FRANK OCEAN - SELF CONTROL ( s l o w e d + r e v e r b )

[@giuliano9254]

more frank ocean (slowed + reverb): kzbin.info/aero/PLMQY6JjJxg_036aTcz75cKElF2I4O5Htz

[@adamwarnock2929]

Out of all the slowed versions of songs Ive heard, Frank sounds the most like himself even at this slower pace.

[@AntiSVH]

It's because most of his vocals are layered, he has down toned and up toned segments during his singing so even if you slow the track you can hear the high tone singing parts lower, reflecting his "original" voice.

[@rickf6375]

@@AntiSVH each and every studio release has layered vocals

[@TheIndieGamesNL]

@@rickf6375 Theres plenty of songs without layered vocals but I agree it is a pretty common industry standard, I mean the artist does atleast 50 tracks per song so you might aswell create some harmonies with all the extra stems

[@irade4473]

true

[@psychii3387]

in nights slowed reverb he sounds a lot like himself still and even the timing seems right

[@grace-cr6jw]

frank ocean truly changed my life. hes so incredible

[@miceinvenus]

same here. he is genuinely amazing.

[@huzaifahattah6481]

I can feel this as well, Grace. You're not out if place.

[@reblgamr5246]

Frank came into my life when I needed him the most. Definitely the best album of the decade , maybe even of all time.

[@edwardangel6888]

Summer 2016 changed my life.

[@softgloss8475]

hes gotten be through so much, i love him so so so much. he changed my life too, thats just what he does because his music is so good

[@leva9737]

this is a different level of emotion unlocked

[@keenza101]

Dude!!!😩💔💔

[@lovergirl2566]

waitt your pfp😩

[@kentallman3567]

i fucking cant with that pfp on😭😂

[@addie5680]

Got very high, listened, teared up when the string section started. Thank you for this.

[@giuliano9254]

you’re welcome! ✌️

[@mellymelz6713]

Addie Dancer try the string section on .75 , gives you chills .

[@cantu7214]

Same bro.

[@khayamaseko6908]

I’m high asf Rn bro hahah and this is so beautiful 😢😢✨🦋

[@shash1702]

this hit soo much better sober, you should try it sober you unlock other real felt emotions ....

[@lowrytv6736]

It's ok to be tired of being tired sometimes, just rest.

[@manuellacambra3189]

current mood

[@xangil21]

rest in peace

[@reissellis2912]

Bless up

[@mindofblonded]

bless your soul, ily

[@xt9283]

Is there a limit to how much we can rest? Bc I been resting for a while n I’m still tired

[@nealmoreno7780]

Life’s so damn hard. But somehow these slowed down songs always keep my hopes up. I miss you so much, and I hope you’re happy wherever you are.

[@MjkL1337]

hope you're okay friend

[@cadenceroy6686]

Neal Moreno you’re a special, unique, wonderful person!! your existence is not for naught. you deserve love and hope

[@nealmoreno7780]

thanks guys. feeling a lot better this year around.

[@asmodeuslol7904]

This hit hard

[@nealmoreno7780]

Jakob Gnomestar life hits. grow older, and then you grow over. cheers.

[@jaylucio8860]

Why does the “keep a place for me, I’ll sleep between y’all it’s nothing” hits harder than the original? Keep your heads up fellas and gals. Love will come around again.

[@pvnchos1478]

Damn, the hope gone for me . Ima just move on with my life. N do me for a bit.

[@babyhannah3884]

PVNCHO s14 period

[@avaestrada5523]

PVNCHO s14 felttt

[@alyssak6267]

perioddd

[@balpsalmkomet4678]

Why do ppl keep talking like this?

[@isabella1486]

listened to this at full volume and at 3:20 i broke down in tears, literally bawling. made me realize so many things i thank u for this

[@xtcxtc2309]

wha especially when you’re going thru it 🥺🥺🥺

[@chrisnambayan]

wow that really hit home.

[@andrewharlacher3414]

When its slowed down, it feels like each note has more meaning, more room to breath.

[@wisteria3209]

wish we’d grown up on the same advice....

[@aristotle8328]

and our time was right.

[@cyndibarron]

keep a place for me...

