"That's because you're 16 and you still assume the best in people"
@chrissy91533 жыл бұрын
Not this comment making me cry
@hazelxtaliahazelxtalia99753 жыл бұрын
U live a few years u start seeing the hate in ppls heart
@adrianaay0433 жыл бұрын
Burt is the best Character. Looking out for his son and trying to help/ understand his son to the best of his ability
@SRLovesPandas13 жыл бұрын
one of the best lines from Glee
@CheerfullyCynical8293 жыл бұрын
I expect that barring a select few, MOST people will disappoint me or let me down and I make arrangements accordingly. I think it's a good strategy.
@venicemoru3536 жыл бұрын
*"burt is the best dad ever"* Said everyone ever
@jerkerhernback95584 жыл бұрын
After Finn died Burt admitted that he overreacted
@woah58463 жыл бұрын
@@lha7735 Burt was right though,Finn was being an asshole.Burt was only trying to protect his son.You can’t just go around saying the f-slur as you please in a house with someone who is part of the lgbtq community.It’s insensitive and wrong.Even if Finn felt uncomfortable he could have told Kurt and they could have changed his room.
@woah58463 жыл бұрын
@@lha7735 well it’s how you view it but I understand why tho now
@marianar.99663 жыл бұрын
@@jerkerhernback9558 he didn't overreact! Homophobia is bad!!
@marianar.99663 жыл бұрын
@Musically Talented why?
@spongebop1256 жыл бұрын
"The place looks great" idk why that hit me but like the amount of support that Burt shows honestly sends me into another dimension
@heydeanie3 жыл бұрын
I know! I cry at the whole thing, but when he says that I cry twice as hard
@haydenV0ss5 ай бұрын
I wish my dad was like burt😭😭😭 sadly I get misgendered and fag shamed
@alwaysahiccupandastrid6 жыл бұрын
What I love about Burt is that he doesn’t deny the fact that when he was younger, he was potentially homophobic at times (using the “f” word etc). But he changes and becomes a better person because of his love for his son. I think that’s so admirable.
@aobakwekeatlhomile82263 жыл бұрын
We love seeing him not being a hypocrite
@tmann70643 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that he talks about how hard it is to change his thinking because it was common place when he grew up. But, he changed even if it was hard because he loved his son and loved him for who he is even if he didn’t quite know how at first Burt is the best parent on this show
@tanjieeyang83123 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY. And that's why he is the best dad in this show ever.
@Nasia-3 жыл бұрын
@@aobakwekeatlhomile8226 yep
@danimacke69373 жыл бұрын
I won’t lie, I used that word for a while until my daughter explained its origin. I will NEVER use that word again.
@MrsBlack886 жыл бұрын
The way he said "The place looks great"...was honestly the best ending to this scene.
@babygurleatsshickennuggits42013 жыл бұрын
And he was right
@lilianna94866 жыл бұрын
“He is my son” so much care love and protection went into that ONE it makes my heart burst
@TheManaPrism6 жыл бұрын
Kurt's pain and guilt, Burt's anger and disappointment, Finn's shame and regret... Cory, Chris and Mike are such brilliant actors
@sensarmy3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@ZainabProductions3 жыл бұрын
Cap
@goddessofdesire3 жыл бұрын
@@ZainabProductions shut up
@ZainabProductions3 жыл бұрын
@@goddessofdesire it’s facts they’re not good actors especially Cory . only mike is
@goddessofdesire3 жыл бұрын
@@ZainabProductions Me when I have no clue.
@snowspirit76708 жыл бұрын
'Out in the world you do what you want, not under my roof.' That has to be the first time I've ever heard that in relation to homosexuality when they meant 'Don't be homophobic under my roof' rather than 'Don't be gay under my roof'. Burt is amazing.
@impossibledial6 жыл бұрын
Lh a he was defending his son 😡
@bluebubble2296 жыл бұрын
Burt wasn’t being an asshole because he didn’t know about Kurt to blame too once he found out he had a talk with him and he had every right to tell funn off
@bluebubble2296 жыл бұрын
Why would he? Kurt his is son.
@lha77356 жыл бұрын
@@bluebubble229 furthermore, Finn moved in, eventually Burt was going to have to play some sort of parental with finn 2. When there is a disagreement between two people, one of them is your stepson in theory the important thing to do is to jump in and find out what is going on, Burt didn't do that he overreacted and didn't listen to Finn's side of the story. And again he immediately jumped to conclusions and through finn out of the house, that was extremely childish on Burt's part.
@bluebubble2296 жыл бұрын
True but Kurt will automatically be Burt’s true father. Yea Finn was in that family but he only knew him like 2 months. He knew Kurt his whole life. Just because they are a family doesn’t men he loves Finn more. He will always love Kurt more. He will always put Kurt first.
@sashal14936 жыл бұрын
I felt so bad for Kurt in the beginning, I mean you could see the pain in his eyes. He tried so hard, and you could see he was hurt by what Finn said...
@annaparks2886 жыл бұрын
Sasha L yeah tried so hard to get in Finns pants when one finn isn't gay and two he has a girlfriend
@Lee-jy8tk6 жыл бұрын
@@annaparks288 he wasn't trying to get in finns pants.. have you met kurt?
@cuterosiethebeagle14936 жыл бұрын
@@annaparks288 Might wanna actually watch the show dumbass
@sethronalds94576 жыл бұрын
actually, Kurt DID want to date Finn in a 100% romantic type of way. 100% Kurt was flirting with Finn. Even Burt brings it up next season. People are calling Anna a dumbass for bringing this up, well you are the dumbasses for not being able to realize what Kurt was trying to do throughout this series. Even the set up of the room, it is not something most guys, esp most masculine guys would want. Let's be real. They eventually do go to a brother relationship, but that is not how it started. Kurt was interested in Finn. That itself was not the problem. What became the problem is he wanted to try to force Finn into something he didn't want. If you had to live in that situation everyday, it would bother you too.
