GOD TOLD ME HE WASN’T MY HUSBAND 💔

[@LeahJenkins21]

Pray for me!!! I felt the Lord say that the man I thought I was going to marry one day is not the one and I am devastated. I prayed to let go of any feelings for him and it hurts because I became really attached to him and I don’t want to see him with anyone else. I know God has better but please pray for me because this hurts.

[@gloriamukua4557]

I went through that too this year 2024 27th April was supposed to be my wedding day, told our pastor, our parents friends,, and lemme tell you the wedding did not happen,, the lord had told me that I should wait but I ignored, coz this guy was all over me,, we shared a lot, we had planned our future ,, but what do I do, offcoz I must listen to God,, I just told the holy spirit that the Bible says he is our helper soo in this case he must come through for me, and he came, have peace now and I know God is walking behind the scenes to make sure I enter into the right marriage and am ready to wait,, though it's not easy I understand how you feel.

[@rayerobbins8580]

I agree with you 100%. It's best to wait on God because you don't want to think someone is your spouse when they're not. I dated a guy that I thought could be my husband and others thought the same. But God let me know he wasn't it. It was hard to cut it off, but I had to and I thank God I did. Now I have room to receive who God has for me.

[@KytiaLamour]

It really is hard to cut it off, especially if you’ve been entertaining it for YEARS like I did. 😮‍💨

[@athenaboulton5169]

Please pray for me as I wait for marriage sent from God. I am a single mother to two young boys, and I want them to have an amazing stepfather. My boys deserve to have that type of love from a male role model just as much as I deserve to have that type of love from a partner.

[@KytiaLamour]

Praying for you!! I can’t imagine how hard it is being a single mama. ❤

[@rebeccah.6403]

What i've learned about crushes is they are full of lust. (At least for me.) When I met my husband there was no crushing just peace and deep confidence in the Lord, I didn't need to fantasize over anything because I KNEW this man was for me.

[@deliverus8340]

But Dolomon talked about falking in love..

[@deliverus8340]

Crushes are not about lust

[@JerrellConner]

I am so grateful for your walk and commitment in following The Lord’s plans for your life. My life is so much better since God brought you into it. 🥰

[@KytiaLamour]

I feel the same about YOU!!!!! 🎉

[@JerrellConner]

PS - sorry our children were trolling us in the background. If you look closely you might be able to see the moment when Petra got in trouble on the hill 😂

[@JerrellConner]

@@KytiaLamour 💕

[@KytiaLamour]

@@JerrellConner oh no. I didn’t notice that and I made sure to check that nothing crazy was happening back there. 😂

[@JerrellConner]

@@KytiaLamour hahah I can only tell, because I remember her swinging her coat and getting in trouble. 😅

[@alisahall2098]

OMG, 46 seconds into the video i was yelling at my laptop, "Kytia this is my story too"! I remember I met a guy in middle school and had a intense crush on him from that point up until when i was a freshman in college. During that time he would always joke around with me, poke fun at me or just try to get my attention. It was done in a fun cute way. I had liked him and I knew he liked me because i overheard him tell someone that he did. We never dated because he was always dating another girl. He was pretty toxic, he would make me think he was finally going to ask me out ,but date somebody else instead. With him it was always a back and forth. He was just leading me on. During that time I would have dreams about him being in my future. When that happen I started to think he could be my husband and that I should just wait for him to finally ask me out. (This happened in High school) Fast forward to college I decided to pray about it and ask God if this man was the one.I asked God for a sign and through the sign God showed me he was NOT the one and that man got married to someone else soon after that. All of that shows me that it does not matter what dreams you have or prophetic words you hear, if that thing does not come to pass or God says no it is not of God.

[@KytiaLamour]

You are so right. If it is from The Lord, He will give you the confirmation you need to have faith for it and it will eventually come to pass. That sounds really hard to have that guy always be in a relationship with someone else while you liked him, but I’m glad God spared you in the end and you realized he was not for you and you could move on.

