H.E.R. - Hard To Love (Audio)

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[@kenzoweize7034]

Congratulations HER. U made a grown man cry 😭. This song hit home so hard. Like I’m actually crying. I have more healing to do I see

[@bee1935]

Continue to do the work. It’s very rewarding in the long run, never ending but worth it

[@TYPthePYT]

Awwww now you about to make me cry 😥❤

[@bigmoney6925lilsam]

Just stay focused and learn from your mistakes big dog stay focused on your purpose

[@galacsea98]

Heal.

[@keishacobb3439]

THIS ONE!!! ❤💙💚

[@TYPthePYT]

Please take it from me...if you have someone trying to love you, and you know you love them (Deeply, unconditionally, flaws and all)...let the old habits, insecurities and past hurt go. He told me "It's time for you to just live. Be free". Let it go folks...this kinda love is beautiful. Don't take it for granted.

[@AzuraOnDatTime_5]

I needed this

[@ChloeRaeofSunshine]

🎶"I can't expect you to fix all my issues"🎶 *Opens Psychology today and starts looking for therapists in my network* Sheesh

[@loujefe7701]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/f5Kohnish7idmsk ❌❌

[@jabulilemondlane9992]

That was the line for me

[@Go_Nkosi]

H.E.R just came and made me forget about alot of RnB artists because we haven't seen such natural talent in a while

[@angelajeter8355]

Yes...she's back to the BASICS( so to speak)..time has come around....AGAIN! Melody and Musicianship matters. I'm enjoying this cycle too.

[@brendenbroumand2332]

she will be the next JANIS JOPLIN OR THE MOVIE the rose..when u et tooo famous..this what happen...if u haven't seen the rose or janis joplin...watch it

[@angelgraham23]

H.E.R and Ella mai

[@Go_Nkosi]

@@angelgraham23 I don't even listen to Ella Mai anymore

[@markspates9013]

Girl is just so pure talented

[@arunmusic26]

“H.E.R. - Hard to Love Lyrics" [Verse 1] I’ve been so far from here Been so far from here I just hate feelin’ like this I don’t play that shit Where you been? Where you been? Oh, I’m sorry if I turn you off and on again [Pre-Chorus] But take it easy on me, baby I know that I crossed a line I’m hard to please, but baby Real love is so hard sometimes Yeah, I’m sensitive I’m sensin’ that you’re bothered I can feel the energy shift in your apartment [Chorus] Hard to love It’s hard to love, it’s hard to love It’s hard to trust you Hard to change It’s hard to change I can’t expect you to fix all my issues [Verse 2] I can’t be carryin’ on likе this All the heaviness is wеighin’ on you, baby Oh, don’t take it personal I keep on playin’ a game, yeah It’s so irrational Can’t do what happened to me to you [Pre-Chorus] So take it easy on me, baby I know that I crossed that line I’m hard to please, but baby Real love is so hard to find And I’m sensitive I know that you’re not the same person It’s not your fault that you remind me that I’m still hurtin’ [Chorus] Hard to love It’s hard to love, it’s hard to love It’s hard to trust you Hard to change It’s hard to change I can’t expect you to fix all my issues [Break] Oh Oh, oh, oh Oh, oh, oh Fix all my issues Ooh, ooh, ooh Ooh, ooh, ooh Ooh, ooh, ooh [Chorus] It’s hard to love It’s hard to love, it’s hard to love It’s hard to trust you It’s hard to change It’s hard to change I can’t expect you to fix all my issues byw I'm a singer/songwriter inspired by Lauv/Lany/Jeremy Zucker. It'll mean a lot of you check out my music and subscribe,promise you won't regret💛stay safe:)

[@BJ-ck7tu]

I got you

[@KB-by3vl]

Yeesh. Lyrics ripped out my heart.

