Going on Vacation Celibate | Christian Courtship | Godly Dating

Hello everybody! Hope you enjoy our quick story while dating in a secular world..but still keeping God at the center. Be sure to like, subscribe & share :)
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[@chocolatethundercherry143]

DO NOT apologize for WANTING a Godly marriage and refusing to share your bed, your heart, or the best years of your life with someone who hasn’t shared sacred vows with you before GOD.

[@jackanthony976]

But there is no god...think of another reason to remain celibate.

[@samuelndegwa8077]

sacred..😂😂 the vows are so sacred that they ensure half the guys property is guaranteed for her.

[@biblelovingirl]

Amen this is so true! I love this couple and how they trust God💕 such a great example 🙂

[@comforthealingministries3531]

Say it!! Glory to God, his timing is PERFECT

[@i.am.michellekirabo]

Amen💯

[@dsetgetatme]

A cool, down to earth black Christian married couple... That's dope on its own because you dont see it often. Congrats on doin things the right way!! Very encouraging🙌🙌🙌

[@nicolelise]

dsetgetatme thanks for tuning in!!

[@dsetgetatme]

@@nicolelise no problem 👌👌

[@lindahabibi6228]

Sex is not a Priority during Courtship. As long as both partners Hold on to Prayer, show Kindness Empathy & respect for each other it’s fine.

[@Lovelyleyy]

To you

[@righteousmasculine]

This is why prayer and discernment is so important. You have to pray for the right people constantly because the devil is so busy

[@matthewhoward6956]

being celibate is hard it's been two years for me but requires a lot of discipline

[@jayannwhittingham4318]

This man is um.. Girl give God thanks He's indeed a man of God

[@camilleb3875]

Your testimony is so genuine and so refreshing, I love it! Thank you for sharing!

[@nicolelise]

Thank you for watching!:)

[@AlbertinaBernice]

Yes I’m so glad I stumbled upon this video! That there is a such things as couples being celibate!! This gives me hope to date and remain celibate. Can’t wait to see more! 🙏🏾

[@nicolelise]

yay so glad you enjoyed it! thanks for tuning in :)

[@AlbertinaBernice]

nicolelise you’re welcome 😊

[@ThePatmonShow]

Looked up Christian couples, and you guys popped up. I look forward to watching other likeminded youtubers. Great content so far. 😊

[@nicolelise]

Thanks for tuning in!

[@alethacates2497]

Great testimony for anyone Waiting does have a lot of benefits in addition to no regrets if it doesn't work out!

[@nicolelise]

this is so true!

[@faithemmanuel2477]

So, there are black guys with this mentality? I’d looooove to meet one I believe in sex after marriage

[@sidneyasiegbu]

your generalization mentality is why you haven't found one yet. Just look in the church and watch their personality.

[@Ngozishalom]

Always needed that Christian youtuber that i could look up to and get some motivation from. New subscriber, Thank you.

[@abenakhorkor]

This requires self discipline and constant prayers to God to help you stay on track

[@AfiaBelle]

Such a beautiful couple. Your smile is everything 😍 God bless your marriage 💕

[@gidbry]

🥰 Set boundaries.. 🥰

[@allofdestiny]

Beautiful 💖

[@JO58NW]

You all are so right. It's good to have a Male perspective on this matter. Now you all have a blessed union because you waited.

[@turkanaempress6074]

Aww! This is awesome. It gives me hope. God bless me with a man like this.

[@KMill-xb3uc]

Spending all sorts of time late night on the phone is not productive and it encourages infatuation. But we make mistakes... Thank ya'll for the honest video. You also forgot spending time with others in groups or doing helpful activities together..

[@lovelyreeses7524]

Y’all are so adorable, these videos are very inspirational and comforting to see. God bless y’all marriage. ❤️

[@yolipeba]

First time on this channel and this is the first video im seeing. THATS IT IM SUBSCRIBING. yall are so beautiful❤

[@nicolelise]

Awww thank you! 😊

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

FULLY CLOTH!!!!!!👗👕👖🥿👟 rap up bound up and tangled up In clothing cause honey! No ones exempt from Temptation

[@puritywins2826]

So adorable. In a godly marriage as well and happppppppyyyyyyyyy. Love this video clip. Purity Wins!

