I have definitely fall foul to ableist goals. Wheelchair I need but society and family say I don't bcos I can walk. Avoided goal to use my wheelchair more. Thanks for clarity
@javierbarrucz77559 ай бұрын
KEEP REACHING YOUR GOALS IN LIFE ELINOR
@elizandranara3519 Жыл бұрын
Amazing, I always struggle with goals and feeling like I've failed if I couldn't meet a deadline, and then give up. This video is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you 💛
@Dr.Mrs.Pancakes Жыл бұрын
Great video, I have been dealing with the loss of most of my old lifestyle in place of chronic illness and keeping myself in mind is so hard. Often I find myself falling into the trap of setting my goals for others or to "get better" because i feel less human for being disabled. Its such a struggle to keep yourself in mind when it feels like your drowning, your advice to keep your goals in small and achievable steps as well as focused on actual beneficial goals is great advice.
@ElinorBrown Жыл бұрын
happy to be able to help a little! x
@frentbow Жыл бұрын
Same
@silvermoonuk Жыл бұрын
Great video. I have fibromyalgia with severe fatigue on top. I've always struggled with pacing and goal setting in the pace. I take too much on but then I get burnout very quickly.
@kaybrown3162 Жыл бұрын
You are so right - you must set the goals that you want to achieve and not worry about other people’s attitudes. You are the only one who is living your life so it should be all about you 💜
@onyxko Жыл бұрын
I really needed this video. Thank you so much.
@flo9 Жыл бұрын
Tip: how to adhd's video called "why is it so hard to achieve a goal". Very practical guide to setting, not setting, and achieving goals. Comorbiditeit aside, applicable to both me + ADHD.
@debb12345 Жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. I’m graduating and have so many things that need to be done. Thank you ❤
@sarahuk8265 Жыл бұрын
I needed to her this as i struglling yo set goals at the mo i want to finish my degree in Teaching i had to take time of but iam lucky my university have given me 10years to complete my dreee plus one of my small goes is to learn to push my self across the road by my self in my manual wheelchair without my so as i teally struglling to walk due to pain one of my biggest goal is to gi to disneyland paris with my sister for my 50th birthday plus i also want to visit family abit more
@ElinorBrown Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@maja9647 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video ❤ I needed to hear that 😊
@ElinorBrown Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@4sealsinacoat697 Жыл бұрын
this is really helpful to me, thank you
@ElinorBrown Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@KP-ej7gc Жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Subscribed!
@ElinorBrown Жыл бұрын
Awesome, thank you!
@darkteatime Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! This was super helpful. I struggle really hard with pacing still, so these tips will definitely help me 💖