[@Sarahwilliams77733]

Thanks sis for sharing. What I took away from this video was that you desired to not date until you met your husband. I've felt the same way and wasn't sure if that was possible 🕊️😕🤦🏾🏳️🤗 anything is possible to him who believes. I'm so excited to move forward with the word No thank you in my mouth! God speaks to me so I'll know and he will too. And the peace of God when God is calling you to do something is right 👍🏾🤓🌾🙌🏾🙏🏾 thanks sis!!!

[@KytiaLamour]

Yes, I know it seems impossible and very few people will understand you walking out your faith in that way and not dating someone until you know you’re headed for marriage, but I’m here to tell you it’s possible and SO worth it. ❤

[@Sarahwilliams77733]

@@KytiaLamour I agree! Worth it. I desire for my heart to be guarded from unnecessary soul ties or heartbreak, time is precious and I'm ready to receive all of God's promises 💕🙏🏾!!! Love ya sis!

[@KytiaLamour]

Love you too!

[@mikewizoski7593]

Can you pray for me my name Michelle, I just don’t to cry anymore the person I wanted to marry left me, I just don’t want to feel pain and sadness anymore, thank you for your testimony.

[@KytiaLamour]

I’m so sorry to hear about your heartache. I’ll be praying for you, Michelle. 🙏🏽

[@rebeccah.6403]

I'm sorry you are going through this. The truth though God has some one way better. You don't want to be married to someone who gives up so easily. Pray about your future husband tell God what you want, God loves you and he wants to be a part of this husband hunt with you! I kid you not I had 28 things on my " future husband list" and my husband checked off everyone of them. But first before all of that I laid my life down before God I told God I would be single if that was what he had for me. God needs to be your ROCK because your husband will not complete you and will not fulfill you. He'll be there as a help-meet but God is your ultimate provider. You can still feel alone in marriage even with the right guy, that is why God needs to be the glue that holds you together

[@katyamuragu7918]

Kindly pray for me too. I've waited for so many years to the point that am losing hope and faith. One day my faith and hope is so strong and am excited that God will finally surprise me, the next, I want absolutely nothing to do with this wait. Am confused as to whether God wants me to persevere and wait or leave it be.😢😢 Please, keep me in your prayers for my faith to remain strong. For without faith, it is impossible to please God.

[@CrystalClearHope]

I completely understand what you are saying, and you're not alone. I'm in the same place right now. I'm praying for you.

[@katyamuragu7918]

@@CrystalClearHope let's just hold on to faith. His Will and none else be done unto us. What ever happens, He still remains the King within us.

[@emerald_316]

Please pray for me. I was praying a few nights ago for my future husband and that my "type" (who im attracted to) would align with who God has for me. A guy from my past came to mind and i had a strange, kind of unexplainable feeling when i thought of him- but it was comforting. But since then, i keep overthinking and stressing myself out because i hardly know him and he kinda rubbed me the wrong way when we interacted. In short, im afraid if its true hes my future husband. Kytia, do you have any advice for this situation? Thank you and God bless ❤

[@AlishaWalls-nn4hm]

I and my mother prayed to God who I should marry and write answering sky. We took videos photos and in sky clouds formed this exactly : "T" Others pulled over and took photos and videos as a gold beam shined down from sky and we were all like aahe and trees in sky it like sky opened. Out of 25 men the ex only named T. Come out he cheated with my sister a actress Ross and they do 3 somes with singer Mariah abd oadihan I know none of them. My sister cheated with all my exes. I a. Staying g committed until God says something different so I chose T still to be o Erie t God and learned T also .eans something in T cross which means I choose cross as well .

[@TheFIame]

Subliminal Jerrell in the background 👀❓❔❓ But good information, sometimes it's difficult to wait and discern these type of things, I myself struggle with this area alot.

