You said “I had a bad attitude for literally no reason”. You just had a baby. You have the most valid reason ! Hormones are fucking crazy for months. He had a bad attitude cause he’s a nasty punk who just wanted to take his bad attitude on you cause you were simply there for him to do so. I really hope for your sake and your baby you can both co parent nicely. Trust and believe the baby will feel the tension between both of you if you don’t.
@kathleenmoore95345 ай бұрын
@@cindyaracely1581Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.
@elenaoshino5 ай бұрын
my mom always tells me you never truly know a person until you move in together
@xariag15885 ай бұрын
My mom also said this but she also said you really never know a person until you get engaged/married, have kids, or if life gives you obstacles as well😭😭
@MarleneRosas-xr9ft5 ай бұрын
I live w my bf n I truly believe that
@MarleneRosas-xr9ft5 ай бұрын
Life is crazzzzzzzzy
@AngelinaLopezz035 ай бұрын
My dad says not until you have kids together
@via56835 ай бұрын
I lived with my boyfriend for a while so idkkkk i heard all types of stuff i think it really depends on each and every persons situation. but either way you’ll eventually see someone’s true colors sooner or later
@reinaespinal5 ай бұрын
DEZ IS OUTSIDEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE with a kid
@emilu15 ай бұрын
Pick your baby daddies WISELY
@Elena-v8b5 ай бұрын
*babies daddy
@wah2turnt5 ай бұрын
ong.. on & off & still had his kid? We all live and learn tho☝🏼
@MariaGasca-Reyes5 ай бұрын
What about wait to have sex and get married first
@Elena-v8b5 ай бұрын
@@MariaGasca-Reyes true and wise
@Cillasheart5 ай бұрын
Most definitely, he’s a great dad but just wasn’t meant to be :)
@j7cqueline5 ай бұрын
we been telling you he wasn’t the one 🤨
@emilyflores55295 ай бұрын
That’s what her dumbass gets bruh she never learned her lesson until now that she stuck w the baby
@chickenabulas46735 ай бұрын
lmfaoooo
@THEKIDOFCRASH5 ай бұрын
Facts tho💀
@lmeweus5 ай бұрын
idk these girls put themselves in these situations and then end up with a surprised pikachu face then they realized everyone was right.
@genmhz5 ай бұрын
@@lmeweusLMAO so true 😭 like leave them after the first time they got u fked up
@niy.princess5 ай бұрын
He got mad when you wore makeup and took pictures?? Immediately NO
@weluvvsam5 ай бұрын
literally like what
@ItsGRamirez015 ай бұрын
He sounds controlling and narcissistic qualities for sure..
@warmidai5 ай бұрын
Girl you don’t know how glad I am! He was a whole walking red pole. Keep your head up as you have been and continue to do you.
@iloveaboogie7x5795 ай бұрын
ion mean to sound like no hater but … im glad he’s gone, done dizzy, out of the picture bcs i felt like the energy overall like the vibe whenever he was on camera was weird. i wish you nothing but health, wealth, n prosperity!
@guitarhro3lvr5 ай бұрын
i feel like as a woman we dont really know a man until he becomes a “provider”. relationships are fun but once bills and obligations start to come you can really tell the man they are by how they handle it. ESPECIALLY when a baby comes. proud of you for standing up gf.
@dezmachado5 ай бұрын
yes😭!! Some men are so entitled just because they pay bills.. I’m SO glad I’m single
@missmay235 ай бұрын
@@dezmachadoAND YOU MAKE your own money let’s not forgettt👏✨
@wendylocc3964 ай бұрын
@@dezmachadohey dez what shade is ur concealer and the lashes are they Amazon if so what the name .❤
@KAOVK5 ай бұрын
Having a good caring loving step father(for your kid) is wayyyyy better then a biological bad dad
@violetblossom505 ай бұрын
Its important that she finds that hopefully soon so that the dad and baby can grow a connection from a young age.
