Glee Kurt and Blaine gets couple counselling from Emma 3x17

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Episode: Dance with somebody

[@joyeswinderman3845]

i just love their relationship, you expect kurt to be the sensitive one but it's actually blaine who ends up being rather insecure and emotional...

[@veronicapascual6309]

Joye Swinderman your so right omg!

[@oliviallau]

A Katy and a Gaga

[@KhoiV]

@@oliviallau 😱😱 HOW TRUE THIS IS 💀💀

[@TodoDekuOTP]

Where was all that sensitivity and sentimentality when it took Karofsky to even get any gifts for Valentines?

[@kileybrennan5355]

"Kurt, wouldn't you love Blaine just as much if he didn't have tanned hands?" I AM DECEASED

[@alwaysahiccupandastrid]

I died at Blaine saying about Kurt snapping his fingers at wait staff because Kurt literally did that just a few episodes earlier 😂

[@monique3984]

which ep?

[@jasmintaylor8276]

Innit x

[@user-nd1np6vg8v]

@@monique3984 3x10 if i'm not mistaken

[@filmfangirls9163]

I love that cuz it annoyed me when he did that 😂

[@letiziagreco3609]

Luca amore baci

[@sketch3744]

"kurt wouldnt you love blaine just as much if he didnt have tanned hands?" xD ahahaahahaha.

[@ifpsychobadwhyhot]

I'm the 1kth liker! Yey! 💖

[@leahclark5381]

Blaine always makes me cry he always has such romantic words

[@lezzzyy]

Leah clark he's also he one that said he was awful at romance😂

[@leahclark5381]

Maybe he doesn't realise he is 😂😂 wish I could find some like him.

[@ggbb10101]

LIZZY MAYO lol i know right?

[@darlingrosiebun8952]

LIZZY MAYO I think it's because he always speaks what he feels rather than trying to spice it up. His honesty is romantic

[@ling_a_bling]

@@darlingrosiebun8952 Nah, he lies a lot too.

[@knowledgegathererdraftsave1979]

0:42 - 0:43 Is there anything Emma doesn’t have a pamphlet for?

[@louixxx01]

She have a pamphlet for that question

[@pageturnerproductions1152]

LOL so true XD

[@musicaltheatergeek79]

Early in Season One, I remember she didn't have a pamphlet for 'how to be popular,' when Quinn and Finn came seeking advice after they lost their status upon joining glee. I guess 'cause she only has pamphlets for sad problems. Haha

[@travwill7147]

David Wilds that’s something she would totally have 😂😂😂

[@alaynatherealpotato1673]

No. There's one for everything

[@megantrory9900]

When Kurt, aka Porcelain, slips bronzer into Blaine's moisturizer

[@brilovesblainebrionesbrion5856]

Sounds like you are trying to say Vibrator

[@alannal9332]

I just realized that Blaine was right in 5x16 he IS insecure. When he found out that Kurt was texting a guy, it was one of his fears that's he's moving on, therefore reminding him that Kurt is going away. Blaine cheated on him out of loneliness, trying to fill in what Kurt made him feel. It didn't work. When they broke up in 6x01 Kurt was saying that he can't do this and they need to move on. Blaine did that. With Dave, which wasn't really the best option, yet Dave was compassionate on his[Blaine's] feelings for Kurt. Blaine got depressed for a while back in s4 but he got past it, but in s6 it seemed like he couldn't get over it.

[@zacsbabygirlay]

P!kachoo Cute yeah exactly

[@hethkloooholla2415]

P!kachoo Cute the writers were drunk sometimes but in the end they got married

[@Beppo85]

Good analysis.

[@annatimberlake7]

Writers were drunk,but scene content is valid

[@solaceseries]

Wait...blaine moved on with David?!?

[@Butterfly-ue1ph]

Darren Criss is magical he's also an outstanding actor!

[@brockbuster]

Did we watch the same clip? Nothing magical or outstanding about Darren Criss in this scene.

[@froggylou4387]

Brocky. Watch “the assassination of Gianni Versace”.

[@Ada-cb6lu]

He's the cutest

[@annatimberlake7]

Your opinion boy,not others

[@grantc2854]

i like him but hes a overated actor

[@tuesings]

Kurt: “fine im *actively* listening” Emma: *winks at Kurt*

[@rishiheda8186]

0:42 I love how she hides the pamphlet. It's the little unspoken jokes like this that make the show epic. And my god is there anything Emma doesn't have a pamphlet for?

[@adaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

Emma is like "THEY'RE SO CUTE OMG HIGH SCHOOL RELATIONSHIPS I SHIP THEM"

[@charitygracelynn]

I love how much Emma loves Kurt because me too

[@karola1131]

Charity GraceLynn emma loves Kurt? XD What?

