Habits that will make you ATTRACTIVE

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0:28 Don’t take in other people’s charges
1:50 Self-control
5:10 Detachment
9:50 Be a starter
13:45 Resourcefulness

[@Veroo8]

i love this era of women raising their voice and helping other women grow their potential, i now that everyone who is seing this WILL become the best version of themselves.

[@oxaleonora]

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[@Veroo8]

@@oxaleonora i love u queen💗💗💗

[@StrawberryS-vk5my]

me too! i love all of us as collective are supporting each other to become the best version of ourselves

[@LucieVital]

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[@hp8962]

I missed you!! You have changed my life recently, I am not kidding. I found you a few weeks ago (shortly after i turned 25). I was suffering from people pleasing, being too nice and shy, no trust in myself, had no boundaries, social anxiety etc. I started therapy also around that time, and I learned about how I grew up in a narcissistic household and like my therapist said "I was made to be a tiny mouse" by the people around me. I started to work with healing internally and so much has turned around for me every day, and your videos help reaffirm I'm on the right path during this process & teach me more. So thank you!

[@sheilarose9184]

Bless you on your journey! You can do it!

[@vic-kra]

Yes!!! I love her so much her videos save me!!

[@fouratichase]

Proud of you

[@Nat4U_XOXO]

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[@Artistic_Angel1]

You are right! ❤️💋

[@waitstreetrimming]

You are on point! I’m 54 and only started learning this way of living at around 48. I cannot believe how good that has come to me. It is so refreshing to see someone at a young age adopted this way of living. I love it you’re sharing it with others, because like minded people like us know that that is a must! if we all learn to be this way, this world will be a completely different planet. Keep up the work💜🧘🏼‍♀️

[@Nicole-gb4ze]

Thank God for your message! I am in my fifties, and I finally found the job of my dreams, but my co-teacher is playing games to the point of calling out sick for days. She doesn't like that I do my job. She even talks about me to her group of friends at work and they all look at me. I am now finally realizing that I can only control what I think. They can talk all they want, because I know that God knows who I am and I am not going to play her game. Agree! Detachment is the key.

[@carmencatalina9086]

I felt the no more complaining I’m doing this more and staying away from negative people and situations and dependent on my higher powers and myself and working on myself for myself. I’m am attractive and people hate it. Today my grandma got upset at me cause I asked my step dad for money for makeup organization items and I told myself I’m not gone react. It felt good. Told myself she can leave or stop being jealous and stop being upset at me knowing my worth and how people should support me and be there for me especially my step dad cause i deserve princess treatment from my father figure and any man in my life. It’s good feeling. ❤

[@cicada_444]

I am ultimately thankful for having access to helpful resources and beneficial information from amazing people like you!! I am glad that I'm alive in this timeline where everything is almost possible for me to access. Thank you for this new video, i badly needed this call out and reminder right now (the algorithm is crazy). I hope this beautiful channel and community reaches more people and teenagers like me! For girls who are also 15 years old and are having a hard time rn, i just want to let you know that everything will be fine and don't forget that you are not alone in this journey ♡!

[@IuliStefan]

Wow! I can't say how happy and impressed I am to have run into you. Someone who's so young and so wise, I'm in awe!

[@dear.s.e.r]

I love the fact that you have a very similar mindset as me bcs it’s so rare to see ppl like you. I’m also trusting in myself for being “the first person” that will make the amount of money for example I’m going for.

[@sakshisakshi6503]

I feel ur words....I just can't express how thankful I'm to have found u ...u r truly one among the most genuine person on media out there...loads of love and positivity ❤

[@zzzkg55]

I dont get where she starts to talk about moths can you explain it?

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you 🤍🤍🤍

[@otea-app]

the mechanism of thinking of a reason why you cannot complain is something I do a lot too and I recently learned it's a core tenet of CBT!

[@meher5633]

So i learnt today that i don't need to affect myself with anybody ideas and thoughts. I won't affect my life because of someone else and i don't need to reavt everything. I won't complain to anything and won't make excuses, o will always choose myself no matter whatt i don't care about people opinions about me i know who i am and ill het it what i want because obv i don't have anything to loose. Im so connected to myself and first i have abundance I'll gwt everything i want and i need, then i have a vision that i going to be true. I will become my best version infect i am myself my best version right now. I don't scared to be forst winner tahts why ill be successful.

