Grandparents Disinherited Me After My Adoptive Parents Died, Claim They Wont Feed Parasite

[@antoinettebates244]

People who do this to children are beyond redemption!!

[@dianafrazier2830]

No way should OP take those grandparents to her house. They did not acknowledge her as family, do why should she. Also, OP should have gone to the attorney the moment she found her money gone and taken them to court to get it back. 😻😁😻

[@LadyQuotes]

If this is true, OP should have gotten a lawyer, as what the grandparents did was super illegal and they should be in prison.

[@Drought-jr6pb]

This is probably a fake story. Noah's family could not help get OP a lawyer to fight the stolen inheritance. Breaking a contract (the parents will) is highly illegal, no matter where you live.

[@tsm688]

The awful thing is they **WERE** legally entitled to take control of that money. The kids were in their care. They had the authorization to make financial decisions for them until their majority. Her parents should have locked it in bonds or something to prevent shenanigans. But even they couldn't imagine just how truly cruel the grandparents were.

[@MargaretKearsey-dv1nk]

There are lawyers just for children s legal issues. If she did not know that she could have started with her high school counselor as a stepping stone?It did not have to end like this at all at least in the US. stepping stepping

[@partytree79]

Yeah so many of these stories are clearly bs. There's things that just absolutely don't make any sense at all sometimes.

[@KneazlesKeeper]

You are very wrong in this case. Yes: They had "authorization to make financial decisions" for her; But they were legally required to use the funds for her benefit. I don't think any court would agree that giving the money to her brother, like they did, would be for her benefit. @@tsm688

[@cheekysaver]

She got her entire college fund stolen... didn't get gifts or needs met, verbally abused and then got disowned. Every single one of them allowed and participated in that happening. Just a single one of them doing the right thing would have changed her future. She could not take them in anyways... it was a shared apartment They reaped what they sowed. She is still going to have a mountain of debt to deal with after school.

[@jacksparrowismydaddy]

yeah even Harry Potter got gifts for the holidays... box of dog biscuits... 50 cents and a pair of dirty socks... she got nothing.

[@hellshard]

If that was me I would have left the brother and grandparents to solve their own problems. You don’t get to ask for help from someone you abused, mistreated, abandoned and stole from. As far as I’m concerned they got off easy.

[@billyduffany3387]

Ops grandparent treated her like crap and gave her brother her college fund. They in no way ever made her feel like family so why would she take them in? At least Op found them a place to live, which is more than they deserved.

[@6folk243]

I would've told Jake the same thing he told me. Fight your own battles

[@iowantribal]

OP is way better than me, I suppose. The moment I would have heard them on my phone, they would have been blocked immediately with all of their entitled shenanigans. The "grandparents" and her so-called brother treated her like crap. I would have just let them all suffer their consequences while I sipped my drink and watch.

[@jdavis7613]

You're right. As they said "they aren't her grandparents". They're complete strangers. You don't take complete strangers into your home.

[@theplaintech]

I suppose that it is because OP was so sheltered. The story would be so different if she had simply gotten an attorney. The court would have granted her the money, the grandparents would probably gone to jail and Jake may not have gotten into trouble. It's difficult to believe that no one thought of it, even her friend and his family.

[@shawjackson2407]

I said this story can not be true if No one thought of an attorney, not even Noah’s parents🤷🏾‍♀️

[@theplaintech]

@@shawjackson2407 I acknowledge the logic of your post. Just remember that people can be far more stupid than you can imagine.

[@robingibson6561]

​​@@theplaintechOP was a senior in high school so how was she suppose to understand that an attorney was needed. Her dropping the grandparents off at the Old Folks House, IMO, was helping them by putting a roof over their heads. Jake, their little bio prince, stole all their money, sold their house from underneath them but OP is supposed to help these two AH's because they're ass out, don't think so. This is what happens when you treat a child cruelly then have the b*lls to go back to that same child, as an adult, to ask for help. OP is better than me. When the first call came through asking for help, they would have been blocked, Jake too. They fafo...

[@verifiedactualgamer]

at around 15 minutes she gives an update a week later. so she posted that whole story of the theft of the fund right after she found out. she didn't read 1 comment telling her to seek legal counsel? it's reddit, probably 2/3 of the comments were telling her to do that.

