GIVING ADVICE TO STRANGERS with Grace Helbig & Mamrie Hart

[@MonarchsFactory]

"I stopped seeing a therapist 'cause I was just lying to her" Ahhh. The true universal experience.

[@teddyfeld]

If that ain't me I don't know what is :'D

[@ShobhitVashistha]

oh man so true it hurts...

[@meganknowsitall]

so glad this is the top comment lmao

[@becky2984]

Omg Grace singing at the beginning was adorable 😭😍

[@theloserchild]

the 'boo' after mamrie makes a bad joke will never get old, i laugh everytime

[@ChloeanTaylorswift13]

ah good, I can skip therapy again for another year. (but for real y'all are great and help me smile so kudos to you)

[@ThisMightGet]

We should have a disclaimer saying that we are not qualified therapists. YA NEED SOME HELP.

[@martinsakmens8352]

My like Grace helbig show ❤❤☕🇺🇸☕❤️❤️

[@caitlina2739]

For the person who asked about being an English major for law school-that’s actually one of the best majors you can have for law school because it gives you a lot of skills you need but sets you apart from other people in the application process!! I’m pretty sure English and philosophy were some of the highest accepted for law school

[@Caitlinm007]

Specifically, you work on critical reading skills, interpretation of written text, forming an argument, communications. All important things for your law degree. From one English Major to another: English is one of the most versatile degrees out there, but I understand how frustrating it can be for people not to realize it.

[@ToryAdamsSantistevan]

Wow. This episode actually posted on my monthly therapy appointment day!! “Next on This Might Get.... This Might Get Psychic!” Lol love you guys.

[@ThisMightGet]

Looks like you don't need that appointment anymore. Just saved you some money.

[@Hedytf]

Suggestion: Actual therapist visit by Kati Morton.

[@spookazig]

Hedytf I second this!

[@ChloeanTaylorswift13]

yes!

[@brandonpaul7125]

I think that might get a little too real

[@leannuh47]

Hedytf good suggestion

[@Lombreee]

Yes bring Kati Morton on!! ❤️❤️❤️ She's a great KZbinr who is an actual amazing therapist ❤️

[@mariottabuttalapasta]

I was looking for a good joke about therapy but it just reminded me that I actually feel like I should get back to it so thank you, this video had good advices indeed !

[@leannuh47]

Marion D. You were looking for a good joke about therapy but you couldn’t find one. How do you feel about that?

[@jaygrum]

THANK YOU FOR THE SHOUT OUT

[@ThisMightGet]

Make sure you give some love to our newest fan for us! 🐶

[@akiv33401]

Grace and Mamrie's advice is the only advice we ever really need. :) #therapunked

[@leannuh47]

My therapist has acknowledged me in public when I didn’t see her in the same coffee shop I was in. Should I have her arrested?

[@chelsea7930]

Leannuh Renee Leannuh Renee It is breaking confidentiality, if you hadn’t set the precedence in the past that it would be okay for her to acknowledge you in public. It’s an ACA standard set to protect you in case you don’t want people to know you’re in therapy.

[@ThisMightGet]

Definitely. We don't let people break the law around here.

[@joeullman8112]

@@ThisMightGet What about that episode where you broke all the laws?

[@thelynndiaries]

1:59 i would say yes because the therapist would be biased and more likely to give their opinions/advice rather than providing the right questions and support in order for you to find solutions to your problems within yourself. this is why seeing a therapist can be more helpful that seeking advice from friends or family; because you get to see your situation from an outsiders perspective.

[@abluemug]

Dude all of these questions pertain to my life right now. Thanks for stalking me Mace🙄 now I have to follow your advice and do the right thing. Time to get outta bed!!!

[@ThisMightGet]

Or you can just stay in and keep watching This Might Get. We won't stop you.

[@catboyle296]

To answer Mamrie's question, no a therapist cannot have someone they know as a client. It's called a dual relationship and is discouraged in the field. I'm a therapist in training right now and I loved this episode! Keep up the good work guys! :) Also therapists don't give out advice to avoid being sued.

[@akiv33401]

And with this, my day (or night actually) instantly got better. :D

[@_Onlime]

The background music playing throughout this video was really chill

[@ThisMightGet]

Cause we're just super chill people. Can't you tell?

