MONTESSORI AT HOME: Creating "Yes" Spaces (Babyproofing for Safety)

MONTESSORI AT HOME: Creating "Yes" Spaces (Babyproofing for Safety // Ashley shares her personal babyproofing strategies with you to encourage independence and confidence in your child to safely explore at home.
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[@Pirategirl4nightwish]

What I found works very well with toddlers is to tell them WHAT to do instead of what NOT to do. It was successful with my last class of 1-2 year olds and works very well with my 16 month old daughter now. This also ensures that you are using positive language and not saying “no” all the time. For example, a child climbing on something they shouldn’t can be told “ Feet on the floor.” I always make a point of thanking the child when they follow the direction. I’ve seen this technique be very helpful in reducing tantrums and frustration in toddlers because you are telling them what they should be doing instead of vague directions like “Don’t do that.”

[@ashpense6408]

I started trying to transition myself to this and it's making my daughter so much happier

[@AlabanzaMusic]

Absolutely! Toddlers also do not understand contractions well so if you tell them don't run, all they hear is 'run' so tell them instead no running here but we can wall here. It is important to define what not to do but give them the alternative. That is how I got my tot to stop screaming so much. It took a while but constantly telling him what he could say or sounds he could make, made the difference! It is called conscious parenting!

[@ajoyfulreed]

I love that you mention redirection and empowerment. I used this approach rather than "no" as a nanny for 10 years. I found it to be so successful. I found when it was a true emergency and I said "NO!" they actually stopped and gave me time to get to them because it was so rare for them to hear, they knew it was serious and important.

[@TheErinTaylor]

Every day I’m more and more convinced that raising toddlers and training puppies is literally the same thing 😂

[@wholesome122]

Cordless blinds are incredibly important. Someone at my work had one of their toddlers accidentally hang himself on a blinds cord. We switched out all of our blinds with cordless ones.

[@Mrs.Silversmith]

I prefer curtains just because I have seen too many blinds broken by kids. I think curtains are quite kid friendly.

[@dianabarbara2948]

Thank you for mentioning this. We are looking into buying some curtains or blinds and had not consider this issue yet.

[@janellemargot4376]

My brother did that when we were younger. Thankfully did not die but it was scary. Thank goodness 5 year old me knew how to get him out asap

[@lilacheart_]

i dont have kids but it sounds like what i do with my cats and how their collars break away if they get stuck for the same reason, either make them safe enough and out the way or get ones that break with their weight

[@31oise]

Oh my god! The parents must’ve been devastated

[@grinningneko5480]

Thank you so much for adding that bit on how to tell a baby "no!" Literally had that question halfway through the video, lol. I'm at the point were I need to figure out how to tell my baby "no" but, like you said, they don't understand why they're being told no so just saying it doesn't really work... This was very helpful. I'll be sure to give it a shot! Thanks for the great content! 👍

[@stefaniemcfarlane-mitchell920]

Facial expressions work well too. Infants are able to learn facial expressions (smiling = good, frown = bad) far earlier than they can with words (yes or no). This can work great for getting the general feeling across quickly before you explain the why behind the emotion.

[@kathiesoriano6876]

I needed to hear the part about redirecting the right way.. my one year old has a habit of getting into things he’s not supposed to and I’ve been struggling on how to teach him not to and I’m guilty of the stern “NO”, “get down now”,”stop doing this why don’t you listen” without understanding why he actually does these things. I hate to raise my voice at him but I didn’t know any other way, this helped me a lot with keeping my patience and how to handle this behavior. Thanks for the amazing video !

[@coralmore3568]

I love the way the kids are demonstrating their activities the whole time!

[@leli11987]

Ha

[@quinnhouse4379]

When I was young my baby sister was on one side of the gate and I was on the other...I came lose and I fell on top of her with the gate between us. Everyone thought our shouting was a game. It was awful. They took her to hospital after as my full weight had been on the gate that was crushing her face. Still think about it. Its so good they have ones you can bolt onto the wall now...our was an old metal thing and so dangerous.

[@nanaronhano337]

Hollie House Aww that’s SO sad. Did everything turn out okay?

[@ashpense6408]

Was she okay?

