混血兒子移民英國後被當眾羞辱和取笑！亞裔在歐洲如何應對這些問題？能真正融入白人圈子嗎？“Go Back Home” - Experiencing Racism in the UK - Q&A

歡迎回來Reynolds Family的頻道
Welcome back to the Reynolds Family Channel
我們怎樣處理種族歧視呢？我們怎樣教導混血兒子面對被歧視的情況呢？😟
How do we deal with racism? How do we build up our kids to face racist encounters? 😟
影片中是我最近收到大家的疑問📥
These were just a couple of questions I received recently 📥
今天是一支Q&A影片，分享每個人都最不希望經歷的問題…種族歧視😔
Today’s video is a Q&A all about that topic you never wish to experience, Racism… 😔
其實Noah小時候在香港已經被學校的同學取笑他的血統👦🇭🇰這不禁讓我想起自己曾經在英國也被遭同樣的對待🇬🇧
So when Noah recently was laughed at by some boys for being from Hong Kong 👦🇭🇰 it brought back some hurtful memories of racist encounters I have also experienced here in the UK 🇬🇧
所以我覺得是時候要跟大家回覆有關這主題的疑問了🫶
Which is why I felt it was time to answer your questions about this important topic! 🫶
快點進影片找出答案吧～☺️
Jump into this VLOG to find out all the answers ☺️
大家記得在下方留言哦～別忘記按讚及訂閱👍
Get involved in the discussion in the COMMENTS and please remember to LIKE & SUBSCRIBE 👍
謝謝大家，下次再見🥰
Thank you so much and see you next time 🥰

[@ukmonk]

I HATE bully's and racism with a passion. Both my kids are mixed race (I am white and my wife is HK Chinese) now they are grown up (21 and 24) and one day when my son came home from school (he was around 11 years old) he said some boys were making fun of him and calling him 'Ch1nky!!!' etc. I was furious and I asked him how he replied, he said 'NO I AM NOT, I AM HALF CH!NKY'!!! 😅 Luckily it didn't bother him and he just ignored them, he did go through a phase though where he didn't want to speak Cantonese, and we always speak it at home but he felt embarrassed speaking in public, now both him and my daughter (and their friends) think its the coolest language ever!!

[@zhuleon3564]

So he is proud of the other half, wonderful!

[@doriswaddington2418]

Bullies is spelled B U L L I E S - the failure of the British education system

[@juliepaiz6669]

Your wife is Chinese from HK, not HK Chinese. There is no Hong Kong Chinese or Tai Wan Chinese.

[@ukmonk]

@@juliepaiz6669 🤣

[@walyduj]

@@juliepaiz6669You’re funny 😂😂😂

[@kimlee3787]

我阿女比鬼仔鬧問點解嚟我哋國家之類嘅說話，阿女好輕描淡寫講咗句：I’m here to kick your ass ！

[@gabriella..kW..]

Kudos to your daughter 💪💪🍀🍀

[@kelvin19949]

❤❤❤

[@pandais1217]

正確👍咪俾啲死仔以為女仔好蝦😤

[@dicky5065]

阿女講得好

[@mindretreatful]

From Australia, many years ago,I saw an old woman took her dog to our front yard, I asked her why are you coming to our front yard and she said that oh, my friend is living (we are living an apartment)here, I asked that who is your friend? She had just took her dog went. Later I saw her again with her dog, I asked her “why you came here again without any permission, I told her I will call police“then she yelled me “you should go back to your country “ I told her “the government would let me know wether I should stay here or not but not you”. I never seen her again ever since. The bloody old woman. I never afraid about this. I met the kind of bullying for few times, I always fighting with them, I can’t say I win but till they were shutting up. First few years, friends admired me about my English, t told them learning better English is easier for me to fight those bullies. 😂😂😂

[@rbf-9326]

This happens daily in UK

[@5464654135756]

Having a parent like you is such a blessing!

