Dude. You know it’s time to walk away. Believe me, I been there, you are hopelessly in love, and you need to stop it. She is either with another “boyfriend” or with her husband, you don’t even know if she went home to the family. What you are getting from her is not love. I know it’s hard, and you will probably not listen. But let it GO! Ps. And don’t send money!
@alabamaplaneguyАй бұрын
Sorry to say but odds are she was with another customer who she was playing the same as she played you. Massage girls, bar girls, a go go girls all have people falling in love with them every day. Nothing against you. It’s just a business for them.
@jaimepimienta233Ай бұрын
The infatuation is over. It’s time to move on. I don’t mean to belittle your feelings but EVERYONE PLAYS THE FOOL! You’re not alone with your experiences. You sound young and by your story, a little naīve. Your feelings for this young woman are part of the growth that my own son experienced (he’s 34). Believe me, just like my son, it’s a learning experience. As you age, you acquire wisdom. Call it lust! Call it fantasy! A marriage?? As with my own son who ended up with a broken heart and a painful breakup, you’ll survive and with a little luck, you’ll find the WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS someday! Good Luck👍🏼!
@mark_osborneАй бұрын
Heart breaking story, I feel your pain ! Sorry to say - I think she's up to something she doesn't want you to know
@PhaoanEgyptАй бұрын
At last you posted a vid, once a week is fine, your channel is the only Thailand channel I watch/sub.
@rocky55519Ай бұрын
It’s trap mate You should move on 99% she is with another man This is how it is in Thailand I am telling you with my experience Don’t be upset it’s just honest advise
@deemeedee4862Ай бұрын
Thai women(bar, massage etc etc) are Academy Award Actresses & Best Liars on the Planet 😂
@nickknight8065Ай бұрын
Great story, if you need a reminder about what not to do in Thailand.
@paso7943Ай бұрын
finding a wife in Thailand and starting a life together is fine. The problem is the long distance relationship. People need to move permanently to Thailand and then find a wife over there and stay there. 1 week or 1 month in Thailand and then move back home and keep the relationship online hardly ever work. Not just with Thai girl, but everywhere else too. Long distance relationship never works.
@jonhobson3592Ай бұрын
I met online. Chatted for 9 months. Then Visited her for 3 weeks .. then kept in touch , I then decided to move here March 23’ we stayed together until August 24’. It did work out well , especially when I moved here , but alas we have now parted ways , but at least I tried ! , she is a non bar scene worker & never asked me for one baht. If I had never of met her online , I would never of come here .. now I’m ok on my own, well for now .. 😅
@abcdjkxАй бұрын
Exactly, there's no point starting something that you can't maintain.
@samaquilina607721 сағат бұрын
I've been in a long distance relationship for 11years . And still a strong relationship.
@piquedardАй бұрын
I'm stunned by such candor! I hope that the author of this story is a teenager and that he will soon learn the realities of life.
@jamesbarrett414Ай бұрын
I agree with you a loved up teenager
@PhaoanEgyptАй бұрын
I understand your pain, you love her, and you are trying to find excuses for her, that will temporarily give you some comfort, later you will be in a worst emotional state, because in reality, she is with someone else. Trust your gut feeling, it is right most of the time. move one and after a while your sorrow for losing her will dissipate. and you will find yourself ready to date and love again. Best of luck.
@SwedishGlobetrotterАй бұрын
Thanks..My evening just got better. Love your storys
@euromazing1Ай бұрын
Be safe in the knowledge, your not the first and won’t be the last to fall for a Thai beauty. The reality is she’s a working girl, and if your not sending big money while your not in the country, the next guy might or is, and her priorities will skew towards the money, after all that’s why she’s working there in the first place. Falling in love tho completely blinds common sense so don’t be to hard on yourself
@da__langАй бұрын
You don't know how lucky you are to have gotten away from her.
@abcdjkxАй бұрын
It's not just bar girls, any woman will do this once she loses interest. The "slow fade" is usually their way of letting you down easy. Letting you go in a way that they don't feel too guilty. She doesn't dislike you. The connection you once had was real. But either she's met someone else, or she's gotten back with her husband. Don't beat yourself up. Humans are notoriously unreliable. Move on and move forward.
@emilresmannАй бұрын
Bad WiFi? No way! I have been all over Thailand, and cell coverage is excellent almost everywhere! If you do not live in the middle of nowhere, you also will have acces to afordable internet connection with good WiFi!
@allangreenley9901Ай бұрын
Yes connection all over Thailand is very good.
@asiatravels8412Ай бұрын
Most of them have Thai boyfriends in background they don't care if there girlfriends work in the bars etc.
@allangreenley9901Ай бұрын
I agree with you thai boyfriend in the background or another faarang she has now .all a business get out of faraangs as much as possible before they drop you blocked
@TheJay3722 күн бұрын
I agree with you. Most do indeed have Thai boyfriends/husbands. My advice (for what it's worth) is simply to not take it seriously and just play the game.
