Harper’s hair routine!!! ✨✨

[@jeromejax8675]

Harper must be so much fun. She is unpredictable. Her personality is fabulous.

[@merlymoreno6207]

000

[@Wtf.juana_]

I know right 😊

[@annettejohnson7790]

Harper Is BEAUTIFUL!

[@Jessmtr]

Harper wasn’t the one getting her hair done… she was just sitting so why bring her up 🤔

[@jeromejax8675]

​@𝐽𝑒𝑠𝑠 💗 What video were you watching? The mother says in the opening of the video, this is " How I do Harpers hair."

[@y2khira]

This set of children is sooo beautiful...I just can't help but admire their beauty. They've got the best of both genes

[@carolgibson-wilson4354]

The parents are gorgeous too.

[@josibelinga8148]

Aunt Jessie pillow soft curls aunt Jessica todo

[@dee_dee_place]

I love genetics! Hayden looks like Mom. Harper looks like Dad. Emmett looks like both Mom & Dad. It's amazing!

[@jackielowrey3032]

Set?! Lol

[@karmanjones8346]

Yes it is normal for the curl pattern to be very different!! She is adorable!

[@dr.valbell6427]

Your kids are so beautiful! Their blue/green eyes with their caramel-colored skin is simply gorgeous; your kids clearly got the best of both ethnicities!

[@DaniRuth]

I’m proud of you for learning Mama. Keep going. Her hair is looking so much healthier !! 🤍 We need more Moms like you!!

[@nondumisogasser7155]

what are you saying...her hair was always healthy...

[@DaniRuth]

@@nondumisogasser7155 please shut up lol

[@nondumisogasser7155]

@@DaniRuth you shut up

[@DaniRuth]

@@nondumisogasser7155 lmfaoooooo gladly, so I don’t have to talk to you 🥴😂

[@annasanner6636]

​@@DaniRuth always someone that has to take offense to a compliment that wasn't intended for them lol

[@samanthaspeckman6648]

Love when parents learn their child’s hair. These children will love their hair because they had a momma who is learning how to take care or and do hair that is not like hers. (even if it’s not Everyday, cause honestly we all have bad hair days)

[@soulfulmeangiep605]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gcatalina800]

My white grandma had such a hard time doing my hair the first 12 years. Only a few times our neighbor volunteered and did my hair. Had two french braids and ribbon from grandma. Fast forward to moving in with my black Afro-Latina mother, she was no different. Terrible. Lmao! Left at 14 and had my sister-friends do my hair and got my first press and curls.

[@sarai_33]

Yeah dawn i wished my mom did it like this. I have curly hair and my mother not and she never learned me how to do my hair. So as a teenager the boys called my ugly hair. And i am traumatized since rhen about my hair😢😢

[@dee_dee_place]

Even though my family & I are White, I have extremely thick, curly hair that when it is long, looks just like an afro, no joke. My Mom never had the patience to care for my hair. She would break brushes on my hair. Finally, she started using the big teeth of a metal comb, & only did so after lathering my hair with 1/2 a bottle of conditioner. We made a deal, I would sit still while she attempted to comb my hair & she only had 15 minutes. I would split off the chair if she wasn't finished. Meantime, her Mom, my Grandma, would spend hours at a time brushing my hair with her hairbrush & singing to me. Not once, ever, did my Grandma hurt me while brushing my hair. What can I say, I'm my Grandma's Granddaughter; my hair was EXACTLY like hers.

[@mcbellow]

These are a few that work well for her hair type: 1. Multicultural curls 2. Blueberry bliss 3. Shea moisture for thick curls The problem with curly hair is that sometimes our hair gets tired of being hydrated by the same product and it just stops working. Hope this helps!

[@kittybxoxo]

Shea moisture and Camille rose❤ I have the same texture as Harper and I absolutely love them and the blueberry bliss gel is life

[@melindaspencer-sackett2092]

White girl here. I have that problem too. My very thin hair gets waited down by a film. I have to use a gentle stripping shampoo every so often.

