO 😜LOL😝

[@1normallyimpulsive]

Phillips Watson no matter what word you put in front of it, your still calling her ghetto, and like I said before; she’s not ghetto.

[@muycaliente6196]

The intern shows the best that even if a man says babe I support you and "loves you" will still feel insecure and unmanly. Do I think it's healthy for anyone to rate their worth and how masculine/feminine they are based on money or job? No, absolutely not. But it is what is and we live in the reality where people do determine their worth by that

[@NaturalBeingz]

I'm striding to be a software engineer and my husband knows I'll be making more money then him and he is applauding me and even helping me along the journey

[@thephilosopher5799]

You know this is old when Jeannie is talking about Freddy

[@jasi7313]

I'm glad Tam asserted herself and didn't let Shekinah get away with those ignorant comments about Black men and women earning more (and sweet of Jeannie to check on Tam after). On the other hand I can't stand the way these ladies pronounce "noire."

[@sterlingjoseph4385]

What the hell is that thing on Tamera's hair 😂😂? It's distracting me.

[@disneylady9116]

I like when it gets heated like this though!

[@ceeceegray8251]

The women of the real don't always agree but they do give each other the time and respect to say their opinion. I think what got this more intense was that, that was not happening. It was more of a my opinion is fact situation and I'm going to keep saying it.

[@stephanieachane9154]

Beautiful Ms. Shekinah!!!!♥️💜

[@dshawndrad2274]

They've been out the real world TOO long...there's a money dream world and then there's the real world.

[@monagamil7718]

SHEKINAH FOR CO HOST!!!!

[@incrediblywhitty]

This whole surgery convo is super irresponsible

[@destinyramsey6768]

Mrs. Sugaraye She owned up to that though lol

[@musicexplosionx4575]

Mrs. Sugaraye how? She’s grown and that’s that.

[@lavidaloca2344]

If she wasn't keeping it real, you would've never known 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ You would be surprised how many people are like her but lie about it.

[@emanueledeyohansen3528]

Now Jeannie can testifie that Freddy was cheating with a girl while his wife was working earning good money .

[@missa3749]

This didn’t age well because I feel like Tamera was talking about Corey and Tia 😮

[@speedygonzalez6824]

And you don't give your girlfriend money, you only give it to your wife

[@victoriajohn7079]

That’s right

[@melvinaethridge-hm3ls]

I love Lonnie she is so real I love Tamara I miss

[@ReavinAyanahTV]

Tamera and Adrienne are naive because in most situations a man needs to be needed .

[@ReavinAyanahTV]

it takes a balance if he is making money and she happens to be doing more that’s different than him not doing anything and she’s flourishing cause men are raised to be a provider for the women and most take it very serious

[@alicemiriah]

All people are not the same. All men, all women, all blacks, all whites, etc. Sure, a majority of a type can be one way. It’s never all. There are men that like the roles reversed. So do women and other types of people.

[@ReavinAyanahTV]

@@alicemiriah again what I said it doesn’t matter what way it goes . It takes balance in any given situation there needs to be a balance .

[@joemarwood4473]

Angry Tamera is brilliant

[@theelaveaux]

Tamera was looking like not myyyy husband 😬😂

[@MajesticMyronn]

I feel a “ tax refund boyfriend” is aka a guy digger... and same thing for a woman... because shii like that irks me.... I’m always willing to give people a chance but when I feel like you’re only around me especially around a certain time and I’ve let it be known that I liked way before tax season then I know damn well you’re intentions aren’t genuine

[@Counting.sheepASMR]

Shekinah is so cute omg

[@sarongebretatios652]

Tamera at 11:34 😂😂😂😂

[@user-ub5pn9op2q]

jeanie sounds like a toddler at 11:35😭

[@crazyanimeloveable]

I cant with her voice 😂

[@RuizMrs]

This is old. I’ve saw this episode!

[@MajesticMyronn]

Nastacia Ruiz it’s for their Girl Chat Vault...

[@tgirl8955]

Yea, I recall too

[@lindat.7520]

Good thing you've sawed it before.

[@Coolcucumber905]

@@lindat.7520 lmao!

[@WWEGAMEING101]

Why can’t they ever do new shows...

[@didilv2187]

it doesnt matter if the love is real

[@DynamicxFashion]

Dis tew much 🥴😂

[@shanettapryce4029]

A man doesn't feel secure when the woman makes more money they he does because he doesn't have a certain time of leverage. The woman can get up and go because she can handle her own. Every man is afraid of that. Men like a woman who is at least a little bit dependent on him.

