Gratitude Really?

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[@trumpwon8972]

Gratitude is game changer for me. If I’m feeling sorry for the myself then thinking about what I’m grateful for makes me happy again.

[@KristasVlogs]

How do you not ever age?! You look so stinking stunning, as always. And it’s all radiating from the inside! Love you, Colette! 💕

[@thead01]

Colette has become a force to reckon with. Compared to her old videos, she is now more confident, unapologetic and has things happen to her on her own terms. This strength was in there all along. Looking forward to more videos!

[@Test21Test]

Lol stop analysing her and start analysing her message.

[@Ava-sy9qt]

Colette as a young women... I truly think you are inspirational, with everything that you have gone through in your life you have centred what you do around LOVE and I am grateful that you are sharing your wisdom with us!! xx

[@jacob_moran22]

This year has been HARD, more than 5 ish years ago, I was I little 13 year old boy, and I stumbled across your families videos, you guys inspired, pushed and motivated me and My life completely turned 180 and I was being my best, I was grinding my dreams of baseball and I wasn’t that bad, I was on a pretty good track, I’ve faced so much criticism, trials, setbacks, the stuff straight out of the movies, I felt like the star of the movie every single day. I couldn’t even name all the people and events thats torn me down, but I’d always keep going. But this year with COVID, I lost my baseball scholarship because of shutdowns and money problems with the school, and the baseball program had difficulties. I’m living at home and I’m stuck, I’ve lost my motivation and sometimes I get sick of hearing all this, and I just wonder what it’s be like if people knew what this journey had been like. UGH! BUTTTTT!!!!!!! I knew deep down, im not finished, this stuff SUCKS! Thank you Butlers for teaching me to never give up. Hopefully I can look back at this comment one year from now when I HAVE WALKED ON TO MY COLLEGE BASEBALL TEAM! I will.. I will.. Thank you Momma! I love you. Have a great day and thanksgiving this week ❤️❤️❤️

[@ColetteKati]

Yes! This difficult time won’t last forever do not give up! Thank you so much for your support and for sharing your story! I believe in you!

[@HannahsLiving]

I would love to hear your insight as to how you forgave your husband. I have also dealt with infidelity on his behalf, it truly shattered me to the core. I just try not to think about it, as its the only way I can continue on with him. Would love to be in a better mindset with a hard relationship. Love you & your true heartfelt inspiration ❤️🥰 A real queen!

[@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780]

I’m so sorry you are dealing with that. Some situations are hard to keep reliving and some details are best kept private.

[@ScorpioBZ4]

I have experienced the same. It’s an everyday struggle. Two years later I still experience some ptsd in the form of nightmares. Be kind to yourself, and if it’s something you think would work for you, therapy was a big help❤️🙏🏻

[@PiggyAzaleea]

You shouldn't rug sweep cheating. You're clearly still hurt and unhappy. Have you tried couples counseling? If you have to not think about something in order to be with someone, you should end the relationship. You deserve to be happy. Best wishes ❤️🥂

[@HannahsLiving]

@@PiggyAzaleea ofcourse youre right ❤️ I should specify his infidelity was an online affair, quite similar to shays... about 2 years ago. we have 2 kids together so I feel it is not that simple unfortunately. we do love eachother. Just unsure of how to move forward. :(

[@ColetteKati]

I understand thank you for sharing with me, this is something I do plan to talk more about when I’m ready. For now I want to say that your well being comes first and no body can tell you what to do in your relationship. I have found great help in a therapist, support group, and close friends and family. I took steps to learn how to set boundaries and to create a better emotional environment for myself. I’ve had to make hard choices and work everyday. But every bit of it has been worth it. I can confidently tell you I am better now than I ever have been. I trust myself more than ever and know that whatever happens I will not only be ok but I will thrive no matter what. I hear you, I see you, my reason for being back here on KZbin is to help people like you and me heal. 💗💗💗

[@MissLauraCTV]

You’re such an inspiration Colette! Everyone can learn something from you, so please keep teaching us all! 🌸

[@EditorLulu]

I love seeing colette’s videos in my inbox , they bring me so much joy and inspiration!