[@lori8492]

I'm biracial with 3b hair and it doesn't work for me

[@indigoflat00]

Love Harpers hair, sweet smile, and quirky personality❣️that little sweetie always makes me smile ♥️

[@lisabradley5462]

It’s perfectly normal for us to have several curl patterns and differ textures in one head of hair 😂😂😂. I didn’t learn this until I went natural twenty years ago. You’re doing great with Harpers hair!!

[@Adarnae]

True. My front and back are markedly different!!!😂❤

[@jasminespencer2872]

Yup Mu own us tighter coils in the back then loose coils from the middle, forward So it look all the same length

[@lucygoosie7726]

So true, my son has straight hair on top and curls underneath and mine’s the opposite with curls on top and straight underneath. It can be frustrating

[@candiedwards974]

@@jasminespencer2872, That’s how mine is as well. Which makes taking care of it more work.

[@jasminespencer2872]

@@candiedwards974hmm what do u mean by that?

[@jamilleayers1543]

Not wierd at all to shampoo her hair in the sink. All little girls should experience this!

[@cocot9414]

Yup. My grandmother used to wash my hair in the sink and put it in plats to dry overnight. She would then press it with a hot comb on Sunday after breakfast. I'm all of 49 years old and I treasure those bonding moments with my grandma.

[@alanasamuel6161]

God bless this family beautiful

[@thegirldaina]

I think she meant the haircut. One side was longer than the other

[@jeanjoseph7905]

from what I can remember everyone uses the kitchen sink to bathe their babies and I am 72

[@Scribbl3Zzzz]

@@cocot9414at first i read “put it in plants” and i was so confused lol

[@LuvLoopAnaya]

Harper's little face is so cute 🌺

[@sfisher2860]

You are so patient to curl her hair manually. Great job! ❤

[@rsbrryberet4802]

Using the sink IS normal lol--who thinks it's not?! LOL🤣🤣🤣 Also love that you moisturize thoroughly and finger curl!!! So adorable!! 😍 Great job Mom!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@MunchMaila]

Lol I think it's normal for most Americans. But I don't think I've ever seen anyone do that on my home turf (South Africa)

[@leah__gail]

That’s how my mom did mine and my brothers 50 years ago!

[@anonymous-bb2dw]

in the kitchen sink no it's not, if my mom saw me using it to wash my hair she'd have slapped the soul out of me

[@lillilster1014]

@@anonymous-bb2dw it is normal though. You have to clean the sink, then wash hair. It helps to avoid getting product or water in your eyes, and you can go more in depth with the washing.

[@anonymous-bb2dw]

@@lillilster1014 maybe for Americans, for us here in brazil it's not, it's very much disgusting to do so, but no judgement

[@RayRay-yt5pe]

As a black person who spends 20 mins a day to make hair appear bare-minimally presentable, I can relate.

[@dlilwon]

Is it possible to go through the day without victimising yourself? 🙄 Nobody cares about your hair struggles SIS!

[@RayRay-yt5pe]

@@dlilwon Ma'am, did your brain process this stuff before posting it? I was only relating with the video. Wtf did you read into it?

[@tomorrowwatkins4021]

Yes!

[@yhmarynj_]

@@dlilwon she didn’t victimize herself you just want an excuse to minimize black peoples hair struggles and be racist

[@Hieveryoneloll23]

@@dlilwon racist ass

[@donamay1837]

You such a hands on passionate mother. You make motherhood look so effortless 🥰

[@NelsonsRock0401]

It’s nice to see this. My mom is white and my dad is black and people said horrible and discouraging stuff about how a white women couldn’t do my hair and always put her down never giving tips. You go momma.❤️

[@straight.no.chaser1708]

She wasnt owed tips dear. You are her responsibility so she had to go learn. Plenty of black hairdressers would have gladly taken her money in exchange for sharing their knowledge.

[@folikusgu2972]

​@@straight.no.chaser1708so what you're saying is criticism/hateful comments are FREE but helpful tips are costly 😂

[@rachaelhargreaves3619]

She's so freaking adorable it's ridiculous!!! 😭 Lol, all their hair is so beautiful, love how they all have their own little uniqueness 🥰

[@zyrianaarenee453]

Who is Miss Raquel?