[@ItsTorple]

I had a 3.9 and graduated with honors and applied to B+ grad schools and still was denied by 6/7! Grad school is insane. Remember that you are going from being the big fish in a small pond to being in a crowd of salmon trying to swim across a flooded highway 🙃 it’s not you, friend! Some schools accept less than 10 people! 1/5 is far from over! Have hope and trust that you put your best out there and what will happen will be right for you. There is always another option. 💙

[@nikkiny28]

I for real loooove when y'all call out the chomp!!

[@nelsonmachupa]

Grace is literally a musical genius 😂

[@niharika5155]

nelsonmachupa yes ofc 'fluff a duck' , 'when I was a young girl' and 'big butt, so what' are classics

[@nelsonmachupa]

Niharika Sashidhar “don’t fluff a duck, you just look at a duck, you dirty schmuck *bing*”

[@niharika5155]

nelsonmachupa that *bing* is the best part 😂

[@TheLazySummers]

To help with sleep totally get a smart watch that tracks sleep. Changed my life.

[@GirlOnFire1990]

To answer the question about if you know the person before they come to you in therapy. It would be a conflict of interest if you were to see someone in therapy if you know them beforehand. I'm taking a clinical psychology class in college and we learned all about it. Love this show so much!

[@MeredithVolkman]

Whoever edits these needs a raise. Grace and Mamrie are hilarious (as always), but the editing just takes it to the next level lol

[@sophieannett4438]

This is my new favourite channel, just binged it all I love you guys! You're both so funny, keep smashing it

[@23oela]

Honestly the best part of my afternoons is relaxing and watching you guys.

[@DUNDUA2]

Thanks Grace and Mamrie

[@caitlinlyons8376]

That’s very true, not all rejections are bad, because it will always work out better in the end, it was true for me, I hated my old job after literally being there for two days and there wasn’t any hours for me so they had to let me go. I was super depressed about it until I tried for a new job, aced my interview and now I love my new job.

[@prix4559]

This is quickly becoming my new favourite channel on youtube...love from Italy 😊

[@ThisMightGet]

Yay! Make sure to share us around!

[@cammysan]

Can we get a full length version of your theme song so I can continue to rave as I walk home from the tram

[@angelaramirez4627]

Mamrie's face when Grace doesn't understand her joke... priceless

[@rainas5036]

Thank God 🙌

[@lucis.1333]

Ah, these videos make lunchtime better! Thank you!

[@kaylamarie033]

I have never been happier to add something to my morning routine

[@emilyauman9173]

Actual advice for English major!!! English majors have been statistically proven to do better on the LSATS then prelaw majors and because of this tend to get into better law schools. In addition, being so used to readings hundreds of pages a week and understanding complicated language makes you totally prepped for law school! (Source: I’m an English major and my university constantly talks about law school as a potential next step.)

[@mishawakapost2681]

I give it five helping hands. 👋👋👋👋👋

[@kcheck1]

Love waking up in the morning to you guys!

[@jus10ray]

I am in LOVE with this show❤❤❤

[@horvathl2699]

Waiting, refreshing and here it is... Yippee🤣😃

[@ThisMightGet]

3:30am PST, ON THE DOT. ERR DAY.

[@PfreshLim]

My two favorite advice givers! Love all the high fives!! 👏

[@bethzanley4442]

Can we have a episode on how cool Mamrie's tops are!? I love the patches

[@Sammowrimo]

Good question about making friends! There's a great podcast Make New Friends which talks all about it! Recommended!!!!

[@ChevsChoice]

Just in time for my lunchbreak. 😊

[@trintrinindahouse4837]

you both are so funny!!

[@Jasrules1000]

I stopped seeing a therapist 'cause I was just lying to her lmaooooo. Same, girl. Same.

[@GenuinelyGage]

GOOD MORNING EVERYONE 😊❤️

[@leannuh47]

Genuinely Gage hey just checked out your channel! Subbed too. Have a moment to check out mine. If you like grace and mamez you might like mine

[@ThisMightGet]

Good morning! 😍

[@Nat-xh2nn]

Ahh that dog video was adorable

[@kalebarkwright8494]

Love u guy and u guy look snatched get it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lalalauren247]

“i forget that they’re humans” me too grace, me too

[@banthastan2232]

Lol goodnight from Australia it’s good timing here I can watch before bed or in the morning! Whoop whoop

[@leanneclayton9309]

Have the girls from Clevver on you guys i love you and the show, Grace and Mamrie!