[@anildacruz432]

With me going through alot anyone who talks about happiness and says it is easy to be happiness cause anger but eventually the happiness comes to me whether its through my dog, through my jewelry business, my idols or even my bed. When i broke my candle jar the other day i got upset then i was grateful on the fact that i have more. Im grateful that i have the money to have more.. If you guys are going through stuff it gets better ❤

[@bFishstix]

I always try and be calm in a stressful situation. Sometimes i do have those negative moments, but i try and not let it get the best of me.

[@panicatthedisco727]

Do you know Hilary?! :o

[@bFishstix]

@@panicatthedisco727 no I don't. Just a big fan.

[@panicatthedisco727]

We're all very grateful for her!:D

[@annaqt321]

This is true. I have had awful things happen in my life and keeping a gratitude journal has been a huge help. 💕

[@PrincessPeyten]

I’ve been through challenging and dark stuff before and It makes me so grateful for the good days😘😘😘

[@95Jul8]

I've been going through a deep betrayal for a few months now. Your videos have helped me on my path towards healing myself. Thank you Colette

[@Gumblossomhomeschool]

Hi Colette... thanks so much. I used to love watching you on the shaytards and always wanted to have a big family like you. I had my first girl 3 years ago, and lost my second girl to stillbirth 3 months ago. I’ve been shattered... but through her loss I’ve found God, I’ve found my inner grit, and have been unapologetically able to speak my truth. I miss her so much, and I’m devastated... but her short life brought me so much. Thanks for this video xxxxxx

[@melschehr5310]

Love this, it's took years but I have shifted to an attitude of gratitude and it's truly makes for a more healthy well balanced life full of love and kindness

[@gabriellastanley7145]

I’ve watched you since I was a teenager and I’m 26. Thank you for being you

[@MattPalka]

I've heard recently, that gratitude is the greatest of virtues and the parent of all others. Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. There's always something to be grateful for, in the gloriousness and wretchedness of life. Agreed on the emotions. It's about how we use them as fuel. Let love write the script. I've been writing a daily gratitude page for 5 YEARS, almost 6 at the end of this year. It works and really is a superpower. I've seen it change my life in my writing and what I focus on and work to change. I have especially noticed how much more I love and have an urge to collaborate and be more generous.

[@cuca_]

Matt Palka love that, I’ll try it too as a superpower 🙂

[@ColetteKati]

Well said thank you for sharing!

[@Zubazz]

Glad to see you back in the saddle Colette! I love the talks! I have been a fan since the very early Shaytards days. These videos are great for Well-being. Awesome.

[@JessMay81]

Amen totally agree! ❤️🙏🏻

[@CherryBerry48]

i thank you for you positive words, i been practicing gratitude since i was 14 i am 50 now, and still in the grateful mode

[@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780]

HAPPY THANKSGIVING Collette Shay and FAMILY!

[@WithJar]

I love you so much. And your sister Callie, your music and your children. Love from Europe.

[@SoundsLikeJazz]

Thanks Colette. This video came at just the right moment where I needed to hear this. Thank you!

[@ColetteKati]

I’m so happy to hear that 🙏🏻💗

[@Jackert86]

Thank you so much!!! I really needed this right now. So grateful for you

[@fzzypurpleturtle]

When I had post partum depression, my mom encouraged me to find 5 minutes of joy in my day. She said "your whole day could be absolutely miserable" but she told me to be mindful of when I felt happy and slow down and allow myself to feel it. Because it may only be for a few minutes before it's gone. And that mindset absolutely helped me get out of some fear based thinking for sure Love your easy to digest, helpful videos!

