I knew it before you said the exact words "baby fever." I guess it is normal to feel the yearning of wanting a child and kudos to you for thinking about it in a cerebral manner; however, do not make an emotional (and arguably selfish) decision, because a child has a better shot of making it in life when he/she has both parents involved according to most metrics. Single parenthood is not an easy thing to do and kids are not cheap. Think long and hard before ever considering such a decision.
@ebubeokoyeblogs7 ай бұрын
Okayy. Thanks for the points. obviously I just need more time to decide. Single parenting vs Co parenting debate it's high time 💭
@jjokur7 ай бұрын
@@ebubeokoyeblogsPermit me to decide on your behalf - DON’T DO IT! I think your time would be better spent finding and cultivating a good relationship that hopefully leads to marriage, before having a baby by yourself. Your youth and attractiveness will make it easier to find a suitor, not harder. I guess I’m so against single motherhood because I see all the ills in society brought about by single parent homes, specifically in black families here in America.
@creativeyoutubertamil7 ай бұрын
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@charlessutyagin14365 ай бұрын
Interesting topic, interesting view..❤️
@ebubeokoyeblogs5 ай бұрын
Thank you💗
@cetomedem69612 ай бұрын
Hi Okoye , I would want to recycle that your thoughts and be positive and bold about it. Don't forget our thoughts is who we are. If you have been hurt before put it aside and move on. Please chat me up . God bless you ❤
@ebubeokoyeblogs2 ай бұрын
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@charlessutyagin14365 ай бұрын
i think I have made up my mind about having a kid, it's not my priority, I want it so much, i love the idea of family and all ..but what I want more is having a marriage with a woman I'm madly in love with...a woman that with her, i don't notice the rest of the world ... Ps: this is an excerpt from my diary, I guess it summarizes which is important to me 😊
@ebubeokoyeblogs5 ай бұрын
Do you think your desire is easier to achieve because you're male, and less within control if a female? But either ways, God makes everything happen. Today I may not believe that gender has much role to play
@Kezeth207 ай бұрын
What i got is ' I AM SCARED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE I AM HURT.' The solution is to get therapy. Someone thinking that they just want the sperm and not the man is clearly dealing with trauma and bringing a child into such a home is selfish(the child might even resent you in future). Religion aside, the balance a good man brings to the home cannot be replaced even by a good mother. I speak from experience, 2 good parents but not having one in the picture would be catastrophic to my mental growth
@ebubeokoyeblogs7 ай бұрын
I wish you watched with an open mind,, would have paid closer attention to each line to actually understand what my perspective was. but either ways, I'M NOT HURT hun😘 if I were, I'd say, but I know you're coming from a good place
@blessingugwu39577 ай бұрын
I'm having the same thoughts too and my mom agrees with me but the society is waiting for my big day😂
@ebubeokoyeblogs7 ай бұрын
Oh my😂 The society mehnn, everyone around you, and their stereotyping, will literally not understand
@Tamilan-x3l7 ай бұрын
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@creativeyoutubertamil7 ай бұрын
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@chukwumaokafor24072 ай бұрын
Well, It's a good thing to have a Child (ren), but it should happens naturally. Yes naturally.
@ebubeokoyeblogs2 ай бұрын
Naturally how pls?
@RedditaufDeutsch7 ай бұрын
Choosing which path to pursue should be your decision to make, not your mum's.
@ebubeokoyeblogs7 ай бұрын
Yeah the choice is mine but I still wanted her opinion on what I'm thinking
@andyesoweis96987 ай бұрын
Ebube please Marry, because marriage is a beautiful thing. Than just having children. You can never see the right man.
@ebubeokoyeblogs7 ай бұрын
Uhmmn... but I'm not ruling out marriage completely tho