He FELT one thing and DID another.

This masculine DOES feel shame for how he treated you. He's giving another impression. Spirit wants you to know.
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[@deffox6326]

He is a liar. He outright lied about the situation and what I realized from the entire situation was his emotional immaturity and lack of character. More importantly, his disrespect and narcissist traits. I am glad I realized that he had no remorse for how he treated me or that it hurt me. He destroyed everything he could have had with me and he will and is definitely reaping the karma

[@rowanstarling3816]

Same, except the narc part. I' a better version of myself for it, because I choose to be and choose to heal. Moving on and moving up.

[@annb7913]

If he actually thinks that his intentions were good, that would be the funniest thing ever. Because his actions gave immense grief to me and my son. He should have had some empathy for my child atleast. Jess, you are God sent really. How I appreciate having found your channel this year when I needed it the most. Love❤.

[@jesspucketttarot]

Awww, thank you so much! 💗

[@helpinghandsolutions8665]

I just briefly introduced my son to my person. I’m already second-guessing this person and started to blame him for allowing me to introduce him to my son. I had to check myself real quick, it’s my responsibility to keep my son safe and not impose any of my relationship on him especially intimate relationships.

[@theworldaccordingtoheather7071]

In the words of Meg Ryan, "You should feel guilty. Swim in it. Until your fingers get all pruney"

[@blueponypicsFlickaSocks]

Many thanks. Excellent analysis. Tough but True.👋💖🐎🐎🐎🇭🇲🇭🇲🇺🇸🇺🇸🇮🇱🇮🇱

[@tarawarren8573]

Love is a verb- a verb is action, and I have been told it is all love.. does not mean there wasn’t disappointment.. it was time to let go, and move on.

[@coreenacorbett9576]

This is what happens when in a boys life no one holds him accountable for his behaviour, no woman wants to have mind games played or lied to about other dates he’s going on, if I truly meant as much as I did to him then I would have felt it, at this point this is just a cop out and excuses tbh, do better to be better and stop the whining it’s not attractive to anyone, I have scars but I didn’t victimise him with them nor did I embarrass him.

[@bennyton2560]

I have immense respect for people who own up to their own ish and not let it control them

[@OnyxStarr44]

​​@@bennyton2560and this is the thing. Even tho he was so embroiled in his consequential responsibilities that were brutal and careless to him that he had to find an outlet and a way to not let that reality be what defined him. Even though it was beaten into him as a very young boy and his ability to regulate got fractured and therefore his emotional body over compartmentalized and this he created a transformative space. And yes because that space was so venerable yet offered such potential for immense relief and release, it kinda had to go a dark. Can't do shadow work if you can't see your shadow because your in denial about the dark and find false light to over compensate for the night. And yes he was childish, irresponsible, and was driven to play the role with a distorted AF ego. But in the end the fact that he remained by finally taking his sovereignty back to get free from all that dark crap, and then figured out a way against all odds to strengthen his core self and move differently but with his original essence in a more subtly powerful way, being his true indigo self, in addition to showing me that he is infact sorry for the whole situation and wishes he could change it. But he is also not being delusional in this. He knows iiwii. He's getting the reasons for our connection and he does present solves and results in this truth. He is opening up to show me his fears and faults, and mine too. In our intimate resolution of the past we learn so much and find so much of our original selves, it's the opposite of trauma bonding. We do this so that we can both independently and as true friends that want to possibly build a sovereign union and a new house without walls of bricks or ceilings holding up rotten flowers in the attic, or framed porches that hide the deregulating and unfortunate events that happen(ed) beyond the houses actual threshold. Nope, none of that mess. Rather a true blue union forging a house, a stronghold of sovereignty, unity, and divinity. I mean we all toute healing but what when someone that did awful things wants to make it right and actually takes the steps, like only 5% of the woke actually do the work as I'm finding out, so when someone that we all say needs to do the work actually does it's in our first instinct to block them from that. Well, I'm not like that. I believe people always deserve what they put out and as long as they put out real and true good works I will treat them as if they are real, true, and good. Periodt. I'm no fool, so if it is a mask the minute that it slips I will know and I will make arrangements to then move as such. But I'm with you on this.

