Groom speaks out after bride killed in accident hours after wedding l GMA

[@TaraVon]

I lost half my family in a tragic car accident a week before Christmas 2013. My significant other (28 years old) and his little brother who lived with us (18 years old) gone in the blink of an eye. I became widowed at the ripe old age of 26 years old and left with our 3 year old daughter to raise on my own. It’s a hell I wouldn’t wish on my worse enemy and it’s truly a miracle I survived that time in my life. Some advice I can pass along…The first year you will be in a fog, just going through the daily motions while everyone else’s lives move forward. There’s a name for this first year and it’s called “widows fog”. They say not to make any big life changing decisions or even small ones during this time because your brain has been through so much trauma, physically, emotionally, mentally. Therefore our brains are just not functioning like normal. I believe that fog is almost a form of protection from the excruciating pain. Enjoy that first year because after that fog lifts and everyone around you has moved on from the tragedy, that’s when it really hits the absolute hardest. That’s when you realize every day that goes forward into the future takes you further away from the one you love and all of sudden you wish you could go back to that first year just to be closer to her. 💗 Men grieve differently from woman. There’s no timeline to grief, no steps you must go through, no right or wrong way. Some find companionship quickly after, alot of widows often seek out the comfort of someone who was close to the deceased one as well. Some like myself, choose to still be alone 10 years later. All of it is okay. I highly suggest going on Facebook and joining some of young widowers groups. Those groups saved my life early on in a lot of ways because nobody else can truly understand the nightmare unless they’ve been through it themselves. And it helps tremendously to be connected to others going through similar and just knowing you’re not alone in your pain. The bad news is you have a long journey ahead but the good news is and as much as I didn’t want to hear it at the time, one day in future there will be a light at the end of the very dark tunnel. The constant pain will lessen and eventually turn into a dull ache that ebbs and flows like the ocean waves. Some days those waves will get so high and literally leave you gasping for air. Other days those waves might be calm and still. Don’t fight against them. You just gotta ride them out. In the end, the man you will become after trekking this journey will be one of uttermost strength, perseverance, truly indestructible, and given the rare gift to see and appreciate life in a way most others can’t. 10 years later and I can finally say that I wouldn’t be who I am today if I didn’t survive such a tragedy in my life. In some strange way, it revealed me to myself and I wouldn’t change that for anything. 💪🏼 Hang in there! 🤍

[@mafiosa617]

I said a prayer for you. Even now because I know you’re doing better but I’m sure you still have those moments. I loved the advice you gave. Continue to be strong ❤️

[@srusn]

@Tara Von….You explained this BEAUTIFULLY! That is an almost exact synopsis of what lies ahead. My condolences to you for your family as well as to this Groom for His Beloved Wife. I lost my daughter 8 yrs ago at 3 months and as I was reading your comment, I was time-lining my own journey. My “fog” lasted 2 yrs. From the time of her passing till 2 yrs later when I had to start the grieving process because I had checked all the way out. He does have a rough journey ahead. Therapy coupled with a support group is what saved my life. Thank you for the reminder of just how far I’ve come😊

[@daisymoira8536]

Many many blessings to you❤❤❤❤

[@juliewick]

Sending you so much love and light. Thank you for sharing this will ABSOLUTELY help others who read it. The world is very grateful that you are still here! 🩷🩷🩷

[@hildagranados5623]

You’re an angel for this.. it’s thoughtful and actually educational.

[@ashlen8717]

This is beyond heartbreaking. A few hours earlier they were thinking about the rest of their lives, and hours later she’s gone forever… So devastating. Sickening. I hope that drunk driver NEVER gets out of prison.

[@Chris-r1g5t]

They will after about five years.

[@eri_noemi1462]

@@Chris-r1g5t It's disgusting. Drunk drivers are pure evil.

[@roserankin6441]

There are some people who drink too much, get into a car to drive, and don't realize what major harm they can cause. This girl should feel remorse and guilt for the rest of her life.

[@bobma6342]

@@Chris-r1g5t Yep, but they shouldn't......and after she gets out she should also have her license revoked PERMANTLEY

[@I_Love_Rainbows510]

Yeah. Anyone who could go forty over and have a blood alcohol level three times over is clearly lacking in basic morality. What a waste! Ugh. I feel so so sorry for this man who lost his wife. God bless! This is heartbreaking.

[@monicavillarreal3902]

This is probably the most heartbreaking I have every seen. The happiest day of your life and in a matter of seconds it's all gone. Prayers for this grieving man.

[@hairlossxpert4493]

You don't get out much, do you?

[@insidiouslol2682]

@@hairlossxpert4493 ???

[@michellepalmaasencio7411]

😞😞😞🥲🥲

[@margretsims1322]

I actually couldn't watch it.......

[@gsdmomb530]

​@@hairlossxpert4493 WTF?

[@RobsGravity]

I think if I lost my soul mate on my wedding day I'd be ready to take my own life. I could never have the strength this man has to go on tv and speak. It's crazy the respect I have for him I wish there was something we could do to ease his pain but I know we can't. The game of life, True love and tragic death💯

[@devilblueduke]

the same I would be taking my own life.

