How To Be Less Feminine (And More Masculine)

[@BrandonHalo]

My mother was a feminist, and her wacko beliefs and actions led to a lot of detrimental things in my life as a boy. That being said, I am working on my resentments toward her for this and am overcoming negative feminist programming. I like your positive message, Hamza. I made a video about the wacko things my mom did and said.

[@kidnamedfinger7109]

Good job my man 💪

[@benv7753]

good on ya

[@starfox300]

True, my mom is a turbo feminist, she only taught me complete garbage. Concepts like it's ok to be weak, it's ok to do no physical activity, it's ok to follow what everyone else is doing. Men who grow up with such moms will be complete weaklings.

[@iswear4619]

Bro your name is ironic right?

[@Carbon3979]

Stay strong brother

[@trolleden3886]

I think I speak for most people who watch these videos Hamza when I say you are like an older brother figure for all of us truly a role model and teacher at every step! Keep it up and have a nice day you and everyone else

[@profanotherletter4346]

the perfect brother. money, gains and brains

[@MrMalcolm900]

I wouldn’t say he’s like the perfect older brother. But I do like a lot of his videos. The essence of masculinity is to know yourself that’s a no your capabilities as a man. His videos of Quinto don’t get me wrong it’s just that a lot of these self improvement videos you got to take them off the grain of salt.

[@trolleden3886]

Of course there is no perfect but I would say Hamza atleast isn't full on bs like a lot of other self improvement KZbinrs

[@vladimirm1194]

thank you Hamza!

[@Gigachad-dv8pu]

100%

[@bugarakos9112]

"It's alright if you are weak. The problem is when you don't improve."

[@bugarakos9112]

I meant working on myself by improve.

[@thesharkmethod]

Szia ✊😌

[@kevinprado5197]

Mm

[@hanishsaiteja4740]

" Being weak is not your fault, staying weak is"

[@YOLO-ww1so]

@@hanishsaiteja4740 fuegoleon quote

[@coye6844]

Boundaries and self respect are 2 most important traits in anyone ... but especially a masculine man. HOW CAN PEOPLE RESPECT YOU, IF YOU CAN'T RESPECT YOURSELF?

[@joser_1295]

Learned that the hard way.

[@toby1061]

As soon as I started weight lifting, I realized just how strong, fit and muscular a mans body can be, I’ve only been lifting for like 3-4 months, but I’ve lost tons of fat, while gaining muscle and strength, my voice has gotten deeper and I’ve become more proud and confident. All it took was to finally do it.

[@thezombros2607]

Good job keep it going man

[@chaosevolution]

What was your starting weight and current weight?

[@tobydorion1258]

@@chaosevolution I was 170 now I’m 155, I lost weight pretty fast cause I’m also in sports and hit puberty so it’s probably easier for my compared to older guys.

[@kcool3483]

@@tobydorion1258 how long did it take?

[@tobydorion1258]

@@kcool3483 To see progress it takes like 2 months to see some or more, I was chubby so I lost my excess fat faster than someone with major weight issues. Just stay consistent with your plan and it works.

[@StaackeR]

I'm 15, and I am proudly male. My hair is like 3 feet long, I wear AF1s, sometimes like misting myself with pumpkin spice fabreese just to smell like 'fall', and im not ripped. I have a gf, I have a car and can legally drive (Idaho), I have a part time job that I love, I love school, and I love my life. I hate these people like Hamza who make a living off their cult following where you're never man enough, you're never perfect. Wanna know the secret to happiness? Gratitude. Literally be honest with yourself, watching these videos will not get you anywhere.

[@JREALNICE.]

The fire that gets lit inside me every day from these videos sprouts from my ex who constantly manipulated me into thinking I was insecure and I had toxic masculinity… the knowledge I could give to her today is insane.

[@bitcoinzoomer9994]

This stuff is lifechanging for so many, you should do a video with some cult members talking about how they've changed and grown thanks to your content

[@horationelson8173]

Something that I've been thinking a lot about recently is related to what Hamza said about not trying to be happy all the time. Going through some pretty severe depression and loneliness has taught me that if you want to be happy you have to be willing to embrace the tough times in life as well. You have to be familiar with sadness, misery, and suffering if you ever want to feel true joy, happiness, and fulfillment. Therefore we as men should strive to always be accomplishing our mission and fulfilling our duties 1st and foremost. The way you feel comes 2nd. Nothing will make you feel more masculine than doing what you know you should do despite not wanting to do it. Thanks for bringing that point up Hamza, great video.