[@shirley_li]

I am a Chinese person from Mainland China and have lived in the UK for 14 years. I completely agree with your approach: while we cannot control what others say or do, we can control how we react. When someone is impolite or racist, I usually respond by saying, "It's a shame for you to say that" or "Please mind your own business." Of course, it's important to always ensure your safety when standing up for yourself. Never take their words seriously or personally; it's often clear that they come from people with narrow minds and a lack of proper education.

[@petertse4711]

以前我們對仔女從小開始操游泳, 打羽毛球及去滑板場操花式BMX, 晚餐後就去公園練unicycle, 再大啲就上山鬥mountain bike. 細細個操游水同BMX, 佢地個體形比較同年紀班細路仔為健碩, 所以在公園玩耍時沒有人會bully佢哋, 從細時以經同班小朋友蒲街埸, 一般係滑板埸玩都係街童或同類style, 相處期間學到一些溝通技巧, 生存技能. 上年我們在澳洲, 大家一起坐在海邊街凳食熱狗, 突然有羣(白人)兇狠外表街童踩滑板/BMX經過, 個仔同他們眼神一望, 大家自然有善起來揮手致意, 聞到係同類 🤣! 今年係英國讀寄宿學校, 好OK! 自己成長經過哂, 小朋友係要自己白紙一張面對bullying! 家人最多講人生道理, 但從小去玩運動操fit係防bullying好有幫助. 做父母唔好心痛佢地因操時受傷擦到損手損腳, 我太太成日罵我搞到個女損手損腳入醫院! 😱今天我女多謝我!😬

[@hungmark6953]

你岩，太溫室寵愛小孩會讓他們失去求生技能，應該早點放手讓佢比環境培育得更強，幸好你的小孩很好動和適應力很強。早點放手對他未來很有幫助

[@YAHOO-hj9rs]

我諗小朋友另外玩埋泰拳，全接觸空手道，對著bullies 會冇咁驚

[@realmanchurch]

接觸多d運動學習同人接觸同比人認識你多d都係好好既方法 我個仔都係踩freestyle bmx 都識到好多人教佢野

[@danielchan8765]

咁你仔女有冇去bully人？

[@mbaocmbaoc6365]

這位靚媽是一位智慧型的媽媽，你有的是智慧及自信，足以保護到你兩位仔仔💪在你的教導下，他們會建立自信，在任何一個地方都保護到自己，屹立不倒快樂成長💪

[@user-dp1bz6qu3n]

我剛搬到歐洲一年幾，目前遇過1-2件小小既種族歧視事情，一開始會有啲吾開心，但後來就諗通左了啦。我覺得素質低下+冇見識既人先會歧視同自己吾同既人，因為佢地呢一世都只能夠活系自己狹窄同寡聞既世界裡，佢地都好可憐好可悲。所以我地吾洗同呢啲人一般見識！❤希望Noah同FinFin可以越黎越有自信，為自己有asian血統感到自豪🎉

[@vapaus831]

冇人出生時可以決定自己的種族， 所以任何有關於種族歧視和自豪的言論是廢話

[@nerolilin]

Stop Asian Hate組織撥經費了？

[@gumcimau1318]

Exactly. You got your point perfectly correct.

[@Adam-sf7mt]

Tell racists that they have 😢 nevetravelled the world before, if you have you would never say anything like this! 無見識！

[@user-rf9nd8et4k]

說得好，全世界都有這種人。

[@jameskuo3357]

作為一位在德國留學的台灣人，我也經歷過好幾次種族歧視，曾經這些經歷也讓我很受傷、很難受，但現在我已經能漸漸用不想和這些白痴一般見識的態度來面對種族歧視了，也比較不會受影響了。Sending love to you and your kids!

