GRWM While I Look Like SHIT - Bethenny Frankel Experiencing POTS Shares Beauty Influencer Truths

[@jblack212]

What looks good is a woman making memories with her child and setting an example that it might not be a perfect day but doesn’t mean that there can’t be good moments of it!

[@beautifulandbold7117]

Yesss!❤️💛✨️

[@kimberleyhanlon1492]

So well said

[@dbow3576]

Exactly! We are all with you on this journey. Much love!

[@CherylBerryl]

So well said! It's taking lemons, & making lemonade!

[@PetraLilith675]

What she shared though is everyone’s fears especially when we have younger kids that rely on us.

[@amyjoley950]

Autoimmune illness is hell on the bad days! Bless you for bringing awareness to it and hopefully decreasing the stigma. Stay strong and keep making wonderful memories with your baby girl. She won't remember what you looked like. She will remember how it felt to spend precious moments with her mom!

[@ericaswanberg8641]

Hi Bethany I love watching you on KZbin cuz you are someone like me who's the straight shooter. You're also someone like me who suffers from an autoimmune disorder that people like my don't believe how debilitating there. And I hate when people say get better soon they should say I hope you go into remission soon. I'm 47 I never had a child. And now I cannot because of the medication I need to take. I also want to tell you I look up to I'm a fan I started watching housewives from beginning and I remember you and the grocery store nobody wanted to take your cookies... And whoever says no to a cookie I don't want to know them. Sincerely, Erica

[@ericaswanberg8641]

Oh my God I had my legs swell up where acuna me get my own shoes on I had to wear my mom's size 9 and I'm a size 7 I'm a small woman myself I have a thank God I have a rockstar doctor and he put me on 60 mg of prednisone u probably see the best doctors. Tell someone sometimes prednisone can actually inhibit. Our bodies are haywire and people don't have autoimmune disorders don't understand

[@Megan-uo7dq]

Your beautiful in so many ways, and I have looked up to you for years.

[@tracyjohnson5023]

@@ericaswanberg8641 As someone with systemic lupus for 18 years, be VERY careful about prednisone. It's a miracle drug in the short term, finds inflammation and zaps it. BUT was never intended for long term use at high doses. 60mg a day is high. I've been on much higher IV doses of it and daily oral. Gained 100 pounds lol. I've lost 50 of it slowly over 5 years off prednisone. I won't take it now unless doc says I'll die if I don't. But it starts causing fluid retention, crumbling bones and adrenal shut down. The safe daily dose is up to 5mg with minimal risk. Idk what disease you have, but most autoimmune have better drugs than prednisone now although there's always a caveat. I can deal with the daily pain better than I can the debilitating fatigue UGH

[@phillyjilly]

Im Ana positive 1.160 and still dont know if its that w sjogrens antibodies causing my muscle weakness! 2yrs and no flares, its all the time. Seen 3 rhums 1 neurologist. 🙏🙏

[@10beachbum22]

I have several autoimmune diseases and it is refreshing to see you speak out about POTS disease. Your daughter being your focus of worries is sad, but doing things with her is obviously a priority-something that is very admirable. Prayers and love to you!

[@susanwest2522]

I hope you are feeling better. You are my favorite "influencer"! I'm a senior on fixed income and your drugstore tips are all good! Thank you for being so authentic! I look forward to all your posts!❤

[@susanwest2522]

@genevievelynn Hi Genevieve! I'm sorry I'm late claiming my prize? I'm going to have my daughter help me do this. How do I text TELEGRAM to you?

[@mustafak1222]

Susan it is probably a scam

[@susanwest2522]

@@mustafak1222 Yes, I think you're probably right! Thank you for your input! I was skeptical when the word "prize" was used!🤔

[@mustafak1222]

@@susanwest2522 no worries and take care on the Internet. Much love

[@donnaboyer182]

You are a trooper. I respect your judgments. I’m on a fixed income. Lost my honey at 50. I’m now 70 and I pay attention to all of your drugstore suggestions. P.S. Take care of you. Hugs and well wishes.🙏🥰

[@maxinebaskerville6020]

NOT a disaster, you are a warrior! Praying some amazing Doctor watches this and comes to your aide. Praying some amazing Dr comes up with a cure.... praying for YOU Bethenny.