[@tsm688]

That's the awfulest thing -- the grandparents **DID** have the legal right to take control of that money. The parents should have thought of that, locked it in bonds or something.

[@johnturnbull5971]

If they did that 2 me i wouldn't do anything but block their numbers after telling them we are not family and get a restraining order against them

[@6folk243]

Same here and I would've reminded them that I'm not family

[@waltergayles5469]

The grandparents stole op’s college fund and then kicked out before she graduated from high school. They should have gone to the retirement home on their own. They were shameless and thick skinned to ask her for anything.

[@redresearchanalyst]

I’m not finished listening to this but I am baffled why op did not go to legal council to get the money her parents left her and was “misappropriated” by the awful grandparents. They stole her money.

[@pyrus0zero]

‘Cuz their family’ 🤮

[@tsm688]

The awful thing is they **WERE** legally entitled to take control of that money. The kids were in their care. They had the authorization to make financial decisions for them until their majority. Her parents should have locked it in bonds or something to prevent shenanigans. But even they couldn't imagine just how truly cruel their parents were.

[@jynixbaby]

I said the samething. She may have been a minor but senior in high school is 17-18 traditionally. Her brother was graduating college when the accident . 24-25 as her closest adult he would be able to assume custody. She was close enough that legally she could have challenged it.

[@phyliciajohnson21]

She didn't know any better. Or have money to dispute it either, likely

[@Animeaddiction]

@@tsm688 They were still going against the wishes of the will and the trust fund. So that's basically embezzlement.

[@darnelltucker9163]

I will say that OP did more than they deserved. Honestly, if I was in her position, I would've told them to f#$% off and then block while moving on with my life. I will give Jake a little grace as he had attempted to defend her on a couple of occasions (though small). The gall of the grandparents to ask OP for help after not treating her like family from day one. The irony of the story is that the people who treated OP like dirt as she wasn't family ended up being saved by the very person who was family.

[@DarkChrystal21]

Op was right, the grandparents tossed her out onto the street like she was garbage, so she had every right to do what she did. Jake also deserved what he got for being greedy and he is better off in jail, wishing Op all the best. Perhaps in the retirement home, the grandparents will think about the consequences of their choices in life, for spoiling Jake.

[@NPRYRS]

Why didn't op contact attorney that handled her parents estate and sue for her inheritance ❓

[@geraldinejavier8932]

She took them to a place where they could live and not bother her anymore. She didn’t even need to do that, they were so mean to her , her whole life. At least they have a place to live.

[@jdavis7613]

I would have changed my number in case they tried calling from a different number.

[@TinaW1983]

Hahaha, they're just lucky that OP had it in her to take them to the old folks home.

[@firzabahroen6200]

OP is quite wise, I think it's the best solution for all their problems. The grandparents have a place to stay, they're well taken care of, jake is safe from the loan shark, even it's in jail. And OP don't have to deal with their problems anymore 🤷

[@thed165]

I would have just blocked them the minute they called. I wouldn’t care if “Grandparents” wound up living in the streets or if “brother” Jake was horribly killed by loan sharks. “Being the better person” is so overrated!

[@teslagod7221]

I agree about the grandparents, but i think OP's brother needs help, even if he abandoned her, he was just also a victim of their grandparents' evil family discrimination. Though, what OP did was actually nice and better for the brother. Maybe, in good time, he could improve and their sibling relationship could better. Even if their relationship got ruined by their grandparents, until then, they grew up as decent siblings...

[@susanmcpeak7267]

Her grandparents took every conceivable moment to taunt her about not being family because they were not blood related. If I were OP I don't think I would have even gone as far as she did. You let family & friends stay with you when times are tough. Since the grandparents had made sure she knew she wasn't "family" to them & they made sure to show their contempt towards OP quite plainly, OP was in no obligation to help them. They were "strangers" since they didn't share blood or friendship, not to mention, they never shared ANY love. Karma had arrived on their doorsteps. Now they had to deal with the mess of their own making.

[@hvymax]

OP should call CPS and get a Lawyer. OP could sue and force them to sell their house. If the Court Rules OP would be paid before the loans.

