This is so touching 😢. My suggestion is that, firstly, go and explain your past to your Mum, secondly, call your boyfriend invite him to your Mum place, if he truly love you the way you lobe him, he will take you to his Dad and explain to him, The Dad was just trying to safe his son from future damage 😢. I don't blame the Dad, but the Dad sef na hook-up Dad 😊. I pray he accept you🙏
@a6754321002 ай бұрын
The man is afraid that if you get married to his son, you will one day tell his son about his secret
@naze4972 ай бұрын
Try and explain everything to your fiancee, it's now up to him. Don't ignore him.
@ENEJOH12 ай бұрын
You have a destiny with that family. Just share this video with your guy if you are afraid to speak to him. Your guy is the only one that can convince his father.
@MaryTanko-f4u2 ай бұрын
I feel for her,😢
@christophernwachukwu2697Ай бұрын
I believe everything you said
@ReubenTobia2 ай бұрын
Don't ever send an account number to him at all!! Instead arrange for a meeting with him and explain again to him the events that led up to your meeting him in the hotel and how you did not continue with that lifestyle. Really plead with him and sincerely convince him of your love for his son over love of money. If he still doesn't agree, meet with his son, that is, your fiance, and explain everything. Give him time to process the news. He may have mixed reactions at first ,but be patient. True love thrives on honesty, transparency and truth. If he truly loves you, he will maintain your relationship and still make peace with his father. I wish you well!
@diamondugo83182 ай бұрын
This girl is so decent ❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@christophernwachukwu2697Ай бұрын
I feel for you
@senanuagbo53222 ай бұрын
Please explain everything to the man, he thought you sill doing it, and explain to your boy,God will grant you favor.
@beatricejohnson58522 ай бұрын
Amen
@christophernwachukwu2697Ай бұрын
Am sad
@amakiriokogba8362 ай бұрын
Talk to the father if your hands are clean,you don't need to be afraid, he might be trying you. Everyone has a history or story ❤
@ambroseutin27292 ай бұрын
Hook-up story is too heavy for some parents out there to live with. It's only your fervent prayers and divine intervention that could make it works out for you if at all, otherwise there's absolutely nothing you may do. Infact, forget that relationship. Start a new life.
@johnjesus3322 ай бұрын
Dont make the mistake of collecting money from his dad. Go to church and pray seriously about it. Tell your bf you need sometime alone. Send a message to the man explaining the aftermount the night he gave u 500k. Let the father give u the green light b4 u go on with his son. Be very careful n dnt be blind in love.
@OluwajuwonloOWOJORI2 ай бұрын
You can follow this comment it's a little bit better than mine
@GiftAbigail-l8s2 ай бұрын
Young lady explain everything to me guy, he will stay if he loves you
@nickymaduka2 ай бұрын
Tell this guy all your story. Be open to him. He will talk to his father.
@EfeomoAdamson2 ай бұрын
She should leave the son, God who sent the father as a helper then ‘ll send another man 👨/ husband. A broken relationship is better than a failed marriage.. She should be patient & be praying unto God.
@TajudeenAjidele-yq4ef2 ай бұрын
Sister Girl! I’m not surprise about your father inlaw’s action. Most Rich people are like that. I don’t think he is rejecting you because he met you as a hook up girl. That man understand life and your situation better than you do. The Rich always view less privileged people as Gold Diggers. There are two things you need to do to convince that man who you actually are. You have to call your father in law and tell him you want to have a final word with him even though you are going to leave his son. Tell him to arrange any where he can meet with you. If he gives you the privilege, get on your knees and talk to him as a father. Explain to him that, all that has happened was not your intent and you have discontinued with hook up thing since he helped you out. You have to really use a convincing word so that he may give you chance to prove your worthwhile with his son. Second, if he refuses, you must let your husband know about this but be sincere his father has never slept with you. That is the only clause there. If that man did actually sleep with you, there is no way that man will reconsider you marry his son. You have to let your mother know as well because our parents have a way of resolving matters like this. Don’t get bordered so much with this issue. if that man is for you, he will surely come back to you. However, this is a confession time. Goodluck!
@samosaiwe13252 ай бұрын
I don't support the her telling the guy, but try see the father as said, explain everything and tell him you're ready to swear by anything the man chooses to prove you stopped anything relating to hookup
@abaiabimbola12702 ай бұрын
Young girl your story is so sympathetic, summon courage and seek audience with the man proof to him that you’re not what he thinks. God will certainly touch him.
@JennyObaseki2 ай бұрын
My dear we all have our past, n pls talk ur guy n tell him everything about ur past
@rapheallawanson47582 ай бұрын
Hook up work, you need to express your desire feelings to the dad. Let him know your heart desire towards his son, regardless of ‘ get away from my son’ it more important to talk to the dad. Reason for him saying that to you, not more to hookup, but more to him and you meeting up in a hookup world.