[@snowworld1641]

"I will be the first one" this is a powerful mindset. 🧠 I don't know why but i have always waited for someone to do somethings that I wanted to do then I would follow. I have never wanted to be the first one unless it was for presentation in my class.

[@aadarlingxo2670]

never be controlled by the fear of losing skill

[@bibi_fania]

1:49 "tienes que pensar para ti mismo no dejare que me afecte esta mentalidad dice, no dejare que ninguna persona, ninguna circunstancia llegue a mis emociones,todo lo que tiene el poder de llegar a tus emociones te esta controlando y no puedes convertirte en quien quieres ser o ir a donde quieres ir si estas controlado por algo externo.

[@user-so9iv2eq3e]

Your chennel is growing so fast within 1 month approximately you were at 63k & 76k now subscriber's congratulations 🎉

[@W3ND3Y]

Thank you, you are godsent ❤ in the future I will look back and I will mention your videos which helped my path 🌌 I LITERALLY WATCH your videos like 3 times or more to get your words stuck in my 🧠 😂

[@oxaleonora]

haha thank you dear. I'm so happy its helping🤍

[@mademoiselle_coco]

I keep seeing videos like "make them obsessed with you" and such and you saying "I cannot answer that because it isn't even a thought in my head" was almost like a revelation. Also I actually watched this video while procrastinating -- I want to get some studying done for uni but can't really focus -- despite wanting to attend my dream university abroad in the future and being the first in my family and town to do that. But then your "I have nothing to lose" and "I will be the first one" mindset shifts have inspired me so much and I'm going back to my books now. Thank you.

[@hindfathi4867]

Literally everything you said is a lesson i learnt through experience...i related deeply to every word ..much love to you ❤ new subscribers❤

[@Clara-qw5rf]

Literally my fav youtuber, your pieces of advice are always so unique and revalating to me, and it helps me so much!! thank you a lot 🫶🏽

[@florajones2302]

Such an amazing video, loved you words and mindset. I have always had this I will be the first mindset and thank you for reminding me

[@analuiiza777]

Thank you for making this video. I don't know how, but it came at the right time in my life. I needed to hear all this, because in this new phase of my life I'm trying to develop more as a person, to be more selective with my friendships. Thank you, you've helped me a lot!

[@NganNguyen-hq1en]

So inspiring 💓 for the first time I heard these things

[@aditisadhu0611]

I love your encouraging energy ❤

[@juliaterra8]

Thank you, i am so grateful for watch this video today, you are a amazing woman who give me the strengh and the inspiration i need.

[@carmencatalina9086]

Spirit and ancestors in you and me. Glad I watch your videos. ❤

[@saveyrishi]

your strength inspires me

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you 🤍

[@courtnesyyy8746]

recently discovered your channel! love ur content 💗

[@virghoebae]

I really love confident women and I love being a woman!!!

[@UzairKhan-kn1gb]

so much thanks for giving us a intersting inf

[@thialitamoura5134]

I am in love with that woman! Thank you for open my mind !!!

[@mentalatte]

Your advice is straight to the point 🎉 love it sis

[@prachuryasingh]

I too need a place where i can record peaceful 😌

[@itgirltai]

loved this video, thanks pretty girl! 🖤

[@Hamstar78]

Hi Eleonora, you are very pretty and inspiring :) thanks for sharing your powerful and heartfelt message, cheers from sunny Singapore

[@ReggieStokes728]

Thank you sharing your gifts and talents couple of videos I watch gave push I need 🇲🇦💚🇲🇦

[@NalumansiZaharah]

Thank you for your wisdom

[@louisefinn6912]

Thank you so much for your video this resonates. 🥰❤

[@HadjerSadoun-op5ou]

I really respect this wome'

[@aur1290]

glad i came across this vid bc this was vv much needed

[@EsterMercy]

Thank you for sharing 💜

[@noeliaesterespinoza6801]

Thank you for all your advices!

[@linda7777]

Thank you soooo much, it's very helpful!