[@KytiaLamour]

Praying for you because the struggle is real in the waiting. 🙏🏽

[@TheFIame]

​@@KytiaLamour much appreciated Kytia 🙌🏾

[@marketa4074]

I loved the story. Would like to know how you were finally able to shake off the feelings for the guy… I would love it if you would pray for me. I would really love to get married and start a family. I’m 26. I know I will get married eventually, I got some prophecy about that that I trust. But still, it sometimes feels hard. 🙂

[@KytiaLamour]

Shaking off the feelings came when I was more committed to my walk with God. Just before I met my husband, I was doing my best to focus on growing my walk with God, surrounding myself with Godly friends, and pursuing my purpose. Learning to not focus on guys in general and get my life in alignment before Christ really helped things that weren’t of God to become even more obvious to me. It was easier to let go of those things because I finally saw the harm in them. I hope this helps! I’ll be praying for you. 🙏🏽

[@user-rt4dl4fw8m]

I need help to break off a connection with someone 😢 please pray for me

[@zhariam1536]

This was so very insightful❤ Thank you so much for your content.❤🙏🏾

[@KytiaLamour]

I appreciate your support!

[@roses993]

Katya, i would like to ask for prayer. There's this guy i dated. I felt God lead me to Him. I asked God for signs of confirmation and they came to pass. So beautifully. I felt God speak to my heart that he is the one. But this guy is catholic and was hoping i would be too. But im evangelical christian and im not going to change. He has been gone for months now. Now im confused. I feel conflicted. I want to move on. But the answered prayers and the signs and leading in my heart were sooo real. How can i move on when i felt that God lead me to him? Pls kindly keep me in prayer❤

[@KytiaLamour]

I will pray for you. Sometimes God will give us confirmation for things that might take longer to actually come to pass than we think. There are things God told me about that I’m still waiting on 7 years later, but He has given me encouragement along the way. Be patient and try to focus on the purpose God has for you and your walk with Christ in the meantime. I know it’s hard, but I have heard of stories like yours where everything came together eventually in a way that no human could have planned themselves. ❤

[@roses993]

@@KytiaLamour tysm Kytia! Your words mean a lot to me. I will focus on the Lord ♥️♥️ and trust Him. I will be patient and focus on my walk with Him in the meanwhile, like you said. PS your videos have been such a blessing to me in this season which I must go through before the promised land. I love your channel and your fam. God bless you. ♥️

[@KytiaLamour]

Thank you for your sweet words. It means a lot to know God can use me in your life. 🙏🏽

[@itstrinitykaye]

Thank u for this word, Kytia ❤ I’ve been waiting patiently for the Lord to send my husband and years later I’m like 👀 lol. The waiting hasn’t been hard but I do have my brief times of loneliness. So hopefully He’ll be sending him soon ☺️

[@KytiaLamour]

Yes, it’s hard not to feel lonely sometimes in the waiting, but I love your overall positive outlook. ❤

[@DivaDancerLara]

I can really relate to this. I still find it hard to find the right person. Its been hard. i find its like running in circle. I need help in this area

[@fallenstar360]

Not sure if you'll ever see this, but thank you for this video! :) I am personally struggling with this topic. I have seen my friends asking for a sign, and they said God would give them those signs, but in the end, many of them did not end up together. So I was wondering how should we ask or know what His answer for us is? How do we know that this peace is really from God and not us being delusional?

[@KytiaLamour]

That’s a very interesting question and it’s hard to answer without knowing details of the situations your mentioning. Three things that COULD have happened (this is just my humble opinion though). 1. Sometimes we ask for ANY sign and are not specific. We notice coincidences that seem to line up with what we personally want to happen. For me, I asked God to show me a certain scripture 3 times in a row (not a common scripture at all), and it happened within one week in various different ways. I couldn’t deny that, but if you’re just looking for any sign at all and aren’t being specific, you could be reading into things. 2. Relationships can be hard and we have free will. God can clearly show us an undeniable sign and then we say “nope” when we realize how much work it will take and how it’s not the fairytale we were hoping for. 3. The timing wasn’t right. Things don’t always happen quickly when God reveals your spouse to you. There might still be things He’s working on in you both before you enter into a marriage covenant.