[@brilovesblainebrionesbrion5856]

Emma better back off of him because I love Kurt! He's my Honeybee!

[@dlmbs]

I would read the "Say sorry with a song" pamphlet though

[@coudywane888]

OH MY GOD BLAINE IS SUCH A PUPPY IM DYING

[@dacoriancampbell1296]

Blaine how dare you ask Emma about her qualifications.

[@louangelafreakinawesomecri1082]

Yeah... he's right about questioning her about qualifications cause through personal experience I questioned my guidance teacher the same question.

[@Trezzy_beenlit]

I mean it didn’t help Finchel season 2

[@rem.in.wonderland4513]

2:27 - That little "I love you so much...", Oh my god! It just melts my heart...

[@ilovebts3091]

Blaine’s face when he cries, KILLS ME. When it showed their breakup in episode 1 season 6. His face omg. I cried.

[@rishiheda8186]

Darren is so adorably extra. And oh my god it's like he has built-in puppy dog eyes that make him look extra freaking cute! I just feel like wanting to hug him every time Darren made that face

[@karlabowie8194]

-Yeah i'm pretty sure they broke up Lmaooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ryanappleton3653]

Gosh, they seem like such a good fit too though, right? Does Emma ship Samcedes? If so, she must be protected at ALL COSTS

[@kayladimarco69]

T A N H A N D S

[@heavencanwaite]

damn, emma's good

[@andych5965]

2:32 when we all expected a kiss 😑😂😂❤

[@user-ef9pb7xl1c]

But they had already used their two kisses per season bonus in episode 5 😅

[@katy5876]

they have the most real and honest relationship in this entire show

[@beccagregory3586]

Most realistic too, people expect them to be perfect but no relationship is perfect, they struggle but they find a way back to each other, and that's what I love about them

[@YeetusTheFetus]

It’s because most things about Kurt’s life were based on ryan murphy’s actual experiences

[@TheManaPrism]

"I sang you a song to express my regrets." Proof that Glee isn't taking place in the real world, it's taking place in a different dimension.

[@Beppo85]

Like pretty much any scene with Sue doesn't make that clear already?

[@charlotted1321]

This will always break my heart, coz Blaine was right, Kurt completely neglected Blaine when he was in New York, I think the writers forgot this scene even happened

[@tikabanks7927]

Kurt didn't neglect Blaine. Kurt found a job, he wouldn't have time to answer every single call from Blaine. He didn't work before, he could answer any time of day.

[@idc4163]

Charlotte D Blaine told Kurt to go to New York in the end. It's not Kurt's fault he was busy.

[@Mr0011011]

LMFAO. No, he didn't neglect Blaine. He lived his life, was in a new city in a new level of education and was focused. It's long distance, you won't talk all the time. It was no excuse to cheat and no excuse for Blaine being a douchebag. Blaine alway had issues. He was clingy and couldn't really hack it away from Kurt and then in NY when Kurt was doing better. Like the relationship, the Klaine-shippers are a bit delusional and slightly toxic. Just saying.

[@stephaniel2850]

While I agree that there was no excuse for the cheating, I was rewatching the early season 4 episodes last night and realized that I think a lot of people forget the actual details of the lead up to The Breakup. Kurt was busy, yes, but it IS true that he wasn't exactly being a great boyfriend either. He acknowledged at one point over the phone that it was frustrating for him not getting to talk as much as well, but then immediately cut his conversation with Blaine short so that he could chat with a coworker at Vogue who "always has the best gossip." And when he WOULD get the time to talk with Blaine, Blaine was happy to hear about his successes but every time he tried to mention at all that he was having a tough time adjusting to being at McKinley without Kurt, Kurt would end up changing the subject or talking over him. It's completely understandable that he was getting settled into his new life and didn't have a ton of time, but it really was the case that Kurt also wasn't *trying* particularly hard to make sure that Blaine was doing okay also. And Brittany and Santana were a direct comparison: Brittany, too, was feeling lonely and having a tough time without Santana, and Santana was genuinely really busy as well. But Santana was at least really trying to make sure that she was still giving Brittany as much of her time as she could: in her case, since she was going to school closer to home, she made sure to come home every few weeks to see her. And even then, it was still really rough on Brittany, and Santana *realized* this, and recognized that despite her best efforts she couldn't be a great girlfriend to Brittany while she was so busy, which is why she broke it off before anything went south. Now again, by no means am I saying that it was rational or right for Blaine to cheat, but it boggles my mind a little that people are SO quick to call Blaine "clingy" and act as though there was nooooo basis whatsoever for him having felt like Kurt was pulling away, and yet I've never heard a single person suggest that Brittany was being clingy when she was going through a hard time with Santana not being there. And bare in mind, Blaine had even MORE reason to be having a hard time, since he'd switched schools and basically changed his whole life up to be closer with Kurt in the first place! Not that it wasn't ultimately his own choice, but nevertheless, it's understandable that that feeling of "my whole life is different now and the person I made it different for isn't here anymore" would come up. So yeah... while Blaine's resorting to cheating was NOT okay, that doesn't mean that the reasons behind him reaching that point were just that he was "being clingy" or that he was some douchebag who only wanted everything to be about him. Kurt was in no way responsible for Blaine cheating, but apart from that, he wasn't being a great partner in his relationship. Blaine should have come to NY BEFORE cheating to talk it out, but his feelings were valid.

