Grieving Mother Connects with Daughter’s Spirit After Tragic Loss

[@juliagregory192]

Cremation does not matter. The soul leaves the body. My great nephew took months to come through. He told me that he had to spend time watching his mother's suffering. Because of the way he died. If she would talk to him. That way he could help others that are going through what he went through. I had to tell her this. He passed in May and contacted me in September. Since then his Mom has been involved in setting up a program for students suffering with mental health issues to speak up. She did this through sports programs. He is helping from where he is.

[@SherryJohnson28171]

yes, the soul leaves the body immediately after death. whats left is just the shell that was used while in life.

[@ginadeacon9920]

I believe that. Also I believe, you are shown your life, your decisions, how it affects your path. Then a time of freedom, healing, maybe even travelling. My father went to the Azores, towards the end of the War. He loved it, wanted to return. I hope he can spend time, wherever he wants to. This was a terrific session thanks Dalen. Love to her Mom, blessings to both & all those in similar situation. I saw a wonderful Medium/Reiki Healer. She brought through my Vicar, he recognised me. My father, who said he was with my Mother. I was surprised. He said he had made a promise, so whatever they had gone through was forgiven & he stayed with her. He brought her through, she apologised, said had she been born 100 yrs earlier, she said she would have been comitted to Bedlam. It was a lot, but she also predicted there would be a baby in the family. It came true, my daughter became a single Mum, to a beautiful daughter! Daughter went to this lady too & found out my Dad watches over her in Spirit. Even in her car!! He kniws she has road rage & swears!!! That was a wake up call for her 😂 Sadly the Mediym didn't stay long in the area. Apparently, she told me Spirit leads her. She was powerful, her Reiki too. I am so grateful. 🙏🙏🙏🫶🫶🫶

[@nidiasofiealtamirano1606]

I want to be cremated because I am very claustrophobic and I don't believe I will be able to breathe in a box. I know believe me, I know I won't be breathing at any point once I pass but being highly claustrophobic & I can not be around spiders, or other bugs there I choose to be cremated & taken to my resting place ..lol

[@kisha1UP]

All I can say is, thank you🥺

[@PattyHudson-i3o]

Dralen love love love you and your show been watching all day your nephew was very cute keep it up you are good bro ❤❤❤

[@tinylichau1529]

That's every mothers heartache is the not knowing where there child is and if there safe 😢

[@barbararich3060]

I don’t know why people are so cruel. To drive that poor baby to suicide ,and then they just go on being hateful. It’s so unfair.

[@stormy4812]

It's more than unfair, it's unjust

[@valeriemoran842]

God help them when they cross over. I would not want to have to explain such cruel actions on judgment day.

[@shawnacline3771]

♡♡♡

[@play4u67]

I completely agree!!! But I keep thinking... "What's Done In The Dark, Will Come Into The Light"... It's called Karma!! I pray for Olivia's mom, bless her sweet heart!! My condolences to you "Mom" and will keep you in my heart, thoughts and prayers always!! ♥. Olivia went to heaven on my anniversary date, 4-26-2024. My late husband passed away 5-22-2023, hopefully, my late husband and a whole bunch of others, showed up to welcome her home, God Bless this young lady's heart. I wish people would stop with the cruelties and start showing the love, that would be only in a perfect world unfortunately.

[@HollyFoxAdventures]

@barbararich3060 To be fair, we don't know how she was interpreted by others. She sounds neuro divergent and people with this often have difficulty communicating and interpreting. Of course, her mama knows how she is but work mates don't understand. Her bf breaking up with her, I mean, he couldn't take it anymore. If he stayed...would she of still died?

[@elizabethjohnson9757]

It’s only been a few months since she passed. She’s in healing mode.

[@msrachard]

Man when she said “it was her last mess” I started balling! I couldn’t imagine going through that. God rest her soul and God help her Mama heal 🙏

[@nanigirl413]

Paula thank you for letting us in and sharing your tragic loss of your beautiful daughter. Love love love

[@sassygirl7817]

Wow, she said “Eileen” then “ it’s been a crap year.” I’m so sorry for your loss Mama Paula. She was a beautiful woman

[@Inziagold]

Mama Wawa Woman Mowau...Not the same being , they told us lies about ourselves and who we came from

[@sassygirl7817]

😂

[@cindiecoffman6114]

Consider this, she died by her own hand. I'll bet that takes a lot out of a soul. That soul needs rest and recuperation. Time is not the same there as it is here. Giver her time to adjust and try again. And to mom, I lost my daughter too. You will never get over the loss of your daughter. But you will learn how to live around that loss. It's a shame that we can't have one more conversation with our baby. It could ease some of our pain. Then again, we would always want another conversation, I guess. ((BIG HUGS)) for you momma.

[@tonyagoldsborough2904]

I am so sorry. My two boys committed suicide 3 months apart 7 years ago and my infant son passed in 2000 in a house fire. And in 2014 my grandson was murdered by his mother. My heart goes out to you. As one mother who has been through it to another my condolences to you and my prayers.

