Guilt Trips & Gross Guys | Hot Mess with Alix Earle

[@jayjay_7127]

Alix is so older sister coded😭😭 Ashtin uses he/him Alix: “JOHN😏”

[@stevielogsdon9228]

I’m 30 years old and wish I had this when I was younger. You both are “cool girls” so to speak and young girls knowing you went through this, and still do, goes a lot further than you may think. Especially for young girls who look up to you. Male validation is, unfortunately, something a lot of us have sought out at one time or another. Pointing out that the boys who get mad at “no” are actually the losers is so important! Thank you for talking about this.

[@alexiajohnston2042]

This weeks podcast is so beyond relatable it’s unreal

[@melissaperez7480]

I love Ashtin and i love the dynamic between the two of you

[@jsunshinej]

now this is a girls girl podcast i can appreciate. keep it fun but also keep it real and send the RIGHT message to so many girls who need to hear it. cancelled pod who?

[@shayliana]

This is such a validating episode. Thank you for speaking on this for young girls.

[@allycat56]

It's sad that so many of these incidents were literally assault and they're so normalized :((( thank y'all for talking about this & I so wish this wasn't a universal experience for women

[@dianamgleaton]

Alex - you were taken advantage of. I am so sorry that happened to you but sending u sooo much love and warm hugs 💛

[@serenavck5206]

Loved this! I think the blurry hook up conversation left out how alcohol makes it even hard for women to be able to stand up for themselves, we don’t talk about the risks of alcohol enough

[@annatamisiea5705]

i haven’t heard this articulated and i needed it

[@sydneywilliams453]

now this is the kind of content the girls need!!! wish this came out when I was in college 3 years ago lol

[@raw8565]

Yessssss this is so spot on. we need people to talk about this more often!!!!

[@abbivirginia]

Just recently stopped watching cancelled due to their lack of caring and I’m so glad to have found this one. Best podcast right now!

[@florenciacadenaumir239]

we don't owe them (men) anything!!!!! don't forget that girls

[@karaurbaniak5997]

This was such an important episode. One I wish I would have seen as a young teen

[@Solodolo18]

I love you so very much alix earle we definitely show how close we are alix earle thank you God for everything protecting us and bringing us justice and balance and our victory and success thank you God for everything amen amen amen 🙏 ❤

[@carolinecook695]

I really enjoyed this topic. Luckily at my high school we had someone come in and educate us on the specific SA laws in my state. I was shocked to find out if you under the influence in any way, not just roofied, you legally can’t give consent.

[@user-np8yf8fj2w]

ikr which makes sense especially if the other person is not under the influence

[@taylor6238]

Thank you Alix and Ashtin for speaking on this 🤍 perfect explanation for someone of that age and not too many woman speak about this. Love this duo

[@destinymarie6300]

I’m sending this video to my little sister when she goes away to college

[@bmck346]

This episode just healed me

[@florenciacadenaumir239]

thank you so much for bringing this up

[@hopemulholland4807]

It’s crazy that so many can relate including me. Thank you for talking about it 👏🏼 I wish I could go back to my younger self and have this talk.

[@sea-uu]

Thanks for making this girlies! So many younger girls need to hear this. I feel like so many of us were invalidated when we tried to talk to older girls because this was soooo normalized.

[@brooklyno8662]

The emotional grill cheese rant is everything 😂❤

[@Ccccccmmag098]

This is such an important episode, I wish I’d had this to listen to in college ❤

[@gwenreeder6637]

this is the best episode. you guys r going to make the best of this

[@livdaniel13]

such an important episode ❤

[@sophiaskouls6447]

Thank you so much for speaking on this

[@samkelly5176]

Okay love that u added ashtin this is a slay. But also can not compute on how yall are not together yet communicating so seamlessly 😂

[@alyssaosterdock]

I wish I had this podcast when I was in college. Thank you for bringing awareness to this

[@savvyyddd]

Alix is always so real but six grilled cheese’s is SO FUNNY to me😂😂

[@taylor6238]

One of the bestttt episodes

[@kellierose4669]

love this episode so much wow

[@wherewegosometimes]

The Wizard Liz should be on the pod

[@emmacow82]

that "college boy" behavior was normalized because she was in a sorority and around frat boys.... that is their culture. all college boys aren't like that.

[@erinbear1065]

i’m not in a sorority & boys in college act like this just out at the bars. they don’t have to be frat boys to act like this. we know not every guy is but most are.