[@Alejojojo6]

Dont say that, he is young he can find another "love of his life" and still have a great life. It's a tragedy, very hard to bear but you can overcome it.

[@Alejojojo6]

@@devilblueduke No. Pls, dont say that.

[@RobsGravity]

@@Alejojojo6 don't think you understand what the love of your life is. It's not multiple people. Obviously you can love anyone but there is one "love of your life" not everyone is like you and can just forget someone they cared about like that

[@coachtamaradalton5270]

My 24 year old son was killed with a gunshot that blew his head, it's been a year and no support if it wasn't for my 8 year old son I would've took my life for sure. The pain is unbearable I cry daily.

[@Lave_cake]

The fact that her car looked like that after hitting a golf cart is insane lucky any of them survived

[@stephanienuce7711]

Drunk drivers steal SOOO MUCH. This breaks my heart. My mom was killed by a drunk driver before I was married or had children. I call it generational theft! And to be honest I don’t see it as an accident b/c you KNOW beforehand what the consequences COULD BE of getting drunk. I see it as an intentional crime. These horrible crimes are not taken seriously enough and devastate families FOREVER! I hope this man continues to heal and seek justice. My most sincere condolences.

[@nktaylo1]

Fully agree. I'm sorry for your loss.

[@deusvultpictures6550]

The demon drink ruins lives

[@WideMouth]

I knew someone who was killed in a hit and run by a drunk driver. He was a dear friend of my family and had a family of his own with children and foster kids. Drinking while driving is one of the most narcissistic things you can do - risking the lives of others for the sake of pleasure and convenience.

[@MarnieGolde7]

If you hear how the drunk crotch goblin talks to her parents and boyfriend from jail it quickly becomes clear why she is the trash that she is. Trash breeds trash.

[@deebal4037]

I agree I get mad at drunk drivers.. I got hit with one while I was 8months pregnant my son now 10 years old is fine but drunk drivers ugh! Sorry I despise them

[@samgeller6357]

I know nothing will bring his wife back but he deserves to get justice and closure. My heart goes out to him and his family.

[@NicoleLyn1218]

So incredibly heartbreaking. What a huge loss for this man and their families. The grief is unimaginable.

[@dixie3086]

My heart goes out to this guy. I can't even imagine the pain he is in. Their whole life was ahead of them and taken away in an instant. Prayers for him and her family.

[@angieang26]

This was truly heartbreaking too. It happened to another couple who just got married on their wedding day a few years ago. They was leaving the church when their car was hit and bride and groom died.

[@brianearlspilner2767]

Suckhispeepee

[@outcoldwinter72573]

Words cannot express my anger at this drunk driver and my deepest condolences to you sir.😢

[@GregoryPritts]

Yea. If it was me I can't say I wouldn't have taken justice into my own hands.

[@PorshaLaVieBelle]

I’m so angry. Like so so angry

[@leigh89]

Am I the only one who wants to slap that smile off the interview’s face? The poor guy just suffered a terrible loss, could barely keep it together, and she’s sitting there with a smug look as if she’s enjoying it.

[@bernadettereyes-deasis4365]

Yes! Omg I thought I was the only one annoyed by her effing face. I don't like the way she was sitting too and with that dress. Ugh

[@NinaZuccaro0824]

Her last moments were the happiest of her life. I hope the legal process is swift and the family can focus on healing.

[@MrWord283]

@@NobodyHereButUsChickens lol im pretty sure he is talking about the wedding genius

[@ButchersNailsEnjoyer]

Idk she might’ve not died on impact and she could’ve slowly and painfully bled out with multiple fractures. You never know

[@JordanGonzalez1996]

Apparently the mom of the bride is now challenging the validity of their marriage and trying to sue because she wants the daughter’s estate which, from the lawsuits is millions of dollars.

[@pamelawingard7275]

​@@JordanGonzalez1996Do you know who won ?

[@offthewallsurfer1]

Aric, if you happen to read this, I just want to say I’m so sorry for your loss brother. I can’t even begin to understand the sheer amount of anger and grief you may have. Although your beautiful wife isn’t here anymore physically, just know she is with you forever within your heart and will help you throughout the rest of yours. Sending my upmost condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. ❤💐🙏🕊️

[@Aric_EPU]

I know it’s not appropriate but my heart dropped as soon as I read my name.

[@DebShort1]

How do you comprehend and live through something like this? My heart goes out to this man and all families involved

[@___Neo___]

Learning the science of how spirituality works helps a great deal.

[@himbuxterrafux9525]

That's why I'm live alone.I couldn't cope such a situation.Maybe I'm weak, selfish and to much fearful but I don't care what other people think about it.

[@DebShort1]

@@himbuxterrafux9525 nothing wrong with that if you choose to be alone that's your choice and your content like that. What's good for one may not be good for the other just have to find your fit.

[@himbuxterrafux9525]

@@DebShort1 James O'Barr(The Crow) said once:"You can wake up next to your wife 1000x, but it can also only be 10x". Nothing in this world, especially today, is guaranteed.

[@himbuxterrafux9525]

@@DebShort1 Ps.Wish you all the best in your life!From PL/CZ border area!