[@davisholman8149]

She is wonderful for being open & helpful to typical women. ✌🏼😎🏞

[@sunshinecindy570]

Thank you for talking about your autoimmune disease. I suffer from fibromyalgia, and it’s awful. So many people don’t understand autoimmune diseases. I’m glad to see you here on KZbin. I had to delete TikTok because I wasted so much time scrolling on it. Thank you for always being so REAL! 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼💐

[@johnene]

Remember when they wouldn't even acknowledge that fibro was a thing? I'm happy to hear that's not your experience. 💜

[@modsquad3068]

I'm still praying. I know how being scared can be. Every day I'm scared. I have CLL cancer. So please keep putting ur foot forward. My God will help you. I love your videos. It makes me smile every day. Thank you. You are my idol.

[@catherineclaire7429]

Hearing you speak about wanting to be healthy for your daughter reminded me of my mother. ❤

[@modsquad3068]

You will be ok Bethany, God is with you. I will pray for you every day 🙏 ❤️

[@Highvibesgirl]

I admire your authenticity. You don’t need a filter.❤️👏

[@kristinagerson9831]

I appreciate the honesty & your humor. You’re amazing and beautiful ❤

[@barbraluce5706]

Empathy with POTS, an after effect of Covid. Making memories with our loved ones is so vital. Those who love us don't care what we look like.

[@mp5249]

Ivermectin and carnivore diet. Try it

[@triciacarroll9810]

Dear God, you're a breath of fresh air!! Thank you for being so transparent, you're stunning inside and out!!

[@bailey6880]

You are incredibly beautiful on both the inside and out. I love your candidness and realness. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[@terrestrialradio]

Please - she never was beautiful. Delusional thinking doesn't help anyone. Reality bites.

[@mariahcasserly5977]

As always so truthful, vulnerable and funny as hell at the same time. Don’t ever stop your sarcastic one liners….be well and all the best with your health.

[@talklikeahick2u877]

Very sorry you are dealing with an autoimmune disorder. It must be hell on the bad days. I don’t have your issue but anytime I go to higher elevations I swell like I’m 9mos pregnant and can’t fit in my shoes. So I can’t imagine what you have to go through. I do understand living for your child. At 47 I got custody of my 2yo grandson. He’s 12 now. I want to be with him for every milestone in his life. He’s my sweet boy. He deserves the best. BeStrong Bethenny!

[@maryholt2108]

My husband had POTS post COVID. It was such a struggle for him, the fatigue, dizziness, heart palpitations. Please hang in there, his did go away. 💕

[@meghanodonoghue9066]

I have POTS, fibromyalgia, and dysautonomia. I just want to send you a big hug. It is not our fault, and it builds a level of character that no one else can understand.

[@saraharndts]

Thank you for being real with us

[@kathy12238]

Oh Bethany, I feel you. I had my son 3 months before I turned 40. He was literally my 39th birthday surprise. Take it one day at a time and lean on the Lord! You have this

[@DaniHMcV]

Sh*t, I struggle with POTS (and Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome too) and it really is a beast, like you said. I can deal with the pain from EDS, I have good pain management but POTS is like a bulldozer just pushing it’s way through your life and destroying everything in its path. It lands me in bed more and more and I’m losing hope. I want to be better for my kids too. So glad you shared this.

[@loribillings3810]

Thank you for being so real.