[@MANALTARFOUSS]

i am so obssesd with your channel !! carry on pretty

[@TheRebellefleur27]

thank you for this

[@Alooxoo]

I love this!! Thank you 😊 much needed God bless ❤

[@TeluguGirlInCanada]

This is the best video women need. Thank you ❤

[@rainydays9612]

Wow this is so powerful

[@jamalkhaled3873]

Thanks 🤍🤍

[@an9546]

Thanks you for reminding me that❤

[@AnimeBoyfarsi]

لطفا برای ویدیوها زیرنویس فارسی قرار بده تا مخاطبان فارسی زبان هم بتونیم از ان ها استفاده کنیم

[@dieudoisong]

thanks so much, i really like your midset and i am doing that , i will be the frist one and i am teaching myself

[@princess10107]

Thank you ❤

[@becomingdrishti]

this is my 2nd comment on your channel and you just made me into a person who comments. because i cannot hold myself back from saying that you. are. absolutely. correct. nothing you say is ever questionable. idk how you do it, but whatever you say, it almost feels like it's coming from God, because that's the only source which people like me fully trust. and i do not mean that i make myself blind or unreasonable, just to understand you, i actually, fully realize everything you say as the absolute truth. idk idk how this happens. i question a lot of things on a day-to-day but things you say, just never.

[@loredana95120]

i really enjoyed this video!❤ i love your accent, are you from France?

[@AtsoJingsJings-qs9py]

Exactly!

[@itgurl_batier]

This is soo good❤

[@velvetgf]

thank u

[@ravinaferrer7426]

i love this

[@altyn-i8r]

u are perfect

[@HadjerSadoun-op5ou]

Am going to be thé first one ❤

[@GoodLifeGoodVibes-ie1kd]

i share how to be more attractive and become the best version of yourself

[@aaryaprabhu6271]

yess queen

[@Gpeidav]

Go girl

[@jimenitacamaro6328]

You are very wise just wondering what zodiac sign are you ?

[@emnemnem1889]

Whether Aquarius or Libra ig might be wrong

[@khadijahammoud4750]

bravoo girl , amazing

[@Mia-sp8jc]

I refuse to not know.🎹🎹🎹

[@armitadh3822]

That was great,oh god

[@anakojic634]

Great sad! ❤

[@sle4108]

I love you!!!!

[@nafisanajah-3743]

Anyone else stopping by to confirm she looks like Ariana

[@cocoaocean]

You can be affected and therefore learn and be/do better by others experience. Its also called appreciation to life.

[@aditishekhawat6886]

Wow❤

[@Animixation]

4:09

[@remuspierre7573]

Awesome stuff

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you🤍

[@remuspierre7573]

Your welcome anytime

[@remuspierre7573]

Oxale

[@Ealixty]

❤️‍🔥

[@Bea_Coroiu]

wow, this was...wow

[@richbabe]

💗

[@Coco-pr3rz]

1:55 "Don’t allow anyone to control me (ex: if I’m trying to make him regret me, I’m controlled by his perception. Power comes from love : instead of letting someone trigger me, have compassion. Instead of allowing myself to complain about something, be grateful of what I have When you have a strong connection with God, you’re in a very powerful place Have a vision and have faith my vision will become reality. Let my own movie speak loud. Think « I will be the first one to achieve this. Failing is part of the process, I will try and try again."

[@milanmirwaniii9579]

I will not let it get to me I have nothing to lose It is going to happen Work towards your vision Faith gives you power to work I will be the first one I will teach myself

[@yathawuthmon6124]

My aunty said in my family no one has the same brain level as one of my aunty's children. Well, I was silent and nodded. But in my mind, I know that even if I was born with that brain level I can still improve. The brain is like a muscle we can train them. And I believe I have so much potential to develop.