[@rebeccak85]

My God! This man’s grief is palpable! Even the reporter seemed upset! Such a tragic, awful, avoidable accident! Prayers for everyone but esp Aric! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@vl7175]

Why is the reporter smiling ? So sickening

[@melissas740]

And could she possibly show more leg?! All of it was so awkward

[@christine6139a]

Yes, I was thinking that as well.

[@christine6139a]

​@@melissas740Yes, I was thinking that as well with the smiling!

[@dreia2405]

My thoughts exactly

[@ginahuseman2335]

Oh my lord, I've been in that spot. Hit by a drunk (as a pedestrian), my significant other died. Waking up and asking where that person is and being told they died is devastating. It will stick with me everyday. I feel for you man. It's a long road ahead. This will forever be a part of you.😢❤

[@T800-theRealOne]

My deepest condolences! I can't imagine that level of emotional pain.

[@mht4908]

I'm so sorry that happened to you, I can't imagine the pain you were in, nor the thought of even forgiving the person who did it. I hope you find peace eventually and you're able to live a good life for yourself, but I know that experience never goes away

[@zach4832]

I’m so sorry you and he both had to endure something so painful for such ignorant reasons on irrational people’s parts. I send you all the love I could offer, I’ll be thinking and sharing your story. Thoughts and love with you.

[@chriswf21]

wow. I cant imagine. So so so sorry

[@laurebourgeois7256]

How do you do in those moments to not have your heart stop beating?

[@SilentKnight43]

I don't normally get emotional or react to videos and stories on youtube - but this was absolutely heartbreaking. My heart goes out to Aric and his family for their loss. Such a senseless tragedy. I hope this woman is punished to the full extent of the law and the lawsuits be successful at sending a message that this just can't be tolerated in society.

[@JT-xp3in]

settle down, Suzie.

[@LitLitterbox]

@@JT-xp3inwtf would you say that to them? Such an oddball comment.

[@JT-xp3in]

@@LitLitterbox stop being a hormonal cunt

[@SilentKnight43]

@@LitLitterbox I won't even dignify it with a response.

[@fitnesspoint2006]

@@JT-xp3in I agree with you, there are tragedies and deaths like these everyday, yes, everyday so settle down Suzie with your overly cringy emoting.

[@Monica0978]

My deepest sympathies go out to this man and everyone who loved Sam. Absolutely heartbreaking.

[@Hunee-]

This couple looked so happy and very loving on their best day. It’s unimaginable that their lives were turned upside down due to yet another drunk driver. Drunk drivers never learn and should never be given a second chance once they take an innocent person’s life. Everyone involved will be held accountable. I hope he is able to heal his heart. I’m so sorry.

[@gsdmomb530]

Here in Ontario Canada if you are caught drunk driving your car is impownded, you loose demerit points and you loose your license for a year.

[@gsdmomb530]

Also, you ever notice that drunk drivers never get killed?

[@Xane_Dragon]

​@@gsdmomb530right, because they're evil

[@Hunee-]

@@gsdmomb530 They sure don’t. Always the innocent who suffer from their reckless choices.

[@trenadettman9165]

@@gsdmomb530 I've always heard that drunk drivers with the amount of alcohol in their blood system relaxes a person's muscles not sure what that means when they crash into a car. I remember hearing that years ago .

[@SandyRN]

Some people listening to or going through grief or something heartbreaking can’t help but smile. It’s a way of not breaking down. You can see the reporter has tears in her eyes too, but she smiles with compassion as not to breakdown

[@bingbongcentralhq]

Thanks. I have a bit more empathy for her now. Before was confused and annoyed by her expression

[@SimplySheilaB]

Yeah you can tell, she’s very close to tears, I would be 😢

[@azharel]

Yes, she is trying as hard trying to remain compose to get the interview done. Seeing her breathing heavily at one time.

[@MissOnaBudget]

Notice the smile also...I thought that was off. That's why I went to the comment section for some confirmation.

[@milly7843]

That is what I do when I am trying to not break down. I have been dealing with the after effects of a very aggressive form of cancer for the past 8 years and back in 2020 I ended up losing my right eye. My best friend knew my medical history and that I was going to be seeing my surgeon about next steps, so when the appointment was over, she asked how it went. I had to keep pausing to try and bite back my tears, and during those pauses, I was smiling. She knew it was bad news because of the pain written on my face despite the smile. It is just how some people cope with traumatic situations and how they try to keep their composure.

[@camilletuc]

Why is the reporter is smiling at the beginning of the interview??? She seems really uncomfortable with such deep life stuff. She's too awkward with grief but did get a little better at the end. I don't think she was the right person to interview him. So so sad. Sending prayers to the Groom and family.

[@yvonnejuneau3201]

🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️ WOW! Get a life!!

[@jl4260]

I agree. You could see in some clips she tensed up and got uncomfortable when he cried. Smirked most of the time. Not appropriate.