[@jesikalynn3882]

I am so very sorry for so much loss 😭💔 hugs

[@kisha1UP]

Prayers for strength and guidance, please keep pushing on🙏🏽❤️😢

[@teishamarie1669]

I'm so sorry for your loss😢😢

[@latoniaupshaw4902]

Wow

[@Shelda811]

@@tonyagoldsborough2904 ♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼so sorry for the amount of loss you have had makes me have a emptiness/void just thinking about. You have to be a strong person to had endured so much (understood not control what we are dealt). Stay strong will keep you and yours in my prayers)

[@JustineFreund]

For anyone who is going through mental illness. You matter and you are loved. Reach out if you need help. I love you❤️

[@SnoopluvYou]

Amen 🙏🏽@JustineeFre, my son suffers from Mental Health issues, he's 21yrs old. He has good days and bad days with him. Mental Health runs on both sides of my Father and Mother. My sister suffers from Mental Health and my Cousins. I haven't been diagnosed with any mental health yet. My daughter suffers from anxiety she's 29yrs old. Bipolar 1 and 2 run on my Mother's side and my Father's side Bipolar 1 and Schizophrenia. It's very hard seeing your loved ones going through mental health challenges. Bless you and your family❤

[@nancythomas2193]

@@SnoopluvYou 🫂❤

[@ajjdarklord]

I suffer from depression since I was 16. I was diagnosed & since it’s a battle I deal with everyday. The anxiety I go through too sucks. I have a 5 year old daughter that helps but her mother doesn’t she has borderline personality disorder we broke up when my baby was 7 months old. She kept my daughter away & I see my baby girl & I fight for more. I finally got where my ex will contact me via text but she makes probably 60% of my deep depression I feel alone. I’m not but I feel that way meds help but I just want my peace. I want therapy to help but my mother passed last year so I feel that pain of loss everyday it f’n sucks. I ask you all to do me a favor tell your mother & father “I love you” 😢 we all can become a spirit in a second. If anyone feels depressed I’m here we can help each other. -AJ 🙏🙏🙏

[@ajjdarklord]

I suffer from depression since I was 16. I was diagnosed & since it’s a battle I deal with everyday. The anxiety I go through too sucks. I have a 5 year old daughter that helps but her mother doesn’t she has borderline personality disorder we broke up when my baby was 7 months old. She kept my daughter away & I see my baby girl & I fight for more. I finally got where my ex will contact me via text but she makes probably 60% of my deep depression I feel alone. I’m not but I feel that way meds help but I just want my peace. I want therapy to help but my mother passed last year so I feel that pain of loss everyday it f’n sucks. I ask you all to do me a favor tell your mother & father “I love you” 😢 we all can become a spirit in a second. If anyone feels depressed I’m here we can help each other. -AJ 🙏🙏🙏

[@StarrdigitalProductions]

🙏🏽💕

[@janineashwell3108]

My mum was a physical medium & she used to tell me that when a person has taken their own lives when they crossover the have a lot of healing to do & it can take a long time because they have to forgive themselves for doing what they did & she said that they can’t always come through to let love ones know that they are ok on the outside

[@simoneburkeen6352]

I was coming on here to say the same. She’s in her healing stage…not ready to talk to mom yet. She will eventually. ❤

[@EllenRodgers-z4i]

Dalen.. I hope Olivia's mother reads this. My sister passed away 21 years ago and I've always been sensitive even as young as 2 years old and figuring that out was an accident at all places a family reunion someone asked what your first memories were.. mine were of an older gentleman that came and sat at my little wooden table and chair everyday and hung out with me and of course my mom looked around at everybody's face is like I didn't let some old man come visit my 2-year-old! I then explained well yeah he did and I explained exactly what he had on his haircut and I said I know that there were like a family next door that had like 20 kids.. well actually there were seven and they were catholic but when you're too seems like a lot more so my mom immediately knew where this happened and ever since then I've been able to feel things hear things voices I have a strong connection with my youngest nephew three times 5 hours before he had terrible accidents I called my mom crying saying something was about to happen to him and she said oh that can't be true and guess what every time it was true.. I have to admit until I was in my early thirties all of this scared me and then when my sister passed away just calmness came over me and I wasn't afraid anymore. So anyway after my sister passed away it did take almost a year a little over a year maybe before she visited and she brought her husband's baby brother that died on his 16th birthday and to this day he still pops in and out and and my nephew is now 26! I'm not I'm not sure because I don't think anybody is but it must run families because I have grandchildren that has spoke about people they could have never met because they weren't even conceived until 20 years later! I just want Olivia's mom to know give her some time and I promise you'll feel her you'll know she's there I think it just takes some time to come to terms with the realization that they're dead.. and something else I'd be able to stand is not all of the people in my life who have passed ever come back just some of them so I'm not sure what goes on just like the rest of everybody else but my heart goes out to her and tell her it's okay Olivia will be there and she'll be back and she'll know it.. I sent her my love and well wishes!❤ Sorry graveyard shift this was so long I just felt like when I seen this I needed to reach out to her mom best wishes and love to all of you!❤