[@heliigd]

its nothing, its nothing

[@yonglebongle3700]

I’m so glad ppl are talking abt 2:24 because every time that part comes on in the song I literally feel so enlightened I can’t explain it. Yung leans voice with Franks is some kinda drug fr. Makes me feel all emotions at once.

[@stompee_]

same

[@redh.647]

This song hit different when she don’t love you back

[@iridescent6135]

It does..

[@rom731]

she never will

[@santiagodamontevegas1007]

it’s even worse when she once did

[@richardpelafoe164]

felt this broo

[@blondedhead]

It does mate

[@beautieautiful]

realizing you’re falling out of love is worse than your heartbreak.

[@jonasstrdahlhansen8983]

Sarah , ......

[@untitledn34]

realizing someone you love won’t “keep a place for me”, makes you cry a lot

[@alexandraxcosey2410]

444 the angel number

[@thalisnasikas1939]

Nahh trust me

[@briannadiaz3740]

Falling out of live with someone was never love to begin with. Real love will always be there if you truly love someone even if they’re not in your life.

[@user-jw3vn6ju1e]

my eyes teared up as soon as the strings started fml how can someone’s voice do this..

[@chrysalvarez186]

Long ass story time I wanted to get off my chest: Back in 2016, I met someone through mutual friends and we instantly clicked. Which rarely happens. We became close friends in a short amount of time and about three months later, I started feeling a type of way. Turns out, I really liked this guy, but I was too scared to say anything. Another month went by and somehow, he found out that I had feelings for him. He confronted me about it and I freaked out and I ignored him for a couple of weeks until I finally got the balls to talk to him. I apologized, he pretty much forgave me, and we eventually started hanging out again but we never mentioned the incident, which started to overwhelm me because I still liked him. Our bond got stronger but so did the tension. A couple days before New Years, we were hanging out in Downtown, Chicago, and he finally kissed me as we waited for the train. I was so insanely happy & relieved, I honestly could’ve passed out. To fast forward, for the next 5 months, we pretty much acted as a couple without clarifying anything. We had our little arguments, we went out together, we had sex, we supported/helped each other, and we even met each other’s family. It all felt like a dream to me because I was so in love with this guy. He made me genuinely happy. I trusted and adored him. I had never felt that way before. But out of nowhere, he distanced himself which was weird. No matter how hard I tried to communicate with him, he would treat it like it wasn’t a big deal. But some time during the summer of 2017, I found out he started talking to someone else. I was devastated. Even though I’ve already been through traumatic shit, I had never been in love before. I had never been that type of heartbroken before. I showed up to his house one night to personally tell him to never talk to me again. He called me a couple nights later to tell me that he loves me and wanted me to stay in his life. Something he should said and committed to, the entire year(+) we knew each other That was about two years ago. Same time I started listening to frank ocean (pretty convenient). It took me a long time to move on from him, but every time I listen to this song, it reminds me of him. He is currently still with the person he (sort of) left me for. I still have yet to meet someone else who will give me the same genuine feelings I had for him. At the end of the day, I’ve been busy with life and I’m happy with my current loved ones. Even though what he did to me absolutely broke me, he was my first love and the aftermath contributed to my growth.

[@domenicosigrisi6434]

Keep going Sis, you'll find someone who deserves you !

[@nadine338]

you’ll feel that love again and more

[@HekimaAshe]

I know that kind of love. It's hard and hurts but you will get through the feeling. 💖 stay hopeful

[@trayballtv3844]

Chrys Alvarez this is the perfect thing to read while listening to this

[@ΙωάνναΒυτινάρου]

U see i dont know u but u seem like a caring person and i would never leave u like that. So if he couldnt see how damn nice u r and how much love u showed him, sis he never deserved u. Remember, it s his loss, not yours. When u ll find the person that will give u back (and much more) the love u give, u ll realise what real love feels like. Hope u doing well

[@softgloss8475]

my friend introduced me to frank when i was going through a really hard time in 2018. I may not be the most og fan, but he has changed my life and gotten me through so much. people always ask me, "how does his music help you go through stuff if you're crying while listening to it?" for me, crying just gets out everything because if i dont cry it all bottles up. frank helps me let go of everything

[@gemmasantos0104]

I’m scared to lose you the way I’ve lost everyone else

[@rxxanneee]

this hits hard

[@joshuam9408]

Did you lose him? Asking for a friend 😏

[@ken-fv9cz]

@@joshuam9408 bro?