[@louniece1650]

My heart breaks for him. Damn.🙏🏾

[@ramonrydell4835]

It's heartbreaking to know how difficult the world can really be. I truly hope justice will be served soon, because God knows this shouldn't have happened to such a beautiful couple. I'm glad he can still feel her nearby in their home. So he can feel the comfort he needs the most while processing this😭❤️

[@DestinyPowers-rz4lf]

i agree with you. glad he feels her there

[@Little_stud93]

Stop using your beliefs about god in every god damn thing. He’s not real

[@nicholem4831]

It’s so gross when people say things like: “I hope justice will be served soon, because God knows this shouldn’t have happened to such a beautiful couple.” Wtf? So if they weren’t attractive it would be ok that they were put through this experience? Of if they weren’t picture perfect it would be ok if it took a while for justice to play out? I mean, what the hell?? If you feel the need to mention their attractiveness, fine- I don’t care what they looked like- this shouldn’t happen to ANYONE.

[@ramonrydell4835]

@Nichole M personally, I don't get why you're targeting this so much. As for beautiful, there's different ways to describe beauty outside of looks. In this case, I am referring to their love. As for justice, I don't see why you're acting this way, either. If anything bad happened to anyone in that matter, wouldn't you want the things to be served right? You're free to your own opinion, but I suggest that for the future, you spend a little more time analyzing something before making assumptions. Have a good rest of your day.

[@Little_stud93]

@@ramonrydell4835 why do you Christian’s think “ god” does everything? If so he did a shitty job at protecting his kids at his house in Nashville. That’s proof he’s not real and you’re just brainwashed

[@lab4389]

The reporter is looking like this is a happy interview. Highly inappropriate. So sorry for your loss. It is beyond cruel. 💔

[@diamondminer9515]

That's not right. From the moment the groom was happy and got married to his love of his life three weeks ago to the groom becoming a widow in that short amount of time. It breaks my heart severely for their families. 😢💔

[@diamondminer9515]

@Jwestside honestly I want to see that drunk driver get what they deserve. Honestly that drunk driver should be behind bars for life.

[@lianneli9922]

Stupid drunk drivers I hope whoever was the freakin driver think about the damage he or she did and spend it for the rest of their life in jail forever

[@Jorge-cv9et]

alcohol is evil and should be banned just like in moslem countries

[@thesb2836]

the groom became a widower

[@scholaroftheworldalternatehist]

Im sure he can wipe the tears with 700k gofundme

[@jeniestra.]

I feel so sorry for him, this is an unimaginable tragedy. May she rest in peace and I hope justice is done.

[@kirsten5685]

This interviewer needs to get fired. Unbelievable how she is smiling when he recounts this tragedy!

[@JenShea]

Heartbreaking, absolutely heartbreaking. One life stolen and others broken and the young woman who is ultimately responsible has to live with what she’s done and she must pay for it. All because of what? Alcohol and peer pressure? Never ever worth it!

[@JenShea]

@PP 100% - much harsher. I'm so sorry for his grief but him showing it out here... raw, maybe it will stop at least one person from doing what this girl did. Maybe it will stop many!

[@belen1036]

This is honestly the most heartbreaking story I have ever heard. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

[@F19_33]

My heart breaks into a million pieces for this man and their families. 😢 this is absolutely horrible.

[@rubylimey7614]

I so agree...i felt the depth of his pain. Lord comfort this family an give them peace an strength to go on. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@DarleneStancil]

The pain in his eyes is unimaginable. Sam was a beautiful woman, inside and out. I’m so sorry 💔

[@marcyjones2667]

Omg the smirking and even a SMILE on her face while interviewing him about the most traumatic experience of his life makes me want to absolutely explode

[@TheHourofWitchery]

I just commented this. I'm glad other people thought her smiling was infuriating.

[@linateacup]

yes, i immediately felt this. i realized in a closeup though, that she was just unprepared for the interview and was just trying to hold it together herself. It’s still a “bad” interview in terms of getting info and learning about the situation. They usually feature their most insightful clips in these “update” segments but i was annoyed that this was all they had: her repeating “those were her last words?” 🤦🏻‍♀️ i would be speechless too, but i don’t speak for a living lol how disappointing. the groom deserved better.

[@m.riveram9217]

There is no way I would have spoken to anyone three weeks after my husband’s accident. He is brave to do it , early grief is the worst! 😢

[@davidoconnor393]

What is the point in talking to the media I don't get it does not help him it does not help you.. not newsworthy they are making dirty and sick money offs his personal one-in-a-billion fate

[@rogvarley6971]

Ya would if it fattened the lawsuit and they paid you to do an interview. You’ll find the strength real fast

[@heatherkerr3574]

He is very brave. Her story needs to be told. I really don't think he's worried about money. He wants her remembered, he wants justice for his beautiful wife, and things need to change. People need to be held responsible.

[@isabelamogosanu7777]

@@rogvarley6971 he said the motive was awareness. im pretty sure they dont pay for interviews lol, not much anyway

[@rogvarley6971]

@@isabelamogosanu7777 well im 100% positive they do pay. But there’s more motives than that. But it wasn’t him calling up the station and saying hey, i want to do an interview send down the van.

[@raesreadsandrambles]

This is so heartbreaking. He's very brave to be able to speak about it so soon.

[@nxsmotorsports]

My heart goes out to this guy, his family, her family, everyone they love, and everyone who loves them. 🖤

[@Hunniedog]

I sincerely hope and pray that this man finds peace and happiness again. When I was about the driver's age of 25, I was at a 4th of July party at my brother's inlaws and got very drunk. The people hosting the party hid my car keys and made me stay there. In my drunken state of mind I didn't understand, but I thank God for them doing that.