[@ColetteKati]

I love this! What a great mom 💗

[@applesix6970]

OMG you're so freakin awesome!! Thank you for this, I REALLY needed this right now. I do think this way but tend to lose that sight every now and then and THIS has been an incredible reminder. Happy Thanksgiving all and God bless xoxo

[@samanthahall9607]

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things

[@hotweelz87]

Colette!!!!! Happy Thanksgiving! Thank you for these gems 😊

[@vickysfishies]

Thank you so much for this video I’ve been trying so hard to be grateful for the small things and this video definitely helps I’m going to start a gratitude journal now

[@missclairetard]

So much love 💕

[@AnjaliSarvade7]

Really going through hard times professionally your videos just gives me motivation.Thanks🥰

[@ozzyhokozy]

This hit me hard thank you. I remember how it used to be, how I used to feel... I am in hospital and I cannot see my kids. I am still breastfeeding.. well I am not anymore... the animal pure mother instinct is so strong I feel I can’t logically suppress... I miss my kids SO much. I feel like my heart will explode from sadness any time. I try to be strong but I failed them, I am not there for them. I feel like a prisoner but I haven’t harmed anyone. It’s because of COVID regulations they separated mother from a child and I can’t stand this feeling, pure hopelessness

[@toptipsindentistry1170]

I am greatful 🙏 ✨

[@RockysRebels]

Colette I’m loving your videos. You’re so cute and funny too, all while you’re encouraging us to be the best versions of ourselves. Love this. ❤️✌🏻🤟🏻🙏🏻

[@kiwifruitofyourlife]

I needed to hear this! I had a conversation with my friend the other day that really hit a nerve. She told me I get lost in negative thoughts. The last two days I've been dwelling on this. This dwelling has slowly consumed me, over thinking how I'm perceived. ' but I'm such a positive person'...or my favorite 'I'm like this because...' The truth is, she is right....my mind shifts to the worst possible outlook every single time. I don't mean to do it! Sometimes I don't even realize I'm doing it. I'm going to start a gratitude journal! I began one a few weeks ago and stopped! Time for change! Grateful for you Colette!

[@ColetteKati]

Thank you so much for sharing this! Its good to give ourselves grace when you recognize negative habits or patterns. Sometimes we forget that when those things show up in our lives it is because of learned patterns or past traumas so even though we need to work to change them we can have compassion for why they are showing up.

[@kiwifruitofyourlife]

@@ColetteKati ❤️❤️

[@SilasLives1]

There are other types of thinking other then fear based and love based but I agree those are the two that will have the most effect on you.

[@melodyland8527]

I really resonate with your videos and have been thinking about these values myself lately, so glad you're back and thriving. Love you forever Colette ❤️

[@humbirdmom1450]

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!!! I am grateful for your words of wisdom❤️

[@Animeglri]

You are sweet, God willing

[@lalaparmz8987]

Thank you mommytard. I really needed to hear this today. Sending all the love to you. xxo

[@iknowlinda]

You rock! You're such an inspirational badass! Thanks for sharing your path.

[@bonniekuhr9887]

Thank you.

[@Songwriterbehindthecurtain]

Just chillax in your chair and your going to be fine.

[@nicoleh.1112]

Colette reminds me of Hermione Granger as a mom and it’s so cute !

[@sosoamayzen6822]

Hello you are such a great mother

[@KatieSparkles]

I love these videos Colette, so very much and they just make me feel better and make me feel like I can breath. I am also so impressed with how well you can put it into a shorter video, while still hitting all the really important points. I have severe Anxiety and have been working on moving away from that fear based mind set. It can be hard because my life currently revolves around it because of my Anxiety, but I have been working with a therapist and incorporating more peace of mind techniques to do through out the day. 💖💖 Love you Colette and thank you this is helping a lot too.

[@ColetteKati]

I’m so glad to hear you are taking care of yourself and your mental health that is so important. Thank you so much for your kind words 💗

[@AshleighSM]

It's going to really hard but I'm going to try my best to do what you said

[@ColetteKati]

Yes it’s not easy and sometimes I resist it but it does help!

[@brunavieira3634]

You are amazing! I'm thankful for this video this really helped me ♥️

[@viktoriaanguelov1295]

I'm so happy to see you back here on KZbin. I missed you! Also have you read the book "The Secret"? It's a book about positive thinking. I'm obsessed with it!