[@bandolierboy1908]

Without bad times, good times mean nothing

[@oaeku]

being less feminine doesnt mean getting rid of your emotions remeber that please

[@lukescastle]

100%

[@erickstotle4285]

I’m down for this Cult! Looking forward to growing with you brothers

[@The_G_Edits]

Welcome brother

[@bradleypost8971]

Hamza, I’m autistic and have struggled with social skills my entire life. I’ve had dozens of matches on online dating apps and approached girls IRL but I’ve had one date and no lays :/ Make a video for the cult of autistic/neurodivergent brothers💯🔥

[@andrewbilku7349]

Might sound rude but the best u can do is examine other people and how u should react to things they say so u become more comfortable replying without struggle and overthinking.

[@ryankarlin9805]

I feel that going to a catholic school full of low test individuals really hindered my growth as a man. When I was in middle school and early high school I was fiercely competitive and sometimes aggressive and I was looked at as a mean person because of it. Puberty hit me extremely hard so I had a lot of test running through me and I didnt know how to handle it. After being mostly friendless for 3 years because of my naturally aggressive nature I finally decided to become more like the pack rather then stay true to me. I became more feminine, I was too nice, i put on an easygoing persona just to have friends. Now looking back I feel sad because It took away from my masculine nature and im still trying to get back my masculinity even at 22. I feel cheated out of becoming a real man earlier in life and now I have to make up for it.

[@itb4255]

Hamza just fyi on the gyno thing. So it really doesn't have anything to do with less testosterone in males. It is possible, that boys who get really overweight will get gyno but a lot of guys just get it naturally. It's called puberty induced gynecomastia it can be made worse by excess fat because fat causes aromatase enzyme to convert more testosterone to estrogen. But generally it happens because of the sudden spike of testosterone from puberty, the imbalance of hormones is what causes it. So it's normal. And also low testosterone doesn't equate to gyno, HIGH testosterone will give you gyno. Since testosterone converts to estrogen, the more testosterone, the more estrogen. For example, if you inject a huge amount of testosterone haphazardly you might get gyno, even though your testosterone is 10x what it normally is.

[@jlhistory]

Hamza is so correct. I was almost in a relationship recently, I realized that I was dopamine addicted to female attention. Then I realized.... I have to curb this addiction. Working on it. I have to value the mission more than emotions.

[@ghosttheprogram6973]

This is an incredibly edit The quality is growing while the content is peaking The gains are showing 💪💪

[@dustinemerzian5989]

I love your videos. They always motivate me, and I've finally reached a point in my life where I would rather suffer and grow than be comfortable yet falling apart. The only part, is I'll get to the end of your videos and always think... "Kay, now how do I do any of that."

[@pandaloky5791]

"It's okay to be weak, but it's not okay to stay weak"

[@chaosfr3959]

We're all weak to be honest. But some are WAYYYY stronger than others

[@Mateusz950PlayGames950]

I was raised by women. Exclusively by women. My father died in a car accident when I was 5. My both grandfathers died before I was even conscious. So there was only my mum and my grandma, which both I love and respect with all my heart, they did all they could. Due to this and few other incidents I have developed social anxiety around age of 10. I didn't know that for the next 8 years. Everybody told me that it was just shy, and it will go away with time. It didn't. I was always upset that I wasn't like the other kids. I was wondering, what I did wrong? Why can't I be normal. So I isolated myself from the world with video games. I would spend all day after school playing stupid games or watching dumb shit. My grades were good tho, I had and I still have a talent to learning. So my mum didn't care too much. As long as I had good grades, I could do whatever I wanted. I don't blame her. How could she know? Even I didn't understand myself. I had few close friends, which I would play with. I was scared and stressed every single day I would go to school. Sunday evenings were the worst. I couldn't fall asleep, because I knew that I would have to go to school again. I was skipping AT LEAST 1 day per week. Every week. I would rarely talk with anybody. In home I was eating alone in front of my pc. And life went on and on... Till, at age of 18, while in final class of high school, I decided that I will hit the gym, as I didn't want to be that skinny and shy boy. It was after the covid, during it I trained a bit everyday to stay healthy and I really liked it. I started caring about my diet more, and I would go to the gym for like 4-5 days a week. Also, it was final class, and I took my exams seriously, so I had less and less time to play. I was really dedicated. But after few months, I was still the same shy boy that didn't understand himself. Just a little bigger So I searched. And I found about the social anxiety. I bought a book about it and how to deal with it. I started meditating. I felt like it helped me a bit, but still I was far away from what I aimed for. I passed the exams really well, and now I am at one of the most prestigious colleges in my country, in the IT. Between that I have read about MBTI types, and after several trials over few months, I found out that I am an INFP. Long story short, I value emotions above everything, I am very empathetic, sensitive and withdrawn, from my nature. I can be whatever I want, but naturally I will function in this way. Also, from my observations, I see that I have two "phases" I jump between. One phase, is the sensitive one, when I will make a big deal about a "dramatic" scenario, 99% of the time it's just falling in love with a girl that doesn't feel the same torwards me. This feeling is really strong and powerful, but just like the fire, it burns out really fast (around few weeks). Then I will be in a emotionless phase, feeling kinda numb, but appreciating everything I have, achieving my goals and pushing myself to the limits. Unless I fall in love again, which happens really easy for me. I accepted both my sides, both my phases. This is the way I am. I don't have to be like everybody else. I don't have to kill my feminine side, I just need to control it better and I already do it well. I used to stress about everything, now I just feel stress in the present moment due to my social anxiety, but I don't accept it and I am working on it. In the last year I have learnt about myself more than I did through my entire life, and I am just 19. It all started with a gym. A little spark is enough to start a great fire. Peace boys.