[@italishgirl5601]

You’ve done so much good for so many people in horrible disasters all over the world! You given your time, expertise, and money…. I absolutely know that the universe, God, whatever your beliefs are , will heal you and protect you because you ‘ve done so much good for so many unselfishly. Sending prayers🙏

[@tapuworld]

We are the same age and I have an autoimmune disease too. I relate to being frustrated when you do sooo much to be healthy and it can feel like a losing battle. Most days I dont even recognize the woman in the mirror but oh well. Thank you for your honesty, you are my friend in my head! You are there for your kid today; Today is all we have.🌻

[@fergalwergal]

It’s not a disaster Beth, you’re a bloody inspiration Xx

[@emmaj4025]

You are an amazing lady and mother and a super duper role model to your daughter, I'm just being investigated for pott's after over a year of feeling pretty awful and I'm a single mum to two boys with additional needs and I just want to feel normal again so I can sympathise with your battle sending huge hugs to you you are amazing 👏 💖 💪🥰

[@stacyhachtel429]

You are real, genuine and honest. You glow with integrity. I admire you!

[@pamavery9352]

Bethanny, thank you for always being real and honest and true, a very admirable quality!! Not seen in many celebrities!! Take care of yourself, an RN who’s your greatest fan!

[@pamelabrown9484]

I love how real and true to yourself you are! GOD will carry you and your family through this.🙏♥️

[@jenniferbrown9830]

I love and appreciate your realness, sorry you’re struggling with this auto immune disease. You are a strong and beautiful 💙

[@nenagarcia4819]

I have been watching your "shorts" on YT BUT this video got me to subscribe. Thank you for your honesty.

[@jazzwithwings]

Betthany you are such a true no BS person. Iam truly addictive to all your vidios. They have alot of good information and make me laugh. 😅 I had a child as an older adult too. You will be great! It will work out just have faith.

[@Phoenixrises89]

You are stronger than what you think Bethany… keep strong, you will overcome this… ❤❤❤

[@kellycrowe3417]

Bethenny, I just love you! You are such a refreshingly real, good, honest person and you say it like it is. We all have shitty days. I'm 52, in menopause, have meno belly😢 had both hips replaced last year and now having spinal fusion this summer BUT I thank God I wake up every day, stay positive, stay active because someone always has it worse than you. You look beautiful, swollen face or not. Stay positive girl, we are all in it together!

[@lovevivi2945]

Your honesty is so refreshing. I hope you feel better soon. You are a warrior not a worrier and you will get through this. Watched you since the very first series of housewives and your determination, humour, honesty and beauty are as strong x

[@sontzi]

You look beautiful, Bethenny! Thank you for keeping it real for us. We really appreciate it. I know it is an exhausting syndrome and I am so sorry. Praying for your healing and strength ❤

[@JenniferWhisman-i7h]

As a fellow POTSie, I totally felt every bit of this intro. I have the exact same thoughts and feelings when I flare up and you just feel so defeated. I also have an only and I worry about how to show up for him when I can barely function. I promise it does get easier and you’ll learn all the tricks of the trade over time that makes life a little more manageable. Also, I firmly believe that the same way autoimmune stuff gets triggered to turn “on” the same can happen to make it turn “off”. It will just take some time to figure out what that is. Probably a bit different for everyone, but don’t give up hope!

[@cathygiuliana9089]

So sorry you have to go through this Bethany! I’m praying for you that you will live a long, healthy life and watch your little girl grow into a fabulous woman just like her Mom! You bring so much to UTube with your videos! You are so relatable and down to earth and I look forward everyday to watching you! I suffer from fibromyalgia and depression and have more bad days than good but I can count on your videos to always make me smile! God bless you and your little girl!

[@cathygiuliana9089]

Bethany I’m watching this again one month later and I just want to say from my heart that I think you look beautiful! A mother’s love for her child/children gives her a radiant glow, no makeup needed, from the moment of conception, we own it! Girl, you got it! Heaven let your light shine on us mothers and caregivers wherever we are! Early Happy Mother’s Day!❤️✨👩‍👧✨❤️✨

[@wendybinderow2273]

New follower. I love how honest and real you are.....maybe its a New York thing~but I appreciate you. Keep fighting against POTS~I can tell you have a lot of fight in you.