@Slaz382 ай бұрын
If the father said stay away please stay away. The man is not kidding,he doesn't need to know if continued your hook up or not. You can only tell us what you want to tell us. Stay away period
@reginaboehmler10502 ай бұрын
My dear only the Truth will set you free. Talk to the father and explain to him once more why you meet that night, and if he still insist then go with your boyfriend to him and tell him every thing Infront of his father. If he loves you that much he will still want to marry you. After all you did not sleep with the father.
@WendySchelske2 ай бұрын
This is just karma… it’ll be very hard for that man to believe you whatever story you’ll tell him… girls do hookups rampantly and forget the so many disadvantages that come with it. I swear to God I don’t blame the man he’s trying to be a good father. Even the story of the man giving you 500k without knacks is not true to me maybe he don fk and he’ll never want you with his son
@priscillianwoga14392 ай бұрын
Explain everything to your man. If he loves you, he will understand.
@teriik62332 ай бұрын
Just go on with ur life….
@theblessed-x8n2 ай бұрын
The father is trying to protect him self. He does not want to be exposed. He may be filling that the girl will be a tret to him. So try as much as possible to reach him for a serious talk.
@emmanuelfidel98012 ай бұрын
To me just find a way to let the guy know; either "Is or Was" will go, if he truly loves you he will be on your side because it's a thing of the past...that's my opinion though
@kk-sq8nh2 ай бұрын
Call the son and explain everything to him. Your reason and your actions, if he truly loves you, he will stay, and if he doesn't just let go . Never accept money from the father . Try your best an explain to your guy .
@jossiemicor3428 күн бұрын
This is just a matter of round table discussions for both sides.. the man is afraid and wants to protect his son knowing the story of this girl and the situation that brought them together that night
@MaryTanko-f4u2 ай бұрын
Exp things to ur guy,u said he loves u right;tell him everything
@Wisdomsinior2 ай бұрын
My dear for the fact that oga don jam you in war front, he will never believe whatever you say to him again, big men maintain dignitys 😂
@nekkynate52672 ай бұрын
Try to tell d guy dat is only dat day ,dat d day is d 1st nd d last day u try hookup bc of dat money
@kk-sq8nh2 ай бұрын
Your worst regret will be you accepting money from his father . Never accept money from the father
@johnirerhime38052 ай бұрын
Two things. One, do not accept money from your guy's dad. You have to disprove the gold-digger tag that he may be suspecting you of. Secondly, he and his son have to be convinced you stopped hook up; that you are a changed person and no longer one who would go any length for what you want.
@emilyelo1142 ай бұрын
Please talk with Ur mother about it. and to ur boyfriend. If he loves you he will marry you, and if not then is not for you. I think she should not put separation between father and son. If father in-law doesn't want you just live, because we Africans we married to family as well not only the man.
@emmanuelali26012 ай бұрын
It's tough my little sis,but pls look at tinz from the father perspective too,he mught be a person who finds difficult to forget tinz,also he might see you as a Gold Digger,just pray&fast for Divine Guidance,best wishes,xx
@AvrahamYisrael2 ай бұрын
Seek occasion to talk with the father of your bf. All he needs is explanation.
@ernestchukstech2 ай бұрын
First tell your mum everything. After that let your mum invite the guy and you and explain everything in the presence of your mum. You just have to tell him if you love him the way you claimed.
@DianaekwunifeАй бұрын
Imagine a hook up man cheating on his wife judging this girl .
@flounilagalumni41982 ай бұрын
Young lady go into serious prayer before telling your fiancé about your past and God will settle your troubles for you
@johnechinwanne77552 ай бұрын
You must have one on one talk with the father if he refuse to listen to then you have no option than to let the son know about it and u have to be very careful about the man observe him closely if he is capable of dong other wise
@SAMUELAKPEME2 ай бұрын
Just explain everything to your fiance let him know left for your boyfriend
@lateefazeez86452 ай бұрын
Never send your account number.Find Awaay to tell his father and your boyfriend never hide it from him . But before you do that make sure you go into fasting and prayer. If God had made it for you . God would surely made a way to his father’s heath.
@goodnessokpoghobia67842 ай бұрын
God has blessed you through that family already. It's time to move on with your life happily and not collect his money. Okay bye👋
@Omo_nikenny2 ай бұрын
Please don't collect money from your boyfriend's dad. I think you should involve your mum in this matter. It'd be difficult for the man to believe you didn't go back to the streets, he's trying to protect his son and you can't blame him for doing that. Please, have it in mind that you might lose the guy in the process but endeavour to tell your boyfriend. Don't be too hard on yourself, be strong and do the right thing which is opening up to your mum and your boyfriend. I wish you all the BEST.