[@WajidAli-rz3tr]

Keep grinding 🔥🔥🔥

[@OTGGame]

True happiness comes from real things, not fake things.

[@Chris_23407]

From my point of view men should show their emotions, but they should start not feeling so negatively. Also everyone should want to be happy, the difference is being happy shouldn't stop u from ur goals

[@aguywholikesdoors8157]

I look masculine but i still cant stop feeling femenine

[@RidmakaX]

Do hard things

[@oliviercote-barclay6165]

I'm at -100% feminine energy and 200% masculine energy. I've no time for empathy and love.

[@727-]

We all finna go from --> never give up brah's.

[@ricardoalmeida2250]

my father always was present in my life and he is a masculine man but he doesnt talk to people very much so i think i never developed my social skills very much because of that, and thats something i need to change

[@Matt-uc8dd]

It’s okay to be weak, just as long as you weren’t as weak as you were yesterday

[@Sic_Shawn]

Thank you Hamza you have truly inspired me to change and I want to also thank this community:)

[@kursatyigit5535]

"Fat hips, LOW VOICES" Mike tyson rn:👀

[@John.Gianno]

This video has completely changed my mindset

[@Landerbecquet]

I get this channel. I understand he is saying the obvious and that’s why it makes so sense. Thing is, this should’ve been installed by our fathers through experiences as we are young. Man he is doing a great service to the world by verbalising this. Greats from Belgium 🇧🇪

[@adedamolaadeseye730]

The way of the superior man is the first book I started reading on my own. The first part is so important I had to read and annotate like three times and listened to the audiobook twice. Get on it understand and meditate on it

[@voltaicburst4279]

Have you listened to 'The Way of Men' by Jack Donovan?

[@antonisiatka2033]

This format is so much better

[@enricoairesgomez2769]

You are absolutely right Hamza. As men we have to conquer. Objective after objetive. Mission after mission. Happiness is like an achievement after conquering a goal. But the happiness is not the objective, it’s like a reward.

[@average15yoldfionn46]

I need some input/advice on my philosophy For the past few years, I've believed bullying and suicide was a good thing because it was rooting out the weak of society as a kind of natural selection. Imagine there's 2 men on an island, one is weak mentally and the other is strong mentally. The population of the island is 50%weak and 50%strong. The strong man then bullies the weak one until he kills himself. Now the population of the island is 100% strong, a good increase. However over the last few weeks I've been thinking that bullying is not the most effective way to create a strong population and maybe the best method is teaching strength. Maybe it's a mix of both, what do you think?

[@amv._yxor]

11:20 I read this book about a year ago and my whole view of the world and my understanding changed. I had a coworker who was struggling with his woman and himself, I had gave him the book about a year ago before leaving the company. I saw him again while picking up food; he had lost some weight and told me that he was getting a new job stocking and would earn 16$ an hour. I was a bit shocked since he acted and looked way different from before and the I understood that he was taking our path the path of the superior man. Keep pushing.

[@rakaisalendra3107]

I have my own tip. Be your self but with your new self to. I like to call it the balanced self it mean you be your old self but while be your new self to for example talk to your new friend with your old self but do the New thing with your new self. (Do you now what i say? If no just say it ok)

[@kajussinkevcius5822]

Feminine is all human that were Feminine and not men are leader of family in mind at pace taken by care

[@faizofview]

These less stimulating videos you made lately has been a great addition to the channel

[@obi367e]

I was very ungreatfull for my body but now i realize that i have pretty masculine body i´m 6´3 deep voice and skinny shredded. Now i am much more gratefull for what i have and dont take it for granted

[@hadestherecluse]

