Happy Meal Time for Kids | 8 Mistakes to Avoid | Picky Eating | Parenting Malayalam|Dr. Mary Matilda

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നിങ്ങൾ ഈ കാര്യങ്ങൾ മനസിലാക്കുകയും, അംഗീകരിക്കുകയും, support ചെയ്യുകയും ചെയുന്നത് ആണ് നിങ്ങളുടെ മകളുടെ ഭാഗ്യം.

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[@mynotes5298]

ഈ കാര്യങ്ങൾ ഒക്കെ നേരത്തെ അറിയാവുന്നത് കൊണ്ട് എനിക്ക് കുഞ്ഞുണ്ടായപ്പോൾ ഞാൻ ഒരുപാട് concern ആയിരുന്നു. കുഞ്ഞിന് നല്ല food habit ഉണ്ടാക്കിയത് ന്റെ പേരിൽ husband ന്റെ വീട്ടുകാരുടെ ഇടയിൽ ഞാൻ ഒരു മഹാ അപരാധി ആയി.... എന്റെ മാതൃത്വത്തെ ചോദ്യം ചെയുന്ന രീതിയിൽ പല സംസാരങ്ങളും കേൾക്കേണ്ടി വന്നു.... കുത്തുവാക്കുകൾ, പരിഹാസങ്ങൾ..... എല്ലാത്തിനും നന്ദി. ❣️proud mom

[@neethukarthika]

Same... 😊 Feeling proud💪

[@ashamathew8981]

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[@athi55]

Same here.... I am being blamed as I tried self feeding in high chair from 6th month, now she is 1 year old , she eats by herself but I am a bad mom as I don’t feed her by carrying along the courtyard showing flowers and cats🙃

[@sangeethaarun672]

Swabhavikam aanalo🤣

[@aswajithadhwaith884]

Same

[@hasna8127]

Inn njan bhayankara sankadathilayrunnu.njan misnte kure video kandu..I am very happy.thank you.santhoshipichathin

[@girijakrishnakumar1527]

VALUABLE VIDEO FOR NEW GENERATION MOTHERS. ASHA'S STATEMENT IS CORRECT: QUALITY IS BETTER THAN QUANTITY. THANKS FOR SHARING. MAY GOD BLESS ABUNDANTLY YOU & YOUR FAMILY MADAM. GOOD NIGHT WITH GOOD LUCK .....

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much ❤

[@keerthykp3159]

Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart 💗 really really effective to my 2 year old. Now we both experiencing happy meal time, it's reduced halfway of my mental stress and anxiety. Your parenting vdos are very insightful.

[@ashamathew8981]

So happy to hear this❤

[@muhammedsanoop7363]

ഞാനാഗ്രഹച വീഡിയോ താങ്ക്സ് മാം... 😍😍😍

[@ashamathew8981]

Glad to know that🙂

[@anjumohanan3149]

Very good video. Almost cleared all my doubts

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@thundathiljames2174]

Great observation Asha!. Thank you for sharing it.

[@mohanmathew9997]

NIA MOL is blessed to have a mom n Grandmother like Asha n Matilda aunty ,respectively

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you for the kind words❤

[@suluzworld7646]

Ningl paranjathoke correct aanu ,but ith namuk follow Cheyyanamenki vtl ulloroke ee kaaryngal manassilakendi varum ,kaaranam most of the time nte makan kurach kazhich nirthi povum ,pine Oroonnin kurumb kaanikumbo veetil ulloroke vishannittan nirbhndhich fud kazhipikanam parayum !

[@ashamathew8981]

Hmm...

[@athulyajs3709]

Helpful and healthy video 🙏Thanks teacher and asha🌹

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@lrk1999]

Valuable information. Ente mon 5 years aayi.2 months munpanu aadyamayi milk kudikunnathu.kure thavana try cheythathu shesham. Pinne kidsinu activities undenkil avar food kazhikum.