@d.n.c.greatness77355 жыл бұрын
Oh please. Give me a fucking break with that bullshit. Kurt had a crush on Finn during this time period and he KNEW that he was making Finn uncomfortable and continued without giving a damn. And when Finn ginally snaps and calls THE BLANKET NOT KURT FAGGY he's the bad guy?! Fuck outta my face with that shit!!!!!!!!!! Burt even admitted later on after Finn died that he knew what Finn meant by saying faggy and that he totally overreacted.
@blerdygoddess8 жыл бұрын
Burt Hummel for best tv dad ever
@Harry-bn5mp8 жыл бұрын
He stood up for his annoying, creepy son who couldn't back off.
@Katie-ev9lf8 жыл бұрын
EXCUSE ME WHAT DID YOU JUST CALL KURT ?!
@Harry-bn5mp8 жыл бұрын
ANNOYING CREEPY AS HELL SON WHO COULDN't BACK OFF
@dianarose00558 жыл бұрын
He's the best one I've seen so far, he's open minded and stands up for his family
@rbishop956 жыл бұрын
He’s up there, after Sandy Cohen and Sherriff Stilinski
@Marlondaydreams7 жыл бұрын
"I was talking to the blanket" 10/10 best response
@legoatjamz69517 жыл бұрын
MarlonDayDreams AHAHAHAHAH fr
@georgeliapes83656 жыл бұрын
Marlondaydreams “When you use that word, you’re talking about him.”
@Para__Noia6 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to destroy this, but he says"at".
@mollie64006 жыл бұрын
Marlondaydreams ikr
@mercuryblack58946 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA XDXDXD LOL
@DoranGale8 жыл бұрын
Crying because I wish my dad had been a half-decent human being... I love what They did with this father/son relationship throughout, while Santana's storyline showed the family turbulence version.
@docstefmd8306 жыл бұрын
CDG, it´s actually one of the best speaches about acceptance and equality I´ve ever heard or read ... very well written indeed!!
@melissawalker90916 жыл бұрын
Finn was right Kurt was making him to feel uncomfortable in his own home. Finn was principally about Kurt loving him or liking kurt being gay or the principle about what he was about to say Burt would be in that fault because of screaming at him like that calling him that know matter gay or straight.
@tbbcch10396 жыл бұрын
Melissa Walker I'm not 100% sure what you meant, because it's not properly writen. But from what I understand, you're saying Finn is right and Burt wrong? Well, yeah, Finn is right in that Kurt is making him feel uncomfortable. And he was also right that it's not fair for their parents to make him share a room with Kurt (specially after he lived with a room for himself all his life) juste because they want to be together. You have to be very sensible when bringing two families together. But he was DEAD WRONG about how he chose to express his discomfort. So Burt's response is totally called for. How would you react if somone came into your house and started being hateful towards your child? He might not have been calling him a fag directly, but we all know he was aiming at him nonetheless. There's even hate in his voice when he says the word.
@r1ah_0o486 жыл бұрын
CDG right...my dad hated gay people and i loved them because all my friends we’re gay and i wish i had a father like kurts dad
@Trinarinaa5 жыл бұрын
CDG oo
@theglitterybookworm7 жыл бұрын
Mike O'Malley's acting is fantastic. But so is Cory's! I mean seriously, going from all mad to scared! Just ALL the acting in this scene is wonderful!
@cristianbolanos96415 жыл бұрын
Lh a I see you a lot going against kurt, Burt was just defending his son, what finn said was wrong and came off very hostile.
@d.n.c.greatness77355 жыл бұрын
@@cristianbolanos9641 Fucking please. Finn called the BLANKET faggy, NOT Kurt. And Kurt knew what he was doing. He had a crush on Finn and season one and was flirting with him constantly KNOWING full damn well that Finn was straight. He knew he was making Finn very uncomfortable and just didn't give a damn.
@Siegfried19175 жыл бұрын
D.N.C. Greatness you're right about the second part, but by calling the blanket faggy he's actually referring to Kurt. I mean, Kurt is the one who decorated the room and Finn finds the room faggy (he calls the lamp and blanket faggy and says that he can't live there because he's a dude). So yeah, what Kurt did was not cool, but Finn getting all offensive and homophobic because of it isn't right either.
@themoviecritic10923 жыл бұрын
@@lha7735 Burt wasn't wrong tho
@themoviecritic10923 жыл бұрын
@@lha7735 Understandable
@georgeliapes83657 жыл бұрын
At that moment... Finn realized... That he really screwed up.
@triforcekeyblade78586 жыл бұрын
George Liapes your calling card strikes again lol
@aldendomino35233 жыл бұрын
Lets not forget that Kurt to their parents together so he could have a shot at sharing a room with Finn. If Finn were a girl and Kurt were straight there would be... a very different conversation.
@alexisgrammer66293 жыл бұрын
@@aldendomino3523 No it would not be. Dude had a crush. Dude was blooming in his sexuality and he did things so he and his crush could be together. He did not try and rape Finn. He did not kiss him without permission. He merely flirted. He merely tried to put himself in situations where he could be with Finn. He did want Finn to like him, but it was nothing more serious than a schoolboy crush.
@raychelgonos3 жыл бұрын
@@alexisgrammer6629 Not to mention that Finn was one of the first guys to be nice to Kurt, and Kurt probably thought “I finally have a guy my age who accepts me. I would die for him”. That’s how I was when I came out to my friend.
@aehs.s11133 жыл бұрын
@@raychelgonos this breaks my heart
@stevie49207 жыл бұрын
I love how when Burt puts his hand on Kurt, he doesn’t let go until Kurt touches him back.