As a man coming from a middle eastern country where manhood is largely nurtured in boys in school + highly regarded and reinforced in society. Although it’s taught to us in a way that encourages ‘responsibility’ it produces a huge number of dysfunctional men who don’t know how to communicate with women, being taught that having testosterone grants you certain privileges and makes you grow very entitled unconsciously and you grow to have shame about our emotions and mental health. I had to unlearn a lot of toxicity instilled in me that made me very unbearable to be around. Literally the reason behind the estrogen excess in men is horrible diet + hormones in diary + lack of exercise and physical strength. It has nothing to do with women, there are plenty of gay men who resemble the desires idea of masculinity physically and hormonally. Their masculinity does not exist only in proximity to women. Masculinity is not up to women or anyone else. I love your content and your quest to teach and encourage self-development but i sense patterns of incel-hood in these cult like spaces where on one hand you’re here to learn and support other men who want to become better versions of themselves through fitness, responsibility and dopamine cleanses and men who bitch about women non stop, degrade feminine and gay men and replicate others in tired content revolving around "rejecting modernity". There is nothing impressive about coming back to pre dated times when as human beings we continue to evolve. We are civilized men.

[@soulninjadev]

dude ur editing just went STONKSSSSS

[@zachkai3129]

bruh the moment you said love and happiness i cracked a smile, cuz it def feels like ye

[@jacobwaters5962]

I understand the sexual desire. You mention multiple times "how many women you are sleeping with" those of us who are "religious" if you will have values and beliefs that put a buffer on that.

[@starkov6370]

Great video brother. Nowdays I see a lot of men looking at whom you cant really say is it a boy or girl, even in my small town. Fkcing long colored hair feminine body skinny arms....

[@MindOverThisMatrix]

So glad I found Hamza. The other red pill KZbinrs can be quite poisoning at times. I resonate with Hamzas message!

[@silvasen1985]

Thank you Hamza, this is the video for me. I have been insecure that i am "feminine" for way too long, i will continue pursuing my dream to be a better man

[@lexel7795]

Small thing about single fathers: there was a study in Germany on that topic. It’s still being held back by the Family ministry (as far as i know) so the guy who made it isnt even allowed to talk about it’s content. Pretty suspicious

[@unlikelay]

fuck the controversy that your opinions tends to stir up. The real supporters of u seeks the transparency you provide, keep doing u Hamza.

[@vladinator25p]

The editing on this video is amazing

[@emmanuelvicente1688]

i like being feminine tho

[@aightbro]

You do you

[@Flavio06626]

Because not doing the hard work is easy

[@sahyejrah8209]

You are the Most wise young man i ever saw in my life, your honesty, wisdom, and ability to comunicat can change a full generation ,just keep going . you remember me a cool wilde young version of Jordan Peterson.

[@krxhzy9951]

6:13 the voice he uses literally kills me 💀

[@rajarshichatterjee1565]

hello brother, you have really helped me a lot in my self improvement. please can you make a video on how and where to find these kind of men whose goals are similar to mine, who are more masculine, because i do realise to myself improve i need this brotherhood of young men to thrive together with, but i am surrounded my friends and people who are exactly what you tell us not to be like.

[@luiggiparise8301]

I really needed this, thanks old bro!

[@benzinschnueffler187]

Hamza be gaining 50k subs a day. When I subbed he had 200k, now we at half a million

[@zawiej6085]

I'm not a very big follower of you, but this video is very good and very important. I like your "filtered" red pill attitude and you are absolutely right. I was raised by women and fought to have more masculine energy for almost whole life and actually being with circle of competetive men is absolutely crucial to be better.

[@adamhazel]

It’s alpha masculine to kiss Hamza back at the end of the video

[@juixs3890]

Great advice! been watching your videos for a while now hamza and I have literally seen you GLOW UP! Listen to this advice & take action! IT WORKS!

[@ДанилаДа-э6ю]

Its actualy prolactine vs testosterone. I recommend you, Hamza, to dive into the topic of how hormones influence our behaviour. It would be very interesting, I promisse.

[@claudeheinrich3613]

these videos are so important and good for young men and teenagers, thank you so much Hamza

[@zan6585]

I think you need to be careful conflating the idea of “being yourself,” with “being content with a lack of change.” Being yourself is essential so that you can be comfortable, in the moment, present, and happy WHILE you grow. If you’re never happy with where you are at EVEN when you meet your goals you set, then it’s indication you have a negative relationship with yourself, the changes you strive to make, and have a lack of understanding of what you’re capable of in the short-term. I’d also like to add that feminine energy isn’t inherently bad, it’s just a matter of learning to manifest it in positive ways. Nobody likes a mentally-ill feminine dude who talks like a stressed female. Girls do like dudes with feminine qualities, but they’re usually positive ones.