[@pjork9531]

@@joshuam9408 Bro?

[@bethanyemerson5954]

@@joshuam9408 tf

[@nesi4603]

thinking about my crush listening to this, knowing she doesnt care about me a single bit. love the vibe doe

[@anthonyvilla3074]

Same bro

[@christ2583]

Same

[@meeeeeeeeeeeeeee893]

Fr

[@zachknight389]

Real shit bro

[@jesuskrishna8020]

Real

[@bxsnett]

2:10 - 2:23 You can really hear and feel the pain in his voice. love you frank.

[@1Vague]

lmao that part hits so hard...:/

[@bsjdhdhjd3683]

Literally one of the greatest songs ever made... Sitting in my garage in my car, car off but radio on...it's 3am as I write this and as soon as 2:50 hits I start balling... crying like I never have before.... I really needed that. Thank you so much

[@stellabower9537]

3:20 is the most beautiful sound i’ve heard in a while

[@tyronasaurusrx7863]

This really hits different when you feel like for the first time you have someone in your life who loves you for you, and because of other circumstances it falls apart. Just, gut-wrenching.

[@adamgadishaw8895]

3:45 hits different than anything ive ever experienced

[@molekula1540]

it makes me want to cry its sick

[@edwins4307]

I relate so much to "I came to visit because you treat me like a UFO" I've always been good with people and they've always surrounded me all my life but for some reason I always felt like no one really got me and the ones that thought they did were and are still way off the mark and the things I do somehow always shock them and leave them sort of dissapointed in me. They don't say it but I feel it, I've been boxed in my whole life and I'm just looking for people who will take me for who I am and not who they want me to be. Don't know why I just typed all that but maybe it'll help somebody in a similar situation

[@raylar6801]

I felt that

[@guyawesomethe1693]

exactly how i feel nowadays bro

[@slimmjaiiluv]

Ik exactly how u feel- keep ya head up👐

[@dannyxoxo9796]

same😭

[@mth8570]

its “i came to visit cause you see me like a UFO”

[@lamenkwe6352]

"cause you see me like a UFO , Thats like never" i was SHOCKED when i actually heard those lyrics this song is so raw and sad

[@micaelahood4679]

you cut your hair, but you used to live a blonded life

[@MjkL1337]

before reading the lyrics i thought it was blonded

[@micaelahood4679]

@@MjkL1337 it is

[@donghwikim6537]

@@micaelahood4679 isn't it blinded life

[@zion30164]

wish i was there, wish we grown up on the same advice

[@diamond-no5pj]

Micaela Hood and our time was right

[@bethstie]

this song already gets suuuuuuper melancholy when it hits the second half, I can't even imagine what it's gonna be like slowed 😍

[@Dlop7]

This song takes me back to some of the greatest moments of my life with a girl I loved so much. Now, we’re about a year of being apart and I promise I haven’t stopped thinking about her once since the day we broke up. I wish I could go back in time and give her all the love she deserved, she was and will always be the most beautiful soul I’ve ever met. Boys, if you currently have a girl that you love continue giving her all your love!! I promise it will be the biggest regret of your life if you don’t. I took her love for granted and now I just wish she kept a place for me in her heart. Julissa, if you ever see this I love you so much :,( Update: We started dating again after 2 years. Stay strong boys 🥲❤️

[@davidcardoso9328]

i only disliked it cause i’m tired feeling this pain man i’m with you man she’s the one true love of my life and forever will be

[@Dlop7]

David Cardoso stay strong buddy. It’s really hard but I promise it’ll eventually get better

[@davidcardoso9328]

Derian L dreams come true hope i can wake up from this nightmare then and go to sleeping dreaming fam cause shit be difficult

[@newchxppa6419]

sit tight boys. love will come around. i’m going to watch the fireworks with her tommorow night

[@blakeycakey272]

@@newchxppa6419 How did it go 7 months later lol

[@noy8940]

Maaan this really just gave me chills that’s crazy bro

[@MjkL1337]

felt that.. be prepared, this world is unpredictable as hell.