[@franzessie9697]

I hope you don’t take this as an attack. How can you be so drunk that you can’t understand that you should not drive while drunk?

[@franzessie9697]

@Jane yeah. That’s why you don’t get that drunk.

[@franzessie9697]

@Jane Also, when someone is planning on being drunk to this extend, why not plan ahead on a way to get home safely?

[@alyssaj.2659]

Poor guy! I’m getting married next year and can’t imagine losing my man, let alone on the same night! Life is precious.

[@Joyful2320]

I’ve never seen an interviewer struggle and have water in their eyes. This is SO heartbreaking

[@lynngonder581]

So heartbreaking! My heart goes out to him, what a tremendous loss! Wishing him peace throughout his rehabilitation.

[@gilbertianrueda]

The interviewer was perfect for this story. She was so connected and engaged throughout. The fact that she was also moved by the story was touching. So much empathy and sympathy. Thank you.

[@cougellie]

She also allowed for there to be silence, which wasn’t edited out either. I thought she did a wonderful job as well.

[@samcashelmedia]

Why is she smiling the whole time tho?

[@jetortizluis]

forreal! like why smile he just lost his wife??!@@samcashelmedia

[@kimmacdonald8489]

@@samcashelmedia that’s what I thought too

[@intergaming8319]

@@samcashelmediaI now right. I’d be like why the hell you smiling?

[@Mayabee321]

Oh Aric, I am so sorry for your loss. The love you and Sam have for each other will never end. I wish you well with your recovery.

[@jenniferhansen3622]

I'm so sorry for him, his wife, their families, and friends. I can't imagine what his mother went through when she had to break the news to him.💔😢

[@annien.1727]

Jeez, losing someone you're just married to is just nothing short of heartbreaking, devastating even.😢 Nobody deserves to go through that much pain. I hope Aric finds peace and healing in these dark, grievous times.🙏🏻💔💐 Prayers for him.

[@WingStorm]

*no one should drive under the influence, this is absolutely heartbreaking and I can't imagine everything that he's had to go through* ❤️

[@Casinogirl1987]

I want to jump through the screen and give him a hug

[@TaylorJhz]

I've realized when things are going good, something bad around the corner is waiting for you. My Condolences. Keep your head up brother

[@nishadh366]

His grief and pain is palpable. I am so so sorry. May she rest in peace and always be with you.

[@shelbytodd264]

I am so so sorry this happened and it shouldn’t of never happened . You and your beautiful bride deserve nothing but true justice . I can’t imagine the pain you feel. Keeping you in my prayers.

[@Diana-lk6gx]

I don’t think the interviewer was a good choice for such a topic.

[@HowieHoward-ti3dx]

Smiling way too much.

[@kevinangelo5471]

i really wish this man so much emotional strength right now. i hope he holds on qnd finds some sort of peace amongst all this darkness on him. he needs so much hugs and love right now. poor guy

[@Beccaheckawatches]

This is heartbreaking with so much grief beyond words. I was brought to tears by this interview. I’m so glad he got to remember his wife in all her beauty, love, and joy. I hope he finds comfort in their home. Praying for swift justice and healing.

[@noreenhills2433]

Cannot imagine the pain the families are going through. Deepest sympathy and in our prayers.💗South Africa

[@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293]

I cannot begin to image the horrors my fellow humans have endured in life. My respect for strangers I encounter and live amongst stems from this place of not knowing, but being fully aware of just how much tragedy-- and the heartbreakingly awful variety of it-- is out there. You never know what another person is going through. I am such a lucky person, I count my blessings every day. Tomorrow is promised to none of us.

[@estaisadore6188]

Amen..

[@kingston9248]

Who cares 😂😂😂😂😂

[@thecooljohn100]

You speak a lot of wisdom that sadly many people don't ever seem to come across. We should all treat each other with that base level of respect for one another's struggles which you speak of. Lovely words though, and I wish you the best.

[@fitnesspoint2006]

overly cringy emotions, get it together, we all will have loved ones die tragically in our lives, everyone of us. Save overly emotional "horrors", "heartbreak", "awful" vocabulary for yourself.

[@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293]

@@thecooljohn100 You too. I love your user name by the way, it can be read into so many different ways. Pure poetry. I hope the universe grants you many small mercies, belated acknowledgement for all contributions to shared reality, sudden largesse and many new adventures. Have a wonderful weekend you ol' pistol you.

[@coltdoxt]

I sort of understand the pain. My best friend was killed in a car accident last year, we were hit by a drunk driver. I was the only one who walked away alive, I have no kind words for the driver who hit us. She’ll never understand what she took from the world.

[@h3artands0uLL]

So sorry for your loss 💔❤️‍🩹

[@maxwell9734]

She'll understand... she's completely ruined the rest of her life. And, she appears to be young. If she has any sense of compassion at all, for anyone other than herself... some people don't.

[@yourboymalikcoleman8731]

I’m sorry for your loss 😢😢😢

[@jayhemfindsyou]

@@maxwell9734 Doubtful. That driver will be legally driving again in a couple years, illegally driving as soon as next month! Our justice system is atrocious and unjust!

