在上帝之后的地球上,我们的父母是最重要的,无论他们是好是坏。 如果说胡歌选择了患癌的母亲,而不是选择了徐佳凝,那这就是如今可悲的孝道。 我们过于以自我为中心,以我们的需求为中心。 外人不应评判他,因为他的决定没有对错。 胡歌悲痛欲绝,直至今日,好友张冕车祸身亡。 你能想象如果他让他的妈妈因为他选择新娘而早早去世,他会有什么感受吗? 生活中发生的一切都是命中注定的。 薛佳凝是他的过去。 如今年近40,他的人生观、激情、品味、思想观念等都发生了变化。 他只希望粉丝关注他的演技,而不是像坏了的留声机那样关注他过去的爱情。 我们也需要继续前进,而不是一直在抱怨应该做什么和不应该做什么。 这是等待每个人的沧桑。 On earth after God, our parents are the most important whether they are good or bad. If it true that Hu Ge had chosen his cancer stricken mother over Xua Jianing, than that is filial piety which are sadly missing nowadays. We are too self centered in our wants and needs. Outsiders should not judged him as there is no right or wrong in his decision. Hu Ge was devastated and remorseful till today when his best friend Zhang Mian died in the car crash. Can you imagined how he felt if he caused his mom early demised over his choice of bride. Everything happening in life is fated. Xue Jianing is his past. Now that he is approaching 40, his outlooks in life, passion, taste, ideology etc had changed. He only wanted fans to focus on his acting and not his past loves like a broken gramophone. We needed to move on too and not kept harping on what should and should not have done. This is vicissitudes of lives that awaited on everyone.