[@liamwinchester9928]

Exactly. Some of the lowest points of my life were when I was trying to fit in and be more like a stereotypical male. I hated myself and am glad I am out of that mentality.

[@rxress]

Growth does not come from being comfortable or a lot of the times happy. when you are comfortable and happy you wont grow, you don't have to. being in the moment and being present are not the same as being happy and comfortable within yourself, but rather the lack of thoughts and emotions and just BEING. Reaching goals doesn't necessarily make you 'happy' because happiness is wishy washy and doesn't really mean much. happiness is not the end goal, never has been. You can be happy in a moment of high, or while having intercourse, or while doing anything that releases dopamine. For a lot of young men being 'themselves' is simply not an option, because they don't like themselves. They don't even KNOW themselves. Growth comes from not being happy with who you are, along with the desire to be who you want to be. Mindless goal setting means you don't feel good when you achieve them. That's why goal setting goes hand in hand with introspection, where you find out what it is you really wanna do and THEN set goals. if you are not fulfilled after achieving the goal, the problem regards the nature of the goal. it might have been too easy, it might have meant too little. This does mean that yes, you are right about not having a good relationship with yourself or your goals, but that relationship is developed through failure to achieve goals. men learn to set goals, it is a skill. Maybe instead of 'being yourself' you should lean more towards 'knowing yourself' This would develop the negative relationship you mention. Girls don't want a 100% masculine man, you're right about that. But where did you gather the information that girls like feminine energy from a guy? Feminine women have enough of it themselves, they look for a man with a 90 10 or an 80 20 split. You are right when you mention the manifestation of feminine energy, but most young men don't know how to manifest it in an attractive way because they never had that masculine man in the house. Your mention of 'usually positive ones' does not really make sense, considering negative feminine traits are nothing but the excess of the base feminine traits. e.g. being submissive can lead of being overly submissive, and being nurturing can lead to being overly concerned about others. Men with these 'negative feminine traits' are just men who are too feminine. I hope you understand, you make some good points, but some of them require a bit of tweaking.

[@stormtech8010]

I’m 14 as well. I think the thing that kept me humble was that I can always quite literally be humbled by seeing that there’s guys more jacked than me at school, Guys that are getting more girls and guys with more money. I’m also team captain of my soccer team and being in that position requires a sense of humility to keep the respect of my teammates.

[@SuperNatozunHD]

Honestly Hamza, as much as people trying cancel you talk for about this topic. Let's remind these people being weak for young men will be downfall for whole Morden man to be weak. if no one will speaks the truth about this issue. Then our Society, will embrace weak comfort which leads more men be weak.

[@taleseylad1249]

and the weaker the men get our times will become harder

[@NoMoGWB]

At this point I’m just watching for the smoochie at the end

[@unclegrandpa1476]

Damn bro! You stay mad consistent

[@Fusca-u1u]

Bro, I literally love you, you helped me in such way that's impossible for me to describe in words Not only on this video You as a person, your videos, your values, all of this motivates me so much and help me asl Hamza, thanks for opening my eyes...

[@mtuber1235]

this guy really be making a video about every single thing I thought about in the last week

[@kiwanolel6975]

If only I had the average man's problems. These things seem so simple, and you don't have to worry about the problems of the bottom 10%. Small frame, skinny wrists, super short, I do all I can in the gym and make progress, but how am I supposed to feel masculine when i know I am genetically inferior and weaker. I go to the gym with a friend that you described as low testosterone; he's chubby, he's got hip fat, bitch titties and how do you think it feels to be the same strength level as him when I've been working out for a year and a half consistently at this point. What is your advice to that Hamza? I would give and do anything just to be the average man, just to be able to achieve a satisfactory level. You acknowledge it too, one of the promises you make to young men is that they will be more masculine that people will respect them, that girls will want them, but what of people like me? How am I supposed to move forward knowing that the ultimate conquest I can have is akin to nothing compared to what the average male can. It only takes 3 months for the average man to make the gains and strength I worked for nearly 2 years at this point. The mental game of knowing just how genetically inferior you are is the silent killer. It's always the same: focus on your past self and making progress. Well how many of you actually do it though? Does being more muscular and strong compared to other people not give you motivation? Why am I supposed to just lie over and accept that I'll never have what the average male can have but still have to do the "hard work". "Oh oh it's okay bro! I can only bench 30 kilos after two years but I made progress compared to my past self". Life's a joke.

[@forsakenfish]

He's probably not gonna see your comment, but regardless, the efforts and progress you have made so far despite these shortcomings are quite good and important. Have you checked out what your body type is? Most commonly, those with a smaller frame have to undergo a different work out compared to others, assuming you're something of an ectomorph.