[@willowv1220]

I’ve heard the same sometimes takes some time n time over is different then on earth plane

[@luanncarpenter4906]

My brother passed in January of this year from liver cancer. He lived with me and I took care of him for eight years. After he passed, I prayed God would accept him. I asked God to tell him I loved and missed him and to tell him I'm sorry if I didn't do everything right taking care of him. Three nights after he passed, he came to me in a dream. He hugged me. It felt so real. And he told me he loved me. I knew he was in a good place. He was also cremated. I don't think it's ever too soon or too late. If they want to connect, they will.

[@rachelschwebach7566]

Tragic story. I have severe depression and I understand feeling suicidal. One of the things that keeps me around is knowing the devastation my death would cause my family. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. God bless this grieving mom.❤

[@marietomkinson5910]

Blessed Be ❤.. Marie from the uk 🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🌹🌻🐱

[@theresar.4860]

God bless you to work through this. You are loved. If you ever need to talk I am here for you.

[@carla-CY-PenArt]

I LOVE YOU! yep I screamed it because it’s true, so you will hear it always in your head in Jesus name Amen

[@07queens72]

I will keep you in my prayers ❤❤

[@rachelschwebach7566]

@@07queens72 I really appreciate that. Thank you.

[@JulietPeacher]

Losing a child is the worst thing anyone can go through. Cutos to Paula for being so strong. I get so emotional talking about my daughter. She died in 2018

[@ebrantley37]

I’m with u my son died in 2022 an I still get emotional I lost my mom in 2011 an I thought that was the worse pain naw my son was my worse pain

[@Bryn_G_Mama_of_3]

Big hugs to you both 💝 You are so incredibly strong, and your babies are still with you, just in a different way. I lost my first, my baby girl, and there is nothing that can make it better and time does not heal. You just learn to deal with it the best you can. To our angels in heaven, you are missed beyond words and loved so incredibly much. 💜🦋

[@tinylichau1529]

I know how you feel I lost my only son to suicide in 2007

[@patriciaphelps5875]

Hugs, prayers and condolences to all parents who have lost children. I know it's devastating because I lost my son 14 years ago and I still have bad days. ❤❤❤

[@oldmountainmarineandmetals9736]

Prayers for your loss 🙏

[@evelyncanchola4954]

RIP Olivia, I pray for peace in your heart Paula.

[@cheyenneskylark]

FYI: I've heard from Spiritualists that a person who committed suicide will be placed in a recovery area with guides for processing and review of their life, on the other side. Then, cleanse their negative and low vibration, which sent them prematurely to the exit before their designated time. Therefore, would take much longer to make any form of contact with those they left behind. Plus those who grieve will not be aware of signs until their grief subsides. Enjoy all your videos and fun personality Dalen!

[@sueharris6616]

Dalen you were so grown up and mature talking to that gentleman. So proud of you.

[@lalassoaps]

Miss Paula is a strong mama. My condolences.

[@olgaIlliakis]

Her soul in process of transitioning as a spirit.

[@Inziagold]

We are spirit . The only spirits in transition are they who chose rebirth to a man's spirit.

[@anisassquad7814]

@@InziagoldCan you explain more on what you meant?

[@donnaleeirwin7157]

First, I LOVE how compassionate Dalen is. 2nd- I was taught that it doesn't matter if you are buried or cremated your spirit can communicate BUT when you pass over, your spirit has to learn HOW to communicate with you. My younger brother passed 22 years before my older brother passed and when my older brother passed away, my younger brother was teaching him how to communicate with me. It is harder for them to reach us especially if we still have the wall of grief surrounding us that's why it is easier for them to first come to us thru our dreams, because our guard is down.❤

[@nanigirl413]

Stress affects your body in crazy ways. Let it out mama your body needs the release. Much love

[@danal652]

First of all, Paula I’m so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I do believe that they can communicate right after death. My daughter passed of an overdose and we did cremate her. We buried her across from my dad so they can be together. Well, three days after we buried her, I went to the cemetery and lost it! I was a mess and all I could do was scream and cry in my car with the windows rolled up so no one could hear me. I asked her for a sign that she was with Pop-Pop. These two birds that I didn’t know existed (red winged blackbirds) slowly flew by my car! I believe it was my dad & my daughter, comforting me at that moment. I went to the beach the other day with my daughter in-law and told her about that story. Out of nowhere, a red winged blackbird landed in front of us! She stayed for about 10 minutes and I told her that I loved her and thank you for stopping by❤ Hugs from one momma to another💓💓

[@luanncarpenter4906]

When mom asked her favorite color, I heard "pink"

[@elannathompson8252]

I heard pink also

[@donnaburnerslone]

So did I‼️🩷💕🩷

[@deborahwalters9350]

I did too

[@charleen9121]

Same, heard it twice

[@rosearmstead4585]

I did too

[@tanahoskinson5880]

Dalen and Paula, as a Psychic Medium I have connected to beautiful resting souls that have passed just a few hours before we've talked. In Olivia's case, she and her beautiful Mom need time to process what's happened. I feel She definitely did not mind you trying to connect. I felt her watching. She feels at peace; no pain or depression any more. Just like they said in the video, she will step forward soon. When the time is right, we could even as her to be part of the Spirit Grave Yard Shifter team. 😊🤗 Sending 🙏💗🙏💗🙏💗 to Olivia and her family.