[@mariadasneveszanardo9657]

sjuskagshshshehehhshshhd

[@aticramsnika3524]

Try using a denman brush to help maintain her curls you’ll love it!

[@teapoodle3977]

Can that be used for any texture of curly hair?

[@aticramsnika3524]

@@teapoodle3977 Yes, look up denman brush videos on youtube to see how it’s used by various people with different hair textures and curl patterns.

[@lifeofohh]

Or an EZ detangler brush.

[@sherrxoxoz]

@@aticramsnika3524 thank you!

[@user-ng8ih7iv3o]

​@@gowiththeflow3791 ππππ0

[@bigvi9585]

I love how you know how to take care of her curls and hair type even though you don’t have her hair type❤

[@brianqualls212]

I love her curls and Harper you are adorable

[@subhratripathy7561]

Lil Harper is so precious and so is her hair 😍❤️

[@aaliyahcawein3232]

I have the same hair type as Harper and I use a leave in conditioner from love your curls and it works wonders all you have to do is wet your hair section it and apply and you don’t even have to curl it

[@NigelWood117]

I'm a woman of Colour with the same hair type as Harper. Mom is going to have to try different products to find the best for her hair. I use my fingers in sections. I use a combination of products. I condition with a hair dryer or steamer. Mom rocks!! She got this and is doing well with the different hair textures.

[@kekenaniwilson6138]

​@@NigelWood117u can't condition a child's hair with a dryer or steamer it would b very overwhelming and just expecting them to sit for longer or leave it on in the case u hav one u leave on. as adults thyre uncomfortable

[@user-dm7wj6ho8d]

Her hair is gorgeous ❤

[@micheleglenn8253]

Love watching your family

[@brydecuir9746]

I would highly recommend letting a hair mask and some warm oil sit on her scalp , she might find it so relaxing and it’ll really help lock in that moisture so when you wash it you don’t risk removing it ❤ she’s such a cutie Harper has my heart

[@courtneyweyer3632]

What's the process to do this. My baby has the same texture hair but her hair gets tangled sooooo quick and is ways dry 😔 I've been learning how to so it on my own to save money.

[@bellaapple2166]

I kept trying to figure out if Harper's hair looked a bit dry or of that could be built up products. I think she could benefit from a good deep conditioning and maybe changing up some products.

[@Breezieone]

​@@bellaapple2166Her lighter hair color also reflects light differently. My son has the same color hair and hair color, and even when fully moisturized and conditioned, it tends to lack that shine that darker color hair has. That lighter color curly/kinky hair doesn't reflect the light the same way, and therefore tends to look "duller", for lack of a better word. It used to drive me nuts, until my hairstylist explained it to me.

[@tammie3194]

@@Breezieone There are products that define this type of hair really well! My little cousin has the same hair color and texture and I used enough Mielle moisture rx hair butter and her hair was so shiny. I just needed a light gel. You can also check out the Earth supplied products which I think are very good for that hair texture!

[@Breezieone]

@@tammie3194 Thanks for the tip! I'll check those products out!

[@litsfits3796]

So sweet. Very beautiful. Good job, momma!

[@tynishabattle4218]

😊Harps is make’s me laugh everytime I see her she’s the true definition of a Introvert just like myself❤🥰

[@user-ls9vp9yr1l]

I love how young people can be and still act so mature like Harper

[@TheShecholle1]

It’s such a process finding the right products for curly hair. Especially when you have different textures! Her hair looks AMAZE ❤

[@2k.kathyyy]

Amazing family,god bless your kids they are so adorable >>>>💗

[@RW-ti4nm]

Sink-normal! Different curls/textures-normal! Gel suggestion-Uncle Funky's Daughter Curly Magic!!! Process suggestion-you need more water! Water equals hydration. Her hair should be dropping wet while doing a wash-n-go. Use a water bottle with warm water to re-wet her hair as you finger curl.