[@tubescan2471]

Well said mam നല്ല അമ്മയുടെ നല്ല മകൾ

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@SUDHANYAJIJO]

Wow... Nice വീഡിയോ... Thanku ടീച്ചർ, asha 🙏

[@infoinfo9406]

Reduce the milk intake to 1 cup after 1 1/2 yrs, kids will automatically eat food. Our people thinking is drink lots of milk. If kids drink more than 2 cup, it automatically reduce their appetite for food, encourage them to drink plenty of water. Give them vegetables, meat and poultry, reduce rice and other carbohydrates. Good job 👍🏾

[@ashamathew8981]

True! Thank you for watching and commenting🙂

[@lekshmipriya6492]

Ente mon 2.5 vayassai..Avan chorum curry onum kooty kazhikila..chor pappadam allengil chor Motta..engne nokyalum curry accept chyila . breakfast angne thane.. enthelum vazhy undo ithonum mattan

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Thanks Asha

[@MaryMatilda]

Your are welcome. ❤❤🙏

[@Ashikachi990]

Teacher njan first. time video kandathu SRP yile ormakalilekku madangipoyi Thank you

[@MaryMatilda]

Hai Noushad great to hear from you.❤❤

[@neethusreejith9196]

Is it possible for me , I don't know. Enda mone 3 years old njan koduthal mathram kazhiku mattan nokiyallum grand parents and husband samathikilla school pokumbol thana kazhichollum parajum . what can I do 😔 plz reply Mam

[@ashamathew8981]

I understand your situation. If your son prefers to be fed and is happy that way, I wouldn't see that as a problem. The golden rule for a happy mealtime is "no pressure", including no pressure to eat on one's own. Once he is on his own at school, he will eventually learn to eat by himself, though it might take time. So don't worry Neethu🙂. Meanwhile, for now, maybe you can encourage him to eat snacks or food that he really enjoys, by himself. But if your son shows interest in eating by himself, please let him, without worrying about the quantity eaten or the mess created. If you restrict him in that case, it might lead him to dislike mealtimes.

[@neethusreejith9196]

Thank you

[@aswaniakhilan1050]

Thank u so much for this valuable tips

[@MaryMatilda]

You are welcome

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Helpful and healthy message

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Helpful video, thanks GBU ,

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[@manieshvnair]

Breakfast is the brain food. If that went wrong then everything will go wrong especially their studies. So we must take care off that.

[@renjithaer7036]

Valare usefull tips and information thanks chechi thanks teacher

[@hareeshmaanurag5011]

Ente mon 3 years aayi... Avanu nalla vishapunnd, ella tym same qty alla kazhikunnath bt avanu ath mathi. Prblm avanu vaari kodukanam,kaiyil food aavunnath ishtavunnilla.. Sonthamaayi food kazhikan enthu cheyanam.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you for watching and commenting! Gradually kunju thanne kazhikan thudangumayirikum. swayam kazhikan force cheythal chilapo athu mealtimes stressful aakkan chance undu. Meanwhile namukku chilathu try cheyam: - hands clean ayirikanamenkil spoon vachu kazhikan paranju nokam, kunjinte munbil namuku spoon vachu kazhichu athu model cheyam - at the start, kunjinu ishtamulla snacks oke swayam kazhikan encourage cheyam. - generally veetilullavar cleanliness ine pati orupadu stress cheyunundo ennu sradhikam. angane undenkil athu ozhivakkam. Kunjinte kaiyil kalikumbozho kazhikumbozho oke azhukku ayal athine normal ayitu kaanam. - kunjine kalikunna samayathu kurachu messy ayitu kalikan chances kodukam. maybe chapathi maavu kuzhaykano allenkil clay vachu kalikano oke encourage cheyam. I hope this helps🙂

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Good and faithful servant of God 🙏 I don't know how to thanks to you, your great, let us move ahead together mind in mind shoulder to shoulder, I would like to thank you give me this opportunity, it's a good good advice, especially your are a good communicator, thank you so much Go and fight against the darknes,

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@vandanar.s7809]

My kid sits in one place and eats only if she is with grandmother and hears some stories or is playing or if she is eating by herself which is when she gets her favourite food. You had mentioned that we should not distract them like that.. Then how do u make ur daughter sit in one place and eat when it's not their favourite food ? Regarding what do u interact with her when u feed her?

[@ashamathew8981]

Hi! I see no harm in having conversations while eating. As long as it is not used as a tactic to make the child eat, it is fine. The point is that the child should decide what to eat and how much to eat.