[@nerolilin]

你們台灣人不也歧視台灣混血兒嗎？全校女生共同來霸凌。她中文名何心寧。

[@timtung123]

@@nerolilin 中國人最喜歡河南人。

[@nancyso5361]

​@@nerolilin 台灣的欺凌出名會殺人！打死了一個內向的小朋友之後學校還特別去清理現場！

[@wii3604]

全台灣人都霸凌嗎​@@nerolilin

[@pingho1437]

@@timtung123 外國人非常容易從你長相，身體特徵，膚色，髮色，就會認為你係中國人. 就要欺負你

[@pollyting-jg7ng]

I am Chinese from HK. Ilive in Vancouver, Canada for over 40 years. I have experienced these situations numerous times. I suggest that don't walk away from these racists or nasty comments, if you do, you are giving power to these people. You need to stand up for yourself and tell them " shut up" what gives them power to say that. They have no rights to putting you down. When you say something and stand up for yourself. They will stop.

[@yapyapyap2805]

Oh, really? I think you will get a black eye more than likely.

[@pollyting-jg7ng]

@yapyapyap2805 No, I think you're so wrong. Thus is the reason why we are keep getting these non sense racist comments because we don't say anything.

[@kimlee3787]

Make it simple ，you should say I’m a hongkongese instead ! Please get rid of Chinese this word ,it really gets on my nerves !

[@andylam2523]

When I am in good mood, I say screw you, when not, I would say xuck you. Of cause we are legal to carry in the US.

[@QK-A]

@@kimlee3787 🤧

[@estherlau2641]

其實呢個問題係每個年代都發生，以平常心及正面方式從小教小朋友如何面對先最重要，例如先要接受自己有一半亞裔血統，呢啲都係優點自己有 人哋無，學到更多更深入文化（係由父母教導），建立小朋友自信，佢哋比其他小朋友有雙重優勢。 如果小朋友需要作回答，建議： 小朋友可以禮貌地回答其他小朋友，例如：我有住過亞洲地方，你哋有無住過？ 我有食過好多不同亞洲美食，你哋有無食過？ 我有去過不同亞洲國家，你哋去過未？ 如果你哋（其他小朋友）有需要或想知道關於亞洲的事物，我（自己小朋友）樂意解答。 😉

[@rakuraku8043]

When I was a kid growing up in Canada... I experienced varying degrees of racism... but I pulled through just fine since I didn't have much support from my parents and it was just tough for new immigrants anyway.... but now that I got kids, I would always remind them to report any sort of racism/bullying when they get home..... I always assure them that I would immediately take appropriate action with their school/teachers.... PLEASE MAKE SURE YOUR KIDS ALWAYS FEEL LOVED & SUPPORTED AT HOME!!!!

[@oileengrace8228]

Poor baby, I too am Eurasian and grew up in HK where I was always neither nor, either or. I am glad you fully support him. The world is cruel, wherever we are. Support from family and friends help lots.

[@christineclark4721]

Racism exists everywhere. When it happens, one can be so hurt. I migrated to Australia in 1991 and have been working in a university in Melbourne. One day I was waiting for a colleague at the university office entrance to go to a meeting. A man walked by and turned his head and said” Go back to your fu.. country “. I was totally shocked and my jaws dropped, just like Noah not understanding why the man was so mean. It was afternoon and I was in my business wear, so what had I done to upset him? Yet having lived and worked in Melbourne for over 30 years, this was the only time I was treated so badly. To be accepted by local community, I believe one has to take the first step to participate in functions and activities. I am happy to see that you teach your kids to be confident and believe in themselves. This will help them go far. Best of luck.

[@thereynoldsfamily]

Absolutely this can happen anywhere! As we can’t control others we can only control our own reactions 🩷

[@elliepoon25]

我以前係英國讀書都遇過歧視既經歷，有幾個年青人係我面前講'ching chong'，做一啲好挑釁既動作😅我望一望佢地，無做任何反應，佢哋見到我無回應，互望大家，個樣勁無奈🙊其實佢哋係度等緊我作出回應，所以唔好理佢哋就係最好既辦法😉

[@tungtung8378]

Some staff in my company talked to me " ching chong" too some thirty years ago when I first worked in there. I told them I didn't understand 'ching chong', but I respected them as human, so didn't say foul language in front of me, then they stopped.