[@LetTheSunShinnex]

Water in the microwave?????!!!!!!!!

[@binodpaudel91]

I really like your podcast i has been waiting all episode

[@xMEGANNNx0]

"I don't know why I procrastinate things and can only do things with a fire under my ass" its ADHD girlie welcome to the club!!! (and packing for a trip is in the top 3 hardest tasks for an ADHD brain IMO)

[@cheyennepaner6563]

Sending the right message to the younger generation 💗 real hot girl shit

[@Ariana_Navarrete]

how do they have the same background?

[@randomperson-mr6pn]

I love you guys. I really do feel like your little sister.

[@ashleighvickers1275]

Happy Thursday ❤

[@flymetothemoon9541]

Relatable 🤍

[@tomosvarijudit2291]

I thought the same ab Sphere!! Looks dangerous

[@meerarashed9220]

is this is live?

[@alyssaacchione]

ASHTIN- you were in Detroit!? omg.... I live borer city to the D. Wish I knew hahahahaha

[@alyssaacchione]

also lowkey not cool to call Ashtin out about her supposed attack, and how you uninvited her to Paris :/ kind of mean, honestly.....

[@HungKarst-b6o]

Halvorson Alley

[@najahurwits451]

I should be walking to school but priorities

[@mpaige]

i love you guys

[@alyssamaria7057]

hand on the butt happens to me toooooooo

[@epicfreakshow]

why is this soooooooooooo awkward? are they all like this?

[@VedatÇemen]

Lilla Road

[@RogerHudson-w5o]

Franecki Course

[@denarendall]

This is why you are truly my it girls. Not only are you both beautiful and cool and fun making very engaging content, but you’re using your platforms for really valuable and impactful stuff. I cannot imagine how many younger girls look up to you both, and this is gonna resonate so strongly with so many of them. Your lil sisters are lucky to have such amazing role models! 🥲🩷

[@raw8565]

That’s so true sororities are so cringe. It’s funny that some of the things they do.

[@leonardesrussel2745]

Beier Crescent

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Cory Fords

[@DorothyYoung-n5w]

Stehr Hills

[@mimistjepanovic139]

omg i feel so seen

[@JamesMcIntosh-u1l]

Blick Inlet

[@LeonCarther-z7k]

Lew Meadows

[@MartinDonald-y7z]

Dietrich Rapids

[@NyahMartins]

Since CHD has Kamala you should bring Trump on!!! ❤❤ MAGA!

[@chloesalladay6104]

Cosm LA is way better than sphere

[@DavyGenevieve-e1f]

Davin Ford

[@amaya9557]

while this sexual assault and hookup conversation is relevant - I think you guys should avoid normalizing hookup culture and wanting 'validation'. like its totally okay to not have sex at all in college. just because you're living alone for the first time doesn't mean you need to do every illicit thing your parents told you not to do. in this episode you guys should emphasize more strongly that you do NOT under ANY circumstances hookup/makeout/ or anything "to get out' of a situation. what you need to do is say no, and you don't need to say it more than once - otherwise it is assault

[@user-np8yf8fj2w]

they didn’t say you should make out with them they were just describing how situations like these can feel confusing, you feel bad saying no to a guy but you’ve already kissed him etc but the point is you’re still allowed to say no

[@amaya9557]

Ashtin literally is discussing a man sexually assaulting her and grabbing her ass and is laughing about it? like idk the energy is vert strange here like almost as though you guys are not fully understanding how fully you were taken advantage of and assaulted in this situation. its not funny at all. maybe nervous laughter but little kids might watch this

[@alydiastark4657]

It’s literally a coping mechanism. They did a great job talking about this when it’s clearly hard for both of them to talk about.

[@kaitlynlawson2232]

They are talking about their own trauma pls stop telling women how they shouldn’t and shouldn’t react to being assaulted. these girls still have to be around men all the time and “party” for their jobs maybe they are trying to brush it off for their own sake if you don’t like it block them or how about this? Don’t let your kids on the internet idiot

[@amaya9557]

@@alydiastark4657 it’s a difficult conversation. I was just giving my feedback.

[@amaya9557]

@@kaitlynlawson2232 if we shouldn’t tell women what to do then don’t tell me what to do.

[@mystique2595]

Their message was clear in this episode. Just because people don’t go about it the way you would doesn’t mean they don’t understand what they went through.

[@aliatwy5471]

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