[@zenta-g6m]

Such a beautiful couple! Blessings to you guys!🙂

[@sophianichole]

Yall are freaking beautiful! Wow.

[@ShatoddraToddieC]

Y’all are so cute!!! Y’all give me hope thanks for this video!! 🙏🏾❤️✨

[@joesephhalecki4695]

Great. you. guys....Honored ..God...He. .will......Bless. your. Marriage. Also. .With. .Children. .God. .Bless

[@kar3n35]

I went on vaca. Being n celibate. I shared room with another girl. still spend all day toguether but at night stay in separate rooms. Is still fun.

[@FormalKombat]

Ay y’all winning fr 😂😆🏆

[@strawberrycheesecake7912]

First time watching and i like yall already

[@nicolelise]

thanks for tuning In! :)

[@tbrigorman]

Girl you are so BEAUTIFUL!

[@nicolelise]

Thank you!

[@flynnharper358]

God bless brother you found your queen a virtuous woman .

[@jayjay-fg9rj]

God bless you both. So real

[@Cheeks63091]

That’s beautiful thing Discipline is the ultimate state of elevation and spiritual growth ~avoiding those un pure secretion from other bodily fluids is very safe and mental ~ no one in the world should ever distract you from being celibate ~there’s no one worthy to break you from discipline that can heal yourself to keep you focus on this very important realm of life ~ this is such a beautiful thing ~ stay strong 💪🏽 consistence ~ & keep your eyes on your accomplishments of being spiritually and not physically

[@Cheeks63091]

My other comments got deleted lol You two are great peace and love

[@carenbuyanzi]

Wow.. This is so amazing.. Just came across your channel and I love the content already. God bless you 😄

[@nicolelise]

caren buyanzi welcome! Thank you for watching!

[@cheryllewis7465]

Lol at his reaction to her saying pounce lol # cutevideo

[@nicolelise]

Cheryl Lewis lol thank you for watching!

[@sarah-sandres]

hahaha! noticed that too lol

[@beverleythomas2165]

You guys are amazing love the video

[@nicolelise]

Beverley Thomas thank you for watching! :)

[@johnkaranja6404]

Damn! That girl is gorgeous wow! And the best part it they are a Godly couple and decent. I stumbled on this video I'm gonna keep an eye on you guys

[@DeannaMaurice]

Refreshing 👍🏽

[@nicolelise]

Deanna Maurice thank you for watching!

[@matthewhoward6956]

good job children of God

[@serahdonald]

God please send my Christian husband, am ready

[@user-mb9jx5tx9y]

serahdonald he will come . Trust the process. I prayed for a god fearing guy and I think god has sent me him. Very unexpected too.

[@naomiej1031]

If you don't care about living right lmaoo...I mean I get it but that was funny!

[@justbeingjo8622]

Do you think this can still be accomplished after boundaries have been broken?

[@nicolelise]

Definitely. New Boundaries can always be reestablished and put into place. It’s never too late to start over.

[@mizzp5713]

This was cute. Next time can y’all write our what y’all want to say cause it was a little all over the place . Just a Suggestion !! 🙂Thanks for the encouragement though it’s good to see there are young people who are living for God and willing to wait until Marriage!!

[@cic-jakevanddalgeemyers.2739]

Praise GOD...

[@riorio-rt1oq]

We are taught to go out to eat movies ect you don’t sit up in folks houses

[@joshferrell5324]

So you guys were both saved when you met.

[@sharong.9249]

What time did you set as the time to leave each other's houses while dating?