[@Arianacccosta]

I was called Chinese chicken in Scotland ☠️

[@yulin1013]

Sometimes i heard about Ching Chong in Europe but I didn’t realize it is bullying lol now I understand

[@edithleung2349]

Noah勇敢、善良又可愛，必定可以渡過這些人際關係相處的難關，加油啊💪💪

[@boyzinpainworld3620]

我是香港人在歐洲己居住了四十五年，有十五年在英國讀書大學畢業到出來工作，有時亦遇到被人叫 Ching，我都一笑至知，我們香港人叫白人鬼佬，黑哥，亞差，這也不是岐視他們嗎？只是他們聽不懂，我太太是德國人，和她在香港逛街買衫，多次聽到售貨小姐說，唔好被個鬼婆試衫呀，佢地D人周身臭，我在傍附近也無出声，每個民族都會有岐視的，train yourself to accept it. Don't let it bother you too much.

[@user-bi1nr3do4p]

軟體動物先覺得自己被歧視冇所謂, 終有日你比👻當街打殘果時你記住要好enjoy

[@kathyl1924]

多謝你個分享。雖然我冇係外國生活，亦都冇遇過種族歧視的問題。但係我相信係呢個世界上生活，點都會遇到啲帶惡意嘅人。我依家有一個一歲嘅仔仔。我自己本身係個容易受人影響嘅人。我都好擔心將來仔仔都會面對外界不友善嘅對待。亦都擔心自己唔知點樣開解佢，或者令佢唔好在意人地嘅說話。你呢條片都啟發到我點樣佢同仔仔溝通同教育佢。最後，希望世界少啲偏見，多啲善意啦

[@andylam2523]

我是古代的人，小時不喜欢經常被老妈打。打有双重意義，被打的感觉不好，長大後学会善待別人，2. 被打時忍得了痛。

[@metaphor222]

多謝您分享自身的經驗，覺得身為你的孩子很幸運，因為他們有這麼有智慧的媽媽，懂得聆聽他們，同時教他們有自信、照顧自己，在遇到歧視時改增如何調整心情或應對，對我們身在海外或有遇到相似經歷的朋友也很重要的，謝謝妳，也祝福您與您的家人 ❤

[@beckyip2151]

Don’t be upset, Noah. You are unique and the best! Smile!

[@taitaichoi2330]

Proud to be half Chinese! Noah is a very sensible boy 👍

[@dudu-mu9py]

Noah是一个善良的小朋友！proud of him！

[@loeric8867]

多謝你的正能量引導。

[@hosuzanna5493]

大仔好叻仔。爸媽教得好。❤

[@thereynoldsfamily]

🩷🩷

[@carytsui333]

好鍾意 Gladys 你哋一家人，你哋嘅思想好正面，好認同你嘅處理方法，教導子女最好的方式就是以身作則，而你哋都做得到！好欣賞你們！祝你們一家都開心幸福平安！

[@shi.l3571]

Gladys欣賞你好堅強＆教得仔仔好好；wish you and your family all the best ❤🙏🏻

[@clara442]

別人的不禮貌，造就咗我們更加努力工作和生活，為對方祈禱🙏，祝大家生活平安順利健康快樂🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤謝謝你的分享😊🌈

[@stephanieluk7065]

Gladys, great job bringing up Noah. He’s such a beautiful soul - so mature at his age and gentle. ❤

[@erinwong9196]

你一家都喺善良嘅好人，好人會一生平安快樂，負面嘅嘢自然會彈開💪加油

[@GilNg-fp3us]

謝謝你的分享，Noah真係一個好善良嘅小朋友

[@gwenhannah722]

You have taught Noah well and I am proud of both mommy and Noah ❤

[@zoie0129]

你哋真係父母嘅榜樣，咁後生已經咁識教小朋友，小朋友都好生性❤❤❤

[@nomads2957]

很欣賞妳及妳家人真的很堅強。祝願永遠幸福❤

[@kayintam1745]

見到Noah笑番到安心D,一定要睇住佢嘅情緒💪加油

[@BlairWodalf]

好心痛 但又so proud of Noah!!!!!

