RELAXER UPDATE | Under-Processed Hair, Switching to Affirm Relaxer, C0vid + Shedding | Relaxed Hair

[@HairliciousInc]

Who else has been dealing with Under-Processed Hair lately? I know I'm not the only one😂💞

[@TeeBel05]

Hey Val! so glad to see another video. I have not dealt with under-processing but I am dealing with thinning in some areas of my hair. I had a visit with my doctor today and asked her to refer me to a dermatologist to see if there is anything that needs to be addressed. She added a few tests to my blood work for them as well. I have been sticking to a consistent hair care regimen that seems to work. I just need to see how I can get my hair to grow a little thicker if possible. I will see what the dermatologist come up with too. I glad things have got better for you.

[@MelanieTaissa]

I'm suffering now 😩 I changed the country where I live so I was struggling to find a hairstylist to do the relaxer for me I used the same relaxer than I'm used to but the process she used was totally different than what I'm used to and now it feels like I didn't even relax 😩 I might need to learn how to do it by myself

[@retha90]

Me, for my last two relaxers. I left the relaxer on according to the box for course hair, and it’s still under processed. I used regular. I’m going to try super.

[@simplyakhona]

Me! 😭😩 I self-relaxed according to exactly the box timer for coarse hair with the twist sections, and the back of my head still is under processed. I don’t know if I should take extra 3 minutes overtime to smoothen or to spend more time smoothening than reapplying with an applicator brush?

[@HairliciousInc]

@@MelanieTaissa sorry to hear hun. Hmm I wonder what process she did to get a different result? Would you say the under processed hair is bearable? Ugh. The struggle is real.

[@Goldenxo90]

The only relaxed KZbinr that didn’t jump on the natural hair bandwagon. I love that you stayed true to what you wanted.

[@HairliciousInc]

I know me so I had to stick with what I love 💕 thank you for the support, sis!!

[@KM-oy5yh]

💯💯💯💯

[@lisag6416]

I totally agree! I am natural and have been for 17 years but I want my relaxer back.

[@keveenajohnson1105]

I love how naturally beautiful you are. I don't see fake nails, fake hair, eyelashes or eyebrows. Your hair is super gorgeous. I will be subscribing. Thank you!!!

[@KM-oy5yh]

💯💯💯

[@HairliciousInc]

So sweet and kind of you to say. Thank you so much for the love, hun💓

[@twitterblackdove]

@@HairliciousInc likewise, I adore your natural beauty. xo

[@Snoopymel02]

girl please dont do that. your issue matters even if its as small as your hair. I cant stand when people say there is other problems in this world, but how can we face the world when we arent addressing you first, no matter how small. I love your hair, you have one of the best❗🖤

[@HairliciousInc]

Awww Emerald! Thank you for understanding💕 and for the luv. Truly appreciate your support, hun.

[@divakingsley9020]

Oh wow you went through an entire year of the process of elimination and realized that it was the expiration dates that was basically making the relaxer not take properly to your beautiful hair…THANKS for sharing this video with us and Thank God that your family is feeling better and hopefully with NO lingering side effects from COVID.

[@HairliciousInc]

Aww thank you so much. Yes, it took some time but I eventually figured it out😅 Thanks for watching hun💕

[@TheLoveweaver]

​@HairliciousInc I didn't know either! Thanks for letting us know. I had no idea about expiration dates on relaxer. 😪😔😮‍💨

[@chericewashington7343]

I appreciate your hair tips and your flawless natural make-up look. You always look so glamorous! Definitely style inspo!

[@HairliciousInc]

Aww thanks, Cherice!! ❤

[@diva4life361]

I've been natural for the last year and a half, but I was relaxed for a very long time before going natural. I like to watch both relaxed and natural hair care videos because I believe healthy hair care is universal. I have noticed that some other relaxed ladies are having the same challenges with their hair that you discussed. For a while now I've been wondering if something is going on with the manufacturing of these relaxers. If maybe their compromising the quality and integrity of the ingredients their using. The vast majority of black women are natural now a days, so they're not making as much money on relaxer. I'm wondering if maybe they're cutting corners on these ingredients because we all know it's about the bottom line for these companies.

[@SimoneBrown]

My best guess is that because demand has dropped they are selling older products

[@diva4life361]

@@SimoneBrown I doubt if that's the case. People may not be aware of it, but relaxers have an expiration date. Stores can't sell them once the shelf life has passed. I know someone who accidentally purchased an expired relaxer that got left on the shelf. She said it had a very strong ammonia smell to it. When she looked on the bottom of the box for the date, she saw that it was expired. Unfortunately, she had already started putting it on her hair and that section of her hair broke off.

[@shundaFantastik]

I started using Affirm in the 90s and I loved it. then one day i switched to ORS, and i loved that system as well. but then ORS turned on me. It was like my scalp could no longer take it. I should not have ever left Affirm in the first place. It is by far the best relaxer on the market.

[@indiaraymond]

I’ve had MAJOR success with Afffirm. ORS left my hair under processed as well.

[@judywalker2849]

I love Affirm relaxers, been using them since 2000.

[@MsMyraEmily]

I love affirm too

[@HairliciousInc]

@Nicole wanted to love it so bad, but it’s not for my texture!