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Very useful video.

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Thankyou teacher 🥰🥰

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Thanks much for watching and commenting🙂

[@sreejar9193]

Apo nml engne enth food kodukanm...? Ma'am my baby 1 year..jus 8kg... Food Kanda thane mugham thirikum... Bt nmde veetile elaa aaharnglm aval kzikanda praaym ale.. njn entha cheyandath... I lost my mother to cancer 8years back ..chodikaanm aarum ila... Bt she is a girl elaa aaharnglm kzikande ..bt engne enth kodukanm en polm enik ariyila... Please do reply chechi...

[@ashamathew8981]

Hi Sreeja! You could try a few things: 1. Make sure that there is enough time between two meals for the child to feel hungry. Also make sure she is not too hungry because that might make her angry. 2. Let her eat on her own. That might make her feel interested in mealtimes. Don't worry about the mess. 3. Let her touch and feel the food. Even if she doesn't eat the food, it's ok. Touching and feeling is a way of getting used to the food. It will slowly help her accept the food. 4. Make the child sit and eat along with other family members. This will make mealtimes joyful. The child also sees how others are eating and helps her learn. 5. Do not ever force the child to eat. Trust the child. When she indicates 'no' or 'enough', trust her and let it be. 6. Involve the child in cooking or peeling according to the age. This will generate interest in food. 7. While eating together, keep your focus on your own plate and not on the child's plate. The more the child senses that you're worried about her food intake, the more she tries to avoid food. 8. Always make sure that atleast one item on the child's plate is something that the child usually likes. This is called a "safe food". Always offer new food along with a safe food. This will reduce the child's stress around mealtimes. You just need to remember not to offer the same safe food every day. Offer different safe foods each day. The golden rule is - no pressure. 9. Something I have found useful in introducing a new food is to eat the new food in front of the child rather than offering it directly. That makes the child curious and she might ask for a bite. 10. Trying a different setting for the meal might also make it interesting, e.g. instead of the dining table, have a meal on a mat on a floor or have the meal in a different plate or in a tiffin box or on a banana leaf. Just try something new once in a while to revive interest.

[@ashamathew8981]

And you can offer the same food that you and others in the family eat.

[@sreejar9193]

@Asha Mathew... Thankyou so much ma'am... I didn't notice that i received a message or response to my question... Thankyou so much ma'am..let me go through... Immensely feeling blessed to see you 10 numbers of tip..let me read the same... I felt i should thank first and then only i should go for reading ..that's why thanking you so deeply...

[@sreejar9193]

Tip 3 jus made my self understand deep ma'am..😇

[@sreejar9193]

Tip 7...i just felt like you were always at our home...even if i make her sit along with us...my entire concentration will be on her plate...rather than mine

[@bobbysailesan2324]

Seriyaya karyangall thanne. Njan 6 month kazhinja monte grandother aannu. Njan ithil paranja karyangall pravarthikam aakan sremichu parajayapettukondirikukayannu😂. Kunjinte sredha mattu karyangallil pathipikkathe aaharam koduthappol ragi ozhike avan onnum kazhikan kuttakkunnilla. Athu kondu thalkalam nirbandichu kodukkathe meal time rasakaramakkikondu bhakshanam kodukamenna theerumanathil njan ethichernnu.

[@lifefate9205]

Very good advice

[@MaryMatilda]

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[@aryakrishna2659]

kunjigalku engana bore adikathe interest aaittu padipichu kodukam yanu ulla Vedio onu cheyummo pls

[@MaryMatilda]

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[@aryakrishna2659]

Njanum oru mother annu njan ee same problem suffer cheyundu Mona fud kudukuna kariyamm so difficult aanu avan onum kazhikila . As a mother njan ee Vedio aagrahichirunu thankuu so much

[@aryakrishna2659]

Ee mistake oke njanum cheyum😔.njanum force cheythu food kodum .njan vijarichathu positive reinforcement via food kudukunath nallath a yanu bt epo chechi paranjapozha manasilayath positive reinforcement is a type of forceful eating yanu

[@ashamathew8981]

