海外到底卷不卷？外国人在马来西亚的生活

[@DODOLIMBK]

我的理解，正向的努力叫“打拼”，被整个社会压迫挣扎求生才叫“卷”。 一个是积极自主，一个是迫于无奈。 一个是为了寻求更好，一个是为了不被淘汰。 马来西亚有很多种教育源流，每个家长都有自主为孩子寻求更好的教育的权利。 你可以选择让孩子以舒服的方式去学习，当然也可以用压迫的方式。只要在不破坏社会次序、道德、律法的原则下，没有对错。 我的重点是：在马来西亚，你可以选择。而在卷的地方，你没得选。。。

[@qiaoyunguo5282]

而且中国的孩子们也没有失去所谓的童年生活呀！每天爸爸妈妈开开心心的接送他们 多幸福呀

[@limmeechoo1631]

加油❤

[@Lemon-uo4pw]

谢谢😊

[@KimChuNg-te8dq]

在大马，华人在穷，也不能穷教育（不是所谓的卷）

[@leehyunsong7001]

你讲啊 多少华人没有读书去当大耳聋 当bookie 的？ 不穷教育？ 难道他们都是读了大学才去捞偏的吗

[@omegabulldog5001]

As a father to two adult sons, one who is about to graduate and the other is on his first year;- DON'T push them too hard. Let them develope their skills and talents, in due time those will flourish by themselves. Also, NO KIDS are born dumb. If they look or feel dumb in a certain subject then it is not because they are dumb but rather that subject is not their forte. Every child is different, some slightly and some by a large margin so give them space and time while you as a parent should sit back and look at the way they develope their particular skills, only stepping in when they strayed into bad territories. Last note;- Schools and universities should not be chosen for how exclusive or expensive they are but rather as per how your children like it. Both my sons are in a local university and it is pretty "cheap" compared to many so called top universities but yet have a very good track record of churning out highly sought after graduates.

[@Lemon-uo4pw]

Thank you for your comment. I really like and agree with your thoughts. Every child has their own unique characteristics and pace of growth. By providing them with a warm family environment, understanding, and support, they will naturally grow well. Thank you for your message and comment!

[@tanntann63]

都說了這裡是叫kiasu,kiasi。。。你說kiasu kiasi,,這裡人肯定會。

[@agnescheah0785]

大马从来不卷。我唔该你。 不要带这坏风气来大马。 对你很失望。

[@Lemon-uo4pw]

你没有停明白我的意思。1.我觉得不是所有孩子都能去做这件事。2.大马的孩子也不是中国家长所想的完全不在意读书3.来大马的中国家庭很多都是为了不要卷才来的。不然留在中国就好了。

[@phewsam]

你确定你是大马人？ ＂卷＂是别人带的吗？为何孩子的学习100％只靠老师，父母没有责任吗？道理一样，有怎么样的父母，就有怎么样的孩子. 身为父母的你们也必须给孩子有个正确的思想教育，错不是100％都是别人，你们没责任？

[@agnescheah0785]

@@phewsam 卷是中国发明的明白吗？有空去了解一下才发表。

[@chancheeseng6892]

只需2个条件，第一个条件，信仰-金钱。金钱即神明，神明即金钱。像中国那样。第二个条件，父母没钱，没有啃老金。

[@anphotosiew2123]

我只能说孩子会卷。最大的失败就教育和父母盲目和封闭的思维还有就是超级失败的东方教育体系。成绩成为了孩子读书卷的目标。东方人最失败的思维就是认为好的成绩就有好的前途。所以就拼命的卷卷死孩子。