[@theconcealedmistress]

Affirm is awesome

[@missg4238]

Facts, it is by far the best relaxer system that I have ever used. Worth every penny.

[@mrod87]

Natural girl here who has learned soooo much about maintaining proper moisture and protein balance from YOU…looking forward to watching ur next journey. I love the science of hair! You taught me how to properly transition back to healthy straight hair, can’t wait to see what i learn during ur next growth journey. Rooting for y’all (u and ur hair, lol).

[@rqhstlouis]

Under processing can really make or break your relaxer journey just as much as over processing. That was why I hated stretching my relaxer beyond 10 wks. Because I’d have so much new growth, I’d never have enough relaxer to get through my entire head. So I’d have sections that didn’t get any relaxer on it, other sections that only got a little, and others that were over processed because I didn’t know where my new growth started or ended. I love relaxed hair but I don’t take care of my hair well enough for them. I hope you get it figured out. It’s still gorgeous. They may have changed the ingredients or potency of it. That’s been secretly happening to a lot of products lately.

[@latoyaturner743]

I think I have been doing that as well. According to how fast your hair grows as well. My hair grows fast as well so stretching will have too much new growth which can cause it to be under processed. Under processing do cause the hair to get damaged. When relaxing every 2 weeks a steam or heat cap is needed. That way it helps keep hair healthy.

[@flatbedladyv2191]

I went 3 mths and the same here ...under processed...i braided it up ...i will wait til next relaxer to

[@cass3301]

…just buy two boxes …

[@tanyas1644]

The title grabbed me and I was like "oh no... If the guru is switching, imma have to consider it too"... lol! So glad I watched the entire video and thank you for your transparency. This is definitely confirmation that we will all struggle or have challenges during the journey but we should continue to listen to our hair. Wishing everyone a healthy hair journey 🙂

[@HairliciousInc]

Lol. It’s definitely been a crazy journey lately but I’m happy to share my thoughts, feelings and experiences (good or bad) with my hair sisters. Had to go back to my tried and true though💕 thanks for watching, Tanya.

[@madisonmiles8500]

I was at the beauty supply store today. Got an ORS relaxer so when I saw the title I was like nooooooo. I use a lot of the product you've recommend and none have failed me. Good luck in getting your hair back on track.

[@relisbetrel]

I just bought two from Amazon but the expiry date is fine. I'm just gonna be extra extra diligent in making sure I don't have any product buildup when I relax this time. Ors was my original bestie and I'm hoping we can link up like old times 😆

[@JosieMatthews14]

Ofter my last braiding before I relax my hair girl I think I was losing all my hair the shedding was 🙄 but still I knew I had to get a relaxer soon. So I waited 2 weeks before I did. When I did my hair I had no type of breakage but I got a little more shedding then when started to trim my end I going to notice the crown part of head the hair there had some damage to it I wanted to cry but I keep the faith an say jo it's gonna grow back dont worry yourself are else it would get worse. I would never do knotless again I would do the normal braiding cause I don't get no problem at all with that type of braiding. I just get to know the struggle with hair is real but we can't give up. We have to love our crown of glory. Stay sweet and beautiful my love thanks for the update ❤ 💕 😘 ♥ 💖

[@tycie9894]

The mineral oil contained in the ORS relaxer is the allusion that causes the appearance of smoothness and straightness.

[@PhyliciaTheDiva]

Hey Val. Apparently, they are sending out old product in most cases coming from the warehouses in general. Unfortunately, I also ended up underprocessed. I have experienced alot of shedding as well. Prior to that, i had little to no breakage and i was retaining length so well. This month I was pretty much forced to cut around 3 inches off my length to try to regain control of the breakage this last I'd say 3 relaxers gave me. My hair is starting to thicken back up finally. But i was just as tired and frustrated as you are. This too shall pass. Let's stay positive ✨️ next goal is healthy length retention for the remainder of 2022.

[@HairliciousInc]

We have each other to lean on. Thanks hun for the boost and words of encouragement. The cut is a nice reset and the thickness will come. What is this "sending out old product" about? Not on my watch!! LOL I literally had to ask the reps @ the BSS as to which relaxer is most recent. Now, I'm so aware of the expiry dates and labeling my opened products. I'm in agreement with you - healthy length retention for 2022!!✨😍

[@PhyliciaTheDiva]

Thank God for that. Good thing we do have each other. Honestly, i was just as confused trying to blame myself instead of the products that have been doing me great over the years. Fortunately, we caught the bad end of the deal not checking dates amidst the panaramic. But, its a well bought lesson, for sure. I appreciate your honesty, your content and your knowledge ❤️ Be blessed Honey 🥰

[@LuvvToi]

Glad you and your family are well and you figured out your hair issues! I am currently in an unmotivated, frustrated, and discouraged state with my hair. So much shedding within the past several months. And have to switch relaxers… which may end up being a good thing…. I’m praying that I figure it out. Thank you for sharing. It helps being reminded that even the best of us go through issues during this journey!!

[@HairliciousInc]

Thank you so much! I give God praise. Girl, I was in my feelings about my hair. Just so much going on all at once. I tried my best to stay motivated but it was difficult. We all go through it!! Glad I have you all to lean on, too💞. Process of elimination will help with the shedding issue. I find shedding is more of an internal issue than external at times. Which relaxer do you plan on switching to?