[@adriannprado]

i just realized he says “keep a place for me, ill sleep between yall, its no thing” noooo😭

[@khenudae]

Krillindude the song is about a person dating frank’s ex in a rocky relationship and frank is still messing with that ex while they are in that relationship, also the sex was the only memorable part of the relationship, Thats why he talks about loosing self control, they were chilling, fucked around and had sex and something else but im too lazy to go deeper

[@MjkL1337]

before my last girlfriend broke up with me i cheated on her with another girl, but i didn't make clear to the new girl that i was already in a relationship with another person. it was a whole week every single day she was with me thinking i was hers (no we didn't fuck), and Saturday i had to tell that i had a gf (because we were at peace at this point) somehow she wasn't mad at me for fucking her life completely and i still don't know why... just putting this here, hope some people read this and take some advice not to be like i was.

[@khenudae]

Halo Eve did you not see my comment or are you just gonna continue insulting everyone

[@rebeccarutigliano912]

@Halo Eve bro he gay

[@Ravensfan451]

@Halo Eve how you gonna call people idiots when you don't even know who he's singing about lmfao. SHE this and HER that. Learn a little about Frank Ocean before you nominate yourself his lyric interpreter.

[@nastyalitvinova2784]

the amount of times i've cried to this.............

[@thomascatty379]

Stay strong 🙏

[@julianrendon1746]

Slater paved the way we won’t forget

[@destinygregory843]

GIULIANO slater died?

[@renhawk]

Destiny Gregory his account and all of his videos were deleted

[@EpicGamingLiveEGL]

How are psychedelics illegal but this isn’t 🤔

[@crux9645]

i have also been wondering

[@heliiiGD]

ts is better than psychedelics

[@miceinvenus]

this song is pain. i love it.

[@squeakmeg]

some nights u dance with tears in ur eyes :(

[@RubbelisPro]

Frank's muffled verse at 2:53 gets me every time, since nostalgia ultra he's been my favorite vocalist of all time.

[@james72043]

You deserve so many more subs

[@giuliano9254]

haha thank you, i never expected this many tbh!

[@williamofhanover]

i just want everyone here to know that i was doing karaoke with my best friend last night and she unexpectedly sung this song - and i was like “oh i guess we’re getting into our *FEELINGS* feelings tonight, huh?” and she was like yeah. after she finished singing it beautifully, we listened to the real song. it was the only frank ocean song that we listened to, but for the rest of the night i couldn’t keep it out of my head. and when i left her house at 3:00 AM i was extremely exhausted (and extremely drunk, mind u) and i got home, sat on my bed and before i could even get my pants all the way off i just started sobbing. it was a quiet but very profound cry that unwillingly gave me extremely melancholy feelings that i was incapable of making go away. these were the type of feelings that you feel deep in your chest. the kind that are so heavy you feel like you’re going to implode. anyway - i sobbed on my bed in the fetal position for about two hours all because this song unlocked that part of my soul (against my will) where one puts all of their repressed childhood traumas and dark, unexplainable and shameful personal feelings into. but, i’m doing fine today because i desperately have to remember that there is a reason i am here. everything happens for a reason. it will get better. you MUST believe that if it’s the last thing you do. don’t ever give up because then you won’t be able to outlive all those people who had forsaken you in the past. the universe has a plan (whether it be an easy one or extremely convoluted one) for all of us and we have to stick around to see how and where it all ends up. stay strong.

[@mikeysanchez40]

2:24 My God. Man, I miss her.

[@mikeysanchez40]

@@banrakku for sure, brother. I hope your heart and mind heal, smoothly.

[@obiwanjaco]

yo how arr you doing now man

[@mikeysanchez40]

@@obiwanjaco my friend. I am doing better. I hope you are well!!