@KAOVK5 ай бұрын
@@violetblossom50 absolutely 🙌🏻
@violetblossom503 ай бұрын
@kk18211 She can find someone older who is at a place in life to be father.
@violetblossom503 ай бұрын
@kk18211 she can find someone older who is ready to be a father
@keiraaa46605 ай бұрын
saw the title and immediately clicked bc girl what
@zurii64985 ай бұрын
no literally
@davonnyslifestyle77865 ай бұрын
No cus wtf
@abluepast5 ай бұрын
Literally..
@danielaatown5 ай бұрын
ME
@weluvvsam5 ай бұрын
like hol on
@gabi-kd8nv5 ай бұрын
i love that your baby being born, showed you that there’s more to life than staying w someone who doesn’t treat you right 7:09
@Journeywithashley75 ай бұрын
Having a baby will make and break the relationship for real and never get a new dog and baby 😭
@TasiaNash-b9x5 ай бұрын
@@carmenolvera634yea but arguments are more intense because the emotions are much higher once y’all have a child . You right tho.
@pharellesykes40405 ай бұрын
Girl I get it 🥲, I kinda sensed it wasn’t all rainbows n sunshine but sometimes we gotta go thru it to grow stronger and wiser, my sister had the same situation baby and all and she always says “I needed to have her bc she showed me what real love is and looks like”
@keiraaa46605 ай бұрын
but congrats on bein a mommyyy 😫 so happy and proud of you, youre doin great mamas 🫶🏽
@dezmachado5 ай бұрын
thank you ❤
@carly1029825 ай бұрын
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
@snoopdoff5 ай бұрын
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
@speedemonxs5 ай бұрын
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@chloemcrobbie5 ай бұрын
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@snoopdoff5 ай бұрын
Is he on instagram?
@speedemonxs5 ай бұрын
Yes he is dr.porassss.
@79centspolarpop5 ай бұрын
don't ever blame yourself for feeling how you're feeling when you're pregnant! Its totally valid to felt and act the way you did because his actions was not ok.
@cheyanneneisner5 ай бұрын
You've always seemed to be so sweet and genuine and I've missed seeing your vlogs, you're going through such a drastic time in your life no need to explain you not being consistent we will always appreciate when you upload sending sm love towards you and your family you deserve everything and more
@doseofdannyx5 ай бұрын
When she said “hes a hater” i felt that heavy men are haters even to their gfs
@00svn5 ай бұрын
he was insecure and projecting it onto you, youll find someone thats better for you mentally,emotionally,and physically. I hope coparenting goes well for you but this is a lesson that you just have to take and run with. Bless your heart and i wish the best for you
@maryjayydreamer53465 ай бұрын
Felt this one myself 😫😞 definitely agree especially cause same current situation
@lindseynavarrete45895 ай бұрын
No one deserves to be treated that way during & after pregnancy! It’s so important for you to feel supported & loved especially with postpartum so happy that your healthy & happy now though so sorry you went through that my love❤❤
@sonya70435 ай бұрын
it’s crazy how much they change once they become a father it’s like you don’t even know who they were before
@nevaehxxox5 ай бұрын
youre so strong des, i love my mom so much for not staying in a relationship that wasn't good for her and im glad you doing the same thing because its gonna benefit your daughter life for the better trust me🙏🏼
@agl21835 ай бұрын
Gurl the way he treated you after your miscarriage was not a red flag enough😫and then u still got prego again with the same guy🫣
@dezmachado5 ай бұрын
It wasn’t planned lol 🫶🏼 I should’ve never gotten back with him tho
@laylatarhini5 ай бұрын
How did he treat her after her miscarriage? I'm new here
@thrift1405 ай бұрын
Wait what?