[@AnnaLarsen8480]

I would crop the excerpt of saying no and post it individually as well. This would be SO helpful to send to some of my parents (I'm a preschool teacher.).

[@victoriamilazzo2671]

This is really helpful! My hubby doesn’t believe in baby proofing, but I know that I can’t supervise her 24/7, especially as she gets older and more curious about “dangerous” things. I need to baby proof and this guide is really helpful. Thank you :)

[@ashpense6408]

Show this video and some videos about things going wrong with your hubby

[@michaelfoster7824]

Why would he not belive in keeping your child safe??

[@JumpWatson45]

Yes mothers instinct

[@AngelHoffer97]

I dont have kids. And dont plan on it. But I love love your videos

[@julial.b.6800]

I'm looking forward so much to see Kylie one day demonstrating and presenting materials for Mia that she has already mastered! Ultimate level of mastery and great bonding!

[@shannonperez3779]

Ashley! you are cranking out the content recently! you’re a total rockstar:) thank you for all that you do:)

[@leahreid7801]

I can’t believe Mia is almost a year old!!❤️

[@joellemclaughlin9867]

You are my hero! Our 7 month old is starting to become mobile and I really needed this. I also love the part you added about avoiding yelling across the room and talking more gentle about the situation in front of them. Love you guys!

[@AlicjaRaczko]

I am a kindergarten teacher. In my 5 years of experience, there was only one incident at my work that a kid smashed his head on a shelf and he needed stitches. And he was not alone in the room. If an accident is going to happen, it will happen. Even in our presence. Even when we hold a child's hand ...

[@eminemilly]

Thanks so what do you suggest?

[@miaurakimchi7349]

We made our flat a yes space, except for one room which is closed (pc stuff and hobbies). So far, that they can go play while we are still in bed or do everything on their own. For example, our bigger one (2 years and 4 months) started using the potty all on his own - and also puts his pee in the toilette and uses the sink to wash it. We love it. It is so relaxing to let them play freely without always saying no or beeing there. It is amazing!

[@JA-xv3qp]

Can I just say how much I love your community here?

[@leannecollins521]

You constantly set my mind at ease. You seem to just know what question I have next and answer it so thoroughly and positively :) Thank you

[@AvgJane19]

That's such a nice thing to say!

[@clumsyninja1172]

Those magnetic locks are super cool

[@Zoro-bs8pw]

That no thing is sooo helpful. Lately I feel like my anger gets worse if I use that language throughout the day. I’ll definitely do this. 💕

[@faithgirl3stars]

Your house is so clean. Makes me jealous. Our house is filled with clutter and part of that reason is because we live with my husbands parents. If we got rid of 96% of our stuff then I feel that baby proofing or creating “yes spaces” would be easier lol

[@elliemccarthy5672]

Love the frequent uploads!!

[@felinafarfalla]

Thank you so much Ashley for the section on "saying NO". It's been exhausting to say "no" or keep telling my toddler to get down from wherever she was. I will be more mindful of physically intervening. I never really raise my voice, but I shake my head when my baby shouldn't be doing certain things. So now when she wants to touch something new, she'll turn around and shakes her head to check with me if it's ok to touch.

[@Elvaelvaku]

The video is so helpful! My baby starts to stand and wants to explore every minute. Thank you, Ashley!

[@fairdinkumsheila]

Wow, I'm moving to a bigger house and this is the perfect video, I was about to ask you questions about babyproof! Thanks for all the suggestions and guidance! Glad to see the girls growing up 💐 Let's see how my 7 months transitions from cot next to our bed, to his own Montessori bedroom 🤔😍🏡

[@kakaakemi678]

We're observing our 4 months old daughter and planning the changes in our house. Thanks for this video! 🙂

[@noraa.616]

Such a lovely family with wonderful, gentle parenting techniques; thank you for the consistent videos, despite being a busy parent

[@LAVirgo67]

The redirecting of a child when they are doing something that they're not suppose to be doing works! I did it with my son when he was young. It was a conscious effort for my husband and me to not use the "no" word. I still remember vividly the one time I had to yell out "No! Stop!" when he was 18 months old because my son had gotten into something that was not safe. He turned around and burst out crying. He had not hurt himself, but was shocked by my loud voice. I went over, scooped him up & soothed him. Explained that was he was doing would give him an 'owie'. I used the word 'owie' instead of danger, because he understood 'owie' to be pain to be avoided.