[@jessicawicker3582]

He knew, and still went through with his actions after the fact ... And no victim....

[@HalfMooN458]

Yes self preservation and holding back- when I know in my core -the love he holds for me so close to the vest.

[@Gigi_sHouse11]

Jess!! 🥹 You are my guardian angel right now, channeling these messages for me in this difficult time I’m in. Thank you so much. You have given me some much needed comfort and support. You are so gifted. Lots of love and hugs to you!! 💗💓💖💞

[@jesspucketttarot]

🙏 Thank you so much for the love 💕 I’m so glad these messages are helpful for you!!

[@leilaflood7078]

When you said impotence.. He actually has erectile dysfunction & I often thought that it was connected to something deeper. He's cowardly! I always reiterated that he's not a bad person, I offered the softest landing for vulnerability... still no bite.

[@julieh6514]

Amazing this is exactly my situation with this person! Thank you for making it so clear. He’s still not owning up and playing victim😮

[@findingfern]

He started a fight with me while my family was visiting. Came at my mother and turned it into a physical altercation with my step dad and then called the cops on us. Leaving me to pack up and leave my home with the animals. And then claiming he was attacked. I’m still in shock.

[@larrykelly-kf5pp]

The consequences to me have been terrible . “ I didn’t think about that it would mean for her” ( impression through the ether). But now he needs to fix it

[@leschatsmusicale]

Thank you ❤❤❤❤ this is EXACTLY the message I needed and have been trying to understand from my guides. I can guess that he feels unfairly accused and defensive over his own intentions. I am also questioning my own intentions and actions, if I truly had unconditional love for the person I thought he was, then why does it even matter if he really was that person or not? It was all very conditional on him being a certain type of person and having a very specific set of problems. The whole structure of my own actions and intentions was built on that, and it came down instantly the moment my perspective changed on who he is. He built a tower in me and then tore it down.

[@KirAWareme]

Just sent this to him wow nail on the head its exactly what Im sensing and experiencing with this masculine atm

[@A7LTEGugle]

Wow, you sent this to him!!! I've actually thought of doing the same, with several readings!! But truth is, I don't even know the guy well enough to. He just flew in, did his damage, &, flew off leaving me in pieces. All attempts on my part to get clarity were used against me. Anyway, good for you!

[@jessicawicker3582]

It's GAME OVER

[@lindadiclemente2583]

You are sooo gifted! Your tarot reading is 💯

[@lindadiclemente2583]

My life!!

[@melissa-hw7jr]

Right, but he has been so deceptive, confusing and quiet that I don't even know what his intentions were at this point. This was the game plan of the 3rd party..ta daaarrr. There was nothing confusing here, but THEY chose to make it so. No action, no apology,- no healing...when we are actual counterparts, soul mates and true friends...this DEVIL just literally HIJACKED OUR JOURNEY. She will pay for it for the rest of her life.

[@BnoBduno]

Hijacked and demolished,tedaaarr plans,games play and misfortune is priceless,don't rack up a tab not willing to pay for

[@ellenkelley5353]

Yeah, I'm gonna go with the liar theory. It's very very difficult for me to feel sorry for him so I'm not going to bother to try

[@melissa-hw7jr]

You are on point. Take preventative action to purify the space, that's what I was hoping for. No expectations really but keeping a bad vibe alive through non action is just bad.

[@lucylingohr4568]

Again… hit the nail on the head!

[@templeofdivineunion]

He’s always had such a hard time and taking accountability and apologizing. His apologies are always like “I’m sorry you feel that I hurt you”. I’ve been learning narcissists do this because it’s hard for their ego to admit their wrongs or make themself seem wrong. My TF is not a narc but I notice this pattern happening a lot and it builds a lot of resentment. Am I just supposed to accept this on the twin flame path? I feel his guilt and his remorse but it seems nothing ever gets resolved in a healthy way through real apology accountability and acknowledging one’s emotions as it should in a healthy relationship.