[@BooLadybeautycare]

I felt more embarrassment Tht she didn’t wanna talk just yet

[@JessRare]

@@BooLadybeautycareI’m feeling more of a hurt but regretting what she did due to being upset. She’s missing her mom alot🩷

[@veronicahazelrogers]

Beautifully said

[@alisonfreeman57]

It's too soon❤

[@sparrowgirl]

Hey guys!!! It's usually really hard to reach people right after they've died. The time period of not being able to reach them varies, but it is usually a month or two after that its really difficult to communicate. People who pass in extremely tragic situations...especially suicide, take longer than other deaths. Their soul is busy processing what happened. They are learning about the big picture of the life they just left, learning from their mistakes, learning the consequences of their actions on their life & on others, going over their life reviews, healing their soul, growing their soul, learning about the truth of life, and seeing their new world. Its a really busy time for them and most souls can't even hear you calling because they are so busy. If God decides it's going to be a net positive for them to come forward to communicate, then he will make it happen. He can send an angel to pull them out of healing & life review for a small amount of time to come say hi. But, ya this happens all time when someone tries to communicate too soon. You got to give her time to settle in!! Love you all!!! ❤️

[@sandrarodgers4955]

I was going to comment the same thing. ❤

[@KarriSimone]

Great explanation 😁 well at least from all I've research I've done about mediumship.

[@underthemoonparanormal]

I totally agree

[@SherryJohnson28171]

@sparrowgirl I'm sure it's got to be very hard on a person who leaves this earth so suddenly because I've heard many spirits say, am I dead? Many I'd think don't want to except the fact they are actually dead, or even believe it. They may come around loved ones not understanding why they can't be seen or heard by their loved ones because they don't know how to communicate yet. Or seeing they are so confused or even regretful once they can see what their sudden actions did to the people they left behind. There are many reasons I believe why a person by accident or in taking their own life, death is so sudden massive confusion must take place. I would think the whole process for them is different than say a death from old age, or someone who knew they were going to pass from an illness, they have basically prepared for it.

[@juliagregory192]

@@sparrowgirl This is a great explanation! From what Wesley told me, he had to figure out that life was about love. Not about worldly things, just love. He kept contacting me and said he was becoming desperate. He said he wasn't allowed to contact her, just watch how his choice affected her. He couldn't help unless she asked for that from him. I believe that his Mother was on the brink herself and he knew that. She blamed herself for not knowing how far down that he was. Until after his death. Plus, the fact that he was gone for 3 days before anyone found him. He was living about 3 1/2 hours away. This doesn't mean that she doesn't struggle with the loss of her child. She just knows that he regretted his decision. And wanted her to know that he figured it out. Wanted to help others and especially his Mom and grandfather. They were very close and this devastated both of them. I love that he felt I could help him. Such a sweet, kind and thoughtful young man. That loss came right after my youngest brother. Who he was close with also. I truly wish I could be more in tune with this gift. I was with my children when my niece called me. We were in a very public place. I had to tell her and I remember the look on my son's face, as I am telling her all of this. My oldest daughter already knew that I talked to spirits. So did my son but, didn't believe it. You have to believe and know in your heart that it's a gift. I believe Dalen has this gift. He's doesn't give himself enough credit.

[@christinestachel8067]

I wish i could have hugged her!! She was so beautiful!!!!! This world should have been more gentle with her!!!

[@GYSMelanie5]

I really do think she was there, I heard Liv when you asked her name before he mother said her nickname. I just don't think she's stromg enough just yet. I cried like a baby! Share this out, family! It really does help Dalen so much in growing this channel, and that's what we all want!

[@darkhorse8358]

So very sorry for her loss of her daughter. The mother has such love for her daughter. That kind of love transcends into whatever needs to be done. To clean up after her daughter's suicide or ready her for her cremation. What a wonderful Mother & a wonderful person to be there with such love throughout it all. God Bless.

[@evelyncanchola4954]

She is beautiful and she looks just like her mom. ❤

[@JulesA1973]

I think maybe in 6 months to a year you should go back and try with her again. I loved how you both could joke and connect. I’m so sorry for Paula’s loss.