[@CRG_]

Dee Dee I can relate. My daughter is one and some change. She was at the top of a staircase walking backwards. And I yelled out to wait or her name, not sure. And she froze and burst out in tears. Poor thing was so scared cause I had never yelled out like that before.

[@LAVirgo67]

@@MsHopeH My son is 25 years old. Had few issues with him as he grew up because he learned self-control. Thinking things out before doing them. I had a childcare center & used this same technique with all sorts of kids, including those with developmental issues. Again, it's extra effort, but well worth it. I now use the same technique on my young nephews & nieces to redirect them.

[@yurjhr1662]

Seeing your little 11 month old filled my heart. Shes so precious.

[@LowKey_B]

I think these videos are interesting to people like me who never want children because it shows the unique way that humans develop based on their environment. It is incredibly interesting to see how you are fostering your kids’ sense of independence and problem solving skills. Kudos.

[@alexiamarvin1012]

I love the emphasis on safety! As caregivers, our job is to keep kids safe! We want to teach them and help them learn applicable skills of course, but our rules and boundaries should be mostly safety based! Love that you communicate that with the kids. They understand when we tell them, it just takes time.

[@amandahartung6287]

Thank you so much for this video. I am a mom of 6 but 4 of those kids are teens. Then I have a 4 year old and almost, I have been having the hardest time with them. I feel like all i do is yell at them and it's like unless I am a mean goat they dont care what i say. My older kids were never like ths! After watching this video I'm realizing if I just made our area safer or more of a yes zone we would have a much better day.

[@stefaniemcfarlane-mitchell920]

Something that was pointed out to me by a college was to point out what u want them to do instead of what not to do. For example instead of saying "dont shout" you would say "please keep a lower voice". Thos is a more positive tone and tells the child exactly what you mean rather than just what you dont want. This method works for any situation really and ideally the only time the words "dont" or "no" are used are when something is an immediate danger to the child

[@RayneyKayLa]

Our living room AND babys bedroom is YES Space Approved :>

[@alyshock22]

So many similarities between our homes! The bathroom is exactly the same (step stool for the kitchen and same toilet setup), we also use a learning tower and his room is in montessori stile. Great video, thanks for sharing!

[@elsaabraham3065]

I work at a child development program and one of the 'mantras' we have that we tell to the kids is "It's my job to keep you safe and it's your job to help me keep you safe."

[@kassandrak1014]

Thank you so much for doing these videos - as a first time mom, I so appreciate your detailed videos and links to products. Thank you!!

[@lotte90]

Hi Ashley, thank you for uploading this video! I know you have made many of them already, but would you perhaps make a video for couples who are expecting their first baby and would like to embrace the Montessori way of educating? ❤️❤️

[@sleepingwhale]

This is perfect. Beautifully simple. , you're awesome 😊❤

[@Happyliving757]

one of my fav vlogs of your! thank you very helpful. your amazing.

[@kathmckie1752]

Changing our family life incredibly! thank you so so much!!!

[@stephanyrios8183]

YAY! Another video!❤💜💙🧡

[@ibethalfaro236]

Love your videos, thank you for the time you spend on them, they are really helpful. Have a beautiful and bless day 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@zenegyerekeknek]

This was super helpful, Thank you!

[@suckitbeeyacth]

You make great videos!!! Thank you so much for all the hard work you put into learning Montessori and making these video

[@sandram3412]

I love your channel ! I learn some much with each video you post! Thank you

[@winniemukhaimer5738]

Love your videos!! Very clear and useful!! I learnt so much from you. Thank you Ashley 💗

[@ErikAo5o4]

Love your videos, love the bed idea for toddlers, my daughter is the same way! I was already planning to get that bed since IKEA has cute tents that go with it

[@meliskoolies]

so im not a mum but i am a childcare student at the moment and i found your videos today/ i just want to thank you because thanks to your videos iv understood Montessori way better than just reading about the theorist (due to covid we havent had a chance to actually go into childcare centers and so everything is theory and its really confusing)

[@elizabethmacken7779]

