God, I feel ugly 😔

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• God, I feel ugly 😔

[@CoilyCode]

🤗Coily Companions! Welcome to the first episode of a new series called Story & Style! Thank you for letting me be vulnerable and share another piece of my journey with you. Your support means everything - whether you're here for the stories, the laughs, or just to hang out with me! Can't believe those June bugs really had me out here acting crazy at the park 😅 Drop a 🤎 if you want to see more of the Story & Style episodes! Love reading your thoughts!

[@claricespencer6856]

THAT story was beautiful and freeing...NOWWWW your hair will thrive.❤

[@CoilyCode]

Exactly Clarice!!! 🥹🥹🥹 Life is so much more beautiful!!!! Being able to wear my hair with no problem 😇🙏🏾

[@A_Wilson]

🤎🤎 That was a raw and uncut story. One thing Braided Diadem stated in one of her videos was this…black women don’t hate their hair texture, they hate how short it is. I tend to agree. Most of us with very coily hair were not taught how to care and grow our hair when we were young. So now as adult women, we’re experiencing “big chops”, we’re just now Learning our hair, while trying to adjust to our texture that we kept hidden for so long, with relaxers, attachments, etc. Maybe some do struggle with accepting their texture, so maybe it can be a bit of both. Whew!! It’s amazing to witness and experience what YEARS of self hair hate can do to a person. Thanks for sharing! And you did a beautiful job with that style! 🥰💕💙

[@CoilyCode]

Yes!!! I agree with her on that point; I still had issues with my texture, but length affected me more than texture. That will get proven with more time, most women with long coily hair (which are very few) are celebrated more so. And the sad part is, most of us with the coiler texture jump off the path before our hair even reaches that length. Great point to repeat! Thank you 🤎🥹😍🙏🏾 Always love hearing from you

[@BeTheChange-d5h]

Excellent point. During the sixties those with huge afros turned heads. Many wore scarves, geles, afro puffs wigs, in the back until their hair grew out. ( Of course their were exceptions, but in my experience, few.) subsequently the extension of the hair length with geri-curls and the rest is " herstory")

[@hawttchocolate]

I meannnn it's not like there aren't natural kinky hair extensions.

[@chloeelainechannel]

As someone who prefers to wear her natural hair 90% of the time, I can still relate to how you felt. It's hard not being influenced by the culture that praises sew ins and buss down 40 in middle part wigs lol. Unfortunately, the world can make us feel inadequate for the way God created us. We need to know our value and beauty outside of the culture, which is something I'm still working on. Thanks for sharing your story and being vulnerable 🩷 Feeling ugly is something that's hard to admit, but most people feel that way at some point or another.

[@CoilyCode]

Chloe!!!!! You’re so so beautiful!!! Thank you for sharing. You’re so right! It is a programming by the world that takes so much effort to overcome. I’m glad you’re working on it because I don’t believe every black woman will come to that acceptance, but if we’re one of the ones to, then it’s a honor and fight worth having! 🌸🥹🤎 I appreciate your comment and sharing your heart.

[@laurielouisy9186]

This story was beautiful. I just started Falling in love with my hair when i stoped doing protective style that take moré than 1 hour to do and moré than 1 hour to undo my hair is thriving

[@CoilyCode]

Thank you so much Laurie 🥹! You know, I feel that part of the reason many of us have this relationship with our hair is because of the unnecessary effort and strain we put on ourselves. If the experience is draining, it’ll always produce a negative feeling. That’s a very good point you raised there!

[@lynch8418]

Her name was Shavonne. I don’t have a good memory when it comes to childhood classmates names or even just remembering most of the children in my classes for that matter. But I remember her. I lived in Trinidad when I was younger, until the age of thirteen. My neighborhood was pretty homogeneous. My school was made up of about 80% black and maybe about 20% West Indian. Shavonne came to my school in the 4th grade. She is what you would have called racially ambiguous. Almost like a Mariah Carey but more golden tan with long almost strawberry blonde/brown curly hair. I remember thinking I had never seen someone so beautiful and I think most of the kids felt the same way. A lot of the boys followed her around like lost puppies. And the girls wanted to be her friend. I wanted to be her. At this time I didn’t realize how broken I was because of a traumatic situation that happened years prior, also dysfunction in my household. But I just knew if I looked like her especially her hair all would be well in the world. It’s just crazy now to think about. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank God for healing.