@emekanwosu29872 ай бұрын
Nenyebaby, The man is just been protective and he has a different dream of woman for his son. It’s just unfortunate
@kk-sq8nh2 ай бұрын
Tell the son the truth and everything that happened that night, if your boyfriends trust you everything will go on well
@ChineloOyiliaguАй бұрын
U need to tell Ur boy friend everything and don't collect any money from the father he might be texting you.
@joyfestus93652 ай бұрын
Do not stop talking to his son, hold on to your relationship. The man is just trying you to see if you will accept money. I think you should talk to your man before you lose him. You also need to pray to God. Talk to your mother, and please don’t send any message to the boys father he will use it against you
@criticalthinking-bb3xs2 ай бұрын
Go and talk to the father and let him know you will not expose him. Pray first.
@kelechinwaogu4682 ай бұрын
The man was right! I will Aldo do the same. No explanation will change the man's impression bc he met u in active service. Karma is real! There is no excuse to do hook-up! If that guy insists and marry u, he may not get his father's blessings etc. Rich fathers are usually string & controlling. You also in that marriage may not have peace...just forget this & move on
@OluwajuwonloOWOJORI2 ай бұрын
The best option for you is to stay away from his son. The 2nd best option is tell your bf everything while staying away from him with emphasis on his father being a very good man. By that he'll tell his father and they'll fully understand the situation but it's still dangerous because when you marry the son, you're marrying his family and the father might pretend as if all his well and show you premium shege in the future
@FemiFatalade2 ай бұрын
Young lady if you want your man explain everything to your boyfriend he would decide and make his choice
@donRoberts792 ай бұрын
Dear young lady, I feel very sympathetic for you. That very man that paid off your school fees to enable you graduate was not sure that you gave up the hook up lifestyle. Frankly speaking, he is a good man for not taking advantage of you that night. He does not want his son to marry you because of lack of trust for a hook up girl. Therefore, I may advise you to go on with your life, and God will bless you with someone else. But learn to wait on God during difficult times like this.
@reginaldajoku6172 ай бұрын
You should have told your boyfriend and your mother especially your boyfriend. See ones ugly past can be an obstacle for your future if not well addressed. Tell your boyfriend about your past but don't tell him about his father
@nnabugwuikechukwu62462 ай бұрын
Just explain to your boyfriend the truth. Open up if he want to be with you, he will fight with you
@andymakau39362 ай бұрын
I think she is not saying the truth…the father slept with her because there is no way the father would be so hard on her they didn’t have something
@nekkynate52672 ай бұрын
Baby girl call dat ur guys father fat dat day is ur first day nd God use him to pay ur school nd settle some of ir problems dat u didn't do hookup again dat he should nd take u like his own daughter but after telling him dis if he continues saying no again u can call dat ur guy nd tell him to promise u dat he will not tell any body what u about to tell him nd u tell him what happened to u nd his dat how God use his daddy to help u one day
@akaletedla59402 ай бұрын
😡🔥👉You must leave this guy before his Olga, vexed you and made disappear ‼️
@ItamAtakpa2 ай бұрын
Nenyebaby, please try and be honest with your viewers by being open to ask your clients obvious questions. This girl might not be honest with you with her story. Was she a virgin before her first hookup? She is an ungrateful girl for not being in touch with the man after her exams or immediately after their meeting otherwise her part with the man's son wouldn't cross. Why was she so bold to sleep over with the man's son in his father's house after she had recognised the man in his house. No father will allow his son to go out with such a woman whether one or not. What matters is how they met. She is still a hookup girl regardless. Always accept your fault and not to go on giving excuses. Leave the boy alone and move on with your life.
@talebehsow92562 ай бұрын
D only solution sis I am from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱 plzz take him to baba to mak d father frget about d huk upping,
@PleasureMaker-y7q2 ай бұрын
NONYE, let her send this video to his boyfriend. Simple. Do not blame the guy, if he leaves you. Just pray he doesn't.
@diamondugo83182 ай бұрын
U we’re not into hookup stop saying that pls pick the guy’s call and don’t listen to the father
@saheedaderanti80212 ай бұрын
Never you collect money from your boyfriend's father please and you need to stay away from your boyfriend for your sanity because his father will never see you as a good wife
@lawrenceonuoha30702 ай бұрын
Forget that love. Leave that guy as his father told you. He will always see you as a hookup babe. Bill him and move on with your life.
@PatNgozi2 ай бұрын
My dear your story is pathetic, but I'll advise you to just let go for your own sanity.
@ajayiegharevba47412 ай бұрын
Baby girl, send your account number to the man. First of all, secure your future financially and then ………..Meanwhile know that you cannot withstand that man.
@Dollar_TonyGift2 ай бұрын
I think u should tell ur bf Frist ok what will be will okay bby 😢
@FemiFatalade2 ай бұрын
Young lady if you want your man explain everything to your boyfriend he would decide and make his choice
@FemiFatalade2 ай бұрын
Young lady if you want your man explain everything to your boyfriend he would decide and make his choice