Another great video Ashley! I always look forward to your uploads, they are always so informative and helpful 😊 idk if it’s just because I’m not on KZbin as frequently recently but it seems like you’ve been uploading more videos than usual lately? Of course I’m appreciative (as I’m sure most of your subscribers are haha!) but I just hope you’re not overly stressing yourself out/getting burnout/depriving yourself of family time for the sake of KZbin. Again I hope this doesn’t come off as preachy or rude or anything, I’m truly just hoping you and your family are happy and healthy and you’re not sacrificing yourself for us 💛

[@kaitlinross4348]

Ive watched this video a hundred times. I overlooked the two books, i love you and never touch a dinosuar. Those are my babygirls favorite books everrrrrrr haha

[@odileidysbasanta]

Hey! I enjoy all your videos, but this one is really appreciated by this mommy about to lose her mind! My baby is 2 and is not easy as Kylie, he tries to climb on EVERYTHING! And I'll try the magnetic locks for the kitchen... Thanks for sharing your experience! ❤️

[@karenalise7775]

Super helpful! Especially that last few minutes

[@iriegirl5517]

Thank you this was so helpful. You are a Godsend

[@Sarah-vl4mq]

Hey Ash, what baby monitor do you use? The big one that connects to your phone. Thanks gal!

[@LissaxKristine]

I have been known to use a sharp "ouch!" to startle a baby who is starting to explore something dangerous. Do I want to scare her? No, of course not. However, I figure making the baby jump because of a sharp tone is preferable to making baby jump because of an electrical shock. How do you address safety issues for a younger child balanced with allowing an older child to maintain independence? Maybe the older child is fine with stairs, but had to go from having full access to not having it because she can't open the baby gate. Or perhaps baby is now more mobile, but moving certain activities out of baby's reach means the older child doesn't have the same access. I know there are times when it's difficult to maintain the older child's independence while making sure the baby is safe.

[@roxannesmith8180]

Hi mom of a 16 month old. I love your channel and living in South Africa where Montessori is seen a learning program rather than one to live by your channel has help. I wanted to ask how I would go about baby proofing or creating "yes" spaces in my rented home where I can't really mount things onto the wall and I have cupboards that a quite old and a very curious toddler.

[@Kiwiyumful]

Im curious about your changing station. Do you not have one anymore and just change her on the floor?

[@neydinhaify]

I Loved this vídeo .... very very important to say the correct Word in lot of moments . I'm working my English. By 😍🙏

[@HudsonValleyFamilyDoulas]

You’re amazing!!! Soooooooooo helpful!!!

[@evonnehsu1216]

Thank you for always being thoughtful and posted video from your busy time! Another great video for me to reference. Question for the switch that for Kylie to switch the light, I have similar situation and do not want my daughter to climb and hurt herself. I couldn’t find the link below box in your list, may you share?

[@user-kg3xz2ke5v]

LOVE your content!!! Going to start incorporating to the Montessori approach in our household with our three year old and we have baby #2 due in March. 💜 So wish we could afford the Topponcino!!

[@choochieandfriends]

Thank you for sharing! Great video

[@jackycollins9861]

Thanks for your wonderful videos!!

[@WtchyB]

Seriously interested in the light switch you have installed in Kylie's room!

[@breanneg3694]

Also interested!

[@peacewithangelamarie]

Thank you! Excellent video!

[@anyawinkelmanv7818]

You can also check thrift stores for a learning tower! I got an original learning tower for $5 from a local thrift store!

[@munirhossain3348]

Very good! Thank you for sharing.

[@wherewildgrows]

Great tips and reminders!

[@cam-ol9ym]

Thank you so much for this!

[@loracorwyn3713]

Your a busy momma this week wow.

[@sfowler1017]

Great video! You use a lot of the same setup and safety products I do.

[@cb03px]

I was looking through your links for one to the remote lightbulb. I’ve been looking for one but like the looks of the one you guys have!

[@daniellerenee871]

AduroSmart ERIA Soft White Smart Light Is The closest thing that I found to it

[@cb03px]

Thanks! I ended up using the Philips Hue light that comes with a remote control. A little pricey but it’s been worth it so far!