[@CoilyCode]

Woooooooooowwwwwww Camille! 😭🤎 thank you for openly sharing such a vulnerable moment in your childhood. I don’t think most of us realize how damaging our childhoods have been on our self image and identity…until God opens your eyes to see it. And when you’re on the other side, it seems absolutely insane that we thought the way we do. But, living in the Caribbean now, it’s no different than American growing up. Most kids who didn’t look black stood out as unicorns and it made them a spectacle. But somehow, their looks weren’t teased, but celebrated. And you have to wonder how did that calibration happen so young!? I’m so glad the story is changing for our daughters. And we can celebrate all types of beauty! Ugh I love this! Would you mind if I shared it in a future video? lol I have screenshots of all your comments 😂

[@lynch8418]

@@CoilyCode I realized the enemy doesn’t start wearing us down when we become an adult. The younger he can get us the better for him. But God has always been present. When the enemy thinks he has us, God comes in and scoops us up. 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✝️ I’m so beyond honored!! 🥹🥹🥹. You have no idea. My little old stories or words can add to the ministry (that’s how I see it) that God has given you gives me so much joy. Thank you so very much. ❤💕💗💕

[@Janet67498]

The hairstyle at the end is nice. Also I would’ve assumed Grace didn’t like my hair if she’s offering to twist it. She probably had good intentions, but then again you already did your hair.

[@CoilyCode]

Hahaha thanks Janet! I actually just wore it in a loose Afro 😂 so they could see the whole thing, so she offered to do a style in it :) thank you!

[@YahushaIsMyKing8]

I appreciate you being so open, genuine, honest and authentic. I've shared before that I combed out my locs and loved my hair then but never was "alone" with my own natural hair. When I combed them out and tried to style my hair I literally looked in the mirror, said I hate my hair it's ugly, and broke down crying. I thank Yah for giving me a supportive husband who said no it's not and prayed with me and supported me on this journey to loving who Yah created me to be. Now I love my hair and am truly grateful that I am made in Yah's image and should NEVER hate what He said was good! I love you my Sister in Christ keep going! You are so beautiful inside and out, true Proverbs 31 woman!

[@CoilyCode]

😭😭😭 that last sentence! Wow! 🥹 thank you so much sis! It truly is a testament to the Lord’s work in me. 🤎 First, thank you also for sharing your breakdown moment with me. Second, how absolutely precious that your husband covered you in such a vulnerable moment! We don’t hear things like that a lot in general, what an amazing support. Wow! God bless you so so much! And you’re looking ABSOLUTELY stunning in your profile pic 🥹 it’s so sad we ever thought that what Yah gave us was ugly! 😩 what a lie from hell!

[@shelly.v.247]

Wow you never cease to amaze me! Thank you for this raw and very candid conversation. I think many of us have fallen victim to feeling this same way at some point in our natural hair journeys. So thank you for being brave enough to say it out loud! Btw, I love seeing you on the other side of it too. It’s so extremely inspiring Sis! 🙌🏽❤

[@CoilyCode]

Shelly!!! 🥹🥹🥹🥹 thank you so much. It’s these stories that really connect us to each other and realizing we’re not alone in this world. Thank God He helped me overcome otherwise I wouldn’t be here! Thank you again for your support 🥹🙏🏾🤎

[@Emelda-j3j]

Im so glad and grateful you Decided to be vulnerable and start this channel

[@CoilyCode]

🥹🥹🥹Thank you so much Emelda! 🤎🙏🏾 I’m glad you found me!

[@ajeedapoetreincarnatedquee1431]

From breakdown to BREAKTHROUGH!!!❤❤❤

[@CoilyCode]

YEEEESSSSSS!!!!!!