[@nicolelise]

I can’t recall specifically! I believe between 10-11pm

[@sharong.9249]

@@nicolelise Ok thanks. Staying that late could get me in trouble. lol

[@icedcoffee6461]

Beautiful couple

[@dayoomauncut7276]

Someone answer me,I want to start this now, what if I abs my boyfriend have kissed before but never have sex. Do you think I can tell him no more kissing till we get married, do you think he will agree to that?

[@nicolelise]

I think open communication is important in every relationship. If you believe it’s important to you, I encourage you to share your thoughts with him.

[@jameelah153]

Can you still kiss in a Christian relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend?

[@ghanan123451]

I think it depends on the people you have to know your limits and triggers if you know that it could lead to more and lead you into sin I’d avoid it but you have to set boundaries tho

[@nicolelise]

Great answer!

[@princeosaro25]

I love you guys 😁😅❤️

[@lifewithk6056]

FINALLY! Someone who doesn’t view celibacy as an impossible absurd idea

[@reaneeb4356]

I've found a lot of people on KZbin that hold the same values. I love the young married couple on Redfined TV.

[@donnishabailey5441]

Look at 8:02 game time. They are great and share the same Christian values.

[@MissQueen131]

I’m 28 and still a virgin. Keep going Sis!!!

[@pauloskidane2819]

Theirs a lot of people who feel that way!

[@tinamarie8061]

I can’t tell you how needed this is! My husband & I dated 1.5yrs. Our first kiss was at the alter. This is so real

[@amandaparrish9128]

Tina Parks The same thing for my husband and I too. We waited to kiss until our Wedding Day! It was worth it!

[@tafadzwamunezvenyu7623]

wow. awesome

[@insertnamehere9154]

No kiss😳😳😳 Lordt, I need to go repent then...lol.

[@Ruth-yr6qo]

Wow okay!! Thank you for this, I will be doing the same😊

[@grace_upon_linda]

I want that😭😭😭😭😭

[@daywithdelta7645]

Y’all are super cute!!! Just stumbled on your channel. I get hype when I find saved folk channels lol. Praying for a godly relationship🙂

[@nicolelise]

icantbeweaveit lol thank you for tuning in! Keep being faithful!

[@call_me_kels_]

icantbeweaveit follow my channel I’m working on inspiring videos. For a Christian audience

[@justlexyy1]

“Worth thee wait” is also a good channel too

[@evonnejackson5517]

Same

[@clairethando]

Me too😄

[@ReyalsWorld]

Urge control, the sexiest part of a man.

[@brittanytaffee4125]

Preach!!

[@nicolelise]

Yes girl!

[@chibunduu.okafor6450]

Beautiful couple

[@CynthiaSerah]

Yes!

[@HeyDoctorHelene]

100% agree!!!

[@TheLilly]

Also don't put yourselves in situations that open the door for you to be tempted. Even Joseph fled to avoid giving in to Potiphar's wife. We are only human and no one is too strong or immune to temptation.

[@jackanthony976]

You are so right. It is difficult for young men to remain celibate with the way these young girls dress today. These young girls with their revealing outfits which emphasize the nasty body parts including a view of the tip of their butt crack... the painted eyes, painted lips and painted cheeks. These jezebels are agents of Satan sent here to lead young men to hell. These agents of Satan can also be detected with the sense of smell as they often wear the devil's scented perfume meant to seduce young innocent men into unspeakable acts of lust.

[@shumilano]

JACK ANTHONY ok cs u rlly dragged it 😐..

[@QG_TheRemnant]

25 Abstinent until marriage. Gave my sexuality to God, it requires the most *self discipline and control* in endurance. _I thank Adonai Yahweh, Lord Jesus Christ for giving me Grace._

[@ChristianMonyea]

TheLiving TestimonyChannel yes! me too! do you have social media?

[@QG_TheRemnant]

Christian Hall Instagram officiallivingtestimony

[@876tisha]

Yesss glad you know Yahweh

[@876tisha]

Linda Yeni maybe he is just discipline

[@QG_TheRemnant]

Latisha Williams it’s okie, she had never met a man who gave His sexuality on the alter. Men like us don’t like to be open to anyone, we are hidden behind gods wings.