[@susanagonzalezcodina9758]

Careful with the tape behind the laminated pictures! I had the same and in the time it took me to go pee my kid managed to rip them and munch on the tape (chocking hazard!!!!)

[@5fingerjack]

That was my thought too. Yikes! These kids aren't boundary pushers too much, if yours are you need a higher level of precaution!

[@chantellek3982]

Haha, yep. If I didn’t monitor my baby/toddlers 24/7, most of her house would be a safety hazard! A pressure mounted gate, lol - a climbing tool, a cord - totally a pull toy, a closet full of things up high- um those shelves are totally great ladder steps, a “kitchen helper”- basically a step stool to hang out on the counter... a kallax shelf on its side- a climbing tool, baby lotion in the free-access cupboard - wall paint..... #boymom, LOL. (And girls too, but I’m a boy mom)

[@LissaxKristine]

@@chantellek3982 Oh I feel you there. I worked as a toddler teacher and my kids were pretty wild. But watching these videos makes me wonder if part of the "wildness" is because these kids lacked the freedom. On days when the weather was bad, there was no opportunity to climb or really explore gross-motor activities. Certain schemas weren't allowed to be explored. I wonder if I had been allowed to give the kids a bit more freedom and opportunity to actually be kids instead of focusing on getting two year olds to sit for 15 minute circle times or not run, if that would've impacted overall behavior.

[@chantellek3982]

Lissa Kristine it’s possible. They may have fed off of each other’s energy too... but my kid could never have done this style of home/set up. No way. My 2nd child... yea, I think so.

[@chrissypacheco9635]

@@chantellek3982 I agree. Some kids are just more active and curious no matter if given "freedom". Especially younger kids who are learning about mobility.

[@iNalaKoala]

Thank you for this!! How do you handle the floor vents (especially ones in their bedrooms)? We have floor vents in our home and it's the one thing that is worrying me the most about a Montessori bedroom and floor bed situation.

[@iNalaKoala]

I don't mean to bother you or rush you at all, just wanted to kind of "bump" my comment in case you hadn't seen it. I'm 4 months pregnant with our first baby and the floor vent thing is really worrying me the most about giving her a floor bed instead of a crib. Do you have any advice for making sure the floor vents are safe for baby's room?

[@mimigalvez3849]

Thank you! So helpful

[@michellechouinard4958]

It is 100% just your child who doesn't mess with the cord... lol. Mine instantly gravitates to the one item in the room I don't want him to touch.

[@poojamendiratta8407]

Hmmm. Tell her exactly why. If he continues doing it then just take him away. Taking a child away may sound like a small thing but for them it is a really big thing

[@KN-dy4hm]

What are your resources? Which books have your read? I love your videos. I hope I will get a baby soon and than I will rewatch your videos.

[@5fingerjack]

My twins at roughly 20m got the sliding closet door off the rails by pushing up from the bottom.

[@kendraarmstrong4375]

Wow I worry about that I also have twins. Lol they plot together

[@katarinavukasinovic9917]

I love your channel! Since I am new here, I wanted to ask if you are making any distinction between bedrooms and their playroom? Thanks!

[@christmaspast5550]

Hello! Been watching a few of your videos here and there because I find them quite interesting. I have been wondering, what happens when they are older in their preteen years? Do you let them design their rooms as their own or continue the Montessori style?

[@veronicael-showk2162]

Do you have any advice in regards to preventing them from pinching their fingers? I bought drawer locks and even thought they don’t open, they open enough to pinch her fingers :/

[@ushmaagrawal7455]

Hi ashley.. where did you get the low open cabinet in mia’s room from?

[@NA-nq6xx]

Question - Do you recommend using the Ikea Kura bed as floor bed frame? How old was Kailey when she starts sleeping in it? My son is also an active sleeper and rolls quite a bit when he sleeps. He is 9 months old now and can army crawl. He sleeps in crib now and I want to transition him to floor bed. Thanks!

[@reneeliu2484]

What kind of mattress did you get and where did you get it? It seems impossible to find a twin size mattress that is not made of memory foam (for infant safety). 😔

[@zilinzheng5022]

Hi, what do you do with the floor vent (where heat comes out)? Is that a safety hazard?