[@flamelily2086]

I remember, many years ago, hearing a social worker say that if you are thinking of adopting a child the entire family should be on board with the adoption otherwise it's not fair on the child. OP's story is an example of what happens if there are family members who disapprove of the adoption and treat the adopted child with hostility! OP owes them nothing, and as they have always rubbed in her face, she is not their family! What do they expect OP to do anyway? They made sure that Jake got all OP's inheritance money, and she has had to pay her own way through college. I would have reminded them how they had treated me, and how they took my inheritance money and tgen I would have told them to take care of their own problems. OP shouldn't be helping them. They are grown adults and should be able to find their own solutions for their problems .

[@BrianLocke]

Even adults need help with their problems sometimes, but not those assholes. Fuck'em.

[@terylsmile3642]

Op had the PERFECT response.

[@josephhurst4902]

18:08, You should have called your parents Lawyer, and Informed her of the TRANSFER of your Inherritance from the WILL. They may have been your guardians but Since it was in the WILL they were REQUIRED by law to give it to you. and This Theft would have been grounds for a LAWSUIT. 20:38, So now that the Shoe is on the other foot, they come to you to Suck Up in hopes they didnt abuse you enough to warant a restraining order. 21:15, they kept Insisting and Kept Begging... Dont you mean HARASSING YOU. 25:25, a Angry expression came over their Face... You could have told them to F Off and live on the streets where they left YOU. but you didnt, so NOW they have a Choice. HERE or the streets, but it is Their choice. End, This is a important less for brother and the old folks. Family is not just Family when you need them or want to Use THEM. and if you treat them as if they are not Family, then dont be surprised when your treated just the same.

[@tsm688]

It wasn't a will. The story explained that quite clearly. It was a bank account in her name which, as their legal guardians of children, her grandparents had the legal option to take control of. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something to prevent shenanigans. But they didn't foresee just how truly cruel the grandparents were.

[@smstnitc]

They never would have been able to talk to me to ask for help in the first place.

[@kristinebryant9038]

Good afternoon everyone! I hope that you're doing well ❤!

[@6folk243]

Hello

[@kathyknight4943]

Have a wonderful Sunday. Enjoy the day. God bless you.

[@centurycountess4949]

for me, o.p gave the grandparents the same treatment they gave them. they're lucky they got a place even if it is an old folks home they should consider it an act of some kindess because it could of been worse and o.p had every right to turn them down so they should consider themselves lucky.

[@dawnthemetaldetective3083]

Our son was adopted and my parents were so accepting to our son. When was little was trying to decide which hand to write with, most children do. My mom and I were trying to “help” him decide. At that moment my dad came in from and said in his words “your brother and to Uncles were all left handed”, mom and both looked at each other with this in wonder. My parents were/are so excepting of our son.

[@KeithGlass]

If I was OP.... "Why would I help you. You said it yourself: we're not family . . ."

[@vegasrenie]

Looking at all of these stories from OP to her grandparents to Jake, you have to wonder if there was an attorney anywhere in town! Maddening!

[@danielsoto8462]

OP needs to look at her parents will. The Grandparents kept OP for legal reasons which is there words. OP should have asked for the paper work to see what legal reasons was there for them to keep op. If OP went to an attorney after getting kicked out this story would be a lot different

[@tsm688]

Oh my god, you're right. She had nothing but the grandparent's word about that will.

[@tabbyaspen8872]

Straight up brilliant!

[@dedspark]

My birth mother gave my up for adoption to my grandparents when I was a baby. My interactions with her until about the time I got to high school was one week visit a year. After that interaction was mostly dropped until I was in college when she needed a "short term" loan (money saved up working during the summer) so she could pay for the divorce from marriage (3 or 4 not sure) so she could get married again. I gave her a good portion of my summer savings. After a lot of reminders I got a small amount of it back. The next family event I asked for the rest of the money. First her/her husband claimed they had paid it. Then he literally threw about 1/2 the amount and said it was "paid". I talked to her one last time when she kept making demands about coming from out of state to my wedding and then ended up a no show anyway. If she had come to me with any type of request/demand to stay with me I would have said absolutely not and "lose my number". After 26 years of no contact I heard third hand that she had passed. Not even sure which state she was in.