[@henrymathews3671]

Thanks for this, and keep up with your own music, one day all your hard work will pay off ✨

[@kikimarie9896]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@emmanuelfatokifatoki2917]

thank you zeiven music for sharing the lyrics to her's song hard to love

[@ChloeRaeofSunshine]

"You remind me that I'm still hurting" Dang that's definitely the truth

[@loujefe7701]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/f5Kohnish7idmsk ❌❌

[@orchid_musiq]

Bro

[@neqj5104]

Mannn I felt part ....ugh

[@mariekelsey3282]

Yeah I'm there also

[@belmont2168]

“Energy Shifts”… the drag in the vocals is everything..”sultry intensity”.💛

[@Love-Angie]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ner-geeenergy2181]

I fells her when yes yeah I hear okio she makes Mai ears hurt. Except for that one song while we're Young. And I think it's just because of the lyrics not because of her voice. XOXO I fux wid H.E.R

[@TYPthePYT]

Listen...you betta tell it!🙌🏼

[@LuxLife24]

I caught that

[@JohnDeDominicano]

This song makes me want to get lost in an enchanted tropical rain forest in an unknown world. My ears get lost in her voice🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@antoinettegrappie7133]

It’s like she sang everything that you can possibly go through. H.E.R is Heaven sent ❤️🙏🏽

[@deedrabriscoe3394]

yesss. so in love with this lady.

[@latonyaransom8668]

This song makes think about relationships can be hard when you try to love yourself or someone. I'm definitely feeling this song right here... You nailed it perfectly H.E.R. 💯

[@javaungreen4448]

Especially if your single and you only want one person to

[@MsSlimchick88]

Absolutely!

[@shellquinn1662]

She put her soul in this one 😮‍💨😮‍💨🥺🥺❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@jefferyyoung9252]

2:30 absolutely took me down. as soon as that part hit, I just closed my eyes and tears just rolled down my face. Music hits different when you've been through it

[@vbee7365]

Brother I know exactly where you’re coming from

[@toocrazy4u561]

Fact it’s hit deep and hard real Deep

[@lexiharris6551]

This one put me in my feelings 😭✨

[@lorenzovanwyk3150]

True❄️

[@nevante]

Wow I feel like that about bomm

[@Latoya786]

It’s not your fault that you remind me that I’m still hurting.. deep!

[@kendrawilliams198]

She poured her heart into this song.

[@Annisha01]

When she started that groan... honey... you could feel it in in the pits of your gut. Favorite part of the song.

[@tarataylor6489]

So much

[@angelofscorpio]

her voice is so beautiful, I adore her guitar songs 🖤

[@lizzy6847]

i’m gonna cry her voice is so angelic 🥺🥺

[@loujefe7701]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/f5Kohnish7idmsk ❌❌

[@courtneybeavers2235]

Agree, it gives me the chills. ✨

[@CleoSolomons]

Already did 🤦🏾‍♀️😭

[@desirreejackson3097]

I did, this was beautiful

[@lizdarden3989]

This is what K.Michelle meant by country R&B it is definitely a lane for this kind of music. H.E.R does it so well

[@stadyals3244]

yup💕

[@user-pd9fe1vx3i]

Yesss

[@queenv4340]

Fr

[@jenniferhill7282]

"Can't do what happened to me to you" Coldest line in a song I've heard. literally chills went down my spine. It's been months and I'm trying. My husband probably won't bother to listen but I sent it to him anyway. Every line brings me to tears because this is where I am in my journey to forgive and attempt to move on. I was ready to walk away before listening to this on repeat. He is the one who caused the damage and I'm the one working to fix it. guess he figured his apology was his duty and no other effort is warranted on his part. Well I'm "Exhausted". (been listening to that too). I thought I was making progress but I realize I've got more healing to do. Probably best to do it on my own. Thanks H E.R. for this display of your pain and struggle. it's been like therapy for me❤️

[@anitapittman7100]

Hang in there, sis. You can do it!!! It's been a little while since you wrote your comment. I'm hoping you've reached a better place by now.