[@ushmaagrawal7455]

Hi ashley.. where did you get the low open cabinet in mia’s room from? Can you please give me the sizes of it Length breadth height n depth

[@aknightlife]

I've been watching your videos for months now, but just realized I WASN'T SUBSCRIBED 😯🤯 so I fixed that 😂

[@kailashmendiratta6178]

😂😂 A really big mistake 😂😂

[@TheMsBewitched]

Ashley, what’s the baby monitor you use that’s mounted to Mia’s room ceiling? Im struggling to find a monitor that doesn’t have an annoying blinking blue light!

[@nela3986]

I find it quite fascinating really, but we are from europe. We don´t have those huge houses where you can afford to do most of the things you show here. Some things inspired me tho. I will try implementing them and make a few changes in the house. A thanks on my part.

[@paolamayora5769]

My daughter is 10 months and she would definitely pull off the curtains, roll off the bed everyday, and rip off the pictures 😂😂 but seriously...this was very helpful!

[@LifeWithAlliDaily]

I See... similarities and differences...of course you are so far ahead of me and I'm learning from you....my daughter is also 11mo she sleeps on top of a blanket but it's bc she's Always rolling and can move herself. She doesn't pull curtains. Now she chews on her books so I had to move those to the top of her closet. 😆 Right now I can only do her room and I had to get a playpin but it's very large. And safe for the living room area.

[@simonemoses1081]

Look up indestructible books. They are made for the teeth and slobber

[@danaemccoy3868]

I have drawer locks on my dresser my daughter was always opening them and smooshing her fingers! 😪. I have no idea if they have damaged the finish! 😳

[@morgantrojacek8055]

A question!! I always love your videos! I have a six month old and these could not come at a better time. We live in a very small apartment and can't do most modifications (mounting furniture to the wall, etc.). So currently when we aren't holding our baby she's in a play pen, so safe but not much opportunity for exploring. Any suggestions on how to practice Montessori with such limited space? Thanks! :)

[@sarahbanda155]

Morgan Trojacek we too live in a small apartment. One bedroom with 2 kids. I gave them the living room as a yes space. We use sturdy, hard plastic baby gates to not drill holes in the wall... they have no access to kitchen, bathroom, linen closet or bedroom alone. We minimized/let go of a lot to make this happen. All bulky furniture that wasn’t used was let go. No DVD bookcase (now dvds are in binders, in the closet), tall book case gone, no more TV table or coffee table. Hubby got a big IKEA rug and that’s their play space. I DIYed toy cubbies out of zip ties & diaper boxes which hold all toys under the wall mounted TV (sorry Landlord) we too used wall cable strip protectors like in the video but connected it to a baby proofed surge protector box (hides well behind the couch)...we need our WiFi and cables out of reach. Our furniture is minimal just couches, dining table, chairs, baby food chair and kids table/chair with small wall mounted bookcase. Again downsizing has been the best = less clutter = less stress! Kids safety is my top priority. Stuff just got in the way. Hope that helps give ideas on creating your own yes space. Loved this video! One day we might have extra rooms or just extra space but for now I’m just trying to live without stressing out. Let the kids play!

[@jaclynross7045]

What kind of video camera did you use that doesn't go over the WiFi - the green one? Where did you get it?

[@nishkalnathoo2927]

The worst is when we at Grandma's. She has antiques everywhere. We are on high alert. Constantly saying 'no' she said that our 10 month old needs to learn what they can't do.

[@dandanjordan]

How do you take a newborn shopping? Stroller? Car seat in the cart? Or in a wrap?

[@zainabal-bahadly6497]

the clear edge protectors dont come off at all, but may be the chunkier ones do. I have both installed and only the latter is 10% torn. The clear ones are as they are since I installed them 👍🏻

[@annabelleli7799]

Hi Ashley, not sure if this message can get to you. I’m seeking your advise on how to choose baby bed. My 11 months old is a roller too, and she keeps roll out the floor bed, sometimes she even wakes up and crawl to the door. What do you suggest yo handle the situation ?

[@anamariabechara]

Could you please share where you bought the pressure mounted baby gate?

[@jessicasnow9382]

So my 15 month old is obsessed with outlets and pulls all the covers we have tried right off. She also pulls all cords she finds. How would I hide them?