@gendefluidfries57783 жыл бұрын
i loved it 😭 i started ✨crying✨ one bc i hate finn and hes sucha hypocrite and 2 i love the father son relationship 3 bc im very emotional
@bilalabuaziz81993 жыл бұрын
@@gendefluidfries5778 Fr I hated finn so much he was so annoying😒😒
@timothykyle63872 жыл бұрын
My sister did the same thing me my brother and cousins were having a sleepover there was only 2 beds and 4 of us the beds were really big and could fit 2 people no problem my brother didn't want me to sleep with him and told me to go upstairs I refused told him no he screamed called me a faggot and I went upstairs my sister heard him and caught me coming up the stairs she tried stopping me I walked past her went to my room she forced the door open and wrapped her arms around me my cousins and brother came up and tried to get me to come down my sister stood infront told them to go back without me im not gay I just didn't understand why we couldn't fit on the bed and why he didn't bring his bed if he wanted to be like that my sister stayed with me until she got me to calm down and sleep on her floor that night she was going to kill my brother for what he did but I was there to calm her down like she did to me she couldn't sleep that night without worrying about me she forced me to sleep beside her she wrapped her arms around me pulled me close to her and wouldn't let go of me till we woke up
@mca12188 жыл бұрын
"Place looks great." No show could ruffle your tear ducts better than GLEE. The moment at 3:31, when Burt puts a hand on his son's shoulder and waits for him to return his touch, is amazing.
@mintayza77845 жыл бұрын
Glee touches your heart in ways other shows can't. It isn't always the most emotional, but it taps into this specific one. Amazing show.
@crazycutecatlady333 жыл бұрын
I thought the room look amazing
@raychelgonos3 жыл бұрын
“I’d never call her that. That’s cruel!” Season 4 Finn calling Sue’s baby the R slur: 👁👄👁
@ThePokefreak983 жыл бұрын
In retrospect Finn was actually a horrible person. Tbh
@maxeyre20243 жыл бұрын
ThePokefreak98 Oh yes a horrible young person who immediately apologized after saying that
@Kubulek173 жыл бұрын
@@maxeyre2024 ok he may have apologised but he said it in the first place
@ThePokefreak983 жыл бұрын
@@maxeyre2024that wasnt the only fucked up thing hes done tho. He said faggy, said retard, cheated, kissed a married woman, etc. being young does not excuse ones actions.
@lumammd3 жыл бұрын
@@ThePokefreak98 he outed Santana in the middle of the hall, too. I think that's pretty fucked. He had no right, especially when he knows how dangerous that could have been for her safety.
@sevenseasonsofbrown3 жыл бұрын
"what did you call him...?" *"I was talking to the blanket-"* 💀
@babygurleatsshickennuggits42013 жыл бұрын
Manz knew he couldn't even cover his tracks
@YeetusTheFetus2 жыл бұрын
That blanket likes to sleep with blankets of the same gender…
@virtualmorgue Жыл бұрын
@@YeetusTheFetusthis is too funny to me
@dianamagritte3 жыл бұрын
"you think i wouldn't use that word when I was your age?" - raising someone by example and experience. Burt is an amazing dad.
@Cat-magician-n9n Жыл бұрын
@cm-qt9irYeah, "conversation" therapy, not "conversion", sure
@Delivery_Boy_Roy Жыл бұрын
@cm-qt9ir you're evil, you know that?! pure evil, you know how much harm that has done to the lgbtq community?! You know how wrong it is?! You can take that disgusting remark and shove it up your homophobic ass!
@TheSupahBish Жыл бұрын
@@Cat-magician-n9n When someone says something like they said, whether they say conversion or conversation, you know automatically they're stupid, that's fine.
@tricewilliams10888 жыл бұрын
i feel bad for kurt and what he went through and burt really stood up for him and thats for awsome
@sethronalds94576 жыл бұрын
Just to be fair, while Finn had no right to say what he said, Kurt is not entirely innocent. He was constantly flirting with Finn. Constantly. You know why He wanted Burt and Carol to be together (at least in Season 1/at first)? Because he wanted to sleep in the same room with Finn, hoping eventually he would wear Finn down and Finn would want to do stuff with Kurt. Burt asks him that question, why did Kurt try to set him up with Carol and when he brings it up, Kurt does not deny about the fact it had to do with his attraction to Finn. If a guy tried to do what Kurt did to a girl, people would scream bloody murder. But because Kurt/Chris Colfer is a good looking guy, people find it adorable. Again, I am not justifying Finn, but, most people have a breaking point. It was awesome Burt stood up for his son, but it was also awesome the next season when he also pointed out how Kurt was also in the wrong too.
@angelanguyen13845 жыл бұрын
@@sethronalds9457 c'mon, flirting with your crush is unconditional flexible, and Kurt not decorate the room because he wants Finn to become gay, or try to watch Finn's body, he tries to make it personal for Finn because they has to share the room together, instead of calmly or actually trying to prepare his own room, Finn lets Kurt did all of it then scream at his face.
@toddsmith19693 жыл бұрын
@@angelanguyen1384 I'm gay and this girl I was friends with had a crush on me and she couldn't handle that, it gets to be too much.
@Anastasia-ro3oi Жыл бұрын
@@angelanguyen1384 he's about to be his brother that's just weird and kinda wrong and people don't actually flirt with their crush and Kurt could tell it made Finn uncomfortable as he was told by Finn to stop
@joyajohnson22163 жыл бұрын
Okay but that room is gorgeous lmao
@beccagregory35863 жыл бұрын
He could easily be an interior design
@ChenBritMi3 жыл бұрын
true but i wouldn't want to live there long term, i'd live in constant fear of messing it up lol
@delpicsla653 жыл бұрын
It is but can you understand why he doesn’t like it tho
@joyajohnson22163 жыл бұрын
@@delpicsla65 of course I can
@seslywilliams35733 жыл бұрын
Fr
@captiantimecanary69586 жыл бұрын
Burt might not 100% understand it, but he's trying. No matter who it is, he won't let *anyone* talk to *his son* like that, and I love that *so much*
@scienceplease68453 жыл бұрын
Burt did what 90% of single parents don't do in real life: put their children first.