[@eviedechant]

She is no more responsible for those grandparents than I am for yours!

[@brianamitchell6250]

I would have done the same as OP. But at 18 she should have gone to a lawyer first!!!!

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately the grandparents *WERE* entitled to make financial decisions for her at that time. it wasn't an inheritance -- just a bank account, under her name, which as their guardians they had the option to control. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something, but didn't entirely forsee just HOW cruel her grandparents were prepared to be.

[@julietesatchell103]

OP why did you get a lawyer because a will is a legal binding contract. Those people stole your money. You were nice to put them in a home because they were about to lose the one they had. Karma is a "B."

[@tsm688]

The story was quite specific that it was *NOT* a will, it was a bank account. I don't know where everyone is getting this will nonsense.

[@noahschaefer2408]

The money was under op's name she could sue because there are laws against this act! Thats her mowny!!!

[@roxanneramirez8781]

👏 Good for her!!! She is 💯 right!

[@millicentspears]

I bet the Grandparents were so called Christians

[@demonkitties9672]

HA! Preach!

[@CareyBilley]

That was my thinking too

[@reaganbryant6520]

Always are

[@aleksandarvil5718]

*HYPOCRISY UP TO 11*

[@mikelewis9980]

Thats exactly right.."so called" not real ones.

[@Mama_Bear_of_3]

They weren't OPs grandparents, they themselves made that clear to OP. I am not a mean or heartless person, but if someone hurts me, they are out of my life for good. I would have blocked all of them the instant the called me for help. I wouldn't have even taken the time to find a retirement home for them. But, I would have reported Jake to the police.

[@belindahagan3334]

Yes she came up with/great plan. Grandparents were lucky she gave them a solution.

[@julieannec1969]

That's a law suit .Mainly to recover the college funds and neglect of a child under their care. First thing should have been to contact the lawyer of the Will. Child or adult protective services. Schools have guidance councilors, and social workers from child protection services. Also, nobody places children and don't do home checks follow ups. It's all so bogus.

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately the grandparents *WERE* entitled to make financial decisions for her at that time. it wasn't an inheritance -- just a bank account, under her name, which as their guardians they had the option to control. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something, but didn't entirely forsee just HOW cruel her grandparents were prepared to be.

[@maggielucy9824]

Damn, OP! These people made it clear that they are NOT YOUR FAMILY! Why they call you when things go south is total bullcrap. Stop referring to them as "grandparents" and brother. They are not your responsibility.

[@paulawinter-baker4098]

OP should have sued the grandparents for taking the college funds left to her by her adopted parents in the will. Just because they were appointed her guardians there are strict rules that should have been followed to even access the money and they can’t just give it to another sibling who’s “blood related”

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately the grandparents *WERE* entitled to make financial decisions for her at that time. it wasn't an inheritance -- just a bank account, under her name, which as their guardians they had the option to control. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something, but didn't entirely forsee just HOW cruel her grandparents were prepared to be.

[@rosecarrejo3940]

If she would have had gone to court asap

[@sheilaclemett4353]

OP should have gotten legal advice as a child. Also, were there no adult friends or relatives of the parents who could have helped?

[@lucillepfundt6757]

Op should sue those grandparents! They had no right to give her brother her college fund that their parents set aside for her. Just because she was adopted did not give the grandparents to go against their son and daughter in-laws wishes.

[@samanthalacroix2687]

She should have got a lawyer and put the grandparents in jail.

[@AutismTakesOn]

The grandparents were absolutely EVIL. Idk what they were expecting, but I actually think OP was nicer to them than she had to be. I wouldn't care if they both lived on the streets for the rest of their lives. It's disgusting how their own children, OP's parents, had more common sense than they did. Blood is nothing. If someone steals from me, relative or not, I'd call the cops on them. Period. And, if someone is adopted, you treat them as family. Them not being related isn't something they can control. And, if you're not willing to respect someone, you shouldn't expect them to respect you. That's not how life works. As for Jake, while his actions were initially reasonable, he held onto them for longer than what makes sense. Once Jake got his house, he could've cut off his grandparents and forced them to either see OP as family, or to go to an old age home, as OP mentions that the grandparents relied on Jake financially. However, Jake never took this golden opportunity to force his grandparents to respect OP, and dug himself in a hole he had no hope of getting out of. Jake's just disappointing. He could've been a knight in shining armor, and was initially, but then blew through all of the cash and... Yeah.... OP did the right thing. She owes her grandparents nothing. If the grandparents don't want OP to be a part of their family, then that's perfectly fine. But they shouldn't expect to take the cake and eat it too, since, again, life doesn't work that way. One doesn't get a promotion for doing the bare minimum. If that were the case, everyone would be a billionaire by being a couch potato.