[@franciscofigueiredo3040]

I'm Brazilian and you are a reference for me about relaxed hair. I love your videos and I learn a lot from you. Thank you for so many wonderful videos

[@HairliciousInc]

Oh wow! Shoutout to Brazil 🇧🇷 thanks for the luv and support hun💋

[@wendyedwards4806]

One thing I feel is certain. Relaxers carry with them lots of uncertainty and are unpredictable. The best thing you can do is what you've been doing, even a master chemist would have periods of unruly relaxer days/months. Thank goodness our hair has lots of bounce-back!

[@carmencitadavis9043]

I'm so glad to see more videos about women that are not afraid to put a relaxer in their hair if they are doing it correctly and the proper and safe way because so many times I have seen videos that women have downgraded hair relaxers and said how bad they are for the hair but they can be healthy if you do it the right way because all I kept seeing was women doing the big chop and if another woman wanted to wear her hair relaxed they were criticize her for not wearing her natural hair so thank you for this video

[@Legacy_125]

Yes, I have to check the expiry dates on my products. My hair was reverting in areas.

[@queenroyalroyal4680]

Thanks for sharing Val. I chopped my hair back in Jan 2022 to above shoulder length. I didn't like how the ends were growing so thin. Since then my hair has been thriving with all of your tips, thank you for that. Your hair looks fantastic and happy to hear you and your family is well. Health over everything because without good health we are nothing. Be well and again thank you for the great hair tips and this video update on your hair. Stay healthy❤

[@HairliciousInc]

Nothing like a good trim to reset everything. Love it. Glad to hear your hair is back on track too! Thanks for the luv and for watching hun.💕

[@newestbarbee3250]

Hi Val. I greased my relaxed ends and this new hair dresser I went to relaxed the previously relaxed hair. I didn't even know she went that far. My hair before was bone straight now about 90 percent of my hair is shaggy and feeling like hay. I was so discouraged. I was ready to shave my head. But watching your vid and seeing that you are moving forward with it, I decided to move forward to

[@ALMad04]

Glory to God you all are better! Everyone, including myself have had problems with hair after having COVID. Someone needs to figure out why!!!! Thank you for your content! You are such a blessing!🥰

[@louiselove8212]

First of all, greetings my beloved sisters Val and Mel in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Lord and God. Respect ✊🏽 to you Val. Yes, my hair was under processed the last time I retouched it. I noticed that too. I relaxed my hair only last year August 2021. Then I followed you and three quarters of my hair regime is from following up with what you do Val. My hair has grown so long and healthy. There is one thing that I do with my hair that you don’t do with yours. I use Chebe powder and mix it up into a paste and include this in my moisture LOC tender loving care of my hair. Then I have practically no shedding. None at all. I braid my hair and tick away the ends. My hair is LUSCIOUS!!!! The challenge with using chebe powder is people have different lifestyles. I don’t care about leaving the paste in my hair 24/7 and then I wash my hair and (all the products you use( then still put the chebe powder paste back into my hair. My hair does not break at all. When my hair is as long as yours. I will rethink how often I incorporate chebe powder into my hair regimen. My hair is growing up to my shoulder blades, so my English husband tells me. Amen Hallelujah Hallelujah. Thank you Val for your channel.

[@liamsmith3290]

Hey Val, thanks as always for the transparency. Girl, your hair is STILL goals! 😄I'm happy that your and the fam are well and thriving. 🙏

[@rileymurray9098]

I’m so happy you shared your struggle because I’ve been going through it with my hair. I started relaxing it February 2021 and everything was fine then all of sudden after a year major breakage. I still can’t figure out if it’s health, stress or what I’m using. Hopefully I get to the bottom of it because it really affected me emotionally to see it breaking right now I’ve just been wearing protective style and giving it a break from relaxing it.

[@HairliciousInc]

Sorry to hear hun! The struggle is definitely real and it really wears on your emotions, so I get it. Are you sure it's breakage and not shedding? Were you natural prior to 2021? Breakage is a little tricky because there can be multiple factors that could cause it. Process of elimination is key!

[@sibongilemwasile8111]

I am having the same struggle my hair is really breaking. I am the point where I just want to cut it off, my edges are also thinned out and the hair is getting a strange color

[@jasminshade7883]

@@sibongilemwasile8111 hmm my hair was breaking and shedding too couple months back but , I cut protein and try to get the best moisture conditioner and I use a leaving conditioner, I apply it two times a week, so you have to get to the bottom of it by doing some new steps and see if there is changes.

[@Mherder803]

Yes it’s terrible, Im starting to get breakage mostly at my crown but I already did the big chop couple years back and don’t want to do it again

[@chinyerenwogu1199]

Thank you for sharing 🤗🤗 I also experienced shedding from Covid and the stress of completing my first degree late last year. My hair’s thinner and my nape hair took a big hit. Got my ends trimmed and I’ve been more consistent with my hair routine. I’m hoping to bounce back like you did 🥰 Glad you and your family are doing good, getting sick with Covid is truly scary!

[@HairliciousInc]

You too?! It wasn't fun at all but there is light at the end of the tunnel. The trim is a nice reset and stay on top of your routine will help. Baby your nape area and apply product there first so it's not neglected. Thanks for the luv hun!

[@organicniki6]

This is why I went natural 7 years ago, it seemed like the relaxers just didn’t want to take anymore. Now being relaxed again, I really hope this doesn’t begin to happen.