[@pathenry7339]

Your honesty is so refreshing. As "they say" beauty is only skin deep. Your heart is what shines through. You are beautiful!

[@meowcenary21]

Ty for being real about autoimmune stuff and showing the beauty of being real.

[@walpurgisnight7]

I didn't follow Bethenny for years after her departure from Housewives, but DAMN I should have. Finding your channel recently has been so comforting. Nothing but love.

[@DonnaGM49-]

You're beautiful Bethenny inside and out because of the soul you are! You will live a long life and see your daughter grow into a beautiful woman just like her mother. Try to find someone who does Chinese Tui Na massage treatments. I have Fibromyalgia. An autoimmune disease that causes the body to be constantly achy. I gave birth to a daughter when I was 37. She's a grown beautiful woman. I've worked, sometimes 2 jobs, just have to know when it's time to stop pushing and rest. You know that point I'm sure. God bless you 💖

[@rikkirobinson4429]

I was going thru that too after Covid… I have to drink so much water… take vitamins, eating better, etc… I started taking 12 cell salts and iron too… life changing for me.

[@lolacookie453]

Can you please recommend the 12 cell salts never heard of that.

[@lynnrichardson610]

Making wonderful memories with your daughter will be something she will always remember. Thank you for always being so authentic. Prayers and love to you!

[@RavenWolfe07]

I have been a fan since the beginning seeing you on TV.! I love your absolute honesty.! 💜💜. As tuff as it some days stay strong. Cheers for better healthy days a head.!!!❤

[@PetraLilith675]

I hate how critical she is of herself now. Having chronic health issues, it’s really draining, depressing and isolating, so to hear her share her feelings makes all those who also suffer ongoing chronic health issues is refreshing. Obviously we wish it on no one, but millions of us struggle and also have fears she has. It’s a rough road and all you can do is take one day at a time, even one minute at a time when need be. We are so much stronger than we think we are.

[@atlanticmermaid7996]

We all love you Bethenny, May god bless and keep you healthy and safe.And Brin.

[@cinachandler6097]

I pray for your strength, healing and most of all peace. 🙏🏻

[@kathyandollieify]

Dear Bethany, I do automatic writing and I always received the word “Trust”. Trust you will be healthy for your daughter and you will be. ❤

[@kristen7810]

Oh I just love you to pieces. I feel the same way about my daughter, live for her and God keep me healthy for her. This is a tough moment, and praying that it passes soon and you feel more yourself. Thank you for showing it all, mentioning it all, in all the moments, and in all the ways ways❤

[@justjulia8007]

Girl I feel you. Thanks for being so REAL. We appreciate you and I’ve grown to really adore your personality; laugh through the pain sweetheart. You’re awesome ♥️

[@madcrazymom]

My 20-year-old has POTS, too. My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing what real women look like getting ready! No filters, no special lighting, and let’s go! I love it!

[@CS-yz2qk]

God bless you for having the courage to show part of your authentic self. Not an easy thing for a woman to do considering how judgemental and cruel this platform can be. Very attractive behavior..........indeed!

[@michele650]

Your beauty shines inside and out and your brutal honesty deserves respect as well as thanks. The shitty days help remind us that we are not weak and we will not be defeated.......we can feel exhausted, frustrated, broken, that's ok, we get caught up in this crazy thing called life but we get back and find strength in knowing it will not Break us. Sending love and prayers and many more wonderful memories still to come. Peace

[@Intergalactic.Defender]

Bethany, thank you for being authentic. I live near Aspen and have been experiencing the same thing. ❤

[@Hava_Hadi]

I have a similar condition of symptoms. I have autoimmune vasculitis and the symptoms are similar. We are same age and have had difficulty post severe Covid. I have faith in you. Believe in yourself and be prepared to make the best out of whatever day you awaken to find. It’s not easy and few understand. I don’t fly anywhere anymore due to multiple PE’s. I travel at my pace in my big RV. I have 3 boys 19-27. Boys are very protective and my biggest support system. Bryn will soon be older and that will blossom a supportive friendship. Peace to you friend.