[@sekhumbuzoobviousnomaele2424]

The Break is like solidifying the plea and surrender... made me think about what I want in a relationship. The person I will fall in love with will need to be kind and gentle in expressing their love for me. 😭💜💫

[@csc6996]

This is Whatcha call BLACK GIRL MAGIC!!!!...

[@MagickCandle]

The best song on the album and I really hope she push this as a single ASAP. I can hear Toni Braxton, Sade or even Adele on a remix to this.

[@TYPthePYT]

You nailed it!

[@angelajeter8355]

I'm voting for No REMIXes ...🙄

[@MB-xc6kv]

Even Miley Cyrus

[@SickandTired95]

@@angelajeter8355 THANK YOU lol

[@kerrimarsalis5598]

When you’re torn in a relationship & just wanted the other person to get it……so you won’t leave. But they don’t & the relationship ends……..and then you see them again after months.

[@TYPthePYT]

My goodness...😥😥😥

[@TYPthePYT]

I was determined to "get it". He loves me too hard for me to stay the same

[@josuealby1073]

The accuracy 😔

[@SummerrrRayy]

This is exactly where I am. In a new relationship.

[@evangelistandreas9105]

If you see this. I'm sorry for not being able to love you the way you deserve, consistently. I miss you.. Forever and always.

[@indeliblytrending5051]

I felt this...hope whomever they are reads it and feels it too💜💛🖤

[@TYPthePYT]

That run at 3:16 got me ready to burst into tears

[@kapriciametcalf4777]

Yesssssss it was that moment at 3:16 that brought me to tears….. she’s everything and this song is too!!!!!!

[@cheryllamb9312]

This is so beautiful, the melody, the guitar is setting the mood, the vocals.🥺😩😭

[@summerroseenglish3688]

she is the reason I'm pursuing my music!

[@AmberNicoleOfficial]

Me too 😩 I’m still trying to breakout of my shyness, but she gives me motivation!!

[@lexijustasiam895]

Same!❤

[@b.u.c.k.3163]

Same

[@kanisha1366]

Whew you put words to my feelings…and that’s hard to do.

[@shoppingtheory]

H.E.R’s voice is deep. It cuts through and hit you on the right spot. Let’s keep supporting real talent like H.E.R.

[@vbee7365]

Thank you for this song , I’ve had a very hard couple of months, first I got diagnosed with severe carpal tunnel syndrome and had to have surgery . Then my God sister who was only 37 passed away along with her three kids . Then a week later my wife of 8 years just walks out on me , but I don’t hate her your words allowed me to feel pity for her . Some demons only God can handle ,but I will Always love and adore her . Be blessed

[@LaVishWon]

It's crazy how you can be conflicted when listening to love songs like this.... Beautiful...yet depressing.... About what she did to me😥....... Then again..(in a different relationship) about what I did to H.E.R.....😥.... Either way, can't stop playing it.

[@_llydsgh3826]

Dang that bridge is so smooth

[@analisejohn758]

Listened to this 100 times and cried each time💔💔💔🥺🥺

[@nikkiblackmon9912]

You know a song is powerful when you're just listening to it and don't even realize there are tears coming down your eyes. Beautiful Song!!!

[@florescentrose1305]

Man this song is so true I closed my eyes to listen to it 🤦🏽‍♀️✊🏿

[@ninan5237]

"I can't expect you to fix all my issues" 😭😭😭

[@kemaranight2456]

I ain't buy music in a minute but this album right heeeeeeere? My wallet ready ❤

[@mojowalaza]

😂🤣

[@exclusivelymade]

Listening to your sun sign put how you feel into words is something out of this world. I feel it deep within. Very misunderstood people and hard to love. Even with all the love we have to give, ironically ♋️

[@kourtlandperry1698]

3:16 HER VOICCCE!!!!THAT HIGH RIEGISTER RUN TO LOW WHILE STILL RUNNING #PERFECT

[@TYPthePYT]

I literally JUST typed this lol!! 3:16 Whoooo that took me down through there!!