[@darlingrosiebun8952]

Stephanie L Agreee

[@Lilahlove17]

Darren has the most expensive eyebrows. He bails the the “you hurt my feelings look and the “I’m sad” look

[@pageturnerproductions1152]

Blaine is like a character that rants about his relationship problems more than the ones that are bigger than his relationship. "You like this guy..." "I feel *insecure* around you." But the way he complains about Kurt is screaming the problems we dont get to see that we would like to see.

[@ShaniceW494]

Emma fixed their relationship in under 3 minutes without speaking that much...she deserved her tenure 😂

[@coffee_icedtea5976]

Emma scooting her "say sorry with a song" brochure 🤣🤣🤣

[@mehmetates98]

*A few months later, Blaine cheated on Kurt...*

[@raerae5560]

Mimit Bey lmao!!

[@Pinxku]

Yeeee he did and then he got new bf after they were suppous to get married

[@annaparks288]

pinxku!! Because kurt dumped him for no reason so of course he going to move on

[@Pinxku]

Anna Parks i know

[@sisters1662]

Mimit Bey he also texted Sebastian, the criminal chipmunk

[@surleywicked6983]

My heart, when Blain was like "your the love of my life"

[@sof75]

The whole time I’m just staring at Emma’s face and she’s just like: “Damn, these ones are a different breed“

[@beccagregory3586]

The way this scene goes from talking about finger snapping, and tan hands to a heartfelt confession about how he is scared to lose Kurt...damn you Glee 😭😭😭😭😭

[@annikalowery3050]

Kurt is my favorite character and his personality 😂

[@robertwhyte4979]

Kurt personality is multifaceted

[@shadow2753]

Emma looks like shes about to get some popcorn and watch shit go down😂😂

[@lokasennax3097]

I'm gonna go cry now...(SOBS)

[@mighty_milady_maren6766]

Blaine : Are you...qualified for that?🤔 Emma : No, not really...or at all 😅 I am dying 🤣

[@anamarcy4444]

*darn, they seemed like a pretty good fit,too*

[@journeyeaston7394]

She did a beautiful job she awesome

[@wankysnixx2971]

THIS SCENE IS ICONIC “TAN HANDS”

[@TheManaPrism]

If we take all the cheating stuff away, Blaine is a really great boyfriend, he's so cute ^^ !

[@beans6765]

Oh yeah, just forget all the cheating, smh! That's like saying "if we take away all the murdering, that guy's a good person :)"

[@fairyhotline]

@@beans6765 lmaoo 💀

[@cardyfabien5371]

@@beans6765 but he is a good person that's really not a good comparison

[@bobbiems3154]

@@beans6765 lmaoooo but they only put the cheating in for shock, it’s so out of his character

[@misterahtapot]

I wouldn’t say so. His insecurities were the problem in their relationship most of the time. Started here and went on for 3 more seasons and in the later seasons there wasn’t an Emma to do relationship counseling for them lol

[@eneshocaoglu9798]

0:15 LOLLLLZZZZZ

[@kifahhassan5702]

Back when Klaine was still a relatively healthy relationship

[@karola1131]

Kifah Hassan and writers didn't ruin them

[@blitzer9981]

This is why I tend to treat everything past season 3 as some sort of mediocre fanfiction, interesting to read/watch and it has the characters we love and has some good moments, but overall it’s not nor will ever be as good as the original.

[@a_person_that_exists1658]

@@blitzer9981 maybe I should do that it could save me having mental breakdowns..