[@molekula1540]

this song made me just really want to cry when i was with my dog on a walk and I felt really weird like nostalgic feeling and some kind og hapiness when this song hitted me and like it was really weird cause I have been depressed in a while and this song made my feel magic, thanks Frank

[@maybevanesa9819]

IM BOUT TO CRY WHATTTTTTT🤧 this is so beautiful

[@jeramiahstar4889]

When you high af it hit harder than ever

[@candicetepezano9972]

I miss the old you

[@crux9645]

the old you is the new you

[@An-be1lm]

Nothing that hurts more than when a person you love has changed for the worst. You really miss the old them

[@anadekaj1150]

i discovered this song over a year ago and had such a emotional bond to it so thank you for this

[@_gen10_]

wow thank you for this

[@isaiahl2707]

damn.. I wish u would call me

[@Daisy-oj4dc]

Isaiah L felt that

[@Ilovesaetia]

Hope ur feelin better now man

[@NugeriDwiantoro]

damn... I feel you

[@pvnchos1478]

Move on king.

[@rowanessam9154]

same, i'm starting to fall out of love and it hurts me even more...i wanted him back.

[@odainasereddin9128]

you’ve succeeded in the mission of music, you’re changing people’s lives

[@adrienneadams7758]

me while typing into the search bar: OOOOHHHH THIS FINNA MAKE CRY WOOOOOOOOO

[@gatoeschris1847]

This is so good all your stuff is great, soon you blow up just keep at it man

[@giuliano9254]

thanks my man, I appreciate the love! 👊

[@Hopefool]

This song has been my favorite song (not only by Frank but in general) ever since its release. I've always been listening to it non-stop, always gave me a feeling that I was eager to feel, can't find the words to describe it. A while ago I broke up with a guy, not because we lost the feelings we had for eachother, but for other types of issues that seemed like it could never get fixed. Now, everytime I listen to self control, it gets me in a way like never before, I can feel his frustration, and it is getting too painful to keep listening to it, I just hope I can cope with it, because I need this song in my life, especially now. I just hope I made the right decision

[@cindylop9394]

idk how to explain this feeling. I mean I’m sure when the pandemic is over and life gets back in order I won’t feel this way. But I also don’t know if that’s true either. I just feel so numb. Everything is so wrong with life. All I can hold onto is praying and just hoping the stars can hear me too.

[@hazuinf]

what I love about slowed + reverb is you can really tell when someone's an incredible singer

[@ragipodduvinur]

2:24 makes me cry every time🥲

[@yonglebongle3700]

right it’s so beautiful and relaxing and makes me sad at the same time :(

[@ragipodduvinur]

@@yonglebongle3700 literally so true🥺🫂

[@yungtwigg1550]

I wasn’t invited to any Halloween parties so I decided to listen to this before bed

[@shanedunn807]

I pray that you’re doing well. And if you aren’t know that I’m always here for you

[@jakobson7398]

I'll sleep between ya'll it's no thing :(

[@bengumakasi4903]

its been a year since this gem was published , thank you 🙏

[@khyrios1]

song from heaven

[@sunnyyyyyyyy01]

I’m crying because I’m tired of myself. 02:37 AM.

[@ZigzTv.]

Keep your head up 💗

[@lizardpiss6939]

its 2:31 rn and im crying because i feel like im drifting away from myself and my friends. The fuck?

[@audreyt8391]

it’s 2:41 am rn 💛

[@joshrusin8440]

Damn holds true almost a year later

[@waziure]

05:58. i get you. not crying but i feel you

[@stompee_]

2:24 Yung lean absolutely killed it with this

[@giuliano9254]

will always personally be my favourite part!

[@yonglebongle3700]

@@giuliano9254 SAME

[@stompee_]

@@yonglebongle3700 glad I’m not the only one lol

[@Conker66]

Keiko? Yeah bro... instant dub 😍🥰

[@Meami_ami]

man sad boyz unite

[@hurleypop]

Goddamn I knew this was gonna hurt but not like this

[@mikeysanchez40]

Maaannnn, talk about it 😭😭😭

[@trilogyy5423]

hey buddy, u good now? lol

[@hurleypop]

@@trilogyy5423 I’m doing great man thank you

[@megcardiff5582]

this reminds me of my first love I met on grindr. he made me laugh, cry, and feel so special. i think about him everyday.