[@aliciastembridge6008]

I approve this message!

[@westernskies2199]

Great comment! 😊

[@YdinCharm]

Harper's hair is so pretty❤❤

[@kayydee159]

My natural hair is very healthy and still 2 different textures and curl patterns . TGIN has great products! I find that cantu products are extremely drying and Miss Jessie’s can be drying as well. I’ve been natural for pretty much whole life! OH AND GET A DENMAN BRUSH!!!😁😁

[@kerriannanderson962]

I was just about to suggest something similar. I would say in addition to the products you suggested, adding shea butter to add softness and hydration. Harper may benefit for using other products for Afro-Textured hair.

[@grey6703]

i’ll look into these because ive also found cantu to be really drying

[@deborahcoleman6051]

You meet the challenges in life with elegance and harmony. A calm sea never made an expert sailor.

[@LuvxBrooke1234]

Harpers hair looks so beautiful 😊 She has beautiful and natural hair !!!!

[@Yourdad.com456]

That is a lot of work… much respect ❤

[@MISSMADISONMEDIA]

Hey Mrs. Fluellen! My hair is similar to Harper’s and it took me until my adulthood to find a product that I really like for my curls. But I started using Shea Moisture Defining Styling Gel and I love it! It defines my curls without making them crunchy ❤

[@esseaem1451]

You might try “my black is beautiful” curl pudding or curl cream I can’t remember. It’s absolutely an amazing product for those tighter coils! It’s also relatively inexpensive just like Shae Moisture!

[@kessiahsantana6521]

Also a super thick condition and coconut or argon oil mixed I think it’s not the product but maybe you have to use more and keep wetting it even if it white and soaked it’ll dry up beautiful and helps the hair grow

[@Itz_cas]

She's a blessed child❤

[@tamipierce7733]

It Looks Great and She is so dam cute!

[@theecheverriasisters4692]

Your kids are the definition of perfect and are all unique in there own way 🎉❤❤❤

[@GenericWhiteBitch1980]

She’s just a little bundle of cuteness. In UK we would describe her as cheeky cos she’s a little on the feisty side but in a cute and adorable way ha.

[@quralynmilroe]

She looks just like you 🤗🤗☺️❤❤

[@evelynh1271]

she is so cute I can't!!

[@romibelay1245]

You are doing a pretty good job 👏🏻

[@DrSwyts]

You're doing great! Her hair looks amazing. Have you tried Miss Jessie's Coily Custard? I highly recommend it

[@lavendelelv]

She is SO beautiful.

[@wurlycurlygirly]

I have to say, I have a very similar hair type to Harper and it is INCREDIBLY difficult to deal with. As a kid, it was chopped off, relaxed, chopped off again by ignorant stylists, Jerry curled, fried and even fell off, then shaved bald lol. I wish I were exaggerating. I am still struggling with it to this day. But, I did my big chop, now my hair is bra length when straightened and I’m finally relearning the texture of my hair. I literally have not seen it since I was 6 years old. I am trying everything, and when I say everything, I mean it all. I am getting there ❤ I never comment, but I adore the time and effort you put in that ultimately just demonstrates to Harper how truly beautiful her hair is and that she’s cared for. You have a beautiful family, and you are a beautiful young mama ❤

[@shannacushnie5460]

Try the doux works on every hair type

[@susanslack6347]

Beautiful job mom

[@rubytamayo855]

Beautiful hair 🙏🙌🙌🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟💯

[@joannaloha]

Beautiful!!

[@Arizona_lilly]

Ur boy is walking now Omg what a cutie he’s going be so handsome when he gets older Omg he’s already so handsome now

[@tanishaspence7533]

Harper is a heart ♥️ stealer, but every time I see Emitt smile I just melt. And I normally don’t respond Like that but his smile 😊 is so contagious.

[@drdebocherry]

Beautiful children, wild hair!

[@e.b.6766]

Beautiful family!!! Great job on that young lady’s hair, mom!!!