@user.77103 жыл бұрын
@@GreenMagicMachine did something else happen in the show or do you mean that a lot of parents put their kids first?
@romanr.3013 жыл бұрын
And you somehow have the confidence to assert that the vast majority (90% you said) of single parents don't prioritize their children.. on what grounds? I'm going to assume you thought it'd be a good idea to emphasize Burt's willingness to stand up for his son by just talking out of your ass and making groundless claims to shoot down a cohort of millions of people you've never met and whose life situations you have no way of knowing.
@CheerfullyCynical8293 жыл бұрын
Burt is a "Gay stuff creeps and weirds me out but you are my son so I will still love and support you no matter what" dads. He was never enthusiastic or celebrating of Kurt being so gay and flamboyant, in fact he probably wished he was straight and manly. But he's his son, and he accepts it and loves him unconditionally. Its the best a gay son can hope for.
@289rory3 жыл бұрын
@@romanr.301 Oh shut the hell up. It was an exaggeration. Everyone’s done it. Majority of parents are NOT who they are supposed to be. We understand that they are humans and make mistakes too, but these “mistakes” they make are catastrophic to their children’s mental health.
@ineidamedina58072 жыл бұрын
In real life you barely see this some parents are so stuck looking for love that they don’t care how their kids are being treated to hearing him say “Finn you gotta go I love your mom but this might cause me to loose her but he’s my son my family comes first” best quote ever this is how it should be
@spideyviewer3276 жыл бұрын
1:37 "You live a few years, you start seeing the hate in people's hearts." **Hard to swallow pills**
@cprado2253 жыл бұрын
I love when he said that. It’s so true. A lot of people don’t realize what words can do. They can be filled with hate or poison even if people think certain words are a joke. We should all be more aware of what we say and the intentions behind our words
@maximinocarrero98328 жыл бұрын
this scene is so emotional omg!
@taragold64573 жыл бұрын
It’ll forever blow my mind that Chris Colfer was only 19 here, Cory was around 27 and Mike was obviously a grown adult but Chris matches their intensity for the scene, his acting is phenomenal
@tylersena69253 жыл бұрын
Wow I didn’t realize the age difference
@songbird64143 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry Cory was t w e n t y s e v e n
@aaroncallahan1192 жыл бұрын
Chris was only a teenager? Dang.
@YeetusTheFetus2 жыл бұрын
@@aaroncallahan119 he literally grew like… 5 inches throughout glee. He was very young when it started
@isao3o2 жыл бұрын
woah no wonder he looked like a baby compared to everyone at the start
@sophiechanning81717 жыл бұрын
I love finn and all but he was so out of line in this scene and burt was amazing
@wiggleflopbaker38557 жыл бұрын
Sophie Channing agreed
@Darkrose5176 жыл бұрын
Why was Kurt out of line? Sure he had a little crush on Finn, but was that his fault? He was trying to get over it and he viewed redoing the room as a new start. He thought his design was a compromise, while most people see it as rather flamboyant.
@Darkrose5176 жыл бұрын
Ok, so why was it different when Rachel was constantly flirting with Finn while he had a girlfriend? Maybe Kurt came on too strong, but Finn could've just told him to stop because he wasn't interested. I don't think either of them were completely right in this situation, but Finn took it too far.
@SunBeeSmoked6 жыл бұрын
Lh a you being straight means you don't get a say in gay issues. Just like white people don't get a say in POC issues.
@SunBeeSmoked6 жыл бұрын
Lh a I never said what Kurt did was ok. There's still no excuse to use derogatory terminalogy. Kurt doesn't get a say when Blaine thought he might of been bisexual. It was wrong and he even made a very biphobic comment and I was fucking pissed and that's exactly why white people can't talk on the POC issues, Straight cis people can't comment on LGBT issues. Basically, if the word doesn't apply to you, mind your own business.
@dianarose00558 жыл бұрын
I just wanna give Kurt a hug😣
@sophar92186 жыл бұрын
He looks so embarrassed and sad😢
@alfiebishop10623 жыл бұрын
It’s not like kurt was trying to see Finn dressing like how Finn said kurt literally said “it’s a privacy partition, it was the only one I could find on short notice”
@amariahvalenzuela47103 жыл бұрын
@Gan Len what? Something to add?
@CMThota3 жыл бұрын
Ikr! Sure, Kurt had a crush on him, but he accepted that it wasn't going to happen, and Finn was just horribly homophobic and is clearly feeling emasculated ("I can't live here, I'm a dude"), and took it out on Kurt in the worst way possible. In no way, shape, or form is it ever okay to use the f-slur and Finn, as a 16 year old should have known that. Hell, I'm 16, born and partially-raised in a third world country (emigrated 2 years back) where people don't have any understanding of gay rights, and even I know that.
@babygurleatsshickennuggits42013 жыл бұрын
@@CMThota also Raechel was so much worse than Kurt ever was. She was constantly trying to get Finn to see her and leave Quin for her, she'd flirt with him and try to be near him all the time. Finn was comfortable taking showers with all the football guys but as soon as it's a gay kid he doesn't want to sleep in the same room as him. Kurt went out of his way to do what he could to make Finn more comfortable living there, while still keeping the room to his liking.
@JSmellerM2 жыл бұрын
@@babygurleatsshickennuggits4201 Kurt hit constantly on Finn and it made him uncomfortable. Finn told Kurt before that he is not gay and does not reciprocate those feelings. It's not about Kurt being gay it's about Kurt undressing Finn with his eyes. If you can't relax at home it isn't home.