[@tracyrieonhall7434]

Well since they took something that was specifically willed to you then you can sue them because what they did was illegal

[@tsm688]

The story was very specific that it was *NOT* a will. Just a bank account in her name. Quite unfortunately the grandparents *WERE* entitled to make financial decisions for her at that time. it wasn't an inheritance -- just a bank account, under her name, which as their guardians they had the option to control. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something, but didn't entirely forsee just HOW cruel her grandparents were prepared to be.

[@tracygardner6318]

Grandparents like OP had don’t deserve to have grandchildren. Adoption is a great way to for people to get children who can’t have kids blood does not matter. I should know I’m adopted and my grandparents were thrilled to have me.

[@robertbuswell7378]

The old people's Home was even too much for everything they put Op throughs they was the one being ungreatful . Lions,Tigers and Bears Oh my......

[@ricksimundza7125]

Get a lawyer

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately her grandparents did have the legal option to control that money, until she came of age. Her parents should have locked it in bonds or something.

[@Animeaddiction]

OP should have sued her grandparents for giving her brother the college fund that was willed to her by her parents.

[@Someonereallycares]

OP was too nice to those evil people.

[@scythe6992]

OP had no obligation to care for her abusers.

[@zander8018]

Steal your inheritance and then demand you pay their debts. Karma is a bit-h 😂😂😂

[@experimenter19]

me if i was op talking to the grandparent "Fuck off!" click

[@tracyrieonhall7434]

OP get a lawyer and sue them, make them pay you back what they stole from you plus interest, also make them pay your court costs as well all lawyer fees teach them a life lesson

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately the grandparents *WERE* entitled to make financial decisions for her at that time. it wasn't an inheritance -- just a bank account, under her name, which as their guardians they had the option to control. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something, but didn't entirely forsee just HOW cruel her grandparents were prepared to be.

[@jacksparrowismydaddy]

my reaction would be "dude, we're not family. only family lives in my house. it's shady pines or the street. "

[@TruthSayer2007]

OP needs time sue the grandparents.

[@patriciaariley5810]

She was in the right. She put everyone where they belonged.

[@lisawhite9846]

I hope she eventually contacts an attorney

[@zeevanatashazazhinne3136]

Here's another story where I wonder what the grandparents were collecting in social security for OP that was not getting spent on her. Your parents' will stipulated that money was for YOUR college fund. The only thing Jake was right about was that you should fight your own battles. Time to lawyer up. Your grandparents got what they deserved from Jake, and talk about some nerve to ask for your help! They deserve NOTHING from you at all and they really should be held accountable for the money they STOLE from you. Good on you for taking them to an Old Age home, and screw all the people saying you should've given them a place to stay. You DID.

[@AutismTakesOn]

I don't think that was a possibility, unfortunately. First off, lawyers are NOT cheap, so... OP probably didn't have enough cash to hire one. Secondly... Suing for... What inheritance? OP's grandparents are BROKE! Any inheritance money they stole is now GONE, so... There's nothing to sue over now, unfortunately. I'm gonna have to disagree with the statement about Jake giving what the grandparents deserved. As Jake supported them financially, he could've threatened to cut off his financial support if they didn't accept OP as family. THAT would've been justice served. What Jake did wasn't what those grandparents deserved, just the second-best thing from that. He should've been able to give back OP her inheritance and show the grandparents that their actions were all for nothing. Instead, Jake took the inheritance money, and blew through it, now making it impossible for OP to get it back, as she can't sue to get back money that no longer exists, because..... It no longer exists. Everything else, though? I 100% agree with.