[@Brentwood_chic]

Hey Shifting Fam! See you soon! Like, subscribe, and share this video. All free and supports Dalen. ❤❤❤ to all and an extra ❤ to the replay crew!

[@DalenLSpratt]

You're the best!

[@renaz630]

​@@DalenLSprattwe love you!

[@amberleighlynch228]

Im trying to leave a comment under his video but for some reason it won't let me...but letting me comment under your comments.

[@karenthorburn3413]

​@@DalenLSprattoh goss i remember this lady on your live saying she had her daughter ashes to hear you both talking over what happened to you both had me crying 😢 ( RIP LOVELY lady 🙏🕯🌷 your mom will always be with you love from dublin ireland ❤

[@sophiab1089]

So sorry for her loss her daughter is so beautiful this world is horrible

[@mcrchickenluvr]

They’re right. Mental health is no joke. I’ve battled depression off and on for a lot of years. So have some of the people in my circle of family and friends. Some of them lost that battle. Seeing what their families went through after is what made me stop and realize that my thoughts were a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I think the worst one was at my friend’s younger siblings twin sister’s birthday party. His younger brother Rodney got sick and tired of being bullied for being biracial. His mom sent him to get the ketchup and mustard for the burger and dogs. When he didn’t come back she sent Tim and I to go check on him and get something else. We noticed that the coat closet was open and Tim went to close it so the dog wouldn’t sneak in there and get hurt. He found his brother and we pulled him down. We tried to do CPR but to no avail. He was only 10 years old. That image still haunts me even 27 years later.

[@ginadeacon9920]

😨😨😨😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@juliagregory192]

@@mcrchickenluvrso very sad! God bless you!

[@HollyFoxAdventures]

@mcrchickenluvr We need to watch what we say to each other. Words have power...if you are constantly put down.. it's like being kicked over and over

[@nancythomas2193]

I'm 20 minutes in and had to stop to compose myself. My daughter, when she was 23, died at home from cancer. I know it's no where near the same as death by suicide but my mother's heart is very sore for this woman.❤

[@kimberlywebster9902]

So sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs for you ❤

[@tracymerritt2959]

Mom is a great soul, and her daughter is beautiful. I’m so sad Olivia wasn’t able to come through for mom at that time. Or maybe she did and it was very subtle. Love, love, love to the 3 of you.

[@kpopnoonanikki9211]

I love that she asked if he had Pokey with him

[@deanatrail1253]

Bless you heart. Stay strong.

[@chandraward235]

We love you Paula. Keeping you in our prayers ❤

[@bekyl7761]

Dalan Ty so much for being so kind & respectful to Ms Paula.

[@KimJewell-ro9ty]

I believe that someone who has passed in this way that they are met with love and compassion and counseling to show them how much their soul means to the creator

[@joannabailey2085]

First I would like to Thank Paula, U R one HELL of a WOMAN. I am so sorry for your Loss. Still being able to set there and BE so STRONG KUDOS WOMAN. THANK U for SHARING YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER WITH THE REST OF US. Many blessings and prayers for U and your Family ✌️💙. I think it was a little bit to soon. Really think about it you're already dead confused that's just more. So yes to soon. Good Job D, U were very Good on this one Thx ✌️💜💚💜

[@Missy_Monster]

I am showing her all of these comments. She needs as much love and positivity as she can get ❤

[@joannabailey2085]

@@Missy_Monster THANK U MISSY, Please tell her we ALL love and APPRECIATE HER 💖🙏

[@Missy_Monster]

@@joannabailey2085 I definitely will, I sent her so many screenshots. It made her night to read them. She has been really struggling with wanting to be here anymore, but Dalen helped her more then he can know just by being there with her and doing this. All of the love and support means the world.

[@SnoopluvYou]

Sorry for your condolences Ms. Paula, your daughter is a beautiful person. I feel like everyone else, it's too soon. Thank you for opening up and sharing with us, Bless you and your family ❤, love, love, love

[@shannonyeung8491]

As a mother, 4 daughters, I can't imagine what you are going through. My deepest condolences and never stop believing or trying. Our bond with our children never dies. Love to you!!!

[@ValTwineDeaner]

This is so sad, how horrible that people feel there's no way out. I was severely bullied in my job by my boss here in the UK through 1997 to 2001. I was forced out of the job after I broke down. I tried desperately to get another job, without success. Afterwards, I was unemployed and couldn't get work (my boss blacklisted me). I took an overdose as I was totally alone, and penniless. Thankfully I survived, but I completely understand how people can get into that situation. How awful that Olivia's mother had to find her beloved daughter and clean afterwards. That would haunt me forever. Maybe if you drove somewhere other than a cemetery, there wouldn't be so many spirits. They say about a door - that is a portal in my humble opinion. Perhaps Olivia is still transitioning, and the spirit did say, 'soon'. God rest Olivia's soul, and God bless her mum too. Thank you Dalen. ❤❤❤❤

[@Lisa-SynfullyWkd67]