@AvVan-e9p4 ай бұрын
No fr like he showed her who he was way before she had the baby😂🤦♀️
@anaiyah2225 ай бұрын
dezzzzz🥹🥹🥹 thank u so much for being open and so vulnerable. it’s hard to realize the abuse youre enduring when you’re in love with someone. especially when youre so young. you did the right thing and u will always do whats right for you and your babygirl ❤️
@bryanbeni5 ай бұрын
girl, you better not go back to him again.😭😭 i’ma send you this video in the future if you do
@dezmachado5 ай бұрын
🤢 you don’t gotta worry about that
@bryanbeni5 ай бұрын
@@dezmachado period queen
@bryanbeni5 ай бұрын
@@dezmachado good girl, luv ya Gemini twin 🤍🤞🏻
@Marleencruz41185 ай бұрын
@@dezmachadoif he changes there is nothing wrong with going back 🫶🏼! He’s the father of your babygirl!
@brittneycarranza-panora99805 ай бұрын
so happy you were able to recognize you deserve better 🎀never settle for less. you are the best mommy, baby D is so lucky to have you!
@luisa-bw5gx5 ай бұрын
im glad you're self aware dez you deserve the best in the world you're a great mama & i see that im sure we all do keep going go dont let nobody hold you back 💗
@kathleen7335 ай бұрын
As long as you’re aware and take accountability dez that’s what matters. I hope youre okay bae🥹🥹
@Alexiskorene5 ай бұрын
So proud of you Dez ❤ Nothing is better than a happy momma with her happy baby ☺️💕
@angelinargv5 ай бұрын
guilty people ALWAYS accuse you of what they’re doing themselves
@claudiamendez96165 ай бұрын
Sadly when they start to accuse you of things it’s because he is most likely doing it!! I’m so sorry that happened to you girl. Enjoy ur peace and your daughter ❤️! let that man be and you will find better ❤
@lvrichelle5 ай бұрын
this was and is my EXACT situation. I left him 4 months ago and im SO much more happier and free.
@chelseagragg5 ай бұрын
i had an abortion bc of that same reason it was so hard to do so depressing but ik id be even more depressed being pregnant and having a baby with a man that treats me like Shit
@candicedean52735 ай бұрын
i have a question for you kind of unrelated
@chelseagragg5 ай бұрын
@@candicedean5273 yea?
@aaliyahgallegos67455 ай бұрын
props to u for making that decision… ur so strong girl
@Yammmms5 ай бұрын
I feel you girl, been through the same thing ❤️🩹
@allycooper5 ай бұрын
im happy your sticking up for yourself and allowing yourself to live your best life!
@user-kikipuffs025 ай бұрын
It doesn’t matter how many times you tell a person that someone isn’t good for them. They just have to figure it out themselves and I’m glad that you figured it out you deserve better than him queen.💕💓💖
@ComputerAngel0075 ай бұрын
This is so relatable dez. None of my friends rly get it. Im not a mother or anything but I needed this video so thank you.
@angxlhxilo5 ай бұрын
girl u just described my entire relationship, he never helped me with anything and would ask me why im so upset or depressed like? and not just that he was abusive AND had the nerve to cheat on me the entire time i was pregnant/taking care of the baby. ts gets so hard ngl but you got it girl don’t let nobody tell u that ur “too much” especially a man 🤢 edit: the mom brain is so real too with the contour 😭😭
@kvintagexxxx5 ай бұрын
rooting for you🫶🏽 he's a sorry azz bum😔
@havvvie5 ай бұрын
dezzz we missed you !!! I'm dealing with the same damn thing tbh... its so draining BUT its only up from here babe
@natashaguerrero4435 ай бұрын
love you forever dez i’m glad you’re in a better place 🥹wishing the best for you and babygirl always
@asmrsunset506520 күн бұрын
Girl you have such a good heart and seem so genuine. I had my baby girl not too long after you and it gets tough! But we got this boo!❤️
@fishyblobb5 ай бұрын
nah postpartum depression hit me like a mf bus. “ur mother instincts will kick in and you can’t be depressed” no girl.. my instincts kicked in and i took care of my son but i was still depressed as sh!t
@maryjayydreamer53465 ай бұрын
I am going through the same exact thing this whole video was just spot on had be sobbing while watching. We just have big hearts because I felt when you said you’ll always love and respect him and care about him and have a soft spot for him because same he gaslights manipulates me and makes me feel like the problem while the whole time he was cheating and he definitely doesn’t understand my post partem depression even my regular depression. He left me for two months to deal with our son it was the hardest thing I ever went through I didn’t enjoy my pregnancy at all but I love my baby sooo much he keeps me going he’s my trigger and I had to seek help for me and my baby because I didn’t want to allow him to keep breaking me and making me feel like I wanna Check out ❤ your strong you got your baby girl to keep you going you’re definitely handling it way better than I am
@Notamberalertt5 ай бұрын
Ugh hate when boys trap these successful woman. But that baby is a blessing will definitely show him how to MAN up eventually
@Notamberalertt5 ай бұрын
Also love be careful with talking about baby daddy online because they tend to get real emotional the following months after the baby and just get weird with the baby
@Annabananas20025 ай бұрын
She’s the one who let him get her pregnant again.