[@Ninten70]

It's all about Graditute and Attitude.

[@themindfulsky7634]

this video is amazing. thank you

[@sydney6724]

thank you

[@natalie523]

i love you so much!!

[@hello_danielle]

I would love to hear how your self growth process has changed/impacted your parenting style if you are interested in sharing that.

[@ImaGirlieGamer]

I love you Colette

[@dannydanny9875]

Love Wins! To Write Love On Her Arms!

[@smokejc]

I needed this video, but I have no idea how to apply this as I'm used to live through fear and anxiety.

[@ColetteKati]

I understand, start with one thing at a time. Even sitting for just 5 minutes a day to contemplate gratitude or self forgiveness can be a good start to creating shifts in your life.

[@smokejc]

@@ColetteKati Thank you, Colette. You have a kind heart.

[@rs3007]

I lost a pregnancy 2014, I had named the baby Avia (I know I got the name from shaytards). I later had two healthy babies, a boy and a girl, Emilia that we call Emmie. (She's 3 now). I forgot your other girl is Emmi, until just now, wow I got some serious tingles when I re-discovered your channel to refresh my memory of their names. They had tard names back when I watched.

[@TimothyWallace1953]

Faith Love Forgiveness Amen 🙏

[@minitebuhzed4537]

Lol her roasting shay is hilarious

[@ColetteKati]

How am I roasting Shay?

[@totallytubularmusic1896]

Happy early thanksgiving

[@MrMakeDo]

🙏🏻

[@sandyc6569]

Happy Thanksgiving!!!!

[@AlexJPetrov]

I feel that way on Xmas. Because everything that we celebrate is fake on that holiday. Jesus was not born on that date and we know that because of astronomical data from the time (it is just the winter solstice celebration), Santa is from a Coca-Cola commercial, we cut and kill a healthy beautiful tree, we buy stuff just because we are convinced that we have to and that this is showing love but it is a consumer industry scam, we cook and eat unnecessary amounts of food, the music and the movies are the same every year and is a masochistic experience. There are samo good things that families get together and that makes children happy + sometimes the presents makes them happy.

[@DarrenDizon]

I fealt that way. Especially since I’ve been depressed, and blind. And yes, I’m legally blind.

[@EDucating_Shanny]

I adore you. ❤️

[@well_i_liked_it]

Slightly off topic, can you and your sister do a cover of Tuxedo Junction?

[@jennamyers2960]

I have gratitude my life

[@jennamyers2960]

I love you Colette

[@funkyrider7302]

I love your video on gratitude definitely I was thinking maybe if you had I gratitude Shaytards t-shirt gratitude bracelet wristband I would buy one definitely That's something I was thinking about thank you

[@totallytubularmusic1896]

First # best KZbin mom

[@nickierodriquez7534]

Happy. Thanksgiving

[@YipYip1]

What happend to there big house

[@7Underwood7]

Idk anymore.

[@andresgutierrez7751]

She so funny

[@amiranjit25]

Hi! Long time no see

[@jh9339]

not religious, but shes an angel

[@tdian]

Love love love your videos and LOVE that your back! I have missed your energy and the light you bring to youtube! I have tried doing this before but find I end up writing the same things every day and it feels so monotonous. Does it have to be different stuff every day? I'm really not sure how to approach it

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

Happy thanksgiving, mommy tard

[@mommycakes83]

"sometimes i doubt your commitment to sparkle motion"

[@samanthahall9607]

King James Bible There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.