[@yourfavoriteoompaloompa139]

I think u being silent and nodding was the best response

[@JyotsnaMarisetty]

This was so inspiring! Especially the part about being "the first one". Thank you for this video 💕 it truly made my day

[@oxaleonora]

I'm so happy to read it made your day. Thank you my dear🤍

[@iternadalhaoud]

Watched a lot of videos like this one, but this one is not like the others. So direct, going to the point. She’s not downgrading other people while trying to elevate us ! Love this video! Wish I knew about your channel sooner 😊

[@AayraAgrawal]

Next on procrastination vs mentally tiredness(want to relax and need Me time only just) how to differentiate ? Btw thank u so much For this video. Try to upload frequently dear❤️❤️

[@lolabradley6548]

You’re onto something Eleanora, keep going. Very deep, very powerful messages.

[@Ihavemadeit999]

You're a gem and i can tell your words comes from ur heart❤Thank you for sharing such sincere advice to the world

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you for your kind words🤍

[@Yellow_80]

Omg girl u radiate such badass bestie vibes !!! I could listen to your rants for hours ❤

[@alaskayoung584]

please create a group for like-minded woman!!

[@AngieKim-r4y]

No joke. All the habits you listed is EXACTLY my husband. And I find him SO attractive and I know many others do too. I’m so blessed to even have him in my life, let alone my husband. And being with him, I’ve upgraded my whole lifestyle and mindset that my own family and past friends feel so far behind. Not that I’m above them. But like, they are in another lifetime. And his attitude and discipline that align with these habits, keep creating endless opportunities in our life. What you are saying is 100% true. But I do believe in God! So I give all my thanks to him ❤️🙌🏻

[@darshpatadia2330]

Absolutely amazing vlog Eleonora 😁 Your small small tips to our life makes a huge difference.your vlogs are always motivating and has a good subject and content to talk on. I look forward to watching your next vlog soon Thank you Eleonora for your guidance See you soon ❤️

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you🤍

[@FatimaMasood-g2d]

Great content! what lip colour do you wear?@@oxaleonora

[@johnsonjo8454]

@@oxaleonora beautiful lady beautiful face sweet lips sweet voice💋💋💋🤎

[@ange1ove]

I always get so excited when you post ! Thank you 🙏🏹🤍

[@oxaleonora]

Thank YOU🤍

[@matthewrevord0]

First 15 seconds apply to men too. My looks have always gotten me in the door. I learned that what I choose to say either makes or breaks the spell. Good luck :)

[@lisha_acts]

I just found your channel today and I immediately subscribed! Thank you for adding value and sharing your light with the world! 🙏🏽😊

[@andreascrazylife4.0]

Hello Eleonora, Thank you for all of the inner work you have done and for sharing it with all of us.Yesterday I took a leap of faith and courage. I uploaded a KZbin video for the first time in a while. I have tried in the past but I was always in my ego and trying to people please. Your videos have given me so much knowledge and have inspired me to create in a way that serves me and others from the inside and out. Your videos are so genuine and I and so many other can tell how much energy you put into them. Thank you so much for creating and sharing your healing journey and inspiring me to do the same.

[@noellethao]

lot of wisdom in this video, thank you for being the first one.

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you Noelle 🤍

[@11DarkAcademia]

This channel is pure gold! I am so happy and grateful to be a subscriber of this channel. Much Love and abundance Eléonora 😊

[@matthewcormier8744]

I agree inner and outer beauty is great I personally learned looks isn't everything all the time

[@alwaysbeautiful7776]

Grazie, your efforts are deeply appreciated by all of us

[@Kanisari]

Eleonora thank you so much!! I always know I was different when everyone around me said that their life is fate (for whatever happened to them) but I just felt like it's not like you can't change it. And they really don't want to change it. They keep following their old ways. And keep working like a slave. My mom especially keep telling me too that this is my fate.. that I can't go to school, etc. (6th grade is the last time I was ever go to school) But God give me a brain to think. And the brain is to get out of this situation or whatever situation that got us. That's one if the biggest mercy and blessings from Him. Again, Eleanora thank you for reminding me. I almost thought I was crazy for not being like them. They could never understand my level of thinking and ways. God bless you Eleonora. (I'm planning to take GED, the high school diploma and TOEFL to change my life around. Wish me luck❤️☺️)

[@thahzjj1]

Speak with enthusiasm. It mimics confidence, confuses nervousness with excitement, makes you appear energetic and outwardly focused and helps improve the mood of those around you.

[@lauranewman8849]

I want to talk like this but I hate my teeth