[@joshuakim9153]

this shi was an emotional revelation jesus

[@kaitlynschendel6307]

Wow. I can’t even describe how beautiful this is and it just gets better the more you listen

[@kevinmandujano6092]

here on the 4th of July, lookin at the fireworks and wishing she was here with me

[@deryferdian8948]

Poolside convo about your summer last night, ooh yeah About your summer last night Ain't give you no play, mm Could I make you shive last night? Could I make you shy on the last night, last night? Could we make it in? Do we have time? I'll be the boyfriend in your wet dreams tonight Noses on a rail, little virgin wears the white You cut your hair but you used to live a blonded life Wish I was there, wish we'd grown up on the same advice And our time was right Keep a place for me, for me I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing It's no thing, it's nothing Keep a place for me, for me Now and then you miss it, sounds make you cry Some nights you dance with tears in your eyes I came to visit, 'cause you see me like a UFO That's like never, 'cause I made you use your self-control And you made me lose my self-control, my self-control Keep a place for me, for me I'll sleep between y'all, it's no thing Keep a place for me It's no thing, it's nothing It's no thing, it's nothing I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summer time Give us, just tonight, night, night I, I, I know you got someone comin' You're spittin' game, know you got it I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summer time Give us, just tonight, night, night I, I, I know you got someone comin' You're spittin' game, know you got it Yeah I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summer time Give us, just tonight, night, night I, I, I know you got someone comin' You're spittin' game, know you got it

[@samsonsanchez5896]

This song goes out to the girl I thought would be my forever. I wish you knew how much you still meant to me and how much I still think of you. 6 years later and you're still one of my best memories. I wish you the best in life and hope you're happy wherever you are. I'll always be there when you dont need me, I just wish you remember that.

[@BlameItOnGio]

:(

[@eady4963]

“ some times you dance with tears in your eyes “ to me that symbolises the heartache / pain you feel whist in a relationship when there’s a issue but you don’t want to effect your relationship by bringing it up so you just carry on

[@laila4890]

"wish we grown up on the same advice and our time was right" damn this hit home 😬

[@Yasmin-cb2tv]

2:54 hits hard every time

[@lovecj483]

🅿️ain😔🤧

[@jkby177]

Bro the yung lean part make me up

[@kyosan_o]

It 's so hard to heal, i still miss her. The times we spent and the memories we've created

[@moonaday2352]

that guitar is litteraly crying

[@sammylegaspi2214]

Crying your balls out mourning while on shrooms and listening tho this at 1 am are moments to live for

[@shelby4756]

2am vibes🥺✨

[@le1lacw]

I thank frank ocean for changing my life completely

[@nayilasworld8748]

frrr

[@ayesternotti]

This is quickly becoming my favorite song of all time

[@prod.616-02]

Was high when I listened to this, it was good.

[@TEAtimesTHREEE]

Some nights you dance with tears in your eyes ✨😢

[@cmcesar1234]

I dedicate this song to you never meant to be a rock in your shoe, i spend most my moments missing you. listening to frank by the ocean, hoping you forgive me but never forget me please believe me when I say that I never meant to let you you down and ill always be around when you need it Yours truly

[@davyfagundes6768]

please make a t shirt with that phrase

[@jxden_dxdrxs4518]

No one cares about your sub par lyrics trying to brown nose frank ocean just being honest

[@cmcesar1234]

@@jxden_dxdrxs4518 thanks for your honesty

[@cartskis]

this song changed my life

[@GengarCollects]

I feel sorry for people that still haven’t discovered Frank.

[@huzaifa1482]

why am i not enough

[@celina6460]

i will forever simp for this song.

[@ranguire3140]

Jesus i never thought it'd be this good

[@politicco4239]

Bro keep the good work up it will pay off at the end. Blessings.

[@xerohh]

man, this song hits :((

[@gentle2k504]

the crying hit extra hard this time around

[@its_judge.b]

Wish I was there, wish we grown up on the same advice.

[@filippowiw]

grande giuliano! lavorone man

[@aumthanki4983]

GOAT

[@liliana9041]

i’m sorry but this is his best song and you can’t tell me otherwise

[@claudiasherman2447]

3:20 makes me ascend to heaven

[@aya2369]

This slowed version of the song just makes you want to cry for no reason.

[@heykittycat]

my favourite frank song

[@riyad3320]

thank you for this amazing full body experience

[@lesegofloydforbes9470]

This sounds beautiful! 😭❤️