[@asibelle422]

Found out a week ago that the guy I was waiting till marriage with was cheating on me with other women 💔 completely lost hope in ever finding a man that doesn't put sex on a pedestal... then came across this video lol hope restored.

[@levansealy6831]

Sorry that happened to you

[@tafadzwamunezvenyu7623]

sorry about that. Stay strong

[@KaydeeErryern]

Really sorry you had to experience that. I used to believe there weren't any Godly men until God showed me that there were. Now I see them everywhere, lol. Another great channel to check out here is Joseph Solomon's channel. Great guy with great Christian content.

[@serahdonald]

Sister you will find your man

[@joyful7650]

Girl, see that as a blessing from God. He saved you and protected you, his cherished daughter, from a man that was NOT your husband. Let's praise Him for that. He loves you and revealed to you his true colors. Amen to that girl!

[@dsetgetatme]

Cant help but respect your husband because he KEPT IT REAL with his responses. You can tell like, ok, this brotha here.. Is a real one 💪💪👌👌

[@BeautyGraphicDesigner]

Yesssss it’s so refreshing coming across beautiful #blacklove Believers! Thanks for your obedience prior to marriage as it gives singles like myself more hope! My heart is full from your story. Continue to serve each other well with excellence ❤️ New subbie btw!

[@nicolelise]

Thank you! Thank you for tuning in :)

[@hazelako6081]

You are gorgeous!

[@jaxsonpierre2363]

@Vanessa Nneka don't know where you got that from and when 90% of black people marry each other look at the US Census but you was throwing a little shade I see black couples all the time everywhere so don't be jealous you are on KZbin right now go over to black people marrying each other and see all the beautiful couples it's thousands of them

[@aspirehigher6368]

@@jaxsonpierre2363 In my own experience, a lot of people don't get married these days period even though a whole lot do and in either case, they don't always do it God's way and build with this foundation or have a lasting relationship. Most inspiration these days does come from online because what many see in everyday life from the limited amount of people they know just doesn't show it. So I don't think that was necessarily shade or jealousy. You're right that it's worth looking into for the facts.

[@chibunduu.okafor6450]

Beautiful couple

[@MegaCadette55]

This girl. Her hair. Her smile.Her eyebrows lawwwddd why can't I look like this😳😭

[@MegaCadette55]

And oh! I like the message too of course😩😂💯

[@Abmarp]

Rosa siiiiisssss

[@MegaCadette55]

@@Abmarp ijs. I get so insecure about my looks . lol I know it's mundane i hate my brain sometimes😭

[@Endlesslove29]

Because god made you you and her her for a reason

[@MegaCadette55]

@@Endlesslove29 well, you re right!

[@courtsjournal5608]

guys like him make me excited to one day be married lol

[@rachelrizkalla8481]

Amen amen! My boyfriend and I are looked at like unicorns when we mention we are celibate. Thank you for sharing and God bless! 😍

[@por-tiawilsonrodrigues8906]

My fiance and I are practicing the same. We respect eachother. And we want our relationship to honor God and his word.

[@angela.abbiegail9382]

Aww, you guys are so sweet 💗 Keep it up. God honors people that protect each others purity

[@kema_jmac6570]

Dating seems to be so hard for me being a Christian and trying to live right. Seems like I attract all of the wrong people who don't want that lifesyle. So now I've been single for 2 yrs. I refuse to settle for anything less than what God told me I could have. Glad I stumbled across your channel.

[@rayna0320]

Kema_J Mac naawwww, good for you! Wishing nothing but the best for you.

[@chiamakaohaegbulem2671]

U good sis, God's timing is perfect, trust him and keep being you

[@sanaaray8121]

keep pressing on, keep holding on , pray, Fast, walk in righteousness and obedience to God sis .