[@alexinwonderland5782]

@@blitzer9981 yo wait i’m gonna start doing that ! i already think of season 6 as sue’s self insert klaine/brittana fanfiction 😭

[@alexinwonderland5782]

yeah i still love klaine and there’s still some post season 3 moments that make me smile (like the proposal and the brittana/klaine wedding) but they went downhill really quick :/

[@oliviamitchell4455]

Emma crying 😂💗❤️😱

[@tals9998]

Liv Mitchy when did Emma cry?X

[@aanderson148]

Blaine don't cry baby. 💔

[@patticarson864]

This is the first of two conversations that Kurt and Blaine have at the end of season three where Blaine shows concern about what long distance will mean for their relationship and Kurt dismisses his concerns and promises nothing will change. It is no wonder Blaine got so insecure about their relationship in Season four. Everything Blaine was afraid would happen, happened, even though Kurt promised him multiple times that it wouldn’t. I think if Kurt has not been in denial about what moving to New York would mean for their relationship and honestly talked about Blaine’s concerns the events of season four would not have happened.

[@exo_eve7575]

For sure! This scene, from a writing perspective, is very much foreshadowing for the future. Every single thing they talked about came to pass. They didn't communicate well (mainly cuz they were just teenagers) through their relationship coming into s4 and during s4 which really pushed everything to where it ended up.

[@lizziel92]

Add The Kurt & Blaine Scene When He looks through Kurt's Phone & Says He's Cheating On Him 3x17💔

[@tojin]

0:17 That Blaine's puppy eyes I just can't

[@faizahnc1565]

2:04 Emma is like how can this kid be so romantic like this.

[@sophielanglands6920]

the way he said ‘right here’ 😭😭😭

[@faizahnc1565]

Darren is so good at doing those crying faces with his trembeling voice, he makes me wanna cry too...

[@xxleah_haydenxx]

When Blaine's crying and talking about Kurt going to Nyada and leaving him alone Emma's just like 😐

[@brilovesblainebrionesbrion5856]

I laughed when Blaine started Snapping his Fingers!

[@kickinbackwithKeira]

Anyone remember when Emma was just the weird guidance counselor who had a creepy crush on Will? Who knew she would become a big part of the show and people would love her and find her funny? Only asking because I am one of the people that loves her

[@iamsofia3782]

They're such good actors. And yes, the finger snapping annoyed me too😅

[@klara3865]

Think about Emma she is just sitting there like 😮 😂

[@ellromo]

The way I’ve memorised this entire scene omg-

[@cheyenneshaw540]

THIS WAS SO FUCKING CUTE 😭😭😭😭😭

[@bee-rose5907]

and this is when we learn that blaine is emotionally needy everyone 👏👏👏

[@aniyamartinez.727]

omg im crying when kurt said "I promise your not gonna lose me" because blaine lost him later on 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@bessiebanks4785]

He shouldn't have promised

[@1Alekfan]

I cry every time I watch this scene!

[@carolinetaylor3069]

Unpopular opinion I'm sure but this is one of my favorite klaine scenes, it's both funny and sweet

[@ryanmorgante3537]

Emma in this scene always makes me laugh so hard 💀💀

[@macaronweasley8100]

The snapping thing just made me go like "true" really quietly

[@isl9d]

0:52 I was laughing so hard ahahahhaa

[@knowledgerules8008]

There is definitely the ability to make it to the big screen for Darren. Extremely talented and still humble actor.

[@maurafaith8795]

Klaine ❤️ I freaking love Klaine

[@madhatter2796]

BLAINE NEVER ASK A WOMAN ABOUT HER QUALIFICATIONS

[@somelittlellama4186]

Nonsense. There is nothing wrong to ask people, either men or women, if they're qualified for a job, specially when they're going to treat you.

[@parizodanasimjonova2909]

Some Little Llama I've never seen the show but I've seen this type of comment a couple times, I think it might be a reference

[@isl9d]

Yeah I'm pretty sure they broke up omg Blaine 😂😂 0:15

[@catherinemaggot3184]

1:34 I know how bad that feeling, unfortunately my best friends are graduating this year and I’m a junior and we’ve had this same conversation. I’m down to 2 weeks now and I’m not ready for it

[@madelineaguilar302]

Omg I felt that in my soul it feels so raw even the way Darren says it oooh man

[@matilda_cobbold_2417]

They are such an inspiring couple wtf

[@francescamassei7897]

I understand Blaine so much, he feels like he is loosing Kurt, the love of his life, and he is so scared and insecure. This of course doesn't excuse him for cheating on Kurt, but I'm also so sad for him and I think Kurt and Blaine should have worked more on their issues before Kurt's leave. They bouth weren't ready for it and maybe if they had solved the problems better all would have worked good. It's so sad😔 Ok I'll stop being depressed now because I'm being annoying, sorry😅

[@_____2219]

We shouldn’t also ignore how Kurt ignored Blaine. The Skype calls and the hang ups contributed because instead of Kurt letting Blaine say what he wanted to say he only talked about himself. The number one problem of Klaine is communication (and also for every relationship). Kurt flirting with another guy because Blaine doesn’t and Blaine cheating because he feels ignored by Kurt are caused by their lack of communication. If both Kurt and Blaine let each other share what was on their mind, the cheating debacle would have not happened.