[@katdujka4760]

It took courage to speak out and against drunk driving. My condolences to him and the family. I truly wish this never happened. I could feel the love he had for her just by looking in his eyes.

[@dianapatrick7761]

Ugh this story has been breaking my heart since day 1. I’m so sad for him. Praying he makes it through this!

[@Arcenia13]

My deepest condolences to groom along with family and friends! Rest peacefully forever his bride!

[@Daisy_009]

That’s so horrible 🥺💔 Prayers to him, his and her family.

[@rachelh2731]

Oh my GOD, they were in a golf cart. I am a crying mess. This poor guy has PTSD. Absolutely heartbreaking. What a tragic, cruel thing to happen, especially on their wedding night. Brutally sad ♥️💔

[@McTrump]

Im so tearful watching this. That poor man. I just want to give him a hug. I hope you can live a full life sir. Go where you need to go to grieve. But please come back and live your best life.

[@jennifermontoya5962]

I can’t imagine what he’s going through. 😢😢😢 rip to his beautiful wife.

[@Momusic730]

We are praying for this man and their families as they navigate this loss. It is heart wrenching to see and hear how broken he is after such an amazing loving day such as his wedding. May God hold him in His arms until he can breathe again

[@junedolson1642]

My heart felt condolences. I know how horrific this is, my sister was killed by a drunk driver on her way home from work @ 7:45 AM on March 10 2013 and the shock is overwhelming

[@Ziggy-hy4fn]

I simply cannot imagine. The full and total ache behind those eyes is like nothing else. My whole heart goes out to this family. Such a terrible tragedy.

[@christopherchi9230]

It’s heart breaking loosing a loved one from a drunk driver. I can feel his pain through watching this. God bless him and both families.

[@christinehutchins123]

My heart goes out to him. Very tragic. All taken away by a horrible horrible person who has only concern for herself. She is asking how this happened to HER! He found the love of his life,a wonderful special person and she took it all away. I hope he can heal and find peace someday.

[@believingtoday]

Alcohol...a substance that has ruined so many lives and families throughout time. Prayers for this young man, Aric, who lost the most precious person in his life, his new bride. All of this over someone who went behind a wheel of a vehicle intoxicated and shattered so many lives and stole the life breath from Samantha. Prayers for all left behind to go on through the horrific grief that they have to live with missing her.

[@LADY-E.COMEDY]

Yes it has !!

[@naomi8097]

Nothing good comes from alcohol

[@jtidema]

Prayers for the woman who drank too much and has to live with this horror of what she has done. Let's pray for her too, and not only those we feel sorry for. If only that woman's friends had called an Uber for her or driven her home... If only the bartender had cut her off. If only she hadn't felt like superwoman because that's how alcohol makes you feel, and she had realized she was impaired and taken a nap. What a terrible shame all around, but she is not the devil.

[@Kiwi-mn7ho]

@@jtidema you can drink too much and not get into a vehicle and recklessly drive… being drunk doesn’t excuse that behavior. if you believe you will never drunk drive you will never drunk drive, drunk or not. at least me personally. being drunk doesn’t alter your core values. i’ve gotten as drunk as i possibly can and never once did i consider getting into a vehicle because i still can differentiate right from wrong.

[@NotLikeUs17]

and still 100% legal. Government could give two shits as long it’s taxable.

[@LorenzLucinTv]

I feel your pain. I’m so sorry to hear this news. I hope you can handle this and I’m here for you from really far in the world, Philippines 🙏🏻

[@johnrobertd748]

Any spouse death is hard, accident or not, but I cry for this young man. How very very hard it must be for him.

[@brendalloyd1903]

How lucky your were to have shared the time you had with your beautiful wife. Memories never fade x

[@missj.d9187]

My heart truly and genuinely breaks for this man. Its hard enough in this world to find a soul mate as it is but to finally find the perfect person and have them torn from you is the cruellest thing imaginable.

[@lewismatthews4247]

Schools need to educate kids on this, pound this message into their heads. Don’t drink and drive, period.

[@FitFortySomething]

Oh my gosh. My heart hurts for this man. I pray for his strength and peace.

[@satysmith6758]

Why does the interviewer have a smile on her face as she interviews the grieving husband? WTF?

[@ellahcomer9039]

That is so heartbreaking I will pray for you and her family sorry for your loss

[@ruthless8411]

The height of happiness to the deepest despair absolutely heartbreaking. She looked like an amazing lady I'm so sad for her family and friends 💔 😢

[@nataliestownsend4211]

Poor man hope he gets the justice he rightly deserves and his poor wife 😢 😞 😔 rest in peace to hes lovely beautiful wife ❤️ god bless her ❤️

[@sarahmorrison5551]

I'm so sorry for this man's loss how awful my heart goes out to him and their family

[@TheBex10169]

Couldn't finish watching this.. Absolutely heartbreaking.

[@josephsmith1466]

Wow, the pain he feels is just so hard to see. I’m praying for you big man.