@strawberrymilk-dt8us5 ай бұрын
Girl hes 💅
@allysonpewterschmidt5 ай бұрын
The fact she liked this comment too lmaoo so telling
@Weluvuvictoria5 ай бұрын
I didn’t take pics or go out for 2 years because of the isolation and always accusing me of cheating 😭😭 shit legit was so draining. I so happy to hear you left and now feel like yourself ! No one ever understands the psychological impact of being in a toxic relationship:(
@anaira.i5 ай бұрын
Real asf 😩
@hihowareya78405 ай бұрын
He’s always been suchh a red flag! And trust not being in a toxic relationship will be so much better for your daughter too. I’m so happy for u ur so strong !💓
@Cardenasoch8eden5 ай бұрын
Im so sad for you:( I hope its gotten easier. But please be careful girl the internet is brutal and if you get back just be prepared for what comes with it again:/ i hope one day you find your person 💖
@dezmachado5 ай бұрын
don’t be 🫶🏼 this is what I needed
@Cardenasoch8eden5 ай бұрын
@@dezmachado 💝 your right babe. Everything happens for a reason. You have always been true to yourself and I admire you not only as an influencer but a person. Take care Dez💝💖 and congrats on your baby girl
@ryry82025 ай бұрын
i had to breakup with my ex on girlfriends day because he posted me on cf. it wasn’t just that it was a build up of going to the club constantly, saying i’ll get a call when he’s back and doesn’t, following random girls or bottle girls, would post everything else but me on his main story i had to let em go because i wasn’t settling for a man who’s loud about me to me but not to the public 🤷🏽♀️
@reese56035 ай бұрын
yes ma’am stand on business 💔 u deserve so much better love
@angelicc20095 ай бұрын
i just went through the same thing and i feel so comforted by you talking about ur situation
@omfgitsalexis48485 ай бұрын
Bestie we told you he was weird from the jump but love can make us blind fr 😭 im glad you came to your senses we love single dez purrr
@fxckitzkayden5 ай бұрын
honestly i completely understand because i went through the same shit with my ex/bd but i’m pretty sure he’s gonna watch this video and i feel like it’s just gonna create drama that they both don’t need .. hopefully things are civil and can be for that baby 🥺
@_rux.luv_5 ай бұрын
Girl we love you and we are always gonna be there for you 🤍. You are and amazing person, and you are gonna make it with you beautiful baby 🤍🤍
@TreisiGomez5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing girly ❤ a lot of us can relate with a thing or 2 unfortunately and i know your still going through trials and tribulations but you got this and also pray for him because at the end of the day you do want him to be the best version of himself for your baby girl ❤
@brittanycitizen55675 ай бұрын
I had a baby at 17 and married him (military) & girl let me tell you.. DONT love a man more than he loves you. I’m 25 now but girly these men feel entitled like they can do whatever they want just cause they work/:they view you as less than. You could go above and beyond a mf will still try and diminish the things you do and it’s because they truly don’t like you. I married a new man now and he’s the best to my child. You got this
@isabellarivera42725 ай бұрын
So much love for you been along for your journey for a long long time. Stay strong mama bs is temporary! 🫶
@jaelynmcbride73465 ай бұрын
Immediately clicked as I saw the title, & I feel what youre going through. I went through PPD and it was nothing compared to depression. I 100% agree with you…. men do need to step up when becoming a father!