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately the grandparents **WERE** entitled to make financial decisions for her at that time. it wasn't an inheritance -- just a bank account, under her name, which as their guardians they had the option to control. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something, but didn't entirely forsee just *HOW* cruel her grandparents were prepared to be.

[@emanuelabuemi]

Op made the right choise

[@rochelleesser7961]

These insufferable people reaped what they sewed IMHO. To have the gall to come crawling to OP for help after everything that they did truly earned them the karmic response OP dished back to them! 👏💯☢️

[@tsm688]

sow, as in seed, reap as in harvest. you sow wheat, you reap wheat. sow hate, reap hate

[@gailboyd3585]

OP DID RIGHT THING FOR BROTHER AND GRANDPARENTS!! He was struggling to pay his expenses including college!! Brother and grandparents used all $$ his parents left to pay for his college and treated him as he did not exist!! OP made sure they had place to live without putting himself in further debt!!

[@user-hr5pc3rt2n]

Poor OP needs to see a lawyer NOW.

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately the grandparents *WERE* entitled to make financial decisions for her at that time. it wasn't an inheritance -- just a bank account, under her name, which as their guardians they had the option to control. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something, but didn't entirely forsee just HOW cruel her grandparents were prepared to be.

[@tracyrieonhall7434]

It would've been cool for me as long as it's in the will that my college would've been paid for was good enough for me. I would've bided my time and stayed out of the way and finished school, after that I would've never looked back at those evil people and made something of myself especially since my college was totally paid for. I would've let those old people deal with how they treated me and never looked back period.

[@susanrobbins9476]

I would not have even taken them to the retirement home

[@tracyrieonhall7434]

You don't have to do anything for them period!

[@LuLee-c1h]

It's illegal to steal your money sue their assets off.

[@sharonhaun4014]

Absolutely no way I would have helped them

[@wernercd]

OP is straight up gangster. GOAT. She was way better to them than she should have been and still gave them the shit sammich they deserved. Those grandparents are pure garbage and destroyed their grandson in the process.

[@jynixbaby]

You can always tell the maturity of the writer, senior year op would have been asked if she wanted to go, brother was an adult and could have assumed responsibility. Either way a lawyer would fixed this

[@tsm688]

Not sure a lawyer could have done anything. Grandparents had the legal right to do what they did until she was of the age of majority. Brother was a spineless wretch.

[@TIREDOFEVIL]

Screw em, they screwed her over, I am kinda old fashioned, an eye for an eye.

[@johna6352]

They want a place to stay? Here's a cardboard box and there's a street corner. Enjoy your new home.

[@vickichavez9956]

OP was told time and time again she was not family so no she should not help the grandparents

[@ramonaferry8075]

DAMM STUPID FOR HELPING THEM IN ANYWAY!

[@ladyhellfire75]

I don't understand this attitude and I never will. I was adopted by my dad and his mom, my grandma was one of only two people that ever treated me like I was good enough just the way I was. Family isn't about blood it's who cares about each other

[@teslagod7221]

It's really simple to understand, there are people who are just full of ego and craps. Not everyone are the same. Some have decency, some don't, some have low decency, some are just unique. The best way to understand the grandparents is just simply to know people like them exist and that's how they been living their life. It'll take drastic measures or events to change them...

[@lotusswan9156]

Frankly, I am extremely surprised that OP agreed to help her "grandparents" in any way -- especially since they made sure to let her know over and over and over again since she was adopted into the family -- at 5 years old was it -- that she was not and will never be a part of their family. Being only 5 years old -- this is a cruelty beyond anything imaginable -- but then to continue to be subjected to the abuse even as she got older and became especially heinous after her parents died -- well that's just heartless -- then to top it off -- they steal her money and give it to the brother!!! I'm flabbergasted -- personally -- even though I consider myself a decent and caring person -- I wouldn't have helped any of them! I would have simply stated: "Oh, but I'm not Family -- remember?" But, that's just me -- they say that Charity begins at home -- and well, OP, in my opinion was more than Charitable by even considering in helping these ingrates -- OLD Folks home -- they got their Just Desserts! As far as the brother is concerned -- well, I suppose I would have at least done what OP did in his case -- if only to keep him from dying! Wouldn't want that kind of "blood" on my hands! Good for her, that she was able to make something out of her life without the help of these really, really, God-awful people!! Good luck to your girl -- keep up the good fight!!! Peace!!