[@bloomingintoyou]

This is the best question and I have struggled with it for almost 12 years on this journey. Am I just supposed to accept that my TF is immature, narcissistic, never makes me feel significant, makes exuses, or apologizes with sincerity for anything, etc? He did something a couple months ago that completely shattered everything (finally!) and I have no choice but to have boundaries and move on now. His apology was flimsy but he took no real accountability and said he thought he had told me this thing (he never had and it was a BIG secret for seven years!!). He was lying more and ended up feeling so abandoned by me that he made the hole even bigger by adding more awfulness to it to punish me for calling him out on his lie. I can't anymore. TF rules (or whatever they are) aside, I am human and cannot be mistreated and disrespected one day longer. I left a 22 year marriage for FAR less than this guy has done to me.

[@sharon_rose724]

This was like a personal reading. My ex was a long time friend since our teens, and he turned out to be a pathological liar and user. It was always him just getting what he wanted no matter how it affected the other person. He burned a lot of people, mostly women. His lies and inconsideration brought an unplanned and unwanted child into this world. He was exposed as a cheater and liar in the process as he was involved with a few women when that happened. The last time we were in contact he sent me a bunch of songs about how ashamed and sorry he was, that I was the love of his life. His actions never spoke that. One of the last things I said to him is he's cold and callous. He cut me off quickly and unfairly, and it hurt, but I'm grateful he did. He's very immature from childhood trauma, he went through a lot that stunted him... He's always the victim in his nind but he changes the narrative to support that. He can't take accountability. He threw a few child like tantrums in his 40s. When you said "his intentions were dick-all", that's actually a sentence he would say.. he's got a particular vocabulary and way of speaking.

[@TealRoseSara]

Good lord you hit the nail on the head for my situation with him. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@jessicawicker3582]

He's clawing for anything he can grab....his time is short

[@miastorm6883]

Jess, your channel *found me* in the days leading up to my relationship with this masculine breaking down entirely. Your messages in particular have guided me through the breakup and in this one, the aftermath. I know readings can be verbally vague to apply to many people at once but you definitely described, down to the Buddhist walk of life, my entire situation. The masculine path, Mars, divine guidance AND intervention, actions vs intentions, the victim mentality, and most especially, the message from Spirit that he does, actually, feel...whatever feelings he should...from this. The anger and the venom he spit on his way out was beyond evil. And yes, I knew it was wounding and karmic patterns, but the result was still the same. And I have wondered for months why I was guided there to begin with. Because I was. Spirit walked me straight to him. And then when it was all over, even on 3 hours of sleep, I woke feeling refreshed and happy almost. It's the only breakup in my life where I felt this way. So thank you for being a channel for Spirit for me here. I needed to hear this. Goes along with Careless Whisper continuing to play "randomly" in my head.

[@jesspucketttarot]

🩷💗🩷

[@jessicawicker3582]

I owe him not one damn thing anymore.... I never really owed him anything ALL THESE YEARS 😞 Let him go, away from me, and eat all the cake he wants, because he will never change.....or be satisfied

[@1176Savithri]

Yes, he has repented many of his actions...guess he needs to be pardoned as he did it not in a good state of mind...

[@afraglynn]

Wow, Jess, i told me few days ago exactly these words in relation to our actions in general " render us impotent " 😮😊

[@BK22-2Fish]

Thank you so much. 🙏

[@jesspucketttarot]

You’re welcome 😊

[@jessicawicker3582]

He Is A Monster

[@jcamp2177]

He has.no shame. You have to have feelings to be ashamed, and he has none.

[@A7LTEGugle]

Wow. You completelynailed "it"/him/ the situation. Amazing. He's a Libra too. Childish, immature, dangerously hurtful with No seeming cognizance of that. 😢 His words did Not line up with his actions & then he just ran. Hope he's waking up. I can't help but wonder if, some of te other commenters on here, had a run in with him!! He was definitely playing the field...making a mess out of it too. Im probably not the only "flower" who got uprooted & destroyed by his recklessness. 😔 I believe its why precious cat-daughter suddenly got ill & died too. She was in great health prior to this very dark season he brought in 😢

[@eloveationnation3486]

Soooo accurate ! It’s like you’re peeking into my life.

[@KardiOkoko-ls6dm]

this is so insane. some of this is word for word what he or i have talked about in conversation

[@melissajackson1814]

Oh, that definitely resonated. Thanks, Jess xoxo 😘

[@ellenquinlin1824]

Really resonated. Thank you, Jess! Doesn’t make it hurt less but, definitely resonates.