This has to be the most touching,gut wrenching so far. My heart goes out to Paula and her family!. I have had two cousins which happened to be brother and sister lost to suicide as well as finding my friend when I was 18 in his car, no warning no nothing. My daughters lost a friend a few years back, he was 17 and like a son to me, sweetest kid ever! Do anything for anyone, and his mom told him he was worthless, which in essence she was taking her problems out on him, He shot himself a week before Easter. Worst funeral I've ever attended, not that any are good. If people just took the time to smile at someone, a stranger, that smile could make the biggest difference to someone at that moment in time. Pretty crappy that guy called the cops. It's public property for the love of God. I had tears flowing down my face like a waterfall when she spoke about all she did for Oliva after. Paula, you are one STRONG woman! Ironically I've been asked to investigate to investigate a restaurant we have frequented for 25 years, they have a lot of things happening there from who they believe to be family and ex-employees who have passed. It's a small but very popular restaurant. They are hoping we can speak to their family that we think are still visitin. gThank you Dalen for all you do! I'm terminally ill, lost my insurance and went from 13 meds daily to nothing now. I have had thoughts because of the pain, but I could NEVER do that to my grand babies and kids. I just hope they honor my wishes when my time comes. Love, light and hugs to all. God bless! Rest well beautiful Olivia! Appologies for this post being so long.

[@ginadeacon9920]

Prayers for you I hope someone can reach out to you, to help you with your pain 🤔🙏🙏🙏🫶🫶🫶

[@edwardmcgregor4358]

To the mother I am very sorry for your loss my your daughter R.I.P all the way from Dublin Ireland

[@alisonbratcher323]

Dalen, I know you'll have to listen to this on the headphones for better clearing. I did hear pink 3xs. 💕 I don't know what her favorite color is. It wasn't said. Also, it is said that after passing, they go through a transitional "overview" of their life here on earth. (Matt Fraser, well, know psychic medium. Released a new book discussing it). I am only giving my thoughts to what I heard on the spirit box. From watching Matt Fraser on his videos and how he has explained life after death. I'm praying for momma and her family. I felt her (mom's) mixed emotions, and it broke my heart to its core. 😢💔 Much love shifters and Dalen!! ❤🫶🏻

[@patriciakrakowiak1442]

I love Matt Fraser. I subscribe to his channel. He has the best personality, he's so funny and honest.

[@wirandungu7064]

I heard pink as well ❤

[@KevinRush-wk9ed]

Bless her heart so sorry for her pose

[@patriciaglove8201]

My son passed is 2015 out of no where a penny with 2015 fell on the floor out of no where in 2020. Also the bath room light which I kept on 24/7 kept going out it became unscrewed each time, about 6 times ,I finally said Son if your unscrewed the light bulb will you please stop it gets bard in this bathroom and it never did it again. He too was cremated. We did bury most of his ashes at the cemetery but we brothers and sisters and his children got a few in necklace to keep him with us

[@pinkcrayolabox9766]

It sounded almost as though she is stuck. She died suddenly and with so much emotion involved. She may be in shock. You are an amazing mother, Paula! Keep talking to your daughter. ❤ sending you love and healing energy.

[@baloojeanz]

Such a moving conversation Dalen had with Paula. Tears welling in my eyes too. I'll remember this session forever.

[@Sherri1962]

Dalen you have a heart of gold. My prayers are with this mother. Love Love Love

[@BickyFaye]

When you asked her what her favorite color was, I heard a female voice say “Pink” right after you asked. I also heard the same voice say “Pink” two more times. My heart goes out to her momma. I think it’s too soon to get her to be contacted. I think after we pass, it takes time getting used to being back on the other side.

[@jeanhaney7484]

She was so beautiful 😢

[@Leslie19661]

Paula , my heart goes out to you. Such a tragedy. No parent should have to go through that. I pray you have a support system. Sending Prayers for you.

[@donadavis1178]

Everytime someone has passed in my family it has always rained usually the day of their burial or shortly after not only my family but friends as well. My mother used to say that's God washing their footsteps off the earth❤❤❤

[@c.rogers____]

Oh, what a beautiful young woman.Sorry for your loss. I'm sure your heart broken

[@donnajordan5920]

Paula first let me say I’m sorry for your loss. I thank you for sharing yours and your daughter Olivia’s story. I can not imagine what you have gone through. Dalen thank you as always.

[@mslediva9021]

This was very heartbreaking to watch and even though we don’t know you or Olivia personally Ms. Paula, it’s like you’re family. You said that she didn’t want to be buried so maybe being at a cemetery wasn’t the right choice. Maybe you should’ve been in her room or at a place she loved to see if you could get a response. I understand you don’t want us all on your personal space so I get the choice of a resting place. However, I’m feeling that she wants her way for once. Have Dalen to come again and try in a place that made her smile. She needs a reason to smile and I think that may be it. I hope that you get the closure that you’re seeking someday soon. Pray daily for the strength to endure this loss. Asking God for the strength to endure after I loss my mom got me through so much more than her passing. God bless 🙏🏾💜🙏🏾

[@jeanhaney7484]

She is at peace now as a mom to a wonderful mom God bless you ❤❤❤

[@judygeno8761]

You were so kind to the mother.