[@jelicianorwood24]

I'm 27 living right and yes meet man of GOD is hard. I'm being very patient and continuing to post videos on my KZbin Channel.

[@Kabash_Billions]

😂 that's me ey..but I finally found someone from my church hope he's the1

[@f.-j.j.5738]

After talking for two months to someone you met on social media, I don't know if that was a good idea to go on a trip with that person... Sounds scary to me... Happy it worked out for you.

[@theresatoomer5578]

The only way I see this happening smoothly was if both had done it before as a result of Internet dating.

[@SanctifiedSista117]

Yeah... The title had me scratching my head. Why go on vacation alone with someone you're not married to if you're wanting to flee temptation??

[@zaakirabellingport5988]

Amen Do Things God's way, and sin is not cool, but it's their choice. God's way is rely what's cool. Acts 2:38 Bible.

[@ntandoyenkosindhlovu2493]

Y'all guys look so cute together 🙊😻 and the girl 😭😭her smile is just 😍😍

[@Kingsdaughter68]

God bless you too. Seeing the youth on fire 🔥 for God is beautiful. God bless your marriage

[@iza595]

What a BEAUTIFUL couple! Great topic. God bless you guys🙏🏽✨

[@nicolelise]

Esi thank you!

[@RadiantRuby]

I’m happy I came across your channel 😍

[@nicolelise]

me too! :)

[@bryanacamillebraxton4770]

I appreciated this video. Going on trips is something I never anticipated doing with an SO until my current relationship. I was literally so stressed thinking we can’t do this it’s so wrong. Good to know Christian couples can travel together as long as there’s boundaries and communication.

[@tiffanyanthony7189]

I love his transparency. Continue to keep it real. Thank you for sharing.

[@FromDiamWithLove]

Ya'll are such a gorgeous couple! OMG! So glad I found your channel. It's so amazing to see young people on fire for the Lord!

[@nicolelise]

FromDiamWithLove I’m glad you enjoyed our video :) thank you!

[@dermiraallen9189]

I didn’t think I could reach this point of self control on certain things but thanks to this video I am now feeling encouraged to do so, this has truly blessed me! May God continue to bless your beautiful marriage.❤️🙏🏽

[@ariyanna9088]

This gives me hope. ❤️❤️❤️

[@beautiful.transition]

Do y’all think it’s possible to be on a celibacy journey with someone you have already given yourself to??

[@kirumbamaryann9891]

Yes it possible

[@michaelmataranyika8434]

It is possible but it takes two to tango my sister, does he want to go on a celibacy journey? Does he even believe in God? So I would say, if you aren't married, I think you need to take time to ask God if you're even in the right relationship you know? I am wishing you all the best, love from Africa!

[@matthewhoward6956]

at the end of the day if u really love somebody then their worth waiting 4

[@matthewhoward6956]

🌻

[@chantellcoyour7877]

She seems so bubbly and innocent! Love them 💗

[@princessbc9791]

She is beautiful and super adorable! Good looking couple.

[@nkeiru26]

This girl is really cute! Love that hair!

[@GracefullyKaren]

Lol the boundary book. He didn’t like it. Your hubby is funny 😂😂😂. Beautiful couple ✨😊.

[@nicolelise]

Queen Karen he’s a character! Thank you for watching :)

[@MZSTAR4YA]

Y'all are hilarious and adorable and so inspirational! Make more videos!

[@nicolelise]

Jessica Lyons awww thank you! & we will :)

[@pauloskidane2819]

Y’all are a nice looking couple🙌🏾

[@_strawberrypickle_]

You guys are so adorable together!!

[@nicolelise]

Strawberry Pickle thank you! & yes it does!