[@rahimalmawri4024]

Wait so Adrienne dated broke men?? I thought she only had 4 exes

[@dawnarxtic]

dating and having official relationships are kinda different

[@CarlPuPo]

Dating and having a boyfriend is not the same thing. I think everybody knows that right? 😄😜

[@digthewarmth]

Her first boyfriend was Really broke. She had to get him a job as a part of the crew of the Cheetah Girls tour, and she bought him a car, and he lived with her parents. She grew up with him and was with him from teen years til early twenties.

[@sleepyhead27]

Tam, shhh... I wanna hear more lol

[@akiba1972]

They really weren't trying to hear Shekinah and she was speaking the truth. You got a lot of low down men out here smh

[@kaylabrowne8172]

Tell her Tamera!

[@mariyaa111]

Tamera ALWAYS tries to make it seem like she has the fairytale marriage...girl stop it! Shekinah is in the REAL world..not The Sister Sister bubble.

[@-.a9942]

mariyaa111 she has worked hard for her bubble

[@melaniesouthworth3955]

*loni sips tea*

[@dancaracciolo6980]

Shekinah, who hurt you? Lol

[@feefs2139]

She's a smart woman. Adrienne and tamera are slow and haven't experienced much. Hell tamera lost her virginity after 30 which is awesome but she has no real life experiences WITH MEN.

[@dancaracciolo6980]

@@feefs2139 Sure, but doesn't mean she gets to make blanket statements about people. Her statements were uninformed and not based off facts.

[@feefs2139]

@@dancaracciolo6980 well yes I agree as far as the blanket statement because you can't generalize anyone.

[@simonekumar6711]

Girlllll no shade but tams looks so pissed at the convention 😶😶

[@jasminelopez8358]

Tamera, don’t fool yourself babygirl. As soon as your husband gets a high paid job, he won’t need you 😂😂 notice how you dim his shine but wont dim your own? Humble yourself before God humbles you. 💺

[@pepbyrd8900]

Simple, Tamera was talking about her making more than Adam and him admiring it, and Shakinah was talking about hood niggas that leach off of hard working women, they were on the wrong page

[@stephanie0.012]

Ayyy I’m early for once 🤟🏼

[@MomoManimi]

I feel like Shekinah has just been in the wrong company for the most part

[@sabinemyers9497]

What kind of guys did the one in the middle have Lord is she bitter I kinda hope the guys she hangs around is watching that

[@chandlerpope2072]

I was frustrated with Shekinah the EnTiRe time

[@phillipswatson3452]

CHANDLE😎 SWEETIE...SHE'S GHETTO & FRUSTRATED & THAT WHAT SHE ATTRACT !!

[@Jay-Cozy]

❤️❤️

[@michellemayela6086]

8:08

[@llcooljay520]

Lollll was she ever asked back? I’m guessing not.

[@JasmineJones-wh1tv]

This girl Shekinah is clearly bitter from an old experience. Generalizations are terrible.

[@phoebe9206]

what happened to the 5th the real host? she just disappeared? can someone tell me.

[@mariyaa111]

They fired her. Supposedly it was bc of her ex husband's demands and her attitude. Idk, i loved her.

[@phoebe9206]

mariyaa111 what did he demand?

[@musaazi87]

Shekina is stuck in the past .

[@se6266]

Na that guest obviously been around ain’t sh*t men and that’s what’s she’s used to. Insecure and I feel for her...

[@EjCoolSwagg]

Tf wrong with TAM hair 😳😳😳😳 ?

[@kadajaLroberts]

2nd ❤️

[@AlwaysSpiritGuided]

, it’s great to have a different opinion until that opinion is the truth about racism in this county

[@ayaan8877]

This guest is mad opinionated and ignorant 😂

[@heyheyhey40]

Girl, just go to the gym

[@digthewarmth]

She's painfully stupid.

[@chewchew4270]

digthewarmth lol

[@heyheyhey40]

Yeah, all that lipo and she’s still fat. She should care more about her health.

[@alishawalker405]

Its interesting that Tamera is very Biblical but didn't agree with the man being the head of the house. Regardless of who makes more money your husband is the head of the house!

[@ayaan8877]

Eww just work out and eat right

[@kennyray4458]

Love this Sister however she needs to discipline herself so she can live

[@ohok6091]

This guest can’t speak properly, I didn’t understand what was she saying