[@kiwanolel6975]

I see your comment and I appreciate it brother. I am not above improving myself, but I am also ambitious and expect my hard work to pay off. I've meditated and journaled, and I cannot force myself to accept my condition. I want to be masculine, to walk into a room and have someone think or refer to me as a strong, muscular man. The kind of mothers describe when they're proud of their sons. Unfortunately for me that is not achievable. I know not a single person at this size that is considered the strong masculine man. It is only ever "fit" at best. And yes, I am an ectomorph, but I am also short. For ectomorphs they have long limbs and arms, but the benefit they get is that they are also tall. Well I am short, and comparatively have the bones the size of someone much shorter, which in turn completely destroyed any confidence and hope I had. I wish things weren't like this, but I can do nothing about it.

[@kiwanolel6975]

@@pabloescobar4029 Or engage in instant gratification. My perfection is most people's standard, and I assume most wouldn't be content with it no matter how you slice it. So why bother myself and push myself to do the hard work. No need to suffer more in my life. I could not describe to you the embarrassment and utter hatred for myself I feel in the gym every time. Maybe in a few years time I'll become a statistic and spare myself the pain

[@bulgarianmineshaft1913]

I've had a similar experience when I had an injury before the state wrestling tournament that I had spent years training for. I thought to myself that I would have had the same result as not ever doing wrestling in the first place, but even if I never got to get to that place that I worked so hard to achieve, I was left with the invaluable experience of pushing myself through Hell every week: doing multiple workouts a day and being hungry all of the time; all with that tournament in my head. Guess what? Life happened. I was never the fastest, nor the strongest, nor whatever genetic marker of physical attributes that you point to. Hell, even the strongest amongst us could have a tragic accident and not be able to ever walk on the legs that they trained for years and have to slowly see them wither away. My point is, masculinity is not a "feeling", saying "I feel masculine" or "I don't feel masculine" is rather feminine isn't it? To be masculine is an act, to find your purpose and to act on it is what a man does. Part of a man's general purpose is to be strong: if you can only do 30 kilos, but that's the most you can do, that is sufficient. There are so many more parts in life besides the gym and getting girls and trying to overcome the physical shortcomings that you might have been born with. Look towards Jesus, and you will find what he has in store for you. Be grateful too: you might not have by the standards of the flesh a good genetic predisposition, but (to my knowledge) you still have two arms to move and two legs that you can walk on, and that in of itself is great! Practice gratitude to the one who governs your reality and who wonderfully and fearfully made you. Hey, I know I'm not Hamza, but I wanted to share you some wisdom that I was fortunate to have gained.

[@InfamousHate]

This is why this video is terrible. The fact of the matter is, there are real assholes in the world that might judge you for being “feminine” or for really stupid reasons and they will hate you and ridicule you regardless of you being “masculine”. You will never please every girl or every guy because everyone has preferences and opinions. It’s okay to be yourself and you should strive to live your life to the best you could possibly live it. You should live life for your happiness. Who gives a fuck about hamza and what he thinks is a “good” life. Do what you wanna do, work hard and love and shown kindness to others.

[@Aaron_777]

this was teh greatest wake up I have ever made in my entire life. thank you

[@macewindu9635]

thank you so much man you really feel like a close uncle your sound

[@theodoroskapsalis5232]

Love the new style of videos

[@keshavrathore4189]

Sam great editing in terms of the background sound

[@dawsonmaloney9910]

I've got gyno too. I used to be insecure as.fuck about it, but after learning how many people have it (and how far I've come physically) I feel a lot better about it these daus

[@cvoudaskc1852]

I wish ppl could perceive that in the same way as you do!

[@Evangelist-rp9jx]

THE MORE MASCULINE YOU ARE AS MAN, THE BETTER YOU FEEL NO MATTER WHAT THE MEDIA TELLS YOU STAY MASCULINE, STAY STRONG AND POSITIVE💪🏻💪🏻💙

[@firedrake0742]

When I was younger I was a bit more masculine but then I became a Jeffery and just played video games and stayed inside now I want to be more masculine and achieve all of my goals

[@AV_204]

This was 100% worth the upload Hamza

[@ericbystrom]

Just bought the book. Thanks Hamza

[@wrameerez]

Ah… the joy that illiterate cult leaders find in simple fallacies. Let’s see a traditional example of a false dichotomy that seems pervasive here. “Devalue love and joy” vs fulfilling your goals. These things aren’t pitted against each other at all. It’s not one or the other in absolutes. Devalue love and joy → become a major asshole to those surrounded by you, including your family and most notably, yourself. Devalue joy in whatever you do and you will have a fraction of the strength in your pursuit than anyone else who does it with joy.