[@kellyd7959]

Ty 🧡

[@leeleeg4169]

Thank you for the messages. This was helpful and confirming of my understanding. I appreciate you sharing your knowledge and insight. 🙏🏻💕🌞🕊

[@teresabrennan426]

Great explanation! Thank you!

[@angelinadivina24]

Resonates! Thanks Jess ❤❤❤

[@theresashetler]

The point about Mars and purifying the energy through exercise was so enlightening!! He has Mars conjunct his Sun in the 10th house. He completely denied his "Mars" behaviour and made me feel like a crazy lunatic. Yes it's a karmic 8th house relationship. Thanks for the validation❤

[@tashamendoliaakablondediab6920]

I would love for the father of children to acknowledge the pain that's caused to all your loved ones when you're a drug addict. I struggled with addiction for 20 years and got my shit together finally so it irritates me that he doesn't do the same thing.... All that being said, I realize how hypocritical (and a touch ego centric) it is of me to want tolerance and compassion for my short comings but not to show others tolerance and compassion for their short comings.... So I still got some shit to work on...Progress, not perfection

[@kaytarbuck1308]

Yes you naiked it..this is my story ❤

[@rowanstarling3816]

Yep, both. In the end, it's all good. I can choose to wallow in pain and keep myself stuck or I can work hard on myself and level up. I chose the latter. He lied and chose another over the woman he said was the love of his life. He is empty, used me to fill that void and when we separated temporarily, he met someone else who could fill that void. I choose to heal and move on.

[@roxihernandez2753]

Ur on point thx u

[@jessicawicker3582]

I never knew, I would have to see all this.... I wished I would have known 20 something years ago, when he set all this up in motion because he seen the future.... And has definitely been trying to avoid judgement.... Not just against me, but all he has been doing to destroy God's Agenda

[@Clancy1123]

Like I swear your in my head 😂 my whole thing is how was/ is his actions so nasty when his love was so undeniable!! Like even before I knew anything I knew i couldn’t intentionally hurt him, like I see and understand why I had to experience it for my journey and my wake up, I just can’t understand how or why he could do everything he did 😩 if makes any sense 😅

[@ImaTruther1]

NOBODY IS TO BLAME EXCEPT FOR THE DM HIMSELF, if ur that stupid , then u shouldnt be in any relationship with anyone! Cheating is NOT a mistake, its an intention and an action, nothing will save him from this mess HE created all by himself, cause he couldnt keep it in his pants, thats just who he is & he does it to everyone he meets & hooks up with.

[@jessicawicker3582]

Yes, He meant to 😢 He knew very well, and even said it ...I wanted to break your heart😢 Well, he did and the karma is settled... I owe him nothing....

[@motherofsamson]

Wow❤

[@ShondaB-2023]

YES YES YES 💜💙💚

[@untamedheart6820]

For us, a marriage is shattered because of his inability to understand that in every action there is a reaction….he’s 54 y/o! He carried an affair and didn’t consider my feelings, he said he didn’t mean to hurt me. Smh

[@JoJo-butterfly1]

I forgive you. Bye now and forever!👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

[@jcamp2177]

He hasn't changed at all. Worse if anything. He's putting on an act of contrition for God to see. I can dig him out a mile off. I spent 28 years being mentally abused so I k ow him inside out. He doesn't love me, he wants my abundance and blessings to replace what the karmic stole. I just wish God would see through the facade.

[@KVG822]

Why is this resonating? He is in emotional turmoil but wont say

[@amydeschampe8077]

👏

[@missytaylor4123]

He left me Monday an hour and a half later he’s back on POF and meets up with someone for a drink on Sunday comes around to my place after and wants to come back and can’t see anything wrong with that hmmm nah on ya bike mate not doing this again. This is number 4 leaves when he gets the shits goes back to a dating site really shows me how much his I love you mean.

[@butters0u1]

🙏🏾🙌🏾🤲🏾🫶🏾

[@MellowattsUNLTD]

🙏🏽✨💖✨🙏🏽

[@jcamp2177]

Hes.just acting. I know him inside out

[@crabbylion7971]

Funny bc he has tinnitus 😅