@YeetusTheFetus2 жыл бұрын
Kurt accepted that his relationship with Finn wasn’t gonna happen when he said so to Rachel a bunch of episodes before this one.
@avenueis13777 жыл бұрын
Burt is such an amazing dad. He was too underrated
@TheManaPrism6 жыл бұрын
Was he ? We see him really often, espacially in the two first seasons
@bluebubble2296 жыл бұрын
Yea
@CenerothXaris6 жыл бұрын
This showed how much Burt understood that for Kurt home was a safe haven. He knew that he couldn't be there every second of the day outside but home was something he could influence.
@cupcakekoenigin10186 жыл бұрын
DivinitasX yeah I can see how safe Kurt feels at home and the second that Finn says “faggy” it all came crashing down for him
@JSmellerM2 жыл бұрын
On the other hand home did not feel safe for Finn. Don't give me all that bs about Finn being the bad guy here. Kurt provoked him into it and couldn't let it go. This scene has a history where Kurt already hit on Finn and afterwards Finn comes home to find his room like this. The beds being about 2 feet apart and a small wall between them. Just look at Kurt's whole demeanor how he undresses Finn with his eyes and speaks softly. Finn was feeling completely uncomfortable.
@elistari1050 Жыл бұрын
@@JSmellerM I get that; I absolutely get that Finn was uncomfortable. I really don't think those two should've had to share a room. Kurt has hit on and did have a crush on Finn for a long time, and I would feel uncomfortable living in close proximity with someone who felt that way about me, too, especially if they were supposed to be my "sister". But Finn using slurs was highly uncalled for. He could've handled the situation better. I actually felt bad for Finn, too. He seemed so upset and uncomfortable by the lack of privacy, and the fact that he feels so uncomfortable he puts his underwear on IN THE SHOWER before he leaves. But I think that could've been communicated better and this entire fight could have been avoided. Finn is equally to blame in this specific scene, although I don't think he's a "bad guy".
@just-trying-my-best-everyday Жыл бұрын
Finn had GUTS to say "why can't you accept I'm different" to a gay kid in Ohio 💀💀
@joycor141911 ай бұрын
Lol I really like that line because it’s a little funny like that on the surface but it makes so much sense with his character. He wants to just be him, a very conventional straight dude, who happens to do show choir, but almost everyone wants to put different labels on him because of different parts of who he is
@person88343 күн бұрын
But, when you consider the ACTUAL CONTEXT of this specific situation instead of your social Justice agenda, Finn is right: Kurt purposefully set up Carol and Burt just so he could be closer to Finn. He also decorated the room that way while knowing that Finn is a man’s man. He wants to get Finn to like him, whether subconsciously or not. Burt even points it out in the next season. Kurt IS having a hard time accepting that Finn will never like him back. Crushes make you do crazy things.
@nataliesng38946 жыл бұрын
Why am I crying in da club rn
@elisebeth26 жыл бұрын
Why are you watching this in a club?
@nottelling9986 жыл бұрын
Satanic Beast it's a song lol
@justyourtypicalyeemo38946 жыл бұрын
Nizzlemyizzle Camila cabello reference lol
@fatimakhan46716 жыл бұрын
I guess watching this had Consequences.
@SRLovesPandas13 жыл бұрын
@@elisebeth2 it's a meme
@eis3648 жыл бұрын
Burt is one of the best and most underrated characters in Glee 🙏🏻
@heymoon3874 жыл бұрын
the fact that mike improvised the 'place looks great' line and ryan suggested that hand on the shoulder at the end makes this scene so much better.
@brianna75878 жыл бұрын
Dad goalssssss!😻✨
@LaurenEliseM3 жыл бұрын
The way Kurt looked at his dad when he came downstairs and then back at Finn was such a realistic reaction. It was like he knew what Finn said was wrong, but he was hurt by it and then when Burt came downstairs he was relieved but also worried for Finn.
@katm50107 жыл бұрын
I have a gay uncle and I love him like crazy. Most family members on that side don't. My mother who is only related by marriage loves him. I would kick anyone's ass if they tried to hurt him. We need more people standing with their loved ones.
@elisebeth26 жыл бұрын
My sis is pan. I love her to pieces. She's gorgeous and amazing
@savantcrystian26863 жыл бұрын
I don't have any LGBTQ+ people in my family 🙁
@y2kpopofficial3 жыл бұрын
@@savantcrystian2686 I’m so sorry 😔
@Theintrovertednow Жыл бұрын
My lil bro is gay and I wouldn't hesitate to mess with people if they cause him issues he once said I'm the best older sis he could have
@marissaingerson8 жыл бұрын
I LOVE BURT.
@sarafina_247 жыл бұрын
I love Burt so much. I mean this is a bit of a heartbreaking scene, but I love how it shows that Burt really accepts Kurt and stands by him and puts him first. And how did it taking me so long to notice about their names... Burt and Kurt. Also, I don't know why, but the way Burt says "the place looks great" and holds on to Kurt's shoulder is what really gets me.
@friendlyneigborhoodbean Жыл бұрын
The fact that Burt knew that this might cost him his relationship with Finn's mom but still did it with his full chest
@Thepopcornator Жыл бұрын
I love this, because no one is being evil here. All three have good intentions--everyone's just broken in some kind of way, and we're seeing their different types of brokenness play off each other.
@divaalfirman3295 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. People were calling Finn horrible when he wasn’t really like that. Yeah saying a slur is bad, but the thing about Finn is he has real anger issues and can’t really control what he says most of the time. Imo it’s his worst trait, but deep down he doesn’t really mean it. He has no problems with Kurt being gay and doing feminine stuff, but he does have a problem with being an outcast due to those things
@poppydodd58024 жыл бұрын
Did he really just say he was “talking to the blanket” I- 😭
@loridasmith30538 жыл бұрын
I felt so bad for Kurt in this scene
@mjguz3 жыл бұрын
Mike O'Malley deserved an award for this performance. He was amazing on Glee.