@CarlosCiriloАй бұрын
Sorry bro, but nobody is that busy 😬
@WhenTheManComesAroundАй бұрын
One simple truth- Women make time for the man they seek to have as their husband, even if it's only for 10 minutes a day. There is no reality to where 5-10 minutes can't be made to write a longer text even if signal isn't good enough for video call. However, for there to be 0 video calls really should give you all the answers you need to know. It's not what we say that defines us, it's what we do. Look to the actions, not the words. Best of luck.
@ralphtinley7274Ай бұрын
Keep it as a fond memory and move on like your friend.
@muratsoyer1Ай бұрын
You hardly know her, it is infatuation not love and that is very dangerous.
@mickyLat3652Ай бұрын
Sorry but do you think that a person who lives with their phone is too busy to keep in touch with you? Not just 1 day but consistent, day after day? The girls are very sweet & you are only human but the mistake you made was to keep going back over & over. You have to reprogram the mind as falling for one of these girls will only end up hurting YOUR emotions. They will move on easily. Yes, I am talking from experience - soon to embark on trip 21 to Thailand. Cheers
@jonhobson3592Ай бұрын
Takes seconds to say hi 👋
@RicardoRoamsАй бұрын
She never had any intention of marrying you and moving to your country. She conned you for your money. And now she has moved on. You need to do the same. Chalk it up to a learning experience.
@ThailandUncensoredАй бұрын
Great story!
@paulnewson937Ай бұрын
Mate, don't feel bad but you have been played. Every bloke that's been to Thailand and fallen for a BG, massage girl or agogo girl has a story virtually the same as you. Cease all comms with her and move on. You'll be glad you did.
@seaside_freddie9930Ай бұрын
You violated the three day rule.
@peenatrickАй бұрын
Feelings are normal but you are being a little too clingy
@hughnorman5869Ай бұрын
She has a new boyfriend. Do not lock yourself into a long term affair
@jeoffreymealey19 күн бұрын
Kha son road is an absolute dive. Nothing but back packers !!!
@adamanonymus3309Ай бұрын
I think you should hire a private eye. They can easily get any evidence in a short time.
@abcdjkxАй бұрын
would you honestly trust a Thai investigator? ? :) he'd probably make a deal with her behind your back.
@Hellraiser__Ай бұрын
almost the same as my current situation, but we met in my country, and I am kinda praying she will find time for me 😮 see what happens, i guess.
@richardevans3801Ай бұрын
Don't upset yourself. Put it down to experience and move on. She's with someone else guaranteed.
@udontony3406Ай бұрын
She stole your heart but sadly it’s all about the Baht 💸💸💸 1,000,000% she was with another customer or boyfriend up in the village Learn from this & keep it moving 💪🏼
@toyshanger8945Ай бұрын
Please just have fun and walk off. If needed just get another girl have fun and move on. They are in this line of work not in line to be a wife.
@thomasfriis8106Ай бұрын
You have never had a relationship with this girl I live here in Thailand and see this happening every single day. With time you will see it was all an illusion Next time you go to Thailand just enjoy yourself and NEVER see the same girl more than once.
@areyouexp419 күн бұрын
my thai mentor told me before my first time on the airplane on the way home delete your line account and after my 2nd or 3rd visit - i understood why 5555 - i have been to thailand 5 x now
@johnfitzpatrick5627Ай бұрын
The Best Advice i got was USE THAILAND DON'T LET IT USE YOU.
@concretecupidАй бұрын
No one is so busy that they only have 5 minutes of time to chat with you. If anything, she should be talking to u more if her "family" was there to introduce u to them. Odds are shes playing some other man the same way she just did u
@SimplyScalping2 күн бұрын
When I went to Thailand I had 3 Thai girlfriends. I played them at their own game.
@MOVIEHORIZON3 күн бұрын
If she really loved you she would make time for you…just like you said…
@fransfermont6193Ай бұрын
"Run Forrest, run!!!".
@leonbuild3246Ай бұрын
Run!
@thommoeuth6118Ай бұрын
Some do if they'desperate enough to let their wife or bf. I heard stories. Sometimes the husband in isan doesn't know either. Thinking their wives are in the restaurant business
@grneckАй бұрын
Likely she is married and sees a way out of a miserable marriage. I believe she loves you and if she gets married in Thailand with you (bigamy, who cares?), then move to the USA together , she is off the hook and free to show you her real self called total happiness which you have experienced when you were with her while in Thailand. So stick it out for a while and you will see…
@revolutitravels29607 күн бұрын
She was with another future husband no doubt. Head to pattaya next time and don't stick with the same girl
@chrisphayao17 күн бұрын
You were very lucky imho - you got rid of her at an early stage without losing all of your savings ! Imgaine you had married her and invested all your life and she ran away with a richer guy later - you would have lost all your possessions, your life time, your dignity ! Same happened to a friend of mine, even with a non-bar-girl but from a "respected" family - she left him and even dumped her 2 kids on him to get a richer guy. For most asians, money is the only thing that counts !
@archieandrews2416Ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with you,one suggestion though, just forget about her, she's not worthy of a relationship with you, keep in mind, thai lady is a very sweet talker and good liar
@somekindaguy10018 күн бұрын
WAKE UP.
@michaelmallal910120 күн бұрын
I had a g/f who gave great massages too; should have married her.
@frankevangelista264229 күн бұрын
These women are just an illusion.You need to charge it to the game and move on