[@DigitalChickNetwork]

Love the episodic thread! Beautiful storytelling and you look beautiful!

[@CoilyCode]

Thank you so much Daryn! Love your channel! 🥹

[@tsingletary6311]

Whew! Girl... thank you for your willingness to be vulnerable and share your breakdown to breakthrough, so someone else might have their coming to the light moment. It's beautiful to have friends around to support you in identifying your truths-- good, bad and indifferent-- so you can make a plan to address your truth that works with your reality. 💞 Great job on the post story styling as well! My good sis and I were just saying yesterday we need to get our arm strength up so we can braid/twist our own full heads of hair down. Just doing the parting makes me tired...😴😅

[@CoilyCode]

Hahahahahahaha that was so relatable!!! I always say it’s the decade of weight lifting that’s helping me nowadays, but it still hurts! Thank you Tary for your encouragement. I couldn’t have done it without them. We need ppl in our lives willing to speak up. 🤎

[@michelleej]

New skills unlocked! Beautiful Cornrows! ❤

[@CoilyCode]

Yesss!!!! No edge control included because I would’ve had to wash my scalp a few days later 😆 thank you Michelle!! 😍

[@BeTheChange-d5h]

Youve got patience, a good eye, and strong arms. I love your hair.❤❤❤

[@CoilyCode]

Hahahahahaha. I owe it to the decade of weight lifting 😂! Thank you so much darling!

[@hawttchocolate]

I think its important to follow on social media natural hair influencers Because society will have you feel like natural hair aint ish. You can learn so many different styles from natural hair videos and if length is an issue they sell human hair natural hair extensions

[@CoilyCode]

Well, to your point Chocolate, social media will def make you believe natural hair is undesirable. In the real world, people rarely ever have me flack for my natural hair except for a few lowly individuals. I would never wear another woman’s hair period. To each her own but that just gives me the creeps.

[@PureWord247]

I loved this episode! I would have been embarrassed to break down like that about my deepest insecurity. Thank you so much for sharing. But I also honestly want to say that inset photo at the end you look so pretty but I get the feeling that you were feeling very confident when you took it! It’s true what they say. Confidence is beautiful!

[@CoilyCode]

Hahahaha actually, I was too broken up to feel embarrassment 🥴. But, it was def a turning point in my journey. Awwwww!!! Yes I felt pretty good! It was just short lived because I hadn’t been used to seeing myself that way. Nowadays, the thought of putting on a wig makes me whole spine cringe 😆! I could never feel more beautiful and confident as I do with my natural hair. Thank you so much for watching and your comment 😍 Pure Word!

[@malindarayallen]

Thank you for sharing your journey. It's imperative that we create a community of healing around our beautiful natural hair. The more I have come to celebrate my hair unique gifts, the less I've tried to make it look like someone else, and the more it has thrived. This is a journey of healing inside and out.

[@CoilyCode]

YES Malinda!!! You get it! And it’s getting through those initial rough patches which so many give up during that time. So they never reach the stage of full acceptance. So we need to keep talking about it. Thank you for watching and sharing your insights. How long did it take you to finally start celebrating your hair?

[@malindarayallen]

@CoilyCode Easily over a decade. But what I've found on the path is that every time I think I've "made it", I take another step on the path. I finally understand that this is something that I have to keep peeling back layer by layer. I went from hating my hair, to tolerating it, to "dealing with it, to taking care of it, to accepting it, to truly enjoying and celebrating it. I think the next step is reverence, but I won't know until I get there. Mo' hair! 😍

[@CoilyCode]

@malindarayallen beautiful! It’s a natural progression! I personally don’t believe there’s an “arrival” point for anyone who is truly interested in growing and learning. Well said!