@lorenaloyola44886 жыл бұрын
I love the way kurt worries about his step brother, and puts his efforts to make a room that seems beautiful to him and Finn acted like an asshole.
@pandahtoemateo33213 жыл бұрын
This was very out of line for Finna, but Kurt wouldn't stop flirting with him and even wanted him to stay in the same room, change in front of each other, and sabotage Rachel to get closer with Finn. They were both out of line.
@melissawalker90913 жыл бұрын
Finn is trying to put the effort to show how Kurt he is not gay because most guys are different and he is trying to tell Kurt but he want give the time to express of what is going on.
@njyawndra8609 Жыл бұрын
Step brothers? Ya know that's kind awkward.😬
@rialovessushii6 жыл бұрын
I'm almost crying because he is such a caring father What an amazing human being! Every parent should care that much about their children!
@nl66586 жыл бұрын
I screamed “YES BURT” sooo loud 😂😂👏🏾
@emmakatewood4213 жыл бұрын
This makes me sob because I watch and I see Bert being a protective father and how he stands up for Kurt and then when Finn dies and they go through his stuff, Bert talks about how this moment was a revelation for himself as well and knew deep down Finn didn’t have any hatred towards Kurt for being gay. THIS FAMILY DEVELOPMENT WILL NEVER NOT MAKE ME CRY!!!!
@maurafaith87957 жыл бұрын
I LOVE BURT AND KURT'S FATHER SON RELATIONSHIP ITS SO ADORABLE❤️BURT IS A GREAT FATHER
@alondranarvaez57688 жыл бұрын
God damn it! 😩😭😭 did anyone else cry or am the only gay one?!??
@emilynicholls33608 жыл бұрын
I almost did! Kurt crying made me sad 😢
@agenttheater58 жыл бұрын
I got really angry at Finn if that counts....
@Cintss78 жыл бұрын
I críed too!!
@williamrivas2157 жыл бұрын
Raven white same in both ways
@WeeKezza1006 жыл бұрын
+Defterwall 422 cried like a baby... amazing acting
@Yellowducky6658 жыл бұрын
THIS SCENE. AMAZING, SO MOVING.
@julianferrell97846 жыл бұрын
Now he told Kurt time and time again that he wasn't interested and he snapped. I get that. But we all know, Finn shouldn't have used that word. That's it. They were both in the wrong, and should both be blamed for the situation.
@Alex-se7sy3 жыл бұрын
Somebody said it thank you
@Book_Dragon25623 жыл бұрын
They were also sophomores in high school. Name me one 16 year old who has never said or done something immature or unhealthy. I’ll wait...
@lbflittlebutterfly48463 жыл бұрын
Well in the movie they were 16 so i dont think they would think that deep lmao
@stinasings3 жыл бұрын
No, by that logic if I’m come on too strong with a guy and he doesn’t like it he can call me the N word. There’s no excuse for hate speech ever.
@adamwenham33 жыл бұрын
I agree. Kurt was a bit delusion to think Finn would fancy him. Kurt have me James Charles vibes
@amaraharris23423 жыл бұрын
I’m as straight as an arrow, but this scene hits different. The acting is amazing. Glee finally got something right. 10/10
@breee40763 жыл бұрын
Arrows have a curve at the top.
@amaraharris23423 жыл бұрын
@@breee4076 I’m as straight as 180 degree angle 😂
@breee40763 жыл бұрын
@@amaraharris2342 better
@bigmeech20778 жыл бұрын
This is the only scene that I hated Finn in and he's my FAVORITE character
@mattsmith88878 жыл бұрын
Did you not hate him when he outed Santana?
@bigmeech20778 жыл бұрын
+Matt Smith Kind of
@agenttheater58 жыл бұрын
What about when he called Sue's baby 'retarded'? Most of the time I loved Finn but....he could just get really thoughtless and selfish and even whiny at times. I still loved him and was sad when he died but I guess because I liked him that I got really mad with him when he did stuff like that
@wiggleflopbaker38557 жыл бұрын
BIG MEECH omg same
@theyoungwolf98525 жыл бұрын
What about when he started seeing Quinn knowing full well Sam was with her
@riaradicall6 жыл бұрын
“Place looks great” 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@bsnf-52 жыл бұрын
Okay, I admit it was one if the best scenes in Glee, and one of the best scenes in any series I've seen. It was.. perfectly acted
@homeiswhereukeepurdealtho5 жыл бұрын
"the place looks great" sends my heart into a waterfall trip
@njyawndra8609 Жыл бұрын
I found it kind of funny because he said it so agressivley.
@sunnirobertson43163 жыл бұрын
I actually think that the way Kurt decorated the room was kinda cool. Like it is kinda cozy.
@Ariplaygames3 жыл бұрын
Burt is the most amazing father we have ever seen in tv. He is honest and direct, he is caring and tries to learn all the time, he protects his son over everything even if it cost him love...He loves his son more than anything. This scene gave me chills! I wish more parents were like this in real life, that they truly loved their kids selflessly.
@quirkygirl25608 жыл бұрын
I am so sad already and I'm only thirty-five seconds into this.
@Steffi.Meredith5 жыл бұрын
'I can't have that kind of poison around' I LOVE YOU BURT.
@jellyrollnorton Жыл бұрын
Masculinity can be so toxic when it’s threatened. Props to the writers for creating a father/stepfather character like this.
@jujub45533 жыл бұрын
This was SUCH a powerful scene
@maurafaith87957 жыл бұрын
I wanted to hug Kurt so hard after this. He put up with so much shit in the show and still loved Finn and everyone who ever hurt him unconditionally. He's definitely a very admirable person.