@naitjj15 ай бұрын
Am I tripping or she forgot to blend the other side of her contour LMAOOOO
@dezmachado5 ай бұрын
I was editing this video waiting for me to blend it 😭😭 like??
@naitjj15 ай бұрын
@@dezmachado I was like how did she not see it in the mirror lolll
@melanievera5 ай бұрын
So much respect for you girly. As you should, doing what’s best for you and your baby. I can say that you’re so right saying they won’t change. No matter how much time goes by, a person will not change no matter how hard they try, if they even do😭. My ex and I ended things just a few months ago. It wasn’t a bad relationship and he didn’t treat me bad but we definitely couldn’t give each other what we needed and it was so hard leaving him after 5 and a half years of dating but so liberating. I’m rooting for you love 🙌❤️
@celesteistrippieshmurdabluu5 ай бұрын
dezzy opening my eyes w this video 😭gosh i hope i get to know a lot more of my bf before we get married and move in together😭😭 once we're married through the church uhuh no divorce no separating, so watching this video def help me realize that men can change and looking for their good intentions now can be a whole nother story when we move in together and start a family, thank you, dez and the situation will get better ♥
@uhffiliated4 ай бұрын
i was with my BD for 7 years and once we had our son.. his true colors definitely show and you said so many things that just lined up. i agree with you that honestly my son is probably the reason why i finally chose myself and decided to leave because THERE IS MORE TO LIFE. ppl may have opinions but your head is in the right place mama.
@uhffiliated3 ай бұрын
@kk18211 there were red flags i missed but i was also young and inlove (such as herself). when i say his “true colors” showed after my son was born, is because it was the first time i realize that i was making excuses for him the whole time. of course it doesn’t take a man that long to show his true colors, but obviously relationships aren’t meant to be easy and i wanted to work things out with him. like i said many ppl are going to have opinions but you wouldn’t understand if you didn’t experience it yourself.
@uhffiliated3 ай бұрын
@kk18211 okay good for you? but what do you gain by trying to blame the girl when it’s the boy who has the red flags? you been through it like you had a child with this man? bc if not then you don’t.
@Fregoso_Daisy5 ай бұрын
Honestly good for you girl! 👏🏼 for putting you and your baby first always prioritize your happiness and never let a guy take that away from you I love you sm god bless you and your family love you girly 💗🫶🏼
@mirrormirror71725 ай бұрын
I just wanna say, I’m proud of you. There’s some people who take a bit longer to grasp that a person isn’t for them and their SHIT but that’s okay. I would get mad at you 😭 (as if you were my real friend lol) bc you deserve the world dez. but I’m happy your doing better for you and ur baby. She deserves peace and love and so do you. Remember that.
@gabyrinconn5 ай бұрын
Hope you’re enjoying your trip queen, thanks for posting for us 🥹🫶🏼
@Ashley42RUC5 ай бұрын
Trust me dez you’re better off alone than being miserable forever. keep going for you & your daughter 🤍
@soob1275 ай бұрын
glad you finally realized your worth!!
@vanessaalbright6015 ай бұрын
you’re so pretty!!! i love you’re grwm videos
@robertojrguadalupebaby2 ай бұрын
IM SO EXCITED! I CANT WAIT!