[@DJMelloSoul]

Anyone who thinks the OP should’ve took them in after everything they did to her is nuts. They were very disrespectful took money that was rightfully hers and were emotionally and mentally abusive. I wouldn’t look out for them either. They only asked for that help because of what their grandson did. If he did right they would’ve never contacted her.

[@jackiehuff7736]

Why would the parents leave custody to the grandparents they know mistreat their daughter? The parents suck too

[@fionaward9942]

I would talk to my parents lawyer and explain what they did, because what they did was a crime and I would take them to court

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately the grandparents *WERE* entitled to make financial decisions for her at that time. it wasn't an inheritance -- just a bank account, under her name, which as their guardians they had the option to control. Her parents should have locked that money in bonds or something, but didn't entirely forsee just HOW cruel her grandparents were prepared to be.

[@Justin-A-Carter]

Joker: you get what you ducking deserve!!!!❤

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Op they left the money to you. Your grandparents are stealing it from you. You can sue them and they will go to jail

[@tsm688]

Quite unfortunately the grandparents did have the right to make financial decisions for her at that time. Legally she was under their "care" as a minor. The parents should have locked that money in bonds or something. But they never thought the grandparents could be quite THAT evil.

[@nimisilverbird1239]

@@tsm688 they might have, but courts are becoming wiser to the misuse of funds. She can sue and force the grandparents to show in what ways was it used. Like education yes. Paying for grandma's trip to vegas is a no.

[@tsm688]

@@nimisilverbird1239 Perhaps you're right. Unfortunately it's a moot point. Because of their bad decisions it was all lost

[@nimisilverbird1239]

@@tsm688 if it is shown the funds were misused. They will have to pay it back.

[@tsm688]

@@nimisilverbird1239 she might have the satisfaction of putting them in jail, but she'll never get the money.

[@k1davis617]

Lol at the people saying she should have gave them a place to stay. With what money? Shes a collefe student sharing an apartment. She was too nice to find them althe place she did. They stole her money and wasted it and now Karma came back to them. Percect ending in my eyes.

[@darlenecorcoran2892]

no, my reaction would not be the same! she owes then nothing. op was way too nice to take them to a retirement home. let them deal with the loan sharks. they made their bed now they can lie in it

[@marywray6046]

I don't know why people think jail is safer then the outside, you can be got too a lot quicker in jail then on the street and shady lenders know that.

[@p.twilliams6393]

Op is a better woman than me because they would’ve been blocked the moment I step out of that door and I wouldn’t help them at all even if they did manage to reach out to me.

[@helenwoodrum2383]

My question is how did the brother get the deed in his name for the house.

[@juliesantana5626]

Lawyer up!!!!!!!!

[@decazuliekajuen7579]

The grandparents should be sued, right?

[@LS-bb9qh]

Couldn't she sue them?

[@skyhime]

If i was disowned, i certainly would have done the bare minimal. Why cater to ungreatful entittle ppl? You kno they would have treated her like cinderella in her own home. Washed her hands and be done with them. They only said enough times shes not blood.

[@tyffanypoudrier6610]

I would have been not so nice after what they did to me for all those years and taking the money and giving it to my brother I would have said not my problem you are not family and block there calls I hold a grudge.

[@tracyrieonhall7434]

Let them fend for themselves make them get jobs, put them in an old folks home

[@pikachewie81]

I love these animations they keep getting bettter lol

[@LordGertz]

OP didn't have grandparents, by their own choice, she was exceedingly nice to her parent's parents. She didn't let them be homeless. 😢But I do question this story a bit, where I live it is cheaper to keep parents with you rather than put them in a retirement center, most of which have waiting lists to get in and are rather nice. The only close to dreary one is a geriatric convalescent home, so old and infirm. The dreary factor is that it is basically a dressed up hospital, so the few amenities outside the cafeteria are all recovery related, and patients aren't really expected to be there for more than a year at most.

[@maedhampton8186]

This is bs/surely someone here advise her to sue/ but good response

[@maedhampton8186]

I say this because there’s too much child advocacy going on in this time of the world