[@karenallhoff5086]

AGREED 💯 💔🤙🏼

[@karenallhoff5086]

My heart is broken for everyone involved. I can’t wrap my head around what this gentleman has been through and has yet to face. I am awestruck by his grace and the dignity with which he is handling such an unspeakable tragedy. My prayers and thoughts are with him, his family, her family, and his beautiful bride, Miss Sam. None of us can walk the journey for him, but I hope he is able to rely on the kindness and compassion of anyone and everyone who are willing to be by his side - whether family, friend, or stranger. I’m 50 years old and like so many of us, have lost loved ones to the deadly outcome of driving under the influence. When I was 21 years old, I lost one of my childhood BFF’s riding in the car with someone who was under the influence. Twenty nine years later, I genuinely don’t miss or love him ANY less. Dan and I met the summer after 3rd grade at Hill Trail, our families’ neighborhood bath and tennis club. We spent every summer together from Memorial Day to Labor Day playing in the pool, slathered in Hawaiian Tropic (or baby oil) laying out all day, hanging out in the woods behind the pool (eventually smoking and becoming party animals in our early teen years), competing on the diving team together, etc. When I close my eyes, I can still go back to all those piggyback rides in the water he would give me over those legendary summers. As we got older, we would have quiet BFF conversations while he would walk us from one end of the pool to the other about everything from the social scoop in our crowd, to all our fave bands (Long live Ozzy and Metallica, LOL), to all our life problems, to the dreams we had for our futures, and everything in between…sharing sacred moments with my arms wrapped around his neck. We even regularly joked that one day we would get married. We chased lightning bugs and lallygagged as he escorted me home on evenings I would walk rather than ride my bike. Even though he lived in the opposite direction, he didn’t like it when I walked home solo after dark. He’d either skateboard or ride his Diamond Back in circles around me the whole time…then sit in my yard chattering on for sometimes another few hours. We both were party animals as kids, but I ended up getting on the straight and narrow at 16 and he kept trucking down the party path. Eventually, we didn’t spend time together anymore as so often happens when two people take the opposing direction at that pivotal fork in the road. Our paths still crossed periodically from late ‘88 to May ‘91 and it would be like old times. The only difference - the latter half of our conversations would be me begging, badgering, pleading, cajoling, pestering and attempting to convince him to join me in this different way of life. (Oh if I only really understood more of my new way of life at that time, I wouldn’t have beaten him over the head with the message, dragged his butt places he really didn’t want to go, hence violating the principles of my new way of life that I just hadn’t dug into at that point. I live it now fiercely even, but not back then. LOL He would appease me and go from time to time…but I know it was out of love for me since I wanted it so desperately for him (and to get me to shut the hell up, right). I can laugh about it today knowing I was just a well-meaning, naive kid who just loved and adored him that much. In May 1991, I saw him at the wake for a fellow using friend’s tragic demise the exact same way…riding in a car with a drunk driver (looking back, what a horribly eery foreshadowing of what was to come). He came up to me as soon as he saw me and we sat off to the side on a bench for about 30 minutes. He couldn’t believe what had happened to Kevin as they had just been partying at a concert together two weeks prior. I quietly told him, “This is what the disease does best.” Then I couldn’t help myself and one more time, begged, really begged and pleaded for him to “come with me” into this different life where things are happy, joyous, and free. As we were parting ways that day, I tried desperately for my final Hail Mary when I said, “Dan, I’ll do ANYTHING in the world for you and to help you get clean. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE. If you don’t, you’re going to be next.” We then had a super long hug, cried, gave each other kisses and told each other how much we loved each other. I never saw or spoke to him again. Ironically, I would see his mum ALLLLLL over town for the next three years and we would talk sometimes for an hour at that gas pump or in the grocery store, or at the mall. She would ask me about life and I would ask her. She would give me full on updates about how things weren’t changing and even getting worse for him. We would laugh and cry and shake our heads in hopes that the miracle would happen one day. She had embarked on her own similar path to mine, but for parents and spouses…so we spoke the same language. I miss those conversations…and those hugs. It took me seven years to face that he was gone, I simply refused to think about it and pretended it didn’t happen. He taught me an invaluable lesson …. Grief does NOT go away, it simply and patiently waits. And wait it will until you’re ready. I go to see him all the time since he is 10 minutes from my house off the same road. Even when I pass by (which I do several times a week), NOT once do I not think about him, look up the hill towards him, or tell him I still love him with all my heart. I’ve gone through “a lot” even though I still live that same “new” way 34 years later. Through the decades, I’ve actually grown to rely on him more than when he was here. I’ve spent countless hours (and I do mean hours) on his patch of grass telling him how much I love him still, miss him, and can’t make it through without his strength. When life has dealt me countless blows, he is the first place I go. And when I do, I dump it all on him, hug his headstone, pray asking for his intercession, wail and sob, journal, listen to music, and ask for him to give me strength and still hold my hand when I don’t think I can make it one more minute or through one more thing. I’ve even fallen asleep all times of the day or night. When insomnia gets the better of me, as it so often does, and the Darkness is bearing down like a thief, I even go in the middle of the night. I’ve learned you do what you need to do…and not judge yourself in the process. He sends me signs ALL the time (and trust me, they are uncanny, at the very least). In many ways, I’ve grown closer to him since he’s been gone than the last five years of his life here. I wouldn’t have chosen to get a Guardian Angel this way certainly, but I’m so grateful that I still have him as a protector…in some ways, he’s more powerful there than here. That new life promises we won’t regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. Although I would zig in countless places where I would have been better off zagging (even on the straight and narrow), I do have one sweet moment I would go back and do over in a heartbeat. The summer before my eighth grade and his seventh grade years, we were hanging in the woods and I was sitting on a tree stump watching him wail all over the rope swing. When he got finished being George of The Jungle, he came over to me and we started in on our usual chatter. I was still sitting on the tree stump and he was standing over me. About half way through, he started to lean in and I PANICKED, pretty much rolling off the tree stump in sheer surprise. Haha If I could have a re-do, I would go back to that mid-June evening at twilight in 1985, and I would have that kiss…and savor every second of it. I guess I’ll have to wait until I see him again. In the meantime, I’ll just keep trying to live by the sacred words etched on his stone above his dates, “We walk by faith, not by sight.” So, I’ll just keep having faith that I’ll get that kiss one day when “eternity” arrives. And what a so very tender and sweet kiss it will be. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 Sorry this was so long, it has been a minute since I shared his story and got caught up in the reminiscing. Hopefully, (if someone actually has the tolerance to read all the way through this ridiculously long post), maybe just maybe there was something helpful in my rambling. If so, what a cool thing to know those we love can still change lives almost three decades after they’ve been gone. God bless everyone. No exceptions. 💕🤙🏼 ☘️Daniel Patrick Kennedy ☘️ ♥️ 11/24/1972 - 06/06/1994 💔