[@ypling9068]

Noah 真系一個好好嘅小朋友 系咁嘅情況都可以冷靜表達😊

[@Dotherightthingattherighttime]

多謝你 近來第一次去歐洲旅遊 雖然講唔上歧視 但都被不禮貌對待 剛好你依條片出 我覺得有被安慰到💪🏻 仔仔咁細個就要面對依啲問題 作為大人都好心疼 但亦都好proud of Noah既堅強！ 希望你話番俾Noah知 依到有好多大過佢既哥哥姐姐都以佢為榜樣 真係好叻仔呀👍

[@gabriella..kW..]

Noah and FinFin, you are surrounded with love and support from your mommy, daddy and grandparents……. and us 🧡 Stay courageous and positive thinking, you are precious and unique and yet strong and considerate. You will shine brighter than ever.

[@tonghin]

I am sorry about your experience. I wish you and your family all the best!

[@carmenlee7778]

仔仔在你們教導下，內心會更強大，更堅強，加油呀！❤

[@rebekahwong3088]

Noah 真是好好的小朋友。爸媽都教得好好

[@CHRISTIEAquawoman-iu8tt]

很寫實的主題，欣賞你拿出來說真實的東西，subscribe左

[@clarac7293]

Racism exists not only in foreign countries, but also in Hong Kong😔As a student in a direct subsidy program, I hear the word racist all the time😢 I have a friend who immigrated to the UK with her family to study. She told me that she was discriminated against by foreigners.And I actually feel bad about her

[@AgnesSo-o8q]

Thank you for sharing! You are such a wonderful mom! Look at the bright side: 1. Recognize that these occasions are just opportunities to make you stronger. 2. They are the best way to practice patience and self-love. 3. See yourselves as more educated and capable of sharing more information with others! Although the UK has been promoting diversity and inclusivity in recent years, we still face challenges. For example, when we went out for a walk with our Buddhism teacher, a Tibetan Buddhist monk from the Netherlands, people on the street still made fun of our teacher. This shows that the issue isn't solely about being Chinese or Hongkonger; it's about some people's afflictive mindsets.

[@Glowy.Janice]

Thank you for reminding me this message! It means a lot to me!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@christinazhang7107]

Very good topic, you are so right, confidence is the key here. Be proud of who you are, don't let nobody tell you different. 🥰

[@mkwok9191]

小朋友好可愛❤靚媽咪好有自信！好叻👍🏻大家加油👏🏻

[@florencekwong806]

Thank you for your video. You take very good care of your kids, especially their emotional health. Even though it is a very difficult experience, you handle it beautifully.

[@joshualee8030]

好多謝你拍呢條片出嚟 願意探討呢個議題 希望可以幫到喺外國生活緊嘅人.

[@nickchan6907]

仔仔好可愛，好好愛護他們成長😊👍🏻

[@MiL-dm1ew]

好鍾意你兩個仔仔，妳要加油💪💪

[@frankip88]

Thanks for sharing, love it.❤

[@easterchan552]

This video came out at the perfect timing. A group of Afro-Caribbean family was next to my friend and I at a restaurant. Within them was a kid or maybe the group of kids calling me “ling ling” in my direction. I was gonna let it slide cuz he was a kid, but that’s where all it starts I guess. I was so glad I didn’t keep my silence and told the family even if it may have ruined the celebration, but they were so reciprocal and responsive saying that it’s not right, and they were as disappointment as I was. Although i was offended, it was more reassuring for me the family took me seriously and made sure the kid never did that again. Little wins for humanity ❤

[@yyychan1879]

多謝分享❤❤

[@mtrkintetsu]