[@kennedymivory]

GIVES ME FAITH 😭😩

[@onepunchman4481]

I hope to have something like this someday

[@Fabcuisinellc]

She’s super soft and feminine and he’s super masculine. You guys are a beautiful couple, wishing you guys the best of luck ❤️

[@rahmaziyad5407]

I am SO excited to find another Black couple speaking on Godliness! I get looked at crazy when I tell guys I'm celibate with a daughter but then I know they are not for me! Y'all are a beautiful couple, inside and out ❤

[@jessefoster2832]

I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME PHIL 4:13

[@denaejoyner7117]

So did you guys get married just so you guys can be able to have sex and rich on each other and sleep in the same bed? Because I struggle with that now. I’m 18 and I’m a virgin .. not because I’m scared to have sex .. but because I want to wait til marriage. But every men that I meet is just looking for sex and I feel like no one would love me / like me in a relationship unless there is sex involved . So can you help me? With this generation it is getting even more harder to keep my virginity. At the end of the day .. I KNOW that I don’t want to loose something soo valuable from regret. 😩

[@denaejoyner7117]

I meant and *touch on each other

[@christinalucas1002]

Don't compromise. I think deep down you know the answer- your body is precious and your sexual experiences are special. Trust in God and ask him to give you peace in the matter. Check out ms naturally Mary on KZbin. She waited and stayed faithful until she was married at 32 and she didn't regret it. You won't if you do it Gods way. You save yourself from so many issues - disease, pregnancy, emotional damage and so much more. Wait until someone will make vows before God and man to be responsible and dedicated to you ❤

[@stephaniemensah1858]

Hi Denae very proud of you for going against the grain and taking a stance which is different and not glorified in the world. Whatever you compromise to gain you will lose. I know you think that no one will love you unless you have sex on the flip side there is no guarantee that they will love you or stay with you after you have sex with them. Sex is more than physical pleasure it is spiritual. It is better to be true to your own desires and wait then to compromise in order to feel loved and accepted. I am a 30 year old virgin so I definitely understand your thoughts and feelings and where you are coming from because I have experienced it but there is no better feeling than honouring God. You are precious and you are dearly loved. Always stay true to yourself and who God has called you to be. Use this time to grow and to pursue your dreams and purpose. Travel and learn more about yourself. You are going to develop and change so much. The guys you like now will not be the same guys that you will like in a year, 2 years or 5 years from now so do not change for anyone. Be the best you that you can be and in due season you will meet the one ordained for you according to God's will and plan. God bless you : )

[@Lolo_makota]

Denae Joyner, God bless you dear, I’m 22 years old and still a virgin. Just pray to God and keep away from bad people. God will give you the right man with the same intentions

[@wshelby83]

@@Lolo_makota I'm 20 and I'm also waiting until marriage I'm hoping that God will give me a man who will love and cherish me. I know I will respect, love and care for him a lot.

[@joyk4408]

I was smiling the whole time. 😊😊😊😊

[@tonicrawford375]

She resembles Aaliyah a little or is it just me? Beautiful couple. God bless 😊

[@queenbutterfly4888]

I was thinking the same thing

[@ThemetunesofLife]

Me too In fact I scrolled for this comment lol

[@TheColletteCollective]

Hi! I have a question. How long were you dating before you got married?

[@kamrynetia5835]

beautiful couple💕😍..God bless🙏🏾💯

[@nicolelise]

Kamryn- E’Tia thank you!

[@stephaniemckay2323]

I loved every peice of this video!! It doesnt feel like a struggle anymore 🤣🙌🏾 I loved everyone of your boundaries, i took notes and now im looking forward to my Godly relationship. Thank you for that be encouraged 🇧🇸🙏🏾♥️

[@wendyberkel4643]

cute chirstain couple thx God

[@simplyrickeeta]

LOL, she definitely looks like she could have had a shank. But for real, you are so cute! Girl, I bet you were the cutest toddler ever.

[@lebzardhlamini2355]

This is beautiful.. I just started with my celibacy journey..looking forward this beautiful experience..

[@Anthony-yy3kc]

It should be so easy for Christians! Our Holy Scripture commands us that anyone who is unmarried (regardless of why) is to refrain from any and all sexual activity! If you ain't married you shouldn't be having sex of any kind! Can't be any simpler than that!