[@ivansalamon7028]

I do think love is the most important good. And yet, we cannot continue to exist without enduring some pain. We would cease. That is why masculinity is needed, to get us to where we want in peace and safety, equipped to deal with dangers. But we, as men, have to earn it.

[@Apollo.790]

There is no shame in being weak, the is shame in staying weak . ~ fuegoleon

[@spinexyo]

Crazy video as always my g

[@Umadevta]

correction there’s a difference when men being feminine and men being lazy. Being more feminine doesn’t affect your ability to be a hard worker. Love your videos but this one needs more factual evidence

[@beautifulagonization]

That's not what he means

[@beautifulagonization]

@@abdellahsbaa3751 thank you this is very well put

[@jure6528]

@@abdellahsbaa3751 i dont understand ar all

[@kanyenorth2605]

@@jure6528 basically its in women nature to be taken care of to be content to take the easy road so you cant tell the difference between a woman who is lazy and one who follows there nature

[@Umadevta]

@@beautifulagonization i do not see this persons response ?

[@aaronrff2006]

Hamza and Zyzz have become people who I inspire to become, let’s go brothers

[@rishabh6790]

You have to achieve the balance between feminine and masculine in you!!!

[@megatron828]

Nah, fucc that feminine garbage

[@rishabh6790]

@@megatron828 chill down bro i assume from your sentence that u want to be just like Adonis or Gigachad!! But u have to understand that feminine and masculine traits needs to be in balance only then an individual can live happily. And I'm not sayin you have to look like feminine who am I to say that to anyone but you have to find a balance between both. You have to work not just on your physical body but also your mind. I hope it rings a bell! If not i kindly suggest you to search what I'm saying. Have an good day king. 🌻

[@kidgrebo1]

Hamza the type of dude to that tucks his chain.

[@beelandbeeland]

Wanna be more masculine? Stop patting yourself on the back for small accomplishments. Celebrate the big wins.

[@AliHatesSatan]

thank you hamza , i have been looking for a video like this for a while

[@xH4RDxLegend]

He knows.👽🤌🏻

[@David_Hammond]

Great vid as always bro. Important topic. ✊💯

[@MrSwfan778]

David 💪🏻

[@nguyennguyenkhang5800]

💪

[@mixkid3362]

When I was really small like around crèche(kindergarten for Americans)the crèche I went to was run by nuns. They weren't stereotypical nuns, they were hard scrabble East European Betty's. If the boys got into a fight, playing aggressively they told us to sort it out ourselves. I think that and the way I was raised, helped me to have this "try to do it myself" mindset. I try to do something on my own as far as possible without asking my parents for help. Man, I miss those nuns.

[@noneofyourbuizness]

It's good for us women to know this kind of stuff if we want kids . Love how non toxic Hamza community is Thanks a lot

[@7200genchi]

im hella grateful for being easter european

[@terminator4278]

east Europe has beautiful landscape and beautiful culture and people

[@pipopoikapelaa5468]

I tought you were going To say that the nuns joined the fight, just fucking R.K.Ong some poor gindergateners. Also, I have a story of my own. This story was told to us by our teacher (male). There were two boys fighting In hes class, like really just fucking fist fighting. He went and broke the fight and called the princible to the class, the princible told to got to hes office while he and our teacher spoke. When the boys left our princible asked the true finnish question: "so, Who won?"

[@JBD0909]

I've always done things on my own, mainly due to my family being full of pride. It's just how I was raised, and my Dad always says it was an accident.

[@_stfubroskii]

Shits fucked honestly, the things that social media presents to us young boys is disgusting, do not be afraid to be masculine, stay void of all distraction, maintain respect and self control, reach your goals.

[@boxhbbb3530]

Idk about you but social media just shows me buff guys

[@vitorhugobacicpessoavidal5448]

I am less of a failure than you and what you're criticizing are

[@kgty1295]

Wym I highly doubt anyone is scared of being masculine

[@BuckeyBoi531]

I want to be more masculine

[@SahajTalwar]

The best way to be more masculine is to start valuing your purpose and your goals more, and love and joy, less. Over the past year, I’ve subconsciously started in the direction towards doing exactly that, and I’ll just say, it’s a beautiful feeling when you feel yourself acting and thinking more masculine. Once you feel more masculine, you automatically start making so much more progress in your self improvement, because it feels like something from within is pushing you to, telling you that you’re on the right path

[@whatwouldkealiido4819]

Wym by love and joy less

[@tomjames8569]

You need to stop prioritizing love and joy so much. Get on your purpose and start setting and completing goals and the love and joy will come naturally from that.

[@whatwouldkealiido4819]

@@tomjames8569 I prioritize loving and enjoying my purpose.