我係路人，不過我都想分享下其實係香港都會被種族歧視。 有次我同我細佬搭巴士返屋企，當時車上面有一個英國遊客， 佢係咁用英國粗口係咁大叫， 以我嘅英文能力我聽到佢類似係話「華人全部去死」、「 華人唔應該喺世上存在」 個司機都出咗好多次warning， 之後佢仲仍然唔停止，仲望住我哋每一個人係咁喺度傻笑， 直到我屋企前一個站佢落車之後個車廂環境先至恢復平靜(我仲隱約聽到有人話佢成身酒氣)

[@mitekat]

我係法國暫時都好小呢個問題，不過我有兩次發生類似嘅情況係我仔仔身上，一次係喺巴士站。後期發現個小朋友其實想表達佢都對亞洲人好奇或者想拉近同我個仔，可惜佢嘅行為係嚇親我，不停動手動腳咁問我個仔識唔識功夫，根住又做好多好似歧視字句。 當時我即刻stop 對方。解釋佢咁樣會嚇親我仔仔。盡量令對方知道佢嘅表達行為令到我地嘅不安。 始終小朋友，未必一定係惡意。 另一個case 係好明顯對方家庭嘅問題，小朋友先會未接觸就用咁多字眼佢標籤。

[@maywong518]

小時候，有同學移民去英國，去了一年多後，他說很多中國人很吵很失禮，不想跟他們一起，但英國人也不會跟他做朋友。 我覺得佢好慘，2邊不是人，當時我也年少也不懂如何開解他。這真的是悲劇！ 所以你能教兒子proud of自己嘅身份真的很好👍🏼

[@bfung]

抱抱Noah❤ 你好堅強 媽咪都好好EQ

[@balbeerbahi5719]

The UK is a brilliant place to live... Until it's not. In this case, the racism. I'm really sorry to hear this happening to you. I'm 60ish, came here at 3 from India in 1969... I went through this, my children too - while of being mixed background - and am so upset to hear this kind of nonsense is still upsetting children. The world is super-upsetting sometimes. So stay strong, and hope you and your family is also getting plenty of support to deal with this, and enjoy the positives of the UK too.

[@amylam9506]

Well said❤. That’s love.

[@mugfei]

你和囝囝好叻好叻, We are so proud of being Hongkongers. Keep up the positivity and pride in being Hongkongers !

[@user-wk1ke9es7x]

保護自己，加油❤

[@MrFung-je7my]

Good Beethoven song background. Adagio Cantabile. Very good choice. Good job Reynolds.

[@rebeccaliu2062]

Appreciate for mom’s power! Ur kids are lucky!

[@ellentsui530]

You are brave and commendable to tell the reality of racial discrimination in schools. I am sorry for your children's disgraceful experience in school. Hope they will be nurtured to have the confidence to overcome all unpleasant encounters. ❤

[@yunjungchao131]

Noah媽媽，我覺得妳的想法觀念是正確的，因為把歧視者的話聽進去與他們發生爭執，會激化他們的行為，如果是我，我會跟妳一樣的作法，若是歧視者因我的不理會進一步動手攻擊我時，我才會進一步的處理（報警、找人多的地方去，或者是無人可幫忙的情況下我會反擊回去…總之把情況鬧大引人關注）

[@boling724]

多麼棒的媽媽❤加油💪

[@hkedmundchan]

Support your family ❤

[@mingchan2594]

8:10 呢啲老豆喫屎啦…小朋友可以話係唔識野，做人老竇呢啲時候點可以唔教自己個仔嫁😠😠😠

[@thereynoldsfamily]

😭😭😭

[@amychan6190]

咁熟？叫人番英國？！祖家😂

[@ehislqwezad316]

香港有成400萬中國兩岸(中國籍)移民。 唔係講廣東話就係香港人

[@ssleung8141]

就算唔係種族問題，有時都被歧視得很hurt，氣難下……我曾在香港的職場被一個有『大後台』的女上司歧視得很厲害，起因是嗰個『大後台』話我的步姿很得意，跟住女上司除了週不時自己『目及』下我工作，亦叫其他IC或同事睇住我做嘢，因為該機構員工係有免費醫療的，佢覺得我有腳患做不到相關工作，同埋加入該機構係來醫腳的…....我其實都有朋友响嗰度工作，係佢話我知的，雖然該女上司低級過我朋友，但『大後台』係佢阿頭，佢都冇辦法，亦都唔會諗辦法

[@nickz83]

I was also born and raised in Manchester, throughout my childhood I was racially abused and constantly beaten up just because I looked different from them, times have changed and more people came to accept who we are more and more, thinking back it made us growing up much more stronger as we took all the abuse and managed to live through it and succeed.