@CtCosmos3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never been able to tell what hurt most in this scene: Forcibly acknowledging how much everyone hated me, or having someone so vehemently defend me.
@ubergamer20103 жыл бұрын
This scene could be in a show today and still hit just the same. Great writing
@SocialStudiess3 жыл бұрын
I can honestly I learned so much from Burt Hummel. I don't have kids. I've never knew any homosexuals growing up. But, this character and this father really helped me evolve. For me he's one of the best characters ever written in television. Thank you Glee 🖤
@alkumpula82812 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@jessicajanene20016 ай бұрын
1:35 “you live a few years, you start to see the hate in people’s hearts , even the best people” WHEWWW when i say that hit home for me because it’s so true!!!!
@sierrab50106 жыл бұрын
This is the level of support I want to give my future kids. I don’t care what they want to be and if I don’t understand it, I will ALWAYS defend them, support them, and have their backs!
@asbaran6 жыл бұрын
Kurt is so damn lucky to have Burt as a father 😢
@sarahbaskin27146 жыл бұрын
No joke, this is one of my favorite scenes in all of Glee. I don't know why, but I've always thought that it was so inspiring how Burt stood up for Kurt. He really struggled with Kurts sexuality early on, and I think that this scene really showed how close they were as a family.
@RainyDay_52143 жыл бұрын
He does say the r word, with sue’s baby
@lovely_bobbi6 жыл бұрын
I almost started crying when Burt started yelling because he was so emotional for his son and it was really sweet
@amybess8 жыл бұрын
God they made kurt a stereotype in the early eps
@solromero19617 жыл бұрын
Amy Erlanger Wasn't he a sereotype in every season? I still love him tho
@amybess7 жыл бұрын
More so in the early eps
@musicaltheatergeek797 жыл бұрын
Stereotypes exist for a reason. Yes, not all homosexuals act or behave like this, but as a member of the 'gay community,' I can safely say that many do. It annoys me when people dismiss liking musical theater or classic Hollywood movies or frou-frou stuff as 'gay stereotypes.' There are many gays who like that stuff and sound like that. That said, I only have a problem with this stereotype when it becomes the ONLY stereotype shown on TV and in movies, because it gives impressionable and ignorant viewers the wrong idea that all gays are effeminate. They don't notice the so-called straight-acting gays, because they blend in with society.
@thebeavpercabethftw96046 жыл бұрын
Isn't Kurt's actor actually gay? So, wouldn't he object to it if it was such a terrible stereotype?
@Siegfried19175 жыл бұрын
Amy Erlanger yeah, Kurt is a very stereotypical gay character, but he is at the same time so much more than that. This show makes a perfect job showing how stereotypical behavior isn't a bad thing. It's bad when all the character is is his stereotypical behavior, but that isn't the case with Kurt.
@lydxhop Жыл бұрын
you can SEE kurt flinch the moment finn says it. god, chris colfer is so talented
@kaitlinlexiexx8 жыл бұрын
Poor Kurt :( he was just trying to be a good soon to be stepbrother to Finn.
@JohnDoe-mk3ch7 жыл бұрын
By "good soon to be stepbrother" you mean trying to get in his pants, right? Since that's what Kurt was actually trying to do.
@arlettefuckyeah6 жыл бұрын
John Doe and why finn didnt say anything? its not like they weren’t girls that act the same way that kurt did. He could just say “i dont like you that way”, but instead he choose to be homophobic
@holocaustchampion99784 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-mk3ch It's hard to switch an attraction off even when you know it can never be. I should know. I had that problem when I fell for one of my coworkers. He turned out to be gay. But even though I knew it could never be, I found it hard to switch off. It gradually went away but it took time.
@lilymaniscalco19484 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-mk3ch he was trying his hardest to make him more comfortable, it’s hard to change feelings but he was trying to respect Finn and make him feel comfortable yet Finn used the f slur despite that. He was completely homophobic.
@nicholas13173 жыл бұрын
Being a good stepbrother is not trying to sleep with your brother
@tanjieeyang83123 жыл бұрын
Burt the best dad ever. Kurt is really lucky to have such a supportive dad in the age when he needs more support than anyone else.
@SorceressRose3 жыл бұрын
I wish we all had a dad like Burt. He's like the best TV dad. He was extremely well written and I enjoyed every scene he was in.
@NE86753093 жыл бұрын
Wow, I wasn't going to even click on this, but the moment I saw Burt step in, I couldn't stop myself. This is such an important scene! It makes me cry every time. That's the kind of unconditional love a parent needs to offer and the way we all should treat one another.
@tiffanysamuels2796 жыл бұрын
Even though I love how overprotective that Kurt dad was being and everything he was saying was on point. I don't like the hate that Finn is getting because that type of attention is overwhelming and it's SEXUAL HARRASMENT, the fact that he doesn't feel comfortable changing in his own home isn't something to take lightly. He's been trying to spare Kurt feeling for too long. And even though Kurt is trying to act all coy, everything that Finn said was right on the money. Kurt is in love with Finn and his action the past first season was to get in his pants. So yay for Burt but Finn shouldn't get hate. I don't want hate towards kurt either because it's hard being gay when the mass majority of people are either straight, want you for only sex or in the closet. But he shouldn't get praise for making Finn uncomfortable in his own home.
@anagrossman77896 жыл бұрын
He stopped liking him in like the end of the first season cuz then blaine came in. I love klaine
@bluebubble2296 жыл бұрын
Burt didn’t know about the whole Kurt wanting to get fins pants so his reaction is justified
@bluebubble2295 жыл бұрын
Yea but Kurt is his son.
@bluebubble2295 жыл бұрын
Yea but he only knew finn like 7 months. He loves Kurt more.
@bluebubble2295 жыл бұрын
And they weren’t even married at this time in the episode
@codybaggett53293 жыл бұрын
Literally the best father on the show!