[@ssjdnoid]

Glad you’re back on track. Well wishes for you and the family. I have experienced under processing with ORS as well. I was in search of another relaxer but wasn’t sure which one. I may need to revisit ORS and make sure it’s not expired.

[@kimberlywright1511]

I’ve been so frustrated with my edges thinning. I also experienced shedding after COVID this year. I’ve stopped allowing my stylist to apply a Demi permanent dye to my hair on relaxer days and my BP med dosage has been lowered. I’m praying this makes a difference and soon. I love the length of my hair and the thickness of my hair but I know it isn’t at its maximum potential. Glad you got your hair back on track!

[@HairliciousInc]

Hey Kimberly! Yes, it's back on track but definitely got more work to do. You were shedding too? Ugh😟 I think your plan of not doing the demi permanent dye on relaxer day is a great step in the right direction - maybe 2 weeks after your touch-ups would be better. Do you think the BP Meds could be causing the thinning?

[@theconcealedmistress]

Try bigen powder color. I use it a week after relaxing.

[@tamarastone2742]

Use a rinse on relaxed hair. That's too many chemicals. Permanent dyes are best for natural, virgin hair. I would rinse every two weeks

[@kimberlywright1511]

Hello ladies! KZbin didn’t seem it necessary to alert me that you all responded to my comment! I do believe my medication has contributed to thinning because I noticed the thinning once I started taking it. My stylist was using the Demi permanent color to cover my grays. A rinse won’t cover it unfortunately. I began using Mielle’s rosemary mint oil on my edges (along with my Jamaican Black Castor Oil) and I’m noticing a slow increase in thickness and growth! ❤️

[@curlycanuck4690]

Hey Val, I’m glad to hear things are working out for you. This natural hair journey is no joke either, but I’m sticking it out. Take care and good luck!

[@aanaayss]

The same thing happened to me last year where my hair became resistant to my go-to relaxer. I tried affirm and even a no-lye relaxer. There are so many factors that come into play when it comes to relaxed hair. I think buying a smaller tub is a great idea so that you always have a "fresh batch"of relaxer.

Oh that's a great idea

[@HairliciousInc]

Look at that! Were you able to correct the under-processed hair eventually? What relaxer are you using now? Yes, I think the small tubs are a better way to go. Thanks for sharing sis💕

[@kristinamoire]

Thanks for sharing!! I have been curious about the Affirm system as well, but probably won't be trying it after seeing this😂 I have been having the problem of my hair reverting after a few weeks for quite a long time. Maybe 5 years??😓 This is why I don't have the coveted WL or MBL yet, because my hair keeps breaking and I have had to use heat bi weekly, or blowdry it but still wind up brushing it daily to get it to lay down. All of which is so bad, but I'm learning. I've been coating my ends for the last year or two, which helped tremendously. I have been slowly increasing my processing time by 2-3 minutes increments each time.. The back of my hair is "perfect" to me now, but the front still needs a bit of finessing. I've been trying for YEARS to air dry and use less heat, but the hair reverting has been a thorn in my side. I've just been taking good notes on my phone calendar each time I relax and make a game plan to improve next time. That's all we can really do is just learn from the bad times and adjust accordingly. I'll be relaxing my hair this weekend actually 🙏🙏 Hopefully it will turn out right once and for all... Thanks again for sharing, this video was very relatable! ❤️💯

[@HairliciousInc]

Thank you Kristina for sharing that. Sounds like you are really aware of your hair and adjusting accordingly - keep it up!! It will get better. The hair reversion after a relaxer is all new to me so I'm learning as I go. It ain't easy, sis. Affirm was great, really wanted to love it and make it a staple but my hair said otherwise. It's just not for my texture, I guess.

[@cari0783]

I went through the same thing after COVID. My hair was falling out in clumps, I was getting weak physically and just always tired no matter how much I slept.... I've been supplementing with Vit D3+ K2 and Omega-3.... it's been 3 months and my hair is fuller and stronger again. I got my strength back. I even stopped graying which is a plus.

[@okaileyokantey5730]

Hello Val, thanks for sharing. Was so excited to see a new video upload since I was binge watching your old videos this evening. I’ve been experiencing some shedding myself. My husband and I recently got the covid too but thank God we’re both healing as well. Thank God you and your family have recovered and doing well in Jesus name. Glory to God 🥳. Love from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@HairliciousInc]

Glad you both recovered, too! We give God praise.

[@robinparker2473]

Love update!! I definitely understand and have experienced under processing but now facing other hair challenges of thinning stringy ends with some breakage And shedding from overprocessing. So no relaxing or heat usage for now. My hair is btwn armpit and bra strap length and I haven’t lost a lot of length thank goodness but definitely seeing the negative effects of overprocessing. I have experienced breakage in the middle where my hair hangs. Just like many others I don’t want to do a huge cut which would be about 2-3 inches. But I’ve went back to your previous videos about length retention and the one about obtaining thickness and using your tips to get through this setback!! Glad to know your fam is okay after Covid🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽!!

[@scorpio0037]

Sorry to hear of your set back, and excited to know u figured it out..your videos helped me with my set back a few months back, now my hair is flourishing back to normal. Thank you....