[@joanmetz4101]

You know what?! You are absolutely more beautiful because you are real! I am so tired of people using filters, etc. no one can live up to that! Let’s set a good example for the impressionable that may be watching. ….. thank you for being you ❤️. Wishing you good health and most of all….thank you! You are an amazing role model- especially for your daughter

[@JadyLady]

I also am fighting… thank you for making me laugh and being real and vulnerable… adorbs! Your brilliant and beautiful 💜❣️❣️💜

[@myrnabragg9313]

Thank you so much for your openness and honesty. 💞💞 I am a grandma “Mimi” of 6 grandchildren from ages 1 to 21. My immune system is compromised due to digestive problems chronic. Some days I barely have energy to stay awake but my love and determination to watch my grand babies grow is powerful. You, Ms Bethany inspire me. I love all you short videos and whatever pops up. Thank you for helping those of us that are on limited income to know how to look and feel just as beautiful as all the glamorous people we see. It makes me feel better. Love to you and keep it coming 🙏🙏🙏💞☮️

[@lisanapier3889]

❤❤❤❤❤ you look absolutely beautiful! Praying you find effective treatments 🙏 😊 thank you for being such a warrior and your bravery helps so many around the world. You are so very much loved!

[@hipretty]

I have autoimmune disorders Bethenny and I can appreciate the fears of wanting to be there for your daughter. No matter how much I take care of myself...there are always those days! Sending love & understanding! 😍❤😘

[@merilopez8967]

I like this Bethenny so real. This is how I originally knew you. Praying for your health.

[@maryclebeau]

You’re a great mom! And so so brave. You don’t know how much your viewers appreciate the real person that you are. ❤❤❤😊

[@sharonhruby2707]

You're beautiful! Love and appreciate your honesty❤️ Thanks for sharing! Hope you get to feeling better soon⚘️

[@maddynavarro77]

Loved you from the jump Bethenny! You're in my prayers.. I know exactly how you're feeling. Stay strong beautiful.🙏🏽❤️❤️

[@maryelinormays7286]

You are awesome!! Love this sight and all the drugstore recommendations!! Love your honesty, soo tired of focus on so called perfect people.. there is no such thing.. I love real people and real truth, you. Rock girl❤️

[@traceyanndunham349]

Thank you for being real with us and I have been battling an auto immune disease for 23 years and it sucks. I have been in bed for five weeks now and I’m in pain every day. Nothing helps me. I’m only 50 years old. I got diagnosed at 27. I will pray for you my friend .Blessings

[@leonaneedham6556]

You will get thru this and you will be there for your daughter. You are all ready strong by sharing your face and story here. Start a journal to record your good days and bad. This may help to identify triggers. Weather change, altitude change, a cold, post COVID ? I am sure that many can relate to stress. There is another beauty influencer I watch who has the same. I wish you well, you are not alone in this, even though you think you are. Sending you gentle hugs and hope for better days.

[@lindaallen5616]

I love that she does this .

[@evaschutt7856]

Praying 🙏 for you ! Thank you for being so real ! warrior woman you are !

[@annasisk9861]

You are such a breath of fresh air...your frankness and funniness. you are gorgeous looking too and your personality is shinning through also, thanks for all the tips on the drug store brands, I went out and got a few after watching your videos and you are absolutely 100% correct about all of the products. thank you again for all your hard work and...honesty the showing us your real personality which is lovely. Love your videos. Big hug from Ireland. Anna.

[@ausflygirl3430]

Ms B, I'm so sorry you're ailing. Hugs to you. Your honesty and openness has probably helped many. Best Mom.