@holocaustchampion99784 жыл бұрын
I hurt so bad for Kurt in this scene. I know how painful unrequited love can be. I know how hard it is to feel attraction for someone that you know can never reciprocate your feelings. I know how hard it is to switch off an attraction even though you know what you want can never be. I fell for one of my coworkers once. He turned out to be gay. When I found out, it hurt. Because I knew that what I wanted could never be. Did it stop my attraction to him? No. It didn't. It took time for that to go away. Even though you know that your feelings for someone can't be reciprocated, it takes time for your heart to adjust to that. I learned to move on from it. But it took time.
@sheepssleepwhileyoustare30833 жыл бұрын
That was a very powerful scene I always loved how glee was a funny show but still dealt with a lot of serious subjects
@Book_Dragon25623 жыл бұрын
“I wasn’t teaching him a lesson on acceptance. I was teaching myself. He just happened to be there for it.” -Burt later admitting that while his heart was in the right place, his actions weren’t completely justified either. But of course we in the fandom don’t talk about that part
@johnrainsman66503 жыл бұрын
What does that deep quote mean anyway? He was simply scolding Finn for using the slur
@Book_Dragon25623 жыл бұрын
@@johnrainsman6650 There was a whole larger issue that was happening at the time. Burt loved his son but he was still struggling with accepting his sexuality at that point. He was honest, and he was doing the work, but this moment was more about him than it was about Finn. It was about his own feelings, his own experiences. Finn was just a trigger for that floodgate. He was also unaware of what had been happening between Finn and Kurt all season. Kurt had been extremely inappropriate with Finn, repeatedly hitting on him, making him uncomfortable, not respecting his answer. Had he been straight and behaved this way he would have been condemned. But because he was gay, the fandom crucified Finn as not being “accepting” enough when he had every right to blow up at Kurt the way he did after an entire season of this behavior. His “intolerance” had less to do with Kurt being gay and more to do with Kurt harassing him. Later on, Burt finds out about this and goes off on Kurt (rightfully so) for not respecting Finn’s boundaries. But that clip never receives the same amount of views or support. The fandom pretends those moments (Burt calling out Kurt for his contribution to this moment, and Burt later admitting this speech was more about him and less about Finn because Finn was never actually intolerant or unaccepting) never happened. But they did and are *equally* important.
@johnrainsman66503 жыл бұрын
@@Book_Dragon2562 Wait, where is this scene where Burt tells Kurt he should've respected Finn's boundaries? I want to see it. Also, if Burt was unaware of Finn and Kurt's thing throughout season 1, then how did he know how Finn meant the word, without context?
@Book_Dragon25623 жыл бұрын
@@johnrainsman6650 Thats the thing, he didn’t. He was projecting his own past behavior and experience onto Finn and taking out his fears and concerns for Kurt on him. He heard the word and reacted. He didn’t have the context. Also, I haven’t been able to find that clip on KZbin in a long time. You’ll probably have to go to a streaming site and watch the whole episode. I know Netflix has it.
@johnrainsman66503 жыл бұрын
@@Book_Dragon2562 What episode? And you're saying Burt's comment, "I *knew* what he meant when he was calling it f***y" is totally illogical and error-based
@lydxhop Жыл бұрын
i haven’t watched this scene since it first came out, and before then i saw it as kurt was upset bc finn said what he did, which he was but there’s more to it, and that was the reason he was crying. now, i see it as kurt crying from witnessing the unconditional love and support from his dad during his entire speech. god, there is so much depth in this show and i LOVE it
@heisann84376 жыл бұрын
Ok, but can we talk about how hideous that room was?
@annaparks2886 жыл бұрын
heisann yeah
@lbflittlebutterfly48463 жыл бұрын
To a 16 year old gay it was great but honestly it was hideous af to me lmfao
@Daicidus6 жыл бұрын
“I was talking to the blanket” HAH
@beccagregory35863 жыл бұрын
I love the way Burt holds his hand on Kurt's shoulder just a little longer to make sure he's okay
@greeneyelove2003 Жыл бұрын
Burt was such a great character. I was afraid they would have Kurt's father turn out to be unable to accept him or struggle with it the way Santana's grandmother did. But he had Kurt's back from the moment he came out.
@myasallis26982 жыл бұрын
so i just started watching glee and tho i do agree the kurt often pushed bounds with finn there is NEVER an excuse to throw around slurs. finn had every right to be upset and stuff but to call him a slur…unbelievable. and in this moment here i genuinely don’t think kurt was trying to make finn uncomfortable
@NanztheFan4 жыл бұрын
Its 2020 and I still find myslef coming back to this scene. Its so so well said, emotional and phenomanlly acted out on everyone's end
@tellmewhy26766 жыл бұрын
" Yeah ! That because you 16 and you still see good in people " this just make me laugh some how 😂
@beachyhh Жыл бұрын
Fuck even after 13 years this scene brings tears to my ayes.
@justchillin14211 ай бұрын
I never could get why he tripped over the room decorations, the room looked cool as hell
@HayOKAY5 күн бұрын
Imagine if he was a girl who had to share a room with a straight boy, with no wall, or curtains, knowing the boy was spying on her while changing, etc.
@weloveblackpink63836 жыл бұрын
“I was talking to the blanket” lmfao
@ngocs87033 жыл бұрын
The “place looks great” at the end did it for me 😭
@ChanelOberlain10 ай бұрын
honestly i can see where they're both coming from
@totesme143 жыл бұрын
my favorite part of this scene is how burt ends by saying “this place looks great” and putting a hand on kurt’s shoulder until kurt reaches for his hand back.
@Sammy.H.Redwood9 ай бұрын
I understand what Finn feeling on the situation, being bunking together as brothers make him feels a little uncomfortable, I feel like he didn’t have to flip out like that. And didn’t need to yell and use the gay slur, to make his argument and point towards Kurt.