[@butternutswag]

She has low porosity hair. You’re going to have to clarify her hair twice a month because low porosity hair gets buildup from all the product Also, heat is low porosity best friend. Use only warm water when washing, conditioning and styling. Get a hooded dryer, use a deep treatment mask every wash day, put her under the dryer for 20 minutes. Then when you style her hair, it has to be soaking wet. Like literally put the products in the sink. Then place her under the dryer again until her hair is 80% dry. I have low porosity hair and it a pain in the butt. But it’s worth it when you do it right. I hope this message finds you and helps you.

[@StuckinNormal]

Oh wow! I went to make a comment to you, and your name, is my motorcycles name! She’s yellow, of course! Anyway, I was curious about what you were writing about about hair porosity. We always joke that I have super Sham-wow hair because once it’s wet, it is not letting go of it! Lol if I go to bed at night with my hair wet, it will still be wet in the morning. And I have very short very straight very fine Blondish red hair lol so I did some looking and learned a lot about which products to use for my kind of hair- so thank you very much!!!!❣️

[@butternutswag]

@@StuckinNormal yes. Mine stays wet for 2 days min if I happen to put it up in a bun. Then when I want it wet, takes a whole bucket 🤭

[@wiinidiaz]

Wow, that's a lot for a 3 year old, but keep note for when she's older..

[@shaesun3720]

I have low porosity hair and I hate warm water on my hair. I do lukewarm max and final rinse with cold water. I guess different strokes for different folks

[@butternutswag]

@@shaesun3720 that can be too. Heat expands and cold contracts. For people that have frizzier curls or curls that don’t stay defined after a day, the moisture may not be getting into the hair. So warm water is needed. I find it’s best to use cold water when I plan to straighten my hair. I get a straighter blowout.

[@karrie7993]

I think it’s lovely that you put so much effort into your children’s hair. My mom loved doing my hair when I was little, and she had to adapt not because I had curly hair, my hair is mostly straight, but because my hair burns and tangles so easily because it’s so fine. But this is different, your children have hair with an entirely different texture and curl pattern than you, and you’re learning to care for their hair and teach them to care for it. Very wholesome.

[@shannellwhy6639]

Harper is the best! I love her curly hair texture.

[@km3225]

It looks like we have a similar curl pattern. You could try the curlessence line from keracare

[@stargypsysoul604]

We had to use the sink for my youngest. We told her it was a spa day and reminder her that’s how the stylist did it at the salon. She’s definitely my “broke the mold” child 😂

[@prissyjones8892]

your kids are beautiful

[@queen_j1422]

Growing up, the sink was easy for our mom to wash our hair. Our great Aunt had a beauty salon (bless her soul), so as we got older we went to the salon.

[@kathrynseymour2445]

You have such beautiful children. Mine are biracial as well. Their hair, until you learn how to work with it, can be difficult. You're doing a wonderful job!

[@Adarnae]

Ms Jessie is a product that’s good, Mielle, strictly curls, and aunt Jackie’s. Also Dudley’s pca (old school)

[@flogarr1]

Can't miss with Dudley products. Old school is sometimes best.

[@reginaldweeks3738]

What a WONDERFUL FAMILY!!!

[@lamusic6594]

Those kids are just BEAUTIFUL ❤

[@cwhitley5007]

It's normal for people of color to have more than 1 hair texture. I literally have 3 different textures. Her hair looks dry I would try more protective styles than not. I commend you for trying to figure out her hair instead of cutting it off.

[@meganclayton4562]

Matrix’s has a line called “A Curl Can Dream”. They have a mask, shampoo, conditioner, co-wash, curl cream, and gel (maybe more than that but I can’t remember right now). It’s made with Manuka honey and it is AMAZING! It’s what I use on my girls (who are mixed). They have several curl patterns and textures throughout their hair but these products do the best with the combos! (I’m a licensed cosmetologist so I buy straight from the supply house but I believe Ulta or somewhere like that should carry it also!)

[@dawnvega383]

You have beautiful family!