[@chrisychris0117]

She said ors was butttahhhhhhh !!! I love that ors worked for you 😍. Hair is such a journey xoxo

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Hairlicious! Thank you so much for this update. I heard about the “COVID shed” and I’m glad that you and your family not only recovered health-wise, but that you are also recovering hair-wise and have figured out what was going on with regard to the ORS. You look absolutely gorgeous, BTW! And it goes without saying that your hair is gorgeous, too! I know you’ll be back at 100% in no time. 👍🏾

[@CassandraCee_]

My hair was severely under processed so I stopped relaxing at home and went a professional and I’m so glad I did

[@HairliciousInc]

Yes, sometimes relaxing at home can cause your hair to be under-processed.

[@beverlyfann5574]

Thank You for sharing Val. I too have gone through a set back . I had weight loss surgery and my hair has started shedding. It's just hair , but , I too have very thick healthy hair that is much thinner now. I have added hair vitamins to my regimen and just sticking with my regular routine. Co wash mid week , and shampoo deep conditioning on weekends (3 p oils of course,). I got that from you!! Glad your hair is recovering. Thanks for all of the videos and hair advice. You have been such a blessing to me!

[@jallen157]

Thank you for sharing your story. I get my perm done at a salon and it’s nearly impossible to find a professional who doesn’t push Affirm. It’s been the case for several years now and I’ve suspected Affirm doesn’t agree with my hair but thought it was in my head because again, it’s nearly impossible to find a salon that isn’t pushing Affirm. Finally found a stylist that uses Design Essentials, which was my old go to. I have an upcoming appt with her and I’m 🙏🏾 that Design Essentials proves to be solution.

[@HairliciousInc]

What made you suspect Affirm wasn't agreeing with your hair? I've heard great things about Design Essentials relaxer as well. Thanks for watching hun!💞

[@jallen157]

@@HairliciousInc Absolutely!! Love your content. As for how I knew, everything else was a constant. Design Essential is amazing! I was told by one stylist that their distributors have a hard time getting it. But it's so pervasive in my area, I'm more inclined to believe these distributors are incentivized to push Affirm & Mizani. Hey! Some people love both. I'm just not one of those people.

[@dooshdoosh9269]

Oh thank God for healing you and your family. Thats way more important than anything else. You grew it the first time, you will grow it again. And I must say that all your videos are so informative, and bring so much encouragement. I learnt something new again, don't force it if it doesn't work for you, even if it works for others. It is okay to go back to what you have left if something new does not work.

[@OreliaLatrice]

My hair stylist uses Affirm on my hair… so far so good. I’m glad you and your family are doing better. I’ve learned that sometimes hair does not like new products & different routines. I know my hair does not like when I’m doing too much to it. The simpler the better.

[@sweetsharie66]

Despite it all your hair is still longer and more beautiful than most. Thank you for sharing your struggles. 🙏🏾💗

[@valriecoles4163]

Your hair still looks healthy and beautiful 😍. Our hair is so unpredictable we just have to listen to it

[@kamaliah1865]

Beautiful, wow, you and your hair! 😍😍 I wonder if you could share how often you workout or tips that worked for you because you are looking really fit! Thank you for sharing and always being so thorough. You inform me and my daughters so much and have given us real solutions, each for our hair types and concerns. Be blessed Val! 💕

[@jsand5389]

Hey Val. 1st--So happy you guys are doing ok😁 2nd--Your hair looks AMAZING!!! 3rd--I recently suffered from under-processing. Like you, I had been using the same relaxer for years (Silk Elements lye). I had stretch for one whole year 😲, When I finally relaxed, I was indeed texlaxed. My roots were beautiful, my ends were still straight from before. But mid-shaft....😟 I waited a month and kinda went over the textlaxed part and it wasn't any big improvement.😣 So I said forget this and on my next relaxer day I used the boxed Soft and Beautiful and finally got the results I wanted. I had stayed away from boxed b/c of calcium deposits, but if I'm going to be going through this ish, why bother? I got me a good chelating shampoo (2, actually) and now my hair was straight, shiny, and beautiful. Don't know if it was the year-long stretch, old relaxer, or what. Don't know what I'll do next time, but S&B has never let me down. And the Keracare Humecto Conditioner you recommended....👌🏽👍🏽👌🏽👍🏽 My hair has NEVER felt more moisturized. I know this was long, but I wanted you to get the whole picture. Thanks for all you do!!! (and your sister).

[@charismanicole]

I had a bout with under processing a couple of relaxers ago. I discovered I was protecting my previous relaxed hair too close to the demarcation line. I was getting the roux & Dax in the new growth. My other problem has been shedding. Thanks to you, I know it’s an iron problem because I’ve always been anemic. My last issue was my fault too. I’ve been getting terrible tangles like the last two weeks before a new relaxer. It was because of me being stubborn about not wanting to get in the shower to wash/rinse/cond. loving that kitchen sink too much. My hair too long now. So I’m in the shower now and the tangles are gone. As always thanks for sharing you hair care journey. Sorry my post too long 😂

[@danielleking8520]

May I ask, what do you mean by protecting your previous relaxed hair too close to the demarcation line?

[@danielleking8520]

Should I relax my relaxed hair too? I was thinking of doing that.

[@charismanicole]

@@danielleking8520 the line between your new growth and previous relaxed hair.