[@mrs_diaz_loves_theraiders]

Damn...this one hit straight to the heart. So much passion and soul...giving me 90's R&B vibes when love music was REAL.

[@kamogeloletsoalo3725]

I am crying 😭♥️🥺

[@barbarabaldwin9036]

JUST SPEECHLESS. BEAUTIFUL

[@adrianaofficial28]

It's how this tells my whole situation rite now 😩🥺🥺🥺😭❤ I love H.E.R

[@ambercraig909]

It really does for me as well.❤️‍🩹

[@jalinebrathwaite1733]

Song is on repeat sigh.

[@travisjohnson8275]

TJ's R&B her is the essence of sexuality beauty and poise I feel like you're only singing to me that's the essence of a good song writer and singer. Well Done.......... TJ's R&B

[@rtoriq]

On one hand our egos take us to social media spaces where everyone hates everyone for the pain they caused, while on the other hand we have inner dialogue like this. Sometimes love is just out of our league. And a practice that’s becoming a foreign. Realizing love is out of your league, yet STILL something you need is a sunken place I wish none of us get stuck in.

[@mzzaquillalezama]

My favorite so far!

[@olawumiolutayo8370]

Me too

[@jalex2201]

This is plucking all the strings of my heart! Thank God for H.E.R.

[@happy_goobs8485]

This is like food to my ears and it hungers for more of her majestic and beautiful voice!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@NatoriZhane]

This song is really real life 😩

[@playerz158]

Hard To Love Someone and Somebody. I Totally Agree. It Is Hard To Love Someone and Somebody. It Is Hard To Love. I Agree With You Her.

[@samanthaelse2430]

This song made my 7 year old cry. Beautiful song deep and hard hitting for me

[@tayoles4498]

I love H.E.R!! 😩😩😩😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@naturale_appeal2790]

I can appreciate H.E.R’s music. Definitely put some thought in her music.

[@jamarcussmithmusic]

The simplicity of the guitar and instrumentation does so much for this song. Her voice here is so raw and authentic. Beautiful.

[@MichaelSpearsJr]

I'm in love with the vibe of the whole album. My only wish is to work with you one day💫💫💫💯💯💯💯💯

[@gaga437]

Whole song 🔥 but that 2:30 till it ends fireeee.

[@mila8015]

Imma cry baby! She sang to my brokenheart and soul at the same time! On replay all day..

[@MoonxPrincess]

This one really hit hard for me 🥺

[@kenndayday3773]

for me, the whole concept of this album is "moving on somebody/thing but you can't"

[@mdbrewe20]

I could listen to her voice all day she has such a raw voice 😍 you feel the emotion and energy in every song 🎵

[@Lashayslife]

Touched my soul with this one😌❤️

[@katrinarichardson7367]

Very beautiful song

[@arcie3716]

This is exactly how I feel rn

[@marydecettejanepolinar5980]

Ahhhh honestly, if the world's gonna end right now and I could only choose one artist whom I could listen to, then I'd choose H.E.R because aside from I'm a huge fan, her songs are literally the best!!! Her voice is so soothing and sounds like an angel.

[@travelqueenfriends7903]

If it’s unconditional love it will work

[@ninan5237]

This song is just raw emotions, you can FEEL it ! I keep coming back to this one and everytime its like i'm hearing it for the first time

[@MsSlimchick88]

All I Can Say Is Wow... These Lyrics With H.E.R Vocals. So Perfectly Matched. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@mariyuuuhhh]

This song speaks everything what i am feeling 🥺

[@jordanbranham3981]

the whole album is fire but this song is my favorite!!! I love H.E.R

[@One-Of-NONE]