[@nashebagem]

Hi lovely 🥰 girl thank you for your honesty. Yes there have been times when I did not understand what my hair wanted or still til this day wants to do. I am still today learning about the hair that grows from my head. I resonate a lot with you and I guess that’s why they call it the natural hair “journey “ because that’s exactly what it is. There is not a destination as yet. I am still natural with my curls and I am glad to have found someone like you who is also kind enough to share your thoughts and how you feel. Let’s make a pledge to stay with our coils and curls and take care of our minds and the curls and coils the best way we can. 👍🏾☝🏾👏🏾

[@CoilyCode]

YESSS!!!! I LOVE THAT! We are definitely pledging to be faithful to our curls and coils and our mind! Exactly! No destination, just a journey where we simply start loving and accepting how God made us and enjoying life in the process. 🥹🤎🙏🏾 Thank you darling!

[@Dimitri1237]

Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable with us & giving your testimony. For the longest time, I also felt insecure about my hair & appearance. And I’ve come to realize a lot of it stems from slavery & racism

[@CoilyCode]

Thank you for watching Dimitri! You’re the first guy who’s ever commented on my channel 🥹 and I forget sometimes that black men struggle with this too. I appreciate you sharing that last bit too because it def has its roots in slavery & racism. And though that institution has perished in American society, the effects have been profound to say the least. Thank you again for the encouragement!

[@lindav7158]

what a story.

[@CoilyCode]

Linda, do you mean that in a good way? 😅

[@lindav7158]

@@CoilyCode oh yes ma''am .😄 absolutely.🥰. it was so spiritual in its content. I dont think the Lord is happy when we have such loathing for our hair Its a beautiful thing that he gave us; when we practice to ruin and over manipulate to try to make it something else, I cant imagine he is happy with it. Im glad you had a breakthru.

[@CoilyCode]

Awww I love that! Thank you so much for sharing 😍🤎🙏🏾

[@FaithFitness_84]

I love how open and honest you are ❤. Its such a wonderful quality ! Its a great discussion because I bet many of us still feel this way now 🙏🏾. Thank you for being you !

[@CoilyCode]

🥹🥹🥹 thank you so much for that! I appreciate you.

[@Free-z5l]

I thank you for being real and honest! Your journey is a story many share but won’t admit so I appreciate your authenticity. Your softness and beauty is magnified by your natural hair🩷

[@CoilyCode]

🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹Wow!!! What a beautiful comment! Thank you so much Free. That just made my day!

[@Free-z5l]

@ You’re so welcome I just found your channel. I’m currently working on my edges and overall thickness. I massage DAILY with a few drops of lavender, rosemary, clove, and castor oil, spray my scalp daily with rosemary water, spray leave in on my hair and coat with castor oil and wear head bands with my hair pinned or a hair clip up in 2 strand twists as my protective style. I’m having great results! My daily massage is my way of nurturing my hair daily while I think thoughts of love and gratitude and I pray to God for everything including my hair! Hope this helps and God bless!

[@CoilyCode]

Oh nice tip!!! I’d definitely like to get my hairline to catch up with the rest of my hair! So I’ll have to give it a try. How long are you massaging?

[@Free-z5l]

@ Yes, about 12-16 minutes every evening 3-4 minutes on each section front left front right, back left back right. With my oils

[@CoilyCode]

Thank you! 😍🙏🏾

[@itsrro]

You’re beautiful and you’re loved, God bless you girl ❤ I send you a big hug 🫂

[@CoilyCode]

Thank you beautiful!!!! I appreciate the hug 🫂🤎

[@juanitarobertson306]

You are absolutely amazing and beautiful just the way you are. My mom always told me if god gave us the ability to change are hair and body we would do it everyday because we would never be satisfied. So with that I know still hear her voice saying be happy with what god has given you. Sometimes it’s just so hard. Never let anyone tell you any different.😊😊😊

[@CoilyCode]

I love that!!!! You’re so right. We would changed something everyday! And that’s partially because we simply don’t know what we do. God’s original design is truly the masterpiece!