[@cecilialam6856]

I love how u teach ur children , ur children are so lucky to have u as mummy Ur well educated

[@yukpingchau686]

好羨慕你的孩子有一個像你這樣的好母親！❤

[@kwaichuntam7834]

欣賞你🎉多謝你的分享😊

[@turquoisenarcissus9448]

好欣賞你，你既小朋友有你呢個媽媽好幸福❤

[@appletreepyb]

When it comes to making sense and digesting offensive comments, racial slurs, microaggression and racism, I find it really helpful to differentiate "facts" and "opinion", for both children and adults.

[@DanIsBest1108]

Thanks for sharing ❤ 其實我都有遇到呢啲事，但係唔知心理上應該點處理，就咁當冇回事算。多謝你教曉我第時應該點同仔女分享❤

[@psmall6084]

Noah 好叻叻👍👍👍，家人給他滿滿正能量。不要為那些人影響不開心，他們只是你生命中的過客，不值得喔～

[@bombomcha]

你的仔仔們都係特別的，獨特的；其他人只係唔抵得、羨慕你啲仔仔

[@wayway9596]

Actually be proud of your nationality is the best way to solve this situation

[@nerolilin]

又來了～

[@syhung5920]

mix先正, noah好叻又好cute

[@hinhangsiu6783]

謝分享！

[@user-bk8dk8mg5l]

we love you Noah from hong kong!!

[@lebbeus]

歧視度度都有，香港人咪一樣習慣歧視開南亞裔菲律賓人黑人，我哋有在乎過佢哋嘅文化咩？唔使睇得自己咁重要，人性去到邊都係一樣

[@margaretting2938]

support your family!!

[@cubebb6675]

在英國讀大學時, 有幾個男仔出言歧視, 我未及應對, 我身邊幾個鬼妹朋友即時幫我破口大駡, 駡到個班男仔即走, 之後我勁笑話唔好睇小女人. 其實每個地方都有好人和差的人, 有些人如果要傷害你, 會利用膚色, 家底, 身型, 宗教等任何莫需有理由, 只有做好自己, 勇敢面對.

[@000000492]

媽媽好正能量，對小孩子心態影響係好好的❤

[@judywong1]

Noah好可愛

[@HsiHsi-bp5xv]

非常好👍的美女媽咪❤❤，祝福你們幸福❤

[@crowin88able]

其实都係好普遍嘅问题，自己心态摆正好重要，因为别人怎样我们改变不了，在國外呆的時間久了，明明自己生活比本地人還好，對方卻看我不起，也不知道對方哪裡來的自信😂，不過反觀有時就算是自己國家的人也會有歧視的問題，所以我就比較釋懷了，可能也是人性的一種，我指的是心裡的，有時就算嘴裡沒有說出來，但內心還是會有歧視

[@user-sn7dv5je1n]

做你仔仔好幸福❤❤教得好好

[@runoutideas8771]

Another way to face abusive or racist comments I can think of is to say "God bless you" and "You must be leading a miserable life /feeling your deficiencies that makes you bear so much grudge against pure strangers. I can understand it's a displacement of anger or jealousy, so Good luck!!

[@terencetong4896]

I went to US when i was a kid and experienced all those back then. I went back to hong kong . I will never let my kids suffer the same.