[@TheSharna23]

I’m so glad you touched on this! I’ve been using ORS and my last 2 touch ups have ended up with under processing! I thought it was something with my technique or processing time! Let me do some research on Affrim...

[@DS-Trina]

I’m glad you and your family are well Val! Keeping hair on your head can be stressful at times! I’m glad you reflected on what could have went wrong and adjusted according. Girl I would have given up and lost half of my hair. 😂 Or, I would have tried all of these different products wondering why isn’t anything working. I think you returning back to your tried and true is a good example for the rest of us. Stick with what was working beforehand. Thanks for sharing!

[@HairliciousInc]

Aww thanks hun. We are good!! This whole hair drama was terrible but definitely a teachable moment for me. Trust me, I did feel like chopping everything off, but I would instantly regret it🤣😂 yes, always stick to what works!! Thanks for watching💕

[@angelaurahoneypot]

Hey sis!!! Im glad you and your family are healthy and back on track! And you were able to find out what happened with your baby ORS Relaxer System! Yay!!!! You look good girl! When you are proactive, setbacks don't last forever! Im super happy for you! 💖

[@NaomiEsegine]

Wow. This was very touching to watch. I’m glad your hair is back & striving. Thank you for sharing all your hair struggles with us. I learnt a lot.

[@Babyboo97ish]

I had the same problem with the professional relaxer of Mizani !

[@sherylgee89]

Yes Im currently going this with ORS as well. I have really thick strong hair and Im underprocessed regularly which is causing shedding and breakage. I am using a protein shampoo and conditioner to build my hair up. So glad you made this video, now I will try Affirm relaxer.

[@latonyagipson-bowman9186]

Thank you for sharing this Val, because I use ORS and I will start getting it from the back from this day forward

[@allisond4916]

Glad you and family are feeling better. I had the exact same experience with Affirm No Lye, and a few others. I eventually settled on Syntonics which is my sweet spot. I have always had to leave in a little longer and smooth more. My hair is resistant. But I have made peace (and joy) with the little texture left back.

[@HairliciousInc]

Thank you! My hair requires more combing and smoothing too it seems💕

[@Brandyiswonderfullymade]

Ive been there as far as the shedding after covid. What worked for me was discovering bhringraj. It definitely gave me back strength. I unfortunately have had the big c 2x but the crazy shed was after the 1st time 2021 but 82nd time since using bhringraj I have seen less and less shedding. I pray you find your regimen that works for you

[@triscavidaabbott1336]

Hi Val, I’m so happy to see that despite the ups and down your hair still looks beautiful. You mentioned the excessive shedding you were experiencing tho, so I was wondering if you can give some tips on preventing shedding please

[@casmitastephenson8819]

Thanks for sharing, I had the same problem my hair was not taking the relaxed. But I get to understand our hair need a break after awhile. After like 15 years of relaxing I take a break for 2 years with cutting my hair off.. this year I relaxed for mother's day weekend. First time my hair looks so healthy longer and thicker.

[@salamabakhalah2342]

How did you manage the under-processed hair on relaxer day, did you put relaxer on the under-processed hair and if so how long did you keep it ? Please do a detailed video on under-processed hair it is very stressful to deal with 😭😭😭 Thaaaaaaaank you for being so honest .. QUEEN 😍

[@gak2008]

I love your vids! I don’t think imma go back to my stylist. I told them I had shedding. Hair was thinner and she downplayed my breakage and missing chunk of hair. Sooo we are gonna wing it on my own now

[@gisellelaveau4558]

Hi Val. Thanks so much for sharing your experience. Wishing you and your family continued good health. I too have had issues with shedding, but I have been able to get it under control from watching your videos. I am from Trinidad and Tobago. I don't think we get Affirm here but we do get the ORS and the Dark and Lovely which I am using now with good results so far. Looking forward to more of your videos. It's good to hear the real life experiences so we know we are not alone. All the best!

[@TruueFlo_]

Sis the revert game is way too real. When I tell you I have tried every relaxer under the sun! Lol I will say I’ve had the best results with Design Essentials sensitive scalp or Mizani Butter Blend. Still having issues with getting my shedding/flaky scalp under control though.I try not to use too much protein so maybe I’ll consider more iron & increase my moisture game. Love the video!!!🤎

[@melb1003]

Another amazing video Val ❤️! You look absolutely beautiful! A hair journey is a journey indeed. Your hair is gorgeous and continuously thriving 😍❤️

[@deborahblissett7022]

No you’re not the only one and yes me and my 2 Sons were sick last year also and I had shedding and I am still having some I have really fell off with my workouts and my hair I am so frustrated but I am praying and still pushing, it’s growing but I need to do better I will do better so thanks for all your hair tips and Thank God for great health for you and your family so much love and support always ❤️☺️🙏🏽God Bless❤️

[@starlettehandy4331]

Girl, that’s what I use, Affirm. I love it. It’s totally different. My hair feels soft and silky.

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

Hi ! Were you natural at first ? Affirm was a great experience for you for how long ? Do you still use this relaxer ?

[@WhisperingWillow-os3sj]

I was natural at first from 2017-2022. A relative of mine was going to take care of my natural hair, but when COVID hit, she shut her shop down. So, I went back to relaxed. I do use Affirm, and I still love it. I am due for a relaxer. Last one was in February of 2024. Will put the next one between September and November. Every 7-9 months.