[@stephaniedamico2466]

i need monthly advice episodes. it's cheaper and funnier than anything else!

[@TheNik0001]

Hello from Slovenia 🇸🇮

[@miamidelgado4538]

3:30 am and I’m up because I heard the notification bell.

[@unbreakable_lindi_schmidt]

„I want you to be happy.“ 😂😂

[@HeUaKeia]

“just come in, drop it off, and then leave.” -my dad whenever I’m in the house.

[@tonipops1]

morning gals, i have cramp in my foot, WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE x

[@enamored1]

I feel the same way about food, Mame

[@jamieabel477]

Yeah, you like that

[@user-pc3lg8tf3q]

You guys should try to get Kati Morton on the show for an episode!

[@alkestro]

"I forget that they're human" LOLOLOL

[@jamesa1947]

you guys should do an episode where you celebrate whatever holiday that day is. Grace did it on her channelbut would be better with the two of you

[@DrivesDistracted]

Yeah....that much school sucks. I graduate in August.

[@TdotThaRapper]

Just to answer Mamrie's question about a therapist taking on a client they know, you are correct. If a therapist knows someone on a personal level they cannot see them as a client because that is a conflict of interest and could lead to biases during therapy.

[@lukehill6899]

WISPY IS ICONIC

[@livbrooks4194]

Where I live in Canada, if you know your therapist before therapy they can't be your therapist unless you go through this exs tensile process of giving consent and such. Also, my best friend was going to have the same therapist as me and then found out that we were friends and wasn't allowed to take her on as a client anymore.

[@virlinehonore9767]

5:03 REJECTION IS PROTECTION sorry just immediately thought of roni and nessa 😄😄

[@KareninaKahler]

I honestly could not stop laughing this entire video :')

[@sirmo99]

I have the opposite problem. coworkers want to be my friend and I am like NOPE.

[@kng4760]

How am I supposed to fix my sleep schedule when y’all upload at 4:30am lol

[@emilydiehl8289]

Not a therapist but a Social worker and we have similar code of ethics. If a therapist knows who you are or is up to them to see whether or not your relationship will prohibit the therapeutic relationship. Most therapist don’t because of the ethical dilemma of dual relationships.

[@dylancorrell3788]

If my therapist saw me in public, he'd probably run the other direction 😭

[@100rmcnallen]

Oh my God how is Grace so pretty?😩

[@FffReck]

More Beanz pls

[@ThisMightGet]

There's never enough Beanz. We apologize.

[@FffReck]

I triple dog dare y’all to do an episode on Beanz fashion✨ / dog fashion show ✨✨✨✨

[@achurchc]

I am a therapist. If a therapist already knows you then it would be unethical to see you as a client. Also, thanks for talking about this! ;)

[@therebex23]

All my coworkers are women that are 60+ and I'm in my 20s. There is a day shift and a night shift, the day-shift has 3 other employees and the nigh-shift has like 10. I work the day shift. I was almost immediately adopted by the day-shift crew as their work-niece/daughter. As it turned out, there is a MAJOR cliquishness that I wasn't aware of between shifts (I am one of 2 workers that do not do both shifts) but was somehow accepted into the "popular" group and I am now privy to gossip etc. (nothing that serious really, just hilarious cranky rocking-chair-on-the-porch type of gossip...again these ladies are basically all retirees). I have attended 2 non-work functions in the 10 months I've been employed there and have had a great time even though it was definitely out of the norm for me; now I know that I socialize better with grannies than co-workers my own age. ...so I'm going to bingo next friday. That is my life.