It's my pleasure! Thank you so much for commenting. I totally understand how you feel. Food inte karyathil ottum pressure kodukathirikua. Onnum kazhikathapol polum angane cheyunnathu kondu nalla difference undayitundu Niayude karyathil. E.g. oru divasam uchayku aval onnum kazhichillenkil njan "ok vishappillayirikum alle" ennu paranju mealtime avasanipikum. Time undenkil 1 hour inu shesham veendum koduthu nokum. Allenkil adutha meal usual time il kodukum or avalku vishannal alpam nerathe kodukum. Mikavarum aval aa adutha meal pathivilum kooduthal kazhikum. Njan paranju vannathu ingane pressure illathe irikumbo annerathe meal kazhichillenkilum adutha meal or adutha divasam nannayitu kazhikan aanu chance. But If we force them, athinte negative effect adutha meals ilum kaanum. Avarku food inodu negative attitude avum. Trusting the child is what helped me change my ways🙂

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Very informative

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Thank u so much mam 🙏🏻

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Valuable ....mam...

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Thank you

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Correct kariyama kto. Super video.

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Food baaki vakunnath mind cheyyathirikunnath athrem nallathano..baki vachalum kuzhapamillennulla msg thonnille

[@ashamathew8981]

Kurachu mathram adyam serve cheyyukayanu njan cheyaru. Kurachu muthirumbol avashyamullathu mathram swayam vilambi edukkan parayum.

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👌.Madam paranjathu valare shariyaanu.90 present rogangalum thettaaya aahaaravum, naam arinju thanne cheyyunna ajaagrathayumaanu.

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Thank you for watching and commenting🙂

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Thanks you mam god bless u

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[@ramkrish598]

Njan inganeyaa molk nadannanu food kodukkaa... 10 month aayitte ulluu.. Kazhikkanel thanne thuppi kalayum

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Good video Mam 👍🏻

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Hai teacher amma 😍

[@MaryMatilda]

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Thank you

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My pleasure🙂

[@athulyaa6253]

Appol vegetables kazhikkathirunnalo?

[@ashamathew8981]

Expose them to vegetables more and more without forcing. Involve them in vegetable shopping, peeling, cooking etc. in a safe and age appropriate manner. Talk to them about the benefits of eating vegetables during casual conversations. And keep offering vegetables along with other food, without forcing to eat.

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Ithu njn aano????

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[@anngeorge7186]

Food waste aakerutennu cherutile pafippikanam

[@ashamathew8981]

Very true. So kurachu mathram plate il serve cheyam. Muthirna kuttikal anenkil avarku avashyam ullathu swayam serve cheyan parayam. Thanks for watching and commenting🙂

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Very good videoo... 😍😃

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Thank you.

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Thank you teacher

[@mohammedshafia2826]

ഭ്രാന്തമായ ചില ചിന്തകളും കടന്നു വരുന്നുണ്ടോ?

[@MaryMatilda]

It may seem so. But it works OK with Nia. So far so good.

[@mohammedshafia2826]

@@MaryMatilda ശരി.ഇതുവരെയുള്ള അവതരണങ്ങൾ നന്നായിരുന്നു, brief and compact. ഇതു മാത്രം കാടുകയറിയതു പോലെ എനിക്കു തോന്നി.sorry for the comment and best of luck!

[@ashamathew8981]

@@mohammedshafia2826 Thanks for watching and commenting🙂 Will definitely try to be as concise as possible.

[@sudhinvijayan9474]

Missed the tagline "ആശ 2 വയസ്സുകാരിയുടെ അമ്മ " Very informative video by the way.. Nb :- ആശയുടെ ഹെയർസ്റ്റൈൽ ഉണ്ണിയാർച്ച പോലെ തോന്നി due to the watermark. 😀

[@ashamathew8981]

Haha! Keen observations as always😃 Thank you so much🙂

[@MaryMatilda]

Hai Swathy prompt and keen observations as usu. Thank you very much. Next time we will exchange our positions.

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[@geemonmc9489]

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[@MaryMatilda]

നിയ മോൾക്ക്‌ 2 വയസ്സ്. അവൾക്കു നാടനോടാണ് പ്രിയം. Thanks for your suggestion

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