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

@@WhisperingWillow-os3sj Oh thank you for your quick and informative response.🙂

[@WhisperingWillow-os3sj]

@@crownedmelaninqueen 0:02 Awww! You’re welcome. Anytime.)

[@allisondavis9682]

I had to leave my beautician of 7 years in 2021 She really helped maintain my relaxed healthy hair. She was using Affirm and I loved the texture. Its now 2022 I've had a baby and oh my goodness the shedding is nerve wracking. I did my first relaxer after baby with ORS and the texture is totally different. I didn't like it. It may have been an old relaxer because my hair is now under processed and breaking. Im trying to catch it before my length is jeopardized. It's truly heartbreaking. Love your content I do follow your journey thanks for posting the pros and cons.

[@indi1omccoln565]

Caught Covid in January Hair fell out all through February Hair hasn’t been the same since One side refuses to grow while everything else has no matter how long I stretch,deep condition, wash and braid down and consistent trims.

[@curls_lover11_25]

Try Mary Ruth morning liquid vitamin, thanks me later

[@sealindemere7400]

@@curls_lover11_25 Thank you. I am going to look into this. I am experiencing major post Covid shedding.

[@ritawilson6614]

I hear you about the older relaxers! I now buy mines from target Ors because I personally don’t trust the beauty supply stores with their relaxers considering relaxers aren’t as popular anymore.

[@lavonhendricks6067]

Thank you. For the first time in over a year my hair is fully processed! Asked for the newest relaxer with the longest expiry date. Finally back to normal. I honestly thought it was me!

[@chrisychris0117]

Affirm Sugar honey ice tea. W/ fiber gaurd and kera care and Humecto conditioner butter

[@Niikisparks]

Thank God you and your family are well! 🙏🏾Despite all what you described your hair still looks amazing!! 😍 Relaxed hair can be very tricky 😅but at least you got to the roots of the issue!👏🏾🙌🏽

[@HairliciousInc]

Thanks Nikki!! It's been such a journey. I give God praise💕

[@kalishajnz]

I used to use ors faithfully but about 3yrs ago switched to mizani because I wanted to use a professional relaxer but it's quite mild and leaves texture, so much so that no matter how fast or slow I go I get the same results. I don't even bother with a timer. I don't mind the texture but last month my bss didn't have mizani so I got ors and it was great, I forgot how much I loved that relaxer so I've decided to maybe just switch it up. I relax 3x's a year so one of those I'll use ors. Your hair looks amazing and I'm glad you got everything back on track. 💜

[@HairliciousInc]

Love how you are able to achieve the same results with both relaxers. I love texture too, but a controlled amount🤣 Thanks hun for watching and for the luv💕

[@dollenergy7971]

Such a great video! So happy to hear you and your family go be healthy! Glory be to God that your feeling much better. Can you do an in depth video with the Affirm relaxer? I heard so much great things about this relaxer.

[@gracieanduze1171]

New subscriber to your channel, glad to hear you and your family are doing well, my husband came down with COVID and it was quite a challenge...so I feel you. I am now on my own hair journey, experienced shedding for about a month and a half drove me crazy, but all of a sudden seemed to come to a halt keeping my fingers crossed and really caring for my hair in a healthy manner. Love all of your content and btw, your hair and skin looks absolutely beautiful. Stay healthy lovely!

[@HairliciousInc]

Thanks so much, Gracie!! Truly appreciate the love and kind words. It's so good that your shedding came to a halt. Keep doing what you're doing and remain consistent with your wash days. We are in this together!

[@BPink-ke7jy]

Hi Val,I am glad you and your family recovered from COVID. I always enjoy your videos. You look beautiful ❤️

[@HairliciousInc]

Thank you so so much💕🙏🏾

[@rukaiyadauda142]

hey val, you may want to get a container and put the relaxer you want to use in it, just like you do when you do your deep conditioning, that way you will not contaminate the whole tube, i love your videos, cheers

[@traceylennon1204]

Wow...what was going ON?? It looks great now!!

[@toni-annedwards5028]

My hair is shedding and breaking like crazy and idk what to do anymore. I'm so stressed about it and sometimes I get demotivated.🥺🥺

[@aleciasmith8995]

Sorry to hear I did aswell I did everything I could vitamins.tea rinse.protein treatment. Moisturizer treatment.you name it .my only solution was to go natural.

[@sibongilemwasile8111]

Me too

[@virginiawolf1708]

@@aleciasmith8995 Try hot oil treatments that worked for me. My hair was breaking and I couldn't figure out why. I was doing protein and moisture treatments. After the hot oil treatments, my hair inproved greatly.

[@sojoya16]

Thanks so much for the update! I’ve relaxed my hair with ors recently and my hair was under processed and I was scared because I was so careful with my steps I watched your videos over and over before even attempting anything I wasn’t sure what I did wrong to be honest hopefully I can figure it out by my next relaxer day

[@smithcrisalee8718]

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[@theconcealedmistress]

It maybe time to switch relaxers. Years ago my hairdresser suggested I switch from design essentials, to Affirm with fiberguard sensitive scalp. Best decision ever. I got Affirm sensitive scalp in 1993 been getting sensitive scalp relaxers since then. Affirm is one of the best relaxers out there been around about 30 years now. The old expired stuff is always in the front, especially food, always shop from the back lol. It's unfortunate Affirm didn't work for you.❤️

[@HairliciousInc]

Now, I know!! ORS is definitely for me💚Thanks for watching.