[@tarafralick]

Beautiful shift. Love to Olivia's Mom.❤❤❤

[@bekyl7761]

Ms Paula is speaking 110% truth about Mental illness & sress.

[@brookemoonier2902]

I wish I could’ve been her friend. She is beautiful. I am sorry for your loss.

[@cathywnukoski5843]

I was so taken by the beauty of her daughter. What a beautiful young lady. Not just saying that cuz we both have beautiful purple hair either!

[@WickedWest512]

My neighbor and friend killed himself, and the day of his funeral, we captured his voice on a recorder. He was a strong presence in life and even stronger in death. He didn't believe in anything after death. Dead was dead. Did not know this till funeral he was raised Catholic. We believe that when he died and realized there was life after death, he freaked out and was afraid to cross over. This was very obvious with what we captured on recordings. I was a believer, but the experience he gave us i became obsessed with.recording, and the things we recorded made me rethink what happens when we die.

[@shanikaneal6038]

What kind of recording? Like a voice recorder that you went back to listen too and heard him? And was he able to communicate how and where he was or where the spirit goes when we die? I just have so many questions because I know some cultures believe in reincarnation, if that was the case then we wouldn’t be able to communicate with them anymore in the spirit realm because they’re reborn inside someone else.

[@seren8991]

Dalen Sloan Bella lost a son in an accident. She could not feel him or connect with him. It took some time for her to connect with him. She mentioned they have to adjust and understand things. I don't know just what she said.

[@moniquesewell2670]

She got to the scene within minutes and saw his soul leave his body.

[@joyspettigue2855]

I watch her too ,love her 🇬🇧⭐️❤️👍

[@janisintlehouse9202]

I’m looking forward to this shift! But Dalen, the body is just a vessel. Cremated or buried, your soul still leaves for the great beyond. Just like your car 😊 you get in and drive away. Then you’re home and you get out of the car. Have a great day fellow (yes, I said “fellow” - guys and girls!) shifters!!

[@SherryJohnson28171]

I read that after each cremation the chamber is thoroughly cleaned by at least 2 attendants. it is a long process to remove any and all residue of a persons ashes before another person can be cremated. it is then inspected by whom ever is in charge and if the job isn't done to their satisfaction the attendants are told to clean more thoroughly until its completely clean. this ensures there is no cross contamination between cremations.

[@karenyouger9317]

I get the sense she is struggling with her feelings still. She loves her mom so much, but she left and is still grieving her life and being away from her. So very sad. Olivia, rest in peace...

[@jodeming5088]

Paula, I am sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@leonettekoen3265]

Oh Paula to clean up yourself, what a mother.❤❤❤😢

[@sophiaatkins6210]

Dalen that was a very emotional session. She was brave to be able to talk about her daughter’s story.

[@BooLadybeautycare]

U never know what anyone goes through Baby girl is gorgeous N mama u strong Praying for u

[@anisassquad7814]

Dalen is such a sweetheart.. it’s harder when the video is about a shifter as well..

[@DalenLSpratt]

Right…😢

[@TammyParker-rc9wy]

It's truly Sad that coworkers can be so cruel to people that they drove her to take her Own Life 😢😢

[@leonettekoen3265]

Hi Dalen en Paula. Sorry for your loss. Rip lovely daughter. My brother died after his 6th attempt. His twin brother was murdered. Both mental problems. Mom is with me she is Alzheimer patient.❤❤❤❤

[@marthabivins7876]

I connect with my husband for 37 years when he passed away he came right home to me and anything he told me wen I was woke or sleeping wasn't wrong also I was born a seer pastors have had profits in there church would see me and say God talks to you no man or woman can profits over you for he and the angels in heaven speaks to you

[@nancythomas2193]

There is a lot that happens that doesn't fall within the belief system of main stream religions. They are the ones who will be surprised the most when they cross over. Kind regards

[@LoveeMee1111]

Wow 🥺 she passed away on my birthday 😩 my heart goes out to her mom ! I hope eventually she’ll get the answers and closure she’s looking for

[@Tina-l3h]

Dalen, my beautiful mum, passed away a few months ago A couple of months later, josh and kelsey spoke to her twice now.. My mum is also cremated to.. She's in my room, and some of her ashes is in a necklace too..

[@Erica-wy8zx]

Depression is debilitating especially on the really bad days. It’s not just a sadness. I have been dealing with it for over 30 years. I only speak of it now because of the anonymity I am able to have here. I also am finally in a stable place because of certain people who recognized the signs that I didn’t even know I was putting out. My heart breaks for Olivia and her family. I hope some sort of peace comes to all of them.