[@belindatrevino7960]

Being healthy and being there for your daughter, is all that matters you’re still a beautiful soul on the outside and the inside❤

[@MiaK06]

Came across as dealing with various medical struggles. Gotta tell you / you are a true Godsend. The concept of just keeping it real is sorely lacking nowadays. And seeing you get teary eyed over just wanting to be healthy for your daughter brings tears to anyone's eyes with just an ounce of compassion. Thanks for all you do.

[@blueRosesforme]

You look great! That ice cold washcloth trick is what I want to try in the morning. Your desire and inner strength is what will pull you through. I hope you are better now. You can see all our messages of love for you! Bless you and your daughter!

[@EmiliaLydia]

love you bethenny. I feel you re: being healthy for bryn. praying for you.

[@denisecharlton8040]

Stay strong hunny!You’ve got this!!. ❤

[@QuietMindsIntrovertChannel]

Love you Bethany and I know dehydration does really suck! So sorry… you are amazing and you are the most wonderful wonderful mom! Your daughter is so lucky to have you!!!!!!!!!❤ you will always be there for her and she will always. Love you!❤️🙏🏼

[@juliefranc7443]

Being authentic, transparent and vulnerable is beautiful. Thank you for showing your real, unfiltered face that looks like many of ours..............GORGEOUS! God Bless.

[@Dymphna06]

My son has POTS! He has a genetic mutation that caused small fiber neuropathy. I also have dysautonomia and Hemiplegic migraines and I feel guilty all the time that I can’t take my kids on lots of vacations etc and that I feel sick often. I push through it and do the best I can . Good luck to you!

[@debranicholson9223]

God bless you! You are a wonderful mother🥰

[@pattirauth9369]

Bethany , you are amazing to show what you are dealing with. I wish you nothing but better health and happiness to continue living your best life for you and Brin.

[@DanielFrohlich43]

SHE IS AMAZING SO REAL LOOOOOOVE HER!

[@jlkitz1775]

Just TRYING is all any of us can do. Walk OUR path! Strength, healing, comfort & peace to you ❤️🙏🏾

[@patriciagoodwin1922]

I'm sending so many well wishes and hugs. I feel ya on the after affects from Covid, dealing with more pain in my original injury area, the spinal area. You inspire me Bethenny, thank you for all you do! You're making a difference 🙏❤ ☀☀☀☀☀

[@shirleyscott1333]

Hey Bethany my heart went out to you I have autoimmune shit I deal with and it has effected my life I am so proud of you for being honest and showing the real deal I know this is hard but we are more than our looks . And you are a real human being I’m so sick of people not showing there real self no one is perfect . I had to go into early menopause when I was only 42 . A complete hystorectomy my looks have suffered I can’t take hormones I always had beautiful skin and looked young boy did I see a change I’m 57 now and sometimes I look in the mirror and cry . But I’m alive and there’s more to life than looks . People are so fake with all the filters it’s disgusting . So my prayers are with you and your daughter you keep being you honest and real and if people have a problem with it they can go to hell lol

[@maureeni2648]

Just subscribed to your channel.. thank you for being REAL!!! As a woman who is 50 plus, looking in the mirror isn’t always easy.. but I appreciate your honesty and realness!! God bless you and your daughter! Looking forward to more videos

[@ShaniTheBurningTree]

Aww honey, I felt just as you did when you talked about being there for your daughter. I was completely disabled by a bunch of illnesses and I prayed and prayed just to play with her outside. This wAs 2020, now 2023 I’m a bodybuilder, I take the bus and walk where I need to go, and I have more energy than most kids half my age (43) and my prayers have been answered and more. I still have some down days but it’s like maybe 2% of the time. I love your authenticity.

[@huskymom9889]

Love that you share your struggles because this is real life. You still look beautiful even though you may not feel it right now. You will get through this, so hang in there!❤️

[@minnauyeda8002]

I’m sorry you deal with this hardship. My daughter also has severe POTs. Going to Colorado wasn’t bad but she had reverse altitude disease and she was sick for days. POTs is no joke and it’s not just about blood pressure, some of the most painful conditions are attributed to POTs, such as Interstitial Cystitis, horrid problems. Blessings to you .