[@TheManaPrism]

Darren is a really good actor

[@txmlinson]

2:19 what kind of funds they got to go from Ohio to NY every weekend😟

[@obohemma1983]

This is the best scene of klaine

[@Isabella-bk5lc]

*TAN HANDS*

[@erickjericho7080]

Blaine is so precious, he literally almost breaking when talked about nyada

[@adelaidelazarski6723]

Tan hands

[@foreverskryd]

Yup that's the scene that made me realize how much Blaine actually cared for Kurt and made him my favourite character before I even knew it

[@lunarkinght123]

Blaine: *It's like you can't wait to get out of here!* Kurt, who was literally bullied for years and was assaulted by his former bully from "here": *...* Edit: Season 6 stated that Kurt was bullied a year before he joined Glee Club, plus that transfer was before the prom insident I mean sure he liked Glee Club, but Ohio for him was a different story

[@bessiebanks4785]

Yet he was out of there and chose to go back.

[@patticarson864]

That does not really apply when you consider that he left once and chose to go back as soon as his new school lost the regionals competition. Also, there has been no evidence that he has been bullied at all this season. The last known instance was the season two prom episode.

[@lunarkinght123]

Guys its not like he went back like out of whim He went back if he was guaranteed safety in his old school

[@justjessica6819]

I’m crying This is emotional Klaine is best

[@xxleah_haydenxx]

Blaine crying makes me dead inside-

[@heddalee]

These two completely avoided addressing the major stuff they brought up. And they never did solve those problems between them.

[@_____2219]

Yeah they never did. The whole skype thing so much for that kurt. Congrats kurt, you’re the sole reason why both of you broke up because you felt the need to only talk about yourself instead of listening to Blaine.

[@annikalowery3050]

I love this couple and this scene!! But I love how Emma looked disappointed when she found out Kurt snapped his fingers at wait staff. Also I feel like in the show there were so many times when they could’ve or should have kissed and they didn’t. Like Santana and Brittany kissed a lot more in public then Kurt and Blaine.

[@jamiewhite1076]

Theory: I recon Blaine was never upset about the texts. He had to be happy for Kurt going to New York and be supportive, but of course deep down he was worried and sad and he was using the texts as an excuse to lash out and tell Kurt how he feels about him leaving

[@bessiebanks4785]

Well in the text he was making plans with the other guy.and that's why I think he cheated first but just never told lane that he did.i mean he made the plans and never cancelled them.

[@alexinwonderland5782]

man i have so many theories/headcanons on why blaine is the way he is lmao

[@pokemonfan7211]

*emma at the end of the day*: i don't get paid enough to deal with this

[@videohistory722]

I've always said that Klaine was the couple that was always one step ahead of everyone else, and its this scene I like to use to prove my point. Before Emma can even suggest what step they should take next, they're already doing it!

[@luvelytayz]

2:00 after he says that i go really sad and think in my head “kurt better start practising too“ :(

[@arthurhu8749]

I just remembered that Kurt is one year older than Blaine.

[@anxiousbookworm1769]

You know I think she did pretty okay. I mean, they did get married

[@livheartsmatt]

blaine is such a puppy

[@sleepytofu]

the pamphlet saying “say sorry with a song” took me out

[@sinman3189]

Did Blaine just admit that the messages between him and Sebastian weren’t that Family Friendly as he claimed earlier

[@bessiebanks4785]

He always let Kurt see them.thats the difference

[@Simplysummers]

@@bessiebanks4785 no he didn’t. If you’ll recall in “Michael”, he didn’t even know they talked separately.

[@bessiebanks4785]

@@Simplysummers yes he did it was mentioned

[@Simplysummers]

@@bessiebanks4785 it was mentioned in the episode. Sebastian mentioned about their phone calling discussing red wine and Michael, and Kurt responds with “how often do you two talk?” Insinuating he had no idea blaine and Seb spoke on the regular, if at all

[@heddalee]

"I think Sam and Mercedes found me pretty helpful, especially when I outed them as couples therapy clients to their friends."

[@iamtariq1608]

exactly

[@florianedazin963]

I know it's late but I can't help noticing that Kurt and Blaine reminds me Ross and Rachel in Friends.

[@mariancracraft2251]

00:47 lolzzzzzzz