[@psterling90]

I’m mixed too and I love Curl Smith curl defining soufflé!

[@Danreael]

I have her hair texture. Mielle organics and shea moisture products work well on my hair type. Also applying leavin in and sealing with a oil works good for me.

[@Xxsimply_lilyxX]

Her hair is absolutely beautiful, and you make it look so good with the way you style it ❤😊

[@Godsmylove]

beautiful job mom!! have you tried the praying hand and raking method? it's sooo much faster with similar results.

[@emmejuliet3921]

They are so lucky they have a mom like that and dad

[@LoveLyriks]

I'm so glad that you take the time to love and care for your children's hair the way they need it

[@they_luvvshumika]

I know what you can use for her hair because my hair was like this before you should use cantu hair products you can get them of Amazon i hope this helps

[@chemorn2020]

Gorgeous! So jealous of all those natural curls and volume. ❤

[@Onlykenzie999]

Harper is so adorable her hair is gorgeous

[@sarinaofthesea3572]

I love Cantu products, they work great for my hair (which is similar to Harper's). Their co-wash followed by a curl cream might work wonders for Harper :)

[@t.n.tolbert4456]

My son’s hair is similar to Harper’s and I use the Cantu Care For Kids product line on his hair and he gets so many compliments on his curls. I love it!

[@kessiahsantana6521]

Great mom I’ll tell you I have curly hair but my daughters is thicker and curlier than mine I’ve done this style takes patience and love takes me 3 hours and I don’t mind everytime

[@user-ph1tf4xn2w]

I love how you’re sooooo caring and loving to your kids hair.

[@touyatodoroki502]

Your children are gorgeous. And they have such fun personalities! I can only wish to have children as adorable and rambunctious as yours.🩷

[@Soulfully_z]

Girl our hair can be multiple different textures at once you’re doing great

[@roseofsharon8427]

The Mixed Chick's line works well for her hair texture. 💞

[@ibanezee007]

You did great!! 🧡💛🤍

[@AdrienneBing]

Your doing great with her hair! I have noticed how healthy it is!! ❤❤❤

[@katherinebraxton5068]

Washing her hair in the sink is okay. I do the same thing. It's okay to use the different moisturizers on her hair. If it works for ya'll that's all that matters. Period. 🥰💯❤🖤💯

[@itsmayapaige]

the thumbs up at the end just had my heart melting

[@sheilahsnipes1498]

Harper is my favorite of the three. All of them have their grandmother's round "moon" face. I like seeing their grandmother in the videos.

[@carolenoman2226]

She’s so cute

[@teresathomas8364]

Hello, Harper is sooooooo adorable!! I never comment on videos but I wanted to suggest WEN for Harper's hair. WEN is used for all hair types and has plenty of moisture for her hair. I've used it for years. Hope you find what's right for her hair.

[@denisedean2446]

Not weird you do her hair in kitchen sink. Its where my cousins and I had our hair done on Saturday nights by mom or Nana and we had best chats!🥰

[@lorrainyhippohernandez4796]

This baby’s sweet dreamy nature comes through so precious!💗 She reminds me of the precious moments babies my niece kind of had the same expression in her eyes!!! ❤

[@zlumi428]

She's just precious 😊🤗

[@Harperrr12346]

OMG my name is Harper too !!!!! I feel like if me and Harper ever met we would be bffs ❤ I was named after the song Harper valley pta what about her ?

[@hoodiehappiness6668]

I use the sink too. BTW, you should really get silicon mix because it works so well with curls and makes it look so silky! It smells good too.

[@alexandrevarelatavares978]

I really like his hair he is so beautiful 🤩🥰☺️😘

[@ks77157]

All your children are beautiful ❤️

[@Tboogiewitdabun]

I’m 35 but my mom never knew how to do my hair, so she cut it off… by 9 i was perming my own air…. But it all worked out because now I do hair 💪🏽…. But my question to you is, can I get a wash for the one time by a momma who understands “our” type hair 😂😂😂

[@Adarnae]

No perm tho

[@misha5347]

Awww 🤗🤗❤