[@MaryGold-zx6jn]

❤😢 a beautiful ❤️ daughter

[@leslieallen6296]

My dad was cremated and we have his big bone pieces. He died from Parkinson's and Dementia. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@icemaidenxxxx]

I will never understand people’s cruelty. Olivia was such a beautiful young lady, heaven has gained another beautiful rose🌹. Dalen, you’re so right when you said anyone that hasn’t experienced depression will never understand what it’s like and what it does. I won’t bore you with a long story, but personally I know exactly what it’s like. On a little lighter note, I absolutely cracked up when you said “Yo Momma held you up like you were a trophy” 🤣. Dalen I only discovered your channel recently which I wish I had of found it from the beginning, but I am thoroughly enjoying your content and I think you are a beautiful person. Hope you visit our resting communities here in Ireland one day soon. ((Big Hugs)) from Dublin ❤️

[@joanrehmhathaway2780]

Lost my forever 22-year-old son to suicide back in March 30, 2014. He left behind two small children and wife. His children were 5 1/2 and 6 1/2. I never forget that day and five years later I lost my husband to depression because of the loss of our son.

[@Leslie19661]

Sending Prayers for you and your family. Especially your sons children.

[@momofcdbl]

💔💔

[@N.t.-0800]

That's really tough to read even ,sorry for you having to go through this.😢

[@judyjackson639]

I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family. 🙏🙏🙏

[@Blaackcula]

For the people going thru anything, Big Mama always told me. " If you're going thru Hell... Keep Going" I think both Mother & Daughter needed this 🙏

[@katpowell961]

Paula, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. I lost my little brother for basically the same reasons; love, a broken heart and depression. And like Olivia, he just was so tired. I understand completely how devastating depression is. My entire life I have suffered from depression. Please reach out to me if you should ever need to talk. I would be honored to be there for you if you should need to someone to listen. I never thought I would live to be 30 but I will be 68 soon and I have plenty of time on my hands. Take care of yourself and know you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you Dalen for being there for Paula and sharing Paula & Olivia with us. Love, Love, Love.❤

[@darkhorse8358]

And Dalen is the biggest blessing to have. Her Mum is blessed and so comforted by him.

[@angelacowperthwaite5936]

what a sweet lady so strong i cant even imagine

[@tracystutesman5866]

Such a beautiful girl. Hate here about her pain. Gotta say it was a difficult session to watch. Brought me to tears. RIP fellow shifter Olivia . 😢🙏🏼❤️

[@sweetpeaspookyBRi]

Also, try doing a session around her belongings and more electronics so she can obtain more energy :)

[@GrandMaJoySippinonSweetTea]

My 💜 is sooo broken for Paula and Olivia. 🙏 🙏 For them both. Hardest thing a parent could do is burying a child. I know😥😥

[@ashleykane4951]

My heart goes out to this mom. I agree when something happens to your child you know it immediately. I hope and pray hear from her soon. How much will warm your heart!

[@cas4014]

I agree. The soul leaves the body. Cremation should not matter. I think she came through on the SB. Suicide, depression is all just so hard to understand 💔 😪 Mum Pauline, your daughter Olivia was beautiful❤. Such beautiful pictures you have of her. May God keep you safe and God bless Olivia. May she rest in peace and love. Thank you Dalen. You are a true good soul.❤

[@LOrealMonet]

God bless this momma ❤❤❤ you can tell she really just needed to talk . Love & blessings to everyone watching ❤❤❤

[@shawnhainline5749]

My son passed away in 2017 and we cremated him. He came through about 6 months after. My friend, who is a true blue medium, was with me and she was on target with everything, shared things only he and I knew. My father had come through also and she described him to a T, even called me by his personal pet name for me. She states that spirits usually have an "orientation" period of about a year then they come through but only if they have a message to give. My heart goes out to you Paula. Liv will come through in time.

[@kimdavis4951]

I always call cemeteries God’s Garden… We are his Flowers in His garden… Sorry for ur loss I’m sending prayers and love to ur family… 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜💜

[@fogums]

Rest in peace Olivia. God bless you ❤️

[@Winter-blues]

🙏🙏🙏 This was so sweet Dalen. Thank you for helping her. I know the pain. I lost my Mother this same way. She was only 49 year’s old. It was in 2018. She left My little Brother and I. Along w/ her 3 Grand babies who she loved more than anything. But the pain of her Mental Health issues and her Lupus was too much. She gave up. I was taking care of our Father and getting him to Chemo & Radiation every day for Throat Cancer the same exact time. I had to plan the Memorial & buy the urn all of it. Thank God for my Husband& family and friends. I wasn’t thinking just doing. I was a lost Daughter trying to do the best for my Mom. God bless you & Olivia. 🙏💕

[@marycoleman9273]

God bless you sweet Daylan. I had to cremate my mother and it broke my heart. But I know she is alive in another realm. And I believe in what you do. For giving the dead A voice from that realm!!!❤❤❤