[@ItsTorple]

To answer your question, yes, in most cases, it would be unethical for a therapist to take you on as a client if they already know you. The “in most cases” part refers to situations where this could be different depending on factors like the degree of your relationship (big difference between working with your bestie than Susan from that 1 hot yoga class you went to...although Susan has probably seen some shit) or where you live (i.e.: small town/remote area where you don’t have access to enough therapists so it then becomes more unethical to deny treatment because you don’t have another referral to provide and also can’t really avoid knowing a lot of the people in the area because they are the only people in the area lol). If you are referring to celebrity status, though, I think that would have to be a conversation between you and your potential therapist about how comfortable the two of you are with that and, assuming your therapist isn’t a huge fangirl or something, they should be able to respect those boundaries and acknowledge that, while there is a lot they know from you as an entertainment personality portrayed in the media, they don’t actually know the person that is sitting before them yet and the focus should be on that relationship and the new information that you introduce in session, not what fresh hot shit TMZ pumps out this week! 😊

[@YayForBoo]

I NEED to know...Is Cort the chomp sound fx person???

[@lulu.13]

#therapunked YES PLEASE

[@thedisguise3538]

SHOCKED they didn't plug their rejection ep.

[@InnerMagnetismEarth]

Methinks Grace miiiight've been a bit hungover in this episode. I could be wrong, of cos. Girl def needs to get more sleep.

[@yrojas21]

3 seconds in and I’m already cheesin’ so hard lol

[@smithscullyx]

Guess I can cancel my therapy appointment this afternoon!

[@KathyDubs]

I'm in grad school four counseling psych, so to answer Mamrie's question: Yes, we can't see you if we know you/have any kind of relationship with you outside of therapy. Also, please, please, please no therapranks.

[@sofiecallow350]

Heart surgeon Dr. Hart

[@kkomori_0139]

I have an uncle who is a therapist for teens... I can’t imagine all the stress that accumulates 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@PatientBean]

Not sure if you were actually interested, but since I am currently in graduate school for Psychology, if a therapist has a previous relationship with a client (be it romantic, friend, family, etc.) it is unethical to treat them if the therapist can't remain objective. You can still see them, but you have to make sure it doesn't affect how you treat and interact with them because the primary goal is to ensure the client's well-being. Also we would avoud seeing you outside of therapy unless you interact first for much the same reasoning.

[@emilyoliver1311]

I'm watching this before my first ever real life therapy session, total coincidence but like do I even need to go now?

[@christina0927]

To answer your question, therapists are meant to avoid "dual relationships" with clients. So, a therapist should not provide services to a friend, ex-partner, or relative, for example. If the client is an acquaintance, it would be decided on a case-by-case basis.

[@alexispullins133]

As a therapist, y’all just cracked me up. Also, the answer to your question... if you do know someone personally, you cannot be their therapist as it is a “conflict of interest” and you can’t have a professional relationship along with a personal relationship. Lots of different reasons why, but just know it’s a big no-no. Also, if we see you in person and you initiate a hello, we can say hello but we are technically not to talk about your therapy or treatment in public due to the possibility of others listening to your treatment and diagnoses. Don’t want any HIPAA violations... We usually say hello and that it’s nice to see you, and go about our ways.

[@mpk1731]

"Because I was lying to her" too real, that is probably the number 1 reason I haven't gone to therapy (except when I found out I have ADHD). Because I am WAY TOO FULL OF SHIT

[@MubinNoor]

7:31 Melissa McCarthy vibes.

[@Emma-ul3gz]

Grace is ME

[@niharika5155]

To quote Mamrie Hart herself, embarrassing/bad farts is an oxymoron. You should own it, own it, own it

[@dylandreilich5647]

damn happy hour was really on grace's mind

[@ZBGregory]

What the even heck. I JUST went to a therapist and they're talking about this. HELLOOOO Universe I see you are trying to contact me now.

[@BrowneAa]

Am I the only one that is always expecting them to be like “Hello I’m Grace Helbig. If you don’t know, now you know” & “im Mamrie HARRRRRRT”

[@ErikFlaeder]

Grace haven't been sleeping for 8 days? I haven't been awake for 8 days

[@TheMissHooligan]

If my therapist didn't quit on me.. I WOULD SO TRY AND DO WHAT MAMRIE SAID! hahahahaha.. go out in public and act nuts!

[@spookazig]

#Chomp!

[@luciavargas1727]

Good mythical morning, everyone!!! Oh, wait

[@MarkThePage]

#TBT to Wispy, the beautifully hideous dog Mamrie was too slow to adopt, but got a pillow of instead: 78.media.tumblr.com/a4ab4d1c0e98ac80c61f29e85a0d99fa/tumblr_mwmotvsi8N1sernuzo1_500.jpg