Thinking of someone who when I first met was so ready to love me. He told me from the gate that he felt like I was going to make him feel some type of way about me & then ghost him. Well, if I’m bein honest.. I did just that. Not intentionally, but just life shit came around & made my Libra scales a bit unbalanced. Now I’m here wishing I could’ve seen all the signs of him trying to love & care for me from the beginning. He saw straight thru my mask, no matter how closed off I was wit him.. Ofc, I didn’t realize all this until I was in a better place. Now, we hardly talk. Only because now tables have turned & he’s going thru his life shit now. Leaving me yearning for his presence & just craving him in the utmost spiritual way. If it’s meant to b tho.. it’ll happen. Givin it to God now…

[@bad_monkeystudios]

Thank you H.E.R ❤

[@boipelomofulatsi7518]

Am I the only one who heard Miley Cyrus dueting in here? Or ... Am I dehydrated? WOW...

[@870cda]

This is such soothing music that moves me in a positive and resonating way that will boost my Mental Health as much as you can. I love H.E.R. and she is so cute and talented with her music.

[@julietrevino2294]

H.E.R is literally a whole ass vibe. Beautiful in every way possible.

[@jibriupshaw1248]

HER guitar 🎸🎤🎸🎤🎸🎤🎸 is so powerful

[@seriousnick09]

When she said she can feel the energy shift i fell in love

[@melissaperusha7687]

I just listened to this 10 times at once😭❤️

[@AmberNicoleOfficial]

Exactly! 😂💀 I’m pretty sure I’ve passed 50 listens already and I’m NOT stopping 🤷🏽‍♀️😌😂

[@TYPthePYT]

Same!❤

[@khanyisaninondaba1069]

That's me🥺♥️

[@TYPthePYT]

My God she just peeked into my "right now" life in love.

[@kevinravy-si9qk]

I Just Love u My Baby 🥰😍🤩♥️💖

[@veraw.7014]

Wow. This song touch the core of your soul,especially when you've been there. 🔥

[@jj9533]

You help me process my own feelings. Its crazy

[@QueenRoyaltyIBe]

My deepest reflections … this is like a page in my journal, my head, my movements ….

[@beloncekamz2821]

H.E.R music is medicine to my soul❣️✨.

[@shannonway2215]

This album is something else yo. You speaking to us 🙌🏼

[@laurenprather4210]

This song is great!!!

[@sihlep2641]

She went too hard on this one 🥺🥺

[@khanyisaninondaba1069]

Mfethu 🥺💔😭❤️uzoskhalisa lo mntana

[@souvenir9647]

It's impossible to find a song as good as this one

[@Jufragas]

On repeat! One of my favorites from this album! ✨❤️

[@Haustori]

This Effin song dawg🔥🤯❤️

[@shaliyahbowen-inniss1365]

such a vibe love the versatility

[@bighomieJ5X]

This 1 hit me hard ,especially my current situation 😔

[@RockyAllPurpose]

Dang I gotta learn a lot of these songs on here to sing 🥺😩 h. E.r is really pulling strings on my heart with this album! ❤️❤️

[@BrianL7000]

Regardless of what she is singing about, her voice is so soothing. Its like her purpose in life was to sing and connect with the human race through her beautiful voice.

[@rashidvries1645]

Hard to love 💯🔥🔥🔥

[@kaylankrolikowski]

This song brought legit tears to my eyes.. Being with someone for almost 20 years and going through so many ups and downs.. It changes you to the core but one thing I have learned is don’t allow heartbreak to turn you cold in this World. Divine love is a beautiful thing and for anyone reading this, I hope that you attract that if you haven’t already one day. ❤

[@joberry877]

Shes serving Fleetwood Mac vibes with this. It's a different sound, I like it

[@KFordVideos]

Ooo...Feelin' this one the most. Very stripped-down organic vocals and soul.

[@lydialopez6958]

I listen to this song over and over again gets me in my feelings. Just don’t get tired of listening to it. The lyrics express what I’m going through right now. Love it!