[@elizabethpierre1394]

Girl your hair is always amazing 😻

[@tiffany_reece]

It's encouraging to hear your story. I am now in that phase. I am now seeing breakage at the crown of my head. And I only do low buns so idk what's going on. I'm so depressed about the shedding also.

[@HairliciousInc]

It will get better, Tiff! ❤️ Crown breakage is such a mystery at times. Doing everything in sections, moving your bun around and applying product there first is key!!

[@tiffany_reece]

Thank you

[@Fit_pharmacist]

Yes definitely move your buns. Low buns everyday can cause tension at the crown. The struggle is real for us! 😩

[@bouchratm7690]

Hey sis! Glad your family and you are healthy now!! Would you suggest the affirm Products to someone starting a relaxed hair journey?

[@CassysHairCare]

Awww I am so glad you and your family are okay now. God is good always. I am confident your hair will be exactly where and how you want it 💕💖🥰.

[@julenekenyon3278]

Oh yes! I’ve had it! The entire length of my hair has a lot of texture. I’ve been having this problem for years. I also have excessive shedding but tbh my hair is still very thick. It’s almost as if it grows as much as it breaks. Not even flat ironing keeps my hair straight. As soon as the wind touches it, poof! I’m on the verge of cutting my hair all off because I cannot 😩

[@snocartistry806]

I experience severe shedding and most of my hair mid to end is textured.(underprocessed) . I have fine hair. I guess I would do the elimination process cause I gets really annoying when I see the sheddings

[@moniquesimpson595]

OMG! Thanks for this. With my last relaxer there was no breakage at all and my hair was perfect for the first time in a long time... then I got COVID and there was sooo much shedding! I thought I did something wrong until you mentioned it here. I didn't know that could be a side effect. I feel better about now. Thanks again for sharing.

[@HairliciousInc]

Hey Mo! Thanks for watching. Yes, after Covid shedding can occur. It sucks but we’ll get through it💕Has your shedding slowed down?

[@moniquesimpson595]

@@HairliciousInc Hey! I did a hot oil prepoo and used a tea rinse and I've been leaving it alone... so let's see

[@SerenityIsComing]

I’ve been using affirm for the last 8 or 9 years , the sensitize scalp version. I’ve loved it! But I’ve also experienced under processing the last two times. I wonder if my stylists relaxers were old 🤔🤔🤔

[@margaretnanyonga4041]

I'm using affirm and I'm experiencing under-processing.

[@HairliciousInc]

I really wanted to love affirm but my hair said “No”!!

[@meritacole-joseph3653]

I cheated on my ORS relaxer in June 22 with the same affirm relaxer 🤣 I have used ORS for over 10 yrs too. I did love the affirm relaxer and my scalp liked it too ❤️❤️

[@HairliciousInc]

Haha! Look at that?! Glad you liked it💓

[@mellmoi7571]

Great comeback!👏🏾👏🏾

[@HairliciousInc]

Aww thank you, Melanie💕

[@freeway766]

May I ask where you get that necklace? Also thank you so very much for sharing.

[@HairliciousInc]

Hey sis. My necklace is from Amazon. Link in the description box💕

[@VictorineStLouis]

I have been dealing with under- process and this video has help a lot.

[@MsKimmyK]

Hi Val, I always watch your relaxer videos. I think I've actually watched all and still rewatching most of your videos😀 I just wanted to say that because of you, I have changed the way I neglect my relaxed hair, I did that because my hair was shedding excessively, and it was getting soooooo thin, it still is. But I decided to change all that by doing the same steps you did when relaxing your hair, even using the same products! The only product I was unable to find was the Joico brand. I also used to use the box relaxer, which was not helping my hair at alllll! I decided to switch to the ORS regular strength in the jar, (you know, the same one you use🙂). And after following the twisting method you use and products, Listennnnn Val, I just wish I could give you a BIIIGGG HUG! because my hair felt sooooo good and the shedding was less, because I also did that black tea treatment you did before my relaxer. I'm just hoping I can get my fullness back, I also did a little trim as well. But THANK YOU VAL❤!!!! YOU ARE THE BEST😘

[@theresavinson6466]

Glad you and your family have recovered; thank God!!!

[@lovehope3753]

I praise God for you and your family's speedy recovery. Thank you, Jesus! Also, thank you for the updates.

[@daciasdiy1861]

Motions system actually has you do the conditioning rite after you rinse the relaxer too

[@tshe123]

Hi Val I'm going through the under-processed hair stress as we speak. Being using Olive oil ors and I think the last box I used 6 weeks ago didn't give me the results I'm used to. I'm thinking of changing the relaxer but I'm confused and scared. Glad you passed that phase and all is well with your hair now.

[@HairliciousInc]

Hi hun! Experiencing inconsistencies in your relaxer touch-up is such a pain. Which relaxer do you plan on switching to? Do you think the last box you used was fresh and not expired?

[@FaithJoneschannel]

Have you ever considered Motions relaxer? That's what I use and it does the job well. No over or under processing. It is a strong perm so I don't leave it in longer than 15 minutes