[@h3artands0uLL]

RIP Daniel Patrick Kennedy 🕊️

[@beckiepatrick6900]

Thank you for introducing me to your bff. He sounded like the best of the best. I enjoyed your story, I read every word. ❤

[@h3artands0uLL]

@@73v99 You mentioned “til your mid twenties when you finally grew up” and I just want to say, hopefully giving yourself some compassion, that is exactly when human beings mostly “grow up.” Remember your prefrontal cortex in your brain (the part responsible for decision making and organizing and planning) does not fully develop til your mid twenties anyway. That’s for every human being. Even if you could try to go back in time (not knowing what you know now) you’d probably make the same decisions (not going to call them mistakes) because you’re still learning at that age. So hopefully that neurological perspective helps with some self-forgiveness. It was supposed to happen that way. Be well.

[@ryans3729]

Thank you for sharing Karen.

[@karenallhoff5086]

Genuinely speaking…thank you very much. Namaste 💕🤙🏼

[@petercho8910]

I’m so sorry for your loss the pain will not go away and moving on will be the hardest thing to do. I hope he talks to someone like a professional because it will help him go on with his life. He will need all the support and love.

[@abbygiljum2916]

Completely preventable deaths like these are so traumatic and devastating. I am sending prayers and well wishes to the family. ❤ For all of us watching this please be the person that stops someone from getting in the drivers seat after drinking.

[@kingston9248]

Who cares 😂😂😂😂😂

[@skybrie7224]

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[@kingston9248]

@@skybrie7224 Report your fake pic 🤫

[@debrasnipes7431]

Not being in a golf cart on a beach road at 10 pm on a Saturday night would have gone a long way in preventing it.

[@kingston9248]

@@skybrie7224 lol Catfish Profile pic 🤣 💯 you a dude lmfao 🤣 😂 🫠

[@MSR_Ma]

My heart really goes out to him and their family. This is a complete tragedy on the best day of someone’s life. She deserved to be here. R.I.P beautiful bride 🕊️✨

[@snuggleb100]

Absolutely heartbreaking I could hardly keep it together watching him and listening to him. This should’ve never happened but it did. I’m so sorry for his loss.

[@dorothyobianuju6265]

Sending my prayers! I can’t even imagine 💔💔💔

[@fruitysound3826]

I couldn't imagine. I truly don't know how I could continue on. My condolences

[@Imjustacatlady]

My heart breaks for him and their families. Poor guy! 😭😭

[@wolfe8421]

I can't even imagine. That is truly horrific. Im truly so sorry for your loss.

[@belacosta3906]

My heart just broke, I cry for you, for your bride...I hope you get some sort of peace by remembering the wonderful times you lived together.

[@Beautifullybrokenwoman]

This is so sad😢 she was absolutely beautiful🩷 I’m glad you got to marry your wife and have all those happier memories from that day🩵

[@lilagonzales1145]

My heart goes out to him and both families. I hope the driver is brought to Justice.

[@bipolarbleachblack]

Absolutely heart breaking. 😢

[@coletteroyer5353]

This is the most heart wrenching thing I can imagine. The drunk driver should get life in prison. I can't help but cry for him and her family.

[@taylorsuarez_]

Why is the interviewer smiling

[@MC-qn3pv]

I thought the same thing, her demeanor is so inappropriate here

[@robynbohbot3709]

Still so heartbreaking to hear about this tragedy. Many prayers as Aric and their families grieve their loss of a beautiful young life.

[@patwilliams676]

Sending prayers prayers to you Aric, I’m so sorry 🥺💔🙏

[@xxthesarcasm]

This is heartbreaking and i hate that the man is having to go through this unimaginable grief. Why is it always that the drunk driver survive

[@kandecole7205]

Absolutely heartbreaking. Sending your family much love and saying daily prayers.