[@amandayang9224]

有同感，加油

[@Chanc707]

你教得佢地好好 好有家教👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️ 我做媽媽都要向你學習

[@runoutideas8771]

My cousin is a mixed (Irish Chinese) who was born and grew up in US in the 70/80s. You can imagine the discrimination or abusive comments would even be more serious in those days. One can feel that she is quite sensitive to labelling n name calling. She managed to pull through all these with support from my aunt who is a very tough woman. M cousin is smart and did well in her studies which make other people more difficult to look down on her.

[@chinglish-cat-6189]

我是在英生活的中年純中國人，久不久會發生被歧視，通常都會透過聯絡客服去投訴。如在街上會在安全情況下反駁，盡量不畏縮，以免令人以為我們中國人好好蝦，好怕事而令對方得寸進尺。

[@wendychiu8649]

Cant agree more with you. 華人傾向忍耐、無視、避開， 不會斥罵別人也不喜歡在公眾場合爭吵，但這其實只會讓情況惡化。不表達不回應不會讓人覺得你品格高尚，只會讓人覺得亞洲人好懦弱好欺負。太多太多華人不懂保護自己，歐美人倒沒有這些標籤。 我認為最好的回應是（有勇氣的人可選擇更後的方法, 適用於但不限於歧視)： 1. 給對方一個自信又鬆容的微笑（他們看到你淡然又不為所動會愣住） 2. 也可以給他們一個輕視的眼神，微笑著地說「Thank you」（他們會生氣的） 3. 你有勇氣反擊的話，可刻意地全身打量一下對方，然後以恥笑的姿態跟對方說聲謝謝，不說話也可以。 或者你可以單純給一個laughing的反應，笑出聲來如「Hahaha」，這樣他們會知道你是為他們的歧視行為而感到可笑。 （他們會感到被挑釁，要做好有口角的心理準備，但通常不會） 4. 如果不介意跟人口角、起衝突打架、成為一名瘋子，可以直接嚇對方，如突然衝著對方去（1百米衝刺般）、作勢想打對方、向著對方咆哮扮鬼扮成一個瘋子。 基本上對方都會被「不正常」的人嚇到，這可能令對方嚇跑；或者你有勇氣的可以在對方被嚇到未回神時，放聲以「Hahaha」取笑對方，讓歧視者更措守不及。 （請自己衡量對方身上會否有攻擊性武器及附近是否有CCTV） ！！還有，不卑不亢地指出對方的行為屬歧視行為，公開公眾地Shame對方，讓別人知道這個人歧視別人，也是需要的（按情況）。這會削弱對方的力量膽量和自信。 不要用動真格生氣的姿態，一副想討論對錯教育別人的"客氣"姿態去跟別人嘈，這是最差的，不被禮貌地對待時 不要客氣。當你將自己放在 期望別人的回應（如合理回應）這個位置時，你就輸了。 寧願各位發洩情緒式罵對方（典型小巴的士司機態度），即使對方可能會感到高興挑釁成功，但同時也知道會被罵起衝突，之後不會太輕挑膽大。 要吵架的話，我認為 惡/ 淡然輕挑的八婆（像綠茶婊般） 姿態，就是最好的。

[@kimlee3787]

最爭啲鬼佬用煲冬瓜你好你好咁對我講，我會用好厭惡嘅態度同佢講：that’s not my language ，please stop it ! 然後望都唔望佢！

[@pw2.038]

19才子同埋鮑sir 話呢啲係小龍dna， 自己歧視人哋先至會覺得畀人歧視

[@crus2334]

你系中国人，人地系香港人，唔一样嘎😊

[@winniemak886]

通常西人是看華人舉止！不論是香港人或中國人，他們都是認作為中國人看待，最好別選白人區居住！

[@yint2546]

Great advice! I grew up in the UK as a Chinese and faced a lot of racism. I have 2 children now in Y1 and Y3 half Nigerian, half Chinese. Thankfully they have not encountered any racism where we live in Altrincham, which is becoming very diverse. I 100% agree with your advice, build up their confidence, build up their self-love, build them up to be proud of their skin colour, hair type, ethnicity etc. Older people who should know better are just ignorant when it comes to racist name calling and gestures. Stay strong little one and keep being proud!