[@fallenstar360]

@@KytiaLamour Thank you so much! I haven't really given much thought about these possibilities.❤

[@roses993]

​@@KytiaLamourawesome response so wise! Ty, kytia!❤

[@brenettasmith9338]

Great spiritual advice!

[@KytiaLamour]

Thank you for saying that!

[@Amlyv]

Thank you 🙏🏾 for the encouragement 😁

[@autumnj8332]

Please pray for me. I really appreciate this.

[@sarahmichelle2598]

Please pray for me...I have been in a relationship with this man for a year and my kids love him but my seven year old tells me I should break up with him but then she wanted to call him Dad once..he does allot for me helps me financially and treats us allot. When he comes over he cleans, he has so many good qualities..but I've been telling him I need to be pure and I didn't start the relationship out in a wise way and that I went against my morals to wait and so w ehave stopped being physical intimate. He doesn't understand from my Christian/biblical point of view

[@cw8365]

I’ve been here. He was the same towards me and my sons. We stopped being physical. Eventually it’s caused a riff as he didn’t feel his desire to be intimate was wrong. I ended the relationship and informed him when he was prepared to marry and if I was still available he knew how to find me and what needs to be done. I’m at peace if he’s no longer the person I thought he was for me as I felt he was my husband and sent by God due to his great qualities. I also feel if a man truly desires you after he’s experienced you, why not get married? That freedom me, most importantly I desire to live clean.

[@jasnajasmine7872]

P;lease pray for me, for God to confirm if this one guy is for me, bc i 'm very confused. At first i was almost 100 percent sure, like God was clearly pointing it to me, but now I'm very very confused. Please pray that God gives me clarity about this colleague of mine.

[@KytiaLamour]

I will pray in agreement that your receive clarity. 🙏🏽

[@ShamekaBeaugard]

Giiiirrllll. I’m discouraged lol 😂

[@KytiaLamour]

Oh no. What’s discouraging you? 💛

[@NinaLlamera-ue2vj]

Ti's pains me... I know that not any of us can dictate our destiny I do not know exactly what happened in Sam's camp But who we are to go against the plan of God. Though it pains me..... I lay my life to God as he decides everything. I hinted thru Sam's msgs he wanted me send to a younger man. I don't know if I'm right. But whatever happens, I am waiting for him. But it's God's will be done. 🥺🥰💖💋💕😔😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️💞♥️💜®️🏡🙏

[@blossomingbutterfly8955]

Yes, prayer please! 🙏🏼 Waiting and clarity about a someone (whom I don't like/never have but likes me). Thank you ❤

[@rebeccah.6403]

My advice is don't force it. If you don't like him then that's your answer. Pray about it! But also God knows you, and he'll bring someone into your life that you "like like" never settle. Because ultimately if you settle you're allowing your partner to settle. This guy will eventually find someone else whose head over heals for him.

[@catherinefebrianti9820]

I find this video while thinking of ma crush

[@your_princesa_isabelg]

I can relate in a way!!

[@josephscala6707]

God spoke to you about your husband? He must be pretty bored up there.

[@KytiaLamour]

God is bored because He speaks to His children? Having a relationship with us was the point of creating us.

[@stevendelucas6311]

@@KytiaLamour God created people because he wanted relationships them? Doesn't sound logical.

[@KytiaLamour]

@@stevendelucas6311 Well, you can read the Bible. It speaks for itself and has a lot of info about the creation of humanity. 👍🏽

[@stevendelucas6311]

@@KytiaLamour Read it many times. But never heard of God talking to anyone in the shower.

[@KytiaLamour]

@@stevendelucas6311 Have a wonderful day. This will be my last comment to you. You may have time for foolish arguments, but I fortunately do not. I will pray for you to have your own encounter with God (whether in the shower or not). 😊