[@zipdrive3638]

You should really think about cutting your hair like bob or pixie you have really nice face for that kind of face, im stylist btw

[@KatelynASousa]

Can I be honest? I don’t know how to say this but with your last few videos, I found myself not wanting to watch them and I couldn’t figure out why. Just now I went to your page and saw your last 3 thumbnails in a row and realized what the reason was. I completely understand that they’re grabby phrases, but i think it subconsciously made me feel like “this is how she thinks everyone feels, including me, and now she’s going to tell me why I’m wrong.” I feel like I’m not making sense and even sounding nutty, but the negativity in the thumbnail might not be the right way to go to get your point across. I mean absolutely no disrespect, just stating my opinion. I’ve been a fan since babytard was still the baby of the family, so I hope this doesn’t come off and me being a jerk 😬🤦🏻‍♀️ sending lots of love and positivity your way- happy thanksgiving!! 🦃

[@212days]

Dear God, Thank You that You Love me. You Love me with an Astonishing *Love,* a Love that is _beyond my wildest imagining._ Thank You that You have for me an Amazing Super Future of spectacular Joy, spectacular Gladness, spectacular Health, Happy Surprises and "Love... beyond what words can even explain." Thank You that You don't want me to feel like You are some unconcerned and remote spectator who is a billion miles away from me... no instead of that what You want is to be my best Friend. You know all of my life experiences and You know me better than anyone else. You want me to have Sweet times of having a joyful sense of Your nearness. Thank You that what You want is for me to talk to You often and Your attitude towards me is one where with Love you say to me "you can talk to Me anytime." Thank You that You want to give me Higher levels of Love, joy, Peace and glad wonder than I have ever known before even in this world which isn't the Disneyland, it's just the temporary road to the Disneyland. The temporary road to the Amazing Wonderfulness and perpetual Bliss in the Eternal Glory which You call me to. “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love Him.” (1 Corinthians 2:9) And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to Him must believe that God exists and that He is *a rewarder* of those who sincerely seek Him. (Hebrews 11:6) *Draw near to God and He will draw near to you...* (James 4:8) God is Love. (1John 4:8) The fruit of the Spirit is Love, joy, Peace... (Galatians 5:22) kzbin.info/www/bejne/aYKQqoBqhqh8m80

[@eyeCandeeh]

Collete do you smoke weed ?:)

[@ColetteKati]

Nope I’m just happy 😊

[@eyeCandeeh]

@@ColetteKati omgg i love that u replied :D im a mom of 4 from new zealand.. have a wonderful thanksgiving and well wishes for the season ahead

[@alanmichaellincoln]

Makes me anxious watching videos that have pauses edited out.

[@ColetteKati]

Thanks for the feedback!

[@kerokamal123]

Please make vedio nose picking please 👃🤲👃👃👃

[@trexbattle]

You guys need to do psilocybin mushrooms and mdma or at the very least learn about psychedelics but drugs are an amazing tool that people have used for years- I study math and computer science I’m abt to turn 20- i was an atheist when I started watching you guys- I’m home for thanksgiving and today I just stubbed upon a fkn mug I made in 7th grade that has a maker studios/disney logo on it lmao I was so stoked on u guys Tht was the year u gave birth lmfao ur wild - anyways I used to hate religion and thought it was wrong to make your kids believe in religion the way you guys did but I still watched ur videos when I’m a kid in like 2012 lol so I’m the youngest and also have leftist siblings but I’m liberal and like individual rights and I don’t think my sister is neo liberal but my bro might b - anyways after blowout seshs of strong mushrooms not golden teacher but albinos or penis envy I believe there is a god or even after doing 3 tabs of acid and doing shrooms- I ain’t no atheist

[@cuca_]

Lmao. Stop taking the wacko drugs and go back to atheism

[@trexbattle]

@@cuca_ bro the whacko drugs are nic and alc

[@trexbattle]

@@cuca_ get sum poon m8

[@cuca_]

Haha ok I’ll try them then 👍 but I don’t want poon I’m a straight girl 🥺

[@trexbattle]

@@cuca_ o I’m a straight male and I’m abt to turn 20 but u should still eat pssy that’s first grade shit

[@annabanana4910]

I'm so confused because Shay's motto the whole time you were on the Shaytards was "happiness is a choice"

[@ColetteKati]

Yes that is still true. I will talk more about that in another video ❤️