[@rhinks6405]

damn, I read this in your voice lol 😅

[@RadeenChoudhury]

That’s ridiculous. What would be the point of self improvement and purpose if you feel less joy and love lol. That just defeats the whole purpose

[@mrpropvper2206]

Bro you have no idea how much of a positive influence you have had on my life. I have started to completely turn around my life through your help and my mindset. I am grateful for your videos Hamza

[@okboomer9078]

Let's go bro 🔥💪🏻

[@joeendeacott6834]

Everyone is bro

[@Yeppro22]

Thank the red pill

[@samuelrodriguesjetstreamsa209]

@@Yeppro22 scp 500?

[@samuelrodriguesjetstreamsa209]

Your profile picture looks kinda nostalgic in an epic way…

[@josiahp1984]

Aristotle said happiness is the achievement of an end goal, having a telos, a purpose. I think of this when I am at work, and I have really enjoyed where I work. Thank you for making these videos Hamza.

[@ilyas4417]

Sup cousin

[@user-qx1id1dt8x]

Then why do they say the important is the journey, not the destination?

[@horationelson8173]

Based Aristotle

[@fused4987]

I really think Hamza should include some Aristotelian virtue ethics in his video's like you are saying. Aristotle basically agrees with everything Hamza says. Life is about achieving eudaemonia through practicing intellectual virtues and gaining skills to become a better person. What Hamza says about flourishing as a human being and constantly self improving coincides perfectly with Aristotle's works.

[@kiwi9065]

I was raised by a single mother, but i don't feel feminine, i am mostly masculine. My mom took the role of both mother and father to raise me, i respect her and love her.

[@aloowalia2849]

My mom was also a single mother and my brother is masculine as fck

[@motiplanet394]

Being raised by a single mother make you feel like you have to fill the role of the father

[@cosimavonliebenau8317]

Brilliant for you. You’re sounding sane and loving.

[@sheldongreene8366]

@@motiplanet394 exactly this

[@ZYZZ_WHEY]

Same thing with me 😊

[@nickdogg211]

gynecomastia isn't as big a deal as others make it out to be. I've seen dudes who have it but I couldn't even tell they had it because they were so built it just looked like a part of their pecs.

[@HustlerEli]

Touch them and you’ll see for yourself Besides I think most built guys with gynecomastia are on roids

[@Lite727]

The point he was trying to make is that the times have weakened men by warping our perception of what’s masculine.

[@sidjhonson4551]

It’s really a condition you get when you’re going through puberty, but if you’re skinny with gynecomastia it’s noticeable.

[@TripleEightss]

no bro. do not accept your gyno. men should not have tits. build enough muscle to where youre content and save up for that operation. you will feel the best you ever have after the recovery when you finally take your shirt off in front of the mirror.

[@nickdogg211]

@@Lite727 Yes correct. Also I saw a case where a guy got surgery for gynecomastia and I didn't even notice he had a condition. It was on a More Plates More Dates video

[@NVRMR08]

Ok guys that's enough. Let's change the world together. Let's be the first generation that brings back the masculine values and teach their children as such. We can do it and we NEED to do it

[@nobody4404]

Preach brother

[@NVRMR08]

@@nobody4404 we march on my cat brother!

[@Fabian-kv9tw]

Let's go

[@SpawnClanned]

3:59 Masculine

[@SirenRyan]

Spoiler: you guys aren't gonna change shit

[@BIGMAN-so7cl]

2:57 is a big thing for me, being a teenager on the self improvement thing. I have extremely wide hips due to some messed up bone genetics, which I only found out about within the last few months since I was always just told as a kid that I was just fat. The strange part is I've never been more into the diet and routine or worked out as hard as I do now, but after learning that somehow it helped? I think it's because it's something that can't really change, and it allows me to see the progress I've made everywhere else motivating me more. I don't know what this is, maybe a little rant or something that someone with the same issue might see. Stay hard friends, you got this.

[@Aditya_PS]

Me too Sometimes my freinds call me thicc 😂

[@amasrid9432]

It can be what we call love handles too. I've had them and still have them, but they're way smaller than before now. Stay hard brahs, we've got this

[@omegads3862]

Wider hips are better for strength stuff. More stability. You may not get V taper, but can build lot of muscles. See greek Hercules statue. None of them have scrawny midsection. Thick core muscles.

[@michaelhaire7319]

I'm pretty sure I have gyno like Hamza. I am still young and can reverse it with my current better habits but it's something I'm really insecure ab. Seeing that hamza has it as well helps and hopefully it will be reduced in the future. Good luck to you and you can use those wide hips for strength instead of looking pretty. Stay strong bro.

[@Aditya_PS]

@@amasrid9432 love handles are different Thicc ass is different 🤣