[@nelliesmith9730]

Nothing wrong with your hair. So thick and black and shiny

[@CoilyCode]

Nothing wrong at all! Thank you, Nellie! 😍

[@phinnysakana]

Glory be to God for opening our eyes, to see that true love comes from within. This was a thought provoking video as I reflected on my own hair journey, it took me 10 years to finally accept what has graciously given me. Much love Sis❤❤❤

[@CoilyCode]

Yes Phinny! No matter how long it takes, it is worth the time if it means we finally reach that acceptance! It’s the best thing ever! Thank you! Always look forward to your comments! 🥹

[@lavinaweathersby7889]

That was beautiful and honest. Thank you for your vulnerability ❤

[@CoilyCode]

🥹Thank you Lavina! It was worth it to make that connection with you and so many others 🤎🌸

[@EmaK-x2m]

Praise God. Thankyou for sharing this So needed, Many are experiencing this. May this help many who are stuggling in this way All Glory to Jesus.

[@CoilyCode]

Amen Ema!!! I’m so glad it resonated with you and know we’re not alone! 😍🥹🙏🏾

[@ki58sm]

This video resonates with me so much. I always think about how my natural hair struggles came from the fact that I haven’t always had access to my hair. My mom relaxed it when I was young, so that means I’ve had less years to learn my hair and less years to grow it out. Growth is something I’m focusing on this year, but I tell myself to still appreciate my hair for how it is now. I struggle sometimes with doing styles other than flat twists cause when I left my hair out in a fro or puffs in high school, I didn’t see a lot of growth. I’m trying to figure out how to focus on growth while doing styles I love, so I really appreciate the message of this video. Thank you for reminding me to give myself, and my hair, some grace. 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@CoilyCode]

🥹I love this so much Ki! Thank you for sharing. I relate to what you’re describing. Most of us weren’t even given a chance to love or hate our hair on our own terms 😩. It was already decided. So we spend our later years getting a chance to redeem those earlier years of girlhood. I’m happy for you and take your time!

[@ravenlove2860]

Love your thick hair. I have 3c thin hair in front, thick hair in the back. I have moments when I wish I had thick 4c hair. I had to accept the fact that my hair is what it is. Love your truthfulness.

[@CoilyCode]

Thank you Raven! I also have thin hair haha so we’re in the same boat in that sense but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

[@Sharon247]

That was a beautiful story, told by a beautiful girl with beautiful hair! I have hair similar to yours, mine is thinner though. I first started wearing wigs at 59 yrs old, im 63 now, never had a weave or wig before that, but unfortunately my hair started thinning terribly at the crown, either female pattern baldness or ccca, or both. I couldn't cover it anymore so i started wearing wigs. I am diligently working on my hair to thicken it, esp the crown area, bc I would love to wear my natural hair out again. Our hair is so unique, it sets us apart, and it's really beautiful. ❤ Your hair looks very healthy btw, I love it.😊

[@CoilyCode]

😭🥹Wow, thank you Sharon 🌸 I understand. I don’t know if you ever heard of nettle tea but nettle can inhibit the formation of DHT. The nettle extract (leaves and roots) has the ability to block dihydrotestosterone (DHT), a hormone produced by testosterone that, when overproduced, can cause significant hair thinning and hair loss. Not saying that’s what is causing for thinning and hair loss for you. And also scalp massaging. Our hair is absolutely unique. So beautiful! A work of art! Thank you again for your beautiful comment and sharing your story. What an inspiration! 🥹

[@Sharon247]

@CoilyCode Awww thank you so much beautiful girl! 💚 With the nettle tea, do you just drink it, or do you have to make a concoction lol, and apply it to your hair? Or just in a spray bottle? I want to try it. And yes, I definitely am Massaging my scalp consistenly and daily, it is definitely helping 👍🏼😊

[@tonisimon929]

Wow. Beautiful story. Your hair is gorgeous! 4c hair is beautiful, resilient and versatile. I look forward to following your content!!!!!!

[@CoilyCode]

Thaaaaaank you Toni!!!! I’m so glad you’re here! 😍🙏🏾🤎

[@esthertjones]

Amazing to see how far you've come ❤

[@CoilyCode]

🥹I appreciate that Esther 🤎

[@stylesbycharmichelle]

I understand. Hugs.