@meowtail56285 ай бұрын
Love you queen, the growth is so beautiful ❤️
@n0th1ng_m0r35 ай бұрын
I feel you. I love the advice! You’re partner matters and how they treat you while pregnant is important
@Renaeam5 ай бұрын
You’re such a good mommyyy! Homeboy was no bueno dez
@AndryneMichaud5 ай бұрын
You’re sooo pretty it’s unreal 🥺💞💞💞
@AliceHeranderz5 ай бұрын
I been watching dez, since middle skool she came so far I’m lowkey sad that she getting treated like this , you got this girly , 💕💕✨
@dv.harris5 ай бұрын
so sorry this happened to you girl 😢 that’s why I always tell girls to get married before having kids because you never know what will happen ://
@ellayak5 ай бұрын
marriage doesn’t automatically make things better.. i know a lot of people who got divorced with itty bitty babies
@ellayak5 ай бұрын
@@makayla03333 to be honest i don’t think you ever truly know anyone. there’s more cases of husbands killing their entire family than “boyfriends” or anything in between.
@limayriv5 ай бұрын
@@ellayakbut it still helps you see how they really are
@dv.harris3 ай бұрын
@kk18211 marriage is a way bigger commitment then kids idc what anybody says… you have to be loyal to someone for the rest of your life and deal with each other everyday.. same thing with kids but in a different perspective. At least when you’re married you can have more control over the kids you do create with your partner and can get legal protection out of it.
@aaliyahgallegos67455 ай бұрын
i’m so sorry u had to go thru this girly no girl should go thru this pregnant or not :((( we are still young n one day u will meet the one when u least expect it… take this time to love urself n ur beautiful baby girl, good luck with the rest of ur journey my love 🥲💋
@nylaw36965 ай бұрын
Needed to hear this as someone who is always going back and forth about leaving bc my bd is the same way even though he’s the cheater and feels entitled to do as he pleases bc he works. Im glad you had the strength to leave and honestly be public about it all because you’re inspiring many women in the same situation. Much love momma❤️
@toil_vr5 ай бұрын
GIRL thanks for sharing with us your story, you so strong for this boo 😘💋🌸
@xariag15885 ай бұрын
One thing I’ll tell you from a young mom as well even when you have a loving, supportive and caring partner postpartum depression still hits hard unfortunately. I felt so alone even when my bf was their for me. I felt like I wasn’t good enough for my son or bf. Postpartum depression, anxiety, rage,etc sucks that us women gotta go through this while trying to enjoy motherhood💗💗💗 I wish you the best of luck- from a silent viewer
@kaitlynpineda80655 ай бұрын
I JUST DUMPED MY MAN BABY GIRL ITS 7PM FRIDAY 😝
@dezmachado5 ай бұрын
TWINNNN
@angelicajimenez405 ай бұрын
i loved your glow up break up vid from years ago it was the first video i saw of you
@genevam69665 ай бұрын
period he sounds draining as hell
@meenamusallam19 күн бұрын
i feel like this applies everywhere. when i moved in with my ex gf, things were great til they werent. my face and neck now are permanently scarred and its not something you can change. i hope to god you dont go back bc you truly do not know what people are capable of. its horrific.
@rocioruvalcaba40865 ай бұрын
Yessss girlll I loved everything you said and I’m so proud of you and your so strong for going threw this ! And thank you for sharing your story ! 🫶🏼
@lourdesangell5 ай бұрын
Aww :/ I lowkey had a feeling bc I didn’t see him anymore on any of your social media platforms I wish the best for you and ur baby and hope you never go back fr
@xamadeusx92025 ай бұрын
The way a man treats you while you are pregnant is all you need to know
@lillyw5605 ай бұрын
So happy for you, love to see you happy!! Know your worth👏 youre doing great mama dez❤️
@kamalae.40105 ай бұрын
Your skin looks so clear fr 😭
@alyssa70785 ай бұрын
Omg dez I’m crying I had a baby last year and everything you’re saying I resonate with literally everything you’re saying I’m glad ur getting better 🥲♥️♥️
@epicxochi5 ай бұрын
i’ve been waiting for this vid dessss im so happy you left that pos! 👏👏❤️‼️
@luvdeadpresidents5 ай бұрын
wheres renato at???? loved yall together
@tsoona7775 ай бұрын
he is trash too fr
@BreAnnaMahoney205 ай бұрын
LMAO
@cyb3r.punk134 ай бұрын
😭😭byeee
@CaliSunset-fk1kw5 ай бұрын
Same girl. We were working it out. My bd was so mean like fuckin rude I mean I was too but there was reasons why I was upset like I did everything and this guy was acting childish. Now we have 50/50 custody and I finally decided to take him for support. But I’m so much happier single I don’t have to deal with him or his mom. He was a mommas boy. Ugh so codependent on his mommy.