[@hoptoi]

I hope you’re feeling better! You were always my favorite of all the housewives in all of the franchises! Wishing you the best ! ❤️

[@karenmarwil3905]

I know that when we don’t feel like we look out best, we are still beautiful. The flaws and imperfection I feel is what makes us so beautiful. Bethany, your gorgeous either way and I am sending you much love and healing on this health journey ❤

[@CC-kr3mr]

Sending you love and many thanks Bethany. Thank you for being so real. I’ve had enough of influencers making me feel like I’m not enough.

[@c-iloveyou729]

I love you Bethenny, I will be praying for you. Stay strong and beautiful inside and out.

[@markmasterson4811]

You are a delight in your approach in every video, hope you are lifted by the support we send you. Go well and be well.

[@janetstalb6143]

I will pray for your healing…you did a wonderful job on your makeup….it looks great!!!!

[@twinietwin]

"Swollen like an animal" 😀 Who doesn't love this women!

[@jamiebourgault4481]

Your healthy Bethany I have MS and it scared the shit out of me my kids were young I was diagnosed at 29 I'm now 61 on no medicine thank God have been but not now keep active have a good out look and am INCREDIBLY LUCKY....you are an angel to all keep up feeling thankful.....love you!!!

[@aqhasassy]

You are a treasure. 🌺 I’m so sorry abt your struggle w POTS. Covid did a number on many of us, at 68, always healthy, 3 mo after had Covid diagnosed w Myasthenia Gravis (MG). Can be fatal, worsen, no cure, all that. I have a great neuro, I don’t dwell on it, thankful for ea day. I have to be cautious. Stress, a car wreck, excessive heat, a hot shower, sickness, surgery, antibiotics, medications can worsen it. Still, feeling bad. you look wonderful! Love your channel, your honesty. Fan in Georgia

[@GenXer333]

I'm in the process of being diagnosed with this. It's been a vicious rollercoaster ride of trying to figure out wth I've been feeling so horrible for the past 3 years. Doctors have been clueless, and instead of taking the time to not leave any rock unturned, or sending me to someone who IS well trained in this, I get too tired to even continue fighting for appointments, referrals, etc. So, I completely understand what you're going through. I will have good days, do something for a few hours one day, then have to recuperate for 3-4 days. My house is a disaster and I feel lazy, although I've never been a lazy person. I've been a single parent to 2 amazing kids who have special needs (now adults I still care for), so I'm used to burning the candle from both ends. Trying to be a better friend to ourselves is all we can do. And make the most of our good (and bad) days. Also hoping and praying we can all get some answers and solutions to healing. Wishing you all the best. ❤

[@GenXer333]

Bethenny, I missed the first part of this where you're speaking of your fears. I'm afraid of the same thing because of my kids. They're young adults now, but they need me. I understand how that can be the hardest part of it all at times, because us mom's worry so much. From one mama who's struggling with multiple autoimmune disorders/health issues, to another, I want you to know you are not alone. Sending you prayers for healing and better and brighter days ahead. 💕 And remember, even days when the best you can do is lay around, you are still making memories with Bryn just by spending time together. Your heart to hers, and vice versa. 💞 And laughter doesn't require anything physical, so laugh often. God bless.

[@kathy9399]

I've been crying off and on all day for similar reasons. I'm helping my 24 year old son move into his first home and instead of helping I can barely walk today, I too had my son late in life, I'll be 66 in a few days. It sucks when you have an "invisible" illness and of course i don't want to complain or let my son know how bad I'm feeling, so I've been helping but spending lots of time excusing myself to use the bathroom. I always say, tomorrow's another day and it will be better! Here's hoping that both of us feel better tomorrow 🤞 Ps. Just when I'm feeling alone this video pops up, thank God.