[@CoilyCode]

Thank you Charmichelle! Your name is so pretty!!! Mine is Charnell 🥹

[@YahushaIsMyKing8]

I NEED to learn how to cornrow! Seeing you do it is my encouragement! I can flat twist but when trying to cornrow my fingers just get all tangled. I'm doing a flat twist out on blown out my hair this weekend and will try when the blow out gets old.

[@CoilyCode]

Hahahaha!!! That reminds me so much of when I first started learning. My brain and fingers were at war with each other! 😂 but I think the trick is doing it even if it’s wrong, because sooner or later, you’ll get that light bulb moment . Watching tutorials helped but I HAD to keep doing it myself and follow along. Flat twist outs are my jam!!!! I def think as long as your hair is stretched, that’s the best time to cornrow.

[@nazjee]

I resonate with this a lot thank you for sharing ❤

[@CoilyCode]

I’m glad you did Nazjee! I think many of us have more in common than we know 🤎🙏🏾

[@thatlthatjiminhandedeverya1018]

Thank you so much for sharing. Glad I found this channel

[@CoilyCode]

Awwwwww!!! I’m so glad you found it too! Welcome and I appreciate your support 🥹🤎

[@Emelda-j3j]

You hair looks gorgeous, i wish i could be able to style my own hair in similar lines 😊😊. If I may ask how long did you take to braid it? How long would you normally stay with the style?😊

[@CoilyCode]

You can :) I think any texture can pull it off (maybe find someone who can braid it for you). A style like this took me 1 hour 🥴. And I keep it in for about two weeks. I get frizz very quickly so it doesn’t last as long as I’d like. 😇

[@Emelda-j3j]

@@CoilyCode I think one hour is amazing. I would like to know how to do my hair. That way I can understand it better and learn to love it 😉

[@CoilyCode]

@Emelda-j3j it depends on the style. Mini braids take me 4/5 hours lol. But I do find if you practice styling your hair more, you’ll get better and faster!

[@MaNoZu]

Amazing video😊

[@CoilyCode]

Aw thank you MaNoZu! I’m glad you found it useful 🤎🙏🏾

[@Holagracias1]

You're very very Beautiful ❤️

[@CoilyCode]

AWWWWWWW GRACIAS!!! 🥹🥹🥹

[@caribmi6247]

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[@CoilyCode]

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[@Sizantoyi]

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[@CoilyCode]

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[@cinnamondelight1899]

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[@CoilyCode]

Hi Cinnamon!!!! 🤎🤎🤎

[@nkroks4492]

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[@CoilyCode]

AWWWW!!!! Sending you a big hug! Thanks for the love 🤎🥰

[@Feeling-lovely]

Thank you for sharing some more of your story. A lot of this is relatable and comforting to know that we’re not the only ones that have felt the emotional toll that takes place when learning to accept our hair. Something that I’m still learning is with patience and viewing my hair the way our Heavenly Father does the journey will get easier. 🤎

[@CoilyCode]

Of course Lovely one. We all probably have more in common than we even know. And it helps us to heal faster! I’m glad you’re learning. Take your time and give yourself plenty of grace. It doesn’t happen overnight 😍🤎

[@Jahnaes.Artistry]

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[@CoilyCode]

Awwwww sending you loads of hugs Jahnaes! 🤎🤎🤎 I’m glad you’re here!

[@miniminott48]

Your honesty is so refreshing. I appreciate your vulnerability. You never know who your story will resonate with. 🤎🤎

[@CoilyCode]

Thank you Mini! That means a lot to me 🥹 it’s easier to tell it now that I overcame it, there’s no way I would’ve been able to share this in the time I was going through it.

[@Tina-wj8qg]

I feel Ur pain sis...😮😢 Me too but then I got lox 😊 and they grow 🪴 very long fast now I absolutely love my hair 😍❣️.... I do relax the edges😊

[@CoilyCode]

Thanks for sharing Tina! I don’t see myself ever getting locs, but many women swear by them. So that’s good we all have options 🥹

[@Tina-wj8qg]

PS. Sis on the real you are NOT Ugly 😊.... As Ur hair grows out you will see... Love you 😘 and ur hair 😊

[@CoilyCode]

Thaaaaank you Tina!!