@tatianaalee62395 ай бұрын
Girl you were pregnant with his child your emotions are valid …you’re allowed to be moody you have so much changing and as women it’s a lot to take in especially because you have to alter you’re life …of course men do to and men let their egos get the best of them instead of just being nurturing
@thisismarcooos94065 ай бұрын
Once that trust is gone it’s really over 🥺 Aweee have your head up high sis this happened for a reason !
@jazzminevelasquez28575 ай бұрын
Oh babes ! Wish we could be friends. I am feeling like I’ve gone thru the same shit but I’m sorry you had to go thru a lot of the shit alone. Props to you being a strong mommy ❤️
@dazzadeleon71685 ай бұрын
sooo good to see you grow about your situation 🩷 i would love to hear about your postpartum journey your bod is teaaaaaaaaaaa muah muah muah 💗
@bamalicious20315 ай бұрын
Dead ass this exactly how I feel about my bd everything has gotten worse after our baby was born its been 8 months already and I feel so lonely and everything he does triggers me we argue everyday he’s always tired from work he can’t ever communicate his feelings it feels like nothing is ever going to get better idk if I should give up now or how much longer I have to put up with this until things get good
@bamalicious20315 ай бұрын
Like as the baby grows older she’s going to understand us arguing and I don’t want her growing up in a home where she sees that but it’s also like I don’t want her growing up with seperate parents 😅😢 it’s tuff!
@fiona66535 ай бұрын
Listen your kid will be so grateful to have split parents rather than witness the way they shouldn’t be loved.. if that makes sense. A single mother can teach a child so much about finding self love first and being secure in yourself as a person alone. You shouldn’t put yourself through all those things either.
@LovingGodLovingOthers5 ай бұрын
Things probably won’t change, just being honest with you. I’m in an abu$!ve relationship rn and it started off really good but over the past 5 yrs there were red flags here and there that I didn’t catch. It’s like red flags grow & grow into monsters. I’m not close to my family like Dez is, so I moved in with him & his family. I really love him, even though he only loves me in cycles. Btw, It didn’t turn physically violent until recently and trust me I NEVER expected that from him. I always just thought he would have his angry moments where he gave me silent treatment instead of communicating. That he was just insecure when he would control every single thing that I do and tell me “I never listen”. That he was just irritated every month when I would cry and be hunched over with severe period cramps not able to even walk but he’d get mad that I wasn’t cleaning & cooking for him. He almost k!ll3d me by accident last week. I packed my stuff but couldn’t get myself to actually leave. I kept looking at him and thinking about how much I love him.. I REALLY don’t want your situation to escalate and become physical. Especially with a baby!!! I don’t have a baby, I only had a m!scarriage. But I wish I had a baby in these times cuz I know I’d care enough about my baby to leave for the both of us. Tbh I can see now that I don’t care about myself enough to leave. It’s really hard. Learn from my mistakes plz
@mariahjones-fv1rq5 ай бұрын
Girl friend we are in the same boat almost to a T. On and off since 2019 and had a baby boy April 13th. I love you and support you
@mimihaneg5 ай бұрын
Read the title and clicked quick
@arielladuran12985 ай бұрын
That’s good that you left Dez, the baby needs to be in a healthy and loving environment and just because he was providing financially doesn’t mean he’s providing a healthy environment for you guys. Having a healthy coparent relationship is way better than having two parents together in one home that are always fighting.
@111_vee5 ай бұрын
HEAVY on not being able to handle my postpartum depression bc i